Adult Attachment, Parent Emotion, and Observed Parenting Behavior: Mediator and Moderator Models
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Child Development, January/February 2004, Volume 75, Number 1, Pages 110 – 122 Adult Attachment, Parent Emotion, and Observed Parenting Behavior: Mediator and Moderator Models Emma K. Adam, Megan R. Gunnar, and Akiko Tanaka In a middle-class sample of mothers of 2-year-olds, adult attachment classifications measured in the Adult Attachment Interview (AAI) were related to maternal self-reported emotional well-being and observed parenting behavior, and the potential mediating and moderating roles of maternal emotion were tested. Mothers classified as dismissing on the AAI reported significantly lower levels of positive affectivity. Mothers classified as preoccupied reported significantly higher levels of negative affectivity and anxiety. Preoccupied mothers were observed to be significantly higher on angry/intrusive parenting, but this association was not mediated by attachment-related differences in maternal emotion. Maternal emotional well-being did, however, moderate the associations between adult attachment and parenting behavior: Dismissing attachment was significantly associated with lower warmth/responsiveness only among mothers with higher levels of depressive symptoms. Emotion plays a central role in attachment theory Carlson, 1995), between adult attachment and parent and research. In infants, separation from or loss of a emotional well-being (Pianta, Egeland, & Adam, caregiver are typically associated with feelings of 1996), and between parent emotion and parenting anxiety, sadness, and anger, and the presence of the behavior (Dix, 1991; Lovejoy et al., 2000), yet little caregiver is associated with feelings of security and attention has been paid to the interrelations among joy (Bowlby, 1979). Throughout childhood, adoles- these three sets of variables. In this study, we cence, and even into adulthood, attachment relation- examined whether associations between adult at- ships remain important in the elicitation and tachment and parenting are accounted for or regulation of emotional states (Adam & Gunnar, mediated by attachment-related differences in par- 2001; Kobak, 1999). Emotion also plays an important ent emotional well-being. We also examined whether role in theory and research on parenting. Within- the strength or direction of associations between person changes in parent emotional state motivate adult attachment and parenting behavior are altered changes in parenting behavior (Dix, 1991), and or moderated by differences in parent emotional individual differences in parent emotional well- well-being. being relate to differences in parenting (Field, 1995; Lovejoy, Graczyk, O’Hare, & Neuman, 2000; Teti, Internal Working Models Gelfand, Messinger, & Isabella, 1995). Prior research has shown associations between An internal working model of attachment is an adult attachment and parenting behavior (Cohn, internalized set of expectations about self and others Cowan, Cowan, & Pearson, 1992; Crowell & Feld- thought to derive from one’s history of relationships, man, 1988; Das Eiden, Teti, & Corns, 1995; Ward & and to influence one’s perceptions of, and behavior in, later relationships (Bretherton, 1985; Main, Kaplan, & Cassidy, 1985). Attachment representa- tions in adults are assessed by examining the Emma K. Adam, School of Education and Social Policy, coherency of speech and thought processes about Northwestern University; Megan R. Gunnar, Institute of Child early relationship issues in the Adult Attachment Development, University of Minnesota; Akiko Tanaka, Wilder Research Center, Saint Paul, MN. Interview (AAI; George, Kaplan, & Main, 1985). This research was supported by doctoral and postdoctoral Adults are classified either secure/autonomous (F), research fellowships to the first author from the Social Sciences insecure/dismissing (Ds), or insecure/preoccupied and Humanities Research Council of Canada and the Alfred P. (E). They may also be classified unresolved/dis- Sloan Center on Parents, Children and Work at the University of organized (U) with respect to trauma or loss (Main & Chicago. The authors wish to thank Jan Alwin for her help with the observational coding of the parent – child interactions. Goldwyn, 1994). Secure (F) individuals are recog- Correspondence concerning this article should be sent to Emma nized by their characteristic openness in thought and K. Adam, School of Education and Social Policy, Northwestern University, 2120 Campus Drive, Evanston, IL, 60208. Electronic r 2004 by the Society for Research in Child Development, Inc. mail may be sent to [email protected]. All rights reserved. 0009-3920/2004/7501-0007 Adult Attachment, Emotion, and Parenting 111 speech about early relationships. They clearly value Crowell and Feldman (1988) found that secure relationships and have a balanced viewpoint about mothers showed more warmth and supportiveness, them, including a recognition of their own contribu- and gave more helpful assistance to their children in tions to relationships. Dismissing (Ds) individuals a problem-solving task. Dismissing mothers were are recognized by a lack of memory for childhood less helpful and supportive and had a cool, control- and restricted thinking surrounding issues of attach- ling, task-focused style. Preoccupied mothers were ment. They tend to paint idealistic pictures of their not consistently helpful or supportive, presented parents and childhoods or may dismiss the impor- confusing instructions, and displayed inconsistent tance of attachment entirely, claiming strength, affect, at times warm, at times puzzled or angry. Das normality, and independence. Preoccupied (E) in- Eiden et al. (1995) found that preoccupied mothers dividuals seem confused, unobjective, or preoccu- displayed less sensitivity than secure mothers but pied with past relationships. They may appear found no differences between secure and dismissing passive and vague, fearful and overwhelmed, or mothers. angry and overly analytical, and they often seem Cohn et al. (1992) found secure mothers and unable to see things from another point of view. fathers to be more warm and engaged and to Unresolved (U) individuals show one of the three provide more structure than insecure parents. They primary attachment models, as well as disorganiza- also found (Pearson, Cohn, Cowan, & Cowan, 1994) tion in speech and thought when discussing trau- that secure parents showed more warmth than matic issues such as loss or abuse (Main & Goldwyn, insecure parents regardless of whether they were 1994; Hesse, 1999). earned secure (reported difficult early relationships Adult attachment classifications, even when and were judged secure) or continuous secure assessed before the birth of the infant, predict the (reported positive early relationships and were quality of the infant’s attachment toward the parent judged secure). Ward and Carlson (1995) found at 1 year of age (see van IJzendoorn, 1995, for a secure parents to be more sensitive in their parenting review). This is important because infant attachment than the three insecure groups combined. predicts later developmental outcomes, with secure Adult Attachment and Parent Emotion infants showing more optimal functioning in a variety of domains (Thompson, 1999). Secure (F) Several studies have related adult attachment adults tend to have secure (B) infants, dismissing classifications to parent emotional experience. Most (Ds) adults tend to have avoidant (A) infants, of these have been conducted in clinical or high-risk preoccupied adults tend to have resistant (C) infants, samples, focusing on psychopathology, but several and unresolved (U) adults tend to have disorganized suggest that more subtle associations between adult (D) infants (van IJzendoorn, 1995). Parental behavior, attachment and affective functioning may also be especially sensitive responsiveness, is thought to be present in higher functioning samples. a primary mechanism by which adult and infant In clinical samples, preoccupation has been attachments are related (van den Boom, 1994; van associated with higher levels of self-reported symp- IJzendoorn, 1995). toms in adult patients with serious psychiatric disorders (Dozier, Stevenson, Lee, & Velligan, 1991), and with greater depressive symptoms in Adult Attachment and Parenting psychiatrically distressed adolescents (Cole-Detke & Given its theoretical importance for attachment Kobak, 1996; Rosenstein & Horowitz, 1996). Both theory, it is surprising that there are few studies of preoccupied and unresolved adults were highly the associations between adult attachment and overrepresented among patients with anxiety dis- parenting behavior. It is important not only to orders (Manassis, Bradley, Goldberg, Hood, & demonstrate that adults with insecure adult attach- Swinson, 1994), and unresolved adolescents were ment models display less optimal parenting but also overrepresented in a group of suicidal adolescents that parents with different types of insecure attach- (Adam, Sheldon-Keller, & West; 1996). ment representations (dismissing vs. preoccupied vs. In a low-income community sample, Pianta et al. unresolved) show different types of maladaptive (1996) found that preoccupied mothers reported the parenting. Because of sample size constraints result- highest levels of psychiatric distress, secure mothers ing from the intensive nature of adult attachment reported moderate levels of distress, and dismissing coding and observational coding of parenting, very individuals reported the least distress on the few studies have had the opportunity to