1 Timothy 3:1–7
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DEVELOPING L EADERSHIP STRETCH YOUR S ELF ! (1 TIMOTH Y 3:1–7) God has stipulated that men are to take the reflects the difference with this translation: “If lead in His church. Men are to be the elders and any man aspires to the office of overseer, it is a the deacons; men are to lead in the pubic wor- fine work he desires to do” (emphasis mine). The ship services. I am not sure why God set it up NIV has “If anyone sets his heart on being an over- this way. I am confident that it is not because seer, he desires a noble task” (emphasis mine). men are smarter than women or have more abil- The second word translated “desire”2 in the ity. Nevertheless, for whatever reason, in God’s KJV is the usual word for “desire.” It can be spiritual arrangement, men are to be the leaders. used in a good sense (“want”) or a bad sense If we do not have Christian men preparing them- (“lust”). Here, it is used in a good sense. Our selves to lead, the Lord’s church is in trouble. emphasis will be on the first word translated One day, in a bookstore, I came across a book “desire” in the KJV, “aspires to” in the NASB, for Christian men by Gene A. Getz, titled The and “sets his heart on” in the NIV. All these Measure of a Man.1 At first, I was excited. Many terms are translated from a Greek word3 which books are available for women on how to be means “to extend, stretch out.”4 a Christian wife and mother, but it is difficult Most of us know what it means “to extend” to find good books on how to be a Christian and “stretch out.” Were you ever at a family husband and father. Then, when I scanned the reunion when the house was packed with rela- contents, I was disappointed. The chapters were tives? When meal time came, all of you sat based on 1 Timothy 3:1–7. I thought, “Doesn’t down at a table with the food everyone had the author know that those verses contain the brought. During that meal, at least one person qualifications for elders?” However, the more I had the following experience. The potatoes have thought about it, the more I have become were way over on the other side of the table, convinced that this passage does give God’s so he politely said, “Pass the potatoes, please.” meas ure of a man. In this lesson we want to look Nothing happened. Everyone was talking and at the wording of 1 Timothy 3:1–7 and encourage laughing as they began eating. “Pass the po- men to develop the characteristics described. tatoes, please!” Still nothing. Finally, he gave My challenge will center on the terminology up trying to be polite and reached far across in verse 1. Many of us are familiar with the KJV the table, s-t-r-e-t-c-h-i-n-g himself to reach rendering of that verse: “This is a true saying, the bowl. That is the idea behind the word on If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth which we are focusing. a good work” (1 Timothy 3:1; emphasis mine). I should also mention that the word is in the The KJV uses the English word “desire” (or “desireth”) twice in that verse, but in the Greek 2The KJV uses the Old English “desireth.” text, two different words are used. The NASB 3While this word, orego, was in common use in Paul’s day, this is one of the few times it is found in the New Testament. 1Gene A. Getz, The Measure of a Man (Ventura, Calif.: 4The Analytical Greek Lexicon (London: Samuel Bagster Regal Books, 1974). & Sons, Ltd., 1971), 291. 1 middle voice in the Greek. Most of us are un- Some Christians are satisfied to do the familiar with the middle voice. In the English bare minimum. Others reach a certain level of language, we have only the active voice (you do spiritual growth and are content to stay at that something) and the passive voice (something is level. The designation “elder” means “older”; done to you), but the Greek language has a third however, the emphasis is not simply on being voice: the middle voice. In the middle voice, older physically, but in becoming more mature you do something to yourself. Therefore, regard- in Christ. Let us all resolve “to grow up in all ing our featured word, the lexicon says that in aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ” the middle voice, it means “to stretch one’s self (Ephesians 4:15). out, to reach forward to.”5 A literal translation of 1 Timothy 3:1 might read something like this: STRETCH YOURSELF “If any man stretches himself out to the office of TO BE More GODLY overseer, it is a fine work he desires to do.” Leadership is as dependent upon character All around us, we see individuals who are as it is upon qualifications. This is true of lead- s-t-r-e-t-c-h-i-n-g themselves to become the best ership in general. Examples could be given of they can be in various sports. We see people individuals who met the legal qualifications s-t-r-e-t-c-h-i-n-g themselves to achieve success for political offices but who, because of un- in the business world. How few are stretching godly lives, showed themselves unfit to hold themselves spiritually! The challenge of this those offices. This principle is even more true lesson is to s-t-r-e-t-c-h yourself to be all you regarding spiritual leaders. What a shameful can be as a Christian, to be the best child of spectacle it is when a self-proclaimed spiritual God you can be.6 My remarks will be primarily leader has his immoral life exposed! directed to my brothers in Christ, but those of The necessity of being godly men is found you who are sisters in the Lord will find much several times in our text. In verse 2 we read that you can apply to yourselves. these words: “must be above reproach.” This STRETCH YOURSELF does not mean “perfect,” but it does mean that TO GROW SPIRITUALLY an individual is trying his best to live a God- pleasing life. These words relate to his reputa- In verse 6 we read that an elder is not to be tion within the church. Then verse 7 says that “a new convert.” “New convert” is translated “he must have a good reputation with those from the word from which we get “neophyte,” outside the church,” in the community. which means “new plant.”7 None of us should The terms in verses 2 and 7 do not refer sim- be satisfied to stay “new plants”; we need to ply to outward appearance, but to inward quali- grow. The writer of Hebrews reprimanded his ties that are reflected outwardly. In the parallel readers with these words: passage in Titus 1, we have words like these in For though by this time you ought to be teach- verse 8: “good,” “just,” and “devout.” ers, you have need again for someone to teach you the elementary principles of the oracles of God, and you have come to need milk and STRETCH YOURSELF not solid food. For everyone who partakes only of milk is not accustomed to the word TO LEARN SELF-DISCIPLINE of right eousness, for he is an infant. But solid One of the hardest things for any of us to food is for the mature, who because of practice learn is self-discipline. The wise man wrote, “He have their senses trained to discern good and evil (Hebrews 5:12–14). who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit, than he who cap- tures a city” (Proverbs 16:32). Even the apostle 5 Ibid. Paul struggled with this. He said, “I discipline 6Even if a Christian man becomes all he can be, this does not guarantee that he will be qualified to become an my body and make it my slave, so that, after elder, but it does guarantee that he will make the greatest I have preached to others, I myself will not be contribution to the Lord’s cause of which he is capable. disqualified” (1 Corinthians 9:27). 7Neophyte combines neo (“new”) and phuo (which can refer to a growing plant). (The Analytical Greek Lexicon, First Timothy 3:2 notes that an elder must be 276, 431.) “temperate.” Greek scholar J. W. Roberts wrote, 2 “The original word means a non-drinker, a com- not quick-tempered (see Titus 1:7). We must plete abstainer even from the mild use of wine. contend for the truth (1 Timothy 6:12; 2 Timothy The secondary meaning is that of soberness or 4:7; Jude 3; 1 Thessalonians 2:2), but we are not sanity of mind.”8 The word refers to one who has to be contentious individuals. Some Christians learned self-discipline in all areas of his life. cause trouble wherever they go. They sow strife; Next, this verse says that an elder must be they sow suspicion. We are not to be like that. “prudent.” The KJV has “sober,” and the NIV Instead of being pugnacious and conten- has “self-controlled.” This does not mean that tious, we are to be “gentle.” The word rendered an elder can never laugh, smile, or have a good “gentle” in this verse is difficult to translate.