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Our Time to Leave a Legacy • Devoted to the Dove • Above and Beyond Sigma Kappa Triangle THE EDITOR From Volume 112, Issue 4 The official magazine of Sigma Kappa Sorority founded at , Waterville, Maine, November 9, 1874

Sigma Kappa National Head quar ters Dear Sigma Kappa sisters, 695 Pro-Med Lane, Suite 300 Carmel, IN 46032-5323 Telephone: 317-872-3275 FAX: 317-872-0716 Even before we welcome our new members www.sigmakappa.org on Bid Day, we introduce them to our value Hours of operation: 8 a.m.–5 p.m. of service during the philanthropy round of Monday-Friday recruitment. Once we are members, service Director of Communication takes on a new aspect as we participate Mallory Curtis Simmons, Delta Delta in the Walk to End Alzheimer’s, adopt Digital Media & Marketing Specialist highways or institiute recycling programs Alexandra Francis Green, Lead Features Editor for Inherit the Earth, and hold Ultra Dana Covitz Hackley, Beta Zeta Violet Campaign events each year. But [email protected] there is more to service than just doing Alumnae Editor Edie Clark Hartman, Beta Upsilon what is required of you for Standards of [email protected] Excellence. Service is a lifelong commitment Collegiate Editor to making Sigma Kappa and the world a Andrea Uzar, Beta Tau [email protected] better place in any way you can. Production Dartmouth Printing Company In this issue, we will discuss the many 69 Lyme Rd. diff erent aspects of service and how Sigma Hanover, NH 03755 Kappas embody it every day. You will Collegiate Deadlines meet two collegiate members who vowed Summer/first semester news December 1 Second semester news April 1 to make their mark on their campus and Alumnae Deadlines community through service. We have Spring issue February 1 profi led some Sigma Kappa volunteers who Summer issue May 1 Autumn issue August 1 have devoted much of their lives to serving Winter issue November 1 Sigma Kappa. You will also learn about the Sigma Kappas who have served the larger Sigma Kappa Triangle is published quarterly by Sigma Kappa Sorority, Panhellenic community as Chairman of the 695 Pro Med Lane, Suite 300, Carmel, IN 46032. Periodicals postage paid at Indianapolis, IN, and at National Panhellenic Conference and meet additional mailing offices. Printed in USA, Sigma the woman who will take on the position Kappa USPS 496-080. this fall. Postmaster Please send address changes to: Service is one of our four values for Sigma Kappa Triangle 695 Pro Med Lane, Suite 300 a reason – it is truly one of the most Carmel, IN 46032. important and productive things we can do with our time. I hope that this fall, you will Member Fraternity Communications Association make an eff ort to make service a part of National Panhellenic Communications Conference your life in any way you can.

In Sigma Kappa,

© Sigma Kappa Sorority 2015

Mallory Curtis Simmons, Delta Delta Sigma Kappa Triangle editor [email protected]

Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 2 Sigma Kappa

Triangle Volume 112, Issue 4 FEATURES

Our Time to Leave a Legacy...... 8 As Sigma Kappa’s chairmanship of the NPC approaches, learn more about the two women who previously held this position and the one who will hold it beginning in October.

Devoted to the Dove...... 12 Meet some Sigma Kappa volunteers who embody the spirit of 8 lifelong service to our Sorority. Beyond A Hot Topic: The Reality of Sexual Assault...... 18 Sexual assault is a hot topic in the news at the moment and is an issue on which we all need to be educated.

Collegiate Highlights...... 24 Read about how our collegiate chapters live our values of friendship and service. IN EVERY ISSUE 18 From the Editor...... 2 What’s Happening...... 4

From the Desk Of...... 6

Hearts United...... 7

Foundation Update...... 22

Alumnae Highlights...... 30 24 In Memoriam...... 35

On the Cover: We all know service is one of Sigma Kappa’s four values, but how are we living out this value in our everyday lives?

3 Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 What’s HAPPENING

HERE WE GROW AGAIN! Sigma Kappa Prepares for Historic Year of Extension

The 2015-2016 academic year is proving to be a year for the record books when it comes to starting new chapters on college campuses across the country. Not one, not two, but seven colonizations are on our calendars! Extension has always been an important component of our national organization, but with the newly updated strategic plan, growth has moved to a top priority.

Over the next 12 months, Sigma Kappa will be joining seven outstanding Panhellenic communities across the country, including four recolonizations. Through the tireless work of Sigma Kappa staff and national volunteers, we will welcome hundreds of new colony members to the Mystic Bond.

The colonizations literally extend from coast to coast – Eugene, Oregon to Charleston, South Carolina. We cannot wait to introduce Sigma Kappa to each of these outstanding communities, and we encourage you to follow along on this historic journey.

University of Oregon Eugene, Oregon

Indiana University Bloomington, Indiana Washington, D.C.

University of Memphis Memphis, Tennessee

College of Charleston Charleston, South Carolina at Birmingham Birmingham, Alabama

University of South Florida Tampa, Florida

Fall 2015 Colonization Spring 2016 Colonization

Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 4 University of Alabama at Birmingham Birmingham, Alabama American University Washington, D.C. Charleston, South Carolina Recolonization of the Zeta Sigma Chapter Colonization events: Colonization events: Colonization events: September 16–20 February 3–7, 2016 September 8–13 Facebook, Twitter, Instagram: Facebook, Twitter, Instagram: Facebook, Twitter, Instagram: @UABSigmaKappa @SigmaKappaAU @CofCSigmaKappa

University of Memphis Memphis, Tennessee University of Oregon Indiana University Eugene, Oregon Bloomington, Indiana Recolonization of the Beta Xi Chapter Colonization events: Recolonization of the Chapter Recolonization of the Tau Chapter September 30–October 4 Colonization events: Colonization events: February 3–13, 2016 Facebook & Instagram: October 18–25 Facebook, Twitter, Instagram: MemphisSigmaKappa Facebook: OregonSigmaKappa @IUSigmaKappa Twitter: @UofMSigmaKappa Twitter & Instagram: @UOSigmaKappa

HOW CAN YOU HELP?

• Submit Recruitment Introduction Forms (RIF) for any potential University of South Florida members you may know attending these universities. Access the RIF at Tampa, Florida www.sigmakappa.org/recruitment_introduction_form. • Follow along on all of our social media accounts. Colonization events: • Spread the word about Sigma Kappa coming to these outstanding September 23–27 universities. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram: • If you live near one of these campuses, ensure your information is up- @USFSigmaKappa to-date in Live Sigma Kappa so you receive all future communications about alumnae involvement on Bid Day and Initiation.

5 Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 From THE DESK OF... Dear Sisters,

Recently, a photo was posted to Instagram by my friend and fellow Trustee Ann O’Connell, Theta, University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. The image was that of a bunch of lollipops. Very quickly, comments were posted from Sigma Kappas of all ages as they remembered selling lollipops during their collegiate years or as alumnae who advised chapters during the sales, all in support of Alzheimer’s disease research.

While the era of the lollipop is over (much to the elation of thousands of sisters across the country), those lollipops inspired us to create Ultra Violet events as Sigma Kappa’s philanthropic priorities evolved. Sigma Kappa continues to build a culture of philanthropy among its members, keeping in mind Robert Greenleaf ’s valuable advice: “Good leaders must fi rst become good servants.”

What is a culture of philanthropy? There are two key components. First, philanthropy is an act or a gift done or made for humanitarian purpose or voluntary action for the common good. Second, loyal fi nancial support is the engine that drives philanthropy. In order to truly instill a culture of philanthropy, it is important for us to understand the value and connection of service and making fi nancial gifts. A culture of philanthropy is centered on people, mission, attitude and values.

A culture of philanthropy is not just good for Sigma Kappa as an organization, it is good for you! Engaging in service and philanthropic initiatives allows you to: • Have opportunities to act on your values and beliefs • Grow your understanding of diverse cultures and communities • Develop or enhance your skills, especially in the areas of communication, collaboration and leadership • Grow a professional network of people you might connect with again later for jobs or internships

You are important to Sigma Kappa’s culture of philanthropy. Show us how you are giving back by posting a picture to Instagram, Facebook or Twitter using #SKGives. And, if you have never had the opportunity to make a fi nancial gift to show your support of Sigma Kappa, there is no a better time than today. Visit www.sigmakappafoundation.org/givenow.

In Sigma Kappa,

Kristen M. Kirst, Zeta Omicron Sigma Kappa Foundation President [email protected]

Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 6 HEARTS United NATIONAL COUNCIL RECOMMENDATIONS: ENSURING SIGMA KAPPA’S FUTURE

At Sigma Kappa’s 2016 national convention, July 6-9, the voting delegates will elect the national council of Sigma Kappa for the 2016-2018 biennium. Collegiate chapters, alumnae chapters, and individual members of Sigma Kappa are urged to exercise their privilege and responsibility to recommend qualifi ed women to serve on the 2016-2018 national council. Through a nomination and election process, Sigma Kappa national council members are elected by the membership to serve for a biennium (two years).

The nominating committee needs your input in order to present a slate for election at the 2016 national convention. Candidates will be selected for the following offi ces: president, vice president for alumnae, vice president for collegiate chapters, vice president for membership, vice president for extension, vice president for programming, vice president for communication, and vice president for fi nance.

Qualifi cations for choosing members of national council include: • Sigma Kappa experience • Qualifi cations for the position being nominated • Time availability • History of donating to the Sigma Kappa Foundation • History of alumnae chapter membership • Non-Sigma Kappa leadership experience • Demonstrated skill sets in leadership, management, communication and organization

What are recommendations? All members in good standing are eligible to recommend alumnae for national council by completing a recommendation form(s). Members are recommended to the nominating committee. Once a member is recommended, qualifi cations have been verifi ed, and she has agreed to the recommendation, she becomes a candidate. Upon being slated by the nominating committee, the candidate is a nominee for national council as presented by the nominating committee to the membership.

Does my recommendation make a diff erence? YES. The nominating committee carefully reviews all recommendation forms, and no entity or member recommendation forms are given precedence over others.

Where do I access a recommendation form and to whom do I send a completed form(s)? An electronic recommendation form will be available on September 1 on the Live Sigma Kappa side of the website under Volunteers > Get Involved > National Council Recommendations. Once completed, send recommendation forms to [email protected] by November 1.

For more information regarding national council recommendations, including job descriptions, visit the Live Sigma Kappa side of the website under Volunteers > Get Involved > National Council Recommendations. Please direct any questions to Angela Guillory, nominating committee chairman, at [email protected].

7 Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 OUR TIME TO LEAVE A LEGACY

BY DANA COVITZ HACKLEY, BETA ZETA LEAD FEATURES EDITOR

We often recall the legacy our Founders left for us. They dreamt, as they sat along the banks of the Messalonskee River, of a sisterhood built on the empowerment of its members socially, intellectually, and spiritually. We have relished in and attempted to embody these ideals for the last 141 years and will continue to live and lead by their example.

But this year, Sigma Kappa Sorority and its members will embark on a rare opportunity to leave its mark on the greater Panhellenic community when it assumes the chairmanship of the National Panhellenic Conference (NPC) in October.

The National Panhellenic Conference provides support and guidance for its 26 member organizations and serves as the national voice on issues of sorority life, something it has been doing since the fi rst meeting in 1891. Collegiate and alumnae chapters currently work with their Panhellenic counterparts to advance sorority life locally, with the NPC not only overseeing, but also leading the way.

“When tough issues rise to the surface, NPC, working collaboratively with the member organizations, helps chart a path to address those challenges,” explains NPC Vice Chairman Donna Crain King, Epsilon Rho, Eastern Washington University.

Ethel Hayward Weston Ruth Rysdon Miller Donna Crain King

Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 8 OUR NPC CHAIRMEN The uniquely organized conference is served by an Ethel Hayward Weston, Alpha, Colby College executive committee made up of representatives Ethel Hayward was born in Portage, Maine, on New Year’s Day in from each of the member organizations who 1882. She was class valedictorian in high school and attended Colby College. She loved science and took all advanced courses. She was rotate through the positions in order of each active in the YWCA, her church, and other college activities, but organization’s chronological entrance into NPC. her sisters will not be surprised to learn that she found her guiding As a result, every 52 years, Sigma Kappa has the star in Sigma Kappa. She was a delegate to the first convention of chance to hold the chairman position, which has the Sorority held in Boston and served as chapter president. After only happened twice since Sigma Kappa joined graduating cum laude in the class of 1908, she married Benjamin NPC. Thomas Weston, , who was a graduate of the University of Maine and worked as a civil engineer. As an alumna, she Two very special women have held this leadership served as national secretary, vice president and national president. role for the Sorority: Ethel Hayward Weston, She was installed as the NPC chairman in 1919 and served until 1921. It Alpha, Colby College, in 1919 and Ruth Rysdon was her third position held on the executive committee of the NPC. , Theta, University of Illinois at Urbana- Miller Ruth Rysdon Miller, Theta, University of Illinois at Urbana- Champaign, in 1965. Champaign Ruth was born in Chicago and began her college career at the “Mrs. Weston is fair...with twinkling eyes that University of Chicago, but transferred to the University of Illinois bespeak good-fellowship at first glance. Needless during her junior year. She served her collegiate chapter as pledge to say that she is devoted to Sigma Kappa and trainer and, after graduation, served as corporation president of gives unstintedly of her time in Sigma’s interests,” Theta Chapter, followed by province president of Illinois, and later, reported a 1919 Sigma Kappa Triangle article. province president of Florida. In 1954, she was elected to national council as national counselor, a position she held for four years. She As national president from 1918-1922, Ethel was also helped to revive the Chicago Panhellenic Association and served as a member of the executive board of that organization. Until 1952, said to care passionately about the Maine Sea she was office manager and secretary of the Fire Craft Corporation, Coast Mission, wanted to see the Sigma Kappa a corporation of which she was joint owner with her brother Louis. Triangle financially stabilize, and felt compelled to After moving to Florida, she became a substitute teacher in the spread a message of antidiscrimination to as many Miami Public Schools. She was installed as the NPC chairman in 1965 campuses as possible. and served until 1967.

Her sisters recalled she was a friend to all and was Donna Crain King, Epsilon Rho, Eastern Washington University loved in return, but remained humbled. Donna Crain was born in Spokane, Washington. She is a Sigma Kappa legacy from her mother Thrine Reed Crain, Alpha Nu, Ethel once wrote in a letter, “I have not great University of Montana, and her sister Teresa Crain Troy, Alpha Gamma, Washington State University. She is an alumna initiate talents to give to Sigma, you know, only faithful, of the Epsilon Rho, Eastern Washington University, Chapter. loving service.” Donna graduated from Whitworth University in Spokane with a degree in Arts Administration and History. She has held positions When she led the 1921 NPC meeting in in university public relations and development, graphic arts, and Indianapolis, Indiana, alumna business management. She is married to Neal King, , Elizabeth Corbert Gilbert reported, “At the head and they have two daughters, Madeline and Meghan, and one sat the chairman, Mrs. Ethel H. Weston, Sigma grandchild, Ashton. She has served on the board of education for a Kappa, still the same quiet, retiring little woman private school, a church governing council, youth council advisory with the very appealing smile, but showing much committee, community education initiative/planning committee, more of her New England granite in her firmness Whitworth University parents’ council, and as a school district foundation ambassador. Donna has been a Sigma Kappa volunteer in holding the Congress to order.” for 36 consecutive years, holding numerous local, regional and national positions. She has been Sigma Kappa’s NPC Delegate for 15 She was instrumental in the creation of the years and has also served as an NPC area advisor coordinator and the “Information for the Guidance of College NPC finance committee chairman. She is currently a trustee for the Panhellenics,” which debuted in 1921. NPC Foundation and NPC vice chairman. She will take on the NPC chairman role this fall for a two-year term.

9 Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 Ruth Rysdon Miller was the second Sigma Kappa members. Because of a united effort, there were to hold the NPC chairmanship. Martha Turner fraternities yesterday, there are fraternities today, Denham, Omega, Florida State University, wrote in and there can be fraternities tomorrow. However, if a 1958 Sigma Kappa Triangle article, “If I were asked fraternities are going to enjoy a place in the sun, they to express the qualities embodied in Sigma Kappa must continue to earn the privilege.” in one word, I think I could find no more complete description than Ruth.” She continued, “Her Donna Crain King currently serves as NPC vice enthusiastic loyalty to Sigma Kappa and to Sigma chairman and will take on the role of chairman this Kappas, her ability to accept the responsibilities fall. She will be working side-by-side with Alpha of leadership and her capability of measuring up Omicron Pi in the supporting executive committee to them, her unselfish devotion to the duties and position. obligations of serving the Sorority, and her own personal charm and graciousness, all mark her for a The NPC chairman’s duties are numerous, including Sigma Kappa in whom ‘One Heart, One Way’ is a maintaining the day-to-day operations of the way of life.” Conference as well as directing the overall voice and direction of the organization. Ruth served as national president from 1958-1960, and she made improving the academics of the “Currently, it is a volatile time for sororities and Sorority a priority. fraternities. Colleges and universities, press, and the general public are scrutinizing our behaviors She also held the NPC chairman position during and actions. We are being asked daily to validate a turbulent time in American history when war the benefits of membership, and to substantiate dominated the national conversation and sororities why membership in a sorority adds value to a were not viewed in a positive light. In fact, NPC had young person’s collegiate experience, and beyond. even been studying conditions on certain campuses NPC actively participates in those discussions as via a special committee on “anti-fraternity agitation” the premiere voice for the sorority experience. I and took an energetic stance toward re-educating the anticipate NPC being at the forefront of those public about the value of women’s fraternities in the continuing discussions in the months ahead,” 1960s. acknowledged Donna.

Although sentiment toward fraternities has shifted Just as Ethel and Ruth contended with societal issues, throughout the years, Ruth always saw their value. Donna understands the climate she’s walking into as “The Greek System is as strong as its individual chairman. “Issues today include sexual assault and

1902 1919 1928 1961 1977 2003 NPC is Ethel Hayward The Conference NPC adopts a resolution on NPC adopts NPC joins with NIC in lobbying established Weston makes plans freedom and responsibility, a resolution efforts on Capitol Hill in support under the assumes to distribute publishes a booklet on encouraging of the Collegiate Housing name Inter- chairmanship the first NPC extension procedures and member and Infrastructure Act and Sorority of NPC Manual of emphasizes continuous fraternities to establishes the Government Council Information open bidding forbid hazing Relations Committee

1913 1921 1941 1965 1989 2015 (October) NPC adopts uniform The Conference NPC urges the Ruth Rysdon NPC affirms Donna Crain scholarship and house issues elimination Miller assumes human dignity and King assumes rules for collegians “Information for of all chairmanship frames a Rushee’s chairmanship of and promotes women the Guidance extravagance of NPC Bill of Rights for NPC entering professions of College in fraternity use by College other than teaching Panhellenics” spending Panhellenics

Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 10 student safety, preservation of single gender membership, “My time in history is each Sigma Kappa’s time in history! and unilateral suspension of fraternal communities on The strong sense of pride I carry as a member of Sigma college campuses.” Kappa should be the same pride each member – alumna or collegian – embraces and experiences during this time as But she sees the example Ethel and Ruth set for her well. For Sigma Kappa, this is not just about one individual as a benefi t. “Both, no doubt, felt a strong sense of member serving as the chairman of NPC, but instead, that responsibility to bring their best skill sets to the position. one individual member bringing with her the rich heritage Considering when they served, it called for tremendous and spirit of Sigma Kappa and its members.” courage, resilience, and wisdom to navigate the times. I Although humbled by the honor to serve in this capacity, would hope to emulate those same characteristics in how Donna is confi dent that Sigma Kappa will shine brightly my leadership is defi ned as well.” in the years to come. “Sigma Kappa has placed her confi dence in my abilities to lead, and the opportunity to And she realizes this is an epic time for all Sigma Kappa impact the future of women’s sororities.” She will make us sisters. all proud to leave a legacy. NPC TODAY

Women worldwide currently comprise the NPC. One of the oldest and largest women’s membership organizations, NPC is the premier advocacy and support organization for the advancement of the sorority 4 MILLION experience and serves as the national voice on contemporary issues of sorority life. 685 3,773 2067 Local alumnae The next time a Higher education campuses associations/ with NPC representation in chapters/clubs Sigma Kappa will be the U.S. and Canada. worldwide. the chairman of NPC. “We should be very proud of our Sorority’s involvement in making history together with the rest of the National Panhellenic Conference. [NPC] provides many beneficial resources to collegiate members, including programming and a network upon which we can rely for professional, social and educational matters.” –Madison Thompson, , Former Panhellenic president

11 Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 Devoted to the Dove Longtime volunteers illustrate the true meaning of service to Sigma Kappa BY SUMMER STAUB ROTHROCK, GAMMA UPSILON FEATURES EDITOR

Volunteers are the heart of an organization. Sigma Kappa is lucky to have dedicated volunteers across the country, on a local and national level, who devote their time to the advancement of sorority life. From advising chapters, assisting with the recruitment process, and engaging alumnae, to fundraising or serving on housing corporations, there are many ways to remain engaged with the Sorority after graduation.

Every volunteer has a diff erent reason for volunteering. The long-serving volunteers profi led below shared their stories of fi nding their Sigma Kappa “soul mate,” fond memories of convention, or being with a chapter since colonization. The featured volunteers have nearly 100 years of combined service to the Sorority. The experiences are diff erent, but one thing remains the same – their love for Sigma Kappa.

Pat Johnson Mount, Eta, Illinois Wesleyan University, started volunteering with the Beta Eta Chapter at the University of Massachusetts, Amherst in 1976. The chapter was at a low point and needed someone to run rush, as it was known then. Pat laughs that when she was recruited to volunteer, she was told it would only be for a few days, and “39 years later I’m still there.”

Her long history of volunteering includes serving on the advisory board and corporation board in 1976 before the national board structure was separated. She has also served as collegiate province offi cer, alumnae province offi cer, and on the nominating committee. In addition to her collegiate chapter service, Pat is also the vice president of fi nance for the Western New England Alumnae Chapter. Pat is now retired, but she had a long career as an inventory specialist, offi ce manager and realtor.

PAT JOHNSON MOUNT

Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 12 She continues volunteering for one enthusiastic reason: “It keeps me young!” She enjoys the people she meets and with whom she interacts. She notes that she might not always agree with decisions that are made, but she will support them because her sisters made the decisions.

Her commitment to the Sorority makes her the perfect person to encourage collegians to volunteer. She starts encouraging “her girls” while they are still collegians. She says of volunteering, “It’s a way to make sure the sisterhood survives, grows and becomes stronger. It means that the collegians will have the same chances to grow, mature, and learn how to be the best they can be that we had.”

For Pat, volunteering has PAT, RIGHT, WITH CAROLYN JOHNSON rewarded her in numerous THOMAS AT CONVENTION ways. Her favorite Sigma “[Volunteering is] a way to make Kappa memory is meeting her “Sigma soul mate,” Carolyn Johnson Thomas, sure the sisterhood survives, grows Epsilon Zeta, Western Kentucky University, at convention one year. She says that within fi ve minutes of meeting and becomes stronger.” each other they knew, and it was spooky! She details the similarities that brought them together: “I can’t –Pat Johnson Mount even begin to tell you all the things that popped up. Her oldest son is Chris, my youngest is Chris. We both have the maiden name of Johnson. Her birthday is November, mine is March. Her husband’s birthday is March, my husband’s birthday is November. Her husband and I had both lived in Buck County, Pennsylvania. We both had gray medium fur cats; we each had a piece of furniture upholstered in the same fabric and a room wallpapered in the same pattern. We both worked with active chapters in recruitment.” Meeting sisters with whom you have much in common is one of the perks of volunteering, and the sisters she’s met throughout the years are one of many reasons Pat has stayed engaged.

Nancy Smith Midgette, Gamma Phi, North Carolina State University, has been volunteering with the Kappa Zeta Chapter at since the very beginning, when it colonized on campus in 1998. Nancy is a professor of history and leadership studies at Elon. The opportunity to work with collegiate women outside of the classroom is very rewarding to Nancy.

When asked about why she volunteers, she says, “It was a great experience for me as an undergraduate and a good opportunity now to mentor young women in a collegiate setting other than the classroom.” Her current volunteer role is advisor to the social chair and vice president of fi nance, which she has held since 2000. Prior to that, Nancy was the advisory board chairman for a year.

13 Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 Nancy fi nds mentoring young women rewarding, and she encourages other alumnae to volunteer for the same reasons. She says of volunteering, “It keeps you in touch with the younger generation and provides an opportunity to help shape who they will become as graduates.”

She fondly remembers her collegiate years. Her favorite memory is of “the truly unique nature of Gamma Phi in the 1960s, when it was the only sorority on campus.” Her advice for collegians still on campus? “Don’t blindly follow the crowd; think for yourself and be open to new opportunities.” NANCY SMITH MIDGETTE

Jennifer Johanneman Painter, Epsilon Zeta, Western Kentucky University, is a longtime volunteer with experience on the national and local level. Jennifer is currently serving as the National Housing Corporation vice president of housing operations. She has also served on the advisory board for Alpha Theta, , as advisory board chair, collegiate province offi cer, Foundation ambassador, and on the National Housing Corporation Board of Directors. Her professional career is in production operations.

She volunteers for a variety of reasons. She says, “Sigma Kappa taught me that it is important to give back. I want other women to have the positive experience that I had as a collegian. Volunteering helps make that happen.” Serving others also gives back to her. As a mother of two boys, volunteering gives her the “girl fi x,” as she calls it.

Like many volunteers, Jennifer started volunteering because someone asked JENNIFER JOHANNEMAN PAINTER her to. She encourages others to volunteer by telling them “it’s a great

Show Your Appreciation for Volunteers! • Host a volunteer appreciation dinner • Nominate volunteers for awards (NHQ and university sponsored awards) • Post volunteer spotlights on social media • Ask your Greek Advisor to send thank you notes to volunteers • Send holiday cards • Remember their birthdays

Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 14 feeling to watch a young woman grow and mature as a member or offi cer of her collegiate chapter. There is an amazing feeling of pride and accomplishment when a new or renovated house opens for the fi rst time. And just the feeling of belonging to our sisterhood. It’s really indescribable.” That indescribable feeling for Jennifer has given her many fond memories. Her favorite memories come from recruitment success as a collegiate offi cer, and now as an alumna volunteer seeing the installation of national offi cers at convention.

Megan Hessee, Zeta Pi, Colorado School of Mines, never dreamed that when she said yes to a fellow alumnae chapter member asking her to help out a local collegiate chapter, she’d still be volunteering 18 years later. Megan is currently the Panhellenic coordinator for district 6 and advisory board supervisor for the Zeta Pi Chapter. She also served as a collegiate province offi cer for 12 years and held numerous positions in the Houston and Rocky Mountain Alumnae Chapters. She is in the economics and engineering fi eld and has a husband and four-year-old son.

She volunteers for Sigma Kappa because, she says, “I believe women should help women. Since Sigma Kappa women are the best women I know, I want to help send them off into the world to make a diff erence.” She says that volunteering for Sigma Kappa gives her the feeling that she has kindred spirits wherever she goes, and that serving others makes her MEGAN HESSEE (CENTER) WITH FRIENDS AND FELLOW VOLUNTEERS REBECCA DIMOND (LEFT) problems seem smaller. AND STEPHANIE BROOKS Megan exemplifi es lifetime involvement in Sigma Kappa, and her advice to collegians refl ects this belief as well. “When the exams and papers are complete, you will always have Sigma Kappa. Whether you’re 20, 40, 60, 80, or older, Sigma Kappa will continue to be a part of your life.”

These dynamic volunteers are highlights of how volunteering can strengthen Sigma Kappa, sisterhood and personal development. Jennifer sums up the volunteer experience best by saying, “The most positive part of volunteering for Sigma Kappa is knowing that I made a diff erence.” Show Your Appreciation for Volunteers! • Host a volunteer appreciation dinner • Nominate volunteers for awards (NHQ and university sponsored awards) • Post volunteer spotlights on social media • Ask your Greek Advisor to send thank you notes to volunteers • Send holiday cards • Remember their birthdays

15 Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 ND BEYOND VE A BO A The “typical” college student looks forward to adjusting to a new school and community, balancing a challenging class load, making decisions about future career opportunities, and enjoying the many social activities their university has to offer. But some young women have life experiences that inspire them to go a step beyond - leaving a legacy that will impact their college and community long after they have graduated.

By Susan Etheridge Hadden, Epsilon Epsilon Features Editor

Jordi’s Jam Jordan Mathis, Gamma Tau, entered her freshman year at Midwestern State University as a healthy, active and athletic young woman majoring in kinesiology with plans to become a high school volleyball coach. But, as she recalls, “Sometimes the things you think would never happen, happen just like that.” In February 2011 she received a life-changing diagnosis of Acute Myeloid Leukemia (AML), a disease that typically only strikes those who are 65 and older. After several failed rounds of chemotherapy and radiation, her only hope was a bone marrow transplant; without a transplant her odds of survival were less than 3 percent. The search for a match began. While no match was found among family or in the National Marrow Donor Bank, cord blood given by two young mothers seemed promising.

On April 15, 2011, her 19th birthday, Jordan began a new chemo treatment followed by a transplant. After 85 days in the hospital she was allowed to move to a temporary home, an apartment near the hospital that allowed for months of follow up appointments. Although she went into remission in June of 2011, complications from the chemotherapy, radiation and prolonged use of prednisone left her with a condition known as Avascular Necrosis (AVN) in her hips and right shoulder, leading her to need a total hip replacement in both hips.

Jordan’s brother Andy was disappointed he was not a bone marrow match, so he decided to support her in other ways by organizing a co-ed softball tournament called Jordi’s Jam

Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 16 to raise funds to help with transplant costs. The inaugural tournament, held in their hometown in May 2011, raised more than $10,000. Jordan BEYOND decided to pay it forward and, with the support of her family, has ND continued to host the annual tournament to help ease the financial burden A for other young adults who are fighting leukemia or other cancers. Her VE Gamma Tau sisters have helped with concessions, entered a team in the O tournament, and provided support in other ways. Each year the funds B raised have been donated either to a specific young person or to the A leukemia and lymphoma society. Jordan’s ultimate quest is to one day make Jordi’s Jam into a non-profit organization that can continue to impact others in the way that so many supporters have impacted her. Jordan remains in remission, and she and her family live by the motto of Jordi’s Jam – NEVER SAY NEVER.

UGA Rally As a high school student in Marietta, Georgia, Becca Kanaverskis, Epsilon Epsilon, , was touched by the impact of cancer through the young people she met via her involvement with the Rally Foundation. The Rally Foundation is an organization headquartered in Atlanta dedicated to increasing funding for childhood cancer research. She was so drawn to the work of this organization that when she enrolled at the University of Georgia in 2011, one of her goals was to establish a Rally club at UGA. She explains, “I was surprised to find out that pediatric cancer research receives only 4 percent of the funding of the NCAA, and I felt like most college students would also be blindsided by this statistic.”

While creating a new organization on a campus that already offered 600 student organizations would be an overwhelming task for many people, Becca was up for the challenge. During her freshman year she made sure UGA Rally was represented with a table at campus activity fairs, and she also gave of her time to visit campus fraternity and sorority chapters to share factual information and statistics about pediatric cancer research. She recruited speakers who had personal stories to share. Parents of children who suffered from cancer, medical professionals, and cancer survivors provided the real-life, personal connection that helped recruit members for Rally. Since its founding in 2011, the UGA chapter has raised over $15,000 through activities such as percentage nights at local businesses, half marathons, pancake dinners, and t-shirt sales at Greek organizations.

As a public relations major, Becca’s work with the organization allowed her to gain valuable experiences that will help her as she enters the communications field. But even more, she is happy to know that after her graduation in spring 2015, she will leave behind a thriving organization that will continue to meet a tremendous need. She credits her Sigma Kappa sisters with giving her the support to make her new club successful. Not only did they support her by participating in fundraising activities, but sisters Jill Slabacheski and Sarah Shaver will continue to ensure that the club remains a thriving organization in the years to come.

17 Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 By Ashley Lowe Nance, Features Editor

It seems as though sexual assault has assaulted by educating her about been mentioned in the press more in the common situations that result in sexual last year than in the previous four years assault and how they can be avoided? combined. Ever since the University Through this same education, we can of Virginia incident and the ensuing also help young men understand what scandal surrounding the Rolling Stone sexual assault really is, the concept of article about it, we are hearing more consent and how to be sure they have it. and more about what is happening on We must be willing to do what it takes college campuses. But rather than simply to educate both groups no matter how treating sexual assault as the issue of difficult, controversial or embarrassing the moment, we need to concentrate on it is. learning the facts about sexual assault so that we can help stop this epidemic. Today’s collegians are the “You Only Live Once (YOLO)” generation. For so long, we have looked at the Beer commercials carry the slogan incidents of sexual assault after they #upforanything; drugs can be ordered happen. There is a mountain of research over the Internet; and television, video available at the push of a button, ready games, and easily procured pornography to be analyzed and dissected, but are portray false perceptions of relationships we putting that research to the best and sex. These factors contribute to a use? The answers are there, but we as culture that encourages perpetrators and a society – and especially those who confuses victims. Many great programs are parents – have to ask if we are exist that talk about assault and how to doing everything we can to help young keep it from happening, but until college people internalize the reality of sexual men and women are willing to confront assault. What if we could prevent at least the truth of sexual assault, the culture one woman from becoming sexually will not change.

Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 18 definitions of consent that include this affirmative There are several irrefutable facts surrounding college language. This standard moves the responsibility for students and sexual assault. These were found in several consent onto the initiator of sexual contact, requiring different articles and publications: “The Campus that person to ask and receive an answer rather than Sexual Assault (CSA) Study” by Christopher P. Krebs, relying on the other party to provide a verbal “no” if et. al; “Getting Wasted: Why College Students Drink the contact is unwanted. Too Much and Party So Hard” by Thomas Vander Ven; and “Alcohol-Related Sexual Assault: A Common Problem Among College Students” by Antonia Abbey. In “Alcohol-Related Sexual Assault: A Common The majority of this research is based on heterosexual Problem Among College Students,” Abbey notes some situations with a male perpetrator, but this does not disturbing statistics: mean other scenarios do not exist. • Three freshmen women out of 10 will be sexually • College freshmen and sophomores are more likely assaulted during their first year of college. to be sexually assaulted than juniors and seniors. • Of that 31 percent, only 5 percent will report the • Between 50 and 90 percent of sexual assaults sexual assault to authorities. involve the use of alcohol or other drugs by the • Forty-two percent choose to tell no one. perpetrator, victim or both. • Approximately 90 percent of these sexual assaults • The majority of victims of sexual assault are reported by college women involve alcohol. assaulted by people they know and trust, and not a stranger. • The people involved have usually had some Alcohol is a major risk factor for sexual assault and sort of consensual activity before the assault is mentioned in almost all the literature available. (dancing, flirting, kissing, etc.), but one party stops Sometimes the thrill of underage drinking outweighs consenting to what is happening while the other the risks in a young person’s mind. Young people ignores or is unaware of the lack of consent. drink to inebriation to loosen up after a hard week of classes, make meeting new people easier, or maybe just because their friends are doing it. Thomas Vander Consent is defined in the dictionary as “permission for Ven mentions in his book, “For college drinkers, something to happen or agreement to do something.” being wasted often draws a good measure of peer This definition, though, is still too vague to apply to support. While anger, tears, arguments, and violence sexual situations. Consent to sexual activity should be a can emerge during a drinking episode, students also knowing, active, voluntary and enthusiastic agreement reported feeling demonstrably appreciated – even to engage in a mutually agreed upon activity. Consent celebrated – by their co-drinkers.” Who doesn’t want to can never be implied or assumed – the problem with feel part of the crowd? The downside is that there is an “no means no” is that silence can be assumed to show inherently strong link between heavy college drinking consent when the victim may be too intoxicated or and a higher risk of sexual victimization. frightened to actually say no. Many colleges around the country are moving toward a “yes means yes” A complicated relationship exists between alcohol model of consent that relies on a clearly affirmative, consumption and sexual assault, and although it is not unambiguous decision by both parties to engage in the proven that alcohol is directly responsible for these act. Consent is no longer a matter of not struggling or acts, many factors play a role in the frequent co- saying no; if the party initiating the sexual encounter occurrence of alcohol consumption and sexual assault. does not receive an enthusiastic “yes,” either verbally Abbey notes, “A complex behavior such as sexual or physically, there is no consent. California, New assault has multiple determinants both across different Hampshire, New Jersey and New York have all adopted perpetrators and for any one perpetrator…alcohol

19 Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 often exacerbates dynamics that can arise without alcohol.” Some of these factors include pre-existing Statistically speaking, you know someone who has beliefs about alcohol’s effects on sexual behavior, been a victim of sexual assault. Learning how to traditional gender role beliefs about dating and best support those victims is an important element sexuality, alcohol’s effects on men’s willingness of sexual assault education. According to Dr. to behave aggressively and women’s ability to Rebecca Veidlinger, a lawyer and consultant who assess and react to risk, and peer environments specializes in issues of campus sexual assault, we that encourage behaviors usually deemed can best support survivors by: inappropriate. Vander Ven reported, “Data from • Listening the nationally administered 2005 Core Alcohol and • Believing her – enough people are going to Drug Survey showed that 82 percent of students question her who experienced unwanted sexual intercourse • Helping her understand available resources during the current academic year were under the (campus, police, etc.) influence of AOD (alcohol or other drug) when • If drug facilitated, encouraging her to go to they were victimized.” the emergency room to test for the drugs • Supporting her choice to report or not report The majority of sexual assaults are perpetrated • Being aware of the typical reactions – by a person the victim knows and trusts. Why continuing her night after the assault, being might this occur? The presence of alcohol can reluctant to report, withdrawing from others lead a young man to believe that his arousal and or ceasing to attend sorority functions, gratification are more important than the woman’s blaming herself or being ashamed, and being reluctance or the possibility of being accused of confused about her role in the assault sexual assault. This is compounded by the fact that the perpetrator usually already knows the victim Having a support system is one of the greatest and has had possible prior consensual activity. benefits of being a member of Sigma Kappa, and Abbey explains, “The most common locations [of rarely is this more important than in a situation as sexual assault] are the woman’s or man’s home (this traumatic as sexual assault. includes dormitory rooms, apartments, fraternities, and parents’ homes) in the context of a date or party.” As with any issue of our day, how we educate our members regarding the prevention of The legal definition of consent varies from state sexual assault and their role in it is of the utmost to state, but all states are clear that if one or more importance. National President Cheri Morrell parties are under the influence of alcohol or drugs, De Jong, Epsilon Omega, California Polytechnic consent cannot be present. Fraternal organizations State University, San Luis Obispo, shared, “Sexual can help lessen occurrences of sexual assault by assault is a serious issue that has affected many educating their members on what constitutes of our members. As the mother of three college sexual assault, what consent is, how to get it, and women myself, this issue takes on a more personal how to know they have it. aspect. We must remember sexual assault is a crime, and should be treated as such. I firmly believe that we must all be educated on this topic, which is why I am excited for Sigma Kappa’s upcoming programming on this issue.”

Sources: Abbey, Antonia. “Alcohol-related Sexual Assault: A Common Problem among College Students.” Journal of Studies on Alcohol, Supplement J. Stud. Alcohol Suppl. S14 (2002): 118- 28. Web. Contorno, Steve. “Are 20 Percent of Women Sexually Assaulted before They Graduate College?” PolitiFact. Tampa Bay Times, 2 May 2014. Web. 3 Apr. 2015. Krebs, Christopher P., Christine H. Lindquist, Tara D. Warner, Bonnie S. Fisher, and Sandra L. Martin. “The Campus Sexual Assault (CSA) Study: Performance Period: January 2005 through December 2007.” PsycEXTRA Dataset (2007): n. pag. Web. Vander Ven, Thomas. “Getting Wasted: Why College Students Drink Too Much and Party so Hard.” New York: New York UP, 2011. Print. Yoffe, Emily. “College Women: Stop Getting Drunk.” Slate. N.p., 15 Oct. 2013. Web. 2015.

Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 20 Aaron Boe, founder of Prevention Culture and women for healthy social lives and personal a leading consultant in the Fraternity/Sorority relationships in college and beyond.” community on preventing sexual misconduct and partner aggression, is currently working with Students are motivated by their peers’ beliefs. If Sorority staff and volunteers to create an inclusive Sigma Kappa can get each member’s “buy in” to program that will cover topics such as Characteristics help keep not only herself, but also her sisters, safe of a Healthy Relationship, Warning Signs of an from sexual assault, then we will hopefully begin Unhealthy or Abusive Relationship, Sisterhood & to see a change in the numbers of young women Safety, and Supporting a Survivor. This program assaulted. It is important that we are all as educated will include peer-led workshops, discussions, and an as possible on risk factors, intervention techniques, e-book available for all members. Aaron said, “It’s and how to support victims. Sexual assault is a real not about a campaign because young women need threat to women, especially those in college, but more than that. This program is more like the next through education, risk management tactics, and evolution in member education and development. concern for each other, we can help make a lasting This is a comprehensive approach of equipping impact on the number of victims of sexual assault.

In July 2015, Sigma Kappa and the National Panhellenic Conference (NPC) announced their support for the Safe Campus Act and Fair Campus Act, two pieces of legislation that address the rights of sexual assault victims and aim to bring more visibility and vigilance to the prevention of sexual violence on campus.

The Safe Campus Act and Fair Campus Act would: • Authorize unprecedented victim safety and security protections when a sexual violence complaint is filed on campus. • Encourage institutions of higher education (IHEs) to devote appropriate resources to sexual violence education, reporting and student care strategies. • Require IHEs to provide due process standards for campus disciplinary hearings related to sexual violence allegations. • Establish due process standards for student organizations facing discipline as a consequence of allegations against individual students. • Protect the role alumni play in advising student organizations by prohibiting onerous new security mandates for volunteers. • Preserve the single-sex Title IX exemption for social fraternities and sororities. • Establish that law enforcement plays a critical and primary role investigating and prosecuting complaints regarding sexual violence.

21 Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 ALUMNAE CHAPTERS Are you ready to accept your part in the Challenge? Check out sigmakappafoundation.org/ alumnaechallengetoolkit

$1 Million Pledge to the OUR GIFT Alzheimer’s Association - Sigma Kappa is playing a major role in Sigma Kappa Can Do This! the quest to fi nd real breakthroughs for a cure for Alzheimer’s disease. This journey is not new to us. It is one we “I AM SO IMPRESSED with Sigma Kappa and all that have been on for the past 31 years. As you do. You set an inspiring leadership example of women, the stakes are even greater. philanthropy for us all.” Elizabeth Stearns, co-producer of Still Alice

THE CHALLENGE “YOU DON’T REALIZE how much Alzheimer’s disease We have less than a year to meet the challenge from affects a person until it affects someone close to Carolyn Tieger, Epsilon Epsilon, Foundation Trustee, to you. My grandma died a couple years ago from raise $500,000 by convention 2016. If Sigma Kappa is Alzheimer’s and it was really hard to fi nd a good successful, she will match that amount dollar for dollar, caretaker for her while she was suffering. I’m so glad helping us quickly reach our $1,000,000 lead gift to the to be part of a Sorority that doesn’t just donate Alzheimer’s Association Women’s Research Initiative. money but actively lends a hand.” Annie Bell, Theta, University of Illinois at THE PROBLEM Urbana-Champaign • Women are • 60 percent of the disproportionately paid Alzheimer’s affected by caregivers are Alzheimer’s women RESULTS TO DATE • Two-thirds of the • A woman in her 60s more than fi ve is twice as likely to We have raised $330,000. million Americans develop Alzheimer’s We have $170,000 more to go to meet living with during the rest of Carolyn’s challenge. We can do this. Please Alzheimer’s are her life as she is donate today at www.sigmakappafoundation. women to develop breast org/alzheimerschallenge. cancer

Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 22 SororityGrant WHAT IT SUPPORTS The annual grant from the Foundation, made THE GRANT possible by your gifts to the PULSE fund, funds Largest grant ever to the Sorority: the educational and leadership programs of the Sorority. Specifi cally, this grant is supporting the $200,000 leadership consultant program, the director of With a total reach of $1 million educational programs and the regional leadership conferences. All of these programs provide cutting- in support to Sorority programming. edge leadership development to our chapters.

THE TRAINING “CONNECTING WITH THE WOMEN and hearing them fi nd their voice throughout the RLC. It was so • Development of collegiate leaders inspiring to hear them growing as leaders and I loved • Assertiveness training watching them develop skills just in that short time • Achievement of high scholastic attainment by we worked together!” collegiate women • Improved citizenship Jenny Cosgrove, Beta Upsilon, Recruitment Coordinator • Career development • Alcohol and drug abuse prevention • Mental health awareness “AS A FORMER “ONE OF THE LEADERSHIP BIGGEST IMPACTS CONSULTANT, I know that being a leadership the incredible support consultant had on KATE’S STORY these professional me was it made me Kate joined the Zeta Phi Chapter of Sigma women bring to our feel so confi dent Kappa. She had the drive but lacked the collegiate chapters and comfortable to necessary skills to feel empowered and and our extension be independent and be able to excel. Shortly after joining, she opportunities. This handle myself in any found herself academically at risk. Kate, program has continued situation. I think as however, wasn’t left alone as thousands to help elevate our a woman that is so of other college-age women are each strategic position as important and one of year. She began attending leadership a premier national the biggest gifts that conferences offered through Sigma Kappa, sorority.” you can have. “ ultimately being elected her chapter president. She is now joining the leadership Cheri De Jong, Gabrielle Della Pesca, consultant team and will travel the country Epsilon Omega, Kappa Upsilon, Former developing other Sigma Kappa leaders. National President Leadership Consultant

23 Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 Collegiate HIGHLIGHTS Service and Sisterhood

Sigma Kappa Sorority sisters all value service and friendship, two of our four values. What each collegiate chapter does to embody those values is unique. The eff orts of collegiate chapters prove to be invaluable when they come together to help others and make a diff erence, and many chapters see service and sisterhood as intertwined. Coming together to support a cause helps strengthen the bonds of sisterhood within the chapter, and a strong sisterhood can make a chapter more enthusiastic about service and philanthropy.

Theta Iota, The State University of New York at Fredonia Fredonia, New York – This semester, Theta Iota participated in the annual Pink the Rink event held on the Fredonia campus. Pink the Rink is a fundraiser put on by the university’s hockey team that raises money and awareness for those touched by cancer. The players wear pink jerseys in honor or in memory of those aff ected by cancer, which are purchased as a donation by an organization, family or club. Afterward, there is a ceremony to recognize the families and friends. They have their pictures taken with the player who wore their loved one’s jersey and are invited onto the ice for a special recognition.

Theta Iota participates to memorialize their sister, Jessa Webber, who passed away from cancer. They donate money for a jersey to commemorate her love and dedication to Sigma Kappa. She was an active member of the Theta Iota Chapter and had expressed passion in everything she did. This event is attended by the entire chapter to not only show love for Jessa, but also her family. The chapter also remembers Jessa each spring with an event known as “Jammin’ for Jessa.” It is a night full of musical performances, games and raffl es for students and faculty to support the chapter and their beloved sister, Jessa.

The chapter enjoyed being together at Pink the Rink while watching and cheering on the player wearing Jessa Webber’s jersey. This event is a special night for everyone involved, and the Theta Iota Chapter is proud to be a part of it each year. The chapter members recognize that going to events like this and supporting one another creates the strong bond of sisterhood that keeps them all so close.

Theta Psi, The Pennsylvania State University State College, Pennsylvania – The Theta Psi Chapter was thrilled to be recognized at this year’s Penn State Greek Column Awards, winning six awards in total. Panhellenic representative Gabby Sapoznick said that she felt especially proud to be a Sigma Kappa when she found out that her chapter won Chapter of the Year. She was excited that the previous executive council’s hard work paid off . In addition to Chapter of the Year, the chapter was awarded Chapter of Excellence (for accreditation), and second place overall and “best set” for Greek Sing 2014. Both Cara Collins, former president, and Jessica Lilley, current president, received the

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“Living our Ritual” honor in recognition of their outstanding leadership. “Jessica is a fantastic influence and is inspiring to the women of this chapter,” Camille Scanga said.

At this year’s Penn State IFC/Panhellenic Dance Marathon (THON) raising money for pediatric cancer, the sisters showed their support for the four members representing Sigma Kappa Sorority, and for the Four Diamonds Fund, which supports children and families battling pediatric cancer. Through THON’s traditional means of fundraising, canning and canvassing, as well as through alternative fundraising efforts, including making and selling bows and tutus and procuring the Twitter support of actor John Stamos, the chapter members and their partners, Epsilon, raised a total of $148,580.55.

Kappa Omega, Northeastern University Boston, Massachusetts – Yani Ngo was nervous for her first blind date as she headed to the Northeastern student center. Thoughts rushed through her head, unsure of whom she was meeting and what she would be doing. Then she remembered, this was a Sigma Kappa Sorority blind date, and with that reminder all her nerves washed away.

At the first meeting of the year, the executive council members of Kappa Omega asked the chapter what would they improve, and the women of this new chapter called for a stronger focus on sisterhood. This is where the blind dates came in. Sisterhood Chair Rachel Butensky came up with the idea to get women to meet new sisters or hang out with sisters they may not have gotten a chance to get to know.

Based on the sisters available, Rachel planned groups of 4-5 to meet on random dates. With all the exciting activities Boston has to offer, she planned dates for each group ranging from bowling, going to the movies, or enjoying a decadent chocolate restaurant. The women had no idea which sisters they would be meeting or what they’d be doing. All they knew was how much money to bring, what to wear, and when/where to meet. When the entire group arrived at the meeting point, a member of the sisterhood committee handed them an envelope revealing their special activity for the night.

“It was a great opportunity to hang out with sisters I’d never gotten a chance to,” Nora Duncan said. Her date consisted of sharing appetizers and milkshakes.

Because of the tremendously positive response from the chapter, Rachel decided to continue these dates into April, allowing sisters who had not already participated to take part.

“The blind sister dates are easily one of my favorite events of the semester. I loved being set up with sisters I’ve always wanted to hang out with,” Yani said after her date. “It was like being on ‘The Bachelor’ but with a guarantee I was going to have a great time.”

Beta Zeta, University of Maryland College Park, Maryland – During the spring semester, members of the Beta Zeta Chapter rekindled their spirit of service and adopted a new community project aimed to benefit Sigma Kappa Sorority’s environmentally focused service initiative, Inherit the Earth. Through the efforts ofAlexandra Kramer, vice president of philanthropic service, Beta Zeta reached beyond the scope of Greek organizations and inspired a campus-wide movement towards promoting recycling and sustainability.

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The project, called Dream Weavers, involves taking standard-size plastic bags and converting them into plastic sleeping mats for the homeless population of Washington, D.C. To do this, sisters cut the bags into long strips to make plastic yarn, or “plarn,” to later crochet the pieces together. In addition to promoting recycling and sustainability, it also supports the local community through assisting homeless populations. When completed, the sleeping mats would be donated to local homeless shelters to distribute to those who had nothing to sleep on. Since the mats are made from plastic and not fabric they are able to repel insects, are easily washable, and help prevent the spread of disease. Sisters also took plastic scraps unable to be crafted into mats and made sure they were properly recycled.

Dream Weavers was only in its initial stages of development when it gained attention and support from the University of Maryland Sustainability and Recycling Department, the National Coalition for the Homeless, and the Maryland Department of Fraternity and Sorority Life who worked with Alexandra to establish a larger-scale initiative. The project was featured in a front- page article in the university’s student newspaper and appeared on the Sigma Kappa national website. As part of a university-sponsored event to support recycling, Alexandra announced the project and its expansion to the campus community. She teamed up with the university’s Facilities Management department to set up five recycling collection containers for plastic bags around campus to be used for the project. Beta Zeta hopes to further continue its Dream Weavers project in the future through support from the university’s surrounding community.

Zeta Pi, Colorado School of Mines Golden, Colorado – The Zeta Pi Chapter is lucky to have a sister who has exemplified strength, courage and sisterhood this year. Sarah Steers is a junior studying biochemical engineering and hopes to work in the field of cancer research. She was diagnosed with thyroid cancer in March 2014. However, cancer did not stop Sarah! She continued with her studies and joined Sigma Kappa in August of 2014.

In March 2015, Sarah went into isolation for a weekend to finish off her cancer treatment with a treatment of radioactive iodine. Zeta Pi members showed their support by posting photos to Facebook of themselves holding signs that said “Fight Cancer!” Within one week, not only had every chapter member posted a “Fight Cancer” photo, the entire Colorado School of Mines community became involved. Students from other sororities and fraternities posted photos, as well as groups from other organizations on campus. The amount of support for Sarah was overwhelming.

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Two weeks after her radiation treatment, Sarah ran the Zion Half Marathon at Zion National Park in Utah. This was Sarah’s first half marathon, and she finished in 3 hours and 42 minutes. Sarah also set up a team for the Colorado School of Mines Relay For Life event. Relay for Life is a national fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. Students walk all night to raise money for the ACS. The Zeta Pi relay team has raised over $500 for the cause. Sarah is now cancer free. She has been an inspiration to the Zeta Pi sisters and has reminded us of the importance of sisterhood.

Beta Omega, University of Nebraska at Omaha Omaha, Nebraska – The Beta Omega Chapter prides itself on its commitment to Sigma Kappa Sorority’s five philanthropies. One of their favorite ways to get involved with these causes is to play bingo at one of their local long-term care facilities, which specializes in caring for those with Alzheimer’s disease and dementia.

Once a month, many of the members gather at the Waterford Assisted Living facility to play bingo and talk with some of their residents. They get the opportunity to listen to them tell stories about their lives, children, careers and anything else they can think of. As the sisters sit there listening, they gain an entirely new perspective on life as the residents help them realize how much life still has to offer, and how much living there is to be done.

They often meet many of the same residents each time they come to bingo, and although they often don’t remember the sister, the sisters remember them, their stories, their lives, their hobbies, and they grow closer and closer to the residents with each visit. Visiting these residents is about much more than fulfilling philanthropy requirements; it is about building a bond with some of the most incredible people the members have ever met and growing to be better people from the experience.

The chapter members cherish these special moments they have with the residents and treasure the incredible stories and memories they’ve gained from the experience. Beta Omega is grateful to each of these residents for helping the members grow and better themselves. The impact they’ve had on the sisters is absolutely indescribable.

Epsilon Mu, University of Missouri Columbia, Missouri – Members of Epsilon Mu, University of Missouri, raised more than $10,000 in March during their Ultra Violet Campaign. The weeklong campaign consisted of profit shares at local restaurants, canning, Sigma Kappatizers (a late-night appetizer event held at the house) and Field Day with Sigma K. They had fun sharing Sigma Kappa’s philanthropies with the Mizzou community.

The week began with profit shares at Shakespeare’s, Yogoluv, Jamba Juice and Panda Express. Sisters and friends gathered to eat, spend time together, and support Sigma Kappa Sorority’s philanthropies.

More than 1,000 people from across campus gathered at the Sigma Kappa Sorority house for yummy appetizers and desserts Thursday night. Sigma Kappatizers offered toasted ravioli, jalapeño cheese poppers, French fries, mac & cheese bites,

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and a variety of desserts for only $6. It was a night filled with food, trivia, friends and philanthropy.

“It was so great to see women getting really excited about pulling people into the house and raising money for our philanthropy,” Chapter President Lindsay Gloor said.

Sisters gathered at Stankowski Field for Field Day with Sigma K on Friday afternoon. Eleven fraternities and two sororities competed in games such as limbo, egg races, a hula-hoop contest, and clothing relays. Sisters also sold hot dogs and snacks at the field to raise extra money.

Vice President of Philanthropic Service Frannie Jones worked closely with the Alzheimer’s Association, encouraging her to continue her work in the chapter. “My biggest inspiration for this position came from working with the Greater Missouri Chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association,” Frannie said. “They have been extremely welcoming to us and helped us reach our goals and become the top fundraising team in the nation for the past two years. Alzheimer’s disease needs to be noticed and given better funding, so I have grown to have a deep appreciation for everything that the Alzheimer’s Association does,” Frannie said.

Upsilon, Oregon State University Corvallis, Oregon – The Upsilon Chapter is all about magnifying the individuality of each member and supporting what makes each woman unique. Last semester, the chapter participated in a new sisterhood event put together by Sisterhood Chair Jamie Jensen. They each decorated a puzzle piece that was eventually put together to create a picture and metaphorical depiction of how the women come together perfectly as a chapter even though they are all different.

There were no guidelines to decorating the puzzle pieces. The only instruction was to decorate the puzzle piece how you wished. With 114 women in the chapter, there were many different styles, pictures and designs that were completed. No piece was identical to another, and in turn they showed how unique and diverse the chapter is. After seeing all the pieces the individual members completed, it was interesting to see what they chose to display on their puzzle piece. Not only were members able to see the end result of the puzzle that the chapter worked on as a whole, but they also learned about their sisters’ interests that they might not have previously known.

Although this was a small sisterhood activity, and may not seem like much, it was a great way to display how unique the chapter is and to take the time to all come together, even with busy schedules. They were able to learn about sisters’ interests and what they thought displayed them best. It was also fun to guess who made what piece and see how well the sisters knew each other. Hopefully this will become a tradition within the Upsilon Chapter, and the puzzle can grow and change as the chapter does over the years.

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Gamma Upsilon, California University of Pennsylvania California, Pennsylvania – This past semester was an important one for the sisters of Gamma Upsilon. The chapter has recently focused on improving the sisterhood within their own chapter.

While sisterhood has always been important to the chapter, more recently, Sisterhood Chair Shannon Harris has been focusing on making the chapter closer as a whole. Some of the weekly traditions the chapter includes are: weekly sister appreciation letters, sisterhood bracelets, and “Sister of the Week.” Every week, each sister picks another sister’s name randomly out of a box and writes that sister a letter explaining why she is thankful for and appreciative of her. The “Sister of the Week” is the sister the chapter felt embodied Sigma Kappa’s values and the spirit of sisterhood that week. The “Sister of the Week” is recognized with her photo on the chapter’s social media accounts. The sisterhood bracelet is a bracelet that was handmade by a chapter member, and each week at chapter, the bracelet is given to a sister of the current bracelet-holder’s choosing. Each of these acts has brought the chapter together, and the chapter’s sisterhood has strengthened as a result.

Gamma Upsilon also held a few sisterhood retreats that Shannon put together to help wind down the semester. The first trip was to a showing of “The Vagina Monologues” as a chapter to support Taylor Brenner, Lisa Lujetic and Peyton Longhurst, who had roles in the performance. Most recently, the chapter took a trip to SkyZone and bonded while enjoying themselves at the trampoline park.

Zeta Zeta, Wellesley, Massachusetts – Last semester, the women of the Zeta Zeta Chapter hosted the annual American Red Cross Blood Drive as part of the chapter’s service events. After weeks of planning and coordinating, the chapter was able to host a successful blood drive with the help of the college and the American Red Cross administrative staff. Under the leadership of Vice President of Philanthropic Service Rebecca Jacobs, the collegians enthusiastically volunteered their time to assist with numerous aspects of the event from facilitating the event marketing, working the registration desk the day of the drive, and donating blood. The blood drive attracted numerous participants from the Babson community and over 28 units of blood were collected. The chapter introduced 12 first-time donors to the American Red Cross Society. The chapter invited the Red Cross CEO of the Massachusetts and Connecticut region, Babson alumnus Jeff Meyer, to make an appearance at the blood drive, which he gladly accepted.

In addition to the American Red Cross Blood Drive, the chapter also hosted a clothing drive – aptly named Spring Kleaning with Sigma Kappa – for the month of March. The chapter collected one full recycling bin of gently used articles of clothing to be donated to the Maine Sea Coast Mission. Sisters not only donated clothing to the drive, but also helped to sort, organize and fold the items to be donated. The event upheld the core value of service to Sigma Kappa Sorority and the clothing sort helped bring the chapter women closer together.

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1. Central Iowa Alumnae Chapter members enjoyed a 3. Founded in Fall 2014, the South Coast Metro great time together at their fi rst SK Alumnae Getaway, (California) Alumnae Chapter has hit the ground held at the Alpha Epsilon Chapter house at Iowa State running with fun and exciting events including University. They gathered at the house to see building monthly Brunch Bunch gatherings, regular sporting improvements then enjoyed dinner downtown before events to cheer on favorite teams, and the fi rst staying overnight at the chapter house. Southern California Sisterhood Day at Disneyland 2. Members of the Richmond (Virginia) Alumnae Chapter with more than 20 sisters from area chapters enjoyed a variety of fun activities including monthly attending. dinners, a sisterhood cookout and a night of bowling.

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4. Orange County (California) Alumnae gathered to 6. In April, the La Jolla (California) Alumnae Chapter enjoy a post Valentine’s Day treat: The annual Wine gathered at Lake Calavera Trails in Carlsbad, California and Chocolate Soiree. Members sampled wines for breakfast and a four-mile hike up a 22 million- accompanied by delicious chocolate treats, then bid year-old volcanic plug. on their favorite wine at the end of the evening. 5. Members of the Chicago South Suburban Alumnae Chapter joined together for a buffet dinner and new offi cer installation this past May.

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7. On May 30, Sigma Kappa alumna Dr. Rhea Seddon, 8. Sierra Nevada (Nevada) alumnae celebrated the Lambda, was inducted into the Astronaut Hall of Kentucky Derby in style and enjoyed mint juleps and Fame, at the Kennedy Space Center in Florida. Five appetizers at a favorite Reno eatery. Friendly wagers Sigma Kappa sisters from the Central Florida Alumnae were made among sisters! Chapter proudly cheered and supported her with a 9. The San Fernando Valley (California) Alumnae Chapter custom banner, and received a copy of Rhea’s book honored their 25- and 50-year members at a luncheon about her days in space to take home. [Ed. note: Rhea this past March. will be profiled in a feature story in the Autumn issue of the Sigma Kappa Triangle.]

Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 32 33 Sigma Kappa Triangle | Summer 2015 IN MEMORIAM: JEAN BENDSLEV TEARE, 1927-2015

Sigma Kappa mourns the loss of longtime national volunteer Jean Bendslev Teare, Beta Upsilon, Ohio University, who passed away on May 20. Jean served the Sigma Kappa Foundation on the Board of Trustees from 1992-2000, as secretary from 1994-1998, and as president from 1998-2000. She also served as Sorority director of expansion from 1980-1982 and Sigma Kappa Triangle editor from 1975- 1980. Jean was 87 years old.

Jean was initiated into the Beta Upsilon Chapter in 1950 and earned her B.S. in Journalism from Ohio University. After college, she was employed by the Wheeling (WV) News Register and the Intelligencer as a reporter and feature writer and later served as editor of the Cape Coral Breeze in Cape Coral, Florida. She also covered the West Virginia legislature. Jean was married in 1950 to John Miller Coleman, a partner in the Coleman Laboratories in Wheeling, who was the father of her three daughters, Connie Coleman Cowden, Catherine A. Coleman, and Christina Coleman Strickland, Epsilon Epsilon, University of Georgia. She later married Paul L. Teare in 1976, a lawyer in Wheeling and later a reserve offi cer in the U.S. Navy. Commander Teare was recalled to duty in 1979, and eventually posted to San Juan, Puerto Rico, where the couple resided until 1995, when they moved to Decatur, Georgia. There they were longtime, active members of Clairmont Presbyterian Church.

IN MEMORIAM: MARY LOU BAKER LISTON, 1920-2015

Longtime Sigma Kappa national volunteer Mary Louise Baker Liston, Xi, University of Kansas, passed away on May 25. She served as Sigma Kappa’s National Panhellenic Conference (NPC) Second Alternate Delegate for 20 years, from 1964-1984. During her tenure on NPC, she served on the College Panhellenics committee and was involved with two revisions of the Manual of Information. Mary Lou was 94 years old.

Mary Lou was born in Topeka in 1920 and was initiated into the Xi Chapter in 1939. She married Darrel Liston in 1941 and graduated in 1942 with a degree in home economics. She and Darrel had four children, James, Jonathan, William and Libby, and were married for 65 years before Darrel’s death in 2006. Mary Lou was an avid KU basketball fan throughout her life in addition to being a 75-year member of Sigma Kappa and a member of the Grand Chapter of Kansas Order of the Eastern Star. She was an active member of her church, taught Sunday school and bible school, was a substitute teacher at R.L. Turner High School in Carrollton, Texas, and served as a den mother for her three sons in the Boy Scouts.

NPC Vice Chairman Donna Crain King, Epsilon Rho, stated, “Mary Lou will be remembered lovingly for her faithful service to both the National Panhellenic Conference and Sigma Kappa during challenging times in history. The impact of her Panhellenic work, and friendships forged, has left a legacy for generations of Panhellenic women.”

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Delta, Boston University Alpha Gamma, Washington State Beta Iota, Carnegie-Mellon University Gamma Zeta, Northern Illinois Ruth Butterfield Leaf, April 18, 2009 University Agnes Agnello Dunning, September 23, University Harriett Somervell Peters, December 2014 Joyce Heinlen Mackey, June 22, 2015 Zeta, The George Washington 02, 2014 Caroline Deval Shaffer, November 23, University Lenora Groesbeck Walters, May 26, 2015 2014 Gamma Eta, Gay Yocum Marvin, January 12, 2015 Agnes King Rud, May 07, 2015 Marjorie Rhodes Townsend, April 04, Alpha Epsilon, Beta Kappa, Colorado State University Patricia Swander Wallar, March 10, 2015 2015 Doris Adams, March 05, 2014 Mary McCart Allen, November 01, 2012 Norma Hayes Chain, February 01, 2013 Virginia Wilson Olcott, October 14, 2014 Gamma Iota, Texas Tech University Eta, Illinois Wesleyan University Marilyn Baker Froman, November 06, Carol Hanks Khougaz, January 10, 2015 Wilma Schausten Goff, December 13, 2011 Beta Lambda, Utah State University 2014 Suzanne Horgen, April 23, 2015 Gloria Pappas Skanchy, February 22, 2015 Gamma Kappa, Southern Illinois University Theta, University of Illinois at Urbana- Alpha Zeta, Cornell University Beta Mu, Culver-Stockton College Sandra Erickson Podlasek, April 28, 2015 Champaign Jean Boyd Search, January 13, 2015 Sherry Stein Bradley, May 23, 2004 Kay Robinson Adams, May 16, 2015 Gamma Chi, Stephen F. Austin Lorraine Ranstead Schutz, December Alpha Eta, University of Minnesota Beta Nu, University 01, 2012 Jo Anne Eaton Ruby, March 25, 2015 Evelyn Strassburger Voss, February 16, Kaaran Randall Martin, July 27, 2014 2010 Lambda, University of California- Alpha Theta, University of Louisville Delta Alpha, Eastern Michigan Berkeley Margaret Kaiser, October 13, 2014 Beta Xi, University of Memphis University Patsy Smith White, February 09, 2014 Mary Gavin Stone, May 31, 2012 Patty Futrell Murphy, January 05, 2015 Carol Gibson Carolan, February 21, 2015 Wilma Wolf Wilson, no date available Carol Barnett McCarthy, April 10, 2015 Mu, University of Washington Alpha Iota, Miami University Elizabeth Harris Yarbrough, April 04, 2011 Helen Doyle Ingman, May 12, 2015 Marian Schneider Crider, April 23, 2015 Delta Kappa, Black Hills State Dorothy Martin Mabie, August 31, 2014 Beta Rho, San Jose State University University Alpha Mu, University of Michigan Gena Lee Harry, July 31, 2012 Carol Milne Pudwill, no date available Xi, University of Kansas Karen Kanekeberg Britton, May 05, 2015 Mary Baker Liston, May 25, 2015 Beta Sigma, Purdue University Delta Lambda, Marietta Rettig Messer, May 19, 2015 Alpha Nu, University of Montana Doris Roberts Benko, December 15, 2014 Virginia Nunneley Bates, May 08, 2015 Helen Naylor Minniear, September 25, Ruby Plummer Wood, March 16, 2014 Dorothy Dunsworth Griffith, November 2008 Margorie Fryberger Burns, July 07, 2013 28, 2010 Delta Rho, James Madison University Barbara White Reed, January 09, 2011 Barbara Conklin Teter, July 16, 2015 Ruth Murphy West, September 26, 2014 Alpha Omicron, University of Beta Tau, Sara Black Whitaker, January 12, 2014 California, Los Angeles Joan Goddard Fluker, July 15, 2015 , University of Central Claire Newman Slaton, May 29, 2015 Gayle Harris Lindsay, June 18, 2015 Missouri Sigma, Southern Methodist University Betty Collins Nichols, February 19, 2014 Rigsby Hunt Daniel, December 31, 2012 Earline Smith Malloy, May 12, 2015 Beta Upsilon, Ohio University Christy Frazier, June 03, 2015 Alpha Pi, Ohio Wesleyan University Lois Johnson Bowen, June 06, 2015 Tau, Indiana University Rhea Spencer Moss, April 01, 2015 Jean Bendslev Teare, May 19, 2015 Delta Omega, Waynesburg College Barbara Ayers Anderson, April 20, 2015 Rita Barclay Nichols, November 03, 2006 Shirley Schifferdecker Commons, April Alpha Sigma, Westminster College Beta Chi, University of California, Santa 07, 2015 Helen Nicely Clark, March 01, 2015 Barbara Epsilon Epsilon, University of Georgia Maryjoe Perkins Graves, no date Katherine Ludeman Stearns, January 15, Barbara Harrison Bright, May 08, 2015 Julia Osborn, April 28, 2015 available 2015 Carole Owens Isaacs, January 11, 2012 Gamma Alpha, University of Northern Epsilon Sigma, Armstrong State Alpha Tau, Michigan State University Colorado University Upsilon, Oregon State University Joan Wenzel Squire, April 21, 2014 Sharon Berg Lunde, February 24, 2015 Martha Tison Youngblood, February 16, Jeanette Greeb Donovan, March 02, 2015 2014 Mary McNabb Lauersen, January 31, 2015 Alpha Phi, University of Oregon Gamma Beta, Western Michigan Shirley Hunt Young, July 04, 2015 Pat Carson Durkee, April 30, 2015 University Theta Rho, University of Kentucky Virginia Alley Rutt, February 27, 2013 Susan DeCrick Buxton, April 14, 2015 Karen Sanders Dezarn, March 20, 2014 Psi, University of Wisconsin Nancy Kutzner Fidler, June 05, 2015 Beta Eta, University of Massachusetts Gamma Gamma, Indiana State Carol Muenster Leu, November 29, 2010 Margaret Peters Davis, March 25, 2015 University Marilyn Asbell Hays, February 21, 2015 Omega, Florida State University Beta Theta, Carol Perkins Laney, April 11, 2015 Sherry Whitley Cannon, March 29, 2015 Josephine Weber Hune, May 16, 2015 Lenora Dale Rock, October 31, 2014 Mary Muscari Schultheis, April 21, 2015 Gamma Delta, Carolyn Brien Schaaf, September 12, 2011 Marjorie Brandon Beecher, April 26, 2015 Alpha Beta, University of Buffalo Carolyn Thieme-Busch, March 28, 2015 Barbara Hubbard Casten, November 17, 2013

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