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AUG/SEPT 2017 magazine Relationships Table of Contents 4 16 www.ggmg.org Letter from the Editor: The Health Benefits of Social The Ties That Bind Relationships Forging new relationships, redefining What happens when we replace face time BOARD OF DIRECTORS the old with FaceTime? Chair Cathy Tran Sonya Abrams Catherine Symon Vice Chair Sasha Fahimi Secretary Kristen Marsh 20 Treasurer Kristen McGuire Community Support Corinna Lu Letter from the Board: Helping Children Make External Communications Addie Bjornsen Fresh Starts for Fall Friendships Across Difference Internal Communications Virginia Green Events, deals, and discounts for the new How we can all just get along Kids Events Emily Jenks school year Jennifer Kuhr Butterfoss Member Engagement Karen Brein Sasha Fahimi Operations Laura Kim 24 Parent Education Rebecca Andersen Partnerships Shikha Goyal-Allain 6 Back to School Shopping Backpacks, lunchboxes, and labels Technology Sarah Soto Out and About Outside Eats Shaheen Bilgrami Arwen Griffith COMMITTEES Li’l Kid, Big City: Mission Bay 26 Jenny Shaw Careers and Entrepreneurs Operations Ins and Outs with the In-Laws Community Support Parent Education Not Quite Off-the-Grid Getaways Stories from the other side Diversity & Inclusion Partnerships Sonya Abrams Arwen Griffith Just for Moms Playgroups Kids Activities PR/Marketing Magazine Recruiting 8 39 Integrative Medicine Membership Social Events Ask the Expert: Your Relation- I ♥ Mom: Thicker Than Blood Web Team ship with Your Post Baby Body Redefining what makes a family Caring for your body during and after Sandy Woo pregnancy for Kids MAGAZINE Wendy Shaw Dahl Editor-in-Chief Sonya Abrams GGMG at Work Managing Editor Megan Bushnell 10 Senior Editor Jenny Shaw 4 We don’t just talk the talk, we walk the walk. Dadlands: Starring: Us Housekeeping Art Director JoJo Rhee Chevalier Sustaining your relationship with Our care is one-of-a kind. We offer newborn house calls. storytelling We don't just treat symptoms. We aim for We show you the ABCs of infant care in Writers Stephanie AuWerter, Shaheen Bilgrami, 9 Jennifer Butterfoss, Tara Hardesty, Laure Latham, Jon Rahoi Drives & Forum Tips total wellness by treating your child from your home and offer expert breastfeeding Catherine Symon the inside out. support. Copy Editors Sarah Brandstetter, Emily deGrassi, Anna Gracia, 15 Arwen Griff ith, Neha Masson, Sandy Woo 12 We educate before we vaccinate. New Arrivals & Volunteer of the Month We are what we eat. Advertising Sherri Howe Books for Kids: We believe nutrition and functional We teach you about immunization options Travel Around the World and create a vaccination plan that is right Designers Juliana Egley, Jessica Franklin, 32 medicine are powerful ingredients for Lani Schreibstein, Lora Tomova Take flight without leaving home GGMG Events growing kids. for your baby. Photographers Jill Baker, Petra Cross, Laure Latham We’re always here. Anna Psalmond, Aviva Roller 34 We find the right remedy. Committee Updates We gladly offer safe alternatives to Your GetzWell pediatrician is available 14 24/7. Just call or email. We’ll answer. antibiotics when appropriate. For information regarding how to advertise in this magazine, From Womb to World: contact [email protected]. Pregnancy and Friendships For questions or comments regarding magazine content, Maintaining friendships post-baby GetzWell Pediatrics contact [email protected]. For questions or comments regarding all other aspects of GGMG, Jennifer Kuhr Butterfoss including how to advertise an event to our membership, Cover Photo by Jill Baker Photography 415.826.1701 WWW.GETZWELL.COM 1701 CHURCH STREET & 1800 UNION STREET SAN FRANCISCO please contact [email protected]. Cover models: Charlie (4.5), Lila (4.5) Letter from the Editor: Letter from the Board: The Ties That Bind Fresh Starts for Fall By Sonya Abrams By Sasha Fahimi illeted and stunned and quiet. He began to figure me out as well, discovering what got t’s hard to believe that another summer has passed and the playspace at designated after having my attention and how to best make his case for whatever urge fall season is upon us. For some, children are headed to a times and $100 off any delivered my first needed satisfying. new school or back to their old school for another year. For exclusive party package. child via emergency As our relationship deepened and grew in intensity, the other Hewitt Photography Hewitt F others, the school selection process is just beginning. Recess also offers c-section, I held my wriggling, relationships in my life were changing quickly. Parenthood sent a I For those of you who will be embarking on the challenge of complimentary access to wide-eyed, cone-headed shock wave through my marriage, bringing both new highs and preschool selection, I am so excited to announce that this year their playspace at designated baby and felt…nothing. Like new lows as my husband and I learned to relate to each other GGMG will be hosting the Preschool Preview Night, with the times, a special discounted most expectant parents, I’d from within our new identities as parents. My social world support of Parents Place. At this all-in-one evening for parents of rate on playspace day passes, assumed that my bond with scrambled and re-ordered itself as well. I entered the mom-friend young children, you can meet and talk with representatives from and $5 off parent workshops. my son would be dating world, trawling for connections at meetups, playground more than 50 local preschools and get answers to questions With UrbanSitter, all GGMG instantaneous, a gauzy play dates, and coffee hours with neighbors. After casting a wide Sharing a home with three kids under 6 years about school philosophies, costs, schedules, pre-admission visits, members receive 35 percent old, three cats, a dog, and a husband, Sonya has Gerber commercial with coos net, I established a solid community, and as our family enters new Sasha practices family law at DeLacey, Riebel & and more. You’ll have the opportunity to meet representatives off fees (excluding a lot of relationships to manage. In her spare and laughter around an schools and activities, new layers of friendships and community Shindell. She is mom to rambunctious Mila and her time she—wait, she has no spare time. from a diverse group of family-focused organizations and learn babysitting fees) and new rescue pup, Norman Joe Biden Fahimi. She and her improbably clean kitchen have been woven into our lives. husband love to take the kids hiking and spend as about their programs, services, and products. The fun will take users of UrbanSitter receive a table. Yet here was this tiny creature who had lived inside me, In this issue, we take a look at how we make sense of and much time outdoors as possible. place at the Hall of Flowers on September 28, and this event is $50 credit. looked like me, and was in fact 50 percent me, but I didn’t know navigate the relationships that enrich, and occasionally derail, free for GGMG members, so make sure to register if you haven’t This is just a small selection of the member perks offered by him at all. We appraised each other with equally dazed expressions, our lives. Taking this examination down to the molecular level, on already! our partners and volunteers receive additional perks on top of realizing that we’d need to figure out this new reality together. page 16, Catherine Symon describes how social needs are In addition to the Preschool Preview Night, Parents Place will these! Please go to ggmg.org and check under Member Perks for As I fumbled around the rituals of parenthood, I focused on hardwired in us, and warns that a lack of meaningful relationships also be hosting a class on how to choose a preschool for GGMG more information. building a relationship with my baby. Over time, his amorphous can have devastating effects on our health and well-being. parents, at a discounted rate. This class will take place on Jennifer Kuhr Butterfoss takes a look at friendship in school on September 13, with a goal of helping parents feel more confident Parenthood sent a shock wave through my page 20, and offers advice to help children make meaningful [T]his year GGMG will be hosting the Preschool in reviewing and identifying the preschool that is the right fit for connections with people who may look or act a little different Preview Night, with the support of Parents Place. marriage, bringing both new highs and new lows their family. from themselves. On page 14, she also offers tips to keep We have also recently renewed our contracts with our partners Want to give feedback about GGMG's partners or anything else? as my husband and I learned to relate to each friendships strong after making the leap into motherhood. Sandy to bring you all some wonderful deals and discounts, including GGMG's annual survey will also be live as of August 1. Be sure to Woo keeps it all in the family on page 39 with a discussion of the other from within our new identities as parents. one free three-pass card to the JCC’s KinderFunKlub program, 10 fill it out and enter your email address to win a Nob Hill Spa gift fictive relationships that provided a rich source of love and percent off its camps, 2 single day passes to the fitness facility, certificte: http://tinyurl.com/GGMG2017. newborn quality dissolved and he began to take shape, a tiny support during a childhood that sometimes seemed unmoored. and 50 percent off the first three months of group swim lessons. human with a big personality bursting through. I learned his And on page 26, Arwen Griffith mines the GGMG membership for At Peekadoodle, we have complimentary access to their likes—3 a.m.