THE LIFE OF 1815–42

The Darling family

Grace Horsley Darling was born on 24 November 1815 in her grandfather’s cottage in , . She was the seventh child of nine, and the fourth daughter of William and Thomasin Darling. Horsley was her grandfather’s surname.

When Grace was 3 weeks old, she was taken to live at Brownsman Island, where her father was the keeper. The family had a small cottage attached to the island’s lighthouse and were the only people who lived on the island. Their cottage had no running water, but it had a pond and a walled garden where the family kept chickens and grew their own vegetables and flowers. They also caught fish and collected sea birds’ eggs. exposed to the full fury of the North Sea. It was a bleak and wild Unfortunately, the lighthouse at Brownsman Island was not environment where nothing would grow and no birds lived. in a good position for guiding ships past the dangerous rocks. So a new lighthouse was built at Longstone the furthest out Grace and her family spent most of their time on the ground of the . In 1826, when Grace was 10 years old, floor of the lighthouse. This large room, heated by a wood the Darling family moved to the new lighthouse. stove, was their kitchen and dining room as well as their living room. Above that, a spiral staircase led to three circular bedrooms, one above the other. Grace’s bedroom was on Grace’s home the third floor. The top level had the lantern, which warned ships of the dangerous rocks all around. The lantern was Grace’s family lived inside the . It was 25m above the sea. built on bare rock just over 1m above water at high tide and Outside, there was a boathouse for their coble (boat) and an oil store. Although barrels of drinking water were shipped in from the mainland, rainwater was collected in tanks underground. A pump brought water from the tanks into the kitchen.

William Darling taught all his children to read, write and do arithmetic. He also taught them geography and history. Grace and her sisters learned to knit, spin, sew and cook and, like all lighthouse keepers’ children, they helped to look after the lighthouse. Grace at work

The work was hard. Every day William had to polish the brass reflectors and clean the lamps and windows of the lighthouse lantern. He had to check the wicks and make sure there was enough oil in the lamps. Other duties included making detailed recordings of the tides and making sure the lighthouse was kept in good repair.

Grace was kept busy all day with her studies, needlework and keeping the house clean and tidy. Sometimes, when her brothers were not around, she would help her father when he went out in the boat. Grace also took her turn at the top of the lighthouse keeping watch, day and night, for ships in trouble at sea.

From her lookout post at the top of the lighthouse, Grace saw many ships passing by. She loved to watch the great sailing ships on a fine day. As she grew older, she saw a At 4.45am Grace saw the wreck, but it was not until 7am that different type of ship. These new boats had short masts and it was bright enough to see survivors moving on Big Harcar rock. funnels, which let out clouds of black William Darling thought that conditions would prevent the smoke. They were paddle steamers, launching of the lifeboat so he would have run by steam engines. to go himself. The only one who could help him was Grace.

By the time Grace was 19 years old, all Grace took blankets with her to warm the survivors. The tide but one of her brothers and sisters had and wind were so strong that they had to row for nearly a left home to marry or to work on the mile to avoid the jagged rocks and reach the survivors safely. mainland. Only she and her 16-year-old brother William Brooks stayed. There were nine people still alive on the rocks but the coble could only take five in the first rescue. William leapt out of the boat and on to the rocks, which left Grace to handle the boat alone. To keep it in one place, she had to take both oars The rescue and row backwards and forwards, trying to keep it from being smashed on the reef. On 5 September 1838 the steamship set off from Hull to Dundee. Her cargo included cloths, soap, On the rocks, William found eight men, including one who hardware, boiler plate and spinning gear. She also carried was badly injured. There was also a woman holding two about 60 crew and passengers. children, both of whom had died. Grace’s father and three of the men rowed the boat back to the lighthouse, taking with them Grace, the injured man and the woman.

Grace stayed at the lighthouse and looked after the survivors with her mother. Her father and two of the Forfarshire crew returned for the other four men.

Nine other people had survived. When the stern of the ship was swept away, eight of the crew and one passenger managed to scramble into the ship’s lifeboat. They were rescued by a sloop from Montrose and taken to that same night.

The next day, the ship’s boiler began to leak. On the morning of 7 September the engine stopped. The Forfarshire began to drift. Suddenly, at about 4am, there was a great crash as the steamship hit Big Harcar rock. There was no time to call the passengers from their cabins and get them into the boats.

Within 15 minutes the ship had broken in two. The back half was swept away and sank, with more than 48 people onboard.

That night, only Grace and her parents were in the lighthouse. A fierce storm was blowing, with huge waves battering the lighthouse walls. Grace in the limelight

Soon the story of the wreck and the daring rescue was on the However, Grace did not enjoy all this attention. She found front pages of all the newspapers. Grace Darling became a that writing thank-you letters and sitting for portraits left heroine. Everyone wanted to know all about her, especially her little time to get on with her life. what she looked like. Since there were no cameras in those days, many artists visited the lighthouse to paint Grace’s In April 1842, only 4 years after the famous rescue, Grace portrait. For years after the rescue, the lighthouse was became ill with tuberculosis. This serious disease was very busy with visitors who wanted to see the famous Darling common in the 19th century and killed many people. Grace father and daughter. Grace was sent hundreds of letters realised she did not have long to live so, with her family gathered and presents. She was often asked for a lock of her hair. around her, she gave them each something from her collection of medals and presents. On 20 October, Grace died. The funeral Both Grace and her father were awarded gold in Bamburgh was very grand. Hundreds of people, rich and poor, medals from the Royal Humane Society, crowded the little Northumberland village to say goodbye. and Silver Medals for Gallantry from the Two years later, a memorial to Grace was put up in St Aidan’s National Institution for the Preservation churchyard in Bamburgh. of Life from Shipwreck (now the Royal National Lifeboat Institution). Even Queen Victoria sent her £50. The RNLI Grace Darling Museum Opening times

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