Even the Sea Monsters Draw out the Breast, They Give Suck to Their Young Ones: the Daughter of My People Is Become Cruel, Like the Ostriches in the Wilderness

Total Page:16

File Type:pdf, Size:1020Kb

Even the Sea Monsters Draw out the Breast, They Give Suck to Their Young Ones: the Daughter of My People Is Become Cruel, Like the Ostriches in the Wilderness On the Supposed Responsibility to Breastfeed from Moral Concerns Even the sea monsters draw out the breast, they give suck to their young ones: the daughter of my people is become cruel, like the ostriches in the wilderness. - Lamentations 4:3, KJV “Are you planning to breastfeed?” Every pregnant person gets this question – from doctors, from friends and co-workers. I did. Those asking aren’t generally just making small talk. They often have very strong opinions about and reactions to one’s answer. And these opinions are not limited to individual busybodies. Well-funded government and non-profit campaigns publish blogs and books; scientific and popular journals continuously generate articles on breastfeeding’s effects; moms worldwide chronicle their views on forums like Babycenter.com; self-described “lactivists” stage nurse-ins; while other feminists rail against the shame and guilt they claim are used to pressure moms to nurse babies. The buzz over breastfeeding is pervasive, to say the least, prompting article titles like Emily Oster’s 2015 “Everybody Calm Down About Breastfeeding.”1 But why all the buzz? Clearly, breastfeeding is not “just” a lifestyle choice. Planning to breastfeed or not is not like planning to go to the beach vs. the mountains for your next vacation. People think it matters (a lot!) whether moms breastfeed. I want to suggest, along with some other philosophers who have written about the topic recently2, that people are abuzz about the moral status of breastfeeding – is it morally required? Do moms have a duty to try to breastfeed? Is breastfeeding morally virtuous – that is, is it a morally valuable and admirable practice if not strictly a required one? Can a truly good and loving mom use formula, even if she has the option of breastfeeding? People are also abuzz about the morality of our collective breastfeeding conversation – for example, is it morally okay to use shame to influence moms to make decisions that benefit society? But I’m going to focus for the most part on questions about the moral status of breastfeeding itself. I’m going to suggest that although society believes moms have a responsibility to breastfeed, we’re wrong about that. And some of the strongest objections to this supposed responsibility have historical roots in moral philosophy. 1. The dominant narrative I’m going to refer to the claim that moms have a moral responsibility to try to breastfeed because it’s better for their babies, as the dominant narrative. I call it a narrative because it’s part of the story we tell each other about what being a good mom looks like. I call it dominant because, well, it is tacitly endorsed by all mainstream popular and professional organizations that inform parenting decisions, and it’s been pretty thoroughly internalized by millions of moms. But for those unfamiliar with the breastfeeding buzz, it may be helpful to review some of the messages moms receive and the impact those seem to have. The dominant narrative really is dominant. 1 https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/everybody-calm-down-about-breastfeeding/ 2 See, e.g., Overall and Bernard (2012) “Into the Mouths of Babes: The Moral Responsibility to Breastfeed,” Philosophical Inquiries into Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Mothering, eds. S. Lintott and M. Sander-Staudt, New York: Routledge; Woollard and Porter (2017) “Breastfeeding and defeasible duties to benefit,” Journal of Medical Ethics, 43(8): 515-518; REDACTED 1 Let’s start with reputable medical and scientific organizations. The American American Academy of Pediatrics3 claims that “Breastfeeding and human milk are the normative standards for infant feeding and nutrition.”4 Why? The AAP policy continues: “Given the documented short- and long-term medical and neurodevelopmental advantages of breastfeeding, infant nutrition should be considered a public health issue and not only a lifestyle choice.” After a lengthy review of available data supporting the benefits of breastfeeding for babies, the policy concludes: Recently, published evidence-based studies have confirmed and quantitated the risks of not breastfeeding. Thus, infant feeding should not be considered as a lifestyle choice but rather as a basic health issue. Here it is claimed not only does breastfeeding benefit baby, but not breastfeeding risks harm to the baby. Again we see affirmed that breastfeeding is not a lifestyle choice but rather a “basic health issue.” It’s a short step from these claims to the claim that breastfeeding is a moral issue. Consider also the World Health Organization’s introduction to “10 facts about breastfeeding”: Breastfeeding is one of the most effective ways to ensure child health and survival. If breastfeeding were scaled up to near universal levels, about 820 000 child lives would be saved every year. Globally, only 40% of infants under six months of age are exclusively breastfed. WHO actively promotes breastfeeding as the best source of nourishment for infants and young children.5 The first “fact” about breastfeeding presented, then, is that “Breastfeeding for the first six months is crucial.” Indeed, the clear suggestion is that breastfeeding is crucial because breastfeeding could literally save your child’s life. No mention is made in this passage about the relevance of access to clean water for mixing formula, or about where or from what the estimated 820,000 child lives would be saved. The 40% global rate of compliance – which we are presumably meant to lament – is about three times higher than the current U.S. rate, which suggests that moms in the U.S. are far from off the hook but rather a major part of the (moral) problem. These messages are not isolated in think tanks or dusty clinical manuals. They make their way quickly to actual moms, in part via advice websites like babycenter.com, parents.com, whattoexpect.com, and americanpregnancy.com, each of which devote whole pages to the benefits of breastfeeding that focus mainly on benefits for the baby – clearly a morally weighty consideration. And these pale in comparison to the claims of more partisan pages that advocate breastfeeding, like kellymom.com, askdrsears.com, or La Leche League’s site. For example, Kellymom publishes an astoundingly long list of the “many benefits of breastfeeding,” including “cancer protection,” “less SIDS” (sudden infant death syndrome), and higher “intelligence.” And La Leche League incorporates the morality of breastfeeding into their “philosophy,” excerpted here: 3 The American Academy of Pediatrics was founded in 1930 and is currently an organization of 66,000 pediatricians. 4 “Breastfeeding and the Use of Human Milk,” Pediatrics (2012), http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/early/2012/02/22/peds.2011-3552 5 http://www.who.int/features/factfiles/breastfeeding/en/ Updated August 2017 2 “Mothering through breastfeeding is the most natural and effective way of understanding and satisfying the needs of the baby… In the early years the baby has an intense need to be with his mother which is as basic as his need for food. Human milk is the natural food for babies, uniquely meeting their changing needs.” From CDC “Healthy People” targets, to AAP “Health Initiatives,” to the advocacy of organizations like La Leche League and baby friendly hospitals, breastfeeding advocacy groups are vocal and powerful. And although the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force revised its 2016 recommendations to physicians, such that they now only ask physicians to “support,” rather than “promote and support” breastfeeding, many breastfeeding advocates are relatively unconcerned about even the explicit use of shame and guilt in campaigns. Consider an excerpt from “Breastfeeding and Guilt,” published on kellymom.com6: One of the most powerful arguments many health professionals, government agencies and formula company manufacturers make for not promoting and supporting breastfeeding is that we should “not make the mother feel guilty for not breastfeeding”. … It is, in fact, nothing more than a ploy. … If a pregnant woman went to her physician and admitted she smoked a pack of cigarettes, is there not a strong chance that she would leave the office feeling guilty for endangering her developing baby? … Given that this is the sort of information available to new moms, it is perhaps unsurprising that many who do not breastfeed do in fact feel guilty – or rather, perhaps, ashamed7 – having made that choice. One anonymous babycenter.com user writes: I found it excruciatingly painful to breastfeed my baby even though three lactation consultants told me I was doing everything right and my baby was latching on correctly. After a few weeks of crying more than my infant, I finally switched to formula. But now I'm consumed with guilt. Everywhere I look, even on formula packages, breastfeeding is touted as best. How can I make peace with my decision? (2002) Perhaps even more telling is the answer that babycenter.com ranks as second-“best,” which 473 users to date have found “helpful”: With my first, I was determined to the point of lunacy to breastfeed. I knew I couldn't handle the guilt if I didn't nurse… My daughter initially couldn't latch on … and as a result dropped down from 7 lbs to less than 5 1/2 lbs and was jaundiced. I refused to supplement, and somehow made it through her illness and my stress… With my second daughter, I endured cracked, sore bloody nipples, but managed to nurse her for a year… 6 https://kellymom.com/blog-post/breastfeeding-and-guilt/ 7 See Taylor and Wallace (2012) “For Shame: Feminism, Breastfeeding Advocacy, and Maternal Guilt,” Hypatia, 27(1): 76-98. 3 A chilling report, given that babies actually die when moms struggle to breastfeed and refuse to supplement.8 Yet these are not isolated, anecdotal sentiments. A 2009 review of 23 studies involving over 13,000 participants, attempting to understand parents’ experiences of bottle-feeding summarized: “Mothers who bottle-fed their babies experienced negative emotions such as guilt, anger, worry, uncertainty and a sense of failure.”9 Both the information available to moms and their reported experiences of infant feeding decisions support the dominance of what I’m calling the dominant narrative.
Recommended publications
  • The Key to Increasing Breastfeeding Duration: Empowering the Healthcare Team
    The Key to Increasing Breastfeeding Duration: Empowering the Healthcare Team By Kathryn A. Spiegel A Master’s Paper submitted to the faculty of the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill In partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of Master of Public Health in the Public Health Leadership Program. Chapel Hill 2009 ___________________________ Advisor signature/printed name ________________________________ Second Reader Signature/printed name ________________________________ Date The Key to Increasing Breastfeeding Duration 2 Abstract Experts and scientists agree that human milk is the best nutrition for human babies, but are healthcare professionals (HCPs) seizing the opportunity to promote, protect, and support breastfeeding? Not only are HCPs influential to the breastfeeding dyad, they hold a responsibility to perform evidence-based interventions to lengthen the duration of breastfeeding due to the extensive health benefits for mother and baby. This paper examines current HCPs‘ education, practices, attitudes, and extraneous factors to surface any potential contributing factors that shed light on necessary actions. Recommendations to empower HCPs to provide consistent, evidence-based care for the breastfeeding dyad include: standardized curriculum in medical/nursing school, continued education for maternity and non-maternity settings, emphasis on skin-to-skin, enforcement of evidence-based policies, implementation of ‗Baby-Friendly USA‘ interventions, and development of peer support networks. Requisite resources such as lactation consultants as well as appropriate medication and breastfeeding clinical management references aid HCPs in providing best practices to increase breastfeeding duration. The Key to Increasing Breastfeeding Duration 3 The key to increasing breastfeeding duration: Empowering the healthcare team During the colonial era, mothers breastfed through their infants‘ second summer.
    [Show full text]
  • Tips for Sore/Cracked Nipples
    Tips for Sore/Cracked Nipples Nipples can become sore and cracked due to many reasons such as a shallow latch, tongue-tie or other anatomical variations, thrush, a bite, milk blister, etc. Keep in mind that one of the most important factors in healing is to correct the source of the problem. Continue to work on correct latch and positioning, thrush treatment, etc. as you treat the symptoms, and talk to a board certified lactation consultant (IBCLC). During the nursing session • Breastfeed from the uninjured (or less injured) side first. Baby will tend to nurse more gently on the second side offered. • Experiment with different breastfeeding positions to determine which is most comfortable. • If breastfeeding is too painful, it is very important to express milk from the injured side to reduce the risk of mastitis and to maintain supply. Pump on a low setting. Salt water rinse after nursing This special type of salt water, called normal saline, has the same salt concentration as tears and should not be painful to use. To make your own normal saline solution: Mix 1/2 teaspoon of salt in one cup (8 oz) of warm water. Make a fresh supply each day to avoid bacterial contamination. • After breastfeeding, soak nipple(s) in a small bowl of warm saline solution for a minute or so–long enough for the saline to get onto all areas of the nipple. Avoid prolonged soaking (more than 5-10 minutes) that “super” hydrates the skin, as this can promote cracking and delay healing. • Pat dry very gently with a soft paper towel.
    [Show full text]
  • Position Latch Breastfeeding
    UW MEDICINE | PATIENT EDUCATION Full of format problems, sorry! This chapter has illustrations that need to be moved! | | Position and Latch for Breastfeeding | | Laid- back, cr oss-cradle, football, and side-lying positions This handout describes 4 positions for breastfeeding: laid-back, cross- cradle, football hold, and side-lying. Drawings are included to help you see the positions for you and your baby. Your nurses are also ready and happy to help you as needed. It is best for your baby’s first feeding to happen right after birth. That is when babies are usually awake and ready to discover your breast. It is easiest to position your baby at your breast without blankets. Your body will keep your baby DRAFTwarm. While you are still lying back in the delivery bed, you can gently put your baby on your abdomen with her face near your breast. Many babies will make movements toward your breast and even latch onto It is best for your baby’s first feeding your breast without much help. to happen right after birth. If you wish, you can lift your breast toward your baby and let your nipple touch your baby’s face. You will probably notice that your nipple stands out a bit. Your breast is getting ready for the feeding. Wait for your baby to open his mouth wide before bringing him to your breast. Many babies will then take hold and suck for several minutes. When your baby is latched onto your breast correctly, you will probably feel a strong pulling. Any discomfort should lessen after the first few sucks.
    [Show full text]
  • Preparing to Breastfeed Ome Women Wonder What They Need to Do • Room for Expansion
    Preparing to Breastfeed ome women wonder what they need to do • Room for expansion. Your breasts may go up a full cup during pregnancy to prepare for breastfeeding. size when your milk comes in. Actually, your body knows what to do. Lactation • Breathable fabrics are best while breastfeeding. S(milk production) naturally follows pregnancy. The • Consider buying only 1 or 2 bras during the final hormones produced during pregnancy prepare your weeks of pregnancy and waiting until a couple of breasts to make milk once your baby is born. The best weeks postpartum to add more to your wardrobe. preparation, and what most women need in order (A gift certificate for a new bra makes a great shower to breastfeed effectively, is accurate information and gift.) Many mothers-to-be like to know that their someone to provide support and encouragement. breast size will settle into a moderately larger size after about three months. During Pregnancy At one time a great deal of emphasis was placed on Concerns About Nipple Size or Shape preparing your nipples during pregnancy. However, it is In order for the baby to suck effectively, he needs to now recognized that correct positioning and latch-on draw your nipple far back into his mouth. Babies can of the baby in the early days is the best prevention for breastfeed effectively with a large variety of nipple nipple soreness. So what shapes. The nipple is only a part of the breast called the should you expect before nipple-areola complex. The softness and stretchiness the baby is born? of the tissue just behind the nipple is actually more • Your breasts will likely important than the nipple shape.
    [Show full text]
  • Prenatal Education
    #4: Latch and Positioning Prenatal Education Placing your baby’s bare • Babies can get overstimulated your baby to get more milk body on your chest after from all of the sights, sounds and and reduce the likelihood of birth helps your baby clue activities of their new world. Being developing nipple soreness. into breastfeeding held close and at the breast helps • If you feel pain with nursing, • 1.When your baby is held close babies to be calm and soothed. your baby may not have enough to you, they are able to smell the • This time of being close and having breast in their mouth. first milk called colostrum. This frequent feeding facilitates bonding • Insert your finger between your milk smells like the amniotic and releases hormones that make baby’s jaws to break suction, fluid your baby was in before milk in the mother’s body. then relatch. being born. How to help your baby latch Learn different positions • 2.Given some time on your chest onto your breast and have the nurses help after birth, your baby may find you with breastfeeding their way down to your breast • Hold your baby close, with baby’s and latch on without assistance. tummy facing your tummy. • You can nurse with the baby • Support your baby with a pillow if across your chest, under your needed. arm, or in a reclined position. • Have one hand support your baby’s • Laid-back is a great position for neck. breastfeeding. Your baby can • Use your other hand to support the feed while you rest! The first three days after birth breast if needed.
    [Show full text]
  • Health Matters July 21, 2016
    12/19/2018 Health Matters July 21, 2016 — July 21, 2016 — First Big Latch On event set for August 5 & 6 The Kane County Breastfeeding Coalition is excited to host the first August is: annual Big Latch On event Aug. 5 and 6, at three Kane County locations. Visiting Nurse Association (VNA) in Aurora, Northwestern Medicine Delnor Hospital in Geneva, and Advocate Sherman Hospital in Elgin will be holding the events. It is soon Back to School time and immunizations are an important part of the preparation Scroll down for our article about the importance of immunizations And visit our Immunizations Webpage What is the Big Latch On? The Global Big Latch On is hosted at locations all around the world. This is a chance for women to come together to breastfeed and offer peer support to each other. All breastfeeding mothers, pregnant women, and families are welcome. This is a time to join the celebration to promote and support breastfeeding as a healthy infant feeding choice. Hosting the Big Latch On in the Kane http://www.kanehealth.com/HMArchives/HM16/healthmatters-7-21-16.htm 1/6 12/19/2018 Health Matters July 21, 2016 County area will create a lasting support network for the community. The Global Big Latch On History In 2005 Women’s Health Action started the Big Latch On in New Zealand. In 2010 the Big Latch On was introduced to Portland, Ore., by Joanne Edwards and 2,045 children were breastfed among two countries at the event. By 2011, a member of Le Leche League USA, Annie Brown, worked with Joanne to expand the Big Latch On in the United States.
    [Show full text]
  • Diagnosis and Management of Breast Milk Oversupply
    J Am Board Fam Med: first published as 10.3122/jabfm.2016.01.150164 on 14 January 2016. Downloaded from CLINICAL REVIEW Diagnosis and Management of Breast Milk Oversupply Lauren Trimeloni, MD, and Jeanne Spencer, MD Managing breastfeeding problems is an essential part of newborn care. While much is written on breast milk undersupply, little is written on oversupply, sometimes known as hyperlactation or hypergalactia. Infants of mothers with oversupply may have increased or decreased weight gain. Some may have large, frothy stools. They may develop a disordered latch. Mothers may report overly full, leaking breasts. Thyroid function should be assessed. Treatment is mostly anecdotal and includes methods to maintain breast fullness, such as block feedings. Pseudoephedrine and oral contraceptive pills may decrease the supply. Dopamine agonists such as carbergoline can be used as a last resort. (J Am Board Fam Med 2016;29:139–142.) Keywords: Breast Feeding; Lactation Disorders; Review, Systematic Managing breastfeeding problems is an essential Literature Search skill for family physicians. Exclusive breastfeeding PubMed Clinical Queries was searched using the provides an optimal start to an individual’s nutri- key search terms hypergalactia, breast milk oversupply, tional life, reducing their lifelong risk of many breast milk oversupply, and hyperlactation. We also copyright. devastating diseases, including obesity, asthma, di- searched Clinical Evidence, the Cochrane database, abetes mellitus, and childhood leukemia and lym- and the CINAL database using the same terms and phoma.1 The American Academy of Family Physi- the reference lists of retrieved articles. Our initial cians and the American Academy of Pediatrics search date was April 2015.
    [Show full text]
  • OC Guide for Breastfeeding Education and Resources
    Ocean County Guide For Breastfeeding Education and Resources Ocean County Health Department Women, Infants and Children (WIC) Division Ocean County Guide For Breastfeeding Education and Resources Ocean County Health Department Women, Infants and Children (WIC) Division Disclaimer: The guide is intended to serve as a resource when caring for the breastfeeding dyad. The information herein is not to be used for diagnosis. With each breastfeeding mother, variations for appropriate treatment and care should be based on the individual’s needs. Every effort was made to ensure accuracy in this guide. However, those compiling this guide are not responsible for any errors or outcomes related to its contents. Acknowledgements This guide is the product of a dedicated group of breast- feeding experts, consultants, and advocates from across the state and Ocean County, New Jersey, chosen for their experience with quality breastfeeding support initiatives and their varied perspectives. The Ocean County Health Department is grateful for their participation and responsiveness. Contributors Kristie Fawkes, MS, LDN, IBCLC Project Director Nutrition Program, OCHD WIC Program Rose St. Fleur, MD, FAAP, FABM, IBCLC Pediatric Hospitalist, Jersey Shore University Medical Ctr Medical Director, Center for Breastfeeding Clinical Assoc. Prof., Rutgers RWJ Medical School Seton Hall University of Medicine Alicia Dermer, MD, FABM, IBCLC Clinical Assoc. Prof., Rutgers RWJ Medical School Clinical Faculty, CentraState Family Medicine Residency Prog. Susan L. Hudler, RNC, IBCLC, BA Toms River, NJ Ellen Maughan, IBCLC Highland Park, NJ OCHD WIC Lactation Consultants Debra Pagano, MEd, IBCLC Catherine Obeng, IBCLC OCHD WIC Breastfeeding Peer Counselors Linda Brennan Victoria Vernon Florence Mojta Rotondo, IBCLC, RLC Breastfeeding Coordinator, New Jersey WIC Program Meg McCarthy-Klein, MS, RDN Coordinator Nutrition Program, OCHD WIC Program Patricia High, MHS, CIC, MCHES, Lic.
    [Show full text]
  • BREASTFEEDING Why/Benefits
    BREASTFEEDING Why/Benefits Breastfeeding releases maternal hormones prolactin (the mothering 12-24 months of breastfeeding hormone) and oxytocin (the love Breastfeeding production burns hormone). These hormones cause can reduce your risk of ovarian milk letdown, uterine contractions, 600 calories/day! cancer by one third. decrease postpartum bleeding, and feelings of love and relaxation. Colostrum and breast milk are full Breastfed babies are less likely to Breastfeeding decreases the risk of antibodies to keep babies healthy have infections, rash, and colic of SIDS by 36% How to Prepare ■ Pack clothes that easy to breastfeed in. Such as nursing bras/tanks, button up shirts, V-neck shirts, loose clothing. ■ Set up a breastfeeding basket with snacks, water, a book/tablet/TV remote so you don’t have to get up in the middle of a feed. ■ Discuss your goals with your partner/family and ways they can be supportive. ■ Learn how to set up and use your breast pump – but don’t try it out yet! ■ If you will be returning to work, make a plan with your employer to support your breastfeeding goals How Partners Can Help ■ When one parent is in charge of feeding, the other parent can be in charge of diaper changes and soothing a fussy baby who isn’t hungry. ■ Feed the breastfeeding parent when the baby is nursing – lactation requires an extra 500 calories! ■ Support skin to skin time ■ Ensure a quiet and relaxing environment for nursing to take place ■ Learn early hunger cues ■ Be encouraging! First Time! ■ Newborns tend to be awake and alert in the first 2 hours after birth.
    [Show full text]
  • The Stages of Breastfeeding
    The Stages of Breastfeeding Breastfeeding is a process that unfolds and changes as a mother and her baby master the skill. Some mothers and babies learn to breastfeed with little effort; others face challenges that require professional assistance and patience. Community Breastfeeding Many mothers find the first two to three weeks of breastfeeding to be the Center most challenging. This is when mothers may be tempted to stop due to ongoing challenges. Most mothers who persist find that the rewards are 5930 S. 58th Street (in the Trade Center) gratifying and long-term, for both themselves and their babies. Lincoln, NE 68516 (402) 423-6402 While Pregnant: “Getting Ready” MilkWorks O 10818 Elm Street Rockbrook Village • Your nipples do not require any special preparation to nurse. You do not Omaha, NE 68144 need to rub them with a towel or “toughen them up.” This will remove (402) 502-0617 the protective natural moisture and may cause irritation. Likewise, you For additional may want to avoid soap on your nipples. information: • If your nipples are flat or inverted, refer to our information on Flat Nipples. If you are uncertain whether your nipples are inverted, have them checked by a lactation consultant or your physician. www.milkworks.org • Take a breastfeeding class, watch a breastfeeding video, read a breastfeeding book, attend a breastfeeding mothers’ group and talk to other mothers who are breastfeeding. • Talk to your physician or nurse-midwife about your desire to breastfeed. • Ask your friends where they got help with breastfeeding after their baby was born. Birth to ~ 3 days of age: “Colostrum Time” • Mothers are learning to watch for their baby’s feeding cues and how to position baby at the breast and get a deep latch.
    [Show full text]
  • Pregnancy Guide
    NorthShore Obstetrics and Gynecology Pregnancy and Postpartum Care Guide Pregnancy and Postpartum Care Guide Table of Contents Welcome ........................................................i Prenatal Screening 15 NorthShoreConnect ........................................i Screening and Testing Protocol...................16 Introduction 1 Genetic Testing .......................................16 Emmi® Health Education Programs ............... 2 Carrier Screening ....................................16 Online Maternity Pre-Registration .................. 3 Prenatal Genetic Screning ......................17 Labor and Delivery Locations ........................ 4 Prenatal Diagnostic Tests ........................18 Prenatal Care 5 Wellness Support 19 Testing, Immunizations, Nutrition and Health Frequently Asked Questions About Issues ........................................................... 6 Mood During and After Pregnancy ..............20 Routine Prenatal Testing ........................... 6 Cord Blood 23 Immunizations.......................................... 6 Cord Blood Banking ...................................24 Course of Prenatal Care ........................... 7 Signs of Labor 25 Nutrition and Weight Gain ......................... 7 When to Call Your Caregiver, Advice About Eating Fish .......................... 8 Types of Labor ............................................26 Toxoplasmosis Precautions ...................... 9 Sexual Activity .......................................... 9 Feeding 27 Exercise ...................................................
    [Show full text]
  • FAQ Nipple Pain
    REDUCING BREAST PAIN Tender and sensitive nipples are normal as you begin breastfeeding your new baby. However, very sore, cracked or bleeding nipples are not. Usually this problem is related to the way your baby lat ches-on to the breast. It is important that your baby get a big "mouthful" of the nipple and areola. Whether you hold your baby across your chest in a cross-cradle hold or at your side in a football hold, turn your baby onto his side and hold him so his mouth is directly in front of the breast near the nipple. POSITIONING: Position your baby with pillows so he is breast height. This reduces strain on your nipple and prevents soreness. Roll the baby completely on his side so he is "belly to belly" with you. This also reduces nipple strain and soreness. A cross-cradle hold or football hold works best to achieve a good latch-on with a newborn. Position your baby with his nose to your nipple so he has to reach "up" slightly to reach the nipple. CHECK THE LATCH: To im p r o ve lat ch -on, stimulate nipple and use it to stroke baby's lips. Wait for a w ide-open mouth, and then quickly lat ch t he baby t o t he breast in an asym m et rical pattern (baby’s chin should touch your breast first). Make sure the baby's lips are turned out and nose and chin are touching your breast. Make sure you feel a pulling sensation when the baby suckles.
    [Show full text]