Looking for Love in the Legal Discourse of Marriage Looking for Love in the Legal Discourse of Marriage Renata Grossi Published by ANU Press The Australian National University Canberra ACT 0200, Australia Email:
[email protected] This title is also available online at http://press.anu.edu.au National Library of Australia Cataloguing-in-Publication entry Author: Grossi, Renata, author. Title: Looking for love in the legal discourse of marriage / Renata Grossi. ISBN: 9781925021790 (paperback) 9781925021820 (ebook) Subjects: Marriage. Love. Marriage law. Husband and wife. Same-sex marriage. Dewey Number: 306.872 All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying or otherwise, without the prior permission of the publisher. Cover design by Nic Welbourn and layout by ANU Press Cover image: Ali and David asleep 12.01am-12.31 from the Journey to Morning Series by Blaide Lallemand and Hilary Cuerden-Clifford. Printed by Griffin Press This edition © 2014 ANU Press Contents Acknowledgements . vii Introduction . 1 Framing the Questions of the Book . 3 The Importance of Law and Emotion Scholarship . 3 The Meaning of Love . 9 Outline of the Book . 15 1. Love and Marriage . 17 Introduction . 17 The Common Law of Marriage . 17 Nineteenth-Century Reform . 21 Twentieth-Century Reform . 23 The Meanings of Marriage: Holy Estate, Oppressive Patriarchy, Equal Love . 26 Consequences of the Love Marriage (The Feminist Critique of Love) . 31 Conclusion . 37 2. The Diminishing Significance of Sexual Intercourse . 39 Introduction . 39 The Old Discourse of Sex and Marriage .