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HEIDI SmITH LUEDTKE 36 18 Seeing red over the SPECIAL SECTIONS tampon tax These New Yorkers led the fight against a 10 Special Needs Directory discriminatory sales tax 20 Choices for Family Health BY TAmmY SCILEPPI 37 The Marketplace 22 City museums lay out welcome mat Museum Mile Festival offers a fresh look at some classic institutions BY ShNIEKA L. JOHNSON 26 The fury inside Learning to master your anger before it destroys you 38 BY CAROLYN WATERBURY-TIEMAN June 2016 • MANHATTAN FAMILY 3 LETTER FROM THE PUBLISHER The perfect month of June had a great Moth- will always be linked. They were always working and were that went unaddressed in years past. er’s Day and hope Maybe some of the roles seldom home. Sad, but true. We all know that not everything I you all did, too. My will have reversed a bit The reality of extended families comes naturally and that there is family was on vacation and now they may be has also changed the picture and we information we need to help us do a and that in itself made helping you in ways you now have step-dad and mom realities better job. it a super day, but in used to help them. as well. Families are complex and no We hope you find this issue in- addition to that, my June is a month that longer hidden behind the curtains formative and entertaining too! Our daughter was loving presents parents of and kept in the shadows. When I was calendar is loaded with great things and sweet in delightful kids of all ages with a nine years old my dad remarried my for every family to do around New ways and made me feel myriad of celebrations girlfriend’s mother and we became York in this glorious month of June, special. and milestones; every- an instant new family. There were which also happens to be my birth- Last month we ran an interesting thing from graduations to weddings, loads of issues associated with this day month. No wonder I love it. Have article about parenting grown chil- the beginning of camp to the begin- that went unaddressed for years. In fun! Happy summer. dren, and I personally found it had ning of summer school. It’s also the those days, people were very insu- substance I could relate to. Just be- month when we celebrate fathers, lar. They didn’t talk about things and Thanks for reading! cause they’re taller than you doesn’t and this issue has it’s share of ar- they certainly didn’t entertain things really change the parental respon- ticles relating to Dad. With increas- like counseling. Nowadays, it’s a rare sibility, it just makes the responsi- ing numbers of fathers opting to family who would respond with such bilities different. It means that new be primary caregivers rather than denial to the complexities of life’s issues will emerge, like dealing with working outside the home, the role choices. boyfriends or girlfriends or in-laws. of Dad has altered and has become We’re so much wiser and more Susan Weiss-Voskidis, It means that although they will be inclusive. 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Most first-time fa- thers experience stress due to sleep to the family deprivation, change in routines, and their own apprehensions about par- enting. “There are a myriad of emotions that come with being a new father,” says Armin Brott, author of multiple books and one DVD on fatherhood. “Most often, it’s a feeling of pride and excitement. At the same time there can be apprehensions — ‘Will I be a good father?’ ‘Can we afford this?’ ‘How is this going to change our lives?’ ” This was what David Wuttke found. “When my son David Jr.