The Faith of Dolly Parton by Dudley Delffs
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Dudley’s book gives great insight into why so many people around the world love Dolly Parton. While Dolly is one of the biggest superstars, she has never forgotten who she is and where she came from and the faith that anchors her life. GOVERNOR OF TENNESSEE, Bill Haslam, and First Lady Crissy Haslam Three amazing strands of stories are woven into this fabu- lous book, The Faith of Dolly Parton by Dudley Delffs. The thread of biography speaks of a fascinating woman whom we tend to think we know, but whom I admire even more when seeing her through the lens of faith. The thread of memoir shared through the author’s blending of his own life story with Dolly’s is a gift of hope and connection. And the final thread, that of devotional, invites us to more. Faith- based questions at the end of each chapter take us deeper into our own stories, while the prayers remind us that it was Dolly’s faith that has taken her to the heights she’s attained, as she humbly acknowledges. Reading this book reminded me of my own faith journey and the gift of story told through music, words, and life. I love this book! You will too! JANE KIRKPATRICK, award- winning author of All She Left Behind The Faith of Dolly Parton is a little book filled with big dreams! Dudley Delffs weaves together his unique spiritual journey with the wonder and wisdom of Dolly Parton’s with a heartwarming result. I was uplifted by the inspirational gifts of both and delighted by the author’s humor and the 9780310352921_FaithDollyParton_int_HC.indd 1 4/6/18 11:31 AM joy hidden in the stories of Dolly’s life. Inside this book, part memoir and part biography, lies a map for readers to unfold their own prayers and dreams. DONNIE WINOKUR, author of Chancer: How One Good Boy Saved Another You may know Dolly Parton as a legendary singer, song- writer, music producer, actor, author, philanthropist, or entrepreneur. But those external successes are born out of a deep personal faith in Jesus Christ. In The Faith of Dolly Parton, award- winning author Dudley Delffs guides you through ten powerful lessons based on the music, character, and heart of this entertainment legend. Delffs’s insight into the sincere faith of Dolly Parton will warm your heart and inspire you to become more vulnerable as you grow stronger in your faith. CRAIG GROESCHEL, pastor of Life.Church, New York Times bestselling author The Faith of Dolly Parton made me smile one minute and reconsider what I thought I knew about her the next. Dudley Delffs uses his own spiritual journey to frame the way Dolly’s Christian faith has anchored her life throughout her many career accomplishments and personal milestones. The result is a warm, down- home conversation about much more than Dolly and country music, offering us a reflection on the beautiful, mysterious ways God uniquely uses each of us for his kingdom. CHRIS HODGES, senior pastor of Church of the Highlands, author of The Daniel Dilemma 9780310352921_FaithDollyParton_int_HC.indd 2 4/6/18 11:31 AM ZONDERVAN The Faith of Dolly Parton Copyright © 2018 by Dudley Delffs Requests for information should be addressed to: Zondervan, 3900 Sparks Dr. SE, Grand Rapids, Michigan 49546 ISBN 978-0-310-35292-1 (hardcover) ISBN 978-0-310-35294-5 (audio) ISBN 978-0-310-35293-8 (ebook) All Scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from The Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV®. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www.Zondervan.com. The “NIV” and “New International Version” are trademarks registered in the United States Patent and Trademark Office by Biblica, Inc.® Scripture quotations marked ESV are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®). Copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. 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Interior design: Kait Lamphere Cover photo: Emma Stoner / Alamy Butterfly image: © vectorgirl/Shutterstock First printing April 2018 / Printed in the United States of America 9780310352921_FaithDollyParton_int_HC.indd 4 4/6/18 11:31 AM Contents Introduction: The Butterfly Effect ..................7 Chapter 1: Dream Your Way Forward.............13 Chapter 2: You Need Wings to Fly ...............37 Chapter 3: Know When to Stretch Your Wings .....61 Chapter 4: Love like a Butterfly While Busy as a Bee ..83 Chapter 5: Practice More Than You Preach .......107 Chapter 6: Baby Steps toward a Leap of Faith .....133 Chapter 7: Let Your Roots Keep You Grounded....153 Chapter 8: Shine through the Shadows...........173 Chapter 9: Laugh First to Make Love Last ........193 Chapter 10: Read into the Future . 213 Acknowledgments............................229 Notes .....................................233 9780310352921_FaithDollyParton_int_HC.indd 5 4/6/18 11:31 AM INTRODUCTION The Butterfly Effect I always ask God to work through me and let me be a light of some kind and help in this world, so I always pray for that, and I always want to do good. DOLLY PARTON love Dolly Parton. I I grew up with her, really. Dolly graduated from Sevier County High School the year I was born, which technically makes her old enough to be my mother. But to me she seemed more like an extended relative— a favorite aunt or beloved cousin. While I’d have loved for her to be my godmother, like she was for Miley Cyrus’s character in Hannah Montana, Dolly hovered at the edges of my life, part muse urging me to dream more and part guardian angel pulling me back to my roots. As a boy growing up in small- town Tennessee, I spent many evenings sprawled on the pea- green carpet of our family room watching Dolly on The Porter Wagoner Show, 7 9780310352921_FaithDollyParton_int_HC.indd 7 4/6/18 11:31 AM The Faith of Dolly Parton my daddy’s favorite. Later, as a young man I prepared to propose to my wife beneath the watchful gaze of Dolly’s bronze statue in front of the courthouse in Sevierville, Tennessee. And as a young father, we took our three small children on vacation to Dollywood. I’ve never met Dolly in person and have only seen her perform live a couple of times. But like the University of Tennessee, the Smoky Mountains, biscuits and gravy, the works of Flannery O’Connor, and the lonesome sound of the night train echoing from beyond the pasture on the farm where I grew up, Dolly Parton is woven into the fabric of my life. And it’s not just her music that has shaped who I am— it’s her Christian faith. When I talk about the spiritual role models in my life who continue to inspire me, most people laugh or raise their eyebrows when I include Dolly on that list. But why not? In a world filled with so much turmoil, division, strife, and conflict, Miss Dolly models a kind of Christian faith that manages to be authentic, positive, hopeful, and contagious. In a world where public figures fall from pedestals daily, if not hourly, Dolly Parton is the exception. She keeps the faith, holds her ground, and keeps on being who she has always been ever since rising into stardom over fifty years ago. Whether celebrating a new album or unveiling an addition to her eponymous theme park, Dolly has never been shy about crediting God and her relationship with him as the source of her success. Even when others prefer to focus on her iconic curves, the 8 9780310352921_FaithDollyParton_int_HC.indd 8 4/6/18 11:31 AM The Butterfly Effect mysteries of her love life, or her latest groundbreaking endeavor, Dolly still manages to give God credit for it all. More important than what she says, though, is how Dolly lives out her faith in tangible, openhearted, mountain- moving ways. She’s a philanthropist and a humanitarian— big words for a little lady who says she only wants to share her songs with as many people as possible. There’s a simple childlike joy about her gener- osity and desire to help other people, whether teaching children to read or enabling residents of her beloved Smoky Mountains to recover from devastating wildfires. Dolly doesn’t preach or presume to tell us how we ought to think and behave. She doesn’t discuss denomi- nations, politics, or other people’s mistakes. If anything, she goes out of her way to take the high road, to give people the benefit of the doubt, to hope for the best in her fellow human beings.