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Sudden Sniffing Death Spice it up 2 11 Pharming for Syndrome 18 Trouble III 6 CELEBRATING POSITIVE CHOICES IEMBER 2008 a .• ETA, 1 Features Life After the System 4 I grew up in the foster care system and it changed how I see life. Pharming for Trouble 6 Over-the-counter drugs are still drugs. And they're just as dangerous as illegal drugs. Hot Shots: Tyrney Steinhoff and Hot Shot 8 The teen barrel racer talks about what it's like to com- pete, balance riding with other interests, and live with a real live Breyer horse model. Head Shot 12 There's a good reason why helmet (or locker) boxing is not an official sport. Here's why. Are You a Helpful or Hurtful Friend? Quiz 15 Help them up or kick them when they're down? Find out what kind of friend you are. I'm Just Saying . 3 Windermere Blogosphere 16 In which I wonder what the new year will bring. Our new cartoon features a classroom blog. Their assignment: write about a personal experience. Your Good For You 11 assignment: read it. Add a little zing to your life. Spice it up! Sudden Sniffing Death Syndrome 18 It happens faster than you can imagine. One sniff and I'm Listening 14 you could be dead. "I have this friend who has become a real downer. It's got- ten to the point that I dread hanging out with her. Any advice?" One for All 20 Teams are all around us. We'll tell you how to be a good What's Up With That? 27 team player. "I sometimes like to smell nail polish remover and Krazy Glue because I like the feeling, but I've heard it can screw up Texas Tire Rack Street Survival 22 h, t my brain—is it true?" The BMW Car Club of America Foundation is trying to Wor t stamp out teen driving deaths with their driving program. For Spotlight 30 er, Pat Pedraja helps others like himself who have been diag- ing r Junior Firefighting 24 nosed with leukemia. h Sp t Think firefighters are all big, burly guys? You'd be wrong. More and more teens are becoming firefighters. Kenne Cool Stuff With Kent and Kyle 31 by to Shakespeare Was Right 28 This month we'll give you our fail-proof formula for making ho p good impressions and keeping them. r "You shouldn't hang around with Christine anymore," Linda ve Co said. "No one will talk to you." 2 Listen wwvv.listenmagazine.org /1 I IfYIL1 , I I •-••••Cie oesn't it feel great to be starting a new school year? Think about all the potential. Work hard and you could get fantastic grades. Be friendly and Celeste Perrino-Walker Dyou could make lots of great new friends. Be curious and you could learn a lot of stuff you never knew before. The sky is the limit. Will this be the Bill Kirstein year you try out for the drama team? Get a 4.0 average? Discover your own Heather Quintana personal style? Take a stand? Learn to paint? Climb a mountain? Start an exer- cise program? Learn to drive? Get perfect attendance? Play a new sport? Write a Richard Tooley book? (Hey, it could happen! Check out wwwnanowrimo.org/) What awesome feat will you accomplish this year? Nick Bejarano Of course, to reach any of these goals you'll need two things. First, you'll need a pos- itive attitude because you aren't going to get EDITORIAL very far without one. You have to believe you CONSULTANTS FreshSlate will accomplish great things. So believe in your arm Di c., potential and set your sights high. Second, you Winston Ferris, M.A. need some goals. If you don't know where Allan Handysides, M.B., B.Ch. Gary Hopkins you're going that's exactly where you're going Peter N. Landless, M.B., B.Ch. to end up. So, think about it. What do you really Stoy Proctor, M.P.H. want to do this year? Dream big! You're only Francis A. Soper, Litt.D. limited by your own dreams. DeWitt Williams, Ph.D. Throughout this year we'll be telling you awesome stories about kids who did dream big. Like the Freedom Writers. (Shh! Don't tell anyone I let the cat out of the bag.) We'll introduce you to kids who had big dreams and followed ETES ZiNsy ICPA them. And we'll give you great ideas for new things to try. Firefighting anyone? DRUGS 0119 So stay tuned. It's gonna be a great ride. UMW AIM NM Until next time, have fun, be cool, and make good choices, !MTH "7"410110VI 6do,- MADISON YOUTH TO YOUTH 10313rEEN c1,4g free TrEnD msnig_ Celeste Perrino- Walker Editor LISTEN (ISSN 0024-435X) September 2008, Volume 62, Number 1. Published monthly (EXCEPT JUNE, JULY, AND AUGUST) and Member of the copyrighted © 2008 by The Health Connection', 55 West Oak Ridge Dr., Hagerstown, MD 21740. One year $26.95 (U.S.). Outside Partnership U.S. $33.95 (U.S.). PERIODICALS postage paid at Hagerstown, MD. POSTMASTER: Send address changes to LISTEN, P.O. Box 859, 111 for a Drug-Free Hagerstown, MD 21741. U.S.A. and Canada, call toll free 1-877-474-6247. Outside U.S. and Canada, 1-301-393-3280. This publication America is available in microfilm from Xerox University Microfilms, 300 North Zeeb Road, Ann Arbor, MI 48106. 1-313-761-4700. Printed in U.S.A. Unless otherwise credited, all pictures © 2008 Jupiterimages Corporation; spot images from Art Explosion Image Library. www.listenmagazine.org Listen 3 By LeWanna Hobbs II lived in a foster home for less than a year, but it seemed like forever. I was about 4 years old when the short, thin, strawberry- blond woman knocked on the door of our apartment, located in a not so enviable part of town, and called for my two siblings and me by our full names. This in itself was scary because no one used your whole name unless they were going to give you a stern talk about something you had done wrong. Sure, we were being supervised by adults, but none of them were our parents. I never really knew my dad, and my mom was doing her best, but obviously it wasn't good enough. The caseworker's name was Ms. Laura; she was as nice as could be. However, once we realized what was going on, she had to pull us from the house yelling and screaming. We were rushed to an awaiting American Airlines flight which left DFW International Airport, and about an hour later we arrived at Chicago O'Hare International Airport. I cried myself to sleep on the plane that night and many more nights after. According to the Department of Children and Family Services (DCFS), about 16,160 children entered the foster care system in the fiscal year ending June 2007. That number is consistently being reduced each year, and considering that 10 years ago 4 Listen www.listemnagazine.org that figure was more than 50,000 the majority of our time in foster ter development. children, a great deal of progress has care, but my brother was not so for- Sensitivity or reactions to situa- been made. Though I am no longer tunate. During the small stint he did, tions are other personality traits in foster care, the experience of he was moved several times, hit by a determined by past happenings. In being placed in a substitute home car, and experienced mental mistreat- my case, I am extremely sensitive to m forever changed the way I look at ment by one of the foster mothers the behavior issues of students who lly ita life. It affected my personality and and her children. Currently, my sister have had to overcome adversity, as I my very essence as a human being. and I are both honor roll students, too have had tall mountains to over- /dig have each served as class president, come before reaching goals. Instead ion Living in a foster home is not neces- t a r sarily a terrible thing. Being taken and are both on the quick path to of acting out in a harmful manner, I o rp away from a bad environment is a college graduation. My brother, on was inspired to become an educator Co s good thing and, contrary to popular the other hand, has never partici- in an urban school district. My expe- e belief, not everyone in foster care pated in student government, did not riences volunteering in urban imag r lives in an abusive home or bounces receive a high school diploma, and is schools over the years have made me ite from house to house. now in jail. All of this is not to say more aware of the hardships that Jup My sister and I were lucky that a bad foster home will ruin a many impoverished youngsters must 08 enough to have been placed together child for life, but rather to say that overcome simply to catch up with C 20 into a home with loving mentors for experiences play a big role in charac- the other students their age. I made teaching in an urban school district my goal; no other type of school district will help me to make the impression on the future If you've been through that I desire. I once had a student who at the tender age of ten was fit- tough times, don't let your ted with an ankle monitor.