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In the case that overturned California’s same-sex marriage ban, One thing is clear; people’s views on marriage die Windsor, the plaintiff in the lawsuit the couple were the first to be married at San equality are changing because they believe LGBT against the U.S., and her attorney Roberta Francisco City Hall on Friday, June 28th.by family members, friends, and neighbors deserve to Kaplan celebrated the victory calling it E Attorney General Kamala Harris who officiated at be treated like everyone else in the United States. “Glorious”. All of us here at Lesbian News are the wedding ceremony. so proud of Edie and her dedication to this issue. Today the U.S. Supreme Court issued decisions in Forever she will be thought of as the synonym for two historic cases that reflect the progress we have DOMA’s defeat. Indeed she is our heroine and we all witnessed across our country. This progress is also want to acknowledge Roberta Kaplan for her defined by the ideal that more and more Americans pro bono contribution to resolve this matter. want to leave to the next generation a country that is more equal, not less. “DOMA violated the fundamentally American The nation’s highest court reaffirmed our founding principles of fairness and equality,” said Windsor. belief that all Americans are created equal under “Because of today’s Supreme Court ruling, every child born today will be able to grow up in a world without DOMA - a world where the federal government won’t discriminate against their marriages no matter who they are. I know Thea would have been so happy and proud to see how State officials were ordered to stop far we have come in our fight to ensure that all gay enforcing Proposition 8 on Friday afternoon and lesbian couples are treated with the dignity and resume weddings for same-sex couples in and respect that they deserve.” California for the first time in 4 1/2 years. This happened after the 9th Circuit Court of Appeals lifted a stay on an injunction. The Supreme Court ruled 5-4 that ProtectMarriage who were the sponsors of Proposition 8, lacked the authority to defend the measure in court. Harris called on the 9th Circuit that same day, to lift its hold on the ruling and same-sex couples wanting to schedule their ceremonies began to get licenses and schedule marriage ceremonies. U.S. Senator Tammy Baldwin’s LGBT Americans are celebrating the Supreme Statement in Response to Court’s decision, but there are many unanswered Supreme Court Decisions on the law. The Court made a strong statement for questions, and 37 states still do not have marriage equality and freedom, overturning discrimination equality.