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GENDER DREAMS: THE SOCIAL CONSTRUCTION OF GENDER DISAPPOINTMENT AS AN AFFLICTION IN ONLINE COMMUNITIES A Thesis Presented to The Faculty of Graduate Studies of The University of Guelph by ALISON J. DUCKETT In partial fulfillment of requirements for the degree of Master of Arts June, 2008 © Alison J. 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While these forms may be included Bien que ces formulaires in the document page count, aient inclus dans la pagination, their removal does not represent il n'y aura aucun contenu manquant. any loss of content from the thesis. •*• Canada ABSTRACT GENDER DREAMS: THE CONSTRUCTION OF GENDER DISAPPOINTMENT AS AN AFFLICTION IN ONLINE COMMUNITIES Alison J. Duckett Advisor: University of Guelph, 2008 Professor P. Parnaby On the basis of semi-structured e-mail interviews and online data, this thesis explores the ways in which members of an online health related support group construct gender disappointment as a legitimate illness. While highlighting the way in which computer mediated communication facilitates and allows for social interaction among members, it is argued that the environment of the online health related support group has provided members with a unique opportunity to construct their condition in ways that parallel the emergence of medicalized identities, specifically the discreditable chronic illness identity. Acknowledgements Mary Ann, Sarah and Natasha - Your infallible support means the world to me! Table of Contents Chapter 1: Introduction 1 Sex Selection Entrepreneurship 2 Chapter 2: Literature Review 15 Motherhood and Children: An Overview of Transitions 15 Gender Selection 21 Gender Ideology: Stereotypes and the Construction of Gender Dreams 27 Online Communities 36 Medicalization and the Social Construction of Illness 44 Conclusion 57 Chapter 3: Methodology 59 Content Analysis 63 E-Mail Interviews 64 Ethical Issues 68 Conclusion 70 Chapter 4: Results and Discussion 72 GD Communities 72 The Medicalization of GD 85 Gender Dreams 93 Living with GD 98 Conclusion 119 Chapter 5: Conclusion 121 Limitations of the Research 124 Implications for Future Research 126 Conclusion 128 Works Cited 129 Appendix List of Acronyms 143 Chapter 1: Introduction This thesis concerns the social construction of Gender Disappointment (GD) as an affliction in the context of online communities. Highlighting the significance of Health Related Support Groups (HRSGs) in the process of illness construction via patient to patient communication, it will be argued that through the sharing of experiences in online discourse GD has been conceptually medicalized. The online communities which focus their discussion on GD are located on websites concerning gender selection practices, thus drawing an audience of women who are interested in influencing the gender of their future child; as such, GD is situated within the context of sex selection practices. GD, which refers to the experience of being disappointed that one does not have the child of a desired gender, is a socially constructed phenomena which is based upon the collective experiences of the women who are members of the GD online communities. This group of women communicate their experiences of wanting a child of a certain gender in online discussion groups which are associated with gender selection practices. These women locate the GD online community through their Internet searches for information regarding influencing the sex of the fetus prior to conception. Upon reading the content in the online communities, women recognize commonalities in their personal experiences with desiring a certain gendered child. It is through the women's experiences in the real world, which are communicated online, that they recognize similarities in their experiences and counter their previously held belief that they were the only ones experiencing this collection of emotions concerning the gender of their child. Central in GD is the behaviour of women to attempt to influence the gender of their future child prior to conception; as such, GD is related to 1 gender selection practices, both natural and technological. The introduction to this thesis will consider the advancements in sex selection entrepreneurship in order to situate GD within the present capabilities to choose the gender of one's child and to acknowledge the potential global impact of the Internet marketing of gender selection by means of New Reproductive Technology (NRT). Sex Selection Entrepreneurship The January 26, 2004 cover of Newsweek magazine displayed full cover pictures of a baby girl and a baby boy wearing pink and blue diapers respectively, with the bold headline, "Girl or Boy? Now You Can Choose. But Should You? The New Science of Sex Selection." The inside article which adorns the heading, "Brave New Babies" discusses families who have used the advanced technology to conceive for reasons of genetic disease, infertility and the newly controversial gender selection, stating that, "No longer can science simply help couples have babies, it can help them have the kind of babies they want" (Kalb 2004). This "new science" marks the present advancement in sex selection entrepreneurship which has seen a series of unsuccessful predecessors including ProCare's Gender Choice Kit of the 1980s ("Deception Charged," 1987), the Ericsson method of sperm separation (Thompson 2004), AcuGen's maternal blood test, the Baby Gender Mentor (Kaiser 2005) and GenSelect to name a few.1'2'3 These predecessors 1 The Gender Choice kit was marketed in the United States by ProCare. The kit was available over the counter in drugstores and claimed an 85% success rate which relied upon the position of sexual intercourse and the proximity of conception to a woman's ovulation time in order to predict the sex of the child (Achilles 1995). 2 The Ericcson Method which is available in clinics in the United States uses the albumen column and claims to have produced over 75% boy babies; however, tests of the separated sperm reveal ratios close to 50/50 (Holmes 1993). 3 The Baby Gender Mentor, sold in the United States and utilizing an 'at home' kit, claimed to detect the sex of the fetus from a maternal blood sample as early as five weeks after conception. Upon receiving the 2 which have acknowledged the long held social desire to influence and/or to determine fetal sex have had, for the most part, their promises to help couples choose the sex of babies discredited due to a lack of supportive scientific data. However, despite the failure of these gender selection methods to accurately influence and/or to determine the sex of the fetus, the public's interest in accessing these methods is a testament to the strength of the gender selection market. In 1968, Etzioni predicted that, "If a simple and safe method of sex control were available, there would probably be no difficulty in finding the investors to promote it because there is a mass-market potential. The demand for the new freedom to choose seems well established" (1968:1108). This prediction has been proven true. In a 2007 study, Seavilleklein and Sherwin revealed just how widely gender selection services are marketed, as well as how prevalent and accessible they are on the Internet by searching "sex selection services" in Google which generated hundreds of thousands of websites in April 2004. The desire to influence the sex of a future child and to determine the sex of the fetus during pregnancy has long held interest in North American society.4 The pre conception sex selection practices are considered to be 'positive' eugenics involving theories concerning the timing of intercourse with respect to ovulation or the separation of X- and Y-bearing sperm (Achilles 1995). The manipulation of semen to separate sperm for sex selection through Artificial Insemination (AI), as well as natural gender selection methods, have long been in practice. Natural gender selection methods, also kit in the mail, women would send the company a blood sample (Kaiser 2005). The company would determine fetal sex from the sample and would notify the woman via e-mail. In 2005, this kit was banned from entry into Canada. 4 The geographical boundaries of this research are limited to the United States and Canada; therefore, while it is understood that sex selection is of interest in other countries, this thesis focuses on the United States and Canada.