Serving to the End

Serving to the End Malachi 3:13-18 Rev. Brian Bill November 2-3, 2013

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It’s not about me…and it’s not about you. It’s all about God and His glory!

An older gentleman had serious hearing problems for over 10 years and was finally fitted with hearing aids that enabled him to hear perfectly. On his follow-up visit a month later, the doctor said, “Your hearing is now at 100%. Your family must be really pleased that you can hear again.” To which the man replied, “Oh, I haven’t told my family yet. I just sit around and listen to conversations…I’ve ended up changing my will three times.”

As we come to our passage today, it’s helpful to think of God as eavesdropping on our conversations. He’s listening in as two groups of people are talking. The first group is speaking against Him; the other speaks in awe of the Almighty. Group A looked around and complained. Group B looked up and comprehended. And God heard it all. Turn in your Bibles to Malachi 3:13-18 and listen.

 Scripture reading (Jason Crosby).

Group A: Looked Around and Complained

Please turn to Malachi 3:13-15. These people were lodging three complaints against God.

1. We’ve said nothing wrong (13). Their first complaint against God is that they’ve done nothing wrong. Look at verse 13: “‘Your words have been harsh against me,’ says the Lord.” God is saying that His people have been openly obstinate with Him. The King James Version uses the phrase, “You have been stout against me.”

Once again, for the seventh and final time in the book, the people deny that they have a problem: “What have we spoken against you?” First, they deny they’ve even said anything, which is foolish because God hears everything. Second, their attitude is that even if they did say something it couldn’t possibly be wrong.

As God eavesdrops, notice that the people are not saying strong words to Him, but rather against Him. The form of the verb “said” means “to speak to one another in conversation.” They were talking to each other about their complaints against God. In short, they were gossipping against God. And yet, when they’re confronted with this, they’re quick to deny it.

Have you ever noticed how easy it is to find people who will agree with our complaints? We’re attracted to those who are sympathetic to our feelings. When we grumble against God we want others to grumble with us.

Grumbling and complaining were prevalent sins for the Israelites. When they lamented a lack of food, God sent manna. When they murmured about the manna, God sent quail and

1 they complained about that. When they griped about the giants in the land, the entire generation of grumblers ended up dying in the wilderness, with the exception of Joshua and Caleb.

2. Serving is useless (14). In verse 14, God tells them in no uncertain terms what their next complaint is: “You have said, ‘It is useless to serve God; What profit is it to that we have kept his ordinance, and that we have walked around as mourners before the Lord of hosts?’” When God dealt with their denial it had to very disarming. They were basically saying that worshipping, tithing, and serving had no purpose. It was all empty, vain and useless.

The word “profit” is a technical term used for a weaver cutting a piece of cloth free from the loom. As used here it has the negative connotation of someone expecting his or her “cut” or percentage, as a hit man would demand for his work. This reveals a consumer mentality: What will I get out of this? What’s my cut? What’s in it for me?

These self-centered murmurers are complaining that even when they mourned before the Lord it was of no benefit. They had kept the outward appearance of the Law and wondered why things were not going better for them. Their thoughts were very similar to what we read in Isaiah 58:3: “Why have we fasted…and You have not seen? Why have we afflicted our souls, and You take no notice?” They were echoing the sentiment we find in Job 21:15: “Who is the Almighty, that we should serve him? And what profit do we have if we pray to him?”

This complaint still rears its ugly head in our hearts today. Some of us have stopped serving because we don’t see any benefit. Perhaps you have been trying to do the right thing and it feels futile to keep it up because things are falling apart. Larry Crabb points out that many of us fall into linear thinking: If I do “A” then God will do “B” for me. It might work something like this: I go to church, how could I lose my job? I give of my time, talents and treasures, how could God allow me to get cancer? I poured into my kids, why have they turned their backs on God?

Friends, don’t bail on doing your duty. Keep it up. Don’t lose heart. The Lord’s work is definitely worth it! 1 Corinthians 15:58: “Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.”

You and I were put on the earth to make a contribution. We are saved to serve, healed to help, and blessed in order to be a blessing. God has a ministry for you in His church and a mission for you in the world. Having said that, some of us are more interested in “serve us” than service because serving goes against our natural inclination to put ourselves first.

Do you remember when Peter boasted that he had left everything to follow Christ? Jesus celebrated this and told the disciples that indeed they would receive a hundred times as much in the present age. While the disciples high-fived each other, Jesus added these stunning

2 words: “along with persecutions; and in the age to come, eternal life” (Mark 10:28-30). Problems and persecutions are part of the package, aren’t they?

3. God is not fair (15). Their third grievance is that, in their minds, God is not fair. Look at verse 15: “So now we call the proud blessed, for those who do wickedness are raised up; they even tempt God and go free.” As they look around they see the proud prospering, and they don’t like it one bit. They wonder why evil people evade trouble while those who serve God end up getting the short end of the stick. In short, they’re sitting in judgment of God, elevating themselves above Him. They think they’re more faithful to God than He is to them. Before we get too tough on them for railing against God’s justice, don’t we often do the same thing?

Friends, when we deny that we do or say anything wrong, we will eventually stop serving God. And, when we disengage from our purpose, we will inevitably end up questioning the very justice of God. If you want to dive deeper into the theme of how unbelievers seem to get all the blessings, check out Psalm 73.

Years ago, an elderly missionary couple who had served for years in Africa, was returning to New York City to retire. They were feeling discouraged, defeated, and afraid. Their health was broken and they had no retirement pension. When they got to the dock to board the ship, they discovered that they were booked on the same ship as President Theodore Roosevelt, who was returning from a big game hunt. No one paid any attention to this old couple, but they watched the fanfare as the President arrived. A band was playing and the crowd was waving and straining for a glimpse of the great man.

As the ship crossed the Atlantic, the old missionary grew more and more depressed. He said to his wife, “Something is wrong. Why should we have given our lives in faithful service for God in Africa all these years, and yet no one cares for us? This man comes back from a hunting expedition, and everyone throngs to see him. It’s not fair!” His wife tried to comfort him, but he couldn’t shake his depression.

As the boat docked in America, more bands were playing and more crowds had turned out to greet the President. Many dignitaries were there, and the papers carried the story on the front page. But no one noticed the missionaries. They slipped off the boat and went to hunt for a cheap apartment and for work.

That night, the man’s spirit broke. He felt that God had abandoned them. He complained to his wife, “We don’t have anyone to help us and no where to go. Why hasn’t God met our needs?” His wife wisely replied, “Why don’t you go in the bedroom and talk to the Lord about the whole thing?”

Some time later, he came out of the bedroom with a smile on his face. His wife asked what happened. He said, “I went in and told the Lord the whole thing. I told Him that it’s not fair. I told Him how I was bitter because the President received this tremendous homecoming, but no one met us as we returned home. And you know, as I finished, it seemed as though the Lord said simply, ‘My child, you’re not home yet.’”

3 Brothers and sisters, we’re not home yet. I’m thankful that God always has His remnant. Even though there are those who say harsh things against Him, there are others who speak of His holiness. If you see a little bit of yourself in the first group, I encourage you to be like the people in Group B.

Group A is the group to Avoid. Group B is the group to Be in.

Group B: Looked Up and Comprehended

In the last verses of chapter 3 we see two key elements that make up this collective of committed believers: They exalted God and edified each other.

They exalted God in verse 16: “Then those who feared the Lord…” To “fear” God is to hold Him in awe, to revere Him. To fear the Lord is to tremble at the thought of offending Him in any way. He is not to be trifled with. He is a consuming fire and we should tremble in His presence. While God invites us to call Him “friend,” sometimes we lose sight of the fact that He is also to be feared.

A.W. Tozer said that to know God is to fear Him and to be “stunned” by the splendor of His presence. God is not there just to meet our needs. We are here to bow before His supremacy in an attitude of holy fear so that we will worship Him with our ways and our words.

The remnant exalted the Almighty and they edified each other: “Then those who feared the Lord spoke to one another…” The tense here shows that they spoke “often and continuously.” They met to mention what God had done for them. Psalm 66:16: “Come and hear, all you who fear God, and I will declare what He has done for my soul.”

They shared. They opened up. They encouraged. They confessed. They cried. And they prayed. In short, they experienced a biblically functioning community, which employed both the vertical and horizontal elements. Those who are spiritually alive will seek out others of like commitment with whom to fellowship. Let me give you an action step. In the course of every conversation you have, work at interjecting the name of God and look for ways to build your friend’s faith. Keep these two words in mind: Exalt and Edify.

Do you have friends who will do that for you? When you get together with them, do you come away with a deeper reverence for God and are you built up spiritually? Proverbs 13:20: “He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will be destroyed.” If you don’t have a platoon of godly influencers, can I encourage you to plug into a Life Group, join a Bible Study, or participate in an ABF class? If you are always around people who have no use for God, and spend most of your time complaining about Him and others, then you’ll eventually become indifferent to spiritual matters yourself. It’s imperative that we have people who will build us up, not tear us down.

As we’ve been learning from the Book of Malachi, each of us, if we’re not careful, are prone to wander. We tend to slide south spiritually if we don’t consciously look for ways to step it up. We must take responsibility to help each other stay focused on the fear of God and

4 enable others to turn from temptation. Hebrews 3:13 reminds us that we are our brother’s keeper: “But exhort one another daily, while it is still called ‘Today,’ lest any of you be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.” If we try to do the Christian life solo, sin will harden and deceive us. We need each other. If you unplug you will unravel.

Once we exalt God and edify one another, we’ll comprehend God’s character in five different ways as seen in Malachi 3:16-17.

1. The Lord listens to us: “…and the Lord listened and heard them.” Isn’t it tough to keep talking when you sense that no one is listening? [That’s one of a pastor’s big fears]. The Lord locks in and listens when His people honor Him. The word “listen” means to prick up the ears. The word “heard” has the idea of God leaning forward and bending over so that He can take in everything that is being said about Him. When we turn to God, He tunes in to our frequency.

Some of us don’t want God hearing what we say because we’d be embarrassed by what comes out of our mouths. Let’s focus on fearing Him so that He leans forward to hear and hearken. Let’s invite God into our conversations and pepper our words with praise and worship.

2. The Lord remembers us: “So a book of remembrance was written before Him for those who fear the Lord and who meditate on His name.” The idea of God keeping a written record appears as early as the book of Exodus (32:32). Perhaps the most beautiful expression of this is in Isaiah 49:16: “See, I have inscribed you on the palms of my hands…” God will never forget you!

A scroll of remembrance was common in the culture of that day. Kings kept a register of everyone who was loyal to the throne. In the Book of Esther, we read that when King Xerxes had a sleepless night, he called for the book of records and discovered that Mordecai had delivered him from a coup and had never been rewarded.

I find it very comforting to know that God captures every one of our tears and puts them in a bottle. Listen to Psalm 56:8: “You number my wanderings; Put my tears into Your bottle; Are they not in Your book?” God does not forget your fears. He cares about your crying. He locks into your lament.

Actually, God doesn’t need to look in a book to remember you. The only thing He forgets about you is your sin. But, he does keep a book of the names of those who have put their faith in Jesus. They are forever etched into the Lamb’s Book of Life as viewed by John in Revelation 20:12: “And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life.”

3. The Lord claims us. When you feel like no one else wants you remember that you belong to God: “‘They shall be mine,’ says the Lord of Hosts.” The word “mine” is emphatic. Much like a child who claims ownership of a favorite possession with the word, “Mine!” so too, God declares to the whole universe as He looks at you, “Mine!”

5 Have you ever stopped to savor the fact that if you have put your faith in Jesus, you no longer belong to yourself? You have a different owner. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20: “Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body…”

4. The Lord treasures us: “On the day that I make them my jewels.” Jewels were “a valued treasure” and referred to an “an exclusive possession or valuable property.” These words were quoted at the inauguration of the covenant in Exodus 19:5: “Now therefore, if you will indeed obey My voice and keep My covenant, then you shall be a special treasure to Me above all people; for all the earth is Mine.”

Do you know that God treasures you? He is crazy about you. You matter to Him far more than you know. Max Lucado says, “If God had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it. If He had a wallet, your photo would be in it.”

Allow the truth of Isaiah 62:3 to soak into your spirit: “You shall also be a crown of glory in the hand of the LORD, and a royal diadem in the hand of your God.” And listen to the love that God has for His people in Zephaniah 3:17: “The LORD your God in your midst, the Mighty One, will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness, he will quiet you with His love, he will rejoice over you with singing.”

5. The Lord spares us: “And I will spare them as a man spares his own son who serves him.” Because He listens to us, remembers us, claims us, and treasures us, He promises to spare us. Because God is just, we deserve justice. But because He is merciful, we don’t receive what we deserve. In fact, we receive much more than we deserve – that’s called grace.

Aren’t you thankful that God did not spare His Son? Because He was sacrificed in our place, we are now free. Romans 8:32: “He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things?”

Making a Distinction

Several years ago our family visited Beth’s sister and her family in central Iowa. On Sunday we weren’t able to attend the church we wanted to attend so we found another one…which I didn’t want to go to. I started judging it before we even arrived in the parking lot. When we got inside the usher smiled at me and I just stared at him. I took the bulletin and sat down with my arms crossed. The lights were down low and the music was up high. I didn’t know any of the words to any of the songs. I rolled my eyes at Beth and wanted her to join my complaining party. She had her eyes closed and was singing. I couldn’t wait to get in the car and gripe to our girls.

And then I noticed my little neice Mikayla in the row in front of me. She was in the middle of treatment for cancer and had been very sick and was weak. She had lost all of her hair and

6 was wearing a scarf on her head. During one of the praise songs she stood up, took the scarf off her head and begin to twirl around and sing at the top of her lungs. She then started swinging her scarf back and forth in rythym to the music.

Our daugther Lydia was standing next to Mikayla and I noticed that she had a very curious look on her face as she watched Mikayla spinning around in joy. I locked into Lydia but couldn’t put my finger on what was happening. I could tell she was deep in thought.

When we got to the car after the service I broke down and instead of complaining I celebrated the joy of Mikayla and how she had caused me to look up and comprehend God in a new way. And then Lydia told us that it was during that time of praise and worship that God had confirmed that she was to become a Child Life Specialist, which is someone who works with kids with cancer.

I was in such a bad place when the service started. I was grumpy and crabby and not ready to rejoice at all. But Mikayla didn’t miss the majesty of God or the joy of praising Him with abandon. Lydia was listening to the Lord while I was lamenting. And now she graduates from college in a month and will start her Child Life Internship in Rockford this January.

Friends, as believers we can set up camp with the complainers or we can do life with those who are locked into the Lord. We all saw that last weekend when the choir of refugees were singing their hearts out to our holy God. How can I complain after hearing all that they’ve gone through? Which group are you in? Are you looking around and complaining, or are you looking up and comprehending?

Friend, if you have not yet believed in and received Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, you are in the wrong group. As God eavesdrops on our lives, He makes a distinction between those who know Him and those who do not. We see this in the last verse of Malachi 3: “Then you shall again discern between the righteous and the wicked, between one who serves God and one who does not serve God.” The Bible makes it clear that there is no middle ground. We’re either…

 Saved or Lost  Alive in Christ or Dead in our sins  In the Light or in the Darkness  In the Kingdom of the Son or in the Kingdom of Satan  On the road to Heaven or on the highway to Hell

If you’re not sure what group you’re in, let me encourage you to stop denying your guilt before a holy God. Recognize that serving the Savior is the only thing that matters and come to grips with the fact that God is fair in all His dealings with us.

Stop looking around and complaining.

It’s time to look up and comprehend that…

7  The Lord listens to you  The Lord remembers you  The Lord claims you  The Lord treasures you  The Lord wants to spare you

God has done so much for us!

Turn back to verse 16 for a moment. I want you to notice that once the people decided to exalt God and edify one another, they did something to help them remember their commitment: “So a book of remembrance was written before Him for those who fear the Lord and who meditate on his name.” They put their names on the line. This was likely a scroll that they signed, like a covenant renewal document. Will you commit yourself to believe right now and then will you publicly acknowledge that from this point on, you will serve the Lord for the rest of your life?

Are you ready today to settle this once and for all? Are you ready to sign on the line? Do you want your name in God’s book? If so, it’s time to believe and receive. Anyone ready to do that right now? If so, simply raise your hand and then I’d like to pray for you.

“Lord Jesus, I can no longer deny that I am not doing what I should. I admit that I’m a sinner and that I’ve been serving myself and not you. Forgive me for looking around and complaining. I want to look up and comprehend. I believe that you paid the price for my sins and that you listen, remember, claim and treasure me. And now I ask you to spare me. I turn from the way I’ve been living and invite you to come into my life. I receive you as my Savior and my Lord, my Forgiver and Leader. If there’s anything in my life that you don’t like, get rid of it and help me to exalt you and edify those around me as I serve you to the end. Amen.”