Barbie Zimmerman Bier

My book, entitled “The Storm,” represents the daily struggles facing families affected by autism. The tornado was chosen because it represents the repetitive behaviors and unusual interests common in children with autism. The tornado also represents the force that can pull families apart as they search for answers and treatments for their loved ones with autism. In the eye of the storm is the child with autism, hands outstretched and in need of help. For me, a physician and mother of an adult son with autism, the “tornado of autism” has impacted my home and professional life. The child represents my son, now 21 years old, and still in need of my support. Seemingly subtle changes in his health or environment can cause havoc in all our lives. The child also represents the patients with autism who I care for.

The treatments for autism can cause huge financial, professional and emotional burdens on families. In the storm you will see some symbols of the impact on my family: money, my career (stethoscope), lost dreams (diploma), and unsuccessful treatments (medication). At the bottom you will see critical people who offer advice without really knowing what it is like to have a child with autism. In the corner is my Ketubah or Jewish marriage contract. This symbolizes marriage as a partnership based in love and commitment, not legality. The Ketubah emphasizes shared responsibilities and conflict resolution.

The second page of my book shows a quiet scene of a child and mother playing. It is important to enjoy the moments of calm and order when raising a child with autism. A simple kiss can sustain us in darker times.