Learning to Respect

Learning to Respect Hounslow Domestic Violence Education Programme Resource List

These resources were complied by

Pattie Friend Learning to Respect Programme Manager Early Intervention Team (Central) Hounslow Education Centre Tel: 020 8583 6600 Email: [email protected]

Fiction

Primary

Bill’s New Frock Fine, A Methuen (1989)

Cracker Jackson Byars, Betsy Puffin (1986) Out of print Farmer Duck Waddell, M Walker (1995)

Feeling Angry Althea Black (2003)

Hands are not for hitting Agassi, M Free Spirit (1994)

Moppy is Angry Asher,J Positive Press (1987) Never, No Matter What Otto, M Women’s Press (1998)

Owl Babies Waddell, M Walker (1994)

Something wrong at my Diane Davis Parenting Press Inc. house : A book about Seattle Washington parents fighting

Martha’s Friends : A Emma Damon book about bullying

Temper, Temper Silver, N

We are Gentle and We Luck, D Positive Press (2007) don’t hurt Others We are Kind and Gentle Luck, D Positive Press (2007) Why fight? Amos, Janine Cherry Tree (2000) Secondary

Bill’s New Frock Fine, A Methuen (1989)

Dreamland Dessen,S Hodder Children’s (2002)

Jake's Tower Laird, E London: Macmillan Children’s

Knife Edge Hall, S Scholastic (2003)

Lola Rose Wilson, J Young Corgi Books (2004)

Once in a House on Fire Ashworth, A

Secrets Blezard, T Women’s Press (2002)

Snake Inside Tuttle, L Mammoth (1995)

The Edge Gibbons, A Dolphin (2002)

The Woman who Doyle, R Random House (1997) walked into doors You don't know me Klass, D Puffin (2002)

Brick Lane Ali, M Black Swan 2004 Alias Grace Atwood, M CIPG 2002 She’ll Learn Barkley Staples, S Sadorian 2002 Lorna Doone Blackmore, R.D Oxford PP New Ed 1999 The Tenant of Wildfell Bronte, A Penguin New Ed 1994 Hall Jane Eyre Bronte, C Penguin New Ed 2007 Amanda Rio Donohue, S Authorhouse 2004 The Needle’s Eye Drabble, M Harvest Books reprint 2004 Seven tales of Sex and Dunker, P Picador New Ed 2004 Death Shattered Vessels Flowers, N Flowers in Bloom 2003 Far From the Madding Hardy, T Penguin New Ed 1994 Crowd If you are afraid of Khamal Jha, R Picador New Ed 2004 heights Rebecca Du Maurier, D Virago Press New Ed 2003 A Timely Death Neal, J Penguin New Ed 1997 Purple Hibiscus Ngozi Adichie , C Harper New Ed 2005 Harm Done Rendell, R Arrow books New Ed 2000 Drama

Tis Pity She’s a Whore Ford, J Black 2003 The Changeling Middleton and Rowley Black revised ed 2006 Othello Shakespeare Penguin New Ed 2005 The Taming of the Shakespeare Wordsworth New Ed Shrew 1993 The Duchess of Malfi Webster, J Black New Ed 2003 A Streetcar Named Williams, T Penguin New Ed 2000 Desire

Non – Fiction

Accept and Value Each Meiners, C.J Free Spirit Publishing Person 2006 All Children Should be Women’s Aid PO Box 391 Bristol Safe Federation of England

Bullies are a pain in the Romain, T. brain

Bitter Legacy McGee, C Jessica Kingsley (2000) The emotional effects of domestic violence on children.

Childhood experiences Barnardos (2002) of domestic violence

Children living with Whiting and Birch (1994) London domestic violence – putting men’s abuse of women on the childcare agenda Child Protection and Mullender, A, Venture Press (2000) Domestic Violence Debbonaire, T

Children’s Needs Cleaver,Unell and HMSO (1999) -Parenting Capacity : Aldgate The Impact of Mental Illness, Problem Alcohol and Drug Use and Domestic Violence on Children’s Development

Children’s Perspectives Mullender, A, Hague, G Sage (2002) on Domestic Violence and Regan, L

Circle Time Handbook Mosley , J Positive Press 2005 for the Golden Rules Stories Domestic Violence and Mullender and LGA London (1998) Child Abuse: policy and Humphreys practice issues for local authorities and other agencies

Fire with Fire Wolf, N For Every Child The rights of the child in Unicef 2000 words and pictures From Good Intentions to Humphreys et al Bristol Policy Press Good Practice: Mapping Services Working with Families where there is (2000) Domestic Violence From Periphery to Hester and Pearson Bristol Policy Press Centre: domestic (1998) violence in work with abused children

Hitting and Hurting – Pickering, F The Children’s Society Living in a violent family (2000)

I am not your victim – Sipe, B Hall, E.J Sage Publications anatomy of domestic (1996) violence In love and in danger – Levy , B Seal Press (1993) dating violence – a teen’s guide to breaking free of abusive relationships

It hurts me too – Saunders et al Childline/NISW/WAFE children’s experience of 1995 domestic violence and refuge life Keeping Safe Elliot,M Hodder (1994)

Never Too Young Miller, J Save the Children How young children can (1996) take responsibility and make decisions.

Quality Circle Time in Moseley,J LDA (1996) the primary classroom

Safeguarding Children DFES Ref: DFES/0027/2004 in Education

Social Work, Domestic Humphreys, C Bristol Policy Press Violence and Child (2000) Protection: Challenging Practice

Stop Hitting Mum! – Mullender, A et al Young Voice (2003) Children talk about domestic violence *

Talking About Domestic Edwards, N Chrysalis (2003) Violence The Hidden Victims: NCH Action for Children (1994) Children and Domestic Violence Violent Feelings Sanders, P Aladdin Books (2003)

Resource packs

Adventures in Incentive Plus books Peacemaking – Nursery/infant

Bwise2 Sexual Barnardo’s 2007 Exploitation A resource pack for use with young people Challenging Violence www.womankind.org.uk Changing Lives www.respect4us.org.uk A CD Rom for Schools (Secondary) which contains Citizenship and PSHE lessons plans for KS 3 & 4. Free resource Domestic Violence: Harrow Domestic Contact: PSHE Co- Programme of work for Violence Forum ordinator Harrow Teachers teachers aimed at KS3 Centre or Domestic and KS4 Violence Co-ordinator Harrow Council

Expect Respect An Education Toolkit Women Aid for Years Reception to www.womensaid.org.uk 13 Hounslow Domestic Hounslow Domestic (2007) Violence Advice Pack Violence Network

Improving Safety Department of Health Reducing Harm: 2009 Children Young People and domestic violence A practical toolkit for front line practitioners Making an Impact: Hester, M Pearson, C Barnardo’s /NSPCC Children and Domestic and Harwin, N Training (1998) Violence Training 3 Gilmour Close Resource Beaumont Leys, Leicester LE4 1EZ

No Fear: Heading for Northern Ireland Healthy Relationships Women’s Aid Respect Training www.zerotolerance.org.uk Resources for primary and secondary schools

Stop the Violence Armitage, M et al (2003) A resource for work in high schools on issues of child protection and domestic violence

Trust Your Feelings Lippett, I Essence Publications A protective behaviours resource manual for primary school teachers What’s Your Excuse Tender A resource pack for www.tender.org.uk/teacher domestic violence resource pack education in secondary schools

Films/CDs

Forced Marriage Contact the Forced Marriage Unit on A DVD looking at how young people 020 7008 0151 have been affected by forced Or at [email protected] marriage * Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle John Avnet - Film Stop Café Home Truths (video) Leeds Animation Workshop Animated characters (children) talk www.leedsanimation.demon.co.uk about their experience of witnessing DV. Suitable for upper primary and lower secondary school. (Primary and Secondary) Hear the Silence (video) Valley and Vale Community Arts Personal testimonies from the family of a murder victim. Suitable for upper secondary or for training.

Just Another Day (video) * Newham Asian Women’s Project Video about domestic violence. Drama featuring young people. Spiralling Can be downloaded free of charge DVD about an abusive teenage from www.avaproject.org.uk/our- relationship * resources/good-practice-guidance- toolkits/spiralling-dvd.aspx Worst Kept Secret Travis (Video showing DV statistics) Where is the Love? * A resource for Young Voice 2006 those involved with and affected by date violence

Websites

Childline www.childline.org.uk Girls Allowed (A website www.girlsallowed.org/index_yes.html about self esteem and relationships) Imkaan (Support for http://www.imkaan.org.uk/pub/ Asian women and children experiencing domestic violence) Learning to Respect http://webfronter.com/hounslow/learningtorespect/index.shtml Hounslow Domestic Violence Education Programme Missdorothy.com is a www.missdorothy.com charitable foundation that provides resources for schools on a variety of personal safety issues NSPCC site for children www.worriedneed2talk.org.uk Refuge www.refuge.org.uk

The Hideout - Women’s www.thehideout.org.uk Aid website for Children

This is abuse http://thisisabuse.direct.gov.uk/ Information for teenagers Women’s Aid Federation www.womensaid.org.uk of England

Hands are not for hitting, teeth are not Set of four brightly coloured posters for biting, words are not for hurting, Incentive Plus feet are not for kicking Emotions bingo Game Incentive Plus