Self-Reliance: an American Virtue

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Self-Reliance: An American Virtue

Jeff Minick as they were now, and taking them off by anyway. We got used to making do, which force could damage the tires. He first used is how I learned some of these things.” ne chilly afternoon just after We are to a WD-40 and a wrench, then disappeared This skilled man successfully removed Thanksgiving, I stood in the great extent inside, returned with a blowtorch, gingerly all four metal caps, replaced them with crowded lot of my local auto heated one of the caps and valves, and tried plastic ones, and said, “Well, that saved repair shop in Front Royal, responsible the wrench again. you about $400.” Virginia, watching the me- for who and “Impressive,” I said when the cap came I thanked him and asked about the bill. Ochanic try to remove the metal caps from off. “No charge,” he said, and when I pro- the pressure valves on my tires. He ex- what we are. He glanced up at me. “I grew up on a farm tested, he waved me away. plained no one should have put such caps near here back in the ’70s. We didn’t have on these nozzles because they get stuck, much, and there wasn’t much to be had Continued on Page 2

‘Random Acts of Flowers’ Brings Smiles to Patients

An organization Andrew Thomas lapsed. He plummeted face-first toward Healing Flowers the concrete. At the end of his first week in the hospital, delivers unsolicited In a hectic world, small acts of kindness Jay broke his left arm, left wrist, right el- Jay started to go stir crazy. He eventually can make a significant impact on people’s bow, right femur, and nose, and suffered 10 convinced his nurses and family to wheel flowers, kindness, lives. For Larsen Jay of Knoxville, Tennes- skull fractures. Fortunately, he remained him down the hall. When he left his room, and a dose of joy see, it was after a traumatic accident that conscious and managed to use his cell- he was struck by the sterile and lifeless at-

A Jean Marc Giboux/ he discovered the healing power of flowers. phone to call 911. Two days later, he woke mosphere in the hospital. As he roamed P Im One summer day in 2007, Jay was working up in the intensive care unit frustrated, the halls, he saw how many other patients a g

es for F for es on the roof of his workshop, tarp in hand, confused, and in immense pain. He could were in rooms devoid of color and joy, un- trying to fix a leak while his wife was out of remember hearing screams, yells, and like the “jungle of joy” floral atmosphere TD an TD town. He had been climbing up and down cries. of his quarters.

d Pro the ladder repeatedly, but as he ascended And then, on the third day, a bouquet of “It smelled different. It looked different.

F to the top for the 15th time, the ladder col- flowers was delivered to him. It felt weird,” Jay said. lowers To his surprise, the flowers kept coming. Jay returned to his room and removed all Random Acts of Flowers CEO Larsen Jay deliv- “When I started to dive into that hole of of the cards that accompanied his flowers, ers the nonprofit’s 100,000th bouquet to Joan despair, there would be another round of Taylor, a senior in Chicago, on Nov. 12, 2015. bouquets that would come,” Jay said. Continued on Page 3 B22 | LIFE & TRADITION DECEMBER 30, 2020–JANUARYWeek 53, 5, 20202021 DECEMBERWeek 53, 2020 30, 2020–JANUARY 5, 2021 LIFE & TRADITION |B3 3

ALL PHOTOS COURTESY OF RANDOM ACTS OF FLOWERS Self-Reliance: An American Virtue ‘Random Acts of Flowers’

PHINEHAS ADAMS/UNSPLASH Brings Smiles to Patients Continued from Page 1 The next week, I took him and his fellow em- An organization He and his wife officially founded the ployees three large tubs of cookies from our organization in 2008, a year to the date local grocery store. delivers unsolicited of his accident. And I mulled over what he’d said about flowers, kindness, “In this really ridiculous overcomplicat- growing up on that farm. ed world that goes so fast and is so tech- and a dose of joy nology-driven, it’s the basics that drive Lessons From the Past humanity. It’s not newsfeeds or technol- From our earliest history, self-reliance was a Continued from Page 1 ogy. It is the core of humanity that is really highly regarded American virtue. the most important thing,” Jay said. We Americans embraced that virtue be- and started loading as many as he could cause the colonists, from their first days on onto his wheelchair. The first room he A Calling this continent, could look only to themselves visited was next door, which was one of Random Acts of Flowers would become and their own resources for survival. For the places he had heard the disconcert- Jay’s calling and focus in life. several centuries afterward, the men and ing noises coming from. The patient in In July 2011, he encountered a nurse who women who settled this land, particularly the room was a woman who was clearly asked him to deliver flowers to one of her the pioneers and outliers, depended on their desperate and exhausted, and he could see patients. She told him there was a woman home-grown skill, their intelligence and it in her eyes. He gave her a large bouquet at the end of the hall who had been in the common sense, and their neighbors to re- of flowers, and her reaction was palpable. hospital for the last two weeks, and she pair their wagons and buggies, to build their didn’t expect her to live another week. Random Jay knocked on her door and popped his Acts of houses, to hunt and plant crops and put food Flowers has on the table, to deliver babies, and to care head into the room. He told her he had a delivered for the sick. If they became desperate and delivery for her, but she told him that he 550,000 needed charity, they looked to family and In this really ridiculous must have the wrong room. She insisted bouquets to friends, or the local church, for assistance. overcomplicated world that he had made a mistake, but he as- date. Think Pa and Ma Ingalls in the “Little sured her that the roses he had brought House on the Prairie” books and television that goes so fast and were for her. When he handed her the series. From the Appalachians to the Great bouquet, her entire aura had changed. Plains, millions of our ancestors made do is so technology-driven, Overwhelmed with joy, she grabbed his with what they had, just like the Ingalls. it’s the basics that arm and told him that he was the first man who had ever given her flowers in her life. The American Way drive humanity. This experience was what Jay described Writers like Ralph Waldo Emerson, James as his “a-ha moment,” and afterward de- Fenimore Cooper, and Henry David Thoreau Larsen Jay, founder cided with his wife to leave their business touted this idea of independence. In his es- and run Random Acts of Flowers on a full- say “Self-Reliance,” Emerson makes a strong “She went from those desperate, ‘I’m time basis. case for non-conformity and individuality, done, pull-the-plug’ eyes to full-on smil- “The giving of flowers is one of the most and advises his readers to follow our own ing, crying just tears of joy,” Jay said. universal gestures that cuts across all rac- guiding stars. In Cooper’s “The Last of the When Jay went to the next room, he es, religions, income levels, disabilities— Mohicans,” Natty Bumppo is the quintes- found a man who was taking care of his you name it, it doesn’t matter,” Jay said. A volunteer offers sential frontiersman, beholden to no one wife; she had suffered a fall. He told Jay a bouquet to a and living by his wits, his knowledge of the about how he had been a gardener and Floral Connections patient. forest, and his long gun. In “Walden,” Tho- described the plants that he had used to One of Jay’s most memorable experiences reau writes of his year living in the woods grow. Jay handed him one of the plants on was delivering floral arrangements at a performing as many tasks as possible by his his wheelchair. senior care facility. One of the nurses he own hands. Jay said that by giving the man some- knew asked him to get the most fragrant Since then, our literature has promoted thing to take care of while he took care of flowers on the cart, and he sniffed around independence and toughness in the face of his wife, it was as if he had his garden back. and found a bouquet. adversity. We find one classic example of such Right before he entered the room, the resilience in the novel by Charles Portis “True Kindness and Humanity nurse told him the patient was blind. Grit,” which Hollywood has twice made into It would take 13 surgeries and three When he walked into the room, the wom- Random Acts of Flowers was founded in 2008.

a movie. Intent on avenging her father’s mur- PUBLIC DOMAIN months in a wheelchair for Jay to begin an immediately sat up in her chair and to recover, and he spent a lot of time by exclaimed, “Those are Stargazer lilies!” need of a special delivery. der, Mattie hires U.S. Marshal “Rooster” Cog- If we consider the hovering over their children even after their burn to track down the killer and insists on matter, we realize children arrive in college, removing difficul- himself. He kept thinking about the in- She had been a gardener and identified To date, Random Acts of Flowers has accompanying him on this manhunt. Mattie that self-reliance ties and paving the way for them, calling a teractions he had with the patients in them by their fragrance. made 550,000 deliveries nationwide, and proves to be a strong young woman capable is a major aim of professor, for example, after their daughter the hospital, and he also wanted to do “We gave her her garden back. We gave Jay has never met a recipient who didn’t of holding her own on this quest. education. receives a B instead of an A on her English something to honor the fact that he had her those memories back,” Jay said. have a positive reaction to flowers. Jay This American sense of independence essay or approaching their son’s employer survived his accident. He also dwelled on Not only are Jay and Random Acts of likes to say that somebody’s life can be and self-reliance also became a staple of our about his problems at work. the fact that many of the patients he had Flowers bringing smiles to patients, but changed by somebody else’s garbage, and movies. Gary Cooper in “High Noon,” Jimmy Ironically, these attempts to help our chil- met hadn’t had anyone to support them. studies have shown that flowers have a Random Acts of Flowers donates arrange- Stewart in “Mr. Smith Goes to Washington,” dren act as stumbling blocks on the way to Jay thought that there must be an or- positive medical effect on physical and ments used in weddings and funerals, in Dorothy McGuire in “A Tree Grows in Brook- Our self-reliance and maturity. ganization or group that was delivering mental health. They can reduce anxiety, addition to flowers that would otherwise lyn,” John Wayne in his many Westerns: In our age, too, a diminished sense of self- flowers to patients in need of an act of lower blood pressure, and improve one’s have gone to waste. Volunteers put bou- These and a thousand other films depicted literature has reliance has brought us the dangers of big kindness. As he researched, he found outlook on life. quets together by hand, and flowers that Americans as a can-do people with grit. government. Where we ourselves once faced that nobody was doing what he had done Random Acts of Flowers doesn’t pick aren’t suitable for donation are turned into promoted up to problems and difficulties or sought the in the hospital in a formal way. One day, who receives flowers. Local health care compost. Teaching Self-Reliance independence help of others around us, many now auto- he began writing ideas down, and he professionals are more familiar with “Instead of going to the garbage, we can If we consider the matter, we realize that self- matically look to the government for such as- came up with Random Acts of Flowers. their patients and know who is most in turn it into smiles,” Jay said. reliance is a major aim of education. We teach and sistance. We want the government to educate Johnny to tie his shoes, dress himself, read our children, to care for us when we are sick, books, and eat with his fork and spoon and toughness to give us money when we aren’t working, not his fingers. As he grows older, he learns in the face and to confiscate money away from some to drive a car, change a tire, balance a check- people and give it to others. book, and a thousand other large and small of adversity. This long-term movement away from self- DEAR NEXT GENERATION: tasks that will make him a grownup. reliance, this bended-knee approach to our Actor Michael Landon as Charles Ingalls in To push Johnny farther down the path to officials and politicians, gives more and more “Little House on the Prairie.” self-reliance, his mother and father insist he power to our politicians and bureaucrats. calls a coach or meets with a teacher to set Our pandemic serves as the perfect exam- rein, self-reliance can become overween- ‘We need to keep the final destination in mind’ appointments or clarify instructions. They ple of this trend. Rather than treating their ing pride. encourage him to work outside the home constituents like grownups, offering them PUBLIC DOMAIN during the summers or even after school, and suggestions as to how to remain safe, some In Defense of Dignity ➜ Advice from our readers be willing to admit mistakes, and ask for prosperous in God, beauty, service, knowl- to save his money for college or that car he of our mayors and governors have issued Published in 1898, William George Jordan’s to our young people forgiveness. edge, truth, health, and work. You will bring wants to buy, thereby teaching not only self- a series of edicts and restrictions treating “Self-Control: Its Kingship and Majesty” is Be trustworthy, that says it all. light to a dark world. reliance but delayed gratification as well. By those same citizens as if they were children. an old-time self-help book. In Chapter XIII, Hold on to health. Don’t worship your —Lucy A. Keller word and by example, they familiarize him This approach has angered many people, but “The Dignity of Self-Reliance,” Jordan writes: Pass It On body, worship the one who created your with the tools of logic and reason so that he’ll it derives in part from our abandonment of “The man who is self-reliant says ever, ‘No I was a Camp Fire girl in 1965. When we met, body, and be a good steward of His gift. Life is hard; the only way to make it easier is be equipped to handle himself when he sets self-reliance and self-restraint. one can realize my possibilities for me, but we recited the Law of the Camp Fire Girls: Stewardship means you are taking care of to work harder. off into the world. me; no one can make me good or evil but “Worship God, Seek Beauty, Give Service, something that belongs to someone else. Eat If you always tell the truth, you never have Limitations myself.’ He works out his own salvation—fi- Pursue Knowledge, Be Trustworthy, Hold on right, sleep well, play often, enjoy others, and to remember anything. The Costs of Neglecting Self-Reliance Of course, none of us can play Robinson Cru- nancially, socially, mentally, physically, and to Health, Glorify Work, Be Happy.” These avoid addictions to anything that steals your Life always goes better when you do things Not all parents take this path, especially soe all the time, and self-reliance shouldn’t morally.” verbs point to what is missing in today’s time, money, dignity, and health. God’s way. as their toddlers grow older. They become preclude receiving the help of others. Just as That was good advice then, and it’s good world. Taking time to worship, seek, give, Glorify work. Promote, dignify, increase, History didn’t start when you were born. what some have called “helicopter parents,” I needed that mechanic for my tires, others advice now, particularly given the times we pursue, be, hold, and glorify is an honorable boost, and celebrate work. It is a privilege to Virtual everything means you have noth- can help us shoulder our burdens. live in and the arrival of a new year. way to live. be able to work. Our work shouldn’t over- ing actual. After my wife’s death, for example, friends To paraphrase, we are to a great extent re- Worshipping God puts Him above ev- shadow all the other things in our life, but it —Jeffery Dunn and the parents of the students I was teach- sponsible for who and what we are. When erything else. Reading and learning the should give us purpose to support our life. ing helped me for months by bringing food we deny that proposition, we are in a sense truth from the Bible gives answers, direc- Whatever you do, do it as unto the Lord. Do What advice would you like to give to the to my family, caring for my 9-year-old son denying our own humanity. tion, comfort, wisdom, and healing. It is our your very best work no matter where you younger generations? when I was teaching, and giving money to As we enter this new year, let’s all resolve to source. work. a college fund for my children I’d set up in become more self-reliant, for our good and Seeking beauty, not in ourselves but in Be happy. This is the end result of living by We call on all of our readers to share the time- my wife’s memory. Could I have managed for the good of our country. those around us and in His creation, puts life the Law of the Camp Fire girls. I see so many less values that define right and wrong, and without that assistance? Probably. But my in perspective. How many of you can create younger people, caught up in themselves, pass the torch, if you will, through your wisdom and hard-earned experience. We feel that appreciation then and now for those people Jeff Minick has four children and a growing a rose, or give life to a baby? Camp Fire girls at Sebago Lake, near South the world of the internet and cell phones, and what they gave me knows no bounds. platoon of grandchildren. For 20 years, he Giving to others reminds us of our own who are miserable. Turn off the electronics the passing down of this wisdom has dimin- Casco, Maine, in this file photo. ished over time, and that only with a strong Although there On another occasion, a group of parents taught history, literature, and Latin to semi- blessings, which results in thankfulness. and seek to serve others. Not only will you are costs to Many people think they “deserve” this or gratitude in your own heart. The more you be happy, but a deep sense of joy will fill your moral foundation can future generations raised a hefty sum of money to send me to nars of homeschooling students in Asheville, thrive. neglecting self- Europe. When I told my daughter I felt un- N.C. He is the author of two novels, “Aman- that. Commercials often tell us to buy this give the easier it becomes. Don’t give to get life. reliance, it is also or join an organization and get what we something back. Give because it is the right Life is hard. It takes effort. Not everyone’s Send your advice, along with your full name, important to comfortable accepting this gift and might da Bell” and “Dust on Their Wings,” and refuse it, she said: “That’s a sin. You’re deny- two works of non-fiction, “Learning as I Go” deserve. If anyone has traveled to other thing to do. life has a happy ending, like the movies. But state, and contact information to NextGenera- remember that [email protected] or mail it to: others can help ing them the right to be charitable. Take the and “Movies Make the Man.” Today, he nations, they would see how blessed we Pursuing knowledge. Dig for the truth, when you decide to use the verbs worship, us shoulder our money and go to Europe, Papa.” lives and writes in Front Royal, Va. See are in America. Giving of our time, wealth, verify your facts, don’t gossip, learn from past seek, give, pursue, be, hold, and glorify as the Next Generation, The Epoch Times, 229 W. burdens. She was right and I was wrong. Given free JeffMinick.com to follow his blog. experience, and knowledge grows a spirit of mistakes, don’t be afraid to make mistakes, action words in your life, you will become 28th St., Floor 7, New York, NY 10001 MAKSYM TYMCHYK/UNSPLASH B44 | LIFE & TRADITION DECEMBER 30, 2020–JANUARYWeek 53, 5, 20202021 DECEMBERWeek 53, 2020 30, 2020–JANUARY 5, 2021 LIFE & TRADITION |B5 5

ALL PHOTOS COURTESY OF TIFFANY STEWART

feel heard, valued, or validated, because they are not seeking your input. Diamond in the Rough DEAR JUNE It may feel awkward or even a bit rude to On Family and Relationships cut people off, but it is also the most caring How a rescue horse beat the odds and became a national and responsible thing to do when you keep the big picture in mind. I think reflecting on competitor in equestrian triathlons this big picture—on what your duties truly are—will help firm up your resolve, and it is the strength of resolve behind your polite words that gives them power. LOUISE BEVAN Sincerely, June A horse rescued from the brink of death eight years ago has undergone an extraor- dinary transformation. Dear June, Once orphaned, emaciated, and terrified I am seeking a new perspective. I am a of everything, the stallion now competes 56-year-old man. I have never been on a date in equestrian triathlons and ranks fifth in or had a girlfriend. I have always been re- the United States in the beginner division. jected, not always nicely, when approaching. Crimson Clover was only 10 months old I have been on a couple dating sites, but the when found by the police. The horse was two women who responded to me only were tied to a cinder block in the yard of a sus- Looking for interested in my income, so I stopped using pected meth lab in 2012, reported United the apps. I pay attention to online creators States Eventing Association (USEA). for current info on dating, and it is all very Clover was taken in by the Georgia De- Polite Ways negative. Most of what they say is, men are partment of Agriculture, which was unsure being abused by women and government for whether the horse would survive. But the to Cut Off a financial support and many women get mar- stallion beat the odds. Owner ried just to get divorced to take the guy for his The horse took part in an equine therapy Tiffany Stewart resources. All I hear, and my history, makes program at a Georgia prison. rides Clover. Conversation me want to give up and just be alone. What A year later, at 20 months old, Clover was do you think you would do if you were me? found by caretakers to be “healthy enough” Dear June, Forever Alone and was auctioned by the Georgia Depart- Equine Rescue League. She assumed that Creek Eventing, was a pivotal player in no one dared dream possible. With care I am wondering if you can offer some ad- ment of Agriculture alongside nine other Clover would simply live on the farm in Clover’s transformation. For Stewart, owning a rescued horse, and training, vice to respectfully shorten up long-winded ➜ Dear Alone, rescues in 2013, the USEA reported. Crimson Clover was peace until the end, but with proper care, “At the time, I knew nothing about event- even though its breed is unknown, is “a Clover (C) phone calls. My daughter is a veterinarian, I think it is true that segments of our society Clover’s owner, Tiffany Stewart of Atlan- only 10 months old Clover began to display potential beyond ing, only that it was a sport for very brave badge of honor.” has thrived. married to a great husband, and with a won- are currently in a very bad state and some ta, attended the auction and was struck by Stewart’s expectations. people,” Stewart said. “Mary Bess taught “There are a lot of horses that need homes derful 18-month-old daughter. At the clin- women have skewed values. However, this the horse’s story. when found by the A competitive rider, she enlisted the horse him to jump and taught me how to ride and I don’t think you should overlook a ic, the veterinarian must (and should) call does not mean you won’t ever find a woman “No one wanted him. He was little, lanky, police. The horse was for expert training in preparation for entry outside of an arena.” horse with a difficult past when finding clients with a daily update on their patient of merit—but the quest to find her may be and had a huge head and ears,” she told into national equestrian triathlons, known At the time of writing, Clover, with Stew- your next horse,” Stewart said. at the clinic. The only time for these calls arduous. the USEA. “I thought he was adorable, so I tied to a cinder block in as eventing. The now-blue-ribbon horse art as rider, is ranked fifth in the U.S. eques- “He goes into the ring thinking he is the is generally once the clinic is closed for the If I were you, I would start by asking my- decided to take him home.” was Stewart’s diamond in the rough. trian triathlon Beginner Novice division. fanciest horse at the show. He is like a dog evening. The problem is: getting trapped on self what I really wanted. It is OK to choose a Stewart, who owns a farm, always kept a the yard of a suspected “I fell in love with riding Clover,” she said. Not only has Clover become a formidable in the barn and is everyone’s favorite. He the phone with long-winded clients who are single life; this will, of course, be more lonely, stall open to foster horses with the Georgia meth lab in 2012. Mary Bess Davis, the owner of Triple competitor but is also thriving in a way that is a very sweet little horse!” hard to cut off, making it difficult for her to but it can also be satisfying and worthwhile get home with less than a 13+ hour workday. if you focus on helping others or giving in I have a similar problem as an artist with art some way. clients. I find myself getting trapped on the If you do want a partner, then you may have SCREENSHOT/GOOGLE MAPS phone listening to long client stories. to accept some new challenges and prepare We value courtesy and politeness, but long- yourself for some failure and rejection. winded clients are hard to cut off politely. At the most superficial level, I would sug- Are there some good catchphrases or strat- gest using a higher-end dating service, if you A Caring Angel egies to use so conversations can be reined can afford it, as they will screen better and in and kept from straying off-topic? And still attract more committed women. Debbie Moorefield, who provides in-home care for seniors, is described as a let clients feel they are being heard and are More fundamentally, the basis for any valued, and their concerns validated? We healthy relationship is the willingness to cross between ‘Energizer Bunny, Martha Stewart, and Mother Teresa’ have both wondered, on numerous occa- acknowledge our weaknesses and work to sions, exactly how the head veterinarian can improve them. This is a process you can ANDREW THOMAS unaware of her absence. ilies, and she makes sure to communicate manage to keep these update conversations start now by assessing your strengths and Moorefield had to get creative to get back that she’s happy to be a part of their care. short, concise, and polite. He’s a master at shortcomings, which might impact a future Many of our seniors require in-home care, inside. She got a ladder and went around “I’m pretty perceptive, and I’m such the five-minute call. relationship. and providing a comfortable and dignified the side of the house, climbed up, and cut a people-person that it doesn’t take me We don’t want to be rude, but we have lives, Although we now hear a lot about women’s environment can be an arduous respon- a hole through a screen window before long to figure out what makes them tick,” too. For both my daughter and myself, be- empowerment and strength, most women sibility that requires an immense amount climbing in. Once she got inside, the el- Moorefield said. ing caught on the phone for long periods of still actually want a man who is stronger of patience. It takes a particular type of derly woman, not realizing that Moorefield time greatly impacts our productivity and than they are. This does not mean you need person to care for someone who is in his had been locked out, asked her where she Lessons Learned creativity, and cuts into time for other, more to be an alpha male, extrovert, or athlete, but or her later chapters of life. For years, Deb- had been. The pandemic has understandably impact- important endeavors. Any ideas are greatly certain masculine qualities are appreciated. bie Moorefield, 65, has taken on the task of Moorefield took care of her until she ed the way Moorefield conducts her work. appreciated! Thanks from two gals seeking Below I quote two paragraphs from the caring for the elderly with enthusiasm and passed away, giving her manicures and She doesn’t bring up the topic in conversa- “polite phone cut-offs”! book “Man of Steel and Velvet” by Aubrey compassion. listening to Elvis with her. tion because she doesn’t want to upset her Polite Listeners Andelin because I think they give a picture For the last 17 years, she has worked with “We’re there to meet every need that we’re seniors. However, when it is mentioned she of manhood that has been lost in today’s cul- Visiting Angels, a provider of in-home care. humanly able to give them,” Moorefield makes sure to show the seniors she works COURTESY OF MO DEPT OF ELEMENTARY ➜ Dear Polite Listeners, ture, and some examples of qualities worth AND SECONDARY EDUCATION She’s cared for more than 225 seniors since said. with that she’s taking every precautionary (Above) First of all, I would keep doing what you are striving for: 2003, working 12-hour shifts that have measure to help them feel safe. From Gang Crestwood doing in terms of not asking leading ques- “A man of steel is a masculine man. He is added up to a total of 45,000 hours.Often, Care and Comfort Moorefield has also learned valuable les- Elementary School in tions and staying on topic. Perhaps your aggressive, determined, decisive, and inde- she stays with a senior for several years fol- Moorefield hesitates to use the word sons from the many seniors she’s cared for, St. Louis, Mo. daughter is able to give updates without pendent. He learns efficiency in the affairs of lowing his or her diagnosis. Her dedication “challenge,” but says that her biggest re- and she feels that her work has made her a Member to asking questions? a man’s world, demanding quotas of himself has earned her the organization’s title of sponsibility is making sure her clients are better human being. Discovering the virtue (Left) My technique suggestions are very basic: in reaching an objective. He is competent in “Caregiver of the Year.” comfortable. She tries to alleviate their of patience has been critical to her success Darrion Cockrell, Can your daughter listen to the five-min- a task, fearless and courageous in the face Missouri’s Missouri’s 2021 pressure sores, keep them hydrated, and with the elderly. She’s learned how to be Teacher of the Year. ute-call master to learn phrases he uses to of difficulty, and master of a situation. He Dignity for Seniors create a pleasant atmosphere by playing empathetic, and knows that eventually, conduct client calls? These will probably of- has deep convictions and steadfastly holds Moorefield cares for the elderly for years music. When she finds out what they like she may be in similar circumstances later Teacher of fer a good blueprint for her calls. to these convictions. He sets high goals for at a time and often up until their last day. to eat, she strives to accommodate them. on in life. So she strives to make them feel If the conversation does devolve, I would himself, goals which require dedication But before being a caregiver, her role often She tries to anticipate their needs and is valued and works to build their self-esteem. the Year use a very simple, honest cutoff phrase such and patience. He is not afraid of strain and begins as a companion. When her seniors always looking for ways to assist her cli- Moorefield’s faith is what drove her to as: “[Customer name], I’m sorry to interrupt, diligence. He rejects softness and timidity. do get to the point where they need con- ents with their daily lives by performing provide end-of-life care for the elderly, LOUISE BEVAN Unbeknown to Cockrell, members of but I need to wrap this up.” When he has made a decision based upon stant care, she does everything she can to tasks such as laundry, before she’s asked. and she has often been involved in senior the faculty lobbied court on his behalf, The actual words are not as important as a the best of his judgment, he is unbendable as ensure that they are comfortable every day. She’s also hands-on and isn’t reluctant to ministries. A former gang member who left his getting him removed from his danger- Desperate respectful tone and firm conviction. It may a piece of steel. These qualities of masculin- “We just transition from one level of care- physically move the seniors she works with “I try to make them feel as special and troubled childhood behind with the ous neighborhood and placed in a boys’ for a way help to practice in front of a mirror until you ity set him apart from women and children giving to a more challenging and advanced when necessary. beautiful as they are. They are God’s cre- help of his educators has been named home. In seventh grade, Cockrell was find a phrase that feels natural and that you and weaker members of his own sex.” form of caregiving,” Moorefield said. “I’m just there to be a blessing, to give ations,” Moorefield said. Missouri’s 2021 Teacher of the Year. formally adopted by his football coach out, Cockrell can say with confidence. “The velvet qualities include a man’s gen- Sometimes her clients are in immense them quality of life as they’re making their Mary Kay Brodnan, a manager at Visit- Darrion Cockrell has taught physical and his wife. I think there is a human dynamic whereby tleness, his tenderness, kindness, generos- pain, and her compassion and gentleness journey,” Moorefield said. ing Angels, says that the most important education at Crestwood Elementary His self-worth, perspective, and pros- turned to his people who talk a lot (which is an emotional ity, and patience. He is devoted to the care make all the difference. Her work also re- Sometimes patients with dementia are qualities in a caregiver are compassion, in St. Louis since 2014. The father of pects improved radically. Cockrell even middle school release for them) can sense people who are and protection of women and children. He quires patience. confused and frightened, and will take out reliability, flexibility, and initiative, which one refers to his job as “the best job followed in his adoptive father’s foot- kind and willing to listen. So you may have understands and respects their gentle na- “Every patient is different. Some are ap- their emotions on Moorefield. Neverthe- is why she nominated Moorefield for the or- in the world,” in stark contrast to his steps when choosing a career. teachers for to change something a bit deeper in your at- ture and recognizes it as a complement to preciative. Some are not, but I somehow less, she maintains her patience despite ganization’s “Caregiver of the Year” award. traumatic start in life. During the virtual Teacher of the Year titude toward client conversations—develop his manliness. He is chivalrous, attentive, manage to earn their trust,” she said. being called nasty names or having a fist Brodnan described Moorefield as a “cross “I have had the unique opportu- presentation, addressing other educa- support. a firmer kindness. and respectful to the gentler sex and has an In one instance, Moorefield, who was car- raised at her. Instead, she has the ability between the Energizer Bunny, Martha nity to live life on both ends of the tors, Cockrell said: “All it takes is one In your question, it struck me that you are ability to love with tenderness. He has, in ing for an elderly German woman, became to redirect those emotions and adjust the Stewart, and Mother Teresa,” and stressed spectrum,” he said in his acceptance person. very conscious about being polite, which addition, an enthusiastic and youthful at- locked out of the house. She yelled and tried senior’s train of thought. how this combination of traits earned her speech this fall. “Why not let it be you who makes is, of course, good and important and the titude of optimism which defies the press to get the senior’s attention, sure that the She also strives to connect with her se- the title this past fall. Cockrell, who is known by his that positive impact in the lives of our right way to conduct human interactions. of years. Humility is also a part of the velvet, senior would let her in. But her patient was niors on an emotional level. Moorefield “She has touched families’ lives,” Brod- students as “Mr. DC,” was born to a students?” However, politeness needs to be tempered. subduing the masculine ego as his rough suffering from vascular dementia and was asks them about themselves and their fam- nan said. mother with a substance abuse prob- Margie Vandeven, the state’s com- For example, while it may be polite to listen nature is refined.” lem who had two children by the age missioner of education, praised Cock- to clients, on another level it is not respon- Sincerely, of 16. His father was murdered when rell on CNN for “[guiding] his students sible if in so doing you neglect other impor- June Debbie he was 4 years old, and Cockrell was towards long-term physical and mental tant duties. Moorefield in and out of the foster care system wellness,” adding, “The connections he Your daughter has a great deal of respon- (C) provides after turning 6. has established will impact Crestwood sibility at the moment—she must care for Do you have a family or relationship question in-home and He hated school, believing he was children for years to come.” her animal patients, and her family most for our advice columnist, Dear June? Send it end-of-life care “born to fail,” and became a member “His story shows every kid that any- certainly needs her care, too! to [email protected] or Attn: Dear for the elderly. of the six-deuce-87 Kitchen Crip gang thing is possible,” Crestwood assistant I would say her responsibilities as a vet do June, The Epoch Times, 229 W. 28th St., Floor at the tender age of 10. principal Kit Norton told KMOV4. not include any obligation to listen to clients 7, New York, NY 10001. Desperate for a way out, Cockrell With myriad life lessons behind him, beyond what is directly helpful for improv- Debbie Moorefield has turned to his middle school teachers Cockrell teaches more than physical fit- ing her care of the animals. For those clients June Kellum is a married mother of two and cared for 225 for support. “I had a lot of struggles ness. He “builds healthy hearts,” impart- who are not willing to listen, I don’t think you longtime Epoch Times journalist covering family, seniors since she and a lot of hurdles, and if not for those ing the confidence, compassion, and need to concern yourself with making them relationships, and health topics. began working for educators, I would not be here today,” drive to help his own students overcome Visiting Angels. he said. the obstacles that life will throw at them. 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ALL PHOTOS BY SHUTTERSTOCK UNLESS NOTED OTHERWISE HISTORY How a Polish Entrepreneur Went from Death Row in a Nazi Concentration Camp to ‘the Sam Walton of Brazil’ Samuel Klein’s amazing journey is a true rags to riches story

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or honest, successful entrepre- neurs, the fabled journey from rags to riches is peppered with initiative, misfortune, reward, luck (good and bad), and les- Fsons galore. In the remarkable life of the late Samuel Klein, all those elements were present in such superabundance as to ren- (Left) Aachen Cathedral’s Palatine Chapel was der his true story almost unbelievable. It is commissioned by Charlemagne in the late eighth certainly one of the most incredible I have century. In the center of this photo is the “Radiant ever run across, and it involves two of my Madonna” by 15th-century Netherlandish sculptor very favorite countries as well. Jan van Steffeswert. Rags to riches is, in this instance, an un- (Above) Golden mosaics with religious motifs derstatement. At his lowest point, Klein was adorn the chapel dome. on death row in a Nazi concentration camp (Below) Beautiful mosaics from around 1880 in occupied Poland. At the other extreme grace the octagonal dome of the Palatine Chapel. some years later, he was one of the richest men in Brazil, a world away. LARGER THAN LIFE: ART THAT INSPIRES US THROUGH THE AGES stories, the lower of which has eight pil- The Son of a Carpenter lars supporting arches, and the upper Klein was born to Jewish parents on No- $6,000 in savings—a sum that proved cru- you’re about to buy something expensive, story is adorned with eight Carolingian vember 15, 1923, in Zaklików in southeast- cial in his next venture. (Left) Samuel Klein that you’re paying for it over 24 months in Aachen Cathedral: bronze gates. ern Poland. It is a small town even today, Klein’s first choice was the United States, in 1952. a Casas Bahia financing program. I never Originally, the chapel dome featured a boasting barely 3,000 inhabitants. Notably, but immigration quotas blocked his entry. (Right) Klein became heard anything bad about Samuel Klein.” magnificent mosaic of Christ enthroned its citizens engaged in a year-long uprising America’s loss was Brazil’s gain, as he and friends with soccer Three-quarters of a century after he left and surrounded by the Elders of the in 1863-64 against the Russians in a failed his small family headed then for São Paulo star Pelé, who became Poland, Klein still has admirers there, too. The Astonishing Chapel Apocalypse, but today’s mosaic dates but courageous attempt to resurrect the by way of a short stint in Bolivia. His sav- a company spokes- Mikolaj Pisarski, president of the Mises In- from around 1880. Polish-Lithuanian Commonwealth. ings bought him a house, a horse, and a man for Casas Bahia. stitute of Economic Education in Wroclaw, Aachen Cathedral had many architec- wagon that included a list of the previous told me this: of Germanic Kings tural additions over the centuries of the wagon-owner’s 200 customers. For nearly “Had Samuel Klein lived in Poland at the Middle Ages, and all differ distinctively five years, while speaking only rudimen- time of his death he would be the 5th rich- from the original Palatine Chapel. The With seven gas chambers, tary Portuguese, Klein peddled blankets, est Pole. Not unlike other post-communist From 795 to 843, Aachen, in western Ger- (Charlemagne, also known as Charles the Gothic Choir is one example. sheets, and towels and grew a loyal cus- countries, many among the richest here many, was the capital of the barbarian Great, went on to become the Holy Roman Facing the altar, the German kings of two gallows, and well tomer base to about 5,000. owe their wealth either to close relations kingdom of Francia, also known as the Emperor in 800.) the Holy Roman Empire sat on the Caro- On New Year’s Day 1958, Klein opened his with the former regime or illicit govern- Kingdom of the Franks. The Franks were The chapel embraces the classical and lingian stone coronation throne from the over 200 buildings, Maj- first store in Brazil. It marketed the linens ment deals shortly after the transforma- Germanic people who ruled large parts Byzantine traditions and was the first Middle Ages until 1531. danek was where Samuel he previously sold door-to-door and later, tion. Klein stands out as an example of what of Western Europe from late antiquity to vaulted structure north of the Alps since The cathedral’s treasury houses some appliances, furniture, and other house- a true entrepreneur should be. What he the early Middle Ages. antiquity. It inspired religious architec- of the most significant ecclesiastical might well have expected wares too. Over the next 50 years, the achieved he owed only to his hard work In the late eighth century, the king ture from the Carolingian until the early treasures of northern Europe, including to breathe his last. Polish-born former concentration camp and ingenuity. He achieved it despite not of the Franks and king of the Lom- medieval period. a 14th-century gold and silver idealized prisoner built Casas Bahia into a network having friends in high places and in the bards—Charlemagne—commissioned Constructed between 793 and 813, the reliquary bust of Charlemagne donated of more than 500 stores in 15 Brazilian process, he made the lives of the people a palace chapel to be built in Aachen. octagonal Palatine Chapel features two to the cathedral by Charles IV. Samuel’s father worked as a carpenter. states with 55,000 employees and millions in a country that welcomed him as an im- It earned him a very modest income he of happy customers each year. migrant so much better.” 1. BECKSTET/CC BY-SA 3.0 2. 3. stretched to feed himself, his wife, and nine Before he died in November 2014 at the According to Pisarski, the Klein story is children. Samuel attended only the first age of 91, he gained a reputation as one of just one of several involving Polish achiev- four years of elementary school, then went the most beloved business figures in the ers in South America. Another fascinating to work assisting his father. Being Jewish, country, “the Sam Walton of Brazil.” From one is that of Ernest Malinowski, who en- the Klein family faced immediate, mor- the rags he wore when he escaped Nazi gineered the Ferrovias Central in the Peru- tal danger when Hitler invaded Poland in clutches, he traveled all the way to a net vian Andes. In the late 19th century, it was September 1939. For three years they en- worth just shy of a billion dollars. the highest railway in the world. dured constant harassment until the Nazis Barriers to economic success stand in the forcibly separated them. Mrs. Klein and A Truly Uncommon Marvel way of almost everyone, big and small, to five of the children were dispatched to the Along the way, Klein did some remarkable one degree or another. Little that is truly infamous Treblinka extermination cen- things that earned the company endless worthwhile is easy to come by, let alone a ter, where most of them perished. Samuel awards for retail excellence. He became large fortune. Some people give up easily and his father were transported to another a life-long friend of Brazilian soccer star and quickly. camp, Majdanek. Pelé, who became a company spokesman. From the rags Then there are the Samuel Kleins of the With seven gas chambers, two gallows, He built Latin America’s largest network he wore when world—the truly uncommon marvels who and well over 200 buildings, Majdanek was of warehouses. He focused laser-like on overcome the unimaginable to become where Samuel might well have expected to customer service. He created a popular he escaped the unexpected. They are heroes, builders, breathe his last. Some 80,000 prisoners were installment plan that made his goods Nazi clutches, creators of wealth, and servants to the mil- murdered there. Fortunately, Samuel Klein affordable to low-income people and in- lions whose lives they improve. was not one of them. He mustered the au- spired a Brazilian rock group to include he traveled dacity to attempt escape, and in July 1944, this repeating chorus line in a hit song: A Final Word From 6. JENNIFER LATUPERSIA-ANDRESEN/UNSPLASH 4. he succeeded. During the next ten months, “My happiness is a Casas Bahia payment all the way to Samuel Klein Himself he dodged authorities while living in the book.” And he was a generous philan- a net worth No essay about the remarkable Samuel woods and fields of southern Poland, aided thropist, giving millions to new schools Klein should conclude without a few words by Christian Poles who protected him. and charities. just shy of a from the great man himself. I offer these to Pedro Tavares Fernandes, president of billion dollars. the reader because they epitomize Klein’s From Carpenter to Observatório do Empreendedor in Flori- spirit of service and enterprise: ‘the Sam Walton of Brazil’ anopolis, Brazil, assisted me in translating “I trust the human being. Otherwise I After World War II in Europe ended in one of Klein’s obituaries from Portuguese would not open the doors of my stores every May 1945, Klein moved to Germany to English. He ranks Klein as a model of single day. What helps keeping me alive is and took up the carpentry skills he had entrepreneurial achievement: the trust I have in others.” learned from his father. It was there that “Because of a history of poverty, it has “One plus one equals two. But the sum he showed the first spark of entrepre- always been tough for Brazilians to buy fur- of an idea plus an idea is not two ideas, but neurship. He discovered he could make niture and household appliances. Samuel thousands of them.” more money selling vodka and cigarettes Klein developed a very effective system of “The wealth of a poor man is his name… to Allied troops than he could in wood- credit so the poor could buy them. He Whether the customer is a janitor or a ma- working. He also opened a delicatessen in reached a huge crowd of buyers with reason, if they are good payers, Casas Bahia Berlin. Then in the early 1950s, he decided sonable interest rates and they rewarded will give them lines of credit; that way they it was time to move on. He left Germany him with low default rates and customer are able to make their dreams come true.” 5. with a wife, a two-year-old son, and about loyalty. It is very common here to say, when “My motto is trust. Trusting patrons,

PICTORIAL PARADE/GETTY IMAGES STF/AFP VIA GETTY IMAGES suppliers, employees, friends and mainly trusting myself.” “The bigger the problem, the bigger the opportunity.”

Lawrence W. Reed is FEE’s president emeritus, Humphreys Family senior fellow, and Ron Manners global ambassador for liberty, having served for nearly 11 years as FEE’s president (2008–2019). He is author of the 2020 book “Was Jesus a Socialist?” as well as “Real Heroes: Incredible True Stories of Courage, Character, and Convic- tion” and “Excuse Me, Professor: Challeng- ing the Myths of Progressivism.” His web- (Clockwise) 1. The 14th-century gold and silver reliquary bust of Charlemagne is one of the outstanding treasures in Aachen Cathedral. 2. Ceiling mosaic in Aachen Cathedral. 3.A replica of the (Left) Without a formal declaration of war, German tanks, escorted by troops on motorcycles, drive into Poland on Sept. 1, 1939. site is LawrenceWReed.com. This article golden crown of Margaret of York (1461), Richard III’s sister, decorated with pearls and gems. 4. Stained glass windows in Aachen Cathedral. 5.The Palatine Chapel with its eight pillars, arches, (Right) German troops enter Poland on Sept. 1, 1939. was originally published on FEE.org and antique marble columns. 6. Aachen Cathedral, in western Germany. B108 | LIFE & TRADITION DECEMBER 30, 2020–JANUARYWeek 53, 5, 20202021 WEDNESDAY,Week DECEMBER 53, 2020 30, 2020 NEW AFRICA/SHUTTERSTOCK Ideal study spaces have natural light and offer minimal distractions. They can be customized according to the child’s taste. FOR KIDS ONLY i s How to Week in Create an History New Year’s Effective Morning WHAT DO Learning (excerpt) COWS Helen Hunt Jackson CELEBRATE ON Space DECEMBER SHUTTERSTOCK BY PHOTOS ALL A conversation with 31?

educational design expert EVE YEAR’S MOO Karen Aronian KOTOFFEI/SHUTTERSTOCK

BARBARA DANZA when creating a learning space for their mint is activating, lavender is calming. children? The basics of feng shui—if possible, TIMES A student’s physical environment has How we set Dr. Aronian: A common mistake par- avoiding putting your back to the door— a significant impact on their ability to ents make when creating learning spaces can further add to our readiness, well- Dig deep within focus, be creative, and learn. I spoke to up spaces can is to visually over clutter and overstock ness, and productivity within the envi- Always a night from old to new! yourself, for there is a award-winning educator and education- manipulatives and playthings. Instead, ronment. Night and the healing balm of sleep! SQUARE motivate and Each morn is New Year’s morn come true, al design expert Karen Aronian about rotate various educational activities The best way to create space is to Morn of a festival to keep. fountain of goodness CELEBRATES how to design effective learning environ- transform and items on the first of the month; note personalize the spot to one’s interests, All nights are sacred nights to make ments for our kids. Here’s what she said. those in your calendar. colors, and themes. All the comforts of ever ready to ow Confession and resolve and prayer; he rst time revelers rang in the new year in New children’s Furthermore, don’t overpay for educa- home—snacks, drinks, pets, lovies— All days are sacred days to wake York’s Times Square (then known as Longacre How does a child’s tion items or furnishings that you may should be the silver linings. New gladness in the sunny air. if you will keep The Epoch Times: Square) was for the year 1905. e New York physical environment impact his or her aptitudes already own, or someone may freely give; Additionally, bring in options that sus- Only a night from old to new; T digging. Times newspaper had just relocated to the area and ability to learn? repurpose, recycle, and reuse what you tain children’s attention—fidgets, focus Only a sleep from night to morn. and attitudes. The new is but the old come true; hosted an all-day party for 200,000 people. A few Environments and find on Freecycle, Facebook Community music, wiggle cushions for seats—and MARCUS AURELIUS, ROMAN EMPEROR Karen Aronian: Each sunrise sees a new year born. years later, the famous ball drop tradition was added conditioning drive learning and can Karen Aronian, Pages, Craigslist, and second-hand. post reminders about breaks and to-do’s. AND STOIC PHILOSOPHER (121 A.D. 180 A.D.) educational design to the annual celebration. genuinely optimize genetics. How we Furnishings should incorporate several JU_SEE/SHUTTERSTOCK JORISVO/SHUTTERSTOCK set up spaces can motivate and trans- expert The Epoch Times: What are the fun- options for learning and study: a seated form children’s aptitudes and attitudes. damental elements every child should chair and sturdy desk to replicate how Teachers are especially conscious about enjoy in a learning space? children generally sit at in-person school. By Aidan Danza, age 14 how they lay out their classrooms for Dr. Aronian: Foremost, consider safety Aim to provide an ergonomic chair learning, and parents—we are all teach- in designing an education space; make where feet touch the floor for better bal- ers, too—can intentionally set up their sure the environment has a clear exit ance, driving better penmanship and homes for learning as well. (label it for small children) with nothing keyboarding. Other potential offerings THE LAYSAN ALBATROSS underfoot or blocking their way out of could be a wobble or ball seat to sustain The Epoch Times: How do effective the area. attention. learning spaces differ among different Key elements to consider within the Further alternatives are a standing age ranges? learning environment are a quiet space spot, as well as a grounding floor loca- Dr. Aronian: Families should reimagine with minimal distractions, a digital tion. A simple way to create a standing their learning spaces each year, or as device with high-speed internet, and desk is to clear a shelf at chest height, needed, with their children’s input and parental academic supervision. and a floor spot could be a cozy corner interests regarding what is most comfort- COURTESY OF KAREN ARONIAN Ideal study spaces have natural light, with a soft rug, pillows, and wall for back Laysan albatrosses keep their from Maine able and workable for them; ultimately, Educational design fresh air, noise-blocking sound machines support. lbatrosses colonies on the Hawaiian to Florida. their input equals their buy-in. expert Karen Aronian. and/or noise-canceling headphones, and A basic clipboard or lap desk provides a Islands and other small islands When they get air purifiers to clean the air (a plant can low-cost way to move to multiple-choice Aare some of the most surrounding them, including back to the island, The Epoch Times: What are some com- do this, too). Consider atomizers with locations inside or outside for an instant captivating birds. Laysan and Midway. They mate they feed the chick mon mistakes parents tend to make scented oils to perk up or calm. Pepper- reset with company or no distraction. They spend years wandering for life, though pairs separate by regurgitating their after the breeding season and catch. The baby will stay great distances in the vast meet again in the next one. on the island for oceans, returning to land only In November, they return to months before flying off A Laysan albatross feeding to nest. There are species of the colony from months of to sea to wander. wandering, join up with their The young albatross its chick. albatross in all. Their wingspans mate, and perform elaborate may wander for years can be or feet wide. They dances in which the albatrosses before coming back to land. in your pajamas? Do you have any idea it’s time to carve out—even a little bit—of can live long lives. A Laysan spread their wings and point their At sea, they will mostly eat what the weather is like outside today? me-time. bills in di erent directions. squid, but also fish, fish eggs, When Mom Fresh air and sunshine are essential. Running on empty Wake up early, ask for help, and do what- albatross named Wisdom is the Once an egg is laid, the and crustaceans. They will often Whether you lace up your sneakers and is a sure-fire way to ever you need to do to find some alone time. oldest known wild bird. Though albatrosses incubate the egg and follow fishing boats as they pull walk around the block or just step out onto Of course, your current state could be Wisdom is around years raise the chick in shifts, with one up their nets, grabbing what they Ain’t Happy the back porch for some healthy, deep experience fatigue, a symptom of a deeper issue. Introspec- parent at home and the other at can of the catch. After a few

old, she and her mate are still SHUTTERSTOCK BY PHOTOS ALL breaths, make sure you head out the door tion and spiritual searching are always sea feeding. Often, they travel as years, the albatrosses return to The solution could and into the light. reduced patience, and recommended. It’s kind of funny, though, incubating an egg right now! far as miles away from the the island where they were born, increased frustration. how often we moms tend to overlook the nest, which is around the distance and the cycle repeats. be simple Are You Getting Enough Sleep? simplest probable causes. Remember this Might you be scrolling on your phone late list the next time you’re feeling out of sorts. BARBARA DANZA into the night or waking up early with little ones underfoot? Prioritize your sleep and Happy New Year!!! You know it’s true: “If Mom ain’t happy, ensure that you’re getting enough quality aMazing Escape Maze ain’t nobody happy.” sack time. So, Mom, why ain’t you happy? The an- You may think that you’re completely fine 1 2 3 Down swer may be simpler than you think. on six hours a night, but if you’re like most 4 5 The next time you find yourself over- of us, that’s not nearly enough. 2 More than happy (8) whelmed, frustrated, in a bad mood, and 6 3 Elated (6) perhaps taking it out on your family, or just How Much Screen Time Are You 7 8 4 Mother, Father, Brothers & Sisters (6) generally feeling that you’re not the mom Clocking In? 9 10 5 They may get dropped at midnight (8) you want to be, stop. Before you decide that Staring at a screen—whether a mobile de- AMAZING START all is lost and you’re in dire straits, ask your- vice or your computer—is draining. For 11 6 “... Rockin’ Eve” tune (12) self the following questions. most of us, some screen time is largely unavoidable these days, but reduce it as 8 New Year’s Eve events (7) Are You Hungry or Thirsty? much as possible and see if you don’t find ESCAPES! 12 13 9 Boisterous celebration (11) Hanger is a real thing. Dehydration can a little more pep in your step and glow in 13 It’s known as the best medicine (8) knock you out. your cheeks. Look around you, in your real, 14 Times Square ball watchers (6) You may have been doling out meals non-digital life, and feel the relief wash over 14 and snacks all day, but when was the last you as you do. time you actually put a morsel in your own USE THE FOUR NUMBERS IN THE CORNERS, AND THE OPERANDS mouth or sipped some water? Running How Stuffed Is Your Calendar? 15 (+, AND X) to build an equation to get the solution in the middle. There may be on empty is a sure-fire way to experience Are you over-scheduling yourself or your more than one “unique” solution but, there may also be “equivalent” solutions. 16 fatigue, reduced patience, and increased family? A great place to declutter is your For example: 6 + (7 X 3) +1 = 28 and 1+ (7 X 3) + 6 = 28 frustration. calendar. How many of those obligations 17

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