November 2014

HaMakom children and staff finish building the succah Photo by FDS

Coming soon AN EVENING WITH JAY RAYNER Sunday 7th December See page 13

Tickets now on sale About our members

Childrens’ birthdays are listed on page 18

Hatch End Masorti Alma Cohen, 85 BIRTHDAYS: Dennis Goodman, 90 Marvyn Ellison, 65 Harry Levy, 80 Henry Rockwell, 93 Frank Manches, 70 Sam Walport, 94 MAZEL TOV TO: Emil Bloom, 95 Simon Rosenberg & Shelley Cooper on their 25th wedding anniversary. MAZEL TOV TO A Rabbi’s Nicholas Young on his Bar Mitzvah. Our Chatanim: Judy Silverton – Callat Our Chatanim: Alan Goldner - Chatan Torah & Karen Pollak – Callat Bereshit. Torah & Phil Austin - Chatan Bereshit. Gary and Michelle Miller on the marriage of their son Jason to Tanya Smith. Also to Grandma Adela Sefton. Word Harrow and Wembley Helen & Norman Cripps on the birth of Welcome their grand-daughter, Talia Rebecca. Progressive The last edition of Kehila-Monthly By Rabbi Paul Arberman of HEMS WELCOME TO NEW MEMBERS: Val and Tony Fineberg on their 40th was back in August, and much wedding anniversary. Paul Lakra has happened since then. © Portrait by Italiaander – www.italiaander.co.uk Consequently, some events MAZAL TOV TO GET WELL WISHES TO: reported here are rather distant memories while some (like the Jo and James Bown on the birth of their June Cass ‘Conversation with Hanne’) have daughter, Eva Mae Barbara Gee sadly missed the boat entirely. ur rabbis taught: one should at the same time? Well, perhaps I got too of potatoes. I am glad that I do not have Veronica Lansman Our Chatanim: Hana Schlesinger – Chatan In the wider world, the bombing not walk through the city on personal there, but you get the idea. One to carry them on my back!” The teacher Torah & Stella Bennister – Chatan Bereshit Lawrie Nerva and fighting in Israel, which featured Othe [with the intention] bad time to not be “in the moment” is when praised the first student: “You are a smart constantly in the news in August, that when it gets dark he may be able, someone else is talking to you: someone boy! When you grow old, you will not walk GOOD LUCK IN HER NEW HOME GOOD LUCK IN THEIR NEW has now subsided, but it is certain straightaway, to bathe in the bath-house asks you a question and you are reading hunched over like I do.” Sheila Goldman HOMES: that the underlying causes are not after Shabbat. [Leviticus Rabbah 34]. the newspaper or checking your smart The second student replied: “I love to Helena & Martin Issacharoff resolved. The first issue in the Midrash that we are phone. My mother can always tell when watch the trees and fields pass by as I roll The film, “The Gatekeepers”, was BIRTHDAYS Sharron & Lee Shackell taught is that there is a boundary beyond I start reading e-mails when I am on the down the path!” The teacher commended shown on television a couple of the second student: “Your eyes are open Meborah Barda Carole & Michael Gumpel which we are not supposed to travel weeks ago (as it was at Film Mosaic on Shabbat -- the limit is known as the – and you see the world.” Shirley Barda Suzanne Hershman earlier in the year). In remarkable “techum Shabbat” -- beyond which one is The third student replied: “Riding my Shirley Chefetz Joan Merett detail and with the active If we are not allowed to walk on the Shabbat or chag. bicycle, I live in harmony with all sentient Vera Gellman involvement of six former agency heads, it tells of the successes The limit is about 3,000 feet -- outside of beings.” The teacher was pleased and said Trudie Goodman CONDOLENCES TO: already running and failures of Shin Bet - Israel’s the last built up area of a town. These days, to the fourth student:”You are riding on the Evelyn Little on the death of her husband, Adam Gridley Security Service. The film is difficult any urban area extends seemingly forever, golden path of non-harming.” Henry, & David Little on the death of his Sylvia Rose to watch, not just because of the but there are still rural places where this through our plans The last student replied: “I ride my father. Alan Solomon Ivrit soundtrack and English sub- might apply. bicycle — to ride my bicycle.” The teacher Ronald, Linda & Michael Berg on the David Stein titles, but it should nevertheless be The second part of the Midrash is for after Shabbat, sat at the feet of the fifth student and said: death of their mother, Ellen Berg. required viewing for everyone with about not preparing to do something “Ahh.... I am your student!” Victor Davis on the death of his brother, an interest in the history of modern after Shabbat, while it is still Shabbat. I Shabbat is supposed to give you John Davis. then we cannot Israel and the intractable moral remember a few years ago, the movie, “The freedom from the worries and concerns Mosaic Reform and operational issues it faces - Adjustment Bureau” with Matt Damon, was of the week, all the things that distract you BIRTHDAYS issues that, sadly, are seemingly no properly enjoy Stop Press from “being in the moment.” Shabbat is Edmund Goldstein, 70 different today than they were 60 showing in town at 8:00 pm on Saturday night. However, Shabbat went out at 8:00 all about just existing, enjoying what you Michele Hart, 70 All strands of UK Judaism are years ago. supporting the World Jewish Relief pm. Even just to get in the queue in time, I Shabbat have in that moment: time, family, food and Lew Leaderman, 90 Ebola emergency appeal. The link to the Martin Simonis and would have had to walk to the theatre while being yourself. Ronald Ringart, 75 appeal is www.wjr.org.uk/ebola. Judy Silverton (Joint Editors) it was still Shabbat, in order to get tickets. phone to her. On the other hand, it can A final story: soon after the death of Alan Young, 80 “The teaches us that by This is where the lesson of the Midrash actually be startling when someone stops, Rabbi Mendel of Kotsk, one of his disciples Victor Sinclair,93 saving one life, it is as if we have saved comes into play. If we are already running looks into your eyes and gives you their was asked: “What was most important to Rita Beach, 75 an entire world.” Our community is through our plans for after Shabbat, then undivided attention. your teacher?” The disciple thought and urged to support the WJR Ebola Crisis Sara Leigh, 94 we cannot properly enjoy Shabbat. We are A Zen teacher saw four of his students then replied: “Whatever he happened to be Appeal to save lives in West Africa, Marion Bloom, 91 not “in the moment”, but rather half here returning from the market, riding their doing at the moment.” where the disease is having such a Send your articles, pictures, Adele Saffer, 70 devastating effect on communities. and half there. bicycles. When they arrived at the On Shabbat, I have the freedom to enjoy Ilse Braude, 90 letters etc to And in fact, the lesson is important for monastery and had dismounted, the my time with friends and family, and now [email protected] the whole week as well. How many times teacher asked the students: “Why are you that I order my movie tickets on-line on Copy Date for the Chanukah issue of Kehila is 3rd November. Views expressed in this Newsletter do not necessarily reflect do you try to answer the phone, check riding your bicycles?” The first student Friday afternoon, I can enjoy my Shabbatot The next issue of Kehila-Monthly is that for February 2015 – those of the officers or council of Mosaic or its constituent copy date is 19th January 2015. synagogues. e-mails and stop your daughter from crying replied, “The bicycle is carrying the sack in peace.

2 3 CHAIRMAN’S OUR LAST FOUNDER MEMBER Obituary of Milcie Dobson, the last surviving founder member of MESSAGE HWPS (or Wembley & District Liberal as was), by Alan Solomon From Harry Grant – Chairman of Mosaic

16th July 2014 marked the end of an era support in her later years in Kenton and Eastcote. for the members of Harrow & Wembley Milcie had the utmost love and affection for her Neil Mendoza Progressive Synagogue. Milcie Dobson, grandchildren, Debbie and Stephen, and her who died at the grand old age of 98, was three great-grandchildren. She and her great- the last surviving founder member of the granddaughter, Jess, both loved ballet, and shul, originally known as Wembley & District Jess felt so proud at having her great-gran, Special Liberal Synagogue. then 96, watching her dance. She pleaded with She was the older of two sisters, whose Jess to stay young for ever! Like so many of message from mother sadly died when Milcie was only four. her generation, she was fiercely independent Times were often hard in those early days, – wanting to cook her meal herself prior to the Neil Mendoza and for a while she lived apart from her sister carer arriving! She was always ready at home Cath until their father re-married. Milcie’s first with a trolley of tea and biscuits; she loved all

© Portraits by Italiaander – www.italiaander.co.uk © Portraits by – chairman, Hatch End employment was with Deloitte; her abiding the family parties, enjoyed shopping and playing or those of you who were unable a grandchild of a Nazi war criminal, Masorti synagogue memory of her position there was going to Rummikub, and didn’t like being the centre of to be in Bessborough Road on 18 will give us insight into her journey the office wearing a hat and white gloves. attention. FOctober, you missed something in understanding her family, and her Milcie and her husband Arthur lived in Kingsbury after their Milcie was very ‘with it’ until the end; she was one of the really special, which I’ll refer to later. lifelong dedication to striving for peace It was a privilege to be part of the wedding in 1937, moving to Willesden during the War when people I interviewed in 2008 during a “This Is Your Life, Shabbat Bereshit marked the end in the Middle East. Ben, incarcerated congregation on Shabbat Bereshit on 18th the whole family, including a grandmother, lived together. HWPS” to mark the Synagogue’s 60th anniversary, when she of a particularly hectic High Holyday during the War in Buchenwald, October 2014. HEMS had relocated to Later moves were back to Kingsbury and, in 1956, to Kenton. recalled how she and Arthur joined the congregation. They season. Unfortunately, security had Schlieben & Theresienstadt, will tell us Bessborough Road for a Bar Mitzvah and Milcie loved and cherished her only child, Carol, and were one of the original six families, who were soon joined by to be scaled up somewhat this year, of his survival and of post-war life after for the very first time, all three constituent son-in-law, Leslie (also members of HWPS prior to joining many others. Milcie was also honoured when we moved into with the combined effect of the mixed he settled England. synagogues of Mosaic were holding Northwood & Pinner Liberal Synagogue); they were both Bessborough Road in 2011. She was a much loved member feelings in the wider community We are most fortunate to have services in different rooms, but all under tireless in ensuring that she received the best care and of Harrow & Wembley and is fondly remembered. following the conflict in Gaza, and the secured both of these speakers to visit one roof. growing threat of terrorism spilling over us, and I urge you to come and hear HEMS used the main prayer hall, which from the frightening development of the them, and bring your family and friends was full to almost bursting and looked ‘Islamic State’ within Iraq and Syria. as well. spectacular. Nicholas Young discharged We remain indebted to the CST, and So now, back to 18 October, and a his duties as the Bar Mitzvah with self- to the local police, as well as our own unique further step forward in the life confidence and distinction and the volunteers who remain alert outside and growth of Mosaic. For the first time service was conducted with a clarity and HEMS Kol Nidre our buildings, giving us the comfort and in our history there were Liberal, Masorti relaxed humour that is so much the HEMS security to celebrate the Yom Tovim, as and Reform Shabbat morning services trademark. Appeal well as our regular weekly services, in held within Mosaic, and under one roof. With time-tabled precision, the three peace. HEMS were celebrating the bar mitzvah communities came together to join in By Edwin Lucas And celebrate we did, throughout our of Nicholas Young, and borrowed the and after a few words from Harry Established 20 years ago three Synagogues. So many thanks are main hall in Bessborough Road for the Grant, to mark the occasion, enjoyed a vast MDA (Magen David Adom – that they needed our help. Their For everyday or just special due to our Rabbis and lay readers, our occasion, while Mosaic Reform prayed array of nibbles spreading way beyond a Israel’s national emergency publication was heart-warming, honey cake bakers, and the suppliers upstairs. The atmosphere was really mere fishball! service) is the external charity as MDA do what one would occasions of seemingly constant Kiddushim, the quite special, as well over 300 souls, Yet the significance of the day was which HEMS decided to expect, with no discrimination • Experience the delight in silent army of silverware polishers and members of all three Synagogues and that Mosaic Reform so willingly allowed support this year. It was an regarding colour, country of a set of beautiful natural Sukkah builders, and everyone who bar mitzvah guests, created a sense of the use of its facilities to assist HEMS, easy choice, following the origin or religion. They do what looking artificial nails helps to make our Synagogues run so ruach which really does epitomise what for which we thank their Chair, Barbara recent troubles in the Middle others would like to do and they smoothly. our unique Community is all about. We Grant, and MR Council. This was the East. Neil Mendoza made the have an excellent track record. • Enjoy a relaxing manicure We are increasing the numbers of even managed to coordinate the ending physical manifestation of the years of work appeal after a discussion with In addition, Joanna Phillips from or pedicure...or both! All guest speakers visiting our Community, of all three services, so we could enjoy on developing the Mosaic project, with our congregant, Chanan Shuall, Mosaic Reform is hoping to go in the comfort of your own and recently heard from Dr Edie Kiddush together, and it was a sweet friendly co-operation giving a taste of what who is Israeli and has first- hand on attachment in the coming home Friedman on the work of the Jewish taste of what the future holds for us. it will be like when we can all be together in knowledge, having served in months with MDA, which brought Council for Racial Equality. In early You, yes you, are part of something a new building. the armed forces. Whilst HEMS the charity to life, and we shall be November, on 10th and 16th, we will be very exciting that is growing within This was HEMS at its best; this was has supported MDA in the past, able to learn at first- hand about Phone Krysta on privileged to welcome Alexandra Senfft Anglo Jewry, and I sincerely hope you Mosaic at its best. The vision is becoming this year with the timing of the their good work and not just the and Ben Helfgott MBE. Alexandra, take maximum advantage of it. a reality. war it was all the more poignant public relations. 0208 866 9879

4 5 in a pram at the time, so her induction always actively supported the work that neighbours in the wider community on to HEMS started early. Phil has made a Judy has done for the community and is issues of common interest. In addition, lasting impression on HEMS. He became often on security or to be found running Karen is also a longstanding bereavement Chatanim a councillor and, like Alan, was promoted up and down ladders, resolving various counsellor and a founder member of to Trustee and co-chair with Alan. He has a building issues. our Chevra Kedisha, where she has also Congratulations to those who were elected Chatanim at their respective synagogues at Simchat great gift with the written word and acts as While working in the community, Judy worked in training interested members Torah. Below we reproduce the addresses that were accorded the honorants at their services our censor in all written communications. has also found time for a career in the world from other communities. He loves Shul so much that as a result of publishing, which then extended to You may possibly know David, her of his work on Mosaic, he is now Vice organising training days and conferences, quiet, unassuming, shrinking violet of a Chairman of the new community. Phil has before retiring from her last role in marketing husband who has for many years been vision and the 4- way link which became a in the field of financial investment. Mosaic deeply involved in the musical life of the 3- way link, is now a fait accompli. He has is once more benefitting from her energy community, as well as serving as Treasurer a talent in soothing troubled waters. Sadly, and enthusiasm, as she has now thrown and Warden and chairman of Education. he does it too well, as the River Pinn was herself into the role of Joint Editor of our And he is immensely proud of what Karen scarcely flowing at Tashlich this year! Phil monthly Kehila magazine. does for Mosaic Reform. volunteers a great deal, with the support Karen too has a career outside of of Michele; he is a great giver and could KAREN POLLAK – CALLAT BERESHIT Synagogue life; while raising her children, never be described as a taker. He takes And now to Karen,our Callat Bereshit. Mia and Leo, she worked as a Medical challenges on board for the benefit of Karen Pollak is also a member of very Secretary while studying at the Open the community, davens and does Dvars longstanding, who has always been University. Subsequently, she set up a which he researches well. 21 people came heavily involved with Synagogue life, business representing artists and is also along just two weeks ago to listen to his although in a far less visible way. For an accomplished needlewoman and teachings. He also loves fundraising and many years, she has been responsible for ceramicist. has brought adult education to HEMS putting together our popular Friday night Harrow and on Council and was a regular helper at like golf, but the draw of HEMS was such through Rabbi Arberman, both on site and Chavurah community suppers, where her The picture shows Judy and Karen with HWPS Bazaars; she has conducted poetry that he claimed he had hand trouble, just so through chicken schnitzels and Skype! soups are legendary! Latterly, this culinary Rabbi Kathleen and the back of Alexander’s Wembley readings for our lunch club as well as other he could come to HEMS more often. Alan Their daughter, Talia, is now a teaching expertise has extended to the Communal head! Also, the wardens (Jeremy Banks day centres. used to have a sticker system for Jewish assistant at HaMakom. Joel, their son, Seders and the over 80’s luncheon; in fact, and Stefan Roos) preparing the Torah. Progressive After providing support for so many school entry verifications. We worked out did a wonderful Tekiah Gedolah at Ne’ilah if you need soup years, Stella is now grateful for the that he attends Shul 60 times per year and on Yom Kippur. Clearly, the younger for one hundred HANA SCHLESINGER – CHATAN support she is receiving. She particularly we are going to give him an award when he generation are chips off the older blocks, or so people for TORAH values Rabbi Frank’s pastoral visits. She reaches 1,000 attendances - he has a while which is a great credit to Phil in particular. tomorrow morning, Hana joined HWPS on 30 October 1990. appreciates the contact she enjoys with to go. Karen is definitely She has helped with the Communal many HWPS members and looks upon our Alan has done a lot for Mosaic. He has the girl to call! Seders since 1991, attended new community as an extended family. made a living legacy by being on the Karen represents members’ evenings, conducted regular Stella is honoured to be chosen as HaMakom committee. Alan takes Shul Mosaic Reform Mosaic Reform on services and taken Shiva Services; she Chatan Bereshit and HWPS are happy to with him on holiday and has led services various interfaith has been involved with the Care Group, bestow this honour on our great stalwart. on cruise ships! In Israel, he and Reggie JUDY SILVERTON – CALLAT TORAH activities and is making many hospital visits and has been recently visited ex-HEMSers, Joy Collins First, our Callat Torah, Judy Silverton. our representative responsible for organising the Harrow Soup The picture shows Hana and Stella as well as Roger and Carole Morris, and Together with her husband, Philip, Judy on the Harrow Run for many years. She joined the R & P surrounded by HWPS members and nearly had a former members’ minyan. joined Middlesex New Synagogue Interfaith Council. committee on 11 October 1994 and took friends at Simchat Torah kiddush. (Photo Alan’s HEMS day starts at 7:15am with a some 33 years ago after a spell at EDRS. She is frequently over as Chairman on 6 July 1995; she is by FDS) call to Mosaic Vice Chairman, Phil Austin, Judy immediately immersed herself in involved with our now standing down. Hana has served two followed by a call to Edwin Lucas, just to communal life by joining the then PTA, a full terms on Council; she has graduated check that the Shul is OK. He used to drive committee of parents who supported and through the Ba’alei Tefillah course and a taxi, but now can rarely be seen in a cab, actively fundraised for the Religion School. has been asked to teach at subsequent Hatch End Masorti except when he made Gillian Lucas really Not content with being a passive member, courses. She attends educational happy at her Batmitzvah, when he picked Judy moved through the roles of Secretary seminars and goes to Limmud. ALAN GOLDNER – her up for the function in a black cab. This and Treasurer before becoming Chairman, Hana has served HWPS well for so CHATAN TORAH was her first and a shehechyonu was while Katy and Iain were at Sunday many years and is truly a worthy Chatan Alan joined HEMS recited. morning classes. Judy then became the Torah. Long may she continue to serve the due to the roundabout Honorary Secretary of the synagogue for a community and give us the benefit of her signs in Hatch End. He spell of 3 years under 3 different Chairmen wisdom in her new role. got involved quickly PHIL AUSTIN – and then took a break from active and soon became a CHATAN BERESHIT involvement in communal life until 2011, STELLA BENNISTER – CHATAN © Italiaander Councillor, Warden Phil joined HEMS when she again resumed responsibility as BERESHIT and Trustee, and was when he was Honorary Secretary during the start of our Stella joined HWPS with her husband Len finally promoted to Chairman. Alan is a doer accosted outside very important period of transition from in 1963. She has helped with the Care and will step in for service rotas and will Raoul’s Deli in Hatch Middlesex New Synagogue to Mosaic Group, became Synagogue liaison officer daven when other people cannot, or when End! He was a great Reform. Judy has also recently joined our for the Abbeyfield Lily Montague Care they fall sick, which really is not allowed. He catch! I think his bereavement support group as well as Home, has helped out at Cheder, served is a walking . He used to © Italiaander daughter, Talia, was our Chevra Kedisha. Philip has, of course,

6 7 Mosaic launches Youth Group for the over 12s

By David Pollak Noam and LJ Netzer, the youth On Sunday 21st September, divisions of the Masorti and a lunch meeting took place Liberal movements, will play at Bessborough Road a full part in future events and when Frankie Stubbs, activities. Leadership Role the Communities Youth The next meetings are Development Officer of planned for 15th November By Kevin Ziants, (HWPS) the Movement for Reform (bowling in Garston) and then Judaism, met with a number in December. There will then od said to Joshua: “Have rebelling as he was losing of young people from each of be a more comprehensive GI not commanded you? control. Jethro encouraged the three Mosaic communities programme prepared for 2015. Be strong and courageous. to talk to his people on a and Kol Chai. Food and drink One of the older members Do not be afraid; do not be one to one basis, listen to them was in plentiful supply and of the group, Sam Bard, has discouraged, for the Lord your and be guided by their mixed the agenda was to explore launched a Facebook page God will be with you wherever feelings. This advice helped opportunities to develop youth which aims to keep everyone you go.” (Joshua 1:9). This the move forward on activities for young people in touch with what is taking portion describes the period the long journey ahead to the between the ages of 12 and 17 place. This will be in addition to when Moses ends his tenure Promised Land. Jethro was within the three communities announcements at HaMakom as leader and Joshua is about not encouraging Moses to making up Mosaic and all and in individual synagogue to take over. Most of you may delegate roles, but to power Jewish communities in the newsletters, announcements know that since the High Holy share amongst the people. area. and direct publicity. Days, I have taken over from There is a subtle difference We were delighted to see Our hope is that each Hana as the Chair of our Rites between delegation and representatives from all the synagogue within Mosaic and Practices Committee. I power sharing. I can say to a four communities that make and at Kol Chai will identify feel, given Hana’s successful member we need a shammas up HaMakom and after about someone who will keep and valuable 19 years as Chair this Friday, please can you 90 minutes of eating, drinking, their members informed of of R&P, a bit like Joshua. For shammas? Or, to share the dreaming and brain storming, programmes and plans for those of a sporting nature and responsibility, I could say we a programme was produced the future. All being well, it is not into biblical significances, need a shammas this Friday, for the next three months. hoped that a second club will this can be compared to the how do you think we can A first meeting took place be formed in the not too distant equivalent of David Moyes resolve this matter? Within our on Friday 17th October at future which will cater for the taking over from Alex Ferguson community, I intend to follow the home of Mark Phillips or, under-12 age group. Mitzvah Day as Man United manager after the Jethro thought process. more particularly, that of Sam As ever, these initiatives rely years of constant success. I will endeavour to speak to Phillips. Eleven youngsters upon a few people to get them Mitzvah Day is a brilliant Collecting for the New Hope Gift boxes for Barnados could share with the rest of the The football discussion is best individuals here on 1-1 basis, from all the communities were started and even more people international day, dedicated to Trust Volunteers to go to New toys, books and gifts for community, left to another forum. encourage you to share your treated to a programme which to keep them going. If you have helping others through simple Morrisons on Pinner Road and children aged 0-16 that will fit for example: Moses certainly did not have opinions and take on board all included a Shabbat evening any experience of working with acts of kindness, goodwill and collect food donations into a shoe box. • computer skills/ knowledge an easy ride as a leader of the reasonable views. service (see picture), followed young people or would like to giving. Please come along and • odd jobs and DIY tribes of Israel, who were at I feel, as a community, we by pizza and a showing of the get involved, please contact be a part of it! CDs Seed Hope Elevenses at Kol Chai • gardening times obstinate, rebellious should challenge the way our inspiring movie ‘The Freedom me (david@maplesolutions. This year Mitzvah Day is on Join this Tzedek project by • volunteers to help make and and troublesome. There are services are conducted and Writers’. By all accounts, the co.uk or 07710 878186) for an Sunday 16th November and we donating unwanted CDs and serve tea and sandwiches Harrow Nature Conservation lessons to be learnt from great the liturgy of our prayer book, evening was a great success informal chat’. There will be would really appreciate help DVDs. They will be used to • budding entertainers to sing, Forum leaders and Hana has provided which in my view is in parts and everyone enjoyed all no obligation attached to any with any of the following: directly help people help play instruments, tell a joke or We will also be contributing me with valuable guidance as I flawed. I will invite individuals, aspects of the programme, but conversation, but our hope is themselves out of extreme two... to the upkeep of our local am about to embrace my new regardless of their religious more especially the company that we can provide the means poverty in Africa and India. environment, so any willing role. The first lesson I learnt as status, to R & P meetings and of other young people from by which the young people of Microvolunteering helpers would be greatly a leader of many, is “you need allow them to express their Mosaic and Kol Chai. our synagogues can come Volunteers with skills that they appreciated. broad shoulders”. Certainly, views. Who knows, there may Special thanks are due to together, make friends and Moses did and in his toughest be another Jethro out there! Frankie Stubbs who, with her grow up in an environment For more information, please contact: Harrow and Wembley Diana Ayres Email: [email protected] Tel: 0208 452 2017; Hatch End moments, he sought help from I feel excited and, at times, RSY Netzer experience, has that encourages participation Masorti Traci Spivack Email: [email protected] Tel: 020 8421 2300; Kol Chai Jacky Martin Email: [email protected] Tel: 01923 Jethro, his non-Jewish father daunted by my new role. If I helped us launch this latest and companionship with like- 825409; Mosaic Reform Viki Kenton Email: [email protected] Tel: 01923 802787 in law, on how to control the achieve half as much as Hana, Mosaic initiative. We are very minded people and will give us restless Israelites who were I will consider that a success. hopeful that members of all something to be proud of.

8 9 Board of Deputies Meeting of the International Division of the BoD held Our at Bloomsbury Square September 23rd common fight By Michael Reik A recently produced with shelter for their rockets. against IS Manifesto Document will be Questions were discussed distributed to all MPs in time concerning the role of the By Fred Stern for the Conference Season. A media in advancing anti- suggestion was made that a Semitism by their biased If it were not for Forward, and from the Henry Jackson further document be provided coverage in the war. This all the ongoing, Society itself to consider the problems of just prior to the election with included the possibility of centuries-old, ISIS. relevant up to date matters in the UK Jewish Community inter-religious The leading Jewish There are at least 3000 current members a maximum of 8 pages. If the producing a video which wars of the Islamic organisations in this of ISIS who originate from Europe. They are Document is available on the could counter any of the nations, Israel establishing what they consider to be a new web, it should be updated as media accusations. It should would have a country must be Islamic Caliphate, currently spanning Iraq changes take place. be noted that 78% of all hard struggle to and Syria, which they believe represents The Turkish Jewish news coverage comes first survive against strengthened to take pure Islam. Community has recently from the BBC. IS, the Islamic State. Europe and the US After the current fighting, two types of stated in local newspapers A debate is to take place on would need to unite with Israel to fight a positive stance at people will return to the UK and Europe: that they condemned Israel’s a vote for a Palestinian State against forces, superior in numbers, (1) Those who are disillusioned, and who recent actions, but that they in the House of Commons on and on many fronts whilst covering their all times could help to de-radicalise others, but who condemn more strongly October 13th. backs. The writing is not just on the wall, presently would be arrested on their return; being told by the Turkish There is a belief within Israel but the expressed aim of Islam is world (2) Those that have acquired a fascist Government to say so! that a war with Hamas will domination. Israel is at present the only To put our case to the media and the philosophy, and have been totally Israel has now confirmed restart within 6 months. bastion in the way of achieving that aim. country at large, the leading Jewish radicalised. that November 30 be the It is confirmed that any The USA recognises the threat and has organisations in this country must be Unfortunately, the withdrawal of commemorative date stores that concede in any already brought a number of countries strengthened to take a positive stance at all American Troops in 2011 removed any on which became way to BDS (Boycott, together, including Islamic ones, into times. They must show that anti-Semitism form of control. The lack of American refugees, especially from Arab Divestment and Sanctions) a credible force to prevent IS from is not only a crime and an offence against interest in the area allowed other factions Countries. will be pursued to ‘up the encroaching into war-torn countries. It is human rights, but gives comfort to our to move in. This is an all- American Policy The Muslim Brotherhood ante’, whereas those stores expected that more countries will join this common enemies and provides a tool for or lack of policy under President Obama. is being expelled from Qatar. that refuse to acknowledge alliance. The Islamic forces, whose leaders our opponents to drive a wedge between It seems unbelievable that Obama has There is concern that those BDS or ignore them altogether are unknown, will recognise that they us. Our own strength and determination will now decided on a bombing campaign in being expelled may consider will be left alone. are not only opposing Islamic countries, be appreciated by all fair-minded people Iraq, 12 months after stating that the war in coming to the UK. It should The International Division weakened and torn apart by internal wars, and anti-Semitism will be eradicated in our Iraq was over! be noted despite monies and Board Executives are but an opposition to be reckoned with. time. The killing at the Jewish Museum in provided by Qatar to Hamas, considering going to Brussels It is evident that Israel’s foes are the Brussels is now known to have been that there are direct flights to meet up with British MEPs same as those opposing the IS in their carried out by an Isis trained person between Qatar and Israel. to pursue items of specific common cause. In all its wars, Israel has returning from Iraq. The roll of UNWRA in importance to the British beaten its enemies and has shown itself The Rise of the Iran is supporting groups in Iraq to fight Operation Protective Edge Jewish Community. to be more than capable of staving them ISIS, but they are as violent as Isis itself. should be taken up with the The above comments off, with their opponents recognising Islamic State Iran’s interest lies in opposing Sunni Foreign Office. One billion typically show the action being Israel’s superiority. These facts must be against Shia. pounds is provided annually, taken at the Board of Deputies expressed in no uncertain terms, wherever Isis is financially self- sufficient, due with a large contribution from sub- divisional meeting. and whenever appropriate. As any form of Discussion at the House of to monies accumulated through bank the UK, to what was effectively anti-Semitism would weaken that de facto Commons Committee Room robberies and hostage-taking, etc. a means of supplying the alliance, it is essential that reporting by all 14 on September 11th It was the feeling of all three speakers terrorist organisation, Hamas, the media, relating to Israel, is absolutely that pulling American troops out of Iraq even-handed. Responses to complaints Notes by Michael Reik has been a direct cause in the rise of ISIS. to the media, relating to the recent Under the chairmanship of John Glen, MP, Those who were fighting the rise of ISIS confrontation, continue to express their the Henry Jackson Society invited three over the past two or three years have given double standards. speakers, from Quilliam, from Left Foot up through the lack of overseas support.

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Kehila Quiz No. 4 Photograph: FDS (Famous Firsts) HaMakom Compiled by Neil Kabbalat Torah class students Ruth Goodman Brown, Sam Phillips and Sam Benson practise blowing the shofar during the Which US first day of class in this HaMakom’s 3rd year of existence. The class is taught 1statesman and by Rabbis Frank Dabba Smith (HWPS) and Kathleen de Magtige-Middleton scientist produced (Mosaic Reform). the first bifocal lens in Walk 39 – in the City 1780? Participants at the Firefighters Memorial by St Pauls’ Cathedral on Calder Hall in the London walk on 14th September organised by John Ashmele. 2Cumbria was the first what in the UK? Harrods installed 3the first example of what new The children were key in building the succah at Bessborough Road. See technology in the UK also the picture on the front page in 1898? Louis Daguerre Photograph: FDS Close of Yom 4was the first to Kippur at HWPS commercially achieve what? At the close of Yom Kippur on Saturday, 4th October, we enjoyed a Whitcomb L. very special ritual. HWPS stalwarts Rita Asbury and Alan Solomon 5Judson made celebrated birthdays over the Photograph: Stephanie Lindley weekend and were joined by youthful getting dressed a little Packing fruit for members of all ages. From left to right: Inge Harwood, Joy Katz, Feo easier in 1890/91 the succah Kahn (104 ¾ and going strong!), Feo’s carer Angie, Alan Solomon, when he developed In the kitchen - Felicity Amswych Rita Asbury and Adam Prince. and her son Aedhan worked for 2 what? hours packing fruit into nets for the Succah. Answers on page 18

12 13 whet your appetites further by attaching the menu card, but we also enjoyed a bit of linguistic fun. Review of past events On each plate was a slip of paper with various translations into English - some not really suitable for a synagogue magazine, but here are a few which I’m LJ Inter-Synagogue sure will make you chuckle - spotted in a hotel in Dubrovnik was “The flattening of Quiz 2014 underwear with pleasure is the job of the the 34 HEMS members attending said: what was most remarkable for the By Alan Hunt chambermaid”; in the lobby of a Moscow “Next year at HEMS!” with the wish that all audience was his continuing interest hotel across from a cemetery was “You the Mosaic community would be invited. and outspoken opinions on the current A total of ten teams participated in the are welcome to visit the cemetery where Will we have a new building by then to political scene and events in Israel. 2014 Liberal Judaism Inter-Synagogue famous Russian and Soviet composers, seat all the supporters?! Our time was too short to delve into his Quiz, which took place at Finchley on writers and artists are buried daily except activities in the early days of MNS, and his 8 September. The HWPS team was on Thursday” and, in an airline ticket other local and national work in the field of composed of Alan and Janet Solomon, office, Copenhagen was: “We take your In conversation with racial equality and harmony. Too much to Steven and Danielle Sanderson, Anthony bags and send them in all directions”. cover in one session, but a great insight and Jacky Guter, Paul Zatz and Alan Special thanks to our hostess Esther. Lawrie Nerva into local, national and international Hunt. By the time this write-up reaches you By Steve Levinson politics from one who has been involved We got off to a rocky start, gaining only the New Year will be well under way Selichot service at for nearly 70 years. three points from the first round, which so, although somewhat belated, I wish HEMS was based on the missing words format Food for fun ‘Shana Tova’ to all at HEMS, HWPS of “Have I Got News for You”. Things and Mosaic Reform and may 5775 be a By Anne Steiner The Selichot service this year was held for Edie Friedman improved slightly with rounds on British happy, healthy and peaceful year. the first time at HEMS, where 80 people roads and sport, but our knowledge of ‘Food for Fun’ meets in members’ homes attended from Borehamwood Masorti, Dr Edie Friedman, founder and director Liberal Judaism proved to be lamentable, at 6-8 weekly intervals to enjoy a home- Edgware Masorti, HEMS, Kol Nefesh of the Jewish Council for Racial Equality, a failing that was underlined during cooked meal, for which we all bring a and St Albans Masorti. The evening spoke to a small group of Mosaic the interval, when Danny Rich held a dish, laugh, chat and generally have a started with , which was led by members and guests on 16th September. separate Mastermind quiz on the same relaxing evening. Simon Glass and Irwin Spilka. There were Edie, born in Chicago and active as a subject, and our nominee, Alan Solomon ‘Sugar and Spice’ was the theme for singers from each shul including Johanna young person in the American civil rights failed to win the coveted crystal trophy. the August meeting. A feeling of ‘sugar Marx, Jonathan Fenster and Marvyn movement, shared the story of how We did fairly well in the film and history and sweetness’ was created by pink and Ellison from HEMS. The “choir “ was led she came to form JCORE in the UK in rounds, but delivered disappointing white bowls of flowers, together with pink by Chazan Jackie Chernett. There had 1976. Since then, Edie and the JCORE performances in the science and and silver sugared almonds and pretty been much rehearsing over the last 3 team, invoking Jewish prophetic values technology and live music rounds, and dotted serviettes - all of which helped to months and it was clear that the smart Lawrie Nerva’s lifetime in local and concerning justice and compassion, have also in the marathon (famous people put us in a relaxed summery mood, whist looking team all enjoyed themselves. Labour party politics and Israel-related proved themselves to be a consistent and when they were younger); this meant the wine added a touch of spicy tang. Many familiar tunes were sung and there activities was revealed to a Mosaic active voice, supporting refugees and that we finished third, in bronze medal The food wasn’t bad either! were a number of solo pieces, one of audience, when he was “In Conversation asylum seekers, as well as championing position, behind runners-up Elstree and We started with a refreshing gazpacho, which was sung by Johanna Marx. The With” broadcaster, Steve Levinson, after the cause of building a society free of the winners by a large margin, LJS (who followed by sweet and sour chicken, Old iPads one bracha that was missing was the the Shabbat service on July 26th racism. Edie challenged us to engage departed without the Geoffrey Davis an Hungarian influenced salad and a Shehchyonu, as for many people, this At the age of 92 - Lawrie was also actively with our Jewish values, not to trophy, as last year’s winners, Elstree, vegetable platter, some of the flavourings was a first ever. The evening closed with celebrating his birthday - he set out some mention our refugee heritage. Edie’s talk had forgotten to bring it with them!). Still, included were cinnamon, coriander, wanted the sound of the shofar, blown by Chanan of his earliest memories, including the was an inspiration to those at Mosaic it was better than last year’s seventh lemon, paprika, saffron and vanilla . Our Mosaic HaMakom would like Shuall. HEMS was delighted to welcome depression of the 1930s and the mood seeking to make social action an integral place, and our intellectual horizons were desserts, as always, were sumptuous. to be able to use iPads as Rabbi Kaiserbluth from St Albans and of the country after the Second World part of our communal life. expanded by learning the difference With apologies and misquoting the part of our Sunday morning Rabbi Even-David from Edgware Masorti. War. It was then, inspired by the “birdlike” between xylem and phloem and the Searchers, their hit song of the 60’s sums The evening was such a success that, Clement Atlee, he said that Lawrie joined names of the men who designed the up our summer supper. ‘Sugar and spice education. The children use rather than say, “Next year in Jerusalem!”, the Labour party. It was the beginning typeface used on motorway signs! and all things nice/Kisses sweeter than them at school already. If you of an affinity during which he met his It was a very high tech quiz, with film wine/ Sugar and spice and all things are about to upgrade your wife Ruby, had dealings with numerous clips, computerised scoring and a live nice/You know that ‘food for fun’ is fine.’ iPad and would like to donate Labour leaders, served on Brent Council pianist; and some of the equipment Special thanks to our host, Margie. I your old one to Mosaic as chair of social services, and was worked some of the time. But Finchley think I speak for all when I say an evening HaMakom then please let presented with a lifetime achievement did feed us very well with sandwiches, of real joy and laughter spent with friends. Jacky Martin know via the award in 2012 by Ed Miliband at Labour’s cake and, during the interval, scones ‘Pot Luck’ was the theme of our national conference. He also spoke fondly with jam and cream. However, the fact October evening, and as luck would office. We will of course of his many years of work for the Jewish remains that it is now eight years since have it our meeting was one of those make sure that any personal Labour movement, formerly Poale Zion, HWPS lifted the coveted trophy. Where is evenings which will go into our FFF information is deleted from it which once again resulted in international the Roy Hodgson figure who will be able memory bank. Not only did we have a before use. recognition. For all his recollections, to restore us to our former glory? hearty, well-balanced meal, and I will

14 15 16 17 Letters to the Editor From Trudy Segal From Maurice Hoffman What is Mosaic? Request for Friendship Club helpers Jewish Volunteering Network Do you have a little time to spare on Mondays ? The Friendship Club the Jewish Volunteering Network www.jvn.org.uk provide all Mosaic is a vibrant new Jewish community which comprises the members of three partner need some extra help so that they can continue to make Mondays sorts of opportunities for all ages and interests, some being special for their members. For many this is their only opportunity one off, others being more regular. It’s lots of fun, a chance to synagogues. The three synagogues represent the Masorti, Reform and Liberal strands of to socialise/enjoy lunch and entertainment/make friends. Please give help in a variety of ways and meet lots of people. I urge Judaism respectively providing Mosaic members with a choice of emphases and ritual across contact Trudy Segal on 0208 423 3209 for more information. you to sign up and get the newsletter. eventually you will see the Progressive spectrum. Indeed, the providing of choice is a key Mosaic principle which something interesting and get the T-shirt. extends beyond ritual. Mosaic provides its members with a wide range of social, educational, From Rita Asbury cultural and recreational activities designed to appeal to diverse interests and age groups. Kiev Coppers Update From Bill and Marge Hunter – recently-retired Bessborough Road There is an excellent religion school for younger members with innovative opportunities to During his visit in August we were able to give Rabbi Alex caretaker extend Jewish learning beyond bar/bat mitzvah. Dukhovny a further £100 from our copper collection. This What a surprise when I opened the door to a delivery man to accept Most important, we look out as well as in and offer exciting opportunities to get involved with brought our total to £15,100. Alex was also able to give us a a box. An even bigger surprise when I opened it. The orchids are influential social action and inter-faith programmes, whether locally, nationally or internationally. fully detailed breakdown of how our money has been used truly beautiful. I’m afraid I’m forbidden to touch it as I seem to to support the two kindergartens which his community runs. have the kiss of death when it comes to plants. So Bill has taken Mosaic is living proof of what can be achieved with goodwill, mutual respect and a willingness His report illustrated just how much our money is needed and sole control over the care and well-being of our plant. From what to work together. I must thank all of you who continue to save your coppers for I understand from Bill’s wise words, with his care and attention it this important cause. As I write this report, thanks to some will last for years. So we will have something to remind us of the Find out more at www.choosemosaic.org or contact generous donations, we have almost reached the next £100. So great people Bill worked for and with for years. So please accept as always…..KEEP THE KOPPERS KOMING! our thanks. Membership Officer Lindsey Cohen on 020 8420 7498

From Leslie Kopitko 70th birthday From Paula and Jeffrey Rogers, Bexhill on Sea Last Saturday I celebrated my 70th birthday – joining the service Many thanks to one and all responsible for the lovely gift of honey cake. What a treat and surprise to open up the parcel, and with family and friends. I was called to give the blessing for the The Offices for all 3 shuls are now at 39 Bessborough Road and find your lovely wishes together with a real treat. State of Israel. This was truly a wonderful experience and all all are open 09.00-15.00 Monday-Thursday enjoyed the morning with the lovely Kiddush afterwards. I cannot Wishing everyone involved and not involved with such a Get in touch! thank all involved enough. wonderful idea, all our best wishes, and huge thanks. Free Office: 020 8864 0133 transport Office 020 8864 0133 Email: [email protected] Email: [email protected] Chairman: Barbara Grant: 01923 711 991 to Shul Address: 39 Bessborough Road, Hon. Secretary: Juliet Grainger 01923 822 682 Harrow HA1 3BS Rabbi Kathleen Middleton: 020 8866 9225 (use only when HWPS and 2015 Chairman: Harry Grant 01923 711 991 Office is closed) Mosaic Reform MOSAIC CALENDAR Email: [email protected] Bereavement Support (Bobbi Riesel): members who Membership Officer: Lindsey Cohen 020 8428 7977 are unable to We’re delighted to report that the first 020 8420 7498 JJBS: 020 8989 5252 travel to Shul Mosaic Calendar has been published and is Email: membership@ choosemosaic.org for services included with this edition of Kehila Monthly. Website: www.choosemosaic.org are welcome to There is no charge for it but if you’d like to Childrens’ Birthdays use a specially make a contribution towards its cost, your funded minicab donation would be very welcome. Office: 020 8864 5323 HEMS Daniel Grossman, 12 facility. Please Thanks are due to those involved with the Email: [email protected] Oliver Vinacour, 6 Emily Grossman, 9 Chairman: Adrian Cohen: 020 8420 7498 contact Lindsey production of this calendar and to all the Lenny Jacobs, 8 Office 020 8864 0133 Vice Chairman: Alan Solomon: 020 8866 0335 Cohen on 0208 “posties” who have delivered them to you. Mosaic Reform Ava Kenton, 7 Email [email protected] Rabbi Frank Dabba Smith: 020 8864 5408 420 7498 or Noah Abrahams, 12 Sophie Kenton, 5 Chairman: Neil Mendoza 07710 146 353 Membership Secretary: Lindsey Cohen: Daniel Baars, 12 Tamar Noble-Bougay, 9 the Synagogue Max Burzynski, 1 Shachar Noble-Bougay, 9 Hon. Secretary: Edwin Lucas 07973 312851 020 8420 7498 office on Lila Cloote, 6 Jack Rowson, 7 Rabbi Paul Arberman (via email in Israel): Rites and Practices: Kevin Ziants: 020 8908 6305 0208 864 Charlie Cole, 6 Amy Phillips, 4 rabbi@ hems.org.uk Care Co-ordinator: Joy Katz 0208 904 8037 0133 for more Kehila Quiz No. 4 (Famous Firsts) – page 12: Answers Shelby Cole, 3 Jedd Spikesman, 12 Burials Officer: Edward Kafka: 0208 904 5499 JJBS: 020 Liberal Judaism: 020 7580 1663 information. 1. Benjamin Franklin 2. Atomic Power Station 3. Escalator 4. A Adam Feldman, 6 Tilly Wolff, 8 8989 5252 Undertakers: M M Broad & Son: 020 8445 2797 method of developing photographs 5. The Zip

18 19 Unless otherwise stated, all events take place at 39 Bessborough Road, Harrow HA1 3BS. The times/locations of weekly services are as below, unless otherwise stated: HWPS: Bessborough Road: Friday 19:00, Saturday 11:00 (Chavurah Supper last Friday every month, after the evening service) HEMS: Girl Guide Headquarters (GGHQ), Hatch End: Saturday 9:30 am Mosaic Reform: Bessborough Road: Friday 19:00, Saturday 10:30

November Saturday 1st 13:00 Michael Reik in conversation with Woolf Heymann Sunday 2nd 14:00 Stone-setting - Kate Stern – Cheshunt 14:45 Stone-setting - Howard Franks – Cheshunt 15:00 Cameo (Group for bereaved people) Monday 3rd - Chanukah edition of Kehila - copy date 11:00 Harrow Friendship Club - Singer Linda Watts 20:00 HWPS Group 326 Wednesday 5th 20:00 Council meetings Sunday 9th 09:30 HaMakom Monday 10th 11:00 Harrow Friendship Club - The Great American Songbook with Fiona Harrison 20:00 Speaker - Alexandra Senfft - author and journalist 20:00 HWPS Group 326 Wednesday 12th 20:00 Mosaic Photography Group – ‘Making a Book using Photobox’. Saturday 15th 11:00 Shabbat Shira Sunday 16th 20:00 Speaker - Ben Helfgott - survivor and Olympic competitor - Mitzvah Day Monday 17th 11:00 Happy Birthday to the Friendship Club ! / Bill Smith entertains 20:00 HWPS Group 326 Tuesday 18th 20:00 Mosaic Film - ‘A Secret’ Wednesday 19th 12:30 Seniors’ Lunch Club – ‘Cruising’ 20:00 HWPS Book Group – ‘The Goldfinch’ by Donna Tartt (phone office for venue) Sunday 23rd 09:45 HaMakom 20:00 HEMS Supper Quiz Monday 24th 11:00 Harrow Friendship Club - Return visit of David Peace 20:00 HWPS Group 326 Friday 28th 19:00 HWPS Erev Shabbat Service & Pot Luck supper Saturday 29th 09:30 Torah Tots 10:30 Graduation service for HaMakom trainee assistants Sunday 30th 09:45 HaMakom

December Monday 1st 11:00 Harrow Friendship Club - Return visit of Gayathrie and Bill Patrick 20:00 HWPS Group 326 Wednesday 3rd 20:00 Council meetings Sunday 7th 09:45 HaMakom 19:30 An evening with Jay Rayner 15:00 Cameo (Group for bereaved people) Monday 8th 11:00 Harrow Friendship Club - Harry’s choice 20:00 HWPS Group 326 Wednesday 10th 20:00 Mosaic Photography Group Thursday 11th - Chanukah edition of Kehila – distribution Sunday 14th 09:45 HaMakom 14:45 Stone-setting - David Emanuel – Cheshunt Monday 15th 11:00 Harrow Friendship Club - Alex Samos entertains Tuesday 16th - 1st candle Chanukah 20:00 Mosaic Film – ‘To Kill a Mockingbird’ Wednesday 17th 12:30 HWPS Lunch Club For the- latestCHANUKAH information and weekly parashot information please check Friday 19th 19:00 Family Friendly Chanukah service Saturday 20th 10:30 Shabbat Shira.and Lunch for 80+ year olds

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