Vol. 23, No. 11 – November 2019 PRSRT STD P.O. Box 70, Millstone, N.J. 08510 ECRWSS A Monthly Periodical Serving Greenbriar at Whittingham U.S. Postage PAID EDDM Retail Monroe Twp., NJ 08831

PRESENTED BY THE RESIDENTS CIVIC CLUB OF GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM Do We Keep a Restaurant in Our Community? By Joan Hermelee ple crowding the aisles and the Sycamore Grill, gave a There are many active adult doorways. Unfortunately, the PowerPoint presentation to ex- communities in Monroe Town- people standing had to be plain the situation. His com- ship. Residents choose to live asked to leave because it was pany operates 16 properties in in GW for the golf course, the a fire hazard, but the Board 6 states, with his main head- pools, the tennis courts, pickle promised an identical meeting quarters in Millstone. He has ball courts, the many activities, on October 29 for those who experience running successful and the on-site restaurant. could not attend. In addition, restaurants in these areas. However, throughout the his- the minutes would be made That company has the re- tory of GW, many vendors public for all to read. sources to offer stability, lon- (such as Dayton Diner, Miriam Cohen began the gevity, and consistency. Tommy’s, The Hearth, and meeting by explaining the cur- The restaurant has hired a Jamesburg Diner) have failed rent predicament. The chal- new chef, Vanessa Jules, and in their attempts to make a lenges of running a restaurant the supervisor is Louise Cal- restaurant work profitably. in GW are: darola. The original issues be- Peter LoPresti, Miriam Cohen, Gerald Tamburro, Charles Dipi- Now the community faces the · It is not in the middle of a gan upon opening and Dave erro, and David Rothman at the Candidates’ Discussion dilemma of assisting the cur- mall or plaza; it is meant for asked for a chance to make rent vendor, Sycamore Grill, to the residents of GW. this work. There were delays remain here or to live without a · There are limited customer due to computer system or- restaurant on-site. funds. ders, but the main problem Residents’ Civic Club Meeting On October 22, the WHOA · There is limited customer pa- was with the kitchen staff Hosts Local Office Candidates Board held an informational tronage. cooking with poor quality and meeting to give residents all · People like having a restau- their inefficiency with timing By Beth Rosenberg and positions from both sides and the facts before voting on this rant on the premises, but the cooking. Joan Hermelee were given an opportunity to issue. Over 475 people many do not eat there. There was a learning curve On October 2, GW residents visit each candidate to ask showed up by 6:30 with peo- Dave Wasenka, owner of and Dave realizes he has not had the opportunity to hear questions. Charles DiPierro been meeting residents’ ex- candidates speak about their and Gerald Tamburro both pectations. He knows now that proposals and why they de- spoke about voting for each of residents want a quick bite, not serve to have your vote. Local them for Mayor. Mr. DePierro GW Craft Fair a Hit! a night out. He met many elections are nearing and we is currently a councilman for times with the Board, changed must be sure to cast our bal- ward 3, serves on several the staff, modified the menu, lots for those people we wish council committees, and is a and put more emphasis on to lead Monroe Township. GW lifelong resident of Monroe value and speed of service. He residents were fortunate to be Township. He would like to (Continued on page 2) able to hear a summary of make changes to the current budget, building, and school issues. Greenbriar Golf Course Hosts Gerald Tamburro is the cur- Special Olympics Golf Tournament rent Mayor and a resident of GW. He was a banking execu- tive and uses his experience to By Allan Cooper gratulatory “fist bump”. It was a great example of good sports- work on budget issues. He is Forty-eight athletes com- concerned about open space peted in the tournament. There manship, good will and affec- tion in the midst of serious issues and keeping Monroe were 33 men and 15 women. safe. He said that because our The players went out in four- competition. Along with a group that went gated communities have their somes. There were different own security, we impose less formats for different skill levels out to play, it was common for family members and some on the Monroe Police Depart- of the foursomes. Two score- ment. Resident artists displayed their works at the GW Annual Art keepers went along with each friends to trail along with the Show. See page 14. players. However, the friends Peter LoPresti is running for team. Members of the New Council At Large. He has been Jersey PGA gave careful in- were carefully and forcefully (Continued on page 2) By Dale Blum and loved it all and especially liked structions to the score- (Continued on page 9) Joan Hermelee seeing how people work. Joe keepers. They were provided Every year, GW residents Sacco commented on the pas- with an elaborate scoring are privileged to be able to sion of the artists and many sheet in which each stroke view the talents of our commu- others talked about the ex- was marked and each team’s MONROE TOWNSHIP nity members. On September treme talent of all. score was carefully kept. 22, the experts showed their This year’s roster of exhibi- Twenty-eight residents (16 POLICE DEPARTMENT work to many awed partici- tors of 3-D art included the women and 12 men) from pants walking around the ball- teacher, Nellie Casari, Dale Greenbriar at Whittingham room. Exhibits ranged from Blum, Maria Curro, Elaine Sul- acted as score-keepers. WILL PRESENT kes, Larry Fachler, Natalya fabulous to extraordinary – Although this was a very HOW TO PROTECT AGAINST FRAUD how lucky we are to have Kostyuk, Joel Gerban, Maria serious competition, all of the these people around us! Af- Estling, Bonnie Kirschenbaum, residents were happy and en- HOW TO RECOGNIZE ILLEGAL PRACTICES Janet Manning, Francine Bern- ghans for adults and children thusiastic about having partici- were shown along with minia- stein, Janet Liquori, Abby Dia- pated as score-keepers in the BROUGHT TO YOU BY THE ture furnishings for doll mondstein, and Natalya Goly- Special Olympics. There was houses, wood sculptures, anor. one thing they all noticed and GW RESIDENTS CIVIC CLUB stunning bead jewelry, stained Other exhibitions included commented on: While the ath- glass art, and paintings in jewelry made by various art- letes were very serious about WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 13 mixed media. ists, paintings, and woodwork- doing well, and winning their As residents walked around, ing projects. match, they were nevertheless 7:30 PM IN THE BALLROOM they commented on the exper- Janet Liquori, well known very positive when their oppo- tise of the artists. Salome around the country as a mas- nent hit a good shot. It was All Residents and Guests Are Welcome Nadel called it all “beautiful”. ter of creating authentic minia- common for them to yell out Linda Zwich said it is always ture pieces, showed us her “Good shot!’ - give them a Refreshments Will Be Served the greatest. Kay Campanella (Continued on page 14) “High Five” - or make a con- NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 2 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE

water system. She could not WHOA Update give a definitive date when this will occur as it will be an ex- By Ben Baum tober. Gutters in Whittingham pensive endeavor. The WHOA Open Workshop are being checked. Susan Towne Centre - Lollie Reich Meeting was held on the morn- Aronson asked on behalf of reported on the equipment in ing of September 16: her neighbors whether the the gym, reiterating the prob- Towne Centre –Some ball- doors in the manor buildings lems with the new treadmill. room floor repairs are being can be painted white. Jamie She discussed the fence that done; a new inspection form will check the by-laws to as- was installed in front of the has been devised by Jamie so certain if that is possible. generator. Lollie thought the every room in the building can Committee Reports- Budget fence should be higher and be checked more thoroughly and Finance-Shawn Swanger was not very attractive either. and the consensus regarding reported that the committee Jamie said the fence has to be the new treadmill in the gym, was informed that the creation a certain distance away from which is being leased, is not of homeowner portals are in the generator because of the favorable. Property Man- process and Jamie and Shawn steam that is generated. She ager’s Report-Jamie Cullen are working on getting them also said a new fence with a stated that roof repairs will launched. Buildings and darker color will be ordered. begin as there are active Grounds-Richard Carpenter Comments and Concerns - Some people requested a leaks. Minor repairs have been reported that the committee is Martin Licker asked why we Restaurant change from monthly vouchers taking a stronger role in the done during the summer. A are no longer providing rides (Continued from page 1) to quarterly or annually. It major paving project will be inspection process of the Con- to the Towne Centre. Jamie strives to continue to improve would be difficult to accommo- dos Entertainment Commit- conducted in Greenbriar and stated that we are not insured the kitchen, improve the date all the vouchers at once tee-Gail Alpern reported that driveways in Whittingham will to have homeowners trans- speed of service, make theme and the restaurant needs a she hopes everyone will attend also be addressed. The handi- ported via Security and Main- nights, and get feedback from consistent flow of money to future shows. The shows she cap ramp project, the ramp tenance vehicles. She said focus groups to revise menus. operate. If we change to an described were the September that is used to enter the ball- that the possibility of a shuttle The hours might extend during annual contribution, the mone- 21 show: Simon and Garfunkel room at the Resident Services for that specific purpose is the day and weekends and he tary amount would need to be Tribute Show, The Guthrie entrance, will be upgraded to being investigated but is not hopes to meet or exceed resi- higher. Brothers and Vladimir Zaitsev; become officially handicapped immediately possible. dents’ expectations. There are some people who October 19: Comedy Night- accessible. This project began The costs of running the go to the restaurant daily; they Rick Corso and Sarge and in October because it needs to restaurant for the 2019 year rely on the restaurant for their November 16: Guys and Dolls. Civic Club be done off-season. Because are as follows: meals. Homebound residents Landscape –Sandra Cohen it will be fresh, concrete ice Meeting $250,000 – revenue coming in will be able to come to the melt and or salt will not be reported that the only issue of (Continued from page 1) $225,000 – cost of staffing curb for takeout pickup. note was that some of the applied to the ramp. An email a resident of Monroe Town- $100,000 – cost of food Although some residents do azaleas are dying. Storm Wa- blast and notice will be issued ship for 33 years, worked for $55,000 – miscellaneous costs not wish to eat at the restau- ter Management - Miriam to inform residents when the law enforcement, and is the (supplies, processing, linens, rant, many residents do not Cohen stated they have had ramp will be closed for recon- owner of a green recycling etc.) play golf, tennis, or swim, but several meetings and hope to struction. business. He would like to This equals a loss of support the upkeep of these continue to have a smooth- Whittingham-Jamie indi- address the trailers at the $130,000 activities. running operation. Barbara cated that the areas where the schools and budget money to The company can manage Many residents expressed a Rachbuch asked about the trees were removed are being save the residents tax dollars. this loss for one year, but change of mind after the pres- fountains not being on. Jamie reseeded. Jamie also shared Stephen Dalina was not needs to go forward making a entation, which explained the responded that they are work- that the shrub removal process able to be present, but he is profit. Not everyone golfs, need for our contributions. ing on the broken float. Mel is a three-year project to avoid currently the Council President swims, plays tennis, etc., but They will now vote for the Horowitz asked about all the having to assess anyone. and has lived in Monroe for everyone eats. What he needs change. water that has been accumu- Doors and poles are being over 20 years. He is a strong in order to keep the restaurant One resident felt the projec- lating around his building for painted by Joe Paone. At the advocate for our recreational in our community is: tion was too optimistic; he was years. Jamie indicated that time of the meeting the project programs. $500,000 – revenue concerned about making the she is working on a plan to was one-third completed. A.W. David Rothman is also run- $280.000 – payroll remaining revenue divert the water through down- Hobor Company will fix the ning for Council At Large. He $155,000 – food Coupons were done in the spouts that will take the water dentil moldings. Driveway re- has lived in Monroe Town- $ 65,000 – miscellaneous past, but they didn’t work. Peo- underground into our storm placements were done in Oc- ship for 44 years and was This would net a 0 profit and ple photocopied them and sold Township Councilman from he would come out even. them to others. This time it will 1980-1987. He has previ- The proposal is for each be computerized and one can- GREENBRIAR at W HITTINGHAM VOICE ously served as Council household to contribute $15/ not cheat the system. President and feels he offers month, which would be Many residents, especially Staff Members a new set of eyes to cut $288,000 of the needed those who live alone, feel com- costs. $500,000. This money can be fortable eating at the restau- S. Alexander Banks, Editor-in-Chief Miriam Cohen is a resident used in the restaurant each rant. There will always be Elaine Alberts Ann Gold Arlene Lazar of GW and was appointed to a month by showing proof of someone they know to make Ruth Banks Miriam Gruber Harvey Lazar 2½ year unexpired term. She residency and being tabulated them feel less alone. Appreciation was expressed Ben Baum Dawn Horowitz Olga Naccarella has served on State Boards by the computer. For those and is an advocate for civic who go away for two months for the openness of the Board Carol Bergman-Grunes Zena Horvath Martin Rich issues, public policy, and pub- or more, the food credit can be and the welcoming of feed- Joan Freeman Phyllis Kundel Mark Surks lic health issues. She is also a spread over the remaining back by the Board and Dave. former Vice President of the months of residency. The Focus groups are a great idea Joan Hermelee, Copy Editor Middlesex County League of vouchers can be used for an eat and many are anxious to par- -in meal, takeout, or many cups ticipate. Editorial Board Women Voters Monroe Township is fortu- of coffee during the month. IF THIS TRANSACTION Alex Banks GWCA Rep. Arnold Riback nate to have 6 very qualified In order for this proposal to FAILS, THE RESTAURANT Ruth Banks Ben Baum candidates running for local take effect, and in order for the WILL EXIST NO LONGER. office. The issues that face community to keep the restau- YOU MUST VOTE!! WE Advertising Office Editorial Office our community might seem rant, residents will be asked to MUST HAVE 2/3 OF THE Princeton Editorial Services Greenbriar Whittingham VOICE small compared to national vote by November 12. After RESIDENTS VOTING, AND P.O. Box 70 100 Whittingham Drive issues, but all matters begin the presentation, attendees THE MAJORITY OF THAT 2/3 Millstone Twp., NJ 08510 Monroe Twp., NJ 08831 at home. We should all be were given the opportunity to VOTING YES, TO KEEP THE (732) 761-8534 (609) 655-4791 aware of the candidates and ask questions and make com- RESTAURANT. IF YOU e-mail: [email protected] e-mail: [email protected] the issues in order to make ments. 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Meet the Stars

By Gail and Myron convince yourself that Simon travel to New York City. They Alpern and Garfunkel were on stage. were impressed with the qual- On Saturday, September The Guthrie Brothers, Jock ity of the show and thoroughly 21, the Greenbriar at Whitting- and Jeb, sang so many of the enjoyed the pianist and the ham community was in for a songs we know including: “The singers. They are looking for- treat. The night started with Sound of Silence,” Scarbor- ward to attending more shows Vladimir Zaitsev, a fabulous ough Fair,” Feelin’ Groovy,” in the future. pianist and entertainer who “Mrs. Robinson,” “Cecilia,” and Don’t miss our last show of charmed the audience with his “Bridge Over Troubled Water.” the season: stories and masterful playing Gerrie and Eddie Pisapia November 16—at the Middle in the grand tradition of this were excited to meet our stars School—Guys and Dolls (A art. The audience exploded who greeted them warmly. fabulous musical show). with applause after every They have only been in our For those of you who come piece and Zaitsev left them community three months, but to our shows regularly, we wanting more! they are participating in many want to say a big “thank you”. Next, The Guthrie Brothers activities. This was the first If you have not been a regular, took center stage with their show that they attended and don’t miss out on the excite- down-home charisma. They they were inspired by the won- ment and be sure to join us. hailed from Wisconsin and derful venue that we are privi- Your patronage makes our their Midwest demeanor shone leged to use. They said, “It shows possible! through. They played a fitting was like attending a family See you at the Show—- tribute to Simon and Garfunkel wedding, where you get to Don’t forget to say Hello! on their acoustic guitars and it celebrate with family and Stay informed through our was a joyful opportunity to friends.” Gerrie and Eddie emails/flyers and channel 26 relive the brilliant artistry that loved the short drive to the Come to our shows—you defined the 60’s era. You High School where they could may be the next one to Meet could close your eyes and enjoy a show and not have to the Stars! Reflections By Ben Baum remember the names of some Many years ago when I of the students in my first class could still climb my 40-foot as a teacher in 1963 and ladder, I was atop the ladder sadly, as a principal, I remem- painting under the eaves on ber a little girl who was diag- the front of our two-story nosed with leukemia in the house in North Brunswick 1970s and given three months when I heard multiple vehicles to live. Tina survived for three approaching with sirens blar- years and passed away as a ing. I glanced over my shoul- third grader on Home Instruc- der as the fire trucks ap- tion. proached the house about Kudos to all the WHOA, three doors down from us on Greenbriar and Golf Associa- the intersecting street. I tion candidates who ran for watched as the hectic scene their respective Boards. Thank unfolded. The neighbors were you for working for our com- all safe but their house sus- munity. A special thank you to tained damage all the result of Ed Zinn for all the time he a clothes dryer fire. Ever since served on the WHOA Board then we’ve had our dryer vent providing innovative, techni- cleaned out annually. It is an cally astute and timely contri- excellent preventive measure butions. which I highly recommend to The maple tree in front of Greenbriar residents; it is a our house is experiencing a requirement in Whittingham. not uncommon problem for When we completed the proc- this variety – a case of “roots ess this year, it cost $116, a gone wild”! The tree is stately nominal fee for preventing a looking and has been trimmed house fire. to attractive proportions but Recently I was pondering has become an underground the phenomenon of short-term problem destroying a sprinkler memory loss when I couldn’t system component and lifting remember something I had up a part of the sidewalk in just done! So I started an exer- front of the house. The tree will cise measuring my long-term have to be removed to prevent memory and, much to my sur- further damage. It’ll be like prise, I was able to retrieve the losing an old friend. names of people I worked with When I speak to residents 30 and 40 years ago. I still (Continued on page 4) NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 4 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE

THE COMMUNITY AROUND US From the Mayor

By Gerald W. Tamburro Mayor of Monroe Township

Leading the Effort to Ban Cranbury Tractor-Trailers I am committed to removing voices heard at both the Jersey Turnpike? Cranbury’s tractor-trailers from county and state levels. I have The fact is Cranbury made our local roads. These tractor- already spoken with our no effort to find solutions to its trailers pose a safety hazard county freeholders and our ever-growing tractor-trailer for our residents and do not state legislators on behalf of problem and Monroe residents belong in residential areas. our residents. cannot and will not suffer for That is why I introduced a But there is opposition. their lack of action. Township ordinance to impose Cranbury officials, led by I will not let these trucks a weight limit that restricts trac- Mayor James Taylor, have destroy our quality of life. I am tor-trailers in Monroe residential publicly opposed our ban, stat- more committed than ever -- to neighborhoods along the Cran- ing “it would impede the free seeing this ban through county bury town line. This ordinance flow of traffic on those county and state approvals. I will will ban large trucks and tractor- roads and would push traffic to need your help and we won’t trailers weighing more than eight an already congested Route stop until we are successful. tons from Cranbury Station, 130.” Prospect Plains and Cranbury Essentially, Cranbury’s ar- Half Acre roads west of Apple- gument is that hundreds of Reflections garth Road. their tractor-trailers can rumble I am pleased that we re- through Monroe residential (Continued from page 3) ceived a unanimous vote of areas each day with impunity whom I’ve never met before, I the Township Council to pass because Cranbury residents, am still overly impressed with this ordinance in front of a like Monroe residents, are the talent pool that exists in standing-room only crowd on county taxpayers. our community. There are resi- October 7. But I continue to ask an un- dents with many skills and Our work is not done. Mid- answered question: Why did talents. As I’ve posited before dlesex County and New Jer- Cranbury not complete Liberty if we had to, we could be self- sey Department of Transporta- Way, a proposed truck bypass sustaining as a community tion must approve our ordi- that is part of that Township’s utilizing our talents and skills – nance before it can be en- master plan, designed to re- GW the little town, population forced. I will lead this fight and lieve this specific truck and 3000 +. together we will make our tractor-trailer traffic to the New Remember to vote on No- vember 5-Election Day. I sometimes wonder why some of our residents find it so Monroe Residents to Save 10% difficult to follow the GW rules. on Electric Bills This Winter It’s almost like they wish they were still in their old house Monroe Township Council proposed a set price of $.08395/ outside the gates without the locked in the lowest fixed elec- kwh for the duration of a two- restrictions imposed in a gated tric rates to date for the munici- year contract. This new rate, community. I feel the restric- pal Community Energy Aggre- effective December 1, 2019, tions are a minor inconven- gation (MTCEA) program by represents a 10% percent sav- ience compared to the multi- approving a “Round Four” con- ings over the JCP&L tariff price plicity of advantages that we tract with a new provider, Con- during winter months when con- enjoy in GW. stellation New Energy (CNE). sumption, particularly for all- When I was evaluating my “Monroe Township is a pio- electric households, is at its year and thinking ahead to the neer in New Jersey when it height. next year as part of the prepa- comes to municipal energy ag- Monroe Township’s electricity ration for the Jewish High Holy gregation and leveraging bulk supply contract with South Jer- Days, I decided to figure out purchasing to achieve lower sey Energy under Round Three the shoulds and should nots. energy rates for our residents,” of the MTCEA program is What have I been doing that I said Mayor Gerald W. Tam- scheduled to terminate in De- shouldn’t do anymore and burro. “The MTCEA program cember 2019. The process for what have I not been doing saved residents approximately obtaining a replacement con- that I should start to do-a $13 million in the first three tract for Round Four of the pretty heady exercise? rounds and we anticipate even MTCEA program was initiated Remember When: Gas was more savings in Round Four. with the release of a Request for 25 cents, a cell was a place in Our residents can expect to see Proposals dated August 6, prison, TV was black and a reduction of $150 for a typical 2019, with proposals due by white only, a 45 was the re- household – more for those noon on September 4, 2019, for cord of the day, phones were using large quantities of electric- service starting in December not portable, rap was when ity or living in all-electric homes.” 2019. Proposals from three you knocked on the door not a As the lowest bidder, CNE qualified suppliers were pre- musical genre, you only re- sented and evaluated for con- ceived a few channels on your sideration by Township Council. TV, you could actually watch The unanimous approval of news on TV not the same resolution R-9-2019-245 by the items repeated over and over, Council authorizes the Town- the political parties actually ship’s energy agent, Gabel As- worked cooperatively, and a sociates, to award a contract to new car cost a couple of thou- CNE to provide Monroe Town- sand dollars. ship residents with electric gen- Mark your November calen- eration services through the dar for the following holidays: MTCEA program. Current par- Election Day-5, US Marine ticipants will not have to take Corps Day-10, Veteran’s Day- any action in order to continue 11 and Thanksgiving-28. Also with the program under the new note these days: World Kind- provider. ness Day-13, World Peace Established in 2013, the Day-17, and Black Friday-29 MTCEA program is conducted (the shopper’s dream day). If under State law and in accor- you still smoke, consider quit- dance with the State Board of ting on Great American Smoke Public Utilities’ regulations. Cur- Out day-21.The November rent participation is approxi- gemstones are the topaz and mately 14,500 households with citrine; the flower is the chry- Round Three savings estimated santhemum. I’ll be distracted at $4 million. Residents seeking the week of 24-30, Games and additional information should Puzzles Week. Don’t be contact program coordinator alarmed on 20, if I appear to Harold Klein at 732-521-4400, be acting weirdly ‘cause that’s ext. 135. National Absurdity Day! GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 5

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We invite you to at- discussed the methods and impact of census statistics. 24 you will receive a reminder dlesex County Freeholders tend our next General Meeting letter. If you haven’t responded By Joan Freeman infants and small children who and Sheriff, Monroe Township on Monday, November 18, from March 26 to April 3 you 2019 at 1 p.m. in the Monroe The Monroe Chapter of the are sometimes forgotten! Age, Mayor and Council Members will receive a reminder post- Municipal Courtroom. Our League of Women Voters sex and date of birth are also at large, and Monroe’s Board card. From April 8-16 a re- speaker will be noted Prince- sponsored a special meeting, important because the federal of Education and have posted minder letter and paper ques- ton activist, Ingrid Reed. October 2, to explain why it is government uses these statis- their responses where pro- so important to participate in the 2020 census. Andrea Pellezzi, president of the Mon- roe League introduced speak- ers Lisa Moore and Patricia Williamson, representatives from the Census Bureau. It was amazing to learn the in- credible impact the census has on all our lives, The U.S. Constitution clearly states that a count of the population must take place every 10 years. The first cen- sus took place in 1790 and we the people, have been counted ever since. At last count there were about 330 million people living in the U.S. and over 140 million housing units. After each decade’s census, state officials redraw the boundaries of their congres- sional and state legislative districts in their states to ac- count for population shifts. The distribution of more than 675 million dollars in federal funds grants helps to support hospi- tals, schools, public works, and other vital programs such as Medicaid, low income hous- ing, foster care, Special Ed. and highways to states, coun- ties and communities based on census data. Businesses use census information to de- termine where to build facto- ries, offices, stores, that create jobs. Some people may not want to answer census questions out of fear that their informa- tion may be used against them by the government. They are really safe and secure. It is against the law for census to publicly release your re- sponses in any way that could identify you or your household. By law your responses can only be used for statistics. There are many ways to respond to the census. You will have the choice of re- sponding safely on line, by phone or by mail. Households that don’t respond will be vis- ited by a census taker to col- lect the information in person. The questions asked are for your name, and the names of all the people in your house- hold to make sure all the members are counted, even NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 6 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE

News for Veterans By Jack Kirschenbaum and women on active duty. duct ourselves appeals to you, Congress and the President · We lead ceremonies on become a member. Please have passed legislation Veterans Day and Memorial contact me for additional infor- (Legion Act S. 504) which en- Day and participate in the mation. ables any veteran who served Monroe Township High Jack Kirschenbaum, Com- at any time since WW II, in- School Armed Forces mander, PO Box 6065, Mon- cluding reservists and national Appreciation Day. roe Township NJ 08831 guardsmen and women, to join · We visit classrooms, provide Email: the American Legion. awards and sponsor good [email protected] We, at the American Legion character development and Tel: 609 642-6199 Post 522, in Monroe Town- civic mindfulness among Upcoming Events: ship, have chosen to continue students in Monroe · Color Guard at Monroe to serve veterans, our commu- Township. Township’s Veterans Day nity, and one another through · We arrange recreational and Celebration, Friday Nov. 1 at involvement in the following educational events of the Senior Center activities: interest to veterans. · Color Guard at Monroe · We maintain contact with · We write a monthly Township’s Veterans Day fellow veterans and provide newsletter that contains Ceremony, Monday Nov.11 support when it is needed. information relevant to our · Color Guard at Monroe · We keep members informed members and a snapshot of Township’s Thanksgiving about legislation and their time in service. Day event, Tuesday Nov. 26 opportunities that may Like you, we stepped up to at the Senior Center benefit them. serve our country in time of · We attend funerals and need. I hope that you will wakes and present a formal choose to spend time with us Cultural Arts military service for our as we continue to serve our comrades. community, our fellow veter- Commission · We conduct poppy drives ans, and ourselves. Come to Monroe Township Cultural throughout the year and use our meetings, held on the first Arts Commission will present the donations to provide Monday of the month at 1pm Popular Classics with the clothing and other at the Township Municipal Princeton Symphony Or- assistance to disabled Building, and to our ceremo- chestra. Conductor: Nell veterans in Veterans nies and social events. And, if Flanders facilities and to service men what we do and how we con- · Date: Sunday, November 10, 4 pm · Location: Richard P. Marasco Center for the Per- forming Arts, 1629 Perrine- ville Rd., Monroe Twp., NJ 08831 Enjoy the full orchestral con- cert of beautiful music, con- ducted by Nell Flanders, fea- turing Beethoven’s Symphony No. 7, and the much-loved music of Johann Strauss, Jr, and Ennio Morricone. Ticketing: link on web site- www.monroetwonshipculturala rts.com, or call 1-800-514- 3849 from 9 am-10 PM EST; or call (732) 521-4400 from 8:30 am to 4:30 pm; or call 877-77CLICK Cost: $25 for Patrons of the Arts, $30 general, students [with id] free.

The Monroe Township Cul- tural Arts Commission, in col- laboration with the Monroe Township Public Library and the Princeton Symphony Or- chestra will present Princeton Symphony Orchestra Cham- ber Music - Program TBA. · Date: Monday, November 25, 1 pm. · Location: Monroe Township Library, 4 Municipal Plaza, Monroe Twp. 08831 Registration is not required. Free Admission. Each per- formance starts at 1 pm and lasts approximately 1 hour.

NOTICE TO ALL RESIDENTS Walkers, Don’t Forget This is a reminder for residents to wear reflective clothing when out walkig. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 7

tion of distilled spirits, paper- interesting vase. Clippings spoon of glycerin to the water The Green Thumb white stems will be one-half as from shrubs, particularly those to help the leaves keep their tall and sturdier while their with berries, also work well. color. Add a few purchased flower size, fragrance and lon- Position larger branches in a fresh flowers now and then, By Laura Resnick -cutting. gevity remain intact. This vase half-filled with small and replace them as they fade, Surviving Winter Poppies and hollyhocks stunting effect is probably stones or glass marbles, to but keep the branches for the All houseplants need a rest need to be seared on the ends caused by the alcohol inhibit- keep the stems from sliding whole season. in winter. They slow down and with a flame to seal in their ing the uptake of water by the around; add water. Trim the Schedule Reminder: The adjust to the lower light, since sap before they can be used plant roots. (Don’t use beer or branches as needed, and Green Thumbs will meet at they come from tropical forests as a cut flower. Use a lighter wine because the sugar in keep the display away from 11am on Tuesday, November where they lived in the shade or the gas stove. them will foul the water.) In- heat sources. Change the wa- 12, 2019, at the Monroe Twp. of dense shrubs and trees. Tulip stems can get droopy stead of strong spirits you can ter weekly and add a half tea- Senior Center. You can’t expect them to because they actually continue use one part rubbing alcohol bloom, but it is best to group to grow and elongate in the to 10 parts water. Start this them in front of a window. Foli- vase —really! To re-straighten when the first green shoot is age plants can manage with the stems, wrap them gently about 1 or 2 inches tall, and very little water. A cool tem- but snugly in a cone of damp continue to irrigate thereafter Nurse’s Notes perature, below 65 degrees, newspapers and stand them in with this 10% alcohol solution. Stephanie Fitzsimmons, EdD, MSN, will also help. deep water for several hours. How Much Light? RN, APRN -BC Making Cut Flowers Last An alternative measure: trans- Short days or long days not Longer fer them to a taller vase. only affect a plant’s growth but volves memory loss, memory To prolong the bloom, they The pollen of lilies will per- also determine when they will Dementia loss has different causes. Hav- all need good water absorp- manently stain tablecloths and flower. The summer-flowering The Alzheimer’s Association ing memory loss alone doesn’t tion, which comes through clothing, so before you ar- perennials are typically long- estimates that 5.7 million Ameri- mean you have dementia. their stems. However, different range the flowers, cut off the day plants, needing at least 12 cans of all ages were living with Alzheimer’s disease is the varieties need different cutting antlers (the pollen-laden struc- hours of daylight to bloom. On Alzheimer’s dementia in 2018. most common cause of a pro- techniques. As soon as you tures at the top of the sta- the other hand, Chrysanthe- This number includes an esti- gressive dementia in older get into the house with your mens). Getting rid of the pollen mums are short-day plants mated 5.5 million people age 65 adults, but there are a number flowers – purchased, or cut will also help the flowers last which bloom in the fall as day- and older and approximately of causes of dementia. Depend- from the garden – remove the longer. light wanes. A few plants are 200,000 individuals under age ing on the cause, some demen- lower leaves and trim at least Roses need special care. day-neutral and will bloom 65 who have younger-onset tia symptoms may be reversible. an inch from the stems with a Their stems tend to develop anytime. For example, Mari- Alzheimer’s. The percentage of Conditions that can cause diagonal cut. an air lock at the cut end, pre- golds will typically bloom con- people with Alzheimer’s demen- symptoms of dementia and may Woody stem types (holiday venting water uptake. They tinuously as long as the tia increases with age. Of peo- be reversible are thyroid prob- evergreens, lilacs and for- actually benefit from being cut weather is warm. Among ple who have Alzheimer’s de- lems and vitamin deficiencies. sythia) will draw in more water underwater – very warm water. houseplants, the African violet mentia, 81 percent are age 75 Dementia is not a single dis- if you split the stems vertically The heat in the water will help is a day-neutral plant, which or older. Dementia is not a nor- ease; it’s an umbrella term — at the base with a one-inch displace the air in the stem. will bloom throughout the year mal part of aging. These are like heart disease — that covers cut. Does your potted Amaryllis (if only!). daunting numbers but informa- a wide range of specific medical Bulb flowers (tulips and tend to flop over? Rotate the Unfortunately for gardeners, tion and action is critical. If you conditions, including Alzheimer’s daffodils) may have white pot regularly so the plant does Dandelions are day-neutral. believe you are experiencing disease. Disorders grouped growth at the bottom. Trim this not lean toward the source of They go on blooming from the symptoms of dementia, it is im- under the general term away because only the green light, and it will remain upright. first days of spring far into fall, portant to discuss these symp- “dementia” are caused by ab- part of the stem will take up The paper white narcissi, making them one of our most toms with your primary care normal brain changes. The brain water. which you have growing in annoying weeds. practitioner. Dementia describes changes associated with de- E u p h o r b i a s t e m s water over a bed of pebbles, Perking Up for the Holidays a group of symptoms affecting mentia also affect behavior, (poinsettias) should be placed usually become top-heavy and When the foliage outside is memory, thinking and social feelings and relationships. in hot water to flush out some flop over instead of standing in peak color, clip a few low- abilities severely enough to in- Alzheimer’s disease ac- of the milky sap, and then ar- tall. Pour them a stiff drink! growing limbs from a mature terfere with your daily life. (Continued on page 8) ranged in cool water without re Yes, when growing in a solu- tree and display them in an Though dementia generally in- NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 8 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE

Let’s Go to the Movies By Ann Gold and Glory: Antonio Banderas wish list in September: a visit Downton Abbey: Here’s a stars in the sad/humorous sort to Teatro La Scala in Milan, big-screen sequel to PBS’ of story of the great Spanish one of the world’s greatest most popular series ever. If filmmaker, Pedro Almodovar, opera houses, and the fabled you loved that gorgeous TV as a lonely man remembering city of Venice. La Scala was soap opera about English aris- his (idealized?) childhood with all I’d imagined. The building is tocrats (and I did), you’ll enjoy mother, Penelope Cruz. The elegant cream, red, and gold. this iteration. The story is thin Good Liar: Superb actors of The performance of Rigoletto (the king and queen invite our generation, Helen Mirren was familiar. Watching fash- themselves for an overnight and Ian McKellen play a dating ionistas stroll during intermis- visit so everyone’s rushing couple; she’s well off, he’s a sions was a bonus. Venice around) and, of course, most con man. Where’s My Roy sadly, for me, was neither of the Crawleys and servants Cohn? Here’s a fascinating glamorous nor romantic. It was have an “issue”. On the posi- documentary about the detest- hot and humid, full of tourists tive side, the movie is truly a able, but brilliant Roy Cohn, wheeling suitcases along cob- visual feast. The landscape is lawyer for Senator McCarthy blestoned street and up/ opened up; the rooms and and lifelong influential conser- across/down the canals’ furnishings are dazzling; the vative. bridges. Whether wonderful or clothes are beautiful (for size-6 Travel Notes: disappointing, I got to fulfill two women). And the parade is La Scala and Venice: I got more of my wishes. Hope you spectacular. to experience two items on my can do the same. Rating: Abbey lovers/B; dis- dainers of upper-class British life/C Official Secrets: Were Amer- ica’s Daniel Ellsberg and Ed- Nurse’s Notes ward Snowden patriots or trai- tors? How about Katherine (Continued from page 7) related change? Needing help Gun? We’ve never heard of counts for 60 to 80 percent of to use microwave settings or her because she’s English, but cases. Vascular dementia, record a TV show. her story is similar. As a gov- which occurs because of micro- 4. Confusion with time or ernment intelligence analyst, scopic bleeding and blood ves- place- People living with Alz- she learns that Prime Minister sel blockage in the brain (years heimer’s can lose track of dates, Tony Blair is following Presi- ago known as hardening of the seasons, and the passage of dent George W. Bush into in- arteries), is the second most time. Sometimes they may for- vading Iraq using fake evi- common cause of dementia. get where they are or how they dence. Stunned, she passes Vascular dementia frequently got there. What is a typical age- the information on –and this is occurs in people with uncon- related change? Getting con- where the movie, based on a trolled blood pressure or diabe- fused about the day of the week true story, takes off. Perhaps tes. Many dementias are pro- but figuring it out later. because of British understate- gressive, meaning symptoms 5. Trouble understanding vis- ment—and a very punitive, start out slowly and gradually ual images and spatial relation- vengeful Official Secrets Act – get worse. If you or someone ships -For some people, having the movie’s more straightfor- you know is experiencing mem- vision problems is a sign of Alz- ward than exciting, but it pro- ory difficulties or other changes heimer’s. This may lead to diffi- vides a different take on in thinking skills, don’t ignore culty with balance or trouble events we know about. them. Professional evaluation reading. They may also have Rating: B- may detect a treatable condi- problems judging distance and Tel Aviv On Fire: A well- tion. If symptoms suggest de- determining color or contrast, reviewed satirical comedy now mentia, early diagnosis allows a causing issues with driving. playing in Manhattan, TAF will person to get the maximum What is a typical age-related be showing on Sunday, No- benefit from available treat- change? Vision changes related vember 10, at 7 pm at the ments and provides an opportu- to cataracts. AMC in New Brunswick, and nity to volunteer for clinical trials 6. New problems with words on Tuesday, November 12, at or studies. in speaking or writing - People 7:30 pm at The Princeton Gar- Ten Early Signs and living with Alzheimer’s may have den Theatre as part of the Rut- Symptoms of Alzheimer’s trouble following or joining a gers Jewish Film Festival (1- There are 10 warning signs conversation. They may stop in 848-932-4266). and symptoms. If you notice any the middle of a conversation Looking forward to: Pain of them, don’t ignore them. and have no idea how to con- Schedule an appointment with tinue or they may repeat them- your doctor. selves. 1. Memory loss that disrupts What is a typical age-related daily life - One of the most com- change? Sometimes having mon signs of Alzheimer’s dis- trouble finding the right word. ease, especially in the early 7. Misplacing things and stage, is forgetting recently losing the ability to retrace learned information. Others in- steps - A person living with clude forgetting important dates Alzheimer’s disease may put or events, asking for the same things in unusual places. They questions over and over, and may lose things and be unable increasingly needing to rely on to go back over their steps to memory aids (e.g., reminder find them again. He or she notes or electronic devices) or may accuse others of stealing, family members. What is a typi- especially as the disease pro- cal age-related change? Some- gresses. What is a typical age- times forgetting names or ap- related change? - Misplacing pointments, but remembering things from time to time and them later. retracing steps to find them. 2. Challenges in planning or 8. Decreased or poor judg- solving problems - Some people ment - Individuals may experi- living with dementia may experi- ence changes in judgment or ence changes in their ability to decision-making. For example, develop and follow a plan or they may use poor judgment work with numbers. They may when dealing with money or have trouble following a familiar pay less attention to grooming recipe or keeping track of or keeping themselves clean. monthly bills. What is a typical age-related What is a typical age-related change? Making a bad deci- change? Occasional errors sion or mistake once in a when managing finances or while, like neglecting to household bills. change the oil in the car. 3. Difficulty completing famil- 9. Withdrawal from work or iar tasks - People with Alz- social activities - A person liv- heimer’s often find it hard to ing with Alzheimer’s disease complete daily tasks. Some- may experience changes in times they may have trouble the ability to hold or follow a driving to a familiar location, conversation. As a result, he organizing a grocery list or re- or she may withdraw from hob- membering the rules of a favor- bies, social activities or other ite game. What is a typical age- (Continued on page 9) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 9

The information contained in SPORTS Nurse’s Notes this article was adapted from (Continued from page 8) Alzheimer Association infor- engagements. What is a typi- mation. cal age-related change? - Greenbriar at Whittingham Sometimes feeling uninter- Lecture November 4, 2019 1pm ested in social obligations. Low back Pain: How Do I Deal 10. Changes in mood and with It? Dr, Tony George, DO, personality – Individuals living The National Institute of Health with Alzheimer’s may experi- has reported that the prevalence ence mood and personality of musculoskeletal pain in older changes. They can become adults ranges from 65 to 85%, confused, suspicious, de- with 36 to 70% of them suffering pressed, fearful or anxious. from back pain. Low back pain They may be easily upset (LBP) is the most common when out of their comfort zone. health problem among older What is a typical age-related adults that results in pain and change? Developing very spe- disability. Dr. George is a pain cific ways of doing things and physician who will address inter- becoming irritable when a rou- ventions to relieve back pain. tine is disrupted. Please register with the Concierge.

Winners of GW Annual Tennis Tournament, receiving trophies at the Dinner Dance in September were, from left are Ron Sacoff, Linda Shiff, Jay Katz, Frank Cipolla, and Pearl Schwed

GW Tennis Club lead the Club as well as she Trophies were presented to hits tennis balls. Don Sacks the winners of the annual tour- By Arlene & Harvey paid tribute at the Dinner nament: Jay Katz, Ron Sacoff, Lazar Dance to one of our top play- Linda Shiff, Frank Cipolla, The Annual Dinner Dance ers, Tim Sutton, who will be Randy Kahn, and Pearl held on September 19 at Knob leaving the community to re- Schwed. Congratulations to Hill Country Club was a huge side in Delaware. We wish Tim all! success! and his wife, Doretta, the best Annual dues of $10 per per- At the monthly meeting on of luck in their new home. son were payable in October. September 21, outgoing Presi- dent, Frank Cipolla, was thanked for his service to the Club. Best wishes to the in- coming President, Linda Shiff, who was elected for the com- ing year. We expect she will

Special Olympics (Continued from page 1) warned to keep at least fifty feet away from the players. This admonition was obeyed, but it did not dampen their enthusiasm. Thus, there were large groups of players, mentors, score-keepers and families moving around the Golf Course. But there was a happy seriousness around these groups and they moved efficiently. The lower skilled golfers went out with a mentor as part of a two person team. The player and the mentor hit alter- native shots. They continued alternating shots until the ball went in the hole. This kept up the pace of play for the group. Some of the other players with a higher skill level also went out with their mentors, but their mentors acted as cad- dies, and advisors. Some play- ers shot scores of forty-six to fifty for nine holes of golf. These are very good scores considering that play was un- der strict supervision by the PGA officials, with no moving the ball to improve the lie. That is to say how the ball comes to rest whether sitting nicely on the grass, or in a divot hole, that’s where the golfer has to hit from. All players, including the women, were required to tee off from the white, or mid- dle tees. When the match was con- cluded the athletes stood on an Olympic style platform and received a Gold, Silver or Bronze medal. The residents who had been the scoring judges placed a ribbon around the necks of the participants. Music was playing, photo- graphs were taken, and con- gratulations were given to the athletes. It was a very happy moment for everyone involved. (Continued on page 15) NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 10 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE

Alisa Hadassah your away address and con- tact information. By Rhoda Juskow Eileen Carpenter wants to Summer is over and there- apologize for an “oops”. She fore it is now time to look misplaced her notebook which ahead to some wonderful up- had several Snowbird Flyers coming events. filled out. These flyers were Unfortunately, we had to picked up from the lockbox in cancel our very special Associ- GW between September 1 ates event which was sched- and 15. If you were one of uled for September 22. those people, please resubmit We wish all our members the flyers or call Eileen at 609- and friends, L’Shana Tova, a 664-2877 so we can ensure happy and healthy New Year. we have your information. Don’t forget when you need to Please share this with your send out a greeting card to friends who may not receive family or friends, our Hadas- email. sah cards are lovely. Cards It is that time again. We are are available for birthdays, Bar now accepting checks for the & Bat Mitzvahs, get well 2020 Mah Jongg cards. The wishes, condolences, etc. If deadline for ordering is Janu- you cannot attend our monthly ary 24. Flyers can be found in meeting, just call one of our the racks at the Towne Centre. card ladies and they can send Place your check for $8 one out for you: Millie Semel – (standard) or $9 (large print) in 609-409-1578, Florence Weiss GW lockbox 19. Mark it atten- – 609-409-1924, Rhoda tion Diane Altman. Or mail to Lesser – 609-409-9557, or Diane Altman, 34-C Rutland Harriet Cohen – 609-860- Lane, Monroe Township, NJ 5953. To purchase a calligra- 08831. phy inscribed certificate or to

purchase a tree certificate, call Dorothy Brotman at 609-409- The Sherlock 0578. Holmes Club The trip to the Museum of Jewish Heritage to view a By Paul Hartnett Holocaust Exhibit was very Just in time for the upcom- well attended by our members ing winter holidays, Novem- and gave us a deeper under- ber’s case for discussion is standing as to how this horror The Adventure of the Blue got started. Carbuncle. The short story The Lunch Bunch after- chronicles one of the Master noons are always enjoyable so Detective’s most popular and if you intend to join in each beloved adventures. No grisly month, you must call Marilyn murder or unexplained horror Taffet. here, instead literally a “wild Mah Jongg cards for 2020 goose chase” with a happy went on sale in October. ending of forgiveness and re- Our October meeting in- demption. cluded the election of our new On the 27th of December, officers for 2020. Our new Watson stops by to wish slate of officers will be installed Holmes the compliments of at our November monthly the season. He finds the Mas- meeting. ter Detective studying a very Be sure to mark your calen- disreputable hat, which had dars and save the date for belonged to an unknown gen- these upcoming programs and tleman who lost it while de- events: fending himself from a gang of The monthly Lunch Bunch. toughs on his way home late To register and get full infor- at night. The unfortunate man mation, call Marilyn Taffet at had also lost a goose which he 609-860-8406. had intended for his Christmas Wed., Nov. 13 – 11:30 a.m. supper. Holmes had given the Autumn Card Party and lunch- goose to Peterson, a commis- eon in the GW ballroom. food sionaire who found the hat and will be catered by Bagel Ba- bird, and had kept the hat to zaar, couvert is $26. Ques- try to learn more about its tions: Marilyn Gerstein 609- owner. 409-9176. Please put names Holmes was about to say and checks for your group in something to Watson, in the one envelope, with check course of giving his findings made out to Hadassah, and about the hat’s owner, when place in Lock Box 19. Address Peterson burst in at the door, envelope – “Card Party”. Fly- wild with excitement. In his ers are in the GW wall box. hand, he held a brilliant blue Sun., Dec. 13 – 3 to 5 p.m. – jewel, which his wife had Wine and Cheese party ac- found in the crop of the goose. companied by sufayanot and Holmes immediately identified Chanukah discussion led by it as the Blue Carbuncle, an Sheila Farber. Couvert is $18. extremely valuable gem re- Flyers are in Hadassah Bulle- cently stolen from the Count- tin and GW wall box. ess of Morcar, who had of- Questions call Maxine Stern fered a £1,000 reward for its at 609-395-8757. return. Monday, Dec. 16 – 7:15 And so, the chase begins! A p.m. will be our monthly meet- name on the hat leads Holmes ing with our speaker discuss- to place an advertisement and ing cluttering. to find the owner. Next, on to a Sun. June 14, 2020 – 3-5 London pub, then to a poultry p.m. – Enjoy “Camelot” at dealer at Covent Gardens, Playhouse 22 followed by din- where they discover the ner. Questions and more info, source of the “golden goose” call Marilyn Taffet at 609-860- in question. Holmes and Wat- 8406. son doggedly follow the clues Going away this winter?? through many twists and turns, Get Hardcopy Bulletin? Want employing both trickery and to get Regional Raffle and deduction to solve the mys- other mailings while you are tery. away?? Please let us know (Continued on page 11) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 11

Holmes Club counted. Everyone enjoyed a Park neighborhood of Brook- delicious meal with tasty des- lyn. His siblings include two (Continued from page 10) serts. It was a very pleasur- older brothers, Frank and So, don your coat and muf- able evening. Rocco, and an older sister fler as we follow our heroes We made great strides in Marguerite who grew up to be through wintry London on the meeting the million-dollar chal- a Nun in the Urseline Order. trail of the bird who laid this lenge as well as the goals of Torre played baseball at bonny blue egg. The game is the organization. However, we Saint Francis Prep and in the afoot! always strive to go above and All-American Amateur Base- The Sherlock Holmes Club beyond. Your donations are ball Association for the Brook- will meet on Wednesday, No- always welcome. lyn Cadets. A bit overweight as vember 20 at 7pm at the Do you buy food at the su- a teenager, Torre was not con- Towne Centre. There are no permarket? Please consider sidered a viable professional dues and new members are helping ORT use profits made prospect until he converted to always welcome. Please read to help students get an educa- catcher on the advice of his the short story The Adventure tion by buying Shop Rite/Stop brother, Frank. Before starting of the Blue Carbuncle before- and Shop gift cards, sold by his professional baseball ca- hand. It is available for free Jane Newman, 609 860-6618. reer, Torre worked briefly at online at Sherlockian.net. Click ORT-sponsored greeting cards the American Stock Exchange on the top left, Investigating and tributes are sold by Helen after high school. then 60 Original Stories. Kuhl – 609 409-1788. Cards Torre followed in his brother Questions, call Paul (609) and supermarket scrip will be Frank Torre’s footsteps when 642-6314 “The Middlesex available at all events, but if the Milwaukee Braves signed Constabulary.” you wish to get them sooner, him in 1959. In his first season please call the people listed in the minor leagues with the ORT above. A new fundraising en- Class A Eau Claire Bears, he By Joan Hermelee deavor is to “bring good things won the 1960 Northern to light” by announcing happy Hope everyone had a won- League batting championship aspects of members’ lives at derful New Year and we wish with a .344 batting average. individual functions. If you everyone a happy Thanksgiv- Torre made his major league would like your good fortune to ing. Although there are no debut late in the season on be announced, ORT asks for a more programs at the Senior September 25, 1960, after Del minimum $2 donation. Mem- Center until March, Ort is busy Crandall injured his throwing bers enjoy sharing their good planning many activities for arm in May 1961, forcing the news and focusing on positive the coming year. We have a Braves to promote Torre to the events. Please come prepared great time together as we major leagues with just over a to spread happiness at our raise money for those needing year of minor league experi- next function. educational assistance in ence. Torre rose to the occa- ORT has many exciting other countries. All events in- sion, hitting for a .278 batting things coming your way. Take clude a donation to ORT average with 21 doubles and a few moments to read the schools worldwide. Our fund- 10 home runs. He finished the flyers and participate. You raising committee is hard at season ranked second to Billy won’t be sorry! work finding interesting trips Williams in the 1961 National for all. League Rookie of the Year December 2 – Holiday Party Italian American voting. in GW Clubhouse. Larry Joe joined the St Louis Car- Wolfert will talk about female Senior Cultural dinals in 1969 but the Cardi- comedians; Members only. Club nals had Tim McCarver as (Continued on page 12) At the September meeting, By Joe Atanasio Michael Ticklin spoke about Greetings all, our monthly the town of Roosevelt. Atten- gathering to be held on Friday dees learned about the history November 1 will prove to be of the town while viewing pic- an excellent event with cater- tures. The town was originally ing provided by Mastoris to comprised of many artists liv- include a choice of seasonal ing in a cooperative environ- entrees including roasted tur- ment. Houses were built of key, braised short ribs of beef concrete and those who pres- and a selection of sides. “Dee ently live there must go to the Best” will deliver the entertain- post office to collect their mail ment for the evening. and socialize with other resi- Now that football season is dents. If you visit the one in full swing and baseball is a school in the middle of town, recent memory, I just had to you will see a magnificent mu- remember one of my baseball ral depicting this history. heroes. I even met him a few On October 7, Yearn to times during my Wall St. ca- Learn invited Kiki Jameson to reer. A true gentleman, Joe speak about women, politics, Torre. Joseph Torre was born and civic engagement. She July 18, 1940, in Brooklyn, talked about electing more New York. He is the youngest women to government posi- of five children, two girls and tions so that women’s interests three boys of Italian immi- would be considered. In addi- grants Joe, Sr., his dad, a tion, she stressed the impor- plainclothes officer in the New tance of completing the cen- York City Police Department, sus in March. It is extremely and mom, Margaret. important for everyone to be Joe was raised in the Marine NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 12 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE

Italian American owner George Steinbrenner, we will gather with family and who was famous for frequently friends, dining on traditional Senior Cultural firing his team’s managers. favorite foods to the delight of Torre lasted 12 full seasons, all. A Very Happy Thanksgiv- (Continued from page 11) managing 1,942 regular sea- ing to All! their starting catcher so Torre son games, with a win-loss Our trip to the Surflight replaced the departed Orlando record of 1,173–767.He took Theater in Long Beach Island Cepeda as their first baseman the team to the postseason on September 8 was a great for the 1969 season. His offen- every one of his twelve sea- success. We saw the award- sive statistics grew and he sons with the club, winning six winning musical, “Ain’t Misbe- ended the season with a .289 American League pennants havin,” and dined at nearby batting average with 18 home and four World Series Cham- Carmen’s Restaurant. A great runs and 101 runs batted in. In pionships. Torre holds the re- day was had by all! On Sep- 1970, his offensive statistics cord for the longest tenure for tember 14, we were delighted continued to improve; he hit 21 a Yankees manager in the to welcome Natalie Pinto to home runs with 100 runs bat- Steinbrenner era. our stage for our dinner show. ted in and finished second to On November 1, 2007, the Natalie’s repertoire included Rico Carty in the National Specializing in ALL Residential Real Estate Los Angeles Dodgers an- such favorites as “Angel of the League batting championship nounced that Torre would be Night,” “Suspicious Minds,” with a .325 batting average. their manager beginning with Love You Too Much Baby,” Upon joining the Mets in the 2008 season. This marked “This is the Moment,” to name 1975, Torre became the third the return of Torre to the Na- just a few. Our gourmet dinner player in major league history, tional League, the only league included sliced steak, tilapia, and first in the National he had played in or managed roasted potatoes, vegetable League, to hit into four double prior to becoming the Yankees medley, cake and coffee. A plays in one game after Felix skipper. great show and dinner right Millán singled in all four of his That year Torre managed here in our ballroom! at-bats. Torre joked about his the Dodgers to a 3–0 victory Membership Dues own performance by saying over the Chicago Cubs in the A membership is $20/per “I’d like to thank Félix Millán for National League Division Se- couple, $10/all singles. Our making this possible.” After ries, earning the Dodgers their membership year is July 1, batting only .247 in 1975, his first post season series victory 2019-June 30, 2020. Dues average rebounded 59 points since their championship sea- must be current in order to in 1976, and he finished the son of 1988.Torre’s Dodgers attend any of our shows or year with a .306 batting aver- were beaten in the NLCS four trips. age. In May 1977 Torre be- games to one by the Phillies. Bingo came their player-manager On September 17, 2010, Torre The Senior Social Club and eventually became their announced he would step sponsors Bingo on the second full-time manager after retiring. down as Dodgers manager Friday of each month, and Torre managed the Mets after the 2010 season. doors open at 7 p.m. Our next from 1977 to 1981 season, but Joe Torre accepted a posi- Bingo night will be November failed to improve the team’s tion at the Baseball Commis- 8. We play a variety of bingo record. He went 49-68 in his sioner’s office and still remains games. first season with the Mets, active in that roll today. We have a general meeting while the team finished 64–98 Thanks for the memories in our ballroom every Thurs- overall and in last place in the Joe!!! day from 2-3 p.m. NL East. Torre’s best season Until Next Time, Calendar of Events with the team was in 1980 as Ciao! November 14 – 1 p.m. in our they finished in fifth place with ballroom: “Julian and Domi- a 67-95 record. After five years nique Luncheon Show.” Julian without a winning season, The Martin Hernandez and Dominique Torre was fired at the end of Salmanowitz Carmen are a dynamic duo, the strike-shortened 1981 sea- known as the show of 1,000 son Senior Social voices. They sing songs from In 1982, Torre replaced Celine Dion and Whitney Bobby Cox as the manager of Club Houston to Andrea Bocelli and the Atlanta Braves who went By Mary Laresch Barry White. Their diversified on to finish 89–73 and capture Here comes November, and act has been performed the National League West divi- we are getting ready for Elec- th throughout the United States. sion title, its first playoff ap- tion Day on the 5 , and the Julian is known for his impres- pearance since the 1969 Na- privilege we have as Ameri- sions of Pavarotti, Elvis, and a tional League Championship cans to vote and choose who host of other artists. Domi- Series (NLCS). Even though we want to represent us. On nique sings a variety of songs the St. Louis Cardinals went November 11 we will celebrate from Natalie Cole, Sarah on to sweep the series. Torre Veterans Day, and give honor Brightman, Aretha Franklin was named the Associated and thanks to all those heroes and Lady Gaga. Lunch will be Press’ (AP) Manager of the who fought and sacrificed for deli platters served family Year. our freedom. We will finish the style, and include roast beef, Torre then served as the month by celebrating Thanks- th corned beef, turkey breast, Yankees manager under giving Day on the 28 , when and tuna fish, along with po- tato salad, cake and coffee. It will be catered by Michael’s Event Catering. Please bring your own beverage. $19/ members; $21/non-resident guests. December 14 – 6:30 p.m. in our Ballroom: “Holiday Party Featuring the Comedy of Floyd Vivino.” The Ace in the Hole Band will play for danc- ing, and Tommy Walker will be our featured singer. Uncle Floyd is an outstanding come- dian, impressionist, musician and singer. Our family-style dinner will be catered by Jacques, and include Beef Bourguignon, Saute’ Tuscan Chicken, Eggplant Parmigi- ana, Rice and Broccoli, cake and coffee. Please bring your own beverage. $32/members; $35/non-resident guests. January 9, 2020 – 1 p.m. in our Ballroom: “The Dale Grand Luncheon Show.” Dale is re- turning to our stage to share more of his talent as a come- dian. He has worked with Pat Boone, Ray Charles, Vic Damone, Frank Sinatra, and many others. Our brunch will (Continued on page 13) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 13

Senior Social 7:30 as described above. ance to see Renee Taylor pre- each month for our monthly Welcome to our new mem- sent “My Life on a Diet” meeting located in the Towne Please drive (Continued from page 12) bers: Michael Boxer, Joe Gur- December 6 – National Mu- Centre across from the nurse’s be catered by Bagel Bazaar, ney & Dorothy Libou, Rita seum of American Jewish His- office. Each month brings a new slowly and and will include eggs, home Horowitz, Stuart & Elinor tory, Philadelphia – “The Life topic or new idea. New people fries, bacon and sausage, an Weinstein, Jay Respler, Ed Pis- and Times of Ruth Bader Gins- always welcome! carefully assortment of bagels, rolls, apia, Morton & Rochelle Tarter, burg” Sylvia Kolber Yiddish croissants, muffins, Danish, and Maxine Weinfeld. Films: Multi-Media Center: in our and fresh fruit salad. We also President – Alex Nachimson Films take place in the ball- The Multi-Media Center is will serve tuna, chicken and Vice President – Ralph Devito room of the Towne Centre and available at monthly breakfasts community. whitefish salads, and coffee. Recording Secretary – Alan start at 1pm. No sign up is re- and includes films on DVD, Please bring your own bever- Hermelee quired, but you MUST be a books and music CDs. Some age. $18/members; $20/non- Corresponding Secretary – member to attend. books are from authors who resident guests. Sharon Nachimson November 17 – The Infidel - have spoken to our group and It is our policy to give re- Treasurer – Mark Lindell An identity crisis comedy cen- some of the DVDs are past funds (except for trips) up to tered on Mahmud Nasir, suc- films shown at the Sunday Many drivers one week before any event. Yiddish Club cessful business owner, and salt movie afternoon. Refunds are not guaranteed if of the earth East End Muslim A reminder… you do not are speeding you cancel less than one By Diane Morris-Paff who discovers that he’s need to speak Yiddish to be a week, unless a replacement is A happy Thanksgiving to all, adopted - and Jewish. member of our club, you just on our streets this month, and we would like to found. When making reserva- December 15 – Ida –A need an interest in meeting putting us all tions, please write the date of wish the snowbirds safe travels. woman, about to take her others and sharing an experi- the event on the OUTSIDE of A special thanks to Robert vows as a nun, is told by her ence with our members. You at risk. the envelope. A separate Spiotto for performing as Joel only living relative that she is must be a club member to check must be made for each Grey - actor of Broadway, films, Jewish. partake in all activities. event with names of those at and TV, as well as a director. Elsie Landau Yiddish Vinkle: your table — a maximum of 12 Bob started with Grey’s career For those who speak Yiddish people at any table. Please from the beginning (shows like or understand Yiddish, please write a separate check for the the “Borscht Capades”) through join us on the 3rd Wednesday of annual dues of $10/person. shows such as; “Goodtime Charley”, “Cabaret” and “George M” to present times via GW Friends for song and dance routines. If you Senior Men & Women want to see an interesting clip of Sensations By Sharon Nachinsom Joel Grey as a young performer, “Be thankful for what you go to YouTube.com and search Wants You! have. Your life is someone for Joel Grey Colgate Comedy Our troupe, dancers else’s fairy tale. “ Hour. from G/W, Regency, ― Wale Ayeni A thank you to Alon Ben- Stonebridge, and sur- Gurion for coming to speak to Good advice, Mr. Ayeni. We rounding Monroe area is us about his grandfather David have much to be thankful for always growing and look- Ben-Gurion. It was a fascinating here at Greenbriar-Whittingham, ing for talent. Our last evening. A special thanks to all not the least of which is an Dancin’ those in the club who organized, performance, abundance of activities and thru the USA received a clubs along with friends with ran and supported this special event. standing ovation and whom to share them. GW rave reviews. We’ve had Friends wishes everyone a very Calling all club members: The Yiddish Club is looking for jugglers and twirlers Happy Thanksgiving. added to our singers and For those of you who did not volunteers interested in joining all committees - to plan break- dancers to enhance our get to go on our trip to the Ama- performance throughout zon Distribution Center, please fasts and entertainment for the breakfasts, trips, and hospitality the years. be on the lookout for our The challenges, fun, monthly Newsletter for a com- (purchasing and setting up camaraderie, and suc- mand performance in the breakfasts). We are also looking cess are worth your time spring. for members possessing good and dedication. Come join us for the addi- computer skills, especially in tional activities that GW Friends Excel. Come join us! Call has planned for this month. Note: If you are not currently Bunny Feigenbaum at Monday, Nov. 4 – Friends a club member and join, starting 609-395-8174. Club Breakfast at 9 AM in November 15, you will be enti- Christo’s Kitchen, located near tled to attend the November and the Stop & Shop market December films, and the De- (members only, please). Cost is cember Chanukah Party break- $11 for our special menu. Call fast. This gives you 13 ½ Howard Katz at 409-8606 for months of membership for the reservations. price of 12. This is only for new Monday, Nov. 4 – Friends members joining in November. Movie Group at 4 in the all- For all other members, the purpose room at the Towne membership year starts in Janu- Centre. All members are en- ary and dues for 2020 are to be couraged to express their opin- remitted January 1. Membership ions about the films. Call Dr. forms will be available starting in Allan Cooper at 409-3860 and November for 2020. let him know you are interested. Breakfasts: Wednesday, Nov. 6– Pizza & Breakfasts take place the first Billiards Group at Ciro’s at 12:30 Sunday of each month. The and then at the downstairs pool cost is usually $8/month, unless room at the Towne Centre. Call otherwise stated on flyer. Pay- Norm Goodman at 395-8998. ment and flyer cutoff are due 10 Monday, Nov.11 – Socrates days prior to the breakfast. All Café at 4 in the poker room at necessary information, regard- the Towne Centre. Interesting ing payment acceptance, pro- topics relating to life issues will gram info, date, time, etc. is on be spontaneously discussed. All the flyer. Doors open at 9:45 am members are free to express for breakfasts and the program their thoughts, feelings, or ex- starts at 10:15 am. periences. New members are December 1, Chanukah always welcome. Call Dr. Allan Party - our annual, special cele- Cooper at 409-3860. bration. Full kosher dairy break- Tuesday, Nov.12 – Finance & fast, provided by Deli King and Investing Group at 7:30 at the note the cost is $22. Entertain- Towne Centre. Stan Gross ment will be by Ricky Pen, inter- leads the discussion on today’s national singer. markets. Call Stan at 860-6631. January 5 –The Word Wednesday, Nov. 20 – Bil- Mavens - celebrate Jewish tra- liards Group at 2 in the Towne ditions, holidays, beloved foods Centre. Call Norm Goodman. and the Yiddish and Hebrew Monday, Nov.25 - Friends words that describe them. A Book Club at 4 at the Towne laugh out loud experience will Centre. Call Marvin Bachman at be had by all. 409-5464. Trips: See flyer for details on Monday, Nov. 25 – Monthly all trips. GW Friends General Meeting at November 19 – George St. 7:15 with a special program at Playhouse, an evening perform- NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 14 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE

large papier mache’ objects, Craft Fair one being a turtle to be used for his daughter’s wedding (Continued from page 1) miniatures for doll houses, gifts and later a coffee table. Annette Newmark had water- Tie-dyed clothes, jewelry, colors, and Jules Werthein, and crocheted items were con- Filippo Curro, and Natalya tributed by Cakes made from Golyanor colored our world diapers for baby showers. with stained glass objects that Contributors included May come to life when light shines Konten, Harriet Goldstein, through them. Many pieces of Dorothy Libou, Madalyn Litoff, woodworking were displayed Frank Cryan, and Lois Hayan. by Thomas Garuccio, Filippo Residents of GW do not Curro, and Aaron Nadel, all have to go to New York art who used wood to create galleries to see superior works boxes, games, toys, and card- of art. They exist right here in holders. our community. All the partici- Paintings were shown by pants deserve our thanks for Irwin Montlack, Diane Payne sharing their talents with us. displayed greeting cards, and Apologies for those not men- Francine Bernstein exhibited tioned this year; will be sure to her diamond art. Knitted items note your name next time are donated to the homeless, around. As many new resi- battered women, and hospi- dents move into our commu- tals. nity, we may see even more Chuck Highstein created talent next year! Thanks to all! GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 15

Monroe Connections Township By Elinor Koll Jamie Novak will present the Secures First GW Connections welcomes program-KEEP THIS-TOSS Express Bus to new members. Applications, BACK. Jamie is an author and along with our mission state- organizational humorist. Cost- Wall Street ment, can be found in the flyer TBD. Watch for flyers. New Wall Street route builds holders at the clubhouse. Our Study Groups are: on two Midtown-bound Dues are $15 for a single Book Study, The Classics, It’s express bus routes estab- membership and $20 for a Debatable, Movie Reviews, lished earlier this year family membership. Play Reading, and Provoca- Mayor Gerald W. Tamburro Unwanted clothing is ac- tive Thinking. Call Susan Mar- has announced that commut- cepted for donation and will be gulies if you are interested ers traveling from Monroe to (662-4458). The Friday Night Wall Street now have a direct, given to Homefront by Marilyn Movie/Dinner/Discussion express bus option. Steiner (10 Umberland Place- “The Monroe Township 860-6484) and Doris Becker group meets the third Friday Commuter Council has made (12 Severn Way-395-8018). night of the month. Volunteers steady progress and seen Please place your items in select and present the movie. quick results that will improve plastic bags. We thank all our Check for flyers or call Mary quality of life for Monroe com- GW residents for their support Bowers (619-2723) if you are muters,” said Mayor Tam- of our charitable works. interested. If you want to join burro. “The Midtown express Our projected 2020 events the Coloring Book Club, call busses have been extremely will include: Enid Kadish (409-4457). popular and we are happy to • May 2-Luncheon at Knob Hill To send a congratulatory add yet another convenient for members and guests. note, get-well or sympathy express service – this time to Melinda Blau will be speaking. message, contact Gladys Wall Street – for our resi- Cost TBD. Watch for flyers. Nahmias at: gladys- dents.” • May 15-Event at the club- [email protected]. Recognizing that Monroe house. Everyone is invited. Township residents rely on bus service as the sole public transportation option from the municipality, Mayor Tamburro The Jewish established the Monroe Town- ship Commuter Council as a Historical critical step toward improving private bus service to New Society York and Jersey City. of Central The new Wall Street ex- press route follows the an- Jersey nouncement of two morning The American Jewish Ex- (Continued on page 17) perience Lecture Series, pre- sented by the Jewish Histori- cal Society of Central Jersey, Special Olympics continues for its 22nd con- secutive year with a presenta- (Continued from page 9) tion by Sandra Lanman, enti- Some History of the tled “Haven or Hell: Jews in Special Olympics the Philippines During WWII.” Many of the participants are For over 20 years, Sandy good athletes, and they com- Lanman knew her grand- pete in other areas such as mother Elsie had escaped swimming, running, and horse- Germany to the Philippines in back riding. The Special Olym- 1938 only to lose her hus- pics hosts summer games that band Gunther in the vicious include 2,500 athletes compet- Battle of Manila at the end of ing over a four-day period. the war. Earlier this year, a But how did this come to serendipitous connection to be? Prior to 1960 Special Ath- Gunther’s grand-nephew un- letes had no outlets for their covered a trove of photos of abilities. Elsie and Gunther in Manila In 1960, a mother spoke to and sparked Sandy’s interest Eunice Shriver lamenting the in learning more about the inability of finding a summer Jews who found safe haven camp for her child with an in- there. Her presentation looks tellectual disability. The child at this little known story of wasn’t accepted into any rescue and tragedy in the mainstream camp. Shriver South Pacific. took this bull by the horns and The lecture will be held on created a camp of her own on Tuesday, November 12, at 10 her Maryland farm. She re- a.m. at Jewish Family Ser- cruited high school and col- vices, 52 Concordia Shopping lege students to act as coun- (Continued on page 16) selors. The camp flourished and people from the commu- nity came out to watch, fol- lowed by representatives of the parks department and pub- lic-school system. The idea was catching fire. Move forward 60 years and we find that ESPN and Special Olympics have created and expanded an important rela- tionship. They have signed an eight-year Broadcast Agree- ment and extension as Global Presenting Sponsor of Special Olympics. The Greenbriar Golf Course is looking forward to Hosting the Special Olympics again next year. We were the hosts last year, and before that for five years we allowed the ath- letes to play on our course in order to obtain the handicaps they needed to qualify for the Olympics. At that time resident golfers went along with them and acted as their caddies, and officially kept their scores. NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 16 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE

Monroe Township Chorus Calendar of Events

Please join us on Sunday, Music is something to be for Monroe Township Public Library November 17 for our Winter shared that is unifying be- All events are open to the public. www.monroetwplibrary.org Performance – “A World of cause people can relate to the Song.” It will be held at the songs and feel inspired by it. Marasco Performing Arts Cen- Music is incredibly intimate Winter Greeting Card Annual Jewels of NJ year dictatorship under Gen- ter (Monroe Twp. Middle and allows all people to con- Donation Drop Off Jewelry Show & Sale eral Franco seek justice. School on Perrineville Rd) vey a message of emotion that Friday, November 1 through Sunday, November 3 from Filmed over six years, survi- Doors open at 1:15 pm and the they may not be able to com- Friday, November 15. Do you 11am to 4p.m. Holiday shop- vors organize the ground- performance begins at 2 pm. municate with their words. have spare greeting cards ping simplified at this annual breaking ‘Argentine Lawsuit’ Every culture in the world Although most people have cluttering your home? Drop off sale of distinctive handcrafted and fight state-imposed amne- has its own music that is en- their own preference on the your unused and unwanted jewelry and wearable art from sia of crimes against human- joyed by all ages on every con- type of music that they enjoy greeting cards, with enve- New Jersey artisans. Pro- ity. (2018, 90 minutes) tinent. Although each culture is listening to, we can agree that lopes. Please bundle sets. ceeds benefit the Monroe These films are presented in different, music unifies all the tunes are an important part Donations will benefit the Township Library Foundation. collaboration with the award- races and has been used of life. Trenton Area Soup Kitchen POV Documentary Films winning documentary series throughout history for different The chorus will present and may be dropped off in the Sunday, November 3 at P.O.V. (www.pbs.org/pov). occasions and for enjoyment songs from around the world. collection box in the Library 10:30am: On call 24/7 for six Registration is not required. purposes. (Continued on page 19) during regular operating hours. years, three senior citizens Coupon Club Sit-N-Stitch have made history by greeting Monday, November 4 at Fridays, November 1 & 15 at nearly one million troops at a 1:30p.m. Clip, swap and trade 10:30 a.m. Stitch a project; tiny Maine airport. (2009, 90 coupons. Discuss deals, share assist others, share tips, pro- minutes) frugal tips and shopping ex- jects and patterns. Bring your Sunday, November 3 at periences. Bring a pair of scis- own supplies. Registration is 1pm: From a snowy, small sors and your stash of non- not required. town in northern Michigan to expired coupons. Registration Current Events the mountains of Afghanistan, is not required. Discussion Group viewers follow the four-year Sewing Class: Saturday, November 2 at journey of childhood friends Reversible Placemats 10:30 a.m. Enjoy a discussion who join the National Guard Monday, November 4 from about global and domestic after high school graduation. 3pm to 5 p.m. Thursday, affairs. Light refreshments (2011, 90 minutes) November 7 from 6 p.m. to 8 provided. Register at the Wel- Saturday, November 16 at p.m. Learn how to sew come Desk. 1pm: Survivors of Spain’s 40- reversible placemats! Class is 2 hours. Students must take the Meet Your Sewing Ma- chine class or have prior ma- chine sewing knowledge to

take this class. Ages 18 and over. Students must bring at least 2 coordinating fat quarters of fabric to class. Registration is required. Register at the Reference Desk or www.monroetwplibrary.org, beginning Tuesday, October 1 at 9:30am. Closing The Library will be closed on Tuesday, November 5 for Election Day. Book Café Wednesday, November 6. Session 1 at 11 a.m.; Session 2 at 1 p.m. Discuss books that you have read. Light refresh- ments will be served. Space is limited. Register at the Wel- come Desk. Socrates Café Wednesday, November 6 at 7 p.m. Socrates Café are gath- erings around the world where people from different back- grounds get together and ex- change thoughtful ideas and experiences while embracing (Continued on page 17)

Jewish Historical Society

(Continued from page 15) Center, Monroe Township. The lecture will be repeated on Wednesday, November 20, at 10:30 a.m. at the Highland Park Conservative Temple, 201 South 3rd Avenue, High- land Park. Both lectures are open to the public. A dona- tion of $2 is requested at the door. For more information call the JHSCJ office at 732- 249-4894 or email at [email protected]. The Jewish Historical Soci- ety of Central Jersey pro- motes and preserves all facets of the American Jewish ex- perience, with emphasis on the Jewish community of cen- tral New Jersey. The society’s extensive archival holdings are available to researchers. The collections include docu- ments from religious, social, educational, and community organizations, as well as indi- vidual family records. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 17

and Middlesex County Cultural International Films in 2019 as songs to come from the Tin Monroe Library and Heritage Commission a 30th Anniversary bonus Pan Alley. through a grant provided by (Continued from page 16) thanks to the generosity of the Sponsored by the Friends of Worship & Immigration. Regis- the New Jersey State Council the central theme of Socratiz- Friends of the Library. Regis- the Library. Registration is not tration is not required. on the Arts/Department of ing; the idea that we learn tration is not required. required. Short Story Discussion State. This series is presented more when we ask questions Friday Afternoon Movie Veteran’s Voices Group in partnership with the Cultural along with others. Join us and Friday, November 15 at 2 Documentary Film Wednesday, November 13 Arts Commission. Registration pose questions, listen to oth- p.m. A dog makes a promise Sunday, November 17 from at 11 a.m. Join us for a discus- is not required. ers, raise challenges and con- to protect and be there for his 1pm to 4 p.m. Stories of ser- sion about “Come On, Silver” Genealogy Club sider other alternatives. Regis- owner’s granddaughter as she vice spoken by Monroe Town- by Ann Glaviano in Best Wednesday, November 13 ter at the Welcome Desk. experiences the highs and ship residents serving our na- American Short Stories and at 1:30 p.m. Beginner and ex- West African Kora Musical lows of life. Rated PG, 109 tion during World War II, Korea “Nights in Logar” by Jamil Jan perienced genealogists are Performance minutes. Movie is free. Regis- and Vietnam. 84 minutes Reg- Kochai in O. Henry Prize Sto- welcome. Registration is not Friday, November 8 from tration is not required. istration is not required. ries. Register at the Welcome required. 11am to 1 p.m. Hear musical Musician’s Showcase International Book Club Desk. International Film selections on this ancient West Sunday, November 17 at 2 Tuesday, November 19 at Boheme Opera NJ sponsored by The Friends African 21-stringed harp. Reg- p.m. Ragtime aficionado Karl 10:30 a.m. Coffee and cookies Wednesday, November 13 of the Library istration is not required. Dentino will tell stories and provided. at 1 p.m. This lecture perform- Thursday, November 14 at 2 Music Circle play some of the most popular (Continued on page 18) ance will focus on the iconic p.m. Halle is a mid-aged Friday, November 8 from Broadway productions of Alan woman leading a double life. 3pm to 5 p.m. Musicians of J. Lerner and Frederick While leading a life of quiet any level are welcome to play Loewe. Shows featured will be routine she is also an environ- popular songs of various dec- Calling for Minyan Brigadoon, Paint Your Wagon, mental activist waging war ades in a campfire-style set- My Fair Lady, Camelot and against an aluminum com- ting. Songs will be done in Volunteers Gigi. Selections may include pany. After receiving news that simple 3-4 chord arrange- The Minyan Group of Greenbriar at Whittingham has “On the Street Where You she has been approved for a ments and lyrics will be shown served our community for over 20 years: We need to ensure Live,” “I Could Have Danced much anticipated adoption of a on the projector for everyone the presence of ten Jewish residents-men and /or women-at All Night,” “I’ve Grown Accus- child, Halle realizes that she to follow along. Join us and all Shiva minyans. If a family in accordance with their beliefs tomed to Her Face,” “Almost must put her radical activities feel free to bring any songs requires that only men may be counted to constitute a min- Like Being in Love,” and “If aside for motherhood, but first, you’d like to lead as well! Reg- yan, the Shiva Group will honor that request. You do not Ever I Would Leave You,” plus one last “message” for the istration is not required. have to be fluent in Hebrew to be a part of our group, but we others. aluminum company. 2018 Closing do need your presence. If you wish to be a minyan leader Grant funding has been pro- (Iceland) Adventure/Comedy/ The Library will be closed on please call: Eddie Thompson at 609-860-2664, Aaron Nitkin vided by the Middlesex County Drama Not Rated, 1hr 41min. Monday, November 11 for at 609-395-7598 or Jim Penzias at 609-860-8344. Board of Chosen Freeholders There will be no charge for Veterans Day. The Great Courses: Turning Points in American History Tuesdays, November 12 & 19 at 1 p.m. New Series! The history of America is shaped by many long-term trends and subtle forces. From the Great Epidemic through 9/11, this series explores important mo- ments and themes of the American past. Professor Ed- ward T. O’Donnell presents a fresh and unique look at American history in this DVD lecture series. Each session consists of two 30-minute DVDs, followed by a brief dis- cussion. November 12: The Great Epidemic & Slavery Begins. November 19: Freedom of

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(Continued from page 15) express busses to Midtown that began this spring. Effec- tive Monday, October 7th, Suburban/Academy began operating a Wall Street ex- press trip that bypasses the South Brunswick Park & Ride at New Jersey Turnpike Exit 8A. The trips originate in East Windsor and service all stops in Monroe to Rossmoor before getting onto the New Jersey Turnpike. Also beginning this fall, the Mayor and Township Council approved a construction con- tract to repave the entire Ap- plegarth Park & Ride, adding new lighting, sidewalk replace- ment and new and expanded bus shelters. This will encour- age more ridership and con- venience for our residents. During construction, commut- ers can park at the Park & Ride on Applegarth Road lo- cated across from the Clear- brook community. Further no- tice will be provided regarding construction details and ac- cessibility. “We are working together with private bus companies to provide more options aimed at improving the commute to and from New York City and the surrounding areas for our resi- dents,” Mayor Tamburro said. “Upgrading the Park & Ride will further ensure that Monroe commuters have a much bet- ter experience.” NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 18 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE

Sharing the Silence: The Child of a Survivor Tells His Father’s Story

The Henry Ricklis Holocaust Memorial Committee in coop- eration with the Friends of the Monroe Township Library Proudly Present Rabbi Peter H. Grumbacher “Sharing the Silence: The Child of a Survi- vor Tells His Father’s Story.” Ernst Grumbacher was ar- rested by the Gestapo and thrown in the Dachau Concen- tration Camp on Nov. 9, 1938, during Kristalnacht, also known as The Night of Shat- tered Glass. “He spent six weeks [in the camp] and got out miraculously,” said Ernst’s son, Rabbi Peter Grumbacher. Rabbi Grumbacher will share his father’s story, and how he was able to leave Dachau. Rabbi Peter H. Grumbacher was born in New York City, graduated from Hunter College and in 1972 was ordained from Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion with a Master of Arts in Hebrew Let- ters. Upon his ordination, Rabbi Grumbacher went to Wilmington, Delaware as As- sistant Rabbi and Director of Education at Congregation Beth Emeth. In 1982, Rabbi Grumbacher was named Sen- ior Rabbi. He retired in 2009 and has traveled around the country speaking on the sub- ject Sharing the Silence: The Child of a Survivor Tells His Father’s Story. Free of charge. The public is invited to attend on Sunday, November 10, 2:00 p.m. at the Monroe Township High School, 200 Schoolhouse Road, Monroe Twp.

Monroe Library (Continued from page 17) Join a book discussion about Welcome to Lagos by Chibunbu Onuzo (Nigeria). Full of shimmering detail, this selection is a stunning por- trayal of an extraordinary city, and of seven lives that inter- sect in a breathless story of courage and survival. Register and reserve your copy at the Welcome Desk. Slips & Falls Prevention Tuesday, November 19 at 1:30 p.m. Slips and falls hap- pen. Be prepared! Physical Therapist Ann Hays of St. Pe- ter’s Hospital will present tips to improve balance to avoid slips and falls. Register at the Welcome Desk. Library Board of Trustees Meeting Tuesday, November 19 at 6:30 p.m. Page Turners Thursday, November 21 at 11 a.m. Looking for something to read or add to your reading list? Library staff will present and recommend a variety of new titles pertaining to a differ- ent topic each month, both new and old titles. This month’s theme is Memoirs. Light refreshments provided. Register at the Welcome Desk. Scary-Fun Musicals Friday, November 22 at 11 a.m. Are you thrilled by musi- cals? Musicals can be thrilling, filled with wonder and whimsy, (Continued on page 22) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 19

The Yardlery Players production of “Joseph and the Technicolor Dreamcoat,” Nov. 8-17 at MCCC’s Kelsey Theatre.

‘Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat’ Shines on Kelsey Theatre Stage at MCCC November 8 to 17

WEST WINDSOR – The and rock into an uplifting pro- tion – making him the most ultimate story of sibling rivalry, duction filled with unforgettable powerful man in Egypt, sec- betrayal, immense courage, songs. The show retells the ond only to Pharaoh himself. and redemption comes to the biblical story of Joseph from This culminates with an even- stage of Kelsey Theatre at the Book of Genesis, and re- tual reunion and reckoning Mercer County Community counts the jealousy of his 11 with his brothers and family. College (MCCC) with the brothers, who fake Joseph’s Tickets are $22 for adults, Yardley Players’ production of death and sell him into slavery. $20 for seniors and students “Joseph and the Technicolor As a slave, Joseph rises and may be purchased online Dreamcoat,” Nov. 8-17. though the ranks in the service at www.kelseytheatre.org or Dates and show times are of Egyptian tycoon Potiphar, by calling the Kelsey Box Of- Fridays, Nov. 8 and 15 at 8 and when others learn of his fice at (609) 570-3333. Kelsey p.m.; Saturdays, Nov. 9 and ability to interpret dreams, he Theatre is wheelchair accessi- 16 at 2 p.m. and 8 p.m.; and catches the attention of Phar- ble, with free parking next to Sundays, Nov. 10 and 17 at 2 aoh. the theater. For a complete p.m. Kelsey Theatre is located Joseph accurately predicts listing of adult and children’s on MCCC’s West Windsor an impending famine, and with events, visit the Kelsey web- Campus, 1200 Old Trenton the Pharaoh putting him in site at www.kelseytheatre.org, Road. The community is in- charge of preparations, Jo- or call the box office for a bro- vited to an opening night re- seph saves Egypt from starva- chure. ception with the cast and crew on Nov. 8. This family-friendly musical, with music by composer An- drew Lloyd Webber and lyricist Tim Rice, blends pop, country,

Township Chorus (Continued from page 16) It will be an afternoon of beau- tiful music, laughter and a good time for all. If you would like to become a member of the chorus, call Sheila Werfel at 609-619-3229 or at sheila1120@ gmail.com. If singing makes you happy, then the chorus is the place for you. We meet on Tuesday mornings from 9 am to 11:15 am at the Monroe Township Senior Center.

Resources for Book Clubs Do you belong to a book club? Would you like to start a book club with your friends or neighbors? The Library offers a wide variety of services and resources to meet the needs of book clubs. Register your book club at the Monroe Township Library to receive program ideas, book club kits, suggestions of titles and other resources to make your group the best it can be. Register your book club at the Monroe Township Public Library Welcome Desk in per- son or by calling (732) 521- 5000 x.112. NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 20 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE

jump in the drink Seeking some sign just Poetry Corner maybe a wink. Believe it or not, she’s caught some guy’s eye Made a A spec of hope not able to see And he makes his approach Lifted me up and made me with a smile and a “hi”. Difference sane After a brief introduction and By Irwin Dunsky Key to my mind a chance to be some small talk as well, Down on the river free This sudden encounter is be- In a washed-out basin Thoughts own me if I don’t ginning to gel. I found the answer fight back A sincere invitation to step out To every equation I’m done caring around that for a drink Purpose in life heavy sack. Is of course accepted with Isn’t what you think nary a blink. Doesn’t matter Never Too Rich A few hours together still go- If you sail or sink ing great, Living your life to Remember Last drink sipped as they set And finding your star By Bill Friedman their first date. Learning your lessons and Imagine someone owning a On the way to their cars con- Figuring out who you are mansion on a ten-acre lot tinuing to speak And in the end And spending their weekend She was glad to accept a When day is done on a two-hundred-foot peck on the cheek. Smile on your face yacht Early next morning lost in Not having to run With clothing and jewelry from slumber Each man’s drive finest designers, She hears her phone ring and Is unique to him Who arrives on vacations in notices his number. On life’s tree private jet liners. He immediately says he is not We are each a limb Known to rub elbows with the one to stalk To have made a difference offspring of czars, But was so thrilled by last Where you walked Level-headed of course still night he just wanted to To have helped someone down to earth, talk. When you talked Never a victim of incredible They spoke every day, all worth. vibes still great A philanthropic human with a And had a fabulous time on That Heavy heart of gold their first date. Sack Sonnet Donating fortunes to those Days, weeks, months would By Irwin Dunsky young and old. show Into the night of my worst Thanks to the affluent so That this romance would dreams proud to give, continue to grow. Holding the key to my own And making our world a better So many introductions to freedom place to live. family and friends

Life can have problems at its Always leading to special extremes Never Too Late blends. Black as a hell hole can’t find Eventually agreed to for Love cohabitate as well, the sun By Bill Friedman Believing the end is here Had to decide whose home A single woman suddenly today they would sell. zealous Praying tomorrow will never Decision made both parties Can often result in friends be- come approve ing jealous. Unable to hold my fear at With minimum fuss to his Using a mirror to practice a bay house they’d move. wiggle Finished trying and wanting Would they eventually marry Can lead this gal to utter a to run is for you to decide? giggle. Through my prison walls it Whether they would become With confidence-built time to came husband and bride.

Monroe Township Office of Senior Services & Senior Center 12 Halsey Reed Road, Monroe Township, NJ 609-448-7140

Registering with the Office / day Closings: Election Day Body Mass Screenings: Senior Center is free and on November 5; Veterans Day On Monday, November 4, by available to Monroe Township on November 11; Thanksgiv- appointment (9:30 a.m. to 12 residents, 55 years of age and ing on November 28; and, the p.m.) St. Peter’s Community older. The monthly newsletter, “Day-After” Thanksgiving on Health provides weight as- Senior Focus, is distributed November 29. sessments and nutritional around the 15th of the previ- Holiday Food Drive is Un- counseling, after your BMI ous month and members are derway: In this season of giv- (body mass index) is calcu- required to pre-register for ing, your support for our an- lated. BMI is a reliable indica- ALL monthly activities. nual Holiday Food Drive would tor of body fat. Please be sure to call the Of- be greatly appreciated. Please Robinson Artshop: On fice at least 24 hours in ad- consider helping us fill Thanks- Monday, November 4, at vance should you need trans- giving and Christmas baskets 10:30 a.m., discover your in- portation to and from the Sen- with the following items: ner artist as J. Robinson Art ior Center. For members un- canned sweet potatoes, cran- guides you, stroke-by- stroke, able to attend a registered berry sauce, stuffing mix, in- as you create a colorful fall program, please be sure to stant potatoes, canned fruit scene. Space limited. cancel. cocktail, onion soup mix, 2 lbs. Holiday Karaoke: On Mon- For complete details re- sugar, instant coffee, Ritz day, November 4, at 2:30 garding the new registration crackers, can/jar of olives, p.m., it’s time to celebrate the procedure, our guidelines corn muffin mix, pumpkin pie season with holiday tunes per- and refund policy, please filling, pie crust mix, cake mix formed by Rick and interested call the Office at 609-448- and frosting. Please be sure to participants. Light snacks in- 7140. drop-off your contribution by cluded, too. Office/Senior Center Holi- November 8. Healthy Bites: On Wednesday, November 6, at 10:30 a.m., this monthly dis- cussion group focuses on nu- tritious eating during the holi- days and beyond. Share your concerns and receive helpful tips. Do Si Do, Away We Go: On Wednesday, November 6, at 2 p.m., it’s time to put on your square-dancing shoes to join Betsy for a fun afternoon of promenading and swinging (Continued on page 21) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 21

Michael and Ted Present: On Tuesday, November 19, at 2 p.m., join Michael and Ted, from The Classical Net- (Continued from page 20) emerged with a point of view work, as they discuss the life your partner. Please be sure to from both sides of the conflict. and career of Cy Coleman, register with a friend. Memory Screening: On Broadway composer. This lec- Ceramics: Starting on Thursday, November 14, by ture focuses on his various Thursday, November 7, at appointment, individuals who musical scores including 9:30 a.m., join Bev Kapler for were on the waitlist for these SWEET CHARITY, I LOVE this 4-session ceramic class. screenings in September, will MY WIFE, and more. Bisque pieces available for receive first preference for this Art of the Masters: On purchase. The registration service. For space availability, Wednesday, November 20, fee of $20 p.p. is due upon please call the office after Oc- at 10 a.m., Christina provides registering. tober 25. a brief talk on the life and work Japan’s “Schindler”: On Kitchens Go-Round: On of Wassily Kandinsky. Partici- Thursday, November 7 and Thursday, November 14, at pants, who requested partici- 14, at 10:30 a.m., Julian Davis 1:30 p.m., Jim DelGiudice pation in the project, will create discusses how the Japanese explores the most important an abstract masterpiece in the vice consul to Lithuania was room in the house: the artist’s style. Space limited. able to neutralize evil. His kitchen. Food management, Chef Lori Demo: On deeds made him a symbol of from its prep to disposal, Wednesday, November 20, humanitarianism during a dark brings family and traditions at 10:30 a.m., join Chef Lori, period of Japanese history. together. Jim examines how from Brandywine Assisted Liv- (Unless otherwise noted, you our homes reflect food’s pri- ing, as she shows you how to will be enrolled in both pro- mary importance in our lives, make an easy, “no-bake” ice- gram dates.) from Kansas to Kenya. box cake. Early Movie Musical: On To Cable or Not: On Fri- Understanding Music: On Thursday, November 7, at day, November 15, at 10:30 Wednesday, November 20, 1:30 p.m., explore the history a.m., join Joel and Art as they at 2:30 p.m., join Thomas Ele- of the early movie musical discuss your options about fant for a discussion on music starting with THE JAZZ replacing your cable package as he demonstrates its ele- SINGER in 1927. Sam and for your home. If the cost of ments from rhythm, meter, Candy Caponegro share clips cable is a concern, find out tone, color, and orchestral from this period including per- what other choices you have instruments. The lecture culmi- formances by Mae West, Bing available. nates with Benjamin Britten’s Crosby, and the extravagan- Chair Massage: On Fri- Young Person’s Guide to the zas of Busby Berkeley. day, November 15, by ap- Orchestra, featuring the Lon- HAPPY Bagels Plus: On Friday, pointment (1:30 to 3:15 don Symphony Orchestra. November 8, at 10 a.m., join p.m.) enjoy a free, 15-minute (Continued on page 22) THANKSGIVING Linda, from The Gardens, and massage from a Silver Lining Sheli, from Caring Connec- Massage Therapist. Hosted by tions, for this interactive ses- Robert Wood Johnson, start sion as you count your bless- the holiday season stress-free ings (and have them return to with this relaxing chair mas- TOWNE CENTRE NEWS you throughout the coming sage. Limited appointments year) as a reminder of being available. Please be sure to By Monica Caterson, Clubhouse / Recreation Manager thankful for what we have arrive 10-minutes prior to your every day. appointment time to check-in. Palisades Park: On Friday, Late arrivals are not resched- WHOA Entertainment WHOA Atlantic City November 8, at 1:30 p.m., uled. Wednesday, return to your childhood as Patty’s Berlin Tribute: On Shows Vince Gargiulo, author of Friday, November 15, at 2 November 6, 2019 “Palisades Amusement p.m., enjoy the popular hits of GUYS & DOLLS “Golden Nugget” Park: A Century of Fond Irving Berlin as Patty Carver Memories,” discusses the sings his patriotic favorites Saturday, ON SALE NOW history of this iconic destina- and shares stories of his life. tion. Enjoy this ride down Winter Breathing Woes: November 16, 2019 Wednesday, memory lane. On Monday, November 18, At The Monroe Township December 4, 2019 Judge for Yourself: On at 10:30 a.m., Saswati Chak- Tuesday, November 12, at raborty, from Monroe Village/ Middle School “Golden Nugget” 10:30 a.m., Judge Jen returns Village Point, delves into the 2020 Dates Coming Soon ON SALE NOW to share true cases with you challenges of breathing during ~ Watch for the flyer! ~ Wednesday, so that a discussion, and pos- the winter months. Cold, dry *If you would like to receive e-mails about sibly, a debate can ensue, air can play havoc with your our shows let us know! [email protected] December 25, 2019 during this interactive program. lungs. Find out how to keep Blood Pressure Screen- asthma, COPD and/or bron- “Resorts” ing: On Tuesday, November chitis away. ON SALE NOW 12, by appointment, keep Music BINGO: On Mon- WHOA’s Sunday your blood pressure in check day, November 18, at 1:30 with this free screening. p.m., its BINGO with a musi- Movies WHOA Duffy Square Please be sure to set-up your cal twist as Tara brings this Sunday, November 10, 2019 appointment time early! fun game to us filled with NYC What’s That Tune: On plenty of nostalgic music and in the Ballroom Duffy Square is in Tuesday, November 12, 1:30 prizes. Movie: “A Dogs Way Home” p.m., test your musical savvy Portion Distortion: On The Theater District. and knowledge of music as Tuesday, November 19, at 1:00p.m. – PG – 96 Minutes You can purchase discounted Right at Home’s Hali brings 10:30 a.m., join Jennifer Shu- you a fun afternoon that in- kaitis, Assistant Professor, Sunday, November 24, 2019 tickets to Broadway Shows. cludes prizes and snacks. Rutgers Cooperative Exten- in the Ballroom The cost for the bus is $20pp. Drivers Safety: On sion, as she discusses the rd Wednesday, November 13, difference between “serving” Movie: “Can You Ever Every 3 Wednesday of the at 8:45 a.m., enhance your and “portion” sizes and how Forgive Me?” month May through driving skills during this AARP- the concept of “portion distor- September. sponsored program. For pric- tion” affects our eating habits. 1:00p.m. – R – 106 Minutes ing & space availability, please call the Office. TED Talk: On Wednesday, November 13, at 10:30 a.m., join Caryl and Ellie as they share and stir up discussion during this TED Talk, with Elizabeth Dunn, “Helping Oth- ers Makes Us Happier.” Statehood & Conflict: On Wednesday, November 13, at 1:30 p.m., David Brahinsky resumes where he left off from his October 18 lecture, after the formation of the State of Israel. This lecture discusses the struggles, peace initiatives and personalities that have NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 22 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE

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SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY WEDNESDAY THURSDAY FRIDAY SATURDAY 1 2 9am Ping Pong 9am Ping Pong 9am Yoga 11:15am Chair Yoga 9am Beginning Tap Dancers 11am Aquacise 11am Chair Yoga 6:15pm Italian American Club

3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10:15am Yiddish Club 9am Ping Pong 6am – 8pm General Election 9am Ping Pong 9:30am 3D Art 9am Ping Pong 9am Ping Pong 9am Yoga in Ballroom 9:30am Ceramics 10am Entertainment Mtg. 9am Yoga 11:15am Chair Yoga 10am GW Debatables 9am Sculpting & Arts/Crafts 11am Aquacise 10am Chorus 9am Beginning Tap Dancers 10am Line Dancing Class 2pm GW Billiards 1pm Knitwits & Art/Sewing 9:30am Yiddish 10am Sheila’s Body 9:30am Yiddish Program 7pm Resident Civic Club Class Entertainment Group Sculpting Comm. Mtg. Board Mtg. 1pm Cards 11am Aquacise 10:45am Chair Yoga 10am GWCA Site Review 7:30pm New Kids on The 2pm Senior Social Club 11am Chair Yoga 11am Aquacise Comm. Mtg. Block 6:30pm Duplicate Bridge 6:30pm Canasta 11:30am Sheila’s Chair 10:30am Line Dancing 6:30pm Billiards 7pm Bingo Fitness 11am Aquacise 7pm Cards 1pm Woodworking Club 1pm Cards 7pm Line Dancing 1pm Health Lecture 2pm Patio Discussion Group 7pm Stained Glass Group 4pm Tap Dancing 4pm Tap Dancing 4pm GW Friends Movie Club 4pm Aquacise 6pm GW Connections 6:30pm 8 Ball Club 6pm Water Volleyball 7pm Cards 6pm Zumba

10 11 12 13 14 15 16 1pm Movie: “A Dog’s Way 9am Hadassah Board Mtg. 8:30am AARP Course 9:30am GWCA Open 9:30am 3D Art 9am Ping Pong 10am Tennis Club Home” 9am Ping Pong 9am Sculpting & Art/Crafts Workshop Mtg. 10am Chorus 9am Yoga 11:15am Chair Yoga 9am Yoga Class Class 9:30am Ceramics 10:30am WHOA Towne 9am Beginning Tap Dancers 10am ORT Board Mtg. 10:30am Line Dancing 9:30am Computer Club Centre Mtg. 9:30am Building and 10am Line Dancing 11am Aquacise 11am Aquacise 1pm Senior Social Club Grounds Mtg. 10am Sheila’s Body 1pm Orientation Mtg. 11:30am Hadassah Card 1pm Cards 10am Painting/Coloring Sculpting 1pm Cards Party 1pm Knitwits & Art/Sewing Group 10:45am Chair Yoga 2pm Patio Discussion Group 1pm Quilting Class 11am Aquacise 11am Aquacise 4pm Tap Dancing 7:30pm Residents Civic Club 4pm After Hours Mtg. 11am Chair Yoga 11:30am Sheila’s Chair 4pm Aquacise Open Mtg. 6:30pm Duplicate Bridge 6:30pm Canasta Fitness 6:30pm 8 Ball Club 6:30pm Billiards Tournament 1pm Woodworking Club 7pm Cards 7pm Cards 6:30pm GW Connections 4pm Tap Dancing 7:30pm Finance Study Group 7pm Stained Glass Group Movie Group 4pm GW Friends Socrates 7pm Line Dancing Café 6pm Water Volleyball 6pm Zumba 7:30pm History Club

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17 18 19 20 21 22 23 1pm Yiddish Move: “The 9am Ping Pong 8:30am Greens and Grounds 9am Ping Pong 9:30am 3D Art 9am Ping Pong 9:30am Computer Club Infidel” 9am Yoga Golf Mtg. 9:30am Ceramics 10am Chorus 9am Yoga General Mtg. 9:30am WHOA Open 9am Sculpting & Arts/Crafts 10am GWCA Covenants 1pm Cards 9am Beginning Tap Dancers 11:15am Chair Yoga Workshop Mtg. Class Comm. Mtg. 1pm Knitwits & Art/Sewing 11am Aquacise 10am Provocative Thinking 10:30am Line Dancing 10am The Yiddish Vinkle Class 11am Chair Yoga 10am Line Dancing 11am Aquacise 11am Aquacise 2pm Senior Social Club 10am Sheila’s Body 1pm Cards 2pm GW Billiards 4pm Italian American S.C.C. Sculpting 2pm Patio Discussion Group 6pm Fitness Club Board Mtg. 10:45am Chair Yoga 3pm GW Friends Board Mtg. 7pm Sherlock Holmes Book 6:30pm Duplicate Bridge 11am Aquacise 4pm Tap Dancing Club 6:30pm Billiards 11:30am Sheila’s Chair 4pm Aquacise 7pm GW Connections 7pm Cards Fitness 6:30pm 8 Ball Club Provocative Thinking 7pm Stained Glass Group 1pm Woodworking Club 7pm Cards 7:30pm WHOA Open Board 7pm Line Dancing 4pm Tap Dancing Mtg. 6pm Water Volleyball 6pm Zumba 7:30pm GWCA Open Mtg.

24 25 26 27 28 29 30 1pm Movie: “Can You Ever 9am Ping Pong 9am Sculpting & Arts/Crafts 9am Ping Pong HAPPY THANKSGIVING 9am Ping Pong 11:15am Chair Yoga Forgive Me?” 9am Yoga Class Class 9:30am Ceramics Towne Center CLOSED 9am Yoga 9:30am GW Connections 9:30am Yiddish Club 10am WHOA Covenants 9am Beginning Tap Dancers 10am Line Dancing 10:30am Line Dancing Comm. Mtg. 11am Aquacise 10am Sheila’s Body 11am Aquacise 11am Aquacise 11am Chair Yoga Sculpting 1pm Cards 7pm After Hours Club 10:30am Golf Finance 2pm Patio Discussion Group Comm. Mtg. 4pm Tap Dancing 10:45am Chair Yoga 4pm Aquacise 11am Aquacise 6:30pm 8 Ball Club 11:30am Sheila’s Chair 7pm Cards Fitness 1pm Woodworking Club 1:30pm GGCA Board Mtg. 4pm Tap Dancing 4pm GW Friends Book Club 6pm Water Volleyball All calendar entries are 6pm Zumba correct as of the 15th 7pm GW Friends of the month NOVEMBER 2019 – PAGE 24 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE