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Parentified Therapists: the Wounded Healer 1 View metadata, citation and similar papers at core.ac.uk brought to you by CORE provided by Wolverhampton Intellectual Repository and E-theses Parentified Therapists: The Wounded Healer 1 THERAPISTS: FROM FAMILY TO CLIENTS ISIDORA BEGNI A thesis submitted in partial fulfilment of the requirements of the University of Wolverhampton for the degree of Doctor of Counselling Psychology July 2005 This work or any part thereof has not previously been presented in any form to the University or to any other body whether for the purposes of assessment, publication or for any other purpose (unless otherwise indicated). Save for any express acknowledgments, references and/or bibliographies cited in the work, I confirm that the intellectual content of the work is the result of my own efforts and of no other person. The right of John Smith to be identified as author of this work is asserted in accordance with ss.77 and 78 of the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988. At this date copyright is owned by the author. Signature……………………………………….. Date…………………………………………….. Parentified Therapists: The Wounded Healer 2 Abstract As a paradigm of a wounded healer, parentified therapists may be gifted with therapeutic talents, but also with related vulnerabilities that may have a significant influence on their therapeutic practice. Therefore, the aim of the current study was to explore the impact of parentification on therapeutic practice, especially on the therapeutic skills of empathy and boundary settings. For this purpose, a mixed method design was employed in which 38 trainee psychologists provided self-report data on the constructs of parentification measured by parentification questionnaire (Jurkovic, 1997), empathy, measured by Interpersonal Reactivity Index (Davis, 1980), and boundary settings, measured by Exploitation Index (Epstein, 1990) in a survey study, while 4 trainee psychologists were interviewed in a separate study. First, the quantitative data were analysed to assess the existence of possible relationships among the variables of parentification, empathy and boundary transgressions by a regression analysis. The results offered significant suggestions for the predictive power of parentification in regard to empathy and boundary transgressions. Following this, a qualitative study analysed the interviews with the 4 trainees using thematic analysis to explore the above relationships and provided a deeper insight, especially for their therapeutic utility. Combining the findings, the current study supported that parentification may first of all catalyse the choice of a psychologist’s profession, well as the choice of the psychotherapeutic approach. In regard to the interpersonal skills, parentification may positively impact the development of enhanced levels of empathy, boundary flexibility, and creativity. On the other hand, parentification may also negatively impact on practitioners by making them more vulnerable to enmeshed therapeutic relationships. Especially in the case of destructive parentification, professional support may be needed to minimise the risk for enmeshed relationships, by increasing self-care and self-other differentiation. Clinical implications for parentified therapists were also discussed. Parentified Therapists: The Wounded Healer 3 Table of Contents Literature review………………………………………………………………………10 The wounded healer ......................................................................................... 11 The incidents of woundedness in helping professions ..................................... 12 Parentification as an early wound .................................................................... 14 The impact of parentification ........................................................................... 18 Theoretical considerations of the talents and vulnerabilities of wounded healers ........................................................................................................... ………...22 Methodological consideration of parentification……………………………..24 Concluding remarks and the current research………………………………...27 The Wounded healer: Parentification and the interpersonal skills of empathy and boundaries ...................................................................................................................................... 29 Introduction .................................................................................................................. 29 The current study……………………………………………………………………...42 Methods……………………………………………………………………………43 Participants………………………………………...........................................43 Materials ........................................................................................................... 43 Design .............................................................................................................. 45 Procedure.......................................................................................................... 46 Results………………………………………………………………………………...47 Parentified Therapists: The Wounded Healer 4 Correlational analysis ...................................................................................... 51 Regression analysis: parentification and empathy ........................................... 51 Regression analysis: Empathy and boundary violations .................................. 52 Hierarchical Regression Analysis .................................................................... 53 Discussion…………………………………………………………………………….56 Research limitation........................................................................................... 59 Clinical application .......................................................................................... 60 The wounded healer: The experience of parentified therapists in professional practice. Introduction……………………………………………………………………………62 Methods........................................................................................................................ 67 Participants ....................................................................................................... 67 Design .............................................................................................................. 67 Procedures ........................................................................................................ 68 Data analysis .................................................................................................... 70 Results and discussion ................................................................................................. 71 Domain 1: The experience of parentification................................................... 72 Theme 1: Conditions of parentification ........................................................... 72 Theme 2: Type of parentification ................................................................... 74 Theme 3: The ascribed meaning to their care-giving behaviour ..................... 75 Theme 4: Direct impacts upon the individual .................................................. 76 Domain 2: The impact of early role on professional practice .......................... 81 Parentified Therapists: The Wounded Healer 5 Theme 1: choice of profession ......................................................................... 81 Theme 2: The choice of therapeutic approach ................................................. 83 Theme 3: Enhanced empathy .......................................................................... 84 Theme 4: Boundary flexibility ......................................................................... 87 Theme 5: Enmeshed therapist-client relationship ............................................ 90 Theme 6: Creativity ......................................................................................... 92 Domain 3: personal and professional development ......................................... 93 Adaptive and destructive impact across domains ............................................ 95 Clinical implications ........................................................................................ 97 Limitations of the current study ....................................................................... 99 Overall Discussion ..................................................................................................... 100 Future Research .............................................................................................. 102 Conclusion ..................................................................................................... 104 Critical Appraisal of the Research Process ................................................................ 106 References .................................................................................................................. 113 Appendixes ................................................................................................................ 132 Appendix 1: RES 20 A ................................................................................... 132 Appendix 2: BPS Advertisement ................................................................... 136 Appendix 3: Informed Consent for survey study ........................................... 137 Appendix 4: Information Sheet for survey study ........................................... 138 Appendix 5: Informed Consent for interview study ..................................... 139 Parentified Therapists: The Wounded Healer 6 Appendix 6: Information Sheet for interview study .....................................
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