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Oh, the Places We Go! - 14
Convention Report - 24 Meet Access Hollywood's Nancy O'Dell - 32 !7~ . BEEN fHERE? l)ONE THAT?
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By LOis CATHERMAN HEENEHAN, Adelphi (( r U he's really going places!" women's worlds were once confined, except for the free What does that mean? Voted Hometown High doms they could imagine. No longer is that true. School's "Most Likely to Succeed?" Traveling to Think back 128 years to the journey of six young Australia, Nepal, Antarctica or outer space? Becoming a women down the aisle of a college chapel as the CEO or government official? Concentrating to write a Founders of Kappa Kappa Gamma explored a new path novel or find a medical cure? in their search for respect for their minds and unity of Take your pick. Going places can be physical, imagi their spirits. Think of the women who bumped along in nary or emotional and women are traveling to more covered wagons or choked in the coal dust of early places and accomplishing more goals than ever before. trains. The means was immaterial. The journey was the We're "out there;' "on the cutting edge" and no one can important thing. say, "Don't go there:' We have "come a long way" but we Considering all the obstacles, how have we come so know there are places in the universe, our minds and our far? Perhaps it is because of the age-old ability of women hearts awaiting exploration. We say, "You go, girl!" to work together and the equally old instinct to nurture. Where we go isn't limited by geography. A "middle We encourage the men in our lives with love, under aged housewife" takes a journey of the mind as she standing and, sometimes, finances. We motivate and studies for her Ph.D. An author creates an imaginary hearten our children as they grow and develop into world populated with invented people to express feel responsible, caring adults. And, perhaps most instinc ings she would otherwise be unable to put on paper. A tively, we support each other. musician combines notes and tempos to create a melody In union there is strength; through mutual helpful which makes us happy or sad or angry to reflect her own ness there is attainment. We have the strength to make emotions and ours. the journey; our friends make the trip easier. We can, These travelers can be anyone - you, me, a neighbor. and do, go wherever we choose - on family vacations, And the baggage we carry is that of our lifetime of expe business trips, solitary jaunts and journeys of the spirit. riences - a set of battered bags or a compact new Let's remember to send a mental postcard to those who carry-on. Our passports need no visas or validation. We traveled before us to say, "Thanks for being there to help create our own itineraries and don't worry about sticking prepare our wonderful time:' to them. Unplanned stops along the way are part of the Bon voyage! ()--,r adventure. Our traveling companions may change with time but are always those with whom we are most com fortable. The ability of women to travel on land, sea and air, up to positions of power and into realms of intellect and fancy was limited in the past. From hobble .~ skirts to lack of vote and from corsets to narrow professional options,
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T H E K EY • Fall 1998 Illustration by Betty St ratton Lynch, Texas. Read about her on Page 4 CoNTENTs
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7 Let's Go to a Virtual Party AlcohollOl CD-ROM puts some fizz in the serious business of college parties. 11 Canada- Where the Unexpected Happens Tourist tips from a travel writer.
14 Oh, the Places We Go! What life-changing journeys have you taken?
22 Getting There is Part of the Fun! How traveling has changed in 50 years.
SPECIAL SECTIONS
5 Fraternity Directory
24 Convention Highlights
46 Chapter Honors Report
DEPARTMENTS
2 President's Message 40 In Memoriam
3 Fraternity News 42 Accent on Alumnae
32 Profiles 47 Kappas on Campus
38 Foundation News 51 Through the Keyhole
On the Cover Rita Greeley, Tulane, and Holly Payne, Richmond, met during a study-abroad/ internship program and traveled throughout Europe. College Fraternity National PanheUenic Editors Association Editors Conference
Tne KEY • Fallt998 · 1 0 • Our Journey into a New Century The Key is the first college women's fraternity magazine, published continuously Cathy Thompson Carswell since 1882. hen my son, Matt, graduated from called "Reach for the Stars." Imagine in W college he was given the famous Convention Hall, nearly 1,000 Kappas Dr. Seuss book, Oh, the Places You'll Go. His contemplating Kappa in the year 2020! Jenny Struthers Hoover, ZK initial reaction was predictable -"Why Many excellent ideas were expressed, but Editor would someone give me a children's book?" one theme became evident - the Lois Catherman Heenehan, B:E As he turned each page his interest grew. timeliness of our Mission Statement: Associate Editor Suddenly, his eyes lit up as he realized that Kappa Kappa Gamma is an the message in this magical book is for organization of women which Julie Kroon Alvarado,~ children of all ages. seeks for every member throughout Profiles Editor All of us have stood upon the threshold her life bonds offriendship , mutual Nancy Voorhees Laitner, r 1'-. of the unexpected, and experienced those support, opportunities for self Alumna News Editor indescribable pangs of excitement mingled growth, respect for intellectual with a bit of anxiety. Whether it's the development, and an under 6 Shannon Clouston, 'P anticipation of the beginning of school, a standing of and allegiance to Collegiate News Editor new job or a long-awaited vacation, the positive, ethical principles. Andrea Yost "unknown" elicits a host of emotions. We must base our journey on that Graphic Designer Today Kappa Kappa Gamma stands on mission and meet the modern challenges the threshold of the final biennium of the that affect our ability to achieve our goals. 20th century. The reality of a new century Success depends on the commitment of Editorial Board and the mystery it holds can be daunting. our leadership and a partnership with our Many questions come to mind. members. Dedication, flexibility and a clear Beth Sharp, M What will happen to Kappa and the understanding of our mission will ensure a Chairman of The Key entire Greek system? Will current trends, successful journey into and beyond the Publication Committee some of which are alarming, continue? Will 21st century. Ann Stafford Truesdell, P' we find solutions to our greatest challenges: I end by expressing my best wishes to Fraternity Vice President public relations, membership recruitment, each of you for a successful, healthy and single-gender status, freedom of happy biennium and with a few wise words Kristin Johnson Styers, 7X association, hazing, alcohol abuse, member from Dr. Seuss: Director of Communications apathy and increased financial burdens on You'll get mixed up, of course, as you Jenny Struthers Hoover, ZK members? already know. Our journey into the new century is You 'll get mixed up with many Lois Catherman Heenehan, B:E filled with promise but like any long strange birds as you go. journey, it contains peril and adversity. Julie Kroon Alvarado,~ So be sure when you step. Each of the challenges listed above has a Step with care and great tact and Nancy Voorhees Laitner, r 1'-. solution that will guarantee a bright future remember that Life's a Great for our beloved Fraternity. We must find Balancing Act... Shannon Clouston, 'P• correct solutions - a road map - to reach And will you succeed? ies! You will indeed! The Key (ISSN 1063-4665) is pub our destination. (98 and 3/4 percent guaranteed.) lished quarterly for $3.00 by Kappa Our journey must be well planned with Kappa Gamma Fraternity. 530 E. Kid, you'll move mountains! £r---w Town St., Columbus, OH 43215. a clear strategy that allows us to assess our Printed in the Un ited States of progress. The course we set must have Loyally, America, copyright Kappa Kappa Gamma Fraternity 1998 alternatives if a "detour" becomes necessary. Preferred periodical postage paid at A&cy Columbus, Ohio During the 1998 General Convention POSTMASTER: with the theme of "Vision 20/20;' members Send address changes to: CATHY THOMPSON CARSWELL The Key were given the opportunity to begin Illinois Wesleyan P.O. Box308 charting Kappa's future through a program Fraternity President Columbus, OH 43216-0308
2 • THE KEY · Fall 1998 Mission Visit the New Web Site Bylaws Amended Statement of The Key Kappa Kappa Gamma Fraternity's The 62nd Biennial Convention body official Web site at http:/ /www.kappa.org voted on several changes to the Fraternity has been expanded to meet the needs of By laws and Standing Rules. Fraternity The Key of Kappa Kappas worldwide. "Just for Kappas;' a Council also revised the Fraternity Kappa Gamma links members-only side developed for alumnae Policies. As a result, a number of each member with the and collegians, is now available. Register terminology changes have occurred as Fraternity. The mission on-line and enjoy the following features: well as a fee increase. ofThe Key is: Revised documents will be mailed to • Alumna and collegiate resources • to inform, inspire and • Association and chapter directories associations and chapters. For more challenge · • Fraternity officer directory information contact your Province • Bulletin boards and scheduled chat Director of Alumnae or Chapters (see • to sustain and nurture rooms Directory, Page 5). membership loyalty ·· • Membership Recruitment information and interest - including the Membership Data Form ' • Reports and forms for association and Field Reps Wanted! • to recognize individual, ' chapter officers Applications for Chapter Consultant group and Fraternity · Association and chapter Web site and Traveling Consultant positions are accomplishmer:t guidelines sent each fall to every chapter President. • to provide a forum • Fraternity announcements and more! Applications must be returned by for an exchange of November 15,1998. information and Chapter Consultants are awarded a opinion ' Come to Kappa Kinetics one-year scholarship for graduate study Find out how Kappa Kinetics can while living with an assigned chapter. The • to be a permanent change your life! For information about scholarship includes tuition, fees and record this intergenerationalleadership seminar, books, and the chapter provides room and contact Fraternity Headquarters at board. While pursuing a graduate degree, 614/228-6515 to request a brochure and the Chapter Consultant assists the chapter To request advertising rates or to send informa registration form. Information is also in all areas of organization and tion and photographs for available on the Fraternity Web site. programming and serves as a role model, The Key, please contact: friend and link with the Fraternity. Traveling Consultants are employed KKr Headquarters and The Fraternity Is Proud with a modest salary plus travel, room and Foundation Office of Our 50-, 65- and 7 5- board expenses while visiting Jenny Struthers Hoover, approximately 30 chapters. The TC brings Editor Year Kappas! re newed energy, updated program ideas P.O. Box38 Columbus, Ohio SO -year Kappas - 1,367 and leadership training to help each 432 16-0038 65-year Kappas - 617 chapter reach its potential. Above all, she 75-year Kappas - 190 serves as a role model and link with TEL: 614/228-65 15 These Kappas were in itiated in 1948, Fraternity resources. FAJ<:6 14/228-7809 1933 or 1923, respectively. For more infor mation contact the Chairman of Field Representatives, E-MAIL: kkghq@ kappa.org Due to the large numbers of 50-,65- MARTY H AY STREI BIG, Indiana , at 9606 and 75-year member , individuals are not Tavi tock Ct., Orlando, FL 32827. WEB ITE: li ted in The Key. Each member eligible for http:/ /www.kappa.org a recognition pin i sent an order form Work at Headquarters Rose McGil l from Fraternity Headquarter . Alumnae Wanted: graphic artist to design The Magazine Agency A ociation are encouraged to recognize Key and other publications. Mu t have 800/KKG-ROSE the e member at Founders Day experience with QuarkXpres . alary: (800/554-7673) lebration or other a ociation event . mid-to upper 20,000 . end re ume by Pro in eM eting and General ovember 1 to A ociate Executive THE KEY OURCE onvention are a! p cial event at Director, P.O. Box 38, Columbu , OH 800/441-3877 which t re eive r ognition pin . 43216-0038. o---. ( rder nly)
T HE K EY · Fal11 998 • 3 Coming Soon to a Chapter Near You! Meet the 1998-99 Field Representatives
Chapter Consultants Traveling Consultants
DANA CLADER, Montana, to Epsilon Iota, LAUREL APPERSON, UC Davis Puget Sound Major: biological sciences Major: business administration Chapter Leadership: Vice President - Chapter Leadership: President, Scholarship Standards, New Member Chairman Chairman Activities: Panhellenic Rush Counselor, Activities: All-Greek Council, Student Affairs university chorus Advisory Committee
THERESA DALURIA, Washington JENNIFER EIDAM, Syracuse, to Beta Beta", St. Major: business Lawrence Chapter Leadership: Vice President - Major: speech/public communication Standards, assistant to House Chairman Chapter Leadership: President, Scholarship Activities: certified rape educator, Chairman Panhellenic VP. Greek Relations Activities: Syracuse Singers Ensemble, peer adviser MAUREEN EAGLE, UC San Diego Major: sociology TRACIE JoHNSON, Miami, to Iota, DePauw Chapter Leadership: President, New Major: accounting Member Chairman Chapter Leadership: President, Treasurer Activities: Panhellenic Advertising Director, Activities: cheerleader, peer educator peer adviser
SusAN PILE, Miami (Ohio), to Epsilon, Illinois KATHLEEN FAY, Washington State Wesleyan Major: marketing Major: elementary education Chapter Leadership: Marshal, Panhellenic Chapter Leadership: Vice President Delegate Organization, newsletter co-editor Activities: Panhellenic Vice President - Activities: Adopt-a-School coordinator, tutor Recruitment, alcohol task force
MEGAN REINHARD, Colorado State, to Eta EMILI E NYBERG, Puget Sound Gamma, San Diego Major: geology Major: social work Chapter Leadership: Vice President - Chapter Leadership: Membership Chairman, Standards, Membership Chairman Panhellenic Delegate Activities: intramural sports, teaching Activities: Panhellenic Rush Chairman, assistant Adopt-a-School volunteer
NIKOLE RAwLINS, Penn State HEATHER SIEGEL, Iowa, to Eta Delta, Valparaiso Major: anthropology Major: secondary English education Chapter Leadership: President, Scholarship Chairman Chapter Leadership: President, Treasurer Activities: Panhellenic Academic Activities: Women's Empowerment Chairman, Big Brothers/Big Sisters volunteer Conference facilitator, tutor
4 . THE KEY . Fall!998 FRATERNITY DIRECTORY
The Key does not list names and addresses of alumnae association and chapter Presidents. This information is available from the KKr Web site at www.kappa.org or Fraternity Headquarters at 614/228-6515.
FRATERNITY CouNCIL Delta (North): Elizabeth (Libby) Huntington Edwards, fM, (Chris) 543 Overbrook Rd ., Bloomfield Hills, M! 48302 President: Cathy Thompson Carswell, E, (Bruce) 16 Highland Way, Scarsdale, Delta (South): Deborah (Debbie) Osborne Holtsclaw, EN , (M ichael) NY 10583 12929 Sheffield Blvd. , Ca rmel, IN 46032 Vice President: Ann Stafford Truesdell, P", (Thomas) 395 Fern Hill Dr., Epsilon (North): TBA Granville, OH 43023 Epsilon (So uth): Mary Campbell Ford , BY, (James) 904 Phill ip Ct. , O'Fallon, Treasurer: Peggy Hanna Hellwig, Ei\, (G. Vincent) 894 Banford Ct., Ma ri etta, IL 62269 GA 30068 Zeta (North): Beverly (Bev) Dean Muffly, 1:, (Kirk) 10209 Monroe St. , Omaha, Alumnae, Director of: Sue McGinty Riches, fM, (Michael) 6724 S.E. 34th St., NE 68 127 Portland, OR 97202 Z eta (South): jane (Ja ney) Pritchard Cantwell, M, (Jeffrey) 3828 Elgin Dr., Chapters, Director of: jane Young Barrett, B0, (David) I I07 Whispering Plano, TX 75025 Pi nes Dr., No rman, OK 73072 Eta: Deborah (Debbie) Yolk Cook, P", (Robert) 211 8 S. Hoyt Way, Lakewood, CO Membership, Director of: Katherine (Kay) Scholberg Weeks, ll
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COORDINATORS OF CHAPTER DEVELOPMENT KAPPA KAPPA GAMMA FouNDATION Eta Gamma: (University of San Diego) Ragen Bradner Lester, ZN, 1507 President: Patsy Bredwick Levang, IT, (Gary) HC 3 Box 56, Keene, ND 58847 Walbollen St., Spring Valley, CA 91977 Development Chairman: Suzanne (Susie) Tardy Maxwell, D., (Howard) Park Eta Delta: (Valparaiso University) julie Marine Leshay, t:J.Z, (Jeff) 1024 Isabella Tudor School, 7200 N. College Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46240-30I6 St., Wilmette, IL 60091 Committee: PROVINCE DIRECTORS OF CHAPTERS jane Tourner Curry, D., (William) (October- May) 5325 Bermuda Village, Advance, NC 27006 (May- October) P.O. Box 1399, 700 Lakeview, Bay View, Ml Alpha (North): Sandra (Sandie) Snyder, M, (Chris Ruddick) R.R. I, St. 49770 Agatha, ON NOB 2LO, Canada Susan jorgensen Fitzgerald, BA, (Pat) 1301 Waverly Dr., Champaign, IL 6182I Alpha (South): Merle Overholt Bezoff, B'l', (Ronald) 58 Lee Ave., Unionville, Nancy LaPorte Meek, P", (Phillip) 8 Round Hill Rd., Greenwich, CT 06831 (June ON L3R 8G4 Canada IS- September 15) 570 South Shore Dr., Frankfort, MI 49635 Beta (East): Georgianna (Georgi) Clymer, M , 5523 N. Fairhill St., Carole (Sukey) Fenoglio Voskamp, B:=:, (Peter) 6142 Sugar Hill, Houston, TX Philadelphia, PA 19120 77057 Beta (West): Deanna Barron Eberlin, IP, (Richard) 4224 Feidler Dr. , Erie, PA Financial Assistance Chairman: Valerie Nelson Renner, D., (Michael) 16506 412 W. Northpoint Dr., Peoria, IL 61614 Gamma (North): janeen Gould Frank, BB• , (Bruce) 7430 Hunters Hollow Committee: Trail, Novelty, OH 44072 Alumna Circle Key Continuing Education Grants: Sarah Nichols Gamma (South): jill Castanien, ZK, 670 S. Grand Ave., Ft. Thomas, KY 41075 Ackerman, t:J.I, (Craig) 1306 Crozet Ave. , Crozet, VA 22932 Delta (North): Elizabeth (Beth) Mele, t:J.l , 32703 Five Mile Rd., Livonia, MI Chapter Consultant Scholarships: Martha (Marty) Hay Streibig, D., 48154 (Michael) 9606 Tavistock Ct., Orlando, FL 32827 Delta (South): Mary Vines Weisiger, E, (Carroll) 832 Wedgewood Ln., Carmel, Holiday Sharing: Wilma Winberg johnson, t:J.N, (Aldie) 22 Burlington Rd., IN 46033 Bedford, MA 01730 Epsilon (North): Patricia (Irish) Trexler Pollak, BT, (Jay) 846 Dundee Rd., Rose McGill Confidential Aid: Marjorie (Marj) Matson Converse, I D. , Northbrook, IL 60062 (Wiles) 83 Stoneleigh Ct., Rochester, NY I4618 Epsilon (South): Rhonda Correll VanOteghem, A •, (Paul) 1345 Stone Creek Scholarships/Fellowships: Elizabeth (Libby) Tucker Gessley, t:J.Z, (Donald) Dr., O'Fallon, IL 62269 1 I608 W. 99th Pl. , Overland Park, KS 66214 Zeta (North): Patricia Morley, 2524 Christopher Oaks Ct., St Louis, e, Undergraduate Emergency Grants: Helen jones, E, I2339 Jolette Ave., MO 63129 Granada Hills, CA 91344 Zeta (South): Sheila jesse Oliver, e, (David) 19 Burgundy Lake, St. Louis, MO Heritage Museum Chairman: Mary Kendall Mhoon Maginnis, t:J.I, (Michael) 63367 2222 Government St., Baton Rouge, LA 70806-5313 Eta (East): Sharon Brooks Weber, BN, (William) P.O. Box 676, Conifer, CO Committee: 80433 joan Wilson Jennewein, BT, (james) 4710 Clear Ave., Tampa, FL 33629 Eta (West): Carolyn McFarland Hunter, t:J.H, (james) 250 S. Sherman St. , Dorothy Ann (D.A.) McGinnis Kreinbihl, BN, 3549 Prestwick Ct. S., Columbus, Denver, CO 80209 OH 43220 Theta (North): Pamela (Pam) Woods Meyercord, Be, (David) 5831 Meletio, Nancy Scott Weinert, B:=:, (Kirk) 918 Clearbrook, Houston, TX 77057 Dallas, TX 75230 Member-At-Large: Susan Goldsmith Shelley, t:J.K, (Robert) 1080 Lugo Ave., Theta (South): Catherine (Cathy) Spoonts Porter, D.'¥, (Scott) 5004 92nd St., Coral Gables, FL 33156 Lubbock, TX 79424 Kappa Kappa Gamma Foundation of Canada President: Heather Fox Iota (East): Melissa Pierce Nielsen, BK, (Erik) 626 17th Ave. #D, Lewiston, ID Fuller, B'l', (David) 10 St. Ives Ave., Toronto, ON M4N 3B1 Canada 83501 Iota (West): Susanne Wolff Vander Heyden, IH, (john) 17725 S.E. 102nd, FRATERNITY HEADQUARTERS Renton, WA 98059 614/228-6515, E-mail: [email protected], Fax: 6 I 4/228-7809, Web site: Kappa (North): Carissa Spencer, D. T, 933 Hilgard Ave. #203, Los Angeles, CA http://www.kappa.org, Mailing address: P.O. Box 38, Columbus, OH 43216-0038, 90024 Shipping address (for UPS, Fed Ex, Airborne, etc.): 530 E. Town Street, Kappa (South): Gina Caputo DiPaolo, E
Contact Fraternity Headquarters at 614/228-6515 or www.kappa.org for information about Fraternity Standing and Special Committees and assistants. Only Headquarters department and project managers are listed above. Headquarters assistants are not listed due to space limitations.
6 · THE KEY • Fall1998 Let's Go to a Virtual Party CD-ROM serves up a dose of reality about college drinking
- By ]OANN BARTON VAUGHAN, Virginia
was at this party. I got really wasted. Bombed. I Blasted. I left the bar with a blood alcohol content of .175. I made terrible choices- not in my drink selec tion but in the decisions I made. Oh, I'm O.K. but some of my friends aren't. One was arrested, one raped - one even died. I wish I could just start over. So, I will. I'll move the mouse, point to the arrow and click "start over." I wish life could be so easy. Alcohol 101 Welcome toAlcohollOJ, the newest addition to Kappa Kappa Gamma Fraternity's educational resources. Alcohol 101 i an information-packed CD-ROM com puter program masquerading as a video game. The program wa created by the Univer ity of fUinois at Urbana-Champaign in partner hip with The entury Council, a national not-for-profit organiza tion dedicated to reducing alcohol rni u e and funded by ty nest. · tual par leading di tilled pirits companie . Norm- your "'f ava lamP 1111ee t l
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In this program, as in life, if you make the wrong deci take my body approximately 1 hour and 15 minutes to sion, the consequences can be ugly. But here, you can click metabolize the alcohol and return to a sober state. again, start over and find out what happens when you Then I get serious and slam down two more beers and make the right decision. The game format even helps you a shot. My BAC rocketed to .1 06 and it would be at least six learn how to make sensible decisions - even in those dif hours before I would sober up. By now I am legally intoxi ficult situations like turning down a beer, telling a friend cated in all SO states and Canada, and I am experiencing she is drinking too much or helping a sister avoid a date significant impairment of motor coordination, loss of rape incident. good judgement, slurred speech, and impaired balance The program is narrated by an irreverent lava lamp and vision. How do I know? The computer screen tells me named Norm who is one part conscience and one part so. attitude. His goal is to get you to listen and learn things My BAC is calculated based on my gender, height and you were sure you already knew. After introducing the weight supposing that I have an empty stomach. If I click program and checking your vital statistics - for example on "food" I learn that my BAC would only be .071 - sig height and weight - he takes you to the party, explains the nificant but still legal - if only I had eaten a meal before game and then pops up now and again to see how much drinking. you really know. If I want to drink more, I can. If I want to start over and see how mixing in non -alcoholic drinks or sipping my Getting Started choice of beverage might change my With an "in-your-face" attitude, Norm asks you some pretty personal questions - for a lava lamp! As with most games, first you type in your name. (First names only. You do not know Norm's last name and he does not care about Top Ten Ways to Turn Down a Drink yours!) Then you enter age (As one who wore One of these should work for you, whether you're shy, polyester bellbottoms the first time confident or just looking for a creative reply. they were popular, I knew I was legal!), height, weight and • "No, thanks!" (No explanation necessary; your response sex. All of this information can be short, sweet and direct.) will make a difference later when you visit • "I've had enough." (Again, short, to the point and the bar and analyze completely acceptable.) your blood alcohol content. • "Thanks, but I've got a ton of work to do later:' Then it's off to the party - with • ''I'd rather get my own, thanks:' the first stop at the bar. • ''I'm allergic to alcohol." Bar • ''I'm driving tonight:' Hopping • "I have a game/practice tomorrow." (Known athletic At the bar, you commitment is a prerequisite.) can choose your drinks - both • "''m O.K. for now." (BYOC: Bring your own cup and keep alcoholic and non- it half filled, whether you are drinking or not.) alcoholic - choose how much yo u are • "No thanks, I'm taking medication I can't drink with:' going to drink, how fast you are going to drink and • "''m dieting ... alcohol's got too many calories:' then watch your blood alcohol
content take off. From: Alcohol 101 © 1997 The Board of Trustees of the University of lllinois and The I start off slowly, first sipping a light Century Council. All rights reserved. Used with Permission. beer, then drinking one. Estimated time of 30 minutes ran off the clock in the bar, and my blood alcohol content- or BAC -was .014. It would
8 · THE KEY • Fall1998 Let's Go to a Virtual Party I BAC, I can do that. Along the bottom of the screen the computer tells me what is happening to my body as a result of all the alcohol- and how long it will be until I am sober Handling an Alcohol again. But now that I've been to the bar, I'm ready to hit the Related Medical party. Party Time Emergency Using my mouse I can scroll 360 degrees around the Here's a checklist to remember if you encounter someone party. And what a scene. People talking, moving with the music, the usual college items - including a television - who is semi-conscious or unconscious: decorating the room, the bar (of course), and occasionally a strange item, such as a blender, a balloon or a cup of cof Danger Signs fee floating through the air. Clicking on the floating items or on many of the deco • Try to wake the person. Are they unconscious? Do they rative accessories leads to more information. I can play respond to pinching of the skin or shouting their name? "Norm's 20 Questions;' watch a movie on the TV, or receive warnings concerning the use of alcohol. • Check their skin color and temperature. If the person is pale In one corner of the room, I can visit the Reality Wall or bluish, or if the skin is cold or clammy, they may not be where clicking on a topic such as "Sexual Assault" or getting enough oxygen. "Student Dies in Car Crash" brings up actual campus related tragedies and disciplinary cases through text and • Check their breathing. If the person is breathing irregularly, video. Next to the Wall is the Rave Room where more than with few breaths and then nothing for a while, or if they are 70 informational messages are hidden. But as with any party, I came to meet the people. breathing very slowly or shallowly, this is a sign that medical First I meet Louie, the host of the party. Louie is attention is necessary. involved in a discussion with T.J., a friend and fellow senior. T.J. is a little over the limit having downed a six pack in about an hour but is ready to leave. Louie is trying What Do I Do? to stop him from driving. • Seek emergency medical help if your friend shows any of the Decisions, Decisions danger signs above. I get to make the decision. Does Louie let T.J. leave or • Turn the person on their side and leave them only if neces does he find another ride? IfT.J.leaves, then what happens? sary to call for medical assistance. If the person is on his or Will he be arrested - or worse? Then there is Alison, a freshman who has just been her side - they may not choke if they get sick and vomit. dumped by her high school sweetheart. She's at the party Do not let them roll over on their back. with Sherie, who does not drink, and together they meet Dante and Perry. Alison is not used to the party scene but is ready to drown her sorrows. Should she let Dante get her What Shouldn't I Do? another beer? After that one - and several more - • Do not assume your semi-conscious or unconscious friend hould Sherie let her friend go with Dante to his room? hould Perry let his friend Dante take Alison upstairs? And will be O.K. sleeping it off. if they let their friends go, what will Sherie and Perry tell • Do not let fear about how your friend may respond in the them in the morning? All along, I get to make the decisions. I let Alison have morning prevent you from acting and getting help when another drink, elect that Sherie and Perry mind their own they need it. It may be the greatest thing you could ever do bu iness, and pretty soon Dante has Ali on in his room, in the name of friendship. up tair , with the light out. A you can gues , we all regret these deci ion the next morning. • By the way, the be t way to handle the situation is to top it Regret ? o problem! I ju t click "Go Back One tep" before it happens to a friend or to yourself. and thi time I make better deci ion . 1 can ee how Alison gracefull turn down another beer or how friends can From: Alcoho/10 1 0 1997 Tht Board of Trustees of tht Uni\'tr ity of Illinois and Tht inter ene in a potentially perilou ituation. Ctntury Council. All right r=rvtd. Ustd with permission.
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All along the way, I learn how to handle the risks associated with drinking alcohol - including the fact that not drinking is also an option. Kappa Kappa Gamma When it is time to leave, I click on one of the many Fraternity Position Statement "Exit" signs at the party scene. But before I bail out, Norm has me check what I've learned at the party. Did on Alcohol Use I see the "Top 10 Ways to Turn Down A Drink?" How about the brake-simulation video. Oh, and I never got The use or possession of alcohol is not to visit with Katie and Andre. permitted in a chapter facility or within the area If I want to go back, I just click. There is a seeming considered part of that property. ly endless amount of information to find, learn and Chapter funds cannot be used to purchase process. · alcohol. If alcohol is to be served and/or It has been an interesting party but more impor consumed at a Kappa-sponsored or co tantly I learned a lot about the effects of alcohol, how to sponsored event, the chapter must establish a make a plan for safe drinking, how to turn down a system for identifying members or guests of legal drink and how to make responsible choices for myself drinking age. and my friends. Not bad for someone who remembers when The sale of alcoholic beverages by any Budweiser did not have a "born on" date! ()---w member representing the chapter is prohibited. Open parties are not permitted. Kappa sponsored and co-sponsored parties are limited to members and their guests. Alcoholic beverages are not permitted to be used or served in conjunction with services of elegates to the 62nd Biennial Convention in Fraternity ritual including Formal Pledging, DJune previewed Alcohol 101, and the Initiation, Founders Day, or activities associated response was overwhelming. Sixty-six chapters with Bid Day, Inspiration Period, membership signed up to participate in piloting the program this selection or chapter meetings. fall to discourage under-age drinking and promote The misuse of alcoholic beverages by a new responsible decision-making. Pilot chapters will member, active or alumna shall render her liable work with the Director of Education and Training to dismissal as in accordance with the provisions to recommend program usage Fraternity wide. of the Standing Rules of Kappa Kappa Gamma. Alcohol 101 is offered free of charge to chapters. For more information please contact JoANN BARTON Violation of local, state/provincial or federal VAUGHAN, Virginia, Director of Education and laws regulating the use and/or possession of Training, at Fraternity Headquarters at 614/228- illegal drugs by a new member, active or alumna 6515. shall render her liable to dismissal in accordance with the provisions of the Standing Rules of Kappa Kappa Gamma.
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10 · THE KEY • Fall1998 Canada Where the Unexpected Happens Tips from a travel writer
-By DoRIS fLEMING ScHARFENBERG, Hillsdale
eing sniffed by a free-roaming polar bear was Bnot part of my life plan, but safely behind the glass of a tundra buggy, I stared into the frus trated black eyes and wide nostrils of a hungry carni- vore. I strolled the ocean floor when the 20-foot tide went out of the Bay of Fundy, had high tea at the sumptuous Empress Hotel in Victoria, British Columbia, and met the "Phantom of the Opera" in Toronto. Then 1 saw a skilled Inuit carving a totem pole near Vancouver, and beheld ("watched" is too passive a word) clouds of migratory gee e rise again t the morning skies of Manitoba. - Both civilizing gentlene sand natural world weave a do e Canadian fit. ix time zone wide, Canada is the largest country in the western hemi phere, ha a mailer population than alifornia yet offer more geologic, cultural and weath er ariety than 10 other nation combined.
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The Chateau Frontenac in Quebec gives the city a fairy-tale look. From the secure comforts of VIA Rail coaches, watch the scenery unroll from majestic Rockies to midland plains where even vast spreads of winter wheat and guardian grain elevators tug at your camera. Enjoy the per Summers are real productions. Southside Canada glows forming arts or ethnic feasts of Winnipeg; reserve an for five months in hot-to-cool (above freezing) temperatures. October trip to Churchill for polar-bear watching. Then, after the splendors of autumn fade, citizens get into ice festivals, skiing, curling and hockey matches. To soften win ter's bite, savvy cities spend millions on covered connections between important points. In Toronto and Montreal, for example, you can shop in department stores, attend theater or find your hotel room without earmuffs. Other cold remedies include the world's largest mall in Edmonton, Alberta, complete with warm waves on an indoor beach. Totem poles to jazz, stunning Vancouver pulsates with art and action while whales cavort in the zoo and tour craft circle the harbor. Prime skiing, deep sea fishing, hiking Pacific forest trails and extravagant gardens are part of Canada Is Vancouver city life. High in the Cana Kappa Proud! dian Rockies, you Alumnae Associations: can tread on the British Columbia thick ice of the .S1 Calgary Athabasca Glacier ~ Southwestern Ontario and wake up to a ~ Toronto view of Lake Louise. ~ Chapters: In Alberta a super .!c Beta Psi, Toronto summer rodeo, the -!ca Calgary Stampede, .c Gamma Upsilon, British Columbia ~ Delta Delta, McGill helped lure the Cll 'C Zeta Omega, Waterloo 1988 Winter Olym ~ pics to a historic, ~ Approximately 2,540 Kappas cultured city. (/) .s::. reside in Canada . c. ~ 'gf The backside of the Triangle building in Toronto. 0 .s::. ~ ~------~ 12 . THB KBY • Falll998 Canada - Where the Unexpected Happens
Tourists can tread on the thick ice of Athabasca Glacier in British Columbia .
Canadian bed-and-breakfast houses are a ~ 1s1t to cousins where generous breakfasts come with fresh insights into mutual relatives. Don't miss bus tours, fishing lodges, camping, birding, or mountain climbing. For eastern boaters, locks and streams form a water network enabling small craft to go from Quebec to Chicago, Ill., or Duluth, Minn. Bagpipes British soldiers attract attention in Quebec City. are everywhere. Curtains are rising on a thousand stages. In Canada the unexpected is about to happen again. {)--ow You could join the fur-trading rendezvous at Fort William, Thunder Bay, Ontario, on the shores of Hiawatha's own Lake Superior. Experience more of the fabulous Great Lakes at Niagara Falls. (The honeymoon is About the Author far from over.) From the deck of a small sight-seeing boat An experienced travel writer and photographer, Doris those falls will rinse anyone's brains forever. Great theater has written five travel books and is an active member of at Stratford or Niagara-on-the-Lake brings you close to the several associations for travel journalists. She has written bustle of sophisticated, multi-ethnic Toronto, Canada's free-lance articles for numerous newspapers and magazines metropolis on Lake Ontario. including Detroit News, M ichigan Living and Better Homes The Province of Quebec (more than twice the size of and Gardens. Doris received her 50-year pin in 1995. A Texas) is a trip overseas without the ocean. Montreal and proud mother and grandmother, she resides in Farmington Quebec City are determinedly French and avant-garde, yet Hills, Mich. have sections as old world as Le Mans. Montreal's summers move with casino life, museums, the world's largest bicycle party or a Laugh Festival. In winter both cities are carnival gateways to nearby Laurentian Mountain ski resorts. Plan now to see Quebec City's red-coated soldiers (true members of Canada's army) in bearskin helmets for visi tors in a 19th-century fort with the castle-like Chateau Frontenac as backdrop, a tableau theme parks try to copy. In Ottawa, guard drill is framed by flower beds in fro nt of Parliament. Eastward down the St. Lawrence River are the simple joys of the Maritime Provinces. ewfoundland has North "ll Longtime friends and colleagues Doris Fleming II) America's only fjords on a whale-watcher coast. You can .s:::. Scharfenberg, Hillsdale, (left) and Pat Larry c. photograph baby eals in spring or camp in well-tended ~ Arrigoni , Arizona, discovered their Kappa tiD B national park . connection during a trip to Vienna . 0 .s:::. i______j ~
T HB K BY . Fall !998 • 13 Take My Hand I'm a Stranger in Myanmar
-By JuDITH BLAKELY MoRGAN, Montana
So there I sat on a 200-year-old footbridge near Mandalay, holding hands with a dark-haired stranger who stared deeply into my eyes and spoke of the future. Although I hardly knew the man, I chose to believe what he said. After all, I had paid 300 kyat (about $2 U.S.) for the impromptu palm-reading. Compared to another Burmese opium weight or gilded marionette, it seemed a reasonable investment. This was my second day in Myanmar, the land for merly known as Burma. My pace had already slowed to match the serene stride of the natives, wrapped in their skirt-like longyis. My ears had adjusted to the quiet of a population that goes barefoot in Buddhist temples and many other places, slipping into thong sandals only to drive a tour bus, travel by plane or cross a splintery, teak footbridge named U Pein. Located near the ancient capital of Amarapura, the wooden bridge zig-zags for almost a mile across a shal low lake which used to dry up each winter. Then a dam was built, flooding rice paddies, duck farms and cotton fields.
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Many of the rickety planks have been replaced over the years, but the water still glimmers through the cracks. On that bright morning, spindly shadows of pilings wriggled below. Men and boys had waded in from the shore to fish with bamboo poles. It was a sultry weekend. Families were arriving from Mandalay by boat, motorbike and pony-cart. Graceful women spread picnics in the shade of banyan trees. Youngsters arranged pink plastic chairs and tied rope hammocks between the trunks of mimosa. At foodstands along the bank, pots of rice bubbled and white catfish sizzled on the grill. Small fresh shrimp were dumped into frying pans and tossed with garlic and gin ger. Clumps of bananas hung from thatch-roofed stalls, A 200-year-old teak footbridge outside of Mandalay, a near counters heaped with mangoes. Doomed chickens popular weekend destination for Burmese families. scowled from wire baskets. On the bridge, the itinerant fortune-teller pulled out a ruler, measuring my hand from the tip of the middle finger But my companion stayed focused on the future. "In the to the wrist. ''Ah;' he said, nodding. "More than six inches." year 2002, do not go near a rocky pass. Avoid hilly terrain The width pleased him too. He studied my palm through a on August 2, 3, 8 or 22." I like a man who's specific. magnifying glass. In 2003, I will be asked to help a younger relative. In "You will have no crashes with automobiles, boats, November I must take care when swimming, in order to planes, motorbikes, horses or elephants;' he began, in a avoid pneumonia. "But you won't die of it;' the soothsayer professorial tone. "Do you understand? No crashes!" said, patting my hand as we parted. €r--. Did he know I was a travel writer? "Your finances will be good;' he said. "In 1998 and 1999 you should buy rubies and jade. Rubies and jade!" Since gems are a major Burmese export, it sounded like a com About the Author mercial break. But he offered to sell no stones. A teenage girl walked by, pushing her bike over the Judith is a journalist with a travel creaking boards. She wore almond-colored paste on her column syndicated by Copley News cheeks, a traditional adornment that is both beauty mark Service. Her weekly column "Her and protection from the sun. Somewhere a temple gong World" won fust place in the 1998 rang out, bronzy rich and low. Boy monks, wrapped in Society of American Travel writer's maroon robes, trailed the sound to a monastery in the contest. hills. Judith and her husband, Neil, are known for writing the only autho rized biography of Theodore Geisel, known to the world as Dr. Seuss. Drawing on letters, interviews, per sonal experience (they knew him well during the lat ter half of his life) and Geisel's own notes, Judith and Neil recount this acclaimed genius's life from his rest less academic years to his profuse brilliance as a writer and avatar of children's learning. The book, Dr. Seuss & Mr. Geisel, was listed among The New York Times otable Books of the Year for 1995 and is now available in paperback from DaCapo Press, ew York. Judith and her husband were inter c ro viewed about their research and long friendship with ~ 0 Mr. Geisel as part of an hour-long BBC documentary ::!E on Dr. Seuss that ran in Great Britain this year. 'Cii z Judith has al o written Portrait of California, a }i book that explores the state of California with vision (/) Life revolves around fishing along lrra Waddy River near .c c. Mandalay, Burmaj Myanmar. and enthusia m through running image . ro ~ 0 0 .c c..
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Discovering the Extremes of the latter with guards at the entrance. A midnight curfew for single women meant deportation if ignored, so we took care not Segregated Life to be delayed. Segregation went to astonishing extremes in the use of the -By MARY (LIBBY) SALTER BILLINGTON, Oklahoma grocery store and the swimming pool. Single women had a Women's lives in Saudi Arabia have long been extreme rear entrance from our compound to the store, although ly restricted by traditional cultural standards. In 1983-84 I men and women mingled inside. The swimming pool sched spent 15 months in Jeddah teaching English to young ule was divided into three equal parts with no possibility of Muslim women who were training to become nurses or overlapping groups. Gates from each compound were kept secretaries in King Fahd Hospital, a royal military hospital. locked except for our specific turns to swim. My students needed English, the international language, Fences, both literal and figurative, keep the sexes from because most of the hospital staff were expatriates (for contact in any public places, even in restaurants - except eigners) while the Saudis were for the fine hotels which cater to trying to train more Saudis to foreign dignitaries or business eventually eliminate the need men. The markets (souks) are a for expatriates. rare exception, but usually the Single women ex-pats were Saudi wife, in proper garb and forbidden association with men sometimes facial veil, follows - married or single. Since it along behind her husband. was illegal for women to drive, A women's bank, where no ex-pat women had no way to men were allowed, freed the travel by car since they had no women to remove their black male family member to chauf abayas (robes) and head scarves feur them. The hospital inside. The same was true at the provided buses to take us to school, although students wore work and shop, but otherwise long-sleeved, long-skirted uni we had to break the law by rely forms. Using the hospital pool ing on male friends as drivers. devoid of men, students wore a MARY CLAIRE VADMAN, Wa sh ington, and CouRTNEY swim suit that covered their knees. We were very careful to meet UsHER, Wa shington, toured seven countries in At puberty boys and girls go them surreptitiously since we three weeks. In Salzburg, Austria, they were sur prised to see "Kappa " on the back of a man 's to separate schools and the same could be deported if the reli shirt! is true for colleges and universi gious police caught us. ties. Attending the graduation Social life found us going to ceremony of one of my students compounds, such as Raytheon from King Abdul Azziz Women's University, I saw an or American, where we could square dance, Scottish indoor stadium devoid of men dance, take scuba but filled with elegantly diving lessons gowned and bejeweled ladies before graduating who gave rousing cheers for to the Red Sea, and each graduate. After the cere attend concerts and mony we saw a throng of Saudi parties. We attend male drivers - husbands, ed church at the brothers, sons or paid chauf British and Amer feurs - pressed against a chain ican embassies, but it link fence as they tried to was called "Welfare glimpse their family women Society" since the who had donned their black r Saudis ruled church garb at the door. Except for size illegal. and shape, the women all Mary with a Yemeni woman. Hospital ex-pats looked alike except for one were in segregated woman whose gold-rimmed living quarters glasses shone forth like a beacon as I smothered a chuckle. Student nurses cove r their school divided by high In spite of the inconveniences caused by segregation, I uniforms with appropriate dress for walls into three hospital work on gynecology and had a good time in Saudi Arabia and made lifelong friends. pediatric wards only. For the bus ride parts: families, single My spiritual life improved, as did my appreciation for free home they cover up with black abayas. men, single women, doms we take for granted. ()--ow
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Adventure in St. Croix cal beach on a lazy Saturday, Latifa with her arms stretched awaiting a hug and kiss at bedtime or just an enthusiastic - By AMY DAVIS, Cincinnati smile from Chaim while sharing the brilliance of a Dr. Seuss classic, made the physical and emotional exhaustion Sun-drenched blue skies, crystal Caribbean waters and worthwhile. children with hibiscus in hand greeted me at the Alexander I also experienced a trek into a kaleidoscopic culture. I Hamilton Airport in St. Croix. It was there that I met the can still hear the faint beats of the local reggae bands dur tiny souls who would be entrusted to my care for the next ing breezy harbor nights. The holiday festivals featuring 15 months. Mocko ]umbies, motley fashioned stilt walkers representing St. Croix, the first of three Virgin Islands visited by ancient African spirits who were believed to protect and Christopher Columbus during his exploration of the West bring luck to the good, were never to be missed. Nor were Indies, was acquired by the United States in 1917. As a U.S. the delightful delicacies such as johnny cakes and potato territory, the island offers educa- stuffing, mangos from our tional opportunities of national backyard trees and other deca service to mainlanders through dent, exotic refreshments. AmeriCorps' programs, best My "Cruzian" experience described as a domestic Peace ( Cruzian, not Croixian, stems Corps. The Queen Louise Home from the island's former for Children, a facility founded Spanish name, Santa Cruz, in 1905 by Queen Louise of meaning Holy Cross) was prob Denmark to combat poverty ably the most challenging time among emancipated slaves and in my life yet also one of the to provide care to orphans, gave most rewarding moves outside me an amazing cultural experi my comfort zone. I encourage ence. anyone with the spirit to take a SARAH ZEPF, Emory, and KATHERINE WILSON, positive risk to consider explor In Frederiksted village, five Emory, spent their last academic year in St. other cottage parents (some of Andrews, Scotland , studying under the Robert ing the magnificence of the whom remain my dearest T. Jones Memorial Scholarship, which provided world and serving her country friends) and I provided 24-hour a generous travel stipend allowing them to in a productive, non-violent travel throughout Europe and North Africa . capacity. o---. love and care to more than 20 They are seen here near the Mosque of Sultan abused, neglected or abandoned Hassan with the Mosque at the Citadel of Salah children. With an average stay at ad-Din in the background. the home of 18 months, the chil dren enchanted my heart, and for the time being, were my children. Each day brought Facing the Challenge in China new challenges in reaching the emotionally isolated and GINGER HoLMES RoBINSON, Missouri, a cardiac/criti needy youth and cal care nurse and husband Randy, a craniomaxillofacial assisting with surgeon, travel around the world with other volunteers behavioral modifi through the Face the Challenge (FTC) program. Ginger cation plans. Waking up at 3 serves as executive director of the organization, which a.m. to food works to surgically correct facial deformities of children in strewn all over the some of the poorest parts of the world. house and a party Last year Ginger and Randy joined a surgical team of hosted by two nine others in Shenyang, China, an industrial city of six and six-year-olds million people in Northeastern China. The team complet and a ringleader of ed 14 pediatric facial surgeries at the Northeast Power age seven, was one Group (NEPG) Hospital #1. Many patients came from of the less strenu inner Mongolia, a two-day sojourn by ox cart and then bus ous components of and train. being a cottage In a letter to FTC supporters, Randy and Ginger write, parent. The flip "These people were truly some of the poorest peasants we side of the chaos, have seen in all of our travels. During our pre-operative such as a glimmer patient screenings, we regretted turning away children Amy Davi s cared for needy and in Aida's eyes after with facial deformities who, after a long winter and no abandoned ch ildren for 15 months in a trip to the tropi- access to antibiotics, were too ill to have operations." St. Croix .
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One child, three-month-old Yu, was EDITOR's NoTE: This is an removed from the surgery schedule update on Ginger and because the Chinese discouraged us Randy's work with FTC. A from operating because they did not feature article appeared in know how to give anesthesia to the Summer 1996 Issue of infants. Yu's family remained on the The Key. For more informa hospital ward and lovingly held him tion contact Face the Challenge, Inc. , 3140-K up for us to see each time we passed Randy and Ginger rest on a by. Finally, at one united moment of South Peoria # 168, Aurora, cart in Ho Chi Minh City. conviction, we broke diplomacy and co 80014,303/699-7970. knew we had to operate. The surgery went smoothly and the Chinese How I Earned a Degree in Life learned how - By SHELLY GISMONDI, West A grandmother holds to give anes Virginia her three-month-old thesia to an grandson Yu prior to infant. We his bilateral cleft lip shudder to I was 23 years old with a mas surgery in Shenyang, ter's degree in education. I was China. think that prepared for a career as an edu we almost cator, but I wanted something sent Yu's else first. family back to Mongolia still A Swiss au pair agency had an despairing. opening for a housekeeper and I We were told the last Western Janet Howe Townsley, Maryland, and her took it. The contract stipulated doctor to visit Northeastern husband, Ed , joined Global Volunteers on a that my employers paid for China was a Canadian in 1947. two-week service program in Dobczyce, insurance and German lessons In the last 50 years, few of these Poland, last year. Janet and Ed taught English and I was committed to a year's Chinese surgeons have been to elementary school students in this town of medieval castles. employment. At a salary of $100 exposed to Western medical A private, non-profit organization based in St. a week, working hours of 7 a.m. technology. To address their Paul, Minn., Global Volunteers also schedules through 1 p.m. Monday through needs, the FTC surgical team two- and three-week programs to Indonesia, Friday and with a tiny bedroom presented a day of facial surgery Tanzania, Vietnam , China and many other countries. and bath in the attic, my friends lectures to 100 health profes- thought I was crazy to take a job sionals. cooking and cleaning. On the As we packed for flip side, I felt this would be my our return to the personal "degree in life;' the greatest internship and best United States, the independent study of all. questions commonly Adjustment to my job was easy but the daily routine asked of FTC teams was boring. However, I loved my free time (most weekends were asked again, 'So, off) and the opportunities of European living. My employ when will you ers were generous and often gave me extra money for trips. return?' followed by, A beginners' class in German met three evenings a week 'Stay longer and and was a different experience from my high school and teach us more. Can college Spanish classes. Learning "High" German in Z_urich we keep some of the proved to be distinctly different from the Swiss German equipment?' dialect spoken in northern Switzerland, and I never did We have agreed to understand it. One of my best language teachers was the return to NEPG patient farmer who stopped at the end of our street with Hospital #1 in the his produce wagon. He spoke no English but engaged me spring of 1999. In the in conversation about the weather and my family in the meantime, the med- A Vietnamese couple sheds States. Before I left after a year there, I had dinner with his ical outreach mission tears of joy after their six- family and spoke German all evening. of FTC is at work in month-old son 's cleft lip , n.,..__ surgery. Holiday breaks allowed me to travel. I visited southern many oth er ways. v---w Italy- surely one of the most beautiful places in the world - Paris, the Loire Valley and Northern France. Visiting
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museums and galleries, I stored up mem Ending my year as a housekeeper, I had some money ories like seeing 24 French schoolboys left from the initial $2,500 I had brought with me, enabling and their teacher admiring the Mona Lisa me to travel in Great Britain, enjoying the London theater, and spending time in the Louvre on a Oxford, Cambridge, the Cotswolds and north to Scotland. cold, rainy January weekend - no long During my 14 months of "personal education:' I saw lines of tourists! some amazing sights, experienced a variety of cultures and February offers a skiing break for the met a host of people from around the globe. I also missed Swiss, but I chose a warmer climate - the United States and gained a deeper appreciation for my Spain and Morocco. Three weeks free in country and its democratic system. ~ Shelly enjoyed the summer took me on a trek across isiting Venice, Austria and Slovakia. Prague, one of few Italy, during her European capital cities left virtually intact European after World War II, is a crown jewel of !travels. Travel Web Sites European cities. Venice, Amsterdam, www. travelocity.com Bavaria, the Rhine Valley and Berlin were www.mapquest.com among my summer weekend travels. www.fodors.com
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runner, there was nothing more magical; as a person, little Archaeologist Sifts Sands of Time else could be as spiritual. Life without smog is astounding! - By AMY RusH, UCLA Transferring data from the pit to paper, we drew each of the walls - a tedious process but a very telling story of the No e-mail. No voice-mail. No underground parking past through distinguishing layers of dirt. structures with multiple sets of elevators. Third world Since we hired several locals each day and were thus a accommodations. I couldn't determine whether it was alti valuable source of income, we were received warmly by the tude sickness, the side community. Occasional halts in our work enabled me to effects of many immu talk with the locals. Speaking with the women was difficult nization shots or a since many knew only Aymara, the indigenous language. basic mental queasi The kids giggled and ran in circles with the sheep, but a few ness that affected me as men conversed at times. I realized I had left Travel back to town on the weekends was in comb is (tiny everything familiar. buses), with people crammed in and goats and chicken Totorani is a tiny strapped on top with the luggage. Every Sunday companies town in Peru at the base of soldiers marched through the streets, asserting their of the Andean Mountain power while clutching vintage Russian weapons. Not exact range where I spent two ly in sync, bayonets habitually knocked of other's berets. In weeks searching for evi a patch of playground, a concrete gazebo provided a place dence of indigenous for teenage dancing and courtship. Amy Rush, UCLA, overlooking El antecedents to the Caught in a terrific storm of hail and wind, we raced for Mundo Perdido, Tikal. Incas. Crouched in a pit shelter in the local school along with the rest of the towns about three feet deep, people. I'm not sure where all the animals went. though still almost 12,000 feet above sea level, I scrounged Our expedition was a success. Lake Titicaca has been for chert and obsidian flakes. Here in the highlands of Lake home to people of all kinds - Titicaca, the highest navigable lake in the world, my eyes ancient descendants of the were wide and my senses heightened, though I felt some Inca, colonial Spaniards, the what as I did at age eight, digging in a sand box. drug cartel and Shining Path My first grand discovery was a multi-colored chert, a guerrillas, political militia, type of rock, found in the midst of a house floor dating to indigenous Aymara and curi the Archaic/Early Formative years. Our goal was to uncov ous archaeologists. We are er evidence of established stationary settlements from a only a speck of history held time earlier than had ever before been proven in this area. between each granule of dirt Each morning I left my mattress for an early solo trek up on these plains and there is so the mountains. Along the ridge of the Andes the wind much more to be known. (1--w blows so hard that it is necessary to run for warmth. As a Amy on the Altiplano of Peru near Lake Titicaca.
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Have a Safe Trip! Kappa Connection in Argentina Keep these safety tips in minds wherever you go. KATHRYN WAGONER ROTHBERG, Cal. State Fresno, and In Public Places ... BARB VAN BusKIRK, Dartmouth, were strangers until they • Be aware of your surroundings. Usually people who are attacked met in the beach resort town of Pinamar, Argentina, have not been paying attention. thanks to Kathryn's Kappa sweatshirt. • Convey confidence through body language. Kathryn moved to Buenos Aires, Argentina, in 1995 to • Follow your intuition and trust your instincts. join her husband who was sent there for his job. She had • When in an unfamiliar place, get complete directions before driving. previously served EPSILON Psi, UC Santa Barbara, as the If you get lost, find a police, fire or service station. Chapter Finance Adviser. On Public Transportation ... • Arrive at the departing point no more than five minutes before scheduled departure. • Sit near the driver or conductor, in a single or outside seat. Stay alert and move if someone bothers you. If followed, head toward a populated, well-lighted area. • Plan ahead. Notice which places are open at your stop. Run there for help if you are followed. On the Street... · Stay in well-lighted areas and walk mid-point between curbs and buildings, away from alleys, entries and bushes. • Carry only necessary credit cards and money. Kathryn Wagoner Rothberg, Cal. State Fresno • Walk with someone whenever possible. • Do not stop to give directions or information to strangers. • Never hitchhike. • If your bag is snatched, don't fight. Report the incident. "Although a big part of my experience in Argentina has • Walk facing traffic. been meeting people and learning about the Latin • Carry a personal alarm attached to your purse or keys. American business environment as a human resources In Your Accommodations ... administrator, it has been • Keep doors locked at all times. Use the peephole. refreshing to spend time • Keep an accurate inventory of your possessions. with Barb, a new-found sis • If you return to your residence and suspect it has been illegally ter and friend;' says entered, do not enter. Call the police. Kathryn. • Draw curtains after dark. Never dress in front of a window. Barb works as the man • The sight of valuables may tempt a burglar. ager of sales planning, • Have a telephone beside your bed. Know how to call for help. training and administration Wh ile Drivi ng ... for Gillette and also moved • Use caution when entering or leaving a vehicle. to Buenos Aires, because of • Keep windows up, doors locked and valuables out of sight. her husband's work. While • Before entering, check front and back seats to see if anyone is living in Hartford, Conn., hiding. Make sure the dome light is operating. prior to moving to Barb Van Buskirk, • Open windows just enough for ventilation or to ask for direc Argentina, Barb served as Dartmouth tions, but not enough so that someone could put a hand in. an adviser to ZETA THETA, • Intersections and stop lights are common places for would-be Trinity. attackers. Keep your car in gear. "It's hard to believe that the only two known Kappas in • If you have car trouble, raise the hood and stay in the car with Argentina met by pure coincidence. Our strong friendship doors locked. If strangers stop, ask them to report your began in a small beach resort town where we were fortu predicament to the police but do not encourage assistance. nate to bond thanks in part to the strong connection we • Never pick up hitchhikers. feel as Kappa sister :·says Barb. (}----, • Don't mark your key chain with your name or address. • Bump-and-rob scams are minor rear-end collisions staged to assault a lone driver. lf the driver and/or passengers in the other vehicle look suspicious and you feel you are in danger, do not get EDITOR's NoTE: Thank you to the many Kappas who out. Drive to a police or fire station. submitted stories for this issue. Unfortunately, due to space limitations, not all submissions could be used. If - From Keep Safe, a personal safety program from Kappa Kappa possible, they may be used in a future issue of The Key. Gamma. For more information contact Fraternity Headquarters.
THE KEY • Fall 1998 • 21 Getting There Is Part of the Fun! How traveling has changed in 50 years
Bev Estabrook Essel Hirt, Miami (Ohio).
-By Lms CATHERMAN HEENEHAN, Adelphi
ife was different when six high school girls were chosen to join bandleader Horace Heidt's Youth Opportunity L Program in the late 1940s. The mother of one of those girls, a teacher, insisted that they and the six boys chosen continue their schooling and arrangements were made for a traveling teacher, not so common then. That teacher's daughter, BEVERLY EsTABROOK EssEL HIRT, Miami (Ohio), had enjoyed some success as a dancer throughout Ohio - tap, ballet, musical comedy. Her excitement about joining the program continued as the young peo ple, called the Heidt-Steppers, met in hotel conference rooms for early classes and later rode to performances in President Franklin D. Roosevelt's limousine, purchased by Heidt for this purpose.
Performing Near and Far Packed into their own cars were musicians, sound and personnel and vehicles. Usually billeted at hotels, their set people, stage hands, managers, etc., and big trucks car Berlin stay was at Templehoff, the famous Luftwaffe air base. ried the extensive collection of costumes, luggage and In Tripoli, Libya, on the air base, Bev remembers, "I musical instruments as the group performed in almost carefully shook all clothing, costumes and especially shoes, every state. before putting them on because of the danger of lurking In 1950 the group flew to Europe to perform for troops scorpions:' in England, Ireland, Africa, Germany, Austria, France and Upon their return from Europe, the Air Force flew each the Azores. Carried by the Military Air Transport Service, of the young people home - for Bev, to Wright Field in everyone held military orders as well as the essential pass Dayton, Ohio. ports. They flew in two C-54s, huge planes with Air Force It was during these tours that Bev met Al and Mary crews, and ground transport was supplied by military Hirt. Al was lead trumpeter in the band, also the instru-
22 • THE KEY • Fa!II998 Getting There Is Part of the Fun!
mental soloist, and just mountains, on unexpected construction detours and wait beginning to hit "the big ing out storms while worrying about their tight schedules. time." The tour ended in time for Packing Is an Art Bev to graduate with her class. During the summer, Tours last 12 to 16 days, with concert dates running Bev's mother urged her to go every four days with an occasional day off for long jaunts to college, saying education or a stayover. Packing is an art! Four dresses with matching should come first and a beaded and sequined jackets mix and match for stage out dancer's life couldn't go on fits . A couple of dresses do for dinners out. Jeans are frne forever. Bev agreed and for the bus. And the ever-present carryall jammed with all called Heidt to say she the necessities women are never without pairs with a big wouldn't return in the fall. shoulder bag. "I still take too much sometimes;' Bev says. She thought Travel she was a good packer from Kappa days but Al's valet Bev and AI first met in the taught her how to really take all she needs and have it 1940s. Kappa Style arrive wrinkle-free. Joining Kappa at Miami "I look back on Heidt days and remember those one University (Ohio), Bev entered "another wonderful part of night stands and compare it to the present;' Bev says. "I'll my life:' She met and married Bob Essel, a Sigma Chi. They take the 'now' over the 'then';' she concludes. "It's a pleasure selected her as their Alpha Sweetheart, and she was one of traveling now and since Al is a legend and a member of the three sweethearts to attend their national convention International Jazz Hall of Fame, we look forward to bringing where she won second place as National Sweetheart. his music to wherever he's performing. That's show biz!" ()---w Kappa life as Omicron Province Director of Alumnae, 1981-1985, saw Bev traveling mostly by car, bus and small two-motor planes which, she says, "terrified me- no cof fee, no bathroom!" Friendships made during those years Bev's Packing Tips are still strong. As Assistant to the Director of Philanthropies, Bev 1. Shoes, with pantyhose, socks, etc. stuffed inside, worked mostly at home. Three children were through col around suitcase sides. lege and married, and being Circle Key Grant Chairman 2. Matching purses with accessories inside in entailed little traveling, except to those "marvelous Kappa middle bottom of case. conventions." However, Bob had developed diabetes and 3. Put entire outfit on hanger inside drycleaning passed away suddenly in 1988. "I found support and a bag. Fold in half and lay in suitcase. lighter heart through my many Kappa friends from all over 4. Shorts, T-shirts, pajamas, etc. go in separate the continent;' Bev recalls. baggies (two-gallon size). Back in Show Biz 5. Pack clothes in the order you plan to wear them with robe, nightie, slippers on top. During the years after the Heidt days, Bev's family had kept in touch withAl Hirt and his family. He had hit the big 6. Take drawstring garbage bags for dirty clothes. time and whenever he performed near Minneapolis they 7. Keep a sachet in the suitcase so it doesn't get musty. all met to spend brief but wonderful times together. Al's 8. Never pack good jewelry, medicines, etc. wife, Mary, had passed away in the early 1980s, and after 9. Upon arrival, hang outfits (still in cleaning bags), Bob died, Al called to see how Bev was coping. She flew to Line up shoes and purses beneath. meet him on the road several times and their long friend- hip "developed into a loving relationship." They were mar 10. Use a BIG suitcase. It's easy! ried in 1990 and- "Boom! I was back in show biz! " After developing a little husband and wife "schtick;' Bev joined Al onstage for part of the show. They continue to Bev and AI enjoy their travel the continent by variou means of tran portation. adventures in show business. Bev believes every captain on every airline know Al but their favorite mean of touring i by bu - a huge bu . There' a private compartment for them, ix bunk per side for band member and other per onnel and storage for e ery need. Bu trip have found the Hirt lo t in the
THE KEY • Fall 1998 • 23 62nd Biennial Convent'on Highlights VISION 20/20 The 62nd Biennial Convention rom many parts of this great continent, we of
Collegians IFKappa Kappa Gamma, college women in the experience United States and Canada, have come together within the the excite circle of our Fraternity and to plan for our organization an ment of increasing usefulness. their first Convention. ockets blasted off in Convention Hall and a lava Rlamp lit the Educational Resources display as Ka pas in Scottsdale, Ariz., planned a vision for the future of the Fraternity. You might ask, "What does a lava la p have to do with the future of Kappa Kappa Gamma?" Well, this is no ordinary lava lamp, it's Norm, th host of the new interactive alcohol awareness CD ROM program created by the Century Council and the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. (Read more about this on Page 7.) So you've heard about the lava lamp, but what about the rockets? During the "Reach for the Stars" session fol lowing the opening business meeting, space rockets launched Kappas into the year 2020. Kappas were asked to design the cover of a news magazine depicting what The 1998 Kappa achievements the world should know about. To Convention get creative juices flowing, a few examples were dis Committee. played: "Convention 2020 On-line- Wear White to Log On" (If you haven't attended a Convention, white attire is req ired for opening and closing business meetings.) iWith Director of Education and Training JoANN BARTON VAUGHAN, Virginia, and Chairman of Long range Planning ERICA PROCTER TANK, Babson, as facilitators, Kappas planned a vision, Oprah Winfrey style. The audience of more than 1000 Kappas offered their visions of the future of Kappa Kappa Gamma. In considering where Kappa fits into the big picture of the future, Erica and Joann reported on studies that indicate that the median age in 2020 will be 38; baby boomers will be approaching 70 and their children approaching 40 - panenting and grandparenting will be big business; soci ety will become better educated and more dependent on technology. Kappas were challenged to be proactive and form a vision and long-range plan for the future of the Fraternity. These ideas were explored in subsequent Convention workshops. Maureen Syring, keynote speaker for the "Reach for the Stars" program, challenged Kappas to commit them selves to three main points upon which the Fraternity will continue to be strengthened. "You've got to care, Delegates prepare for opening business meeting. you've got to trust and you've got to grow;' said Maureen,
24 · THE KEY · Fall1998 62nd Biennial Convention Highlights
a former President of Delta Gamma Fraternity and a current National Panhellenic Conference delegate. While an on-line Convention may be forward think ing, Fraternity President CATHY THOMPSON CARSWELL, Illinois Wesleyan, put it all into perspective. "Kappa is all about women who share their lives with us not for per sonal recognition or praise but because of a strong belief in the principles developed by those six visionary women in Monmouth. The standards identified in 1870 are as relevant today as they were then: the beauty of The delegate friendship, the pursuit of excellence in every aspect of from Eta Delta, one's life and the realization of the potential that lives Valparaiso, deep inside every member:' Kappa's newest And truly our history and heritage were a part of chapter, carried the final flag Convention. A few feet from lava lamp Norm, but a presented during world apart, was an elegant display of historic gowns and the traditional treasures from the visionary women of the Fraternity's Parade of Flags. past. Kappas not only were treated to items from the Fraternity archives, but also had an opportunity to view preliminary designs for the new Fraternity history book, History 2000 ... Kappa Kappa Gamma Through the Years. Although the book isn't for sale yet, sponsorships are being offered for $100 and include a copy of the book in 2000, the sponsor's name listed in the book and a pewter lapel pin. Sponsorships also help defray the cost of pro viding each chapter with a copy for its archives. (For more information see Page 41.) In addition to contributing more than 50 History 2000 sponsorships during Convention, Kappas raised $13,370 through the Kappa Kappa Gamma Foundation "Tribute Cactus:' Kappas made donations in honor of friends and posted appreciation notes on a green, wood The Kappa Kappa Gamma Foundation raises money en cactus while viewing the scholarship and educational for scholarships and educational programs. programming information on display. Another memorable event was the Biennial Memorial Service held in a serene, outdoor setting with songs led by the Convention Choir. Fraternity ritual conducted by CATHY THOMPSON CARSWELL, Illinois Wesleyan, pro vided the framework for everyone present to silently remember the Kappas we have loved and lost. It was a fit ting tribute to the sisters who touched the lives of their friends, families and the Fraternity in so many special ways. ~
Vision 20/20 The Fraternity's Experience the excitement of the new history 62nd Biennial Convention on book is videotape. See the Headquarter underway. Reque t Form on Page 52 to place an order.
THE KEY • Falll998 • 25 62nd Biennial Convention Highlights
Kappas Accomplish the Impractical
isionary - "one whose ideas or projects are the National Panhellenic V impractical;' according to Merriam Webster Dic Conference and member of tionary. In presenting the Convention theme, "Vision Kappa Alpha Theta Frater 20/20," Fraternity President CATHY THOMPSON nity, regarding the need to CARSWELL, Illinois Wesleyan, reminded us that our work together with the Founders were most likely perceived as impractical. "After men's fraternities. Cathy all, how practical was it to spend hours away from their stressed that it is imperative studies and other responsibilities to plan what has become to the future of all Greek an organization of more than 179,000 members, with 127 organizations that we collegiate chapters and more than 350 alumnae associa strengthen relationships tions?" asked Cathy. "Perhaps to be a visionary, one must with host institutions and have the courage to be impractical:' reaffirm our Constitutional "The direction the Fraternity takes - its triumphs and right to exist as single-gen challenges - is the result of women who took their vision der organizations. and made it reality;' stated Cathy. "Kappa offers each Another serious chal member the opportunity to search deep inside herself to lenge facing the Greek find the wealth of ability that lives within." system and Kappa Kappa This biennium has seen significant growth in many Gamma is the elimination areas of programming including the development of the of hazing. In light of recent New Member Program, which emphasizes immediate hazing incidents which integration of new members into chapter activities and received national attention, Collegiate award winners. encourages each young woman to contribute fully to her Cathy stressed the Fraterni- chapter soon after her pledge to membership. ty's "zero tolerance" policy. In addition, 26 Kappas have been recruited as trainers "No member of Kappa Kappa Gamma should tolerate any to present educational programs and lead workshops on form of hazing. It is contrary to all Kappa stands for, and it leadership and volunteer support. Kappa Kinetics, the Fra must stop. If we all take an active role, it will end." Cathy ternity's own intergenerational leadership development also emphasized that the Fraternity will continue to take seminar, continues to inspire members of all ages. A new, swift and appropriate action with chapters, associations user-friendly chapter finance program has been developed and individuals who refuse to end "this unacceptable to assist chapters in handling finances efficiently. behavior:' Another success is the renewed commitment to acade On a more positive note, Cathy shared a story of a col mic standards. This is evident by the cumulative chapter legian who lost her financial aid and would have been GPA of 3.068, which is higher than the reported cumula forced to leave school without her chapter's assistance. tive all-sorority average of 3.02. Philanthropic work and Chapter members helped her secure an Emergency Grant community service remain a priority among alumnae and through the Kappa Kappa Gamma Foundation and raised undergraduates. the rest of the funds themselves. Cathy also reported on the need for members of Cathy shared a final definition of vision - "unusual Greek-letter organizations to wisdom in foreseeing what is going to happen." Like our speak with one voice in Founders, each member has the wisdom and strength to Q) N Q) response to the challenges fac "proudly lead the Fraternity into the next Millennium and l!' J.. ing the Greek system. Kappa preserve Kappa Kappa Gamma for future generations;' undergraduates have followed said Cathy. o---. risk management guidelines and alcohol policies for years Cathy and must now voice support Thompson of those men's groups who Carswell, have committed to prohibit Illinois Wesleyan, ing alcohol from their was elected facilities by the year 2000. to her second Cathy shared comments from term as President. Association award winners. Lissa Bradford, Chairman of
26 · T HE KEY • Fall 1998 hear it? The minutes,
HOURS, days and months
are going by as the millennium approaches. 1996-1998 BIENNIAL REPORT What are your thoughts as you PO N 0 E R
the beginning of a new century? Are you
GRATEFUL that you were born at the time
that makes it P 0 S SIBLE to witness
changes that are coming at an incredible
speed? What will then w c ntu.r bring us?
Will the ANSWERS be found to some of
the world's greatest concerns? Will there be
lasting PEACE? What doe technology
have in re for us? VISION 2 0 I 2 0 ow many times have we heard that we must learn the cate our members about the serious and often devastating co lessons of the past to prepare for the future? Will the quences of binge drinking. What has Kappa done in the past H principles and missions of our organizations have what are the plans for the future regarding this difficult is relevance in the next century? What values will guide us as we do There are no easy answers to this, but we are providing as our best to live meaningful, productive and happy lives? What will education as possible for our members. We interact with our c we do to make our Fraternity, community, country and the world giate members and help them to understand our mission, a better place to live? values as it relates to this complicated issue. I am confident that the mission and purposes of Kappa Kappa Our award-winning program, SEEK, addresses many war. Gamma will always be meaningful and inspiring to current and help our members increase their self-esteem and thus, start future members. As I have traveled across the country visiting process to remove destructive behavior from their lives. alumnae associations and chapters, I have been humbled by the Our New Member Program, used by forty-three chapt expression of devotion and pride that members have for Kappa. effectively integrates new members into chapter life begin Every member loves Kappa in her own special way and it is with Bid Day. This flexible program has been designed to suit remarkable to hear many women confide that Kappa has been an needs of chapters of all sizes. The Task Force and subsequent c important factor in shaping their lives. mittee that developed the program continue to fine-tune it so Recently, that pride has been expressed in an outpouring of 100 percent of our chapters will adopt it by Falll998. concern over some unfortunate hazing incidents that occurred in a Our Long-Range Plan of "Women Supporting Women" few of our chapters. Thanks to the high-tech world of communi provided a clear strategy for achieving the timeless goals set fo cation, these events were news throughout the country. While the during the 1992-94 Biennium. Now we stand on the threshold incidents caused great concern and embarrassment for the new Long-Range Planning process, and it is being introduce Fraternity Council, they also proved to us the depth of devotion this 1998 General Convention. There, those attending have members have for Kappa. It is very clear that members of Kappa opportunity to express their dreams and expectations for Ka Kappa Gamma will not tolerate any deviation from the standards Kappa Gamma in the 21st century. By listening to the memll that are so highly valued and cherished. ship, we will have a clear understanding of where we should fo Although modern technology is still in its infancy, Kappa has our efforts. worked tirelessly to stay current in every area. We have entered the Finally, I cannot end this brief report without expressing "information super-highway" and now have Web sites for both gratitude and admiration for the volunteers who keep Kappa" the membership and the general public. A new Chapter Finance and running" so well. Those members selflessly share their f System has been developed to make that challenging area of chap and talents in order to ensure the future. Each member of ter programming more user-friendly. The computer systems at Fraternity, Regional and Associate Councils spends hours faith Kappa Headquarters are constantly being enhanced and updated ly performing the duties of her office. The Fraternity Standing making it possible for talented staff to maintain a smooth and effi Special Committees and the chairmen support the important p cient organization. As technology changes, we adjust. grams of the Fraternity. Chapter advisers and House Bo This Biennium has seen growth and change in many areas. The members give countless hours of love and support to our chapt Fraternity Council has been diligent in its dedication to keep and their facilities. Alumnae associations are filled with devo Kappa on the cutting edge. New methods in membership recruit officers who are as fierce in their loyalty to Kappa as anyone! ment have been extremely successful, which are reflected in a you all, I say a heartfelt "thank you." Without YOU, Kappa Ka notable increase of new members over the Biennium. We also have Gamma would cease to exist. Because of YOU, Kappa Kap grown by chartering three chapters and six alumnae associations. Gamma will have a future, and every current and new member The climate at colleges and universities is changing as well and have an impact on that future! Kappa endeavors to remain at the forefront. Hazing, which is not tolerated by the Fraternity, and the resulting negative public rela Loyally, tions impact not only the Fraternity, but also the college or university. A new attitude of "zero tolerance" is being taken by national officers as well as college administrators. Alcohol abuse is A~ a cri sis on many campuses. We all must join in the effort to edu- Cathy Thompson Carswell, lllinois Wesleyan, Fraternity President WHAT WAS NEW IN 1996- 98
Piloting of the new Chapter Finance System by 6 chapters. Piloting of the New Member Program by 43 chapters. Development of the Fraternity's public and private Web site. Development of the Regional Training Program. Modern communication enhanced by investing in technological innovations- Web site, e-mail, Chapter Finance program, multi-media capabilities and updating of the Fraternity Headquarters computer system. Appointment of Alumna Membership and Minnie Stewart Task Forces. Employed a Public Relations firm to enhance the Fraternity's public image and assist with crisis management and media relations. Created an Advisory Board/House Board Committee to provide consistent support. Employed a Graphic Design Firm to produce the History 2000 ... Kappa Kappa Gamma Through the Years. Created a chapter Risk Management officer to a sist with the implementation of the Fraternity's Risk Management Guidelines and provide chapters with Risk Management education. Extension of Chapters & Alumnae Associations in the United States and Canada. Employed a full-time Director of Educati on and Training.
WHAT IS AHEAD FOR THE FRATERNITY
Chairmanship of National Panhellenic Conference Executive Committee. Implementation of the Chapter Fi nance System and the New Member Program. Development of a Membership video for use by chapters during the Rush process. Publishing of History 2000 ... Kappa Kappa Gamma Through the Years. Continuation of extension of Chapters & Associations in the United States and Ca nada.
HEA
To advance the nw;~1on ol Kappa Kappa C.amma h <;upporting the M N
\,·ork ol \'olunteer' h · fultdlmg the managcnal and admm"Lrat1ve TATEM T
c.: pectat1nn-. of the I raternlt • and the Foundation and bv
pro •1ding e icc:' lor all 11 memb r 1996-98 Biennial Financial Report
Income - Actives, Initiates, Pledges and Alumnae ...... 59 - Investments ...... 25 - Royalties ...... 4 Rent, Other Income ...... 12 Expenses Salaries, Benefits ...... 37 - Professional Fees ...... 4 Office Expenses, Supplies, Other ...... 12 - Officers & Committees ...... 3 Colonization & Installation ...... 2 - Chapter & Association Assistance ...... 11 - Education & Training ...... 7 - The Key Publication ...... 14 - Convention ...... 10
Membership Statistics Number of 1995-96 1996-97 1997- 98* Paid Alumna Members ...... 17,883 ...... 17,856 ...... 16,802 New Members ...... 3,650 ...... 4,081 ...... 4,002 New Members Initiated ...... 3,420 ...... 3,883 ...... 4,089 Initiation Percentages ...... 93.7% ...... 95% ...... 85% Chapters Reported Below Campus Total ...... 41 ...... 39 ...... 26 Reported Spaces Available to Achieve Quota ...... 621 ...... 1OS ...... 124 Reported Spaces Available to Achieve Total ...... 530 ...... 391
Total Membership Statistics 6/30/97 6/30/98* Total Membership ...... 177,854 ...... 179,411 Alumnae Associations ...... 350 ...... 350 Chapters ...... 125 ...... 127
Visit Information There were 175 Alumnae Association visits reported during the 1996- 98 Biennium. There were 508 Chapter visits reported during the 1996- 98 Biennium. FRATERNITY
Kappa Kappa Gamma is an organization of women which seeks for every MISSION
member throughout her life bonds of friendship 1 mutual support, STATEMENT
opportunities for self-growth, respect for intellectual development, and an
understanding of and allegiance to positive ethical principles. KAPPA KAPPA GAMMA FOUNDATION GIVING STATISTICS
1996- 97 1997- 98* Alumnae Associations ...... $1 18,209 ...... $60,453 Chapters ...... $27,470 ...... $ 13,783 Individuals ...... $725,249 ...... $720,244 Bequests ...... $867,779 ...... $122,913
DISTRIBUTION OF FOUNDATION FUNDS 1996-97 1997- 98* Amount #Awarded Amount #Awarded Rose McGill Circle Key ...... $15,910 ...... 22 ...... $20,226 ...... 31 Emergency Assistance ...... $16,500 ...... 39 ...... $17,500 ...... 34 Confidential Aid ...... $90,136 ...... 23 ...... $123,270 ...... 22 Students' Aid Graduate Scholarships ...... $33,250 ...... 22 ...... $37,500 ...... 26 Undergraduate Scholarships .... $31,000 ...... 32 ...... $45,500 ...... 42 Rehabilitation Scholarships: undergraduate/graduate ...... $6,500 ...... 5 ...... $10,500 ...... 8 Chapter Consultants ...... $56,783 ...... 6 ...... $56,000 ...... 5 Projects- Educational Programming Kappa Kinetics/Regional Leadership Conferences ...... $! 0,000 ...... $35,000 Regional Training Program ...... -0- ...... $20,000 KEEP SAFE Brochures ...... $7, 145 ...... -0- ( Total Allocations ...... $279,749 ...... $365,496
F UN AT! N The Kappa Kappa ,amma I oundation generate' and atlrach financial \ I ... upr)()rtlor the haternll "c·ducational and chantahlc program wh1ch T\TE \E T
a''''l nH.:mh~.:r... to achtc\c tndt\ldual excellence and contnhute to the
I Ill • , I C ll'lnlUllltY
lnformatton throu h Ia I 19 FRATERNITY AND FouNDATION LoNG-RANGE PLAN FOR THE YEARS 1996 - 2000 KAPPA KAPPA GAMMA- WOMEN SUPPORTING WOMEN
GOAL 1: Strengthen the Fraternity through growth. GOAL 3: Increase financial security to fund the Fraternity's Fraternity Objectives programs. l. Increase undergraduate membership by attaining maximum Fraternity Objectives membership levels at current chapters. 1. Actively promote all auxiliary income programs to increaser 2. Increase undergraduate membership by extending to two 2. Increase potential donor base by hosting special events in new campuses. communities where Fraternity and Foundation officers · 3. Identify and investigate six to eight potential campuses 3. Promote and practice sound financial management. for extension. 4. Continue to investigate technological advances and impro 4. Develop a plan for growth of our Canadian membership. services which will make operations more efficient and less c 5. Foster a climate that celebrates the diversity of women with 5. Receive and review status reports on Technology Task Fo~ shared values. 6. Receive and review status reports on the work of the Chap 6. Implement and evaluate the approved recommendations of Finance Task Force. the Membership Reference Procedures Task Force. 7. Identify additional sources of revenue for the Fraternity. 7. Increase the current number of dues-paying members in Foundation Objectives existing alumnae associations by five percent. 8. Revitalize an existing or establish a new alumnae association 1. Continue to investigate technological advances and improve in each Province. services which will make operations more efficient and less cost! ~ 2. Implement and evaluate annually the plan to increase the Foundation Objectives Foundation's financial assets by emphasis on expanding the l. Continue to assist the Canadian Foundation's organizational donor base, major gifts, annual fund, and planned giving. and developmental efforts. 3. Promote and practice sound financial management. 4. Continue to develop and review sound policies and GOAL 2: Exemplify and promote the Fraternity's values. procedures for the management of the Foundation. Fraternity Objectives 5. Continue to increase donations of furnishings to the Museum l. Assist our members in understanding and living the 6. Provide for full funding of Field Representative Program. Fraternity's values. 2. Implement the outline for creating the History 2000. GOAL 4: Provide effective programs for members as women 3. Visit each chapter during the chapter's preparation for and supporting women. conduct oflnitiation services by June 1998. Fraternity Objectives 4. Encourage the use of the Fraternity ritual by alumnae 1. Implement the recommendations of the Volunteer Recruitment associations. Training, and Retention Task Force approved by the Council 5. Implement the public relations plan. 2. Provide a process to assess member needs on a periodic basis- 6. Distribute the Fraternity Bylaws and Position Statements to 3. Implement and evaluate the New Member Program for the campus administrators where chapters are located following pilot chapters. each General Convention. 4. Plan for the development and implementation of an 7. Reaffirm the Fraternity's position on cooperation with all-member undergraduate education program. universities while protecting the rights to exist as a private 5. Study the ramifications of changing the term "pledge." • organization. 6. Continue to develop and enhance the lifeskills of our member! 8. Implement a program to improve chapters' academic 7. Employ a Director of Education. excellence, and increase overall Fraternity GPA to a 3.1. 8. Monitor the Management Action Plan used by the chapters to Foundation Objectives streamline operations.
l. Ensure all Foundation materials and information are Foundation Objectives consistent with the Fraternity Position Statements. l. Review financial assistance programs with periodic 2. Focus on the history of women and how Kappa led the way. evaluations and make appropriate program changes. 3. Provide the Fraternity Historian with an outline of the 2. Provide financial support for annual leadership conferences Foundation's history to be included in the History 2000. for undergraduates and alumnae. 4. Develop a plan to encourage scholarship recipients to serve 3. Fund educational programs proposed by the Fraternity's the Fraternity as advisers or in other areas of needed service. Education Committee, as funds are available. 62nd Biennial Convention Highlights
Traveling the Path to the Loyalty Award - the Fraternity's Highest Honor
rom Delta Zeta Community service was part of the road Vera traveled, FCh apter to th e along with her Kappa involvement. Girl Scout leader, Fraternity Council, VERA Junior League member and president of the League's Gar LEWIS MARINE, Colorado den Club, and volunteer for the United Way Fund Drive College, the 1998 Loyalty were among Vera's activities while she was also busy as a Award recipient, has trav wife and mother. eled a path of Kappa and The blue and blue path Vera traveled for Kappa includ commu nity activities ed serving as president of th e ARCADIA (CALIF.) which serves as a pathway ALUM NAE Asso ciATION several times, President of the for others. Southern Area Council and Province Director of Alum The Loyalty Award, nae. As Coordinator of Chapter Development for ZETA considered the highest Nu, UC San Diego, Vera's footsteps left an imprint that is honor the Fraternity can being followed as daughter Julie becomes CCD for bestow upon a member, Kappa's newest chapter, ETA D ELTA, Va lparaiso. 'era Lewis Marine (right). was first presented in Appointed by the Fraternity Council as Director of 1956. In presenting Vera Alumnae in 1987, Vera was elected to two more terms. The with an antique silver Kappa Province Loyalty Award given to Vera in 1993 was a tray, Fraternity President CATHY THOMPSON CARSWELL, portent of things to come. The Fraternity's Loyalty Award Illinois Wesleyan, quoted former Director of Alumnae describes the recipient as ".. . a very special Kappa whose HELEN CoRNISH HuTCHINSON, Oklahoma. work and loyal devotion have "The beginning of Kappa experience must come in the enriched the Fraternity, who has chapter, continue in alumna work and close only with life the ability to inspire others, pos itself. This is a tremendous force, spread over a long peri sesses leadership skills and most of od of time, with almost awe-inspiring opportunities for all desires to serve and is true to direction and inspiration. If I were to choose one Kappa the ideals of Kappa Kappa quality, I think it would be loyalty to the Fraternity, for Gamma." Kappa loyalty implies the acceptance and execution of Currently a History 2000 Com Kappa ideals:' mittee member, Vera is also the A history major at Colorado College, Vera's path after chairman of the Fraternity's travel graduation led to marriage to Jim Marine and raising four program, "KappaTravels;' a truly daughters, while eventually settling in California. Two fitting position for a gracious lady daughters attended schools where there were no Kappa who has traveled so fully the path chapters. One pledged Gamma Phi Beta and another of Kappa loyalty. ~ became a Kappa at Colorado College. The Awards Banquet is a highl ight of Convention.
Association Awards 't> ::T 0 HM: San Diego, Tucson, Brevard County 0 Alumnae Achievement Awards Albuquerque, Roswell, Denver, OQ 120 - 199 members ii1 ) BANNE FALK ADAMS, Ca l. State Fresno Richardson/Plano, St. Louis, Greater Ka n as "0 Winner: Richardson/Plano ::T ANNE HOWEL L C LARKE, Butler City, Toledo, Salt Lake City VI Runner-up: Treasure Va lley a MARION SMIT H DAVEY, Toron to Rheva Ott Shryock Award '< 0 HM: Columbus 0 KAREN KoLBE GooDENOW, Drake Associations with: c: 200 - 349 members OQ FRANCES STEEN SuDDETH jos PH SON, 10 - 19 members: Winner: Albuquerque ::E Gouc/rer Winner: Monmouth '< Runner-up: Tulsa iii Lou BIBERT PAPPAS, Oregon State Runner- up: Fox River Valley :::> HM: Atlanta, St. Louis c. MA.x1 E BAKER D AV I o 1 CER, Syracuse HM : Gaine ville 350 and above member 20 - 49 members: ally Moore Nitschke Lifelong Learning Winner: Dallas Winner: tillwater Award Runner-up: Tulsa Runner-up: Columbia Winner: cottsdale HM: Atlanta, t. Louis Runners-up: Denver, Hou ton HM: Cheyenne 50 - 11 9 members: Me aboe Commitment Awards Alphonsine Clapp Howard Award mner: Freno Region I inner: Dallas Runner- up: Waco Winner : Long Island, Toronto, Harri burg, HM : Houst n, Hou ton orthwe t,
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Associations and Chapters Celebrate Achievements
lumnae and collegians gathered to celebrate A Kappa's best during the Biennial Awards Banquet. Spotlighting alumnae association and chapter achieve- ments were Director of Alumnae JuuE MARTIN MANGIS, George Washington, and Director of Chapters ANN STAFFORD TRUESDELL, Ohio Wesleyan. Julie and Ann reported on the thousands of volunteer hours Kappas have given to their campuses and communities. The custom of presenting awards at each General Convention began in 1926 with a silver cup given by Gamma Nu, Arkansas, is proud to receive the GEORGIA LLOYD JoNES, Wisconsin, in honor of Fraternity Standards Award . President MAY C. WHITING WESTERMANN, Nebraska, who first served the Fraternity as Grand President in 1902 and four out of the seven Alumnae Achievement Award recipi was elected as National President in 1922 serving until ents - JEANNE FALK ADAMS, Cal. State Fresno; ANNE 1926. Georgia served as Fraternity President from 1926-28. HowELL CLARKE, Butler; KAREN KoLBE GooDENOW, In addition to recognizing outstanding associations and Drake; and FRANCES STEEN SuDDETH JosEPHSON, chapters, Convention participants were honored to meet Goucher. (All seven recipients were featured in the Summer 1998 Issue of The Key.) Also present were former Loyalty Award recipients MARY AGNES (GRAY) RoBERTS, Northwestern (1976); MARTHA GALLEHER Cox, Ohio Wesleyan (1984); PHYLLIS BRINTON PRYOR, Colorado ( 1986); MARJORIE CRoss BIRD, Colorado (1990), MARJORIE MATSON CoNVERSE, Purdue (1992); WILMA WINBERG JoHNSON, Massachusetts (1994); and GAY CHUBA BARRY, Penn State (1996). Associations and chapters are encouraged to work closely with their Province Director of Alumnae (PDA) or Province Director of Chapters (PDC) to ensure their eligibility for awards during the 1998-2000 Biennium. ~
Northern New Jersey, Philadelphia, HM: Indian River Region V Boston Intercollegiate, Fairfield Region III Winners: Stillwater, Tulsa, Baton Rouge, Ft. Bend County, Greater Hartford, Rhode Winners: Cincinnati, Columbus, Dayton, County, Houston, Houston Island Detroit East Suburban, Detroit North Northwest, Kingwood Area, Dallas, Runners-up: Southern New jersey, Down, East Woodward, Bloomington, Fort Worth, Richardson/Plano, East Maine Indianapolis, Arlington Hts/NW Valley, Arcadia, Glendale-Burbank, Region II Suburban , Door County, North Greater Los Angeles, Southern Orange Winners: Atlanta, Charleston, Cleawater Bay, Shore, Glen Ellyn/Wheaton, Hinsdale, County, Southern Ventura County
"0 Columbia, Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Metro-East, Naperville, Peoria Runners-up: Norman, Riverside c Sarasota/Manatee, Baltimore, Runners-up: Detroit Northwest Suburban, :;:,"' Region VI 3: Northern Virginia, Washington Lafayette , Martinsville, South Winners: Treasure Valley, Lake Washington, 'OD :::> DC/ Suburban, Maryland, Bend/Mishawka , Milwaukee East Fresno, Palo Alto, Sacramento Valley, 0 0 Williamsburg Region IV San Mateo >, .0 Runners-up: Hilton Head, Lee County, Winners: Kansas City, St. Louis, Wichita, Runners-up: East Bay, Salem Oregon U) ;;::; Northwest Georgia, Pensacola, c. Albuquerque, Denver, Ft. Collins, Salt Spartanburg, Tampa Bay, Charlotte, n-o"' Lake City 0 Howard County, Roanoake Runners-up: Omaha, Lawrence 0 ;;::; Cl.
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Convention Delegates Exercise Right to Vote
he 62nd Biennial Convention body voted on several The chapter "Fraternity Education Chairman" will now Tproposed changes to the Fraternity Bylaws and be called "Education Chairman" to more accurately reflect Standing Rules. Fraternity Council then revised the the scope of the position. Fraternity Policies to bring them in line with these *The term "recruitment" is being adopted by many col approved changes in the documents. As a result, a few ter legiate Panhellenic groups as a more contemporary and minology changes have occurred and a per capita fee meaningful term to prospective members in describing the increase for both alumnae and active members became rush process. effective at the close of Convention. Revised documents will be mailed to alumnae associa The approved fee increase raises the annual active per tions and chapters. For more information contact your capita fee from $60 to $70. The alumna per capita fee was Province Director of Alumnae (PDA) or Province Director increased from $6 to $8. The additional income will allow of Chapters (PDC). o---. the Fraternity to continue responsible fiscal management, •Use of the term "recruitment" is not a bylaw change- just a change in ter mi sustain the current level of alumnae association and chap nology used in the Fraternity Policies. ter support, proceed with the commitment to new communication technology and investigate the develop Terminology Changes ment of new programs. This has been the first active per capita fee increase since 1992 and the first alumna increase Former Term: New Term: since 1986. Pledge ...... New Member Changes in terminology for Fraternity use reflect the trend in the campus Greek world, and the use of "new Fraternity Education Education Chairman ...... Chairman member" instead of"pledge" identifies the classification of membership between the time a woman accepts a pledge to rush ...... recruitment membership and Initiation.
Chapter Awards
Sally Moore Nitschke Lifelong Learning Finance (Unhoused) DELTA, Indiana; Winner: ZETA THETA, Trinity Winner: DELTA KAPPA, Miami GAMMA PHI, SMU; EPSILON ALPHA, HM: GAMMA KAPPA, William & Mary; BETA HM: GAMMA IoTA, Washington Univ. (St. TCU; KAPPA, Hillsdale LAMBDA, Illinois; GAMMA Pt, Alabama; Louis); LAMBDA, Akron; DELTA EPS ILON, Gracious Living (Unhoused) BETA Mu, Co lorado Rollins; DELTA PHI , Bucknell; EPS ILON Winner: ZETA CH I, Marist DELTA, Arizona State; EPSILON UP SILON, HM: ZETA UPS ILON, Georgia Southern; GAMMA Chapter/Advisory Board Relations Baylor; GAMMA UPSILON, British UPSILON, British Columbia; EPS ILON Winner: EPSILON BETA, Colorado State Columbia LAMBDA, Tennessee; ZETA RHo, Colgate HM: StGMA, Nebraska; ZETA ETA, UC Ir vine; GAMMA CHI, George Washington; ZETA Publication and Public Relations Greatest Improvement PHI, Princeton; DELTA ALPHA, Penn State; Winner: DELTA DELTA, McGill Winner: BETA PHI , Montana BETA PHI , Montana; BETA Xt, Texa s; HM: GAMMA GAMMA, Whitman; ZETA KAPPA, HM: OMICRoN•, Simpson; BETA CHI, Kentucky; DELTA, Indiana; ZETA ALPHA, Babson Bowling Green; Pst•, Cornell; ZETA Pt , DELTA X!, Carnegie-Mellon; EPSILON X!, Albertson; ZETA GAMMA, Centre; ETA, Cal. State Northridge; DELTA UPSILON, Advisory Board Wisconsin Georgia; CHI, Minnesota Winner: UPSILON, Northwestern Greatest Scholastic Improvement (10 or more HM: BETA RHo•, Cincinnati; DELTA Pt, Tulsa; Cultural groups) ZETA SIGMA , GAMMA PHI , Winner: ZETA Xt , Yale North Texas; Winner: GAMMA ETA , Washington State HM: GAMMA IOTA , Washington Univ. ( t. SMU; GAMMA ZETA, Arizona; Pt•, HM: GAMMA Xt, UCLA; EPsiLON Pst, UC Louis); EPSILON CH t, Dartmouth; DELTA Berkeley Santa Barbara; DELTA IOTA, LSU; ZETA Pt, Tulsa; ZETA StGMA, orth Texas House Board UPSILON, Georgia Southern; GAMMA Winner: D ELTA ZETA , Colorado College Fraternity Appreciation DELTA, Purdue; BETA u, Ohio tate; HM: BETA lHsTA, Oklahoma; GAMMA THETA , Winner: EP JLO IOTA, Puget Sound CHI, Minnesota Drake; IoTA, DePauw; GAMMA Pt, HM: BETA UP JLO , West Virginia; LAMBDA, Greatest Scholastic Improvement (9 or fewer Alabama; GAMMA ETA, Washington State Akron groups) Finance (Housed) Gracious Living (Housed) Winner: lAMBDA , Akron inner: B TA X! , Texas Winner: BETA THETA, Oklahoma HM : GAMMA RHo, Allegheny; DELTA Xt , HM: JGMA, ebraska; GAMMA ALPHA, Kansas HM: EP JLO OMICRON, UC Davis; DELTA Carnegie-Mellon; GAMMA HI , George Washington; o~fiCRO • impson; BETA tate; EP tLO GAM !I-tA, 'orth Carolina; tG u, Oklahoma tate; EPSJLO KAPPA, 4 BETA , St. Lawrence; B TA PHI, Montana EP JLO PHI , Florida outh Carolina; EP JLO ETA, Auburn;
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onvention drew to a close with the Candlelight JoHNSON, Oklahoma, presented a set of silver candlesticks CBanquet message from Fraternity Executive to the Fraternity in memory of former Fraternity President Director }. DALE BRUBECK, William & Mary. She recalled }EAN HEss WELLS, Georgia. Jean was also a former her first Convention -"It was the Centennial Convention President of the Atlanta Alumnae Association and held and I remember the shiver that went through me when all numerous other Fraternity positions. those women rose to respond with the same ritual that I "The Atlanta Alumnae Association asked the Fraternity had learned in my chapter, and remember thinking that I Council to recommend a fitting tribute to Jean for her am part of something bigger than I had ever imagined:' many contributions to Kappa;' says Kathleen. "The She also stressed that our values will define what Kappa Council offered us the opportunity to replace the lovely, Kappa Gamma becomes in the 21st century. Who you but fragile and aging Ware Candlesticks, which are used at become is determined by how you respond to life's choices Conventions and chapter Installation services." based on your intelligence, heart and values;' said Dale. Fraternity President CATHY THOMPSON CARSWELL, "Values defme character. Early Kappas wanted members to Illinois Wesleyan, accepted the candlesticks on behalf of be known as those who follow high ideals:' the Fraternity. "These beautiful candlesticks are a fitting The evening ended with the traditional "Passing of the tribute to Jean, who was beautiful through and through;' Light" service which began in 1935 when President says Cathy. "Jean had a remarkable history with the CHARLOTTE BARRELL WARE, Boston, was attending the Fraternity having served as President and in the last years Alpha Province Meeting. At the banquet she passed of her life as our Ritualist." around one of her silver candlesticks as a symbol of the The Ware Candlesticks have been present at 30 General flame which lights the way for future Kappas. Inscribed on Conventions and 63 chapter Installations. Due to the wear the candlesticks, since donated to the Fraternity, are the and tear of traveling, the candlesticks are so fragile they words, "How far this little candle throws his beam. So can no longer be repaired. Therefore, the Ware candle shines a good deed in a naughty world;' from sticks will be retired to the Heritage Museum for perma Shakespeare's The Merchant of Venice. nent display. The candlesticks in memory of Jean Wells will The Passing of the Light service was unique this year replace them at chapter Installations and the Candlelight thanks to a gift from the ATLANTA (GA.) ALUMNAE Banquet at General Conventions. o---. AssociATION. Association President KATHLEEN KuHN
Chapter Awards
Scholarship (10 or more Panhellenic groups) Panhellenic Risk Management Winner: BETA UPSILON, West Virginia Winner: BETA ZETA, Iowa Winner: THETA, Missouri HM: DELTA OMICRON, Io wa State; BETA ZETA, Honorable Mention: EPSILON RHo, Texas A &M; HM: ZETA GAMMA, Centre; BETA ZETA, Iowa; Iowa; ETA, Wisconsin; DELTA Psi, Texas DELTA ZETA, Colorado College; DELTA ZETA OMEGA; Waterloo; ZETA CHI, Tech.; ZETA KAPPA, Bowling Green ETA, Utah; GAMMA THETA, Drake; Marist; DELTA XI, Carnegie-Mellon; ZETA Scholarship (9 or fewer Panhellenic groups) GAMMA KAPPA; William & Mary THETA, Trinity Winner: EPSILON XI, Cal. State Northridge Philanthropy Ritual HM: DELTA KAPPA, Miami; GAMMA BETA, New Winner: ZETA ZETA, Westminster Winner: KAPPA, Hillsdale Mexico; GAMMA THETA, Drake; ALPHA' , Honorable Mention: ZETA Psi, Wake Forest; HM: SIGMA, Nebraska; DELTA DELTA, McGill; Monmouth EPSILON DELTA, Arizona State; BETA ZETA SIGMA, North Texas; DELTA Heritage TAu, Syracuse; ZETA BETA, Lafayette; LAMBDA, Miami (Ohio); EPSILON ALPHA, Winner: GAMMA BETA, New Mexico ZETA IoTA, Villanova; EPSILON CHI, TCU Dartmouth; BETA ETA' , Stanford; DELTA HM: DE LTA PHI, Bucknell Rose McGill Magazine Agency Greatest Psi, Texas Tech, EPSILON UPSILON, Membership Subscriptions Baylor; EPSILON EPSILON, Emory; Mu, Whitman Winner: GAMMA GAMMA, Butler; DELTA Mu, Connecticut; ZETA GAMMA OMICRON, Wy oming (188); HM: ZETA OMEGA, Waterloo; DELTA ALPHA, TAu, Washington & Lee GAMMA KAPPA, William & Mary (98); Penn State; BETA OM EGA, Oregon; ZETA DELTA GAMMA, Michigan State (56); Standards Program KAPPA, Bowling Green; OMEGA, Kansas; ZETA PHI, Princeton (32) Winner: DELTA Nu, Massachusetts ZETA TAu, Washington & Lee; DELTA ETA, Efficiency (Housed) Utah; ZETA OMICRON, Richmond; HM: DELTA RHo, Mississippi; EPSILON RHo, Texas A&M; CHI, M innesota; GAMMA Winner: BETA KAPPA, Idaho EPSI LON BETA, Colorado State; ZETA HM: GAMMA KAPPA, Kansas State TH ETA, Trinity; GAMMA TH ETA, Drake; BETA, N ew Mexico; ZETA Mu, Virginia BETA KAPPA, Idaho; EPSILON XI, UC Tech; DELTA EPSILON, Rollins; BETA Efficiency (Unhoused) THETA, Oklahoma; Riverside; BETA ZETA, Iowa; TH ETA, Winner: RHo•, Ohio Wesleyan Missouri; CHI , Minnesota; ZETA SIGMA, Pledge Education HM: ALPHA' , Monmouth No rth Texas Winner: ZETA EPSILON, Lawrence Standards HM: EPSILON IOTA, Puget Sound; DELTA Winner: GAMMA Nu, A rkansas OMICRON, Iowa State; DELTA LAMBDA, Miami (Ohio); THETA, Missouri
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Kappa's Shining Stars Presenting the 1998-2000 elected Fraternity officers
From left to right (front) Ann Truesdell , Cathy Carswell , Peggy Hellwig; (back) Jane Barrett, Marian Williams, Fraternity Officers enter the opening business meeting. Kay Weeks, Sue Riches, Pris Gerde.
eading Kappa Kappa Gamma into the next century L is Fraternity President CATHY THOMPSON CARSWELL, Illinois Wesleyan, assisted by Council members Vice President ANN STAFFORD TRUESDELL, Ohio Wesleyan; Treasurer PEGGY HANNA HELLWIG, Tennessee; Director of Alumnae SuE McGINTY RicHES, Oregon State; Director of Chapters JANE YouNG BARRETT, Oklahoma; Director of Membership KAY ScHOLBERG WEEKS, Bucknell; and Director of Standards PRIS MuRPHY GERDE, Purdue. The Regional Council consists of Regional Directors of Alumnae JuDY STEWART DucATE, Texas Tech; SusiE EYNATTEN HuGHES, Missouri; MARTHA ALLEN KuMLER, Ohio State; MARY From left to right (front) Judy Ducate, B.J . Foster, RuDDICK SILZEL, Whitman; Susie Hughes, Carolyn Simpson; (back) Carol CAROLYN BYRD SIMPSON, Armstrong, Jeane Cox-Meuser, Mary Silzel , Rosalyn Wood , Cathleen McKinney, Martha Kumler, Jane Texas Tech; RosALYN Jones, Denise Rugani. KEMPTON WooD, Emory; and Regional Directors of Chapters CAROL LASH The Education Committee ARMSTRONG, Miami (Ohio); leads a workshop. B.]. PAULK FosTER, Penn State; }ANE CARTER }ONES, Oregon State; CATHLEEN MoRROW McKINNEY, Emory; JEANE Cox-MEUSER, Missouri and DENIS E RuGANJ, UC Davis. o---. . ~ '"N The Blue Owl Boutique. '"~ 0> Collegians enjoy the 3 Candlelight Banquet. '"~ 0 '"'iil '0 =r "'· L------~ THE KEY • Fall 1998 • 31 KAPPA~ From Investigative Reporter to Hollywood Anchor
Nancy Humphries O'Dell is going places
elping police search for the body of a drowning interviews with numerous celebrities. She says Richard H victim is the last place you would Gere was the most interesting because he uses expect to find a woman like NANCY his celebrity status to promote human rights HuMPHRIES O'DELL, Clemson. Not that she issues. Nancy also admits being distracted by is timid or weak - she was named Most his good looks. "It was difficult to think of my Valuable Player in high school tennis and next question while staring into those deep, basketball- it's just that Nancy's gentle dark eyes:' she says with a laugh. Another demeanor and southern charm would make favorite is Michael Bolton who co-anchored you wonder what this former Miss South as a weekend fill-in with Nancy. "He is so Carolina was doing in such a grim situation. sweet and funny:' she recalls. "We both got Working with a dive team was part of the giggles and barely could finish the Nancy's former job as a crime reporter for a segment." Myrtle Beach, S.C., TV station. Aboard a Although an experienced interviewer, rescue boat to research the daily struggles of Nancy did get nervous at first. "Now it's just police officers, Nancy witnessed divers pull a my job:' she explains. The only celebrity to man's body from the lake where he and his really make her nervous is Arnold son had been fishing on Father's Day. "It was Schwarzeneger. "He has some kind of traumatic thinking about that little boy presence - it was hard to have a normal losing his father and seeing the mother conversation:' says Nancy who can "hang waiting on the shore:' Nancy vividly recalls. with" most celebrities. "I'll never forget that:' Although Nancy has a knack for talking For Nancy, reporting the news meant with the stars, her job takes immense living bits of other people's lives. "I was preparation and flexibility. If an interview on touched emotionally by every story:' says a movie set runs even five minutes too long it Nancy, who doesn't miss the often sad news can cost the producers thousands of dollars, she used to report daily. "I like happy things. Nancy Humphries so Nancy is diligent about fitting in the I like to smile:' O'Dell, Clemson, important questions. "Sometimes I go in with covers the Golden questions in my head or just main words on Her desire to smile is part of the reason Globe Awards for she can now be seen interviewing movie Access Hollywood. paper:' says Nancy who spends many hours stars as the weekend anchor and weekday preparing for each interview. Traveling to correspondent for NBC's entertainment movie sets, reading thick packets of news show, Access Hollywood. From high school background information and watching the screening of a valedictorian and Clemson University summa cum laude celebrity's movie are examples of the legwork prior to a graduate to award-winning journalist and March of segment airing on Access Hollywood. "The hours are long Dimes spokesman, Nancy is a rising star herself. and sporadic:' says Nancy. "I often don't know when these Joining Access Hollywood in 1996 when the program events are going to occur until the last minute and many premiered on NBC, Nancy is enjoying her rise to the top take place on weekends and evenings." of her profession. Whether donning a baseball cap and Born and raised in Myrtle Beach, S.C., Nancy loves the blue jeans on a day off or wearing a custom-made Nolan glamour of Hollywood. "Events like the Emmys when I get Miller gown to the Oscars, her friendly smile and zest for to wear gorgeous gowns and meet interesting people are life will put anyone at ease. exciting:' she says. Although she enjoys the elegant Making people feel comfortable comes in handy wardrobe and professional hair and makeup, Nancy during frenzied media junkets. From John Travolta to points out a few drawbacks to the glamour. "We often wait Mary Tyler Moore, Nancy has conducted in-depth for hours in a hot, crowded place at events like the Oscars,
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news prior to our date." They don't have any children but look forward to that possibility within the next few years. Nancy is on her way to having it all, but it hasn't happened without hard work and dedication. "I worked in local news for eight years;' she says. "I've paid my dues." Although Nancy fears that some people may think she's all "fluff" because of her 1987 Miss South Carolina title, she is quick to point out the professional skills gained through the experience. "I spent almost every day of the year speaking somewhere which gave me confidence to be on TV:' explains Nancy. "Speaking in public also helped me lose my southern accent, which was important for a broadcast career where everyone wants you to have a more general, Midwestern accent." Controlling her accent Nancy visits with country music stars Trisha Yearwood has been one of Nancy's greatest challenges. "I still fight it and Garth Brooks in the Access Hollywood studio. now and it comes out when the camera's gone;' she says with a slight southern drawl. in long dresses with makeup caked on and trying to keep Nancy attributes some of her success to her role our hair up;' Nancy says. ''I'm often going on four hours of models, journalist Diane Sawyer and tennis playe! Chris sleep and trying to look good despite tired circles under Evert- both powerful yet feminine women. Nancy is my eyes." also grateful to her first news director at a small TV Another frustration is being told by publicists not to station in Myrtle Beach, S.C. "I knew nothing about a ask certain questions. "Coming from a hard news news room but he explained everything;' recalls Nancy. background makes it difficult to not be free to ask She began her career in the advertising sales department, anything, but I understand their point." Nancy ?a_ ins the a likely career for a marketing major, but visits to the news trust of celebrities and their publicists by explammg that room piqued her interest. "I enjoy learning new things;' she must ask certain questions from a journalistic says Nancy. "In a news room there's a different story every standpoint but that she will be careful not _to tak~ . day - you're a gatherer and presenter of facts, always advantage of a situation. Nancy recalls an mterv1ew with learning something new." Christian Slater about a new movie. "His publicist asked Nancy values her experience in a small market because me not to mention that Christian was getting ready to go she was able to do a little bit of everything, which helps to jail;' says Nancy. She explained that it was her her relate to the many people who help her on the job. "I responsibility to ask about it, ensuring that it woul~'t. be understand what the cameraman is going through the focus of the interview. Nancy believes that celebnt1es because I've been there;' says Nancy who believes strongly are entitled to their private lives. "Unlike many people I in treating others the way she wants to be treated. She met as an investigative reporter, most of these peopl~ have recalls being impressed by country-western singer Garth it pretty good;' she says. "But they do live under public scrutiny, so they can have tough lives too:'. A tough aspect of Nancy's life is balancmg her career and personal life. Nancy is married to Dr. Richard O'Dell, an anesthesiologist with a private practice in La Vega , Nev. They reside in Los Angeles, Calif., and both do their share of traveling. Nancy admits that making enough time for each other is a challenge, but they enjoy playing port together, especially ten_nis, and going bike riding and roller-bladmg. ancy a! o trie to keep her weekend free whenever po sible and Richard often e cort her to movie premiere . ancy call her hu band "a cutie" and ay he look like Kurt Ru ell. The couple met on a blind date arranged by mutual friend . "He heated though be au e he aw me on the Nancy talks with Richard Gere on the set of the movie Red Corner.
THE KEY ° Fa!IJ99 ° 33 KAPPA~
Brooks because he shook hands with the cameramen and Nancy's Tips for Success
sound crew and o Seek advice from people who are where you acknowledged their want to be. hard work. "Small acts o Start out in a position that gives you a variety of of kindness take you a experiences. long way;' Nancy stresses. o Focus on the positives and be flexible. Nancy is an experienced interviewer, Growing up in a o Go out of your way to be kind.
but Arnold Schwartzeneger did close-knit family, o Put yourself in the other person's shoes. make her a little nervous. Nancy values • Be true to your values. relationships and hard work. Her greatest fear o Exercise to relieve stress. is losing a loved one and she still calls her parents after a o Eat a healthy diet. bad day. She is often asked what motivated her to earn top grades and achieve success in sports, but she doesn't have a definitive answer. "My parents actually tried to get me to do things besides study, but I enjoyed learning and to not know the answers would drive me crazy;' admits Nancy to promote prenatal care and reduce the risk of birth who is glad her family encouraged her to become well defects, Nancy will appear on talk shows and at public rounded. events. Her goal is to remind women to start taking daily Nancy considers Kappa Kappa Gamma her second multivitamins with folic acid even before they get family and loved her college experience. "I was enthralled pregnant and to have regular checkups during pregnancy. with the spirit of the campus and wonderful friends;' Wearing blue jeans, Nancy will also make cameo recalls Nancy who was nervous about leaving home. appearances on various TV shows to remind people about "Kappa helped me feel safe. They were real sisters who the campaign. "Blue jeans symbolize a happy, healthy cared for me:' Nancy was familiar with the benefits of American lifestyle;' explains Nancy. The campaign also Greek membership - her mother is a Chi Omega and her encourages companies to offer "blue jeans day" when sister is a Delta Gamma. "I didn't have connections with employees can donate money to the March of Dimes in Kappa but I was so impressed with the members that I exchange for permission to wear jeans to work. knew I had to put them as my first choice:' Nancy is also proud of a 1994 investigative reporting Nancy is not only proud to be a Kappa, she is pleased series on the plea-bargaining of driving-under-the to have opportunities to use her own celebrity status to influence cases, which was named "Best Report of the serve others. As the 1998 national honorary spokesman Year" for all media in South Carolina. The report resulted for the March of Dimes "Blue Jeans for Babies" campaign in a state law enforcement investigation and the South Carolina attorney general enforcing a more stringent directive regarding DUI cases. From her start in Myrtle Beach, Nancy quickly moved to the larger Charleston, S.C., market in 1991 as the Nancy's Career Honors morning news anchor and crime reporter. Then NBC
o Three Associated Press awards for chose her to co-anchor the 5:30p.m. weekday newscast in investigative reporting Miami, Fla., the 16th largest U.S. market, where she also worked as an investigative reporter. After two years she o Two Society of Professional Journalist awards became the entertainment reporter for the U.S . syndicated o Sun coast Regional Emmy nomination for news magazine show, A Current Affair, prior to joining investigative reporting Access Hollywood. No matter what the world of entertainment news has o South C~rolina Young Careerist of the Year by the Busmess and Professional Women's USA in store for Nancy, her positive outlook and commitment Association to excellence undoubtedly will take her far. ~
o Society of Professional Journalists Award for Best Report of the Year for All Media -By }ENNY STRUTHERS HoovER, Bowling Green
34 · THE KEY • Fal1 1998 In Pursuit of a Distant Dream Martha Thomson Barclay turns obstacles into opportunities to earn Ph.D.
from another state. I concluded, prophetically, that our ou can do it today- commute long distance for ride together would be bumpy. Y an advanced degree. But in 1963 nobody had even heard of such a wild idea. I took two back-to-back seminars each semester. I rode One January morning in 1963, sitting at our breakfast the early bus one morning and came back late the next table in Mason City, Iowa, I said, "I want to go back to night. On weekends I cooked ahead, relying on my older college for a Ph.D:' My husband was incredulous. "How daughter to assemble dinners when I was gone. could you manage that?" he asked, adding, "The I also asked a psychiatrist to advise me if I was being University of Iowa is a four-hour drive each way and even fair to my family. "Oh my;' he said, with mock con.cern, the University of Minnesota is 150 miles away." (There "All the decisions your children are going to have to make were no superhighways between our town and the cities.) two days a week because mother isn't there to make them. "I don't know;' I replied, more determined than logical, I think it's fine." "but somehow I will." I reviewed my reasons: My master's My friends didn't. When I stopped participating in degree had been granted 21 years before. Now I was clubs, they were appalled. When I said that instead of mentally stale and yearned for academic stimulation. seeing a movie or watching TV I would dedicate myself to However, we were both concerned about our two a commute-study-family care regimen, criticism became daughters, 16 and 14, and our son, 10. openly verbal. One "friend" predicted our children would become juvenile delinquents. The Logistics Adventure By Bus I considered both schools. Iowa was too far to drive. But I discovered an express bus to Minneapolis, home to It was scary going back to classes. My adviser gave me the University of Minnesota, going early each morning only token support but several professors, intrigued with and returning late at night. my situation, went out of their way to be helpful. An interview with the Dean of the College of Liberal The bus trips were an unexpected bonus. Instead of Arts was arranged. He alone could give me permission to finding them dreary, oh, the stories I heard! There was the begin a program. Sitting behind a large desk, he was the pregnant 15-year-old, so scared, but before the ride ended picture of a dean: a shock of white hair, carefully clipped she promised to see a physician. There was the old woman goatee, and imperiously intimidating manner. Verbally, I going to the funeral of her last relative and another laid out my petition. His voice di missed me. "I know of woman with three children the ages of mine who rode no one who has ever attempted anything like this. Every each week to the Mayo Clinic. She had cancer, growing Ph.D. candidate mu t establish residence on campus:' weaker until the day came when she didn't board any My desperate word tumbled forth . "Doctor, if I pay my more. I heard the voices of a couple sitting in front of me fees, go to cla se and pass cour e , I AM in residence. The whose son had been sentenced to life in the penitentiary. fact that my domicile i 300 round-trip miles away i my Very religious, they went over and over where they must tough luck." He reared back in his wive! chair, threw up have erred in raising him. hi arm and aid, "By God, you're right!" 1 wa 111 . In three year I had completed my cour e work and pa ed the written proficiency exams. Then thing went A Bumpy Road Ahead awry. De pite tumbling an wer on my preliminary oral exam, the committee passed me. Unable to see my adviser, ext came mound of paperwork, entrance exams and I continued writing about my approved dissertation meeting my advi er- the only full profe or who could ubject. Finally able to meet with him, he told me he did guide me throu h my p e h and theater major. He wa not like\ hat I had done and threw it all out...eight months penly c rnful fa middle-aged hou ewife commuting of work wiped out. The next day wa my birthday, a blue
THE KEY • Fall199 • 35 KAPPA~
one, but wearily I went on. Finding another dissertation the final oral exam. When it ended, I waited in the hall. subject, resubmitting for Now it was "Yes:' I would be faculty approval, beginning granted the doctorate or "No, again with fresh research no appeal." Suddenly the and writing consumed committee came through the another year during which door with congratulations. I tension with my adviser had my Ph.D. nearly snapped until my In March 1968, five years wise father said, "You, too, after my interview with the have rights. Write him a dean, I walked across the letter outlining your auditorium stage to receive complaints:' I did, and my degree. Something else when my adviser realized gave me even greater he might lose his only Ph.D. satisfaction that night. Our candidate, he changed. older daughter had slipped a small piece of paper into Martha and her family, including two Kappa daughters, The Moment Wendy Barclay Baker, Miami (Ohio), (center) and Diane my hand just before of Truth Barclay Ratcliffe, Northwestern. Commencement. Along with congratulatory sentences, she At last I faced the had written, "In all those years awesome written exams for you still had time to sew a which I typed eight hours a seam, run an errand or help day for three days. Able to eat but little or sleep more than with a theme:' That's when I knew that I had not only a few hours, I dropped nine pounds and experienced achieved my goal- I had also taken care of my family. ()---,.. double vision. I was physically and mentally exhausted. With my dissertation complete, I had one more hurdle - - By MARTHA THOMSON BARCLAY, Oklahoma
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36 • THE KEY • Fall1998 Oh, the Places We'll Go!
Jew York Theater and Shopping Grenadines, Windwards and ,ecember 6-11, 1998 Leewards Back by popular demand - Kappa's third annual January 17-24, 1999 hristmas theater trip. Book early to see Tony Award Escape winter and sail aboard the yacht-like inning The Lion King and Art. You'll also see the Yorktown Clipper. Swim in secluded, unspoiled bays. ~ectacular Rockettes Christmas Show with time set Naturalist and historian aboard. Single open seat dining. ;ide for shopping, museum visits and special dinners. Space limited. $1,950 pp, dbl. occ. Low air fare available. 1,650 pp, dbl. occ. Call Nancy Grow 800/654-4934 Call Nancy Grow at 800/654-4934
~o Steamboatin' with Kappas Treasures of Japan and China arch 23-30, 1999 April 12-16, 1999 Repeat of a sellout! Memphis to New Orleans aboard Our fabulous trip to the Orient on the luxurious grand American Queen. Enjoy this Spring Pilgrim Niew Amsterdam. Sail from Hong Kong to Osaka. Visit ' at peak flower season. Cruise only: $1,872. Call soon Nagasaki, Japan; Pusan, S. Korea; and in China visit best cabins. Dalian, Mingang, scenic Yangtze River, Shanghai and Call Linda Singleton at 800/522-8140. Xiamen. Special prices for Kappas including one free category upgrade for outside cabins. Private Kappa party aboard. Book early for best selections and prices. Call Nancy Grow at 800/654-4934. uture Trips
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For more information call Kappa Travels coordinator VERA LEWIS MARINE, Colorado College, at 626/446-3870 or 800/554-7673, ext. 128, e-mail: [email protected] Distance Makes the Heart Grow Fonder These Kappas may live far from home, but KKr is close to their hearts
A Gift from The Nethertands personal reward and a way to remember my rich, LouisE McKIRDY NoRDHOLT, Pittsburgh, says her rewarding days at Berkeley;' says Nancy. "During my first interest in the Kappa Kappa Gamma Foundation started time away from home it was comforting to be surrounded nearly 20 years ago after reading various articles in The by young women with similar interests and values, and I Key about college students facing dangers such as alcohol want to help offer that experience to other young women:' abuse, drugs, eating disorders, AIDS and safety issues. Nancy's favorite memory of her collegiate days is "This distressed me greatly and set me thinking what a meeting her "Big Sister" who provided her with friendship difference an organization like Kappa could make to and guidance. "It was special to get the support I needed vulnerable freshman women;' says Louise. "I thought this during that time in my life from someone I admired;' would be an excellent thing to contribute to:' recalls Nancy. Except for one year in Jakarta, Indonesia, Louise and A resident of Sydney, Australia, for the past 30 years, her late husband Henk have Nancy and her family have traveled the globe. Nancy's lived in The Netherlands for adventures began when she joined Pan American Airlines more than 50 years. When as a flight attendant in 1949 in the Alaska/Pacific division. they married in 1944, Henk During a flight delay she met her future husband Ian was an officer in the old Graham Turbott, a native of New Zealand. They were Dutch East Indies Army but married in Sacramento, Calif. in 1952 and soon after they didn't arrive in traveled to Tarawa in the Gilbert and Ellice Islands (now Holland until late 1946 due called Kiribati and Tuvalu) where Ian was the District to Nazi occupation. They Commissioner. The couple traveled thousands of miles by have always lived in small sea to outer islands where they stayed in grass-roofed towns and often went years houses. without speaking English. In 1956 Ian was appointed to a position in Whitehall, Louise McKirdy Nordholt, "That changed when Dutch London, where the family enjoyed a home in the English Pittsburgh, (center) visits the countryside. In 1958 they moved to the British West Canadian Rockies during a friends asked me to tutor family trip. their children who were Indies for 10 years while Ian served as the Queen's weak or failing in English;' Representative and Governor. In addition to raising three says Louise. "This proved to daughters, Nancy participated in numerous community be mutually so rewarding that I went on to tutor several activities. "Newly expanded tourism made this a desirable generations of these likable Dutch teenagers:' Louise is the place to visit;' says Nancy. They were visited by the Queen mother of four, plus three stepchildren, and enjoys of England, the Queen Mother, Prince Philip and several numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren. dignitaries and U.S. ambassadors. Other notable visitors When giving to the Kappa Kappa Gamma Foundation, include Princess Margaret, Winston Churchill and Louise is especially interested in the Kappa Kappa Aristotle Onassis. "Often I was the hostess for dinners for Gamma Heritage Museum because Henk served as 60 people." says Nancy. "These were great occasions." curator of a small regional museum in the provincial Another memorable event occurred when Ian was town of Hattem during his retirement. knighted by the Queen at Buckingham Palace in 1967 and Louise believes Kappa role models are important and became Sir Ian Turbott and Nancy became Lady Turbott. she enjoys keeping in contact with one of hers, SALLY The following year Ian retired from the British IsLER ORo, Pittsburgh, whom she still considers a very government and Nancy dear friend. "Across the years and miles she has been my and their daughters joined Kappa contact:' says Louise. "When my Henk died three him in London for two years ago, Sally and her husband John wrote words of true years while he worked for comfort:' a management consulting firm. In 1970 the family A Gift from Australia went to Sydney to NANCY LANTZ TuRBOTT, UC Berkeley, loved her days establish the firm in the as a collegiate member of Pi Chapter. That's why she gives South Pacific basin including Singapore, to Kappa Kappa Gamma's Loyalty Fund. "Giving is a Nancy Lantz Turbott, UC Hong Kong and Japan. Berkeley, and husband lan .
38 • THE K EY • Fa l1 1998 Nancy enjoys their home in Sydney overlooking a "No matter who we are harbor and having their daughters' families live in the area or from where we come, life as well. Nancy enjoys staying in touch with several Pi4 has its ups and downs;' sisters including EMILY ANDREWS MouLTON, JEAN Barbara says. "To be able to GERLINGER DoYLE and BEATRICE MooRHEAD HEGGIE. reach out and help a Kappa is a small gesture of my A Gift from Switzertand thanks for the years of BARBARA ToLMIE WENNER, Tennessee, contributes to friendship Kappa has given the Foundation despite living so far away because she me.)) enjoys helping members with financial difficulties. ''Any way we can help each other is so important;' says Barbara Through good friends who has lived in Zurich, Switzerland, since 1979. and generous hearts, A former flight attendant for Pan American World Kappas prove that this really Pledge sisters Sharon Bohner Airways after graduating in 1970, Barbara traveled the is a small world after all. {)---ow Byers (left) and VIcki Baptist world. "Like every job it had its less pleasant side but the Meyer (right) have remained close friends with Barbara benefits of travel and contact with international people (center) despite living far was so enjoyable;' says Barbara. "It allowed me to meet my apart. Swiss husband while attending a French course in Paris." Barbara and her husband, Martin, were married 21 years ago in Seattle, Wash. They have two daughters and a son. Barbara has enjoyed taking care of her family and .fi'or information on the .fi'oundation, learning the German language and the customs and please contact: history of Zurich. She is thrilled that she has been able to KKr Fraternity Headquarters and keep in contact with and visit many of her Epsilon Foundation Office Lambda sisters since her graduation 28 years ago. "In spite P.O. Box 38, Columbus, Ohio 43216-0038 of my transient lifestyle before settling in Switzerland, the Tel: 614/228-6515 Fax: 614/228-7809 Kappa thread continues to weave a lovely pattern in my E-mail: [email protected] life;' says Barbara.
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ames that appear in this list HILLSDALE CoLLEGE Hills, Mary Dixon, '24,d.3/98 TEXAS TECH UNIVERSITY are from information Cook, Kathryn Rodin, '43,d.4/98 Skees, Darlene Glantz, 'SS,dJ/98 Wilkinson, Priscilla Davis, '53,d.4/98 N Tuohy, Elfie Nelson, '36,d.l0/97 Sands, Mary Frances Westwood, TEXAS, UNIVERSITY OF received by Headquarters from '41 ,d.3/98 IDAHO, UNIVERSITY OF Frost, Nancy Seaberry, '42,d.3/98 April3, 1998 through July 8, Mounsey, Margaret Merriman, NEBRASKA, UNIVERSITY OF TULANE UNIVERSITY '43,d.ll/96 1998. Hillyer, Margaret Blaufuss, '35,d.4/98 Hardin, Barbara Burgess, 'SO,dJ/98 Smith, Royce Lovejoy, '46,d.S/98 Madden, Doris Pinkerton, '24,d.4/98 *ADELPHI COLLEGE Snow, Vivian Wilson, '32,d.4/98 Matthew, Marjorie Hubbell, '23,d.S/98 TULSA, UNIVERSITY OF Roovaart, Marjorie White, '31 ,d.S/98 Carter, Jean Denton, '46,d.4/98 ILLINOIS, UNIVERSITY OF Newman, Mary Halley, '30,d.5/98 *ADRIAN CoLLEGE Buck, Mary, '24,d.6/98 *NORTH DAKOTA STATE UNIVERSITY UTAH, UNIVERSITY OF Brown, Myrna, '39,d.3/98 Kenyon, Christine Schindler, '32,d.4/98 Fraser, Alice Piers, '36,d.S/98 Anderegg, Patricia Garff, '65,d.l2/96 Clayton, Edythe Gephart, '35,d.6/98 ALABAMA, UNIVERSITY OF INDIANA UNIVERSITY Stannard, Faith Conmy, '45,d.7/96 Lewis, Eleanor Wherry, '32,d.5/98 Baynard, Constance Wing, '42,d.l0/97 Drobny, Janna Cummings, '82,d.6/98 NORTHWESTERN UNIVERSITY Peterson, Margaret Palmer, '40,d.11/97 Bruder, Margaret Eddins, '30,d.6/98 Levis, Lola Dunn, '20,d.S/98 Jones, Elizabeth Rieke, '22,d.S/98 Royle, Joan Powelson, '57,d.6/98 Jackson, Ruth Shepherd, '34,d.1/98 Prickett, Anna Buskirk, '43,d.6/98 Kellow, Amy Dunkelberg, 'SS,d.6/98 Schwanebeck, Anne Rutledge, '42,d.3/98 ARIZONA, UNIVERSITY OF IowA, UNIVERSITY OF Tucker, Harriet Brewer, '30,d.2/98 Hale, Rosemary Forbes, '54,d.4/98 WASHINGTON UNIVERSITY Dunkin, Jane Randolph, '29,d.3/98 OHIO STATE UNIVERSITY Stevens, Doris Miller, '49,d.S/98 Middleton, Mary Ellen Griswold, ARKANSAS, UNIVERSITY OF Foley, Margaret Westerman, '63,d.6/98 '38,d.7/97 Franklin, Virginia Foster, '31 ,d.S/98 Toll, Frances Kellogg, '22,d.3/98 Scott, Josephine Smith, '56,d.S/98 KANSAS STATE UNIVERSITY WASHINGTON, UNIVERSITY OF *BOSTON UNIVERSITY OHIO WESLEYAN UNIVERSITY Paulson, Janet MacDonald, '37,d.3/98 Lane, Ruth Hoehle, '27 ,d.6/98 Bret, Beatrice Sundgren, '42,d.12/97 Long, Julie Sanborn, '50,d.l2/97 Brust, Norma, '50,d.6/98 Richards, Anne Honore, '39,d.3/98 BUTLER UNIVERSITY Coker, Vanessa Tucker, '82,d.l0/97 OKLAHOMA, UNIVERSITY OF Scea, Linda Emmons, 'SS,d.4/98 Brown, Margaret Stilz, '29,d.4/98 McReynolds, Sara Delay, '37,d.8/96 Bird, Elizabeth Sherman, '28,d.4/98 WEST VIRGINIA UNIVERSITY Houtz, Mary Coate, '25,d.3/98 Wellman, Josephine Schmidt, '41,d.4/98 Horn, Frances Pemberton, '44,d.4/98 Skinker, Frances Stealey, '18,d.2/96 McKinney, Lydia Bates, '24,d..12/97 Walker, Phyllis Pettegrew, '31,d.4/98 Russell, Nancy Kalleen, '30,d.9/97 KANSAS, UNIVERSITY OF WHITMAN CoLLEGE Sargeant, Martha Beard, '25,d.l2/97 Campbell, Virginia Carter, '28,d.6/97 OREGON STATE UNIVERSITY Randall, Georganne Baber, '36,d.l2/96 Sobbe, Judith Badger, '43,d.S/98 Ramsey, Imogene Hoit, '24,d.3/98 Coleman, Janet Parman, '30,d.6/98 Ruth, Ruth Thomson, '28,d.2/98 Grant, Mildred, '26,d.l/98 KENTUCKY, UNIVERSITY OF WILLIAM & MARY, COLLEGE OF CALIFORNIA STATE UNIVERSITY, Harnage!, Jean Baird, '32,d.12/97 FRESNO Heuser, Edith Reager, '34,d.6/98 Fennell, Barbara Duborg, '44,d.9/97 Nyeland, Madeline Jones, '54,d.2/98 Keedy, Gladys Dimock, '36,d.6/98 OREGON, UNIVERSITY OF O'Flaherty, Lucy Ribble, '34,d.ll/97 Rowe, Bruce Glenn, '79,d.4/98 Jones, Virginia Deifell, '30,d.5/98 Stousland, Elizabeth Craighead, CALIFORNIA, U. OF, BERKELEY LOUISIANA STATE UNIVERSITY Kriebel, Ruth Miller, '24,d.2/98 '40,d.l2/97 Hinman, Katherine Crowell, '29,d.6/98 Johnson, Rebecca Woodin, '62,d.6/98 Norton, Sally-Lee Sterling, '47,d.4/98 PENNSYLVANIA STATE UNIVERSITY WISCONSIN, UNIVERSITY OF Roger, Katherine, '37,d.8/97 Erb, Dorothy Lentz, '30,d.S/98 Carnell, Helen Cole, '29,d.6/98 CINCINNATI, UNIVERSITY OF *MANITOBA, UNIVERSITY OF Yoshizumi, Barbara Iwashita, '53,d.2/98 Hoard, Mary Cunningham, '21 ,dJ/98 Griffin, Dixie Gould, '42,d.S/98 Byrn, Helen- jane Nicholls, '33,d.3/98 Klett, Claire Patterson, '33,d.4/98 *PENNSYLVANIA, UNIVERSITY OF WYOMING, UNIVERSITY OF Pickard, Hope Rutherford, '37,d.S/98 Maginniss, Miriam Brous, '27,d.4/98 Koch, Dorothy Hynds, '36,d.2/98 CoLORADO CoLLEGE *MARYLAND, UNIVERSITY OF Markley, Esther Pearson, '32,d.3/98 Boyce, Marjorie Combs, '36,d.6/98 PURDUE UNIVERSITY Shade, Nancy Swain, '48,d.3/98 Rodeck, Orian Lewis, '45,d.4/98 Bailey, Virginia Schaupp, '40,d.1/98 Sherrin, Gayle Griesbauer, '70,d.l 1/97 Clark, Madelyn Markley, '26,d.5/98 * inactive chapters COLORADO, UNIVERSITY OF Shuster, Ruth Williams, '29,d.4/98 Hexamer, Jeanne Hunter, '35,d.3/98 Boyd, Virginia Latcham, '32,d.3/98 MIAMI UNIVERSITY McCreary, Lois Goodnough, '53,d.S/98 Hile, Barbara Reeve, '26,d.3/98 RuTH HoEHLE LANE, '27, Boston, served Holwadel, Marlene Meyer, '51,d.1/98 Wilson, Jeanne Hallam, '35,d.l/98 Schultz, Bernice Neef, '29,d.2/98 the Fraternity as Beta Province Director Thompson, Kathryn Lingenfelter, MIAMI, UNIVERSITY OF ROLLINS COLLEGE of Chapters (1955-58), Undergraduate '25,d.4/98 johnson, Harriette, '38,d.1/98 Enquist, Ester Peirce, '38,d.2/98 Scholarship Chairman (1960-64), Extension Chairman (1964-66), *SAN }OSE STATE UNIVERSITY DENISON UNIVERSITY MICHIGAN, UNIVERSITY OF Director of Chapters (1966-70), and Dow, Troy Spongberg, '52,d.6/98 Diserens, Marilynn Omundson, Altenhof, Dorothy Bunce, '31 ,d.S/98 received the Loyalty Award (1982). 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Help provide each chapter with a copy of History 2000 .. .Kappa Kappa Gamma Through the Year:5 for its archi e by participating in thi unique opportunity. 100 pon or hip are being offered now to all member pon or will be recognized in History 2000 .. .Kappa Kappa Gamma Through the Year.s- and, in addition, all pon or will receive: • cop of History 2000... Kappa Kappa Gamma Through the Year:5 • pe-wter lapel pin engraved with the History 2000.. .Kappa Kappa Gamma Through the }ea7:5logo Don't mi the opportunity to participate in the Fraternity' newe t publication - Become a Part of Kappa· Hi tory and provide future member with an invaluable re our e a the ' embark upon their "\'oyage of Di covery." ACCENT ON .JlLUMNAE
Alumna Achievements causes supported by Princess Diana and Dodi Fayed during their lifetimes. Working together at Sotheby's in The principle purpose is to benefit New York City are ZETA RHo, Colgate, charities bringing relief to suffering members CATHARINE BECKET, MoLLY children around the world. LONGNECKER, CECILIA HANKE and HEIDI WILKINSON VoNMAuR. These Kappas work in many different areas of this company founded in 17 44. Catharine works with silver and Florence Hutchinson Lonsford , Purdue Russian works of art in the Art Department; Molly handles etchings Artist and designer FLORENCE and lithographs in the Print HuTCHINSON LaNSFORD, Purdue, has Department; Heidi in the Trusts and had one of her paintings accepted by Estates Department coordinates estate the U.S. Coast Guard for its permanent consignments and acts as the primary Mary Blair Polaski, collection, which travels throughout Illinois liaison between Sotheby's and the country from the Pentagon. On executors; and Cecelia in the Press board the USS Intrepid aircraft carrier, Department fields questions from Florence received recognition for her publications from the New York Times MARY BLAIR POLASKI, Illinois, has acrylic coast guard "Dolphin" in flight, to People Magazine and gives been inducted into the Speedskating entitled HH-65A Searching Arctic permission for related articles about Hall of Fame in Wausau, Wis. She won Waters. She was inspired to capture Sotheby's auction sales. the overall title at the U.S. Short Track Dolphin helicopters that assist They have recently participated in Speedskating Championship in the mariners in distress and provide Coast the auction of more than 40,000 1960s and returned 12 years later to win Guard Marine Safety officers with objects from the collections of the late her second overall national title. Mary overflight capabilities to determine the Duke and Duchess of Windsor from has coached several speedskating location and extent of oil spills. The their Paris home. programs and volunteers at the Purdue University galleries at their Various rooms from the Windsors' Broadmoor Skating Club. Stewart Center have added Florence's private and public quarters were re Her father, Charles, also belongs to watercolor Sunset With Boats to their created for the exhibition and sale. The the Speedskating Hall of Fame. Mary permanent collection. famous "Abdication Desk" on which claims her greatest thrill was watching Attending her first Fraternity King Edward VIII signed the five-time Olympic Gold Medalist and General Convention in 1950, Florence instrument of abdication was included sister, Bonnie, win her first "gold" in served as Editor of The Hoot, the in the auction. Calgary. A member of the CoLORADO Convention newsletter, and served on Proceeds went to benefit the Dodi SPRINGS (CoLo.) ALUMNAE The Key staff as chapter editor and art Fayed International Charitable AssociATION, Mary finds time to coach editor for 3 7 years. Florence was Foundation which provides funds for high school tennis and swimming. president of the NEw YoRK CITY ALUMNAE AssociATION and currently serves on its board.
When the new cruise ship Dawn Princess was launched, AMY and ANNIE SMITH, Stanford, composers of the tune The Princess Caribbean Twins, sang and choreographed dance movements with passengers on the inaugural cruise, which included media coverage with the cast from the television Loveboat series. They have performed for former President and Mrs. Ford at the Betty Ford Invitational in Rancho Mirage to In the re-creation of the Duchess of Windsor's bedroom, these Kappas hold "Pug pillows," a favorite of the Duchess. benefit the Betty Ford Center, and
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tours through Cuba, Panama, Puerto involvement, worked out their Rico, the Caribbean and an award problems. winning Christmas tour to Alaska. Palau's trademark, the Rock The Smith sisters recently Islands, is one of her favorite sites. introduced the song Do It For Your "The islands are so gorgeous. I never Mama to promote breast cancer get tired of looking at them" she states. awareness, and performed at the "I've seen more sharks than 99 percent National Race For The Cure event in of the world will ever see. I get to swim Washington, D.C., as guests of Vice with false killer whales within a few President and Mrs. Gore. Proceeds feet of me, and swimming with turtles benefited the Susan G. Koman Breast and schools of thousands of fish is my Cancer Foundation. normal weekend activity." Yearning for a new experience, Association Action Ariel is returning to the United States for a month-long trail hike covering Indiana's First Lady JuDY AsMus 228 miles from Mt. Whitney to O'BANNON, Indiana, served as Yosemite before pursuing her career in Honorary Chairman for the another exotic locale. INDIANAPOLIS (IND.) ALUMNAE AssociATION's lOOth Anniversary DR. KATHRYN PoLESON, Iiiaho, 1\my and Annie Smith, Stanford, with Dinner/ Auction. makes children's dreams come true t_ oveboat Captain, Gavin Macleod. ANNE MAGDSICK MILLER, Purdue, through the Piano Santa Foundation. and AMY SNYDER, Indiana, process An all-volunteer agency, the PSF in were guest entertainers of former receipts with monies shared for their Portland, Ore., helps children ages President and Mrs. Reagan for the Kappa philanthropies and Coburn seven to 13 from low-income families House Ear Institute Benefit in Beverly Place, a local residential facility for learn about music and playing the Hills, Calif. battered women. piano. Amy and Annie raise money as The PSF scholarships are a singers, writers and auctioneers for a special type of scholarship. When a number of organizations. They sing in student and family qualify, the concert for special events, festivals, award is the use of a piano for one national conventions and civic centers, year. A "fleet" of 30 pianos is and are well known for their USO available for student use. After the first year, six-month extensions may be given, up to three years. Student notebooks, musical events and a Anne Magdsick Miller, Purdue, and partnership between parent and Amy Snyder, Indiana child promote awareness of music study, composition and When ARIEL STEELE, Florida, performance. For more information graduated from Georgetown please contact DR. KATHRYN University Law School, she joined a PoLESON, Idaho, the Piano Santa Jaw firm in Lo Angeles, Calif., and Foundation, P.O. Box 80175, applied for and became Assistant Portland, OR 97280-0173. Attorney General of Palau. Working on this remote i land in the South Accomplished oil and acrylic artist Pacific he prosecuted criminal ca es SoNDRA McLEAN, Miami, ha been otenberry Mayfield, Arkansas, has involving drug trafficking, phy ical featured on the cover of Brown's Guide named one of the "Top 25 For Making as ault and burglarie . More fulfilling to Georgia. A elf-taught painter, she ppen in the Furniture Industry" by oint Magazine. Pat also rece1ved the wa her legal work at the Public Land combine light, tone, line and depth ssory Industry Association·s Office where he helped re olve a into her works of rural Georgia cene . nent"s Award. She was selected for di pute between the national awards for her industry work 1n government and the Koror tate BARBARA "Bo" RHooEs ERIK E , loping educational traming programs me furnishings retailers and g vernment. The t\ o leader of tho e Washington , wear her key, 50-year pin facturers. government , with teele' and Panhellenic Loyalty Award -an
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Advocacy Center, Heartland Film Children's Home, Anne leads a Bible Festival and is a former director for study group for women at the Bexar Indiana Sports Corporation. County Jail through a ministry to help incarcerated women and their GEORGANE FERGUSON LovE, families. Mississippi, was installed as President General of the Daughters of the Alumnae Abroad American Revolution at Constitution Hall in Washington, D.C. CARRIE LANESE, George
Barbara "Bo" Washington, led a tour of China for the Rhodes Eriksen, It's a coincidence that five DELTA Chinese New Year in February. Beta Washington ETA, Utah, Kappas, MARIANNE Province Director of Alumnae SusAN HANSEN JACKSON, NANETTE SMITH McDERMOTT FoRESTER, George MICHIE, MARSHA GURR RICHARDS, Washington, joined Carrie's group. antique fleur-de-lis pin BETTY Lou SINE STEWART and PAT They are both members of the commemorating years of Panhellenic SHUMWAY BOYDEN all have husbands NORTHERN NEW JERSEY ALUMNAE service. She has served as founder and who serve the Latter Day Saints as AssociATION. Carrie speaks fluent President of the Fresno Alumnae mission presidents, each directing the Chinese and works for the Columbia Panhellenic Association, Vice work of more than 150 missionaries. University Chinese Art/Cultural President of the Central California These women enjoy their Kappa Exchange program. Council of Alumnae Panhellenics and connection while working with their treasurer of the Northern California husbands. Council of Alumnae Panhellenics. Kappa Authors CALGARY(CANADA)ALUMNAE AssociATION members pieced together a beautiful "blue and blue" quilt which they sold during the 1998 General Convention, raising funds to send a delegate to their next Province Meeting.
KAY MORTON ELLERHOFF, Montana, is the Executive Editor for Chi, Minnesota, alumnae Wild Outdoor World (W.O.W.), a magazine for fourth-grade school children aimed at enhancing awareness of and appreciation for the Artist En Route The Fishing Hall of Fame, boasting By BETTY STRATTON LYNCH, Texas outdoor world and fostering a sense of a giant muskie, was visited by CHI, International Graphics the need for conservation through Minnesota, alumnae during their 128 pages, $40 articles about wild animals, wildlife annual Kappa weekend. Meeting for Twenty-five years of world travels management and healthy outdoor nearly 30 years, this group has are recorded in 90 black and white activities. Fourth-graders throughout endowed a scholarship for an and watercolor sketches as Betty por the United States receive the magazine undergraduate journalism student in trays scenes familiar to many travel free of charge through a distribution memory of classmate ELAINE ers. China, Spain, Guatemala and program sponsored by state and JoHNSON LAMPERT, Minnesota. Switzerland are among the many federal natural resource agencies, places visited and each trip produces a private groups and individuals. sketchbook of subject matter for later KATHERINE BERRY McKINNEY, paintings. Indiana, received the President's ANNE BRUCE SMITH, Texas, and Betty says, "I am not a message Award for recognition from the her husband, Paul, received the painter. My primary interest is to cre Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School President's Award for outstanding ate shapes and colors that are new and where she had served as faculty interesting to me, but are related to my community service in San Antonio, secretary. Having raised six children experiences as a traveling artist." She Texas. In addition to serving on she has remained active in the shares her lifetime of sketching and boards of the San Antonio Detention Children's Museum Guild, Family drawing with others in many work Ministries and the Presbyterian shops world-wide, including a number
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of return trips to La Romita, Italy, The Key), which tells the story of the essays about the San Juan Islands in · where she will conduct her 15th and Inchelium, a tribe that lost its homes, her native state of Washington. A 16th workshops at the turn of the gardens, church and graves with the recent collaboration with Arthur century. building of the Grand Coulee Dam. Kennedy produced an aviation Learning to draw is, Betty believes, Her most recent book, More Than biography, High Times: Keeping 'em a necessary prerequisite for painting Petticoats; Remarkable Washington Flying. creatively and she has been sketching Women, will be available this fall for and drawing as long as she can remember. Architectural forms con $9.95. TOFINDHOPE tinue to be favorite subject matter. Simple Wisdom for Those Who Grieve Artist En Route is also available for $250 in a 200-book Limited Edition with special cover and an original ink LOOKI G FOR sketch suitable for framing. For more EULABEE DIX information about Betty's work or to order her book, write to Betty Lynch, 1500 Harvard, Midland, Texas 79701. KARLENE KAY RYAN
To Find Hope - Simple Wisdom for Those Who Grieve By KARLENE KAY LowE RYAN, Cal. State, Fresno Paulist Press 59 pages, $7.95
Looking for Eulabee Dix- The "My son, Timothy Michael Ryan, Illustrated Biography of An age 19, was killed in an automobile American Miniaturist accident on April11, 1986. This book explains how I found hope." By JoANN DAvis RIDLEY, Whitman University ofWashington Press This simple statement presents the 304 pages, $45 clothbound means by which Karlene worked through her grief, in the hope that her Seattle, City By the Sound The late Victorian period provided journey will help others. She says, By LYNN BRAGG MARICH, Washington poignantly, "There are no rules for East Seattle Publishing Co. an opportunity for young women to grieving. It will take as long as it takes. 32 pages, $15.95 display their artistic talent5 and Eulabee Dix was a leading miniaturist Your way of grieving is for you. Don't Stunning photographs draw one of the time. A fascinating and try to figure it out. Give in to it." into this imple but immensely determined woman, Eulabee had great A certified bereavement counselor attractive book which transports the talent joined to "a personality that and facilitator of a growing reader into and around the city of sometimes defied understanding." community program, Karlene is an eattle, Wa h. Profes ional shots by Mark Twain, Ethel Barrymore, the author, artist and professional interior land cape photographer Doug Wilson Countess of Warwick and her titled decorator. She expresses hope and joy are supplemented by those of Lynn friends, and prominent Hollywood through beauty in her oils, watercolors Bragg and her hubsand, David Marich, and ew York personages were among and mixed media done in an to how the tall buildings, open market tho e who posed for her. Exquisite impressioni tic tyle. place, pace eedle and houseboat color sen e and bru hwork are on the lake, picturing the city's qualitie een today in collection of ver atility. Through it all run a her work at The ational Mu eum of repetitive refrain -a whim ical, Women in the Art , the mith on ian' Are you a journalist or artist? If umulative poem about the city and ational Portrait Gallery and The so, share your tale11t with Kappa hief eattle, for whom it i named. 1etropolitan Mu eum of Art. sisters. Se11d a sample a11d resume Prepared for elementary reader , it i JoAnn ha written exten ively to The Key, P.O. Box 38, Columbus, an attra tive' ord and photo tudy of about the art during her long career OH 43216-0038,fax: 614/228- eattle. a a journali tin the Pacific 7809, e-mail: [email protected]. L nn i al the author of A River orthwe t. Her fir t book, Oh haw! Lost (ft atured in pring 1996 I ue of and Other Islands, i a collection of
THE KEY · Fall199 · 45 CHALLENGE TO EXCELLENCE Challenge to Excellence Results 1997-98 Nine chapters succeeded in the Fraternity's Challenge to Challenge to Excellence Winners (1 00%) Excellence, completing 100 percent of the Challenge Region 1: ZETA THETA, Trinity; Region 4: GAMMA ALPHA, checklist. Kansas State; Region 5: EPSILON UPSILON, Baylor; GAMMA Criteria that chapters are challenged to achieve include: PHI, SMU; GAMMA Nu, Arkansas; BETA THETA, Oklahoma; •maintaining a scholastic average at least equal to the EPSILON XI, Cal. State Northridge; DELTA PI, Tulsa; campus all-sorority average each term EPSILON RHo, Texas A&M •displaying fiscal responsibility Founders Circle (95%) •maintaining Fraternity standards Region 1: DELTA Mu, Connecticut; Region 5: BETA XI, Texas; •submitting all reports on time DELTA SIGMA, Oklahoma State; DELTA Psi, Texas Tech; ZETA ·following the ritual SIGMA, North Texas; EPSILON ALPHA, TCU; Region 6: BETA ·pledging quota KAPPA, Idaho; GAMMA ETA, Washington State •maintaining chapter total In addition, eight chapters met 95 percent of the criteria Golden Key (89%) and nine chapters met 89 percent. Region 1: BETA TAu, Syracuse; GAMMA RHo, Allegheny; Congratulations to those chapters who accepted the DELTA Nu, Massachusetts; DELTA XI, Carnegie-Mellon; Challenge to Excellence 1997-98. All chapters are DELTA PHI, Bucknell; Region 3: DELTA LAMBDA, Miami encouraged to accept the Challenge for 1998-99. Regional (Ohio); Region 4: OMEGA, Kansas; GAMMA IoTA, and Province Directors of Chapters are ready to assist each Washington Univ. (St. Louis); Region 6: BETA OMEGA, chapter in fulfilling the criteria. Oregon
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Mortar Board Emily Gwyn DELTA LAMBDA, Miami EPSILON KAPPA, South Mary Beth Mock (Ohio) Carolina ALPHA a, Monmouth Marly Ellis Lisa Jacobs Allyson Behm GAMMA ZETA, Arizona Taralyn Riordan Angela Charsha Mandy Brill Courtney Sieg EPSILON Mu, Clemson Jen Goedke GAMMA IoTA, Washington Elizabeth Tucker Taryn Yakel Univ. (St. Louis) DELTA Mu, Connecticut Kara Balcewicz ZETA Mu, Virginia Tech THETA, Missouri Caroline Watson Heather Clark Beth Keith Polly Mulligan GAMMA Mu, Oregon State Cara Curran ZETA Psi, Wake Forest IoTA, DePauw Jenny Bickford Tamara Tarrant Catherine Mitchell Megan Cary Meadow Clendenin Karen Tomassetti Julia Muir Olivia Castellini Julie Miller DELTA XI, Carnegie-Mellon Rachel Hood Jill Moore Lisa Cook Phi Beta Kappa Jenny Kline GAMMA Nu, Arkansas Jodi Kurtz Kathryn Pitts IoTA, DePauw Amy Bland Vicky Solmon DELTA PI, Tulsa Megan Cary Jessica Short Keri Monninger Rachel Hood Mu, Butler GAMMA XI, UCLA Georgianne Rose Meghan Smith RHO a, Ohio Wesleyan Camryn Thomas Sarah Schobe Kate Halpin 6 RHo , Ohio Wesleyan GAMMA PHI, SMU EPSILON DELTA, Michelle Mulkern Arizona State GAMMA GAMMA, Whitman Jan Cloutier Sara White Jennifer Gunning Beth Burrow Reagan Roseberry Phoebe King SIGMA, Nebraska GAMMA DELTA, Purdue DELTA ALPHA, Becky Kai Penn State EPSILON EPSILON, Emory Kate Gapinski Cherie Green Emily Baker Molly Peelle GAMMA ALPHA, Kansas State Melanie Kramer Kelly Blount Amy Martin Meghan Marshall Megan DeYoung GAMMA XI, UCLA Stephanie Mendenhall Neely Okopal Sarah Fonder Jill Axelrod Alice Williams Adrienne Leder Casey Christensen DELTA KAPPA, Miami Brooke Hardy GAMMA DELTA, Purdue Stephanie Kermer EPSILON IOTA, Puget Sound Kate Gapinski Lara Than Emilie Nyberg DELTA KAPPA, Miami Susana Vidal
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DELTA LAMBDA, Miami EPSILON KAPPA, South ZETA TAu, Washington & Lee throughout the year. Due to (Ohio) Carolina Lillian Hallet Davis space limitations, only mem- Cory Wilson Laura Fischer Juliana Shand Edmunds bers of Mortar Board and Mary Josephine Mahoney Phi Beta Kappa honor soci- DELTA XI, Carnegie-Mellon EPSILON CHI, Dartmouth Stacy Melissa Patton eties have been listed. Jennifer Ragan Kristen B. Hinman Anne Carter Shaw Chapters that received first- Suzanne Michels DELTA PHI, Bucknell place campus/Panhellenic Lani S. Sipe ZETA Psi, Wake Forest Kim Kalaher awards may be listed in Megan Elizabeth Deardorff ZETA GAMMA, Centre future issues on a space- EPSILON GAMMA, North Ashley Anne Randolph Heather Bain available basis. Carolina Robin Lacour ETA ALPHA, Furman Katie Shinners *Compiled from Chapter Lisa Pearson Zabrina Aleguire Caroline Willingham Honors Reports received at Nicole Bolte Alyssa Wilson ZETA LAMBDA, Washington Fraternity Headquarters by Valerie Horsley & Jefferson June 1, 1998. EPSILON EPSILON, Emory 1 Amy Seman EDITOR's NoTE: The Key Lynn Bunch congratulates all chapters Emily Hunter and individuals honored Kate Moraytis
Spotlight on a says while squeezing a is no big deal:' she summer job at a graphic says. Superstar design firm into her Catherine decided Swimmer schedule of nine grueling to pledge Kappa practices a week. But she Kappa Gamma after a Listening to CATHERINE knows it will take a calm, close friend became Fox, Stanford, talk about the level-headedness for her to New Member caliber of athletes whom she reach success as a swimmer Chairman. She felt it 1 calls Kappa sisters almost or as a graphic artist. would be a good way makes you forget that she is "It's hard to balance to make new friends a gold medal Olympic swimming and school, but and extend her circle swimmer and national title it's just a matter of staying outside of swimming. holder. on top of everything and "Kappa has helped A junior, Catherine creating a support network:' me meet people and helped the Stanford she says. Her support has given me a much women's swimming team network is comprised of her more rounded view:· regain its national title. Fox close-knit family and Kappa says Catherine. defended her title in the 100 sisters. Catherine' brother Despite the backstroke with a time of and sister who both went to demanding nature of 52.71- establishing new Stanford live in San her schedule, she Catherine Fox, Stanford, won a NCAA, U.S. Open and Francisco, Calif. She also makes time for chapter gold medal in the 1996 American records. She also relies on a tight group of activities. "It gets hectic at Summer Olympics and holds a defended her title in the 50 Kappa sisters, many of certain times each quarter, national title. free tyle with a time of whom excel in softball, but everyone tries to find 22.21 and wa part of the volleyball and wimming. time to spend with one With titles to defend and 200 and 400 first-place "Friends and family keep another." future Olympic Games to medley relay team . you grounded:' Catherine Catherine isn't sure what con ider, Catherine is just Thi tudent-athlete ay. the future hold . Her major focusing on enjoying from Roeland, Kan., i The number of i tudio art de ign and friend and wimming. he urpri ingly grounded ucce ful, even Olympic, urban tudie with a focu i e pecially grateful for her de pite the fame he ha athlete at tanford help on architecture, which he Kappa ties. "Kappa ha earn d at uch a young age. atherine forget that he has balance with a demanding provided me with lots of At the 1996 lympic ame achie ed any ort of training chedule. And laugh and people who in tlanta, Ga., ath rine notoriety. "There are o although he hope to under tand me:' atherine e ured two gold medal a many uper tar at tanford graduate within four year , ay . And thi i important part f . . relay team . and within Kappa that atherine i not putting when you're a campus "It' important t ke p a winning an lympic medal pre ure on her elf. uper tar. balan e in lifl :· atherine
THE Kn · Fal1199 · 47 Good Ideas DELTA PI, Tulsa, invited OMEGA, Kansas, the campus chaplain to "Owl Groups" During house speak about religious include six to eight orientation, GAMMA XI, diversity. Thanks to the members who share UCLA, members hand out success of the program, the similar majors. Each adjectives representing chapter intends to invite group, led by a values as part of the LOVE the chaplain back and senior member, program (Living Our consider the issue in future monitors members' Values Everyday) . programming. classes, keeps an Members are asked to ongoing progress place small paper Elizabeth Verderber, Emily Emerson ZETA GAMMA, Centre, report and offers Amanda Wilkins, Deborah Madden a umbrellas around the members offer to watch suggestions for Blythe Marlow, all members of Gam! house as a reminder of faculty members' children academic success. Alpha, Kansas State, spent Spring Break in New Orleans building hous1 their chosen "umbrella" while they spend an values. low-income communities for Habitati evening out shopping, FUN· Humanity. dining or doing errands. Raisers of a more-than-2,000- EPSILON XI, Cal. State member student volunteer Northridge, hosted the first group. The chapter also annual "Kappa Klassic Golf runs an annual cotton Tournament:' The event, candy booth. which raised $2,500 for the National Society for UPSILON, Northwestern, Missing and Exploited members regularly play Children, was coordinated host to the children of Off by gymnast and Olympic the Street Club, Chicago's gold medalist, Mitch oldest boys and girls club. Gaylord. This year, members organized a flag football Every October, ZETA tournament that included IoTA, Villanova, the children and raised participates in the Special Christina Waggoner, Cal. State Northridge; Katie Smith, Cal. funds for the club, and held Olympics Fall Festival on State Northridge; and Meredith Marcus, Cal. State Northridge, a Halloween pumpkin campus. Memberstake met with Olympic gymnast Mitch Gaylord and alumna Michele decorating contest. Girls Krasnoo, Cal. State Northridge; during their first-ever Kappa part in all aspects of the from OTSC also frequent Klassic Gold Tournament. weekend-long event as part the house to watch movies, make cookies and spend time with chapter members.
Send in your stories and photos! The Winter Issue of The Key will feature philanthropic and community service activities. Share your successful events Upsilon, Northwestern, enjoys decorating Halloween pumpkins with girls from Chicago's Off with others. the Street Club.
48 · THE KEY • Fall 1998 was donated by a local farmer and decorated by third-graders.
BETA OMEGA, Oregon, organized a campus-wide road race to benefit a local women's shelter. Members signed up 200 runners from 10 Greek chapters for the"Kappa 5-K."The culmination of the event was a discussion on ~uests for dinner generating £3,000 for the Santa Monica domestic violence and an ~ape Treatment Center. award ceremony for the top The Gamma Alpha, Kansas State, Earthball philanthropy finishers. Awareness created helped to raise $1,600 for the Manhattan Emergency Shelter for the homeless. GAMMA XI, UCLA, by the local news helped hosted 600 guests for the event raise $1,100. dinner during the chapter's theme song from the movie Kultural annual "Kappa Feast:' The Social Scene Men in Black. The float was Kappas effort raised more than judged on its originality UPSILON, Northwestern, $3,000 for the rape and craftsmanship. Searching for a cultural shared its victory for best way to spend the evening treatment center at the homecoming float with as a chapter, ZETA SIGMA, Santa Monica, Calif. ETA ALPHA, Furman, members of Sigma Chi North Texas, invited a Hospital. The "Feast" hosted a surprise afternoon fraternity. Members of grab-a-date social event on campus string quartet to features dishes donated both entertain and educate both chapters donned a campus intramural field. from popular local members. After performing black suits, sunglasses and Participants played with restaurants. each Beethoven selection, purple neckties and soccer balls, hula hoops, the quartet explained the danced in-line to the kickballs and squirt guns. EPSILON KAPPA, South music's origin and history. Carolina, members volunteered in the Walk-to Cure Diabetes in honor of one of their members who has the disease. The chapter sponsored a water table and raised funds in support of the Diabetes Foundation.
ZETA PI, Albertson, tarted a new tradition in celebration of its 1Oth anniversary. Members obtained the name and wi he of local homele s and abu ed women and children, and created a "giving tree." An actual tree
Kappas from 12 different universities traveled the world during the University of Pittsburgh's Semester at Sea program. The voyage consisted of various research projects, coursework and 10 stops including ports in Venezuela . Malaysia, Vietnam, Ch ina and Japan.
THE KFY • Fal1199 • 49 was nominated by her chapter for the award, which recognizes outstanding seniors.
EPSILON DELTA, Arizona State, beat out450
Zeta Sigma, North Texas, members organizations at enjoy an evening of classical music. ASU to win the Leadership Development ZETA XI, Yale, toured Award for service. The the Yale British Art Thirty Epsilon Upsilon, Baylor, members and seven of chapter received their fathers spent Spring Break serving others Museum with a focus on recognition from the ASU through a Christian outreach program called Mission: women in art. After community and the Laredo. Coordinated by Meredith Parker, Baylor, the group traveled from Waco to La Primera Iglesia viewing the art, members university president. enjoyed afternoon tea. Baptista Mexicana (The First Baptist Mexican Church) in Laredo, Texas . They started their activities Chapter president by singing songs during the church service on Hoots 'N JOANNA DAVISON, Sunday. Each night the group presented messages through music and skits to local children and Monmouth, was invited as Salutes townspeople. The group then crossed the border into an honored guest to the Mexico and visited with children in an orphanage. JENNIFER SHAMI, Cal. Drive Out Breast Cancer State Northridge, was Golf Tournament in honored to meet Fred Birmingham, Ala., Rogers of Mr. Rogers sponsored by Xerox and Neighborhood, while the Breast Cancer Research Collegian Translates for volunteering for the PBS Foundation of Alabama. press tour in Pasadena, The chapter was honored Research Team Calif. Mr. Rogers was in for the more than $4,500 ALDA DEL PORTO, Westminster, Pasadena to promote his raised in support of the accompanied a team of 20 scientists and 30th anniversary special on foundation and on behalf cavers to explore the Cueva de Villa Luz, or PBS. of one of its chapter Cave of the Lighted House, in southern advisers, a breast cancer Mexico. The cave harbors perhaps the only ]ODIE GAZELLA, survivor. Alumna DoLLY type of food chain in the world that does Michigan State, was O'NEIL, Alabama, served not rely on sunlight. awarded the prestigious as chairman of the golf Alda, a biology-Spanish double major, was relied MSU Chuck Kaplan tournament. upon to translate an ancient ritual held inside the cave Spartan Spirit award. Jodi and explain the significance of the scientific research ZETA CHI, Marist, to the natives. According to Alda, the ceremony members raised $3,500 in involves collecting fish in the cave to feed natives 24 hours to help the through the spring drought. During the Ritual de la chapter's New Member Pesca de la Sardina, a native root mixed with lime is Chairman whose placed in the stream, causing the river to foam and financial aid was not push the "drunk" fish to the approved. Without the edges. "There are so many fish chapter's support she in this cave that the people can would have had to leave go in with baskets and scoop school. them up;' says Alda. The fish
Jennifer Shami, Cal. State are dried and used to feed Northridge, met Fred Rogers of families until the next crops Mr. Roger's Neighborhood while are harvested. volunteering for the PBS press tour in Pasadena.
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EDITOR's NoTE: We are delighted to be receiving so many imply that Blaine was not a blessing in their lives - only 1etters but regret that we are unable to print each one. Please the births of two daughters were a blessing. It also implies (eep writing to The Key and know that we appreciate your that Blaine is not their "own" child. He may not be their fnput. Letters are edited for clarity and length. biological child but he is their own child. And was it important to even mention that Blaine was adopted? Does that lend anything to the story? Ovarian Cancer Risk Factors I am the adoptive mother of a two-year-old girl. My husband and I love her more than words can express. I am I meant to send this letter a year ago because I was saddened for Blaine or any adopted child who might read concerned about remarks about the use of talc in the letter those sentences in The Key. While they are not biologically to the editor about ovarian cancer by SHARON BRIGGS connected to their families, they are connected by law and, BARTELS, Iowa State, (Winter 1996 Issue). I showed it to my most importantly, love. aughter Martha Twaddle, M.D., an internist and medical tlirector of a hospice in Evanston, Ill. If The Key could ever use an article about the wonderful experience of adoption (especially an international I am sharing Martha's reply to that letter because I adoption from China), I'd love to submit a story. cannot let the matter rest when I realize that from the medical standpoint there were some inaccuracies. -SARAH DouGHERTY EDWARDS, Oregon State According to Martha, "Sharon's list of risk factors for ovarian cancer is not completely accurate. The risk of EDITOR's NoTE: There was no intention of implying that an ovarian cancer is increased in those with an early adoptive child is less of a blessing than any other child. As the menopause, family history of ovarian cancer or cancer of mother of a 15-month-old daughter, and friend of several the colon, lung and prostate, a diet high in animal fat and parents of adopted children, I know that all children are the use ofiNTRAVAGINAL cosmetic talc, NOT talcum blessings. In looking back at the sentences mentioned, I agree powder in general. Estrogen replacement therapy and birth that they could have been worded more effectively. The control pills have actually been found to be PROTECTIVE Editorial Board will look more closely at future references in against ovarian cancer by putting the ovaries into an order to be more sensitive and accurate. inactive state. This is similar to the effect of pregnancy which is also protective against ovarian cancer. The blood test called the CA-125 is not used to diagnose Thank You! e disease. This is a tumor marker which is used to I received the Summer Issue of The Key magazine monitor the disease's recurrence. Unfortunately, the CA-125 yesterday and, as always, read it cover to cover that same as a great number of false positive tests and to use it as a nightt Thank you for such a quality publication. screening test in women who are not at risk would cause psychological harm and is not effective. - TRICIA PuTNAM MoNTGOMERY, Whitman The sadness is that ovarian cancer remains a very difficult tumor to diagnose and one that may not have a long-term Keep It Up! response to therapy. My hope is that Mrs. Bartels is one of The Summer Issue was an interesting edition of The Key. those fortunate souls who responds well and is cured:' I fmd the articles informative and knowledgeable. Keep up the great tradition. -BARBARA MATSON TwADDLE, Arizona -MARION SMITH DAVEY, Toronto Proper Adoption Language Caregiver Support Group I think The Key is a quality publication and I am proud that Kappa publi hes such a fine magazine. However, I was bothered As a 71-year-old Kappa I have been involved in by something I read on Page 38 of the Spring 1998 Issue. caregiving for my husband and now my son. The article "Who Cares for the Caregiver?" in the Winter 1997 lssue What bothered me was in the second paragraph of the would be most helpful to me. I read it and discarded it and article about NANCY CLAGUE CARSTEDT, orthwestern . It am now asking if it would be possible to receive another read , " he worked a a peech pathologi t in the Evanston, copy. I would like to start a group that will give support to Ill., chool y tern until they adopted a on, Blaine. hortly caregivers. after, ancy and her hu band were ble ed with nvo daughter of their own, u an and Whitney." This eems to - }UNE WELCH CALMES, Io wa State
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