L’ www.JewishFederationLCC.org Vol. 43, No. 4 n December 2020 / 5781 “Coming Together” virtually By Barbara Siegel, Federation Co-President n early November, I had the oppor- No moments of serendipity. However, the world” – still guides and reflects our pantry, assistance and referral for tunity to attend The Jewish Fed- many of the truly important elements what we do and who we are. those in need, and senior outreach. Ierations of North America annual of the GA remained. There were qual- We have continued to support Our Federation staff has done a General Assembly (GA) along with ity workshops to attend. Almost all philanthropy through our allocations fabulous job pivoting and innovating our Executive Director Alan Isaacs were related to the pandemic and in- and scholarships. Our educational and during this difficult and uncertain time. and Co-President Sherri Zucker. There cluded both inspirational and logistical cultural programs are flourishing, in- If you have not done so, try some of the were participants information for us to consider in our cluding virtual author events, the Jew- virtual programming or some of the up- from 146 Federa- own Federations. We also lamented the ish Film Festival, Israeli dancing, PJ coming socially distanced events. Vol- tions from across difficulties of not being able to meet Library and yoga. Providing these pro- unteer to help in the food pantry and the United States in person, acknowledging that we are grams virtually has increased access financially support the good work we and Canada. This a people who like to talk and hug and for many in our community. Our social are doing. We will continue to “Come year, the entire learn together. service programs are helping more peo- Together” in the best and safest ways. GA was virtual. After two days of meeting, I came ple than ever, providing food through From strength to strength. I last attended away with the following ideas: ¡ a GA in Novem- Relationship-based engagement is When a space is dedicated in the Jewish Federation building in Barbara ber 2014, outside needed more than ever to combat Siegel Washington D.C. loneliness and isolation and to cre- recognition of exceptional support, we acknowledge that gift There were national speakers (includ- ate community, safety and joy publicly and in person. However, amongst the constraints that this ing then Vice President Joe Biden, Su- ¡ Programming should be designed pandemic has imposed upon the Jewish Federation’s activities, is preme Court Justices Elena Kagan and with intentionality to help provide our ability to express, publicly and in person, our appreciation for Stephen Breyer, actress Marlee Matlin meaning and resilience while cre- that extraordinary support that we have received. and others) and breakout sessions on ating a new way in “how we do a large variety of topics. I remember Jewish” So, without further delay, the Board of Directors of the Jewish the warmth, energy and intellectual ¡ The goals of our Federation have Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties would like to acknowl- spirit of being in a room with more not changed, although currently edge and express appreciation to two generous donors for their than 1,000 leaders from around North the approach may be different. support: America. I also had the special joy of ¡ Most importantly, our current way X The Jewish Family Services food pantry will be named unexpectedly running into a very dear of operating as a Federation aligns friend from college and we were able with and strengthens our mission The Alan and Jackie Cadkin Food Pantry to attend the events and share special Our mission – “To strengthen and X The multi-purpose room at the Jewish Federation will be time together. It was real-life Jewish enrich the Jewish community by pro- named The David and Dawn Klein Community Room geography. viding and supporting philanthropic, We look forward to the time when we can celebrate these So, how was this year different? educational and social service pro- dedications in person. No famous speakers. No travel to D.C. grams, locally, in Israel and throughout
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The Jewish Federation Annual Campaign provides the resources to strengthen Ball don’t lie and enrich our Jewish community locally, in Israel and around the world. By Brian Simon, Federation Past-President “If God didn’t exist, it would be Things Happen to Good People. Rabbi food would not have a taste if it were What all of these philosophies necessary to invent him.” – Voltaire Kushner’s contention is that God does not for hunger; results are meaningless have in common is the understanding “Ball don’t lie.” – Rasheed Wallace, not punish the bad or reward the good. without effort, joy without sadness, that major shocks are unavoidable. et al He gave us free will and laws of nature, convictions without uncertainty, and Cheaters often prosper. Nice guys of- here’s a saying you might hear and does not interfere with the conse- an ethical life isn’t so when stripped of ten finish last. There is no judge mak- in a pick-up basketball game: quences. God offers only His support personal risks.” ing rulings as to our worthiness. At T“Ball don’t lie.” It has to do and love when things go bad. Viktor Frankl survived Auschwitz. least not in this world. with a sense of cosmic justice. If a We all need a lot of support and In Man’s Search for Meaning, he ar- What about God? Frankl says peo- YOU MAKE IT HAPPEN player benefits from a questionable call love right now. gued that our deepest desire is to find ple must have faith that the “whys” in
This year please consider making an additional campaign contribution in honor or memory of a loved one. and then misses his next shot, his op- Rabbi Kushner offers hope in meaning in life and that there are three life have an answer, without being able Because kindness is contagious, we would like to highlight your generosity in L’CHAYIM and notify personally those whom you honor. ponent might remind him, “Ball don’t his book. He says it’s up to us to find paths to finding meaning: through to access that answer. Kushner sees You may choose how your generosity is noted and how we share your mitzvah with the community. lie.” According to urbandictionary. meaning and purpose through our work, through love and through suffer- God as a source of comfort in a world com, “the ball struggles with adversity. I think of my ing. where tragedy is inevitable. is the unbiased friend Doug, who got a terminal cancer We’ve all done a lot of suffering It’s easier to believe in the unbi- ��� ��� ������ ���������� �� L�� � C�������� C������� S����� judge who will diagnosis in 2016, and died in 2020. I the past year. ased judge. It’s more comforting to be- ��� ��� ������ ���������� �� L�� � C�������� C������� S����� not reward the mentioned to his wife that I was sure Frankl might suggest keeping a lieve in basketballs that refuse to go in player by going in the last four years were horrific for journal. “He can reflect with pride and the hoop. But that’s too simplistic. Local �e�is� E�uca�on an� Culture (the basket) if the them, and she stopped me. joy all the richness set down in those If there is no cosmic justice, then Local �e�is� E�uca�on an� Culture Community‐wide Jewish Educa�on and Culture Programs for apparent foul was “The last four years were not hor- notes, on all the life he has already it’s up to us to work through our trage- allCommunity‐wide ages including theJewish Jewish Educa� Filmon Fes�val, and Culture Jewish Programs Author for Events,all ages Israelincluding Celebra�on, the Jewish Jew Filmish Fes�val,genealogy, Jewish Israeli Author folk indeed [bogus].” rific,” she said. “We became even clos- lived to the full... Instead of possibil- dies, to support each other and to search dancing,Events, Israel social Celebra�on, groups, etc. Jew ish genealogy, Israeli folk I find my- er. We’re good.” ities, I have realities in my past, not for purpose in our suffering. Maybe L’CHAYIMdancing, social published groups, monthly etc. to keep the Jewish community Brian self looking for a It’s a cliche to say that growth only the reality of work done, and of God will meet us along the way. informedL’CHAYIM about published local, monthly na�onal to and keep interna�onal the Jewish Jewishcommunity issues. Simon sense of cosmic comes from adversity. Nassim Nicho- love loved but of suffering suffered. Brian Simon is former president of the Communityinformed about Rela�ons local, ac�vi�esna�onal a includend interna�onal monitoring Jewish an�‐ issues. justice more and more. I know that las Taleb wrote a book called Antifrag- These are the things of which I’m most Federation. His views are not neces- Semi�smCommunity and Rela�ons issues of ac�vi�es separa�o includen of church monitoring and state an�‐ in the tragedies happen, but I like to believe ile, in which he points out that, “Some proud, though these are things which sarily those of the Federation or its Semi�sm and issues of separa�on of church and state in the community. that in the grand scheme, good is re- things benefit from shocks; they thrive cannot inspire envy.” board. Israelcommunity. Advocacy and Ini�a�ves to strengthen local Jewish communityIsrael Advocacy �es withand Ini�a�ves Israel. Holocaust to strengthen Educa�on local through Jewish the warded and bad is punished. I’m not and grow when exposed to volatility, Holocaustcommunity Museum �es with of Israel. Southwest Holocaust Florida Educa�on to middle through and high the sure anymore that this is true. randomness, disorder and stressors.” schoolHolocaust students Museum in the of Southwestcommunity. Florida to middle and high Two of the kindest people I knew Human muscle needs to be broken What do you think? school students in the community. both died in October. Cancer. The down to become stronger. Vaccines
Overseas world is living through a pandemic. work by giving the body small doses OverseasFunding to the Jewish Agency for Israel and the American L’CHAYIM wants to know! JewishFunding Joint to the �istribu�on Jewish Agency Commi for�ee Israel �J�C� and for the full American spectrum More than a million people across the of disease so that our bodies can build socialJewish services Joint �istribu�on to Israel a ndCommi Jewish�ee communi�es �J�C� for full in spectrum ��� world have died. Millions more have up natural defenses. The human psyche Send your letters & comments to [email protected] countriessocial services around to Israelthe world. and Jewish communi�es in ��� been hurt economically and scarred needs to be stressed in order to become Letters Policy Partnershipcountries around ��ether the rela�onship world. with the Hadera‐Eiron Region emotionally, and it’s not clear how more resilient. Letters must include the writer’s full name, full address and daytime phone. Letters should be inPartnership Israel. ��ether rela�onship with the Hadera‐Eiron Region long the damage will last. “The best way to verify that you no longer than 300 words. We reserve the right to edit for length and/or accuracy. Letters do in Israel. Rabbi Harold Kushner wrote a are alive is by checking if you like vari- not necessarily reflect the viewpoint of L’CHAYIM nor its advertisers. We cannot acknowledge Local Seniors Services or publish every letter received. LocalHoliday Seniors baskets Services and teen visits to seniors and senior facili�es whole book on the subject, When Bad ations,” wrote Taleb. “Remember that Holidayfor Rosh baskets Hashanah, and Hanukah teen visits and to Passover.seniors and senior facili�es Seniorsfor Rosh & Hashanah, Volunteers Hanukah Lunch Program. and Passover. EmergingSeniors & andVolunteers pressing Lunch needs Program. related to senior housing, health andEmerging sociali�a�on. and pressing needs related to senior housing, health You’re at a great and sociali�a�on. Local Case Management Services LocalNon‐sectarian, Case Management individual Services and fa mily outreach, informa�on and place in life. referralNon‐sectarian, services. individual and family outreach, informa�on and Individualreferral services. life coaching and support services. Individual life coaching and support services. It’s called Amavida. Local Emergency Services LocalFood Emergency Pantry and Services Publix food cards. EmergencyFood Pantry financial and Publix assistance food cards. grants. Educa�onEmergency and financial aid associated assistance with grants. natural disasters. Educa�on and aid associated with natural disasters. Local Community Services LocalSupport Community families Services of children with special needs. AddressingSupport families pressing of children community with n specialeeds related needs. to volunteerism, ins�tu�onalAddressing pressing coopera�on community and community needs related assessment to volunteerism, and planning.ins�tu�onal coopera�on and community assessment and planning. �e�is� Community �oun�a�on �e�is�An Communityendowment that�oun�a�on ensures the long‐term financial base of charitable,An endowment social that and ensures educa�on theal long‐term programs financial in our community. base of Needs‐basedcharitable, social college and scholarshipseduca�onal programsand study inscholarships our community. in Israel.Needs‐based college scholarships and study scholarships in ProjectsIsrael. and programs aimed at Jewish community enrichment. Projects and programs aimed at Jewish community enrichment. INDEPENDENT LIVING ASSISTED LIVING MEMORY CARE OUTPATIENT THERAPY Tour + Lunch Call 239-204-2758
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As 2020 winds down, I want to Not many Holocaust heroes are familiar thank all those who supported theBy Ida Margolis Museum and its Education mission f asked who the villains of the Ho- This season we are hoping to present photographic exhibition in his honor Kaminsky’s story is “a remarkable during the upheaval of the pandemic locaust are, most adults could name virtual programs about amazing hero- was mounted at the Jewish and Ho- story of rugged survival, unique ge- this year. With your support, we were quite a few of the perpetrators of ines Hannah Senesh, Noor Inayat Khan locaust History Museum in Mexico nius, great personal sacrifice and above able to quickly pivot our EducationI evil. However, when asked about he- and Irena Sendler. City, and on November 13, 2008, the all an insatiable desire to fight for what programs into online instruction unitsroes of the Holocaust, responses are This month’s focus on heroes will Anti-Defamation League (ADL) gave he believed to be right.” Kaminsky did for teachers and students to better meetoften limited to Oskar Schindler, Sir give a little information about Gilberto him the Courage to Care Award, cre- not tell his story for many years, but their remote learning challenges. OurNicholas Winton and perhaps the Biel- Bosques Saldivar and Aldolfo Kamin- ated in 1987 to honor rescuers of Jews when his daughter Sarah learned of it, public programming has been thriv-ski Brothers or Anne Frank, all won- sky. during the Holocaust Era. A wonderful she wrote a book, Adolfo Kaminsky: ing via numerous, well-attended Zoomderfully portrayed in film. Bosques was a Mexican career documentary was made about Bosques A Forger’s Life. There is now a docu- presentations of interesting topics and Now that you may have additional diplomat who was stationed in France in 2010 titled Visa al Paraiso (Visa to mentary film about him calledForging speakers. With the COVID-19 safetytime for film viewing and reading, it is from 1939-1943 as Mexico’s Consul Paradise). Identity. precautions in place at the Museum,an ideal time to read and learn stories General. Fleeing the German occupa- A teenager who saved lives by Perhaps you have recently read the visitors have been returning to tour theof inspirational, courageous heroes tion of Paris in May 1940, Bosques his skill as a forger was a young man name Jose Arturo Castellanos Contre- new Museum, which just celebratedof the Holocaust. Among my favorite was instructed by his government to named Adolfo Kaminsky. As a teen- ras, who as the Consul General for El it first anniversary. We hope you Holocaustwill heroes, many whom I have organize a consulate to represent Mex- ager, he joined the French Resistance, Salvador, along with Gyorgy Mandl, visit us. Please check our website for ico in Vichy, France. specializing in the forgery of identity helped save nearly 40,000 Jews and pre-purchase timed entry tickets and Once Nazi Germany documents. During World War II, Ka- Central Europeans from Nazi persecu- other information about hours, holiday had occupied France, minsky forged papers that ultimately tion by providing them with political schedule and upcoming events. Bosques directed saved the lives of more than 14,000 asylum and safety. As always, if you have any ques- consular employees Jews. This was not what he expected to The community will have the op- tions or would like to discuss how to to issue a visa to any- do with his skills, but he realized that portunity to learn more about Colonel support our mission, particularly with body wanting to flee this was a way he could be a fighter Castellanos and how he helped local a year-end gift or bequest, please con- to Mexico. Under his for humanity. He later went on to as- Holocaust survivor Rob Nossen at the tact me at 239.263.9200 or susan@ direction, visas were sist Jewish immigration to the British upcoming Holocaust Museum Virtual HMCEC.org. issued to approxi- Mandate for Palestine. He forged pa- Luncheon fundraising event on Thurs- mately 40,000 peo- pers for 30 years for different activist day, December 10. For more informa- ple, mostly Jews and groups, always without ever receiving tion, see page 6, or go to the Holocaust Spanish Civil War payment because he could not stand Museum’s website at www.HMCEC. learned about recently, are two I wrote refugees. In 1943, Bosques, his fami- any injustice. org. about earlier: Friedl Dicker-Brandeis ly and 40 consular staff members were and Roddie Edmonds. There are many arrested by the Gestapo and detained in Holocaust hero stories that GenShoah Germany for a year. SWFL presented programs about in the His feat in saving nearly 40,000 IsIs YourYour BusinessBusiness WorthWorth past, including those about Gertruda people from execution by the Third Babilinska, Chiune Sugihara, Gilbert Reich or Francoist Spain went unrec- and Eleanor Kraus, and Gino Bartali. ognized until after 2000. In 2007, a MoreMore ThanThan YouYou Think?Think?
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Lgenerous, thoughtful and loving have five grandchildren. was her children and grandchildren. Linda is survived by her husband nature. She passed away peacefully at Linda will be remembered for her The joy and delight she experienced Charles Idelson, and their three chil- home on October 19, 2020, surround- selfless and impassioned service in when with her family were insur- dren, Ileanna DiGiacinto (Jimmy) of ed by her husband, three daughters and the community as a weekly volunteer mountable. She did everything within San Diego, Jennifer Idelson of Fort grandchildren. for the Salvation Army Soup Kitchen, her power to create cherished family Myers and Monica Idelson of Los Linda was born on September and board member of the Jewish Fed- memories. Angeles. She was blessed with five 3, 1949, to Sidney and Anita Freed- eration of Lee and Charlotte Counties. Linda enjoyed entertaining and adoring grandchildren, Steele, Darrbe man in Atlanta. She graduated from Other notable volunteer roles through- hosting meals and holiday events at and Sutton Idelson, and Jonathan and Grady High School in Atlanta, attend- out the years included Brownie moth- her home. Her culinary specialties sur- Dalilah DiGiacinto. Her loving moth- ed the University of Tennessee, and er and leader, room mother at Canter- passed those found in magazines. Her er Anita Freedman, her father Sidney then graduated from Armstrong State bury School, Sunday School teacher at reputation and zest for decorating and Freedman who preceded her in death College in Savannah with a degree in Temple Beth El for 10 years, and fund- fashion preceded her in the community (2016), and her siblings Peggy Freed- Dental Hygiene. She worked as a Den- raiser for ORT. She was a devoted and all who knew her. Her homes and man, Sandra Freedman, Ken Freedman tal Hygienist for over 30 years in both member of Temple Judea and Chabad attire were always a fashion statement. (Robyn), Kathy Schwartz (Herb) and Florida and Georgia. In 1974, Linda Lubavitch. Linda was involved with Linda was loved by her friends, and Debbie Shuping (Andy) all of Atlan- married Charles Idelson, her husband the Alliance for the Arts’ ballet pro- was a faithful, honest and compassion- ta, will hold her in their hearts as their of 47 years. They moved to Fort My- gram, and was most passionate about ate friend to many. She enriched the iconic fashionista best friend. ers in 1980, and since then have re- her work at the AIDS Clinic where she lives of everyone around her with her Celebrate Hanukkah in Israel (virtually, that is!) emple Beth El’s Sisterhood and Moshe Gold, renown Israeli tour ful area of Meitar, in the Negev desert. today’s political trends and conflicts. Men’s Club cordially invite the guide and educator, will take us to the Today, Moshe and his wife reside in Moshe’s dynamic presentation Tentire community to join us for Western Wall, where the Hanukkah Moshav Beit Zayit, near Jerusalem. includes clips, pictures, maps and in- a very special Live Hanukkah Tour of story took place. About two decades ago, Moshe sights from his many years of guiding Israel via Zoom on Sunday, December Moshe was born in the U.S. His turned his love for teaching into his and teaching. For more information on 13 from 1:00 to 2:30 pm. This event is family moved to Israel when he was profession. Since then, he has both Moshe, go to www.followmoses.com. free. one year old. He grew up in the beauti- worked independently and for multiple Enjoy this exciting afternoon with organizations (most notably Ramah) as your whole family! Please register by a guide, educator and speaker. 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SLS-4266-20 L'Chayim Ad - December Hochschilds.indd 1 11/5/20 5:10 PM L'CHAYIM DECEMBER 2020 10 Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties JEWISH INTEREST How to start your wine collection By The Wine Whisperer ne thing that wine industry than a few bottles on hand, and a nice Next, consider the assortment. A having a bottle or two of reasonably studies tell us is that Ameri- variety, too, so that you and your guests good small collection will have a se- priced versions on hand for the more Ocans like instant gratification. can have some choices, and may- lection to accommodate a wide variety special dinners and occasions. Pro- Over 95 percent of wine purchased in be even a second bottle during your of tastes: a few reds, whites, rosés and secco, an enjoyable sparkler from It- the United States is consumed within a get-togethers. Instead of frantically sparklers. aly, has soared in popularity recently. week – most of it rushing to the local wine shop to pick For the reds, consider first the Also consider Cremant, another in- is enjoyed within up a bottle or two for the evening, you weight, or body of the wine, which is teresting sparkler made in France and a day or two. can have everything you need on hand. influenced by the tannins that come Germany. Winemakers Starting a small collection is easy… from the grape skins during crushing When you store it, keep the bot- are well aware and highly recommended. Here’s how. and fermentation. The more tannic the tles on their sides, which moistens of this fact, and You don’t need any sort of elabo- wine, the fuller the body. So, consider the corks and prevents leakage. And, most wines are rate cellar or wine room to store those stocking some Pinot Noir, which will as mentioned above, keep it in a dark intentionally 30 or 40 bottles you’ll want to keep be on the lighter side, a Merlot or two place where the temperature doesn’t made to be ready conveniently available. You can invest for those who prefer a medium-bodied vary much. The bottom of a closet is Jerry to drink fairly $200-$300 in a decent under-count- quaff, and Cabernet and Syrah for folks just fine. Then, invite your friends and Greenfield quickly. It also er wine refrigerator, or just keep your who like big, bold, fruity wines. offer them a selection that will please means that most people can plan a din- bottles in a dark place that has a con- On the white side, the idea of body every palate…like these new discover- ner party or other event and buy the stant temperature. The main enemies or fullness still applies, but instead of ies. wine the same day they expect their of wine are heat, light and vibration, so tannin we have to consider acidity. Secco-Bertani Red Blend Verona guests to show up. you don’t want them resting in a cute Pinot Grigio is perfect for an aperitif 2015 ($30) – The varietal is Corvina, Still, it’s a nice idea to have more little wine rack on the windowsill. during pre-dinner socializing because and the area is north and west of Ven- of its light body. Then, add a Sauvi- ice. Remarkably, this wine is aged in gnon Blanc or two, which has higher chestnut casks instead of oak, which acidity but also more pronounced fla- seems to provide a minerality on the vors of grapefruit, pineapple and cit- nose and palate. The predominant fla- rus. Finally, of course, is Chardonnay, vor is raspberry, with hints of tobacco the world’s most popular white wine. around the edges. WW 87-88 Stock both oaked and unoaked ver- McIntyre Chardonnay Santa sions, and you’re sure to please all your Lucia 2017 ($38) – A very direct style, guests. true to type, with dimensions of vanilla Rosés are becoming more popu- and peach, and a slightly oaky over- lar in the U.S. by the day, and there is tone. Pleasantly silky with a moderate an enormous range of styles to choose yet pleasing finish. WW 86 from. Judge your purchases by the col- Jerry Greenfield is the Wine - Whis or. The deeper the pink, the more body perer, a wine author, educator and and fullness the wine will have. consultant, and an adjunct professor Finally, there are the sparklers. in the wine program at Florida Gulf You don’t have to spend a fortune on Coast University. Read his blog at Champagne, though I do recommend www.winewhisperer.com.
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Register at www.JewishFederationlcc.org/Virtual-Events L'CHAYIM DECEMBER 2020 JEWISH INTEREST Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 11 How to start your wine collection Choral music during the pandemic: having a bottle or two of reasonablyIt’s not business as usual priced versions on hand for the moreBy Arlene Stolnitz special dinners and occasions. Pro- ccording to what I have read Here in Sarasota-Manatee, as in oth- After sending the singers click tracks “Taking Note: Conversations About secco, an enjoyable sparkler from It- recently, one in six Americans er locales, programs are being presented (a series of audio clues used by musi- Music in Challenging Times.” Featured aly, has soared in popularity recently. over the age of 18 sings in a virtually by groups such as the Sarasota cians), individual singers record their were Nurit Hirsh, Israeli composer of Also consider Cremant, another in-A choir. But any chance of performances, Ballet, Choral Artists and Sarasota performances at home, using a tutorial “Bashana Haba’ah;” Eleanor Epstein, teresting sparkler made in France and choral or otherwise, as we remember Orchestra, to name a few. I recently saw for help. The video file is then submit- conductor of Zemer Chai in Washing- Germany. them before the pandemic, has been a beautiful rendition of “Shalom Rav” in ted to sound editors who compile them ton, D.C.; and Ruth Westheimer, affec- When you store it, keep the bot-abandoned. It might take as long as a Zoom Shabbat service at Temple Beth into one video that mimics the sound tionately known as “Dr. Ruth. This is tles on their sides, which moistens two years to gath- Elohim in Wellesley, Massachusetts. of a live choir with the acoustics of the just a sample of the prominent people the corks and prevents leakage. And, er safely, as re- And locally, synagogues and churches synagogue. According to the director, interviewed in the series. as mentioned above, keep it in a dark ported recently in are finding new and creative ways to the results as seen in a Zoom session As I write this, I am struck by the place where the temperature doesn’t an article entitled, present music to their congregants. were spectacular. Some singers felt it idea that despite the difficulties we face, vary much. The bottom of a closet is “A Conversation: One such effort is happening with was strange singing alone and the tech- living in today’s world has given us just fine. Then, invite your friends and What Do Science a group called Nashira, The Jewish nology seemed daunting at first, but in something never seen before. Clearly, offer them a selection that will please and Data Say Chorale of Greater Philadelphia. Re- the end it was “thrilling.” the impact of Zoom technology has every palate…like these new discover- About the Near- cently, I read of how this group, like In another method, singers live- made our world smaller despite the ies. Term Future of many others, has been able to create stream together while singing into pandemic. The ability to connect with Secco-Bertani Red Blend Verona Singing?” virtual concerts by enabling singers to muted microphones to prerecorded communities throughout the U.S. and 2015 ($30) – The varietal is Corvina, Arlene Stolnitz A recent choir sing independently from their homes songs. The idea of the audience hearing beyond is a gift for which we are tru- and the area is north and west of Ven-rehearsal in Washington resulted in to produce a program of music using prerecorded voices produces a higher ly grateful during these challenging ice. Remarkably, this wine is aged in 52 people becoming infected with the the miracle of Zoom technology. The quality of sound that is not disrupted times. chestnut casks instead of oak, whichcoronavirus. Clearly the spreading of results are quite amazing to hear! by sound delays, echoes and internet Arlene Stolnitz, founder of the Sarasota seems to provide a minerality on thedroplets of water-spray during commu- The group typically meets each week interruptions, all of which can wreak Jewish Chorale, is a member of the Jew- nose and palate. The predominant fla-nal singing can cause a “superspreader” online for 90 minutes, then splits into havoc on singers’ timing and ability to ish Congregation of Venice. A retired vor is raspberry, with hints of tobaccoevent. Synagogue and church choirs, sectional parts. Their sessions include hear. There are other kinds of virtual educator from Rochester, New York, around the edges. WW 87-88 and all independent choral groups sight-singing practice, presentations performances I read about such as drive- she has sung in choral groups for over McIntyre Chardonnay Santa are greatly affected and have had to on breathing techniques, and lectures in style while listening from your car on 25 years and also sings in The Venice Lucia 2017 ($38) – A very direct style,curtail their efforts to present live per- on various topics in Jewish music, as an FM station. Chorale. Her interest in the preservation true to type, with dimensions of vanillaformances. well as preparation for virtual perfor- Several months ago, Maestro of Jewish music of all kinds has led to and peach, and a slightly oaky over- More than 12 million people work mances. Matthew Lazar of Zamir fame, pre- this series of articles on Jewish Folk tone. Pleasantly silky with a moderatein entertainment fields, according to This year for Chanukah, Nashira sented a fascinating online series called Music in the Diaspora. yet pleasing finish. WW 86 recent statistics. These include not only will host a program called “Festival of Jerry Greenfield is the Wine Whis-choirs but theaters, orchestras and dance Light,” featuring singers and dancers For a continuously updated perer, a wine author, educator andtroupes along with all their technical from Israel, Argentina and New York. consultant, and an adjunct professorsupport staff who are looking for new In the program, Artistic Director Julia calendar of events, visit in the wine program at Florida Gulf and innovative ways to present artistic Zavadsky will play a prerecorded www.JewishFederationLCC.org Coast University. Read his blog at programs during the pandemic. video of singers. Here’s how it works. www.winewhisperer.com.
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Every year, the range of doughnuts Latkes are usually made from grat- INDIGENT FUND PACESETTERS in Israeli shops becomes wider and ed potatoes or mashed potatoes. In this The Federation expresses special gratitude to our Indigent yummier. But there is a victim of the recipe, I combined them and also I Israeli love relationship with dough- added in my “secret ingredient:” fried Fund Pacesetters for the example they set for the rest of us. INDIGENT FUND PACESETTERS nuts: latkes. onions. Recommendation: You should
TheAnonymous Federation expresses special gratitudeTaryn Sasser to our Indigent Today, unless you are a recent im- make a double recipe because these Fund Pacesetters for the example they set for the rest of us. migrant from the West or a guardian of pancakes are snatched up before you Jack Cohen - Marcia Can Help Karin Fine
Naomi Bloom & Ron Wallace Sherri & Ira Zucker finish frying them. BarbaraAnonymous & Earl Magdovitz ShalomTaryn Sasser Dancers Applesauce and sour cream are the ToniJack &Cohen Stuart - MorgensteinMarcia Can Help MellowKarin Fine Mah Jongg traditional accoutrements for latkes. JackieNaomi &Bloom Alan &Cadkin Ron Wallace Sherri & Ira Zucker Some load their potato pancakes with Barbara & Earl Magdovitz Shalom Dancers both toppings, while others have strong Toni & Stuart Morgenstein Mellow Mah Jongg feelings about one over the other. How- Jackie & Alan Cadkin ever, this Hanukkah, don’t feel con- strained by these old standards. I love The Jewish Federation loves our to serve latkes just like in Israel, with GENEROUS DONORS shakshuka (eggs in a savory tomato The Jewish Federation loves our sauce), spicy schug, labneh cheese/feta cheese, hummus, and a lot of pickles and olives. Pick any of my Israeli top- GENEROUS DONORS pings and try a new topping this year. INDIGENT FUND / MARCIA CAN HELP Ingredients:
• 1 pound medium potatoes (red
Marty Freling Andrea & Gene Sipe skin are the best), cooked and PaulINDIGENT & Sylvia Simko FUND / MARCIATerri Goldberg CAN & HELP Susan Block Muriel Gillespie Edward & Beverly Drucker mashed into a smooth puree MartyCarolyn Freling Gora AndreaBarry & &Susan Gene Ebbets Sipe Ashkenazi traditions, the chances are • 1 pound large potato, grated PaulLynn && SylviaLory Kirby Simko TerriRobert Goldberg & Bette &Batson Susan Block latkes do not feature in your Chanukah • 2 medium onions, chopped and MurielEric & NancyGillespie Linkov EdwardTemple Beth& Beverly El Sisterhood Drucker celebrations. However, for most Amer- fried (fry the onions until golden CarolynTemple BethGora El Food Drive BarryTemple & JudeaSusan Ebbets ican Jews, Hanukkah would not be Ha- brown). LynnJacob & & Lory Vanessa Kirby Sax RobertHoward & Silverman Bette Batson EricGeorge & Nancy & Joyce Linkov Rosinger Temple Beth El Sisterhood nukkah without latkes. • 2 eggs TempleChavurat Beth Shalom El Food of Southwest Drive FloridaTemple Judea Although we are of Sephardic • 3 tbsp potato flour Jacob & Vanessa Sax Howard Silverman heritage, my husband and children • 1 tsp salt George & Joyce Rosinger eat latkes all year round, because the • ½ tsp black paper Chavurat Shalom of Southwest Florida magic that happens between potatoes • Canola oil for semi-deep frying
and oil cannot be achieved with any X In a big bowl, mix together the other cooking method. Forgive those grated potato, mashed potato and
FOOD PANTRY who say they make baked latkes and fried onions. Temple Beth El Victor Gold it turned out amazing. Perhaps it did X Add eggs and mix well. Temple Judea Shelly Albert come out delicious, healthier for sure, X Fold in potato flour, salt, black RuthFOOD Lefberg PANTRY Iris Mather Shalom Life Center Linda Silver but there is no chance of it coming out pepper until just combined. Temple Beth El Victor Gold X TempleRenee & Judea Rich Lane ShellyAjax Paving Albert Food Drive as juicy and mouthwatering like latkes Let the mixture rest on the side for RuthLaurie Lefberg Morris IrisJudy Mather Lefkowitz fried in oil. And my big tip for cutting about half an hour. (Batter can be ShalomSusan Hansing Life Center Linda Silver the calories of latkes in half is very made up to 5 hours in advance and ReneeChavurat & RichShalom Lane of Southwest FloridaAjax Paving Food Drive simple: take the latkes, cut them in kept in refrigerator.)
Laurie Morris Judy Lefkowitz half, and eat only one half, or just make X Drop spoonful into hot oil (350 de- Susan Hansing Chavurat Shalom of Southwest Florida them bite size. Either way, it tastes the grees). Best not to crowd the pan. same! X Fry in semi-deep oil for about three www.jewishfederationlcc.org I wanted to share one more Ha- minutes on each side.
www.jewishfederationlcc.org L'CHAYIM DECEMBER 2020 JEWISH INTEREST Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 13 L'CHAYIM DECEMBER 2020 14 Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties JEWISH INTEREST Aging Jewishly – What our traditions teach us about growing old Making virtual Chanukah together By Rabbi Barbara Aiello o how do you like it,” asked and treats. This year, light the first candle position your computer so that you and ence. According to Sephardic tradi- “ Cora as she reached into her on the evening of Thursday, December your menorah can be seen. You may tions, there is a Kabbalistic meaning Sshopping bag and retrieved a 10, and the eighth candle on Thursday, need to place your menorah on a stand for each candle. (https://www.rabbi lovely brass Chanukah menorah. “Beau- December 17. or shoebox (with a covering) so that barbara.com/jewish-holidays-blog/) tiful, Sweetie,” said Dan, as he gave his With a bit of creativity and rising your guests can view it easily. Check Assign family members to read each wife of 48 years a peck on the cheek. to the technical challenge, grandparents your lighting and take time to position meaning and take time to share your “But we’ve got a menorah. Why do we can follow several easy steps to make, lamps so that you and your menorah are thoughts. need another one?” share and enjoy their very own Virtual not in the dark. Select an ending blessing and Cora explained that she was deep Chanukah Party. Make an agenda. Use a large font concluding song. Ask the oldest fam- into planning for their family’s annual Talk with your family to select and have the agenda in front of you so ily member to make the Kohanim or Chanukah party an evening when everyone can par- that you can transition easily from each Priestly Blessing. Direct everyone to and although the ticipate. Be aware of work schedules, activity. take hands, reminding them that we are coronavirus had school schedules and time zones. Rehearse. With your Chanukah linked soul to soul and heart to heart. adversely affected Message family members and Gabbai, practice your welcome, your Conclude with a familiar song like their family tra- guests to remind them to find and directions for lighting candles and the “Oseh Shalom.” ditions, Cora was shine their menorah, purchase a box actual lighting itself. To add drama to Send a download with a list of pushing ahead. of Chanukah candles and have these your ceremony, you can invite family items to have on hand, along with Dan, however, was ready to use. (Cleaning your menorah: members to light candles individually: blessings in transliteration, the Kabbal- not convinced. https://www.rabbibarbara.com/clean “Kara, light your first candle. George, istic meaning of the candles, and song “So, Sweetie, ing-your-chanukah-menorah/) light your second candle,” etc. Offer lyrics. (https://www.rabbibarbara.com/ Rabbi Barbara Aiello how can we do Select one family member to serve individual family members a reading, chanukah-candle-lighting-blessings/) Chanukah this year? Air travel is out of as Chanukah Gabbai (assistant). This song or blessing and, with microphones From across the miles, “Chag the question, so the kids and grandkids person will obtain the Zoom connec- muted, lead the group in singing “Maoz Sameach!” won’t be here with us. And getting on tion, admit guests at the start time and Tzur.” For 10 years Rabbi Barbara Aiello the computer to make Chanukah… I unmute the microphone when you ask Don’t Rush. In the glow of the served the Aviva Campus for Senior don’t know. It seems like it could be individuals to share. Chanukah lights, take several minutes Life as resident rabbi. She now lives boring, especially for our little ones.” Encourage guests to dress up! For to quietly admire the candle flames. Ask and works in Italy where she is rabbi “At first I felt the same way,” Cora months now we’ve been living in sweat- each guest to share one or two words to of Italy’s first Reconstructionist syna- explained. “But then I realized that shirts and yoga pants. Wearing a festive describe their feelings about Chanukah. gogue. Contact her at Rabbi@Rabbi we’ve been talking with everyone on outfit will add to the Chanukah feeling. Add to the Chanukah experi- Barbara.com. the iPad. So, nu, how hard can it be to Prepare for your Chanukah expe- make a party?” rience. Gather your menorah, candles, Rabbi Barbara Aiello’s most popular Not hard at all. Chanukah offers matches, blessings, table covering and families eight nights of brilliant candles, the computer or device you plan to columns are now published in her new traditional blessings, and familiar songs use, and with your Chanukah Gabbai, book, Aging Jewishly, available on Amazon. It makes a great Chanukah gift!
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BRIEFS GAL GADOT TO STAR third place in Forbes’ annual review from the call,” said Maayan Naveh, VP at the current level or even increased. AS CLEOPATRA IN NEW with an income of $31.5 million. She of BlueGreen. (Idan Zonshine, Jerusa- Between 2015 and 2019, Ameri- FILM ADAPTATION made the bulk of her income from the lem Post) can Jews sympathized more with Israel Netflix film “Red Notice” in a year than with the Palestinians by a ratio of Gal Gadot is set to star as Cleopatra in traditional cinema was gravely affect- THE AMERICAN PUBLIC 86% to 7%. (Prof. Eytan Gilboa, BESA a new film adaptation on the Queen of ed by the Coronavirus crisis. Wonder Center for Strategic Studies, Bar-Ilan the Nile directed by Patty Jenkins, who AND ISRAEL IN THE Woman 1984, which was meant to University) collaborated with the Israeli actress on 21ST CENTURY premiere in December 2019, is now to the blockbuster Wonder Woman and Considerable majorities of Americans be released on December 25. (Naama NEW POLL: AMERICAN its upcoming sequel Wonder Woman – between 2/3 and 3/4 – have held Barak, Israel21c) 1984. highly stable favorable views of Israel. JEWS SEE RISING Israel even went up 12% in the past ANTISEMITISM “As you might have heard I teamed ISRAELI SCIENTISTS up with @PattyJenks and @LKalog- two decades – from 62% favorability The American Jewish Committee ridis to bring the story of Cleopatra, CALLED IN TO STOP TOXIC in 2000 to 74% in 2020. (AJC) has released a poll aimed at un- Queen of Egypt, to the big screen in a ALGAE BLOOM Despite the unpopularity of foreign derstanding how American Jews per- way she’s never been seen before. To IN FLORIDA LAKE aid and the sizeable U.S. military aid to ceive various antisemitic threats, as tell her story for the first time through Israeli scientists from BlueGreen Water Israel, majorities said it should be kept continued on next page women’s eyes, both behind and in front Technologies, who specialize in clean- of the camera,” Gadot tweeted. ing algae from large bodies of water, Cleopatra VII Philopator (69-30 were brought in to keep the toxic algae Bring Your Highest Expectations BCE) was the last pharaoh of the Ptol- in Lake Okeechobee from getting into emaic Kingdom of Egypt. Her rule and the St. Lucie River estuary. love affairs with the Roman Julius Cae- Lake Okeechobee covers an area sar and Mark Anthony were depicted of 2,200 sq. km. (13 times the size of Susan Glasser in the 1963 film bearing her name and the Sea of Galilee) and is a major tour- Realtor Associate starring Elizabeth Taylor and Richard ist and recreation center. Burton, making her a popular culture The algae bloom, which feeds on icon. fertilizers that flowed into the lake, 239-281-3105 Gadot’s casting created somewhat turned its normally-clear waters green- [email protected] of a storm on social media, where ish-brown with a pungent odor. Con- tact with the water can cause serious many slammed the choice of a white, John R. Wood Properties Israeli actress to portray the role in- illness. stead of an Arab or Egyptian one, while “We responded quickly to an emer- 15065 McGregor Blvd others noted that Cleopatra was in fact gency call from the Florida Depart- Ft. Myers 33908 of Greek Macedonian descent. ment of Environmental Protection. In Gadot was recently reported to a very complex logistical process, we be one of the highest-paid actress- were able to put up a control station on Fort Myers resident for over 28 years es in Hollywood this year, coming in the shores of the lake less than 36 hours
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which they affiliated had “been the tar- UAE TO IMPORT ISRAELI more important to some countries than gets of antisemitism.” 37% reported WINE FROM GOLAN a resolution of “the Palestinian prob- BRIEFS they had “taken steps to conceal their HEIGHTS, ANGERING lem.” The Iranian problem has escalat- BRIEFS Jewishness in public.” 43% of Jews ed to the level of an existential threat, continued from previous page continued from previous page between 18 and 29 had “experienced ISRAEL BOYCOTT while the Israeli-Palestinian problem well as the general public’s views on antisemitism on a college campus over MOVEMENT is not an existential threat to anyone.tanks. Furthermore, he discovered American antisemitism. the past five years.” The UAE has dealt a heavy blow to Moreover, after the “Arab Spring,”that his father had sent people to their Jews overwhelmingly believe that 74% of the general public agreed the boycott, divestment and sanctions which precipitated the collapse of re-deaths at Auschwitz. America is becoming a more antise- with the 85% of Jews who view an- (BDS) movement after it signed a deal gimes and economies and the rise of At an interfaith summit in Germany mitic and physically dangerous place ti-Zionism as inherently antisemitic. on October 28 to sell Israeli wine from the Islamic State, the fight for the “lib-he bonded with an Israeli girl and later for them to live, work and study: 82% However, only 43% of the general pub- the Golan Heights in Dubai. eration of Palestine” is not uppermostvisited her in Israel. The girl’s parents responded that antisemitism has in- lic agreed that antisemitism is getting The BDS movement said it will among Arab concerns. (Lt.-Col. (res.)welcomed him. “They hosted me like a creased over the past five years. 27% worse. (Armin Rosen, Tablet) boycott any Emirati, Arab or interna- Dr. Mordechai Kedar, Begin-Sadatlong-lost brother,” said Bernd. “I asked reported that Jewish institutions with tional company implementing the Emi- Center for Strategic Studies, Bar-Ilanthe father how he learned German and rati-Israeli normalization agreement. University) he showed me the number tattooed on (Ahmad Melhem, Al-Monitor) his forearm.... He was in Auschwitz.... THE DECORATED NAZI He took me to Yad Vashem, the Holo- THE NEW ARAB WORLD: COMMANDER’S SON WHO caust memorial in Jerusalem, and there NO LONGER UNITED JOINED THE I realized the extent of the murder and AGAINST ISRAEL ISRAELI ARMY I broke down emotionally.” It has been commonly accepted that Back in Germany, Bernd eventual- Bernd Wollschlaeger, born in 1958, there is an “Arab world” with an agen- ly converted to Judaism and completed was taught that the Holocaust was a lie da centered around the desire to see medical school. He later traveled to Is- and that his father, Arthur Wollschlae- Israel disappear and a Palestinian state rael and served in its army as a medical ger, was a war hero who was person- take its place. Yet today this world is officer. Today, he is a family physician ally awarded the Iron Cross by Adolf divided into two hostile coalitions. On in Miami, Florida. (Michael Havis, Hitler. A major turning point for Ber- one side is Iran, Iraq, Syria, Lebanon, Daily Mail - UK) nd came when Palestinian terrorists Yemen, Qatar and Gaza, supported massacred 11 members of the Israeli from the outside by Turkey, Russia WHEN JEWS SOUGHT Olympic team at the 1972 Summer and China. Against it stands Saudi Ara- REFUGE AFTER WORLD Games in Munich. His father reacted: bia, the UAE, Bahrain, Egypt, Jordan, “Look what they do to us again! They,WAR II Morocco, Sudan and Israel, supported the Jews, are tearing down our reputa-As David Nasaw recounts in The Last from the outside by the U.S. tion to make us look bad.” The mas-Million: Europe’s Displaced Persons While there was no Saudi response sacre raised a question: If Jews werefrom World War to Cold War, after to the September 2019 Iranian attack on being killed in Germany again, whenWorld War II the Allied authorities ini- Saudi oil-producing facilities or Iran’s had it happened before? tially maintained that it was wrong to attacks on oil tankers in the Persian He learned that his father’s unitdifferentiate Jews from other displaced Gulf or the Red Sea, Israel has proven terrorized Jewish villages in Russia,people. Instead, displaced persons capable of inflicting severe blows on slaughtering the locals, and tearingwere to be sorted out on a “national- Iranian forces and pro-Iranian militias out pages from the Torahs in the syn-ity basis,” which meant that a Polish in Syria. agogues to use as insulation for theirJew who had survived the death camps It turns out that there are things might share quarters with someone continued on next page who had guarded a camp in Poland. Many Polish Jews did try to return home, only to be greeted with violence from neighbors who, in some cases, "We are called to bring together the sparks to preserve single had taken possession of their houses. On July 4, 1946, in the town of Kielce, moments of radiance and keep them alive in our lives. To defy absurdity and despair and to wait for God to say again: Let there be light. And there will be light." -- Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel
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some 40 Jewish survivors were killed Arab world is really fed up with them Arab world. It is unimaginable what in a pogrom: “stoned to death, beaten and does not want to wait for them any- Arabs in the Gulf are saying about the BRIEFS to death, thrown from windows, shot, more. The Arab world does not like the Palestinians: “You ungrateful people. bayoneted,” Nasaw reports. condemnations coming from the Pales- We’ve given you billions of dollars continued from previous page When it came to resettling the ref- tinians and the accusations of treason. all these years. In the end, you spit in tanks. Furthermore, he discovered ugees, the prospect of increased Jewish They do not like seeing pictures of our face and you burn our flag.” One that his father had sent people to their immigration to Palestine, which Presi- their leaders being burned at Al-Aqsa prominent Emirati academic tweeted deaths at Auschwitz. dent Truman endorsed, exasperated the Mosque. They also do not like to hear pictures of UAE flags in the Israeli city At an interfaith summit in Germany British who still controlled the region. the PA Mufti of Jerusalem, Sheikh Mu- of Netanya. Next to them, pictures of he bonded with an Israeli girl and later Yet there was no mobilization to bring hammad Hussein, issuing a fatwa ban- the UAE flag being burned by Palestin- visited her in Israel. The girl’s parents Jewish refugees into the UK. In the ning citizens of any Arab country that ians in Ramallah and Gaza. He wrote, welcomed him. “They hosted me like a U.S., too, the number of Jews admitted normalizes relations with Israel from “My flag is being honored in Israel long-lost brother,” said Bernd. “I asked during the first years after the war was praying at Al-Aqsa. while these Palestinians are burning the father how he learned German and achingly small. I follow what is being said in the continued on next page he showed me the number tattooed on At the same time, the British gave his forearm.... He was in Auschwitz.... sanctuary to thousands from the Bal- He took me to Yad Vashem, the Holo- tic states to address labor shortages caust memorial in Jerusalem, and there in agriculture and industry. This hit I realized the extent of the murder and a snag when a doctor in London no- I broke down emotionally.” ticed that many of the Latvian men had Back in Germany, Bernd eventual- their blood types tattooed under their ly converted to Judaism and completed left arms, revealing them to have been medical school. He later traveled to Is- members of the S.S. When British min- rael and served in its army as a medical ers refused to work with the Baltic men officer. Today, he is a family physician whose S.S. tattoos they had spotted, in Miami, Florida. (Michael Havis, the National Coal Board recommended Daily Mail - UK) that they not be given jobs “where they might have to remove their shirts.” WHEN JEWS SOUGHT In late 1946, Jewish groups in the REFUGE AFTER WORLD U.S. pushed Congress to pass legisla- WAR II tion to accept 400,000 D.P.s, estimating As David Nasaw recounts in The Last that based on the proportion of Jews in Million: Europe’s Displaced Persons the D.P. camps, a good 100,000 would from World War to Cold War, after be Jews. But senators who didn’t want World War II the Allied authorities ini- to let Jews in added language exclud- tially maintained that it was wrong to ing the Jews who had fled the Polish differentiate Jews from other displaced pogroms. Meanwhile, hundreds of people. Instead, displaced persons thousands of non-Jewish Eastern Euro- were to be sorted out on a “national- peans arrived in the U.S. with little real ity basis,” which meant that a Polish examination of their wartime records. Jew who had survived the death camps (Amy Davidson Sorkin, New Yorker) might share quarters with someone who had guarded a camp in Poland. THE ARAB WORLD HAS Many Polish Jews did try to return DECIDED TO MOVE home, only to be greeted with violence FORWARD WITHOUT from neighbors who, in some cases, THE PALESTINIANS had taken possession of their houses. For the first time ever, the Palestinian On July 4, 1946, in the town of Kielce, leadership are now feeling that the
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(Khaled Abu Toameh, Gatestone Insti- the Palestinians.” steps toward normalization with Israel. tute) Hussam Arafat, a senior PLO offi- This interview constitutes a dramat- BRIEFS cial, said that Saudi Prince Bandar bin ic and dangerous development in the GULF ARABS CRITICIZE Sultan bin Abdulaziz’s criticism of Pal- traditional Saudi position toward the continued from previous page PALESTINIANS estinian leaders last week on Al-Arabi- Palestinian issue, and it is a strong in- my flag.” Several Gulf Arabs have launched un- ya was a “firm message to the Pales- dication of significant upcoming Saudi Other Arabs are asking Mahmoud precedented attacks on the Palestinian tinian leadership, a strong indication of political steps toward normalization Abbas: “Are you trying to punish an leadership, accusing them of “traffick- the Saudi leadership’s willingness and with Israel.” (Khaled Abu Toameh, Arab country simply because they want ing” in the Palestinian cause; depriv- preparation for immediate and rapid Jerusalem Post) normal relations with Israel? What ing their people of international aid; about you, Abbas? In 1993, didn’t you financial corruption; and acting against and Yasser Arafat allegedly recognize the interests of their own people. The Israel’s right to exist? Haven’t you been Palestinian people are accused of be- negotiating with Israel all these years? ing “ungrateful” toward Arab countries Haven’t you been conducting security that made many sacrifices on their be- coordination with Israel? Where is the half, gave them hundreds of millions MAKE A TRIBUTE GIFT problem, if an Arab country such as the of dollars and jobs. Popular hashtags
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Opinions and letters printed in L’CHAYIM do not necessarily reflect the views of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, its Board of Directors or staff, or its advertisers. Connecting the dots ere is an old joke for you: It is hard to practice because we have in your heart. We are told to speak to that doesn’t work, we can always thank A tourist walks up to a New lost the meaning of prayer. For many G-d “alone, each day, in our own lan- G-d for the massive amounts of bless- HYorker and asks, “How do of us, prayer is something we do “in guage – expressing our private, person- ings we receive each and every day. you get to Carnegie Hall?” The New extremis.” When times get tough, or al prayers, including our thanks, our Were we to practice this often, Yorker answers by saying, “Practice, someone close to us gets sick, we offer needs and our requests, together with a there’s no telling how exciting our practice, practice!” up a prayer to G-d. But imagine if we review of where we stand, including all lives might become. Don Miguel Ruiz, We all know that to prayed more regularly. Praying is just our thoughts and deeds.” a physician and shaman, once said, improve at anything not a request, it can be so much more It seems to me that this is some- “You don’t need to justify your love, we need to practice. – an expression of wonder, gratitude or thing we all can do. It might be a mo- you don’t need to explain your love, It doesn’t matter even humility. ment on the lanai or during a walk, or you just need to practice your love. what the subject is. It Prayer is a lot like poetry, a foreign even on your bed, but we can always Practice creates the master.” I look for- might be pickleball, language only to be employed when find a moment. It will not be an easy ward to seeing each of you performing playing the ukulele we are really in need. But imagine if practice for a novice. There might be soon at Carnegie Hall! Rabbi or learning Spanish. we used prayer often enough that we a sense of “who am I talking to?” and Rabbi Dr. Michael J. Schorin, MAPC, Michael J. Whatever your pur- felt comfortable wrapping ourselves embarrassment if someone should see BCC is a Chaplain in Lee Health’s Schorin suit might be, we all in the words as well as the “tallit.” you talking to yourself. We also might Department of Spiritual Services, and know that if we want to improve, we There is a reason why our ancestors not know what to say. Simply opening ministers at the Gulf Coast Medical must practice regularly. “davened” three times a day. But for up and confessing we don’t know what Center. So, how do you practice your Juda- us, there are significant difficulties to say is a good place to start. And if ism? In former, more religious times, in doing so. Lack of Hebrew knowl- our ancestors prayed three times a day. edge plus a lack of knowing how to No wonder, then, that we walk into a pray make for a difficult time. A long Read the current and recent prayer service (pre-COVID) and find time ago, Rebbe Nachman of Bratzlav we don’t get much out of the prayers! wrote about a practice that he favored. issues of L’CHAYIM online at Some of us might think that we haven’t It is called ‘hitbodedut.” What it means practiced enough to get much out of it. is to seclude yourself with G-d and www.JewishFederationLCC.org But I think the issue is deeper than that. tell G-d everything that is going on
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Opinions and letters printed in L’CHAYIM do not necessarily reflect the views of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, its Board of Directors or staff, or its advertisers. Abraham yesterday A spark of the divine n Hanukkah, the lights of the a spark. All of his skill and knowledge and today menorah are kindled by the in handling the tools were of no avail braham was 75 years old when accomplished a fundamental shift in Oshamash, the lead or service because he had not learned the most G-d told him to “Lech Lecha,” the Middle East peace process. light. Every menorah has such a spe- elementary principle – to light the fire. Aleave his home and journey to When G-d told Abraham, “Get up cial light, whose sole purpose is to pro- Unless we are fired with the con- a “place” he did not know. What oc- and go,” he packed his bags and left vide the spark of the others. viction of what we do, then what we do curred during his childhood that might without delay. The Abraham Accords The importance will be essentially meaningless. Unless have earned him this honor? In midrash, have just as quickly been set in motion. of the spark can be we find that we are warmed by enthu- we learn of Abram Bahrain has now formally signed a dec- seen in the following siasm, any project in which we engage as a young boy. One laration of peace with Israel, and most story: will eventually cool off. The spark that day, left alone in his recently Sudan is climbing aboard. Is- A young man kindles a world, a people or a person, father’s idol shop, raeli and Emirati airlines have agreed who had become illuminates the causes in which we are Abram destroys all to fly over Saudi Arabian airspace. A an apprentice to a involved and fires us with the energy the idols except one. merchant ship from the UAE arrived blacksmith, learned to carry through. The Maccabees of old Dad returns, sees his at Haifa Port. Abu Dhabi is ready to Rabbi during the course of proved that people who possess a spark livelihood ruined and open its embassy in Israel immediate- Solomon his training how to of the divine will leave this brand on Rabbi yells at Abram for ly. There are plans to extend an Israeli Agin hold the tongs, how history. Lawrence destroying the family pipeline bringing Gulf oil to Europe. to lift the hammer, how to smite the an- For centuries the menorah burned Dermer business. Abram told A three-billion-dollar Abraham Fund vil, and how to blow the fire with the constantly. his father, “I didn’t smash these idols, to fuel mutual entrepreneurial invest- bellows. Having finished his appren- In its light a nation walked, it was the idol in the corner. When you ments has also been launched. ticeship, he was chosen to be employed By its inspiration a people lived. left, he became jealous of the others We are watching history in the at the royal smithery. But the young – Paul Romanoff and smashed them all in an angry rage.” making. We’re still a ways off from man’s delight at his appointment soon Rabbi Solomon Agin serves at Temple Dad didn’t believe Abram and said, “I peace with all our neighbors in the re- turned to despair when he discovered Shalom in Port Charlotte. made these idols and know they’re not gion, but this a giant step forward. It’s that he had failed to learn how to kindle alive.” Abram simply replied, “How an action based on the desire to “Lech can you sell them to people as though lecha, get up and go” to a better place. they are gods?” We excitedly embrace the real possibil- The promise of Shabbat Abram’s uniqueness was not only ity of a new day in the Middle East. We recently learned a new word: ace- encing sacred time can make the rest his ability to understand the empti- hold every hope that in time the Pal- dia. It’s an ancient Greek emo- of the week and the world a little more ness of idol worship, but the strength estinians will come to the negotiating I tion and was used most widely by bearable. Heschel illustrates this by in- to stand by his convictions unafraid table as more countries sign on to the monks and theologians in the early first voking the story of Rabbi Shimeon bar of the consequences. We too must use accord. Maybe this will be the action centuries. The monk, John Cassian, de- Yochai. whatever is within our reach, to effect that smashes the conflict and encour- scribed someone af- In the Talmudic tale, Rabbi Shim- change for the good. ages peace in the Israeli-Palestinian fected by acedia, say- eon and his son spend 12 years in a In Abraham’s time, people accepted conflict. ing, “He feels such cave studying Torah. When they finally idol worship as the status quo. It took his G-d said to Abraham, “I will make bodily listlessness emerge, they see Jewish farmers toiling vision, courage and conviction to bring of you a great nation, and I will bless and yawning hunger on the land and are so horrified at their about monumental change. In our time, you. I will make your name great, and as though worn out laboring instead of studying Torah that many have accepted discord between Is- you shall be a blessing. I will bless by a long journey or fire blazes from their eyes, destroying rael and its neighbors as the status quo. those who bless you and curse those a prolonged fast. He the fields. God reproaches them,- say G-d’s message to Abraham applies to who curse you. And all the families Rabbi looks about anxious- ing “Did you emerge to destroy my Nicole us, “Lech Lecha, get up and go!” of the earth shall bless themselves by ly this way and that, world? Return to your cave.” Luna When the Abraham Accords be- you.” and sighs that none Twelve months later, God invites tween Israel and the United Arab May the name of Abraham and of the brethren come to see him...and them out and on Erev Shabbat, and they Emirates were announced in August, the Abraham Accords continue to be a frequently gazes up at the sun, as if it see an elderly man holding two bun- Americans and Israelis were surprised blessing for us all. May bloodshed no was too slow in setting, and so a kind dles of myrtle branches. The myrtle in and experienced mixed emotions of longer be the status quo. Let its false of unreasonable confusion of mind ancient times was a symbol of love, the optimism and skepticism. Could an promises and emptiness be smashed takes possession of him like a foul plant of brides. The man personifies the agreement between Israel and a Mus- and replaced with peace and prosperity darkness.” idea of Israel greeting the Sabbath as lim country be meaningful or just for all the nations of our world. Acedia describes losing a grasp on a bride. The Talmudic story ends with superficial and ceremonial? In mere Rabbi Lawrence Dermer serves at time, leading to low energy and low Rabbi Shimeon’s mind at ease. Hes- months, the Abraham Accords have Shalom Life Center in Fort Myers. spirits. It describes a state unfortunate- chel explains, “His conclusive com- ly eerily familiar to many during this fort was that in spite of all dedication period. The days are shorter and we to temporal things, there was a destiny are living on timelines unknown to us, that would save the people of Israel, a LET ME HELP YOU but profoundly impactful on our lives. commitment deeper than all interests – When will our lives return to normalcy? the commitment to the Sabbath. 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Shabbat is a time to simply be, to Shabbat calls us to holiness through give, to share, to find agreement, unity giving and sharing, harmony and hope. and harmony. We are not doomed to gaze at the sun, Shabbat is a day and time dramati- as if it was too slow in setting. We do cally different from the rest of the week not expect darkness. Instead we look at and the rest of the world. It is the op- the setting sun and feel the promise of posite of acedia, the hazy and distorted Shabbat. 239-258-110 2 [email protected] sense of time. But Shabbat does not Rabbi Nicole Luna serves at Temple stand entirely separate. Indeed, experi- Beth El in Fort Myers. L'CHAYIM DECEMBER 2020 MARKETPLACE Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 23
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Opinions and letters printed in L’CHAYIM do not necessarily reflect the views of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, its Board of Directors or staff, or its advertisers. Mai Chanukah? Counting our blessings hen I was a child and things Holy Day offerings. To each their own! What is Chanukah? troubled me, I found great But Bat Yam Temple of the Islands he Talmud asks, Mai Chanu- has remained a constant. Wcomfort in the 1954 Ed- quickly and prudently decided to main- kah? What is Chanukah? Why The development of the holiday die Fisher top 10 song, “Count Your tain the boundary between soulful wor- Tdoes the Talmud ask this ques- is emblematic of Jewish life itself. Blessings.” “When I’m worried and ship and show business. Relying on tion? Does it not know what Chanukah Movement, change and growth are the I can’t sleep I count the considerable knowledge and skill is? Perhaps it was unclear. life of our people. Our patriarchs and my blessings instead thankfully possessed by our wonderful Chanukah changed. The earli- matriarchs moved from Haran (in pres- of sheep, and I fall Tech Team volunteers, our Holy Days est sources, I and II ent day Syria) to the land of Israel, to asleep, counting my were not only spiritually fulfilling, Maccabees, books Egypt and back to Israel. Such move- blessings.” they reached far beyond the walls of that are not included ment became the pattern of Jewish life. How frequently our sanctuary to homes of congregants in the Hebrew Bi- On a religious level too, we cele- that haunting refrain and others from around the country and ble, and the histori- brate personal growth and change on has played in my other parts of the world. an Josephus, tell the Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur. Why Rabbi mind over the past Similarly, our educational and so- story of the Macca- is Chanukah one of the most widely ob- Stephen seven months! The cial justice programs, which tradition- bees’ military vic- served holidays? Because it celebrates Fuchs novelty, if ever there ally had been on hiatus between May Rabbi tory over the forces our insistence on moving forward. was one, of the pandemic has worn off. and November, stimulated hearts and Marc of Antiochus IV, the The Talmud relates a debate be- The “camping trip alone in the woods” minds not just in this country but in Sack recapture of the Je- tween the School of Hillel and the mentality that some of us could adopt Germany, South Africa and Australia rusalem Temple and its rededication. School of Shammai. The School of during the early weeks of lockdown as well. Rekindling the menorah, the Temple Shammai says that the candles should has long since given way to the harsh Personally, my wife Vickie and I candelabrum, is one small detail of this be lit eight, seven, six and so on down realities of isolation, economic hard- had looked forward for years to shar- story. The Talmud and midrashim, sev- to one. The School of Hillel says that ship, suffering and death which are ing the joy of our first grandchild’s eral hundred years after the Chanukah the candles are lit one, two, three, up the enduring “worries” of the time in Bar Mitzvah in November. The pan- event, tell a different story. Here we to eight. We practice according to the which we are now living. demic, though, forced us to forego the find the story of a small cruse of oil School of Hillel because, “one always And yet, if there is a single factor hugs and togetherness that would have that lasted for eight days. The Macca- goes up in matters of holiness; one that has sustained the Jewish people brought our far-flung family together bees are there, but their victory is less never goes down.” through the many dark nights history with great joy. We do not minimize prominent than the miracle of the light. Mai Chanukah? What is Chanu- has forced us to live through, it is our how much our experience was dimin- Today, both stories, the Maccabees’ kah? It is the story of our people mov- ability to savor and count our blessings. ished. But at the same time, we savor military prowess, and the miracle of ing forward, creating greater light as The response of Bat Yam Temple our ability to view and share the joy the light, are important. Our under- we do. of the Islands to the pandemic is a won- of Zachary’s achievement through the standing of the holiday has changed Rabbi Marc Sack serves at Temple derful example of counting our bless- miracle of modern technology. over the centuries. The power of light Judea in Fort Myers. ings in the midst of “worry.” Through many difficult periods of Instead of allowing COVID-19 history, our people have made do as to sink us, our leadership team, head- best we could and continued to find ed by Michael Hochschild and Janice blessings in difficult circumstances. ConneCt Chaddock, exhorted us to pool our Our celebration of Chanukah is a with your Jewish Community individual skills and dedicate them to prime example. From slavery in Egypt furthering the congregation’s sacred to the Inquisition in Spain to the Sho- task of providing a warm, welcoming ah in Germany and many times in be- www.facebook.com/ center of meaningful Jewish worship, tween, we have endured. And while it facebook.com/jfedsrq study, community and social justice threatens to continue to plague us, the JewishFederationLCC initiatives. Other congregations have COVID-19 pandemic will not defeat responded similarly. us either. Among the blessings we have dis- Lam-rot ha-Kol (in spite of every- covered is the miracle of our extended thing), as we say in Hebrew, we Jews The Jewish Federation Seeks reach. Passover was a prime example. have survived and thrived because The Jewish Federation Seeks Our Seder included participants not of our ability – even in the darkest of Volunteers only from Sanibel but also from as far hours – to count our blessings and trust with ForeignVolunteers Language Skills. away as Hawaii and Europe and many that the future will be better. with Foreign Language Skills. places in between. This time of COVID-19 will be Likewise, our High Holy Day wor- no different. Despite the difficulties of ship was a miracle. This year many these days, our blessings are many, and congregations spent big money on our future will be bright. costly show business technology and Rabbi Stephen Lewis Fuchs serves at professional experts to pre-record daz- Bat Yam Temple of the Islands on San- zling extravaganzas to enhance their ibel Island. Stay in touch throughout the month. 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Opinions and letters printed in L’CHAYIM do not necessarily reflect the views of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, its Board of Directors or staff, or its advertisers. Opinions and letters printed in L’CHAYIM do not necessarily reflect the views of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, its Board of Directors or staff, or its advertisers. Light and hope Holy Day offerings. To each their own! he words we use can be for a “Nothing better than a good tongue, But Bat Yam Temple of the Islands blessing or a curse. To para- nothing worse than a bad tongue!” quickly and prudently decided to main-Tphrase Dr. Abraham Heschel, The days are growing shorter as tain the boundary between soulful wor-when we write a check, each zero the winter solstice is upon us. It is at ship and show business. Relying oncounts. Words are like zeros – each this time of year that we the considerable knowledge and skill vowel, each conso- celebrate Chanukah. Lighting the thankfully possessed by our wonderful nant has meaning. candles of the menorah, adding a can- Tech Team volunteers, our Holy Days There is a won- dle for eight nights, the lights becom- were not only spiritually fulfilling, derful story told ing brighter and brighter, bringing the they reached far beyond the walls of about Rabbi Gam- message of “light and hope.” our sanctuary to homes of congregants liel. He sent his As I light each candle, I am remind- and others from around the country and servant Tobi to the ed of the many lights we share through other parts of the world. marketplace to buy the generations and through the world. Similarly, our educational and so- Rabbi an excellent piece May the kindness of our thoughts and cial justice programs, which tradition- Devora of meat. Tobi re- words bring light and love to those who ally had been on hiatus between May Buchen turned with a piece are dear, and spread to hope and peace and November, stimulated hearts and of tongue. The next day Rabbi Gam- in the world. Chag Sameach. minds not just in this country but inliel sent Tobi to the marketplace and Rabbi Devora Buchen serves at Temple Germany, South Africa and Australiaasked him to bring a bad piece of meat. Beth Shalom in Cape Coral. as well. He brought home a piece of tongue. Personally, my wife Vickie and I had looked forward for years to shar- ing the joy of our first grandchild’sGreat friends Bar Mitzvah in November. The pan- am privileged to know two ladies, do our best to love and, dare I say, en- demic, though, forced us to forego the up in years, who have shared their dure. But these heart-to-heart, bone-to- hugs and togetherness that would have I lives together for decades. They’ve bone friendships that we can form after brought our far-flung family togetherformed a household together, traveled childhood reflect who we really are and with great joy. We do not minimizetogether, and are generally inseparable. what we chose to actually value, and how much our experience was dimin-And they happen to be two of the nicest that’s why they are the greatest trea- ished. But at the same time, we savor people I know! sures of our lives. our ability to view and share the joy Over the past We move around a lot in our inter- of Zachary’s achievement through the several months, one nal exiles in America. Too many plac- miracle of modern technology. of them took quite ill, es, too many homes. So it’s not unusual Through many difficult periods of and the other never that too many of us lose track over time history, our people have made do as left her bedside not with these great treasures as we or they best we could and continued to find even for a day over resettle. Even though we have loads of 10 months and more. communication tools at our disposal blessings in difficult circumstances. Rabbi I have never seen and we start off with the best intentions Our celebration of Chanukah is a Bruce prime example. From slavery in Egypt Diamond greater devotion be- to “keep in touch,” the touch fades and to the Inquisition in Spain to the Sho- tween friends. is lost as we just get on with things. Sponsors as of 11/17. It is not too late to be a ah in Germany and many times in be- I don’t know the details of their This is very bad. sponsor. Please contact Debbie Sanford. tween, we have endured. And while it “back story,” but it doesn’t matter to Tell you what: When you’re done threatens to continue to plague us, theme. What is important and very mov- reading this, put down the paper for a Andi & Bill Horowitz COVID-19 pandemic will not defeating is that two friends can build such a bit, think about a great friend you had us either. powerful bond over the years. 30 years ago, and spend the time and Sara & Brian Krivisky & Radiology Regional Lam-rot ha-Kol (in spite of every- Hopefully, we get to marry our effort getting back in touch with them Bat Yam Temple of the Islands thing), as we say in Hebrew, we Jewsbest friend or have our marriages grow now. Believe me, it’s much more im- have survived and thrived becauseinto these deepest of friendships. But portant than anything else you have of our ability – even in the darkest ofthat is not these two ladies’ situation. planned next today! hours – to count our blessings and trustThey are simply extraordinary friends, And you know and I know, the Barbara & Barry Epstein, Karin Fine that the future will be better. although “simply” is probably not the minute you hear their voice and they Norman Love Confections, Julia Perry This time of COVID-19 will be right word. hear yours, it’s the last 30 years that no different. Despite the difficulties of Like some other creatures in the will suddenly fade away the moment Leni & Rabbi Marc Sack, Ian & Reeva Shaffer these days, our blessings are many, andnatural world, we humans are capable you rediscover that you lost but was Dean & Tami Traiger, Jill & Carlos Weil our future will be bright. of forming deep and enduring bonds never really gone! Rabbi Stephen Lewis Fuchs serves at with persons outside our birth fami- Rabbi Bruce Diamond serves at The Bat Yam Temple of the Islands on San-lies. For some of us, these connections Community Free Synagogue in Fort ibel Island. are more profound and important to Myers. Carolyn Gora, Marsha & Mike Kistler, Jim & JoAnn Lewin us than with our families, which we Marsha Weiner, Steve & Vicki Zellner Stay in touch throughout the month. Sign up for the Federation’s e-blasts. What do you think? Barbara & Hymie Alston, Judi & Richard Davis Francine Kremlin, Kushner & Kushner Attorneys L’CHAYIM wants to know! Judith Yevick Send your letters and comments to Ted Epstein, L’CHAYIM Editor, at [email protected]. Letters Policy Letters must include the writer’s full name, full address and daytime phone. Letters should be no longer than 300 words. We reserve the right to edit for length For more information on and/or accuracy. 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stand in the way of our larger impact as world-class hospitals. be a Zionist! HADASSAH Jewish lives.” He asked, I am proud of Youth Aliyah, born at a This is an organization which is Collier/Lee Chapter “What are you going time when Jewish children in Europe much needed in the world, in our com- (732) 539-4011 to do?” I said, “I don’t needed to be saved and Henrietta Szold munities, in our lives and in our hearts. know.” – our founder – went to Europe and I extend my best wishes for suc- With gratitude and thanks Then, as if it was brought back 30,000 children to Israel cess to our Board of Directors and in- Diane Schwartz “bashert,” shortly thereafter in Novem- as the start of this special program. We coming President Joyce Toub. Moving As my two-year term as president of ber 2018, I attended a Hadassah lun- now have three Youth Aliyah Villages. forward, I am happy to be a resource the wonderful Collier/Lee Chapter of cheon meeting and noticed that there Today, two million people in Is- for her and the board. Hadassah is coming to an end, it feels was no president listed on the slate of rael, out of Israel’s over 8.5 million I close with affection and gratitude strange to leave the office I have been officers. I spent lunch thinking about people, can trace their Israeli origins to all the Collier/Lee Chapter board honored to hold. But, I am also happy whether I could offer myself as a can- to a Youth Aliyah Village. I am also members who were tremendously sup- to reflect on all the fabulous Hadas- didate. “Should I do it?” “Do I want to proud of Young Judea and the role it is portive of my effort. We worked so sah women, Associates and generous do it?” “Will I do it?” Those were the playing in creating Jewish experienc- well together in our common cause. donors I met and with whom I have thoughts that ran through my mind. es for young people. I am proud to be We really are The Women Who Do! worked. Then I had an epiphany! I had a Hadassah Life Member and proud to All of this began in an unforeseen wanted to “do something” for our Jew- way. I was very impacted at a point in ish people and “I am here at this mo- Hadassah Forms New Group: 2017 when all of our lives exploded ment, when there is this need. I think I Simcha Sisters Hosts Havdalah Networking Event Stay connected all month long at with crisis events happening in Char- am supposed to do this!” The Collier/Lee Chapter of Hadassah offers women the opportunity to devel- lottesville, Virginia. It was appalling to I offered to take the presidency announces the formation of its new op friendships, and express their sup- see Neo-Nazis carrying torches through and, obviously, they elected me. group for young Jewish women in port of our Jewish values of tzedakah www.JewishFederationLCC.org American streets and screaming antise- Now after a wonderful two years Collier and Lee counties: the Simcha and tikkun olam through Hadassah’s mitic screeds. As if that wasn’t enough, for me and, hopefully, for the Collier/ Sisters. groundbreaking work in Israel and pro- in 2018 the massacre at the Tree of Lee Chapter, I can say these were years Four founding members have grams in the United States. Life building in Pittsburgh happened. filled with challenges, fun, creativity come together to develop this initiative Mark your calendar for the group’s Totally, appalling! and friendship. Years spent doing the and bring together like-minded young free inaugural event – a Zoom Havda- I was frightened and angry for all “work” we need to do for Hadassah Jewish women. Shari Harris, Stephani lah Service followed by networking, of us after those two events, but I didn’t and the people around the world im- Schwartz, Cindi Shrum and Ranata making and meeting new friends. The know they would change my life. pacted by that work, is so gratifying. Goodman are the conveners of the event will be held on Saturday, Decem- I said to my husband, “I am going I am personally proud of HMO and “Simcha Sisters,” the name chosen for ber 5 at 7:00 p.m. to do something. We have to do some- what Hadassah has meant to the devel- the group, which is organizationally a For information and to reserve thing and not let these terrible events opment of Israel’s health care and its part of the Collier/Lee Chapter of Ha- your space, email dianepschwartz@ dassah. gmail.com. Zoom links will be sent in The Simcha Sisters group supports advance of the gathering. the mission and work of Hadassah and
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Stay home.” models of resilience.” Zooming in can meet in chat rooms. It GENERATIONS OF THE SHOAH Early during the Now, months later, it would be will be interesting to find out if there SOUTHWEST FLORIDA pandemic, Raritan Val- interesting to speak to survivors. Just are themes that resonated in the past (239) 963-9347 ley Community College recently I did have the opportunity to months. If you are a 2g or a member in New Jersey recog- speak with Dahme, and she said that of GenShoah and are interested in Many survivors said stop nized that Holocaust survivors have a she still feels the same way. “We just chatting or just listening, please join comparing the Coronavirus to the unique perspective on the current situ- need to be grateful and realize how for- us virtually on Sunday, December 13 Holocaust. What do 2gs have to say? ation, and started weekly online Zoom tunate we are,” she said. at 5:00 p.m. by making a reservation at Ida Margolis meetings titled “Resilience During From speaking to a number of peo- HMCEC.org. Last April, only a few weeks into the Challenging Times: Testimonies that ple, it seems that the survivors’ perspec- The GenShoah newsletter and pandemic, some people and media Provide Hope.” During the meetings, tive on dealing with challenges would L’CHAYIM will be announcing future sources were comparing the Coronavi- be encouraging to others. I was GenShoah and Holocaust Museum rus quarantine to Anne Frank hiding in asked if children of survivors programs, including one on February an attic for years during WWII. At that also have a unique perspec- 24 with Maud Dahme and other “hid- time, NJ.com interviewed a number tive in dealing with difficult den children” as well other programs of Holocaust survivors in New Jersey, and challenging situations, in the “Heroes, Heroines and Helpers” including “hidden child,” award-win- and how they are dealing with series. In fact, a fascinating hero story ning Holocaust educator and part- the current situation. I have about Jose Arturo Castellanos will be time Southwest Florida resident Maud read only one article on this presented by the Holocaust Museum at Dahme. Although New Jersey was a topic: “COVID-19: Conversa- its virtual luncheon on Thursday, De- “hot spot” and under lockdown at that tions with 2gs,” posted by clin- cember 10. More information is avail- time, Dahme said she was grateful to ical psychologist Irit Felsen. able at HMCEC.org. be alive and not worry “about some- In previous years, we could If you would like to receive the one knocking on the door to take me get together to discuss this top- newsletter or want additional informa- away.” She continued, “Yes, there are ic. By using Zoom technolo- tion about GenShoah SWFL, email me many inconveniences but we’re here gy, we can still do it. An ideal at [email protected]. and we’re free.” Holocaust survivor Maud Dahme time to start this conversation A reminder that GenShoah has Another survivor, Rosalie Simon, and GenShoah Chair Ida Margolis can be at the Annual Pot Luck, asked for children of Holocaust sur- who lives in a large complex that had survivors gave advice on living through which will be virtual this year. After a vivors to tell their parent’s story. The a reported a number of COVID-19 a crisis. Gail Rosenthal, Director of the brief presentation about Ariel Burger’s stories need only be 500-700 words, deaths, said, “It’s a bad situation, but Holocaust Resource Center at Stockton award-winning, insightful and beauti- but should follow a certain format. Send updates and changes to the Directory below not equal to the Holocaust. There’s no University, said of the survivors, “They ful book, Witness: Lessons from Elie For more information, please email evil here, only tragedy. Obey the rules. are role models for us. They are role Wiesel’s Classroom, those who are Rochelle at [email protected]. to [email protected].
Marcia Can Help MARCIA CAN HELP, a fund of the Jewish Federation and Jewish Family Services, provides for emergency nutritional needs through our Food Pantry, gift card distribution, and crisis grants to prevent utility cut-offs, evictions, loss of transportation and other essential services without which none of us can live. Inspired by the recognition that these needs must be addressed in our community, and as a tribute to Marcia Cohen, a long-time resident of Sanibel and social activist, her husband Jack established the MARCIA CAN HELP fund in 2017.
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or at Eventbrite. myself what I can do for those who their skills and individual impact to the JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY Throughout my own have not survived,” is another piece Jewish community and, in turn, affect- OF SOUTHWEST FLORIDA turbulent path, I have of Simon Wiesenthal’s wisdom that I ing the entire community around them. (239) 566-1771 always deferred to the take seriously as a survivor and escap- JHSSWF Film Schedule on Zoom, unfortunate, tragic expe- ee from socialism, under which history Wednesdays at 3:00 p.m.: Hanukkah light riences of Jews of the immediately pre- quickly got rewritten and Jewish histo- • December 2: Chief Plager of Marina Berkovich ceding generations to fully absorb and ry got obliterated. Sanibel “Humor is the weapon of unarmed appreciate the blessings that were be- I am very grateful that local Jew- • December 9: Florence Hertzman, people. It helps people who are op- stowed upon me. I am lucky, I always ish and non-Jewish supporters and By the Pier pressed to smile at the situation that thought, not to be born in the midst friends of the Jewish Historical Soci- • December 16: Irving Berzon, pains them,” said Simon Wiesenthal of revolutions and pogroms, like my ety of SWFL continue to follow our Engineering the Future famously. grandparents; or the severest famine of activities, and going forward will help Please email [email protected] to Like you, I have been oppressed her birth region, like my mom; or the us in fulfilling our mission to preserve, receive sign-in credentials. by COVID, masks and lockdowns, but Holocaust, like so many people whose teach, educate, share and treasure the We thank you for 10 years of your I decided to retain my sense of humor names are lost forever because their history that is so unique to this region. unwavering support of our local orga- as I tell you that we are moving the entire families perished. As oil that was supposed to only nization. long-planned Jewish Historical Soci- Born just several weeks after Yuri last one night yet burned for eight, ev- Have you joined our mission yet? ety’s 10th Anniversary Celebration with Gagarin’s space flight, I always lived ery Southwest Florida Pioneer impacts Family Membership is $54; Individual Naples Mayor Bill Barnett from an with an idealistic hope of humanity not only him/herself and the immediate Membership is $36. Mail checks to: in-person to a virtual event on Thurs- working toward learning the history circle around them, but lights up with The Jewish Historical Society day, January 7 from 3:00 to 4:30 p.m. lessons so as not to repeat the same his/her presence all who are illuminat- of Southwest Florida on Zoom. This event will premiere the mistakes, not to become trapped in ed by the bright light emanating from 8805 Tamiami Trail North, 13th film in the Southwest Florida Jew- someone’s power play that would cer- within them and spreading goodness Suite # 255, Naples FL 34108 ish Pioneers documentary series, The tainly be viewed by history quite dif- for all who see it. We hope that light 833.547.7935 (833.JHS.SWFL) Mayor with a Heart about Bill Barnett, ferently from what it looks like to the will shine for you and yours forever. www.jhsswf.org ~ [email protected] four-time Mayor of the City of Naples. people caught in it. The three individuals whose sto- Virtual Museum of SWFL Tickets to this fundraiser can be pur- “Survival is a privilege which en- ries we feature during December have Jewish History http:// chased by emailing [email protected] tails obligations. I am forever asking contributed great values by bringing jewishhistorysouthwestflorida.org/ Send updates and changes to the Directory below to [email protected].
TEMPLE BETH EL CHABAD OF CHARLOTTE COUNTY REFORM ORTHODOX 16225 Winkler Road, Fort Myers, FL 33908 204 E Mckenzie St Unit B, Punta Gorda, FL 33950 Rabbi Nicole Luna Rabbi Simon Jacobson E-mail: [email protected] Phone: 941-833-3381 Learning Tree Preschool Director: : Jesyca Virnig E-mail: [email protected] Email: [email protected] IN LEE & CHARLOTTE COUNTIES Web site: www.chabadofcharlottecounty.com President: Hank Betchen Services: Saturday at 10 a.m. followed by Email: [email protected] a kiddush Phone: 239-433-0018 • Fax: 239-433-3235 Torah study: Wednesday at 8 p.m. Web site: www.templebethel.com COMMUNITY FREE SYNAGOGUE Shabbat services: 7:30 p.m. Friday; Torah study REFORM CHABAD LUBAVITCH 9:00 a.m. Saturday; B’nai Mitzah 10:30 a.m. Saturday 10868 Metro Parkway, South Fort Myers OF SOUTHWEST FLORIDA Religious & Hebrew School: 9:00 a.m.-12:30 Sunday (The Southwest Florida Masonic Center) ORTHODOX Judaica Gift Gallery P.O. Box 07144, Fort Myers, FL 33919 5620 Winkler Road Affiliated: Union for Reform Judaism Rabbi Bruce Diamond Fort Myers, FL 33919 ([email protected]) Rabbi Yitzchok Minkowicz Coordinator: Natalie Fulton Phone: 239-433-7708 • Fax: 481-9109 TEMPLE BETH SHALOM Phone: 239-466-6671 E-mail: [email protected] REFORM E-mail: [email protected] Web site: www.chabadswf.org 702 S.E. 24th Ave., Cape Coral, FL 33990 Web site: www.fortmyerssynagogue.com Services: Friday 5:15 p.m.; Saturday Kabbalah Rabbi Devora Buchen Community Sabbath eve dinner each Friday class 9 a.m.; Shacharit 10 a.m.; Kiddush at noon President: Peter Simenauer at 6:30 p.m. Minyan: Monday & Thursday 7:00 a.m. Phone: 239-772-4555 • Fax: 239-772-4625 Sabbath eve worship every Friday at 7:30 p.m. E-mail: [email protected] Light breakfast and Torah study with the rabbi CHABAD JEWISH CENTER Web site: www.templebethshalomcc.org every Saturday morning from 9:30 - 11:30 a.m. OF CAPE CORAL Services: 7:30 p.m. Friday ORTHODOX Religious School: Wednesday 4:30 - 6:00 p.m. TEMPLE JUDEA 1716 Cape Coral Pkwy. W., Cape Coral, FL 33914 Torah study with Rabbi Buchen: Shabbat 10:30 a.m. CONSERVATIVE Rabbi Yossi Labkowski Organizations: Brotherhood, Sisterhood, 14486 A&W Bulb Road, Fort Myers, FL 33908 Phone: 239-963-4770 Family Service (1st Friday of the month at 7:30 p.m.) Rabbi Marc Sack E-mail: [email protected] Marcia Can Help E-mail: [email protected] Web site: www.chabadcape.com BAT YAM TEMPLE OF THE ISLANDS President: Dan Fox Services: Friday Evening 7:30 p.m. REFORM Director of Congregational Learning: Saturday morning 9:30 a.m. followed by MARCIA CAN HELP, a fund of the Jewish Federation Meets at Sanibel Congregational Church Tab Scribner Kiddush luncheon 2050 Periwinkle Way, Sanibel Island Preschool Director: Joann Goldman Sunday morning 8:00 a.m. and Jewish Family Services, provides for emergency Rabbi Stephen L. Fuchs [email protected] Monday-Friday morning 7:00 a.m. President: Michael Hochschild Phone: 239-433-0201 • Fax: 239-433-3371 JLI Courses: Monday evening at 7:00 p.m. E-mail: [email protected] nutritional needs through our Food Pantry, gift card Phone: 971-561-7888 Weekly Torah Study: Tuesday evening 7:30 p.m. Email: [email protected] Web site: www.tjswfl.org Services: 6:15 p.m. Friday and 9:30 a.m. Hebrew School: Sunday 10:00 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Cantor: Murray Simon Jgirls: Tuesday 6:00-7:00 p.m. distribution, and crisis grants to prevent utility Web site: www.batyam.org Saturday Minyan: 9:00 a.m. Monday Religious School: Sun. 9:30 a.m.-noon; Services: 7:30 p.m. Friday (Oct-Apr) COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS cut-offs, evictions, loss of transportation 7:00 p.m. Friday (May-Sept) Wed. 4:30-6 p.m. Early childhood education: • AIPAC (American Israel Public Affairs Committee): Adult Education: Jacki Waksman - 954-653-9053 Saturday, 9:00 - 11:30 a.m. (Nov-Apr) Preschool, M-F, ages 18 months-5 years; and other essential services without “Mommy & Me,” 12 months-2 years • AJC (American Jewish Committee): Jewish Current Events: Saturday, 11:30 a.m. Brian Lipton - 941-365-4955 to 12:15 p.m. (Nov-Apr) Affiliated: United Synagogue of Conservative which none of us can live. Judaism • Anti-Defamation League: 561-988-2900 Inspired by the recognition that Write: P.O. Box 84, Sanibel, FL 33957 • B’Nai B’rith International: 941-302-4500 Affiliated: Union for Reform Judaism • Chevra Kadisha: these needs must be addressed in our SHALOM LIFE CENTER Gene Sipe - 239-841-4615 TEMPLE SHALOM CHARLOTTE TRANS DENOMINATIONAL • Generations of the Shoah SWFL: 963-9347 19691 Cypress View Drive, Fort Myers, FL 33967 • Hadassah - Collier/Lee Chapter: community, and as a tribute to Marcia Cohen, HARBOR AND THE GULF ISLANDS Diane Schwartz - 732-539-4011 REFORM Rabbi Lawrence Dermer Phone: 239-218-3433 • Hadassah - Sharon Chapter (Charlotte County): 23190 Utica Ave., P.O. Box 494675 a long-time resident of Sanibel and social activist, her E-mail: [email protected] Odette Port - 941-505-1409 Port Charlotte, FL 33949-4675 • Hazak 55+ Chapter: Web site: www.shalomlifecenter.org Rabbi Solomon Agin Joyce Rosinger - 239-437-1566 husband Jack established the MARCIA CAN HELP fund in 2017. Shabbat Evening Services 7:30 p.m. (Oct-Apr) President: Judith Migdol • Israel Bonds: Regional Headquarters: 800-622-8017 7:00 p.m. (May-Sept) Phone: 941-625-2116 • Jewish Community Services: 239-481-4449 Saturday Torah & Kabbalah Study 10:00 a.m. E-mail: [email protected] • Jewish National Fund: Web site: templeshalomfl.com Joshua Mellits, Director, Western Florida Services: 7:30 p.m. Friday CHABAD OF BONITA SPRINGS/ 941-462-1330 ext. 865 Religious school: Sunday 10 a.m. ESTERO Memorial Tree Planting in Israel - 1-800-542-8733 Beginning Hebrew: Tuesday 4:15 - 5:15 p.m. • Jewish War Veterans: Marcia Can Help ORTHODOX Post 400: Commander Harvey Charter - 239-246-3151 Advanced Hebrew: Thursday 4:15 - 5:15 p.m. 24850 Old 41 Road, Suite 20 (in the Bernwood • Mikvah Bashka of Southwest Florida: Organizations: Sisterhood Centre) Bonita Springs, FL 34135-7024 Nechamie Minkowicz - 239-822-2784 Affiliated: Union for Reform Judaism Rabbi Mendy Greenberg Help us meet these pressing needs by contributing to the MARCIA CAN HELP fund. Phone: 239-949-6900 Web site: www.JewishBonita.com For further information please contact Alan Isaacs at (239) 481-4449 or [email protected]. Services: Saturday at 10 a.m., followed by a Kiddush
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to follow all CDC safety ucation on C.F.S. Zoom. For Decem- three great ladies of our Jewish com- COMMUNITY FREE SYNAGOGUE guidelines. ber, the Tanakh’s later historical works, munity. Heartfelt condolences to the Fort Myers At 24 years, Rabbi Ezra, Nehemiah and I & II Chronicles families of Claire Witkowsky (The (239) 466-6671 Diamond’s immensely with be covered. Classes are at 7:00 “Mayor of Brookdale”), Carol Helig- popular 9:30 a.m. Sab- p.m. for an hour. For weekly reading man and Selma Zemel, all laid to rest www.fortmyerssynagogue.com bath Torah Study is our assignments, email synfree@comcast. in the Fort Myers Memorial Gardens. area’s longest-running net. We share your sadness. Along with continued “Zooming” of Jewisheducation class. Selection of Contact C.F.S. for the Zoom meet- Save Thursday, December 10 for its programs, The Community Free each week’s Torah sedra are examined ing number and passcode for all pro- the C.F.S. Hanukah First Night Cele- Synagogue has opened its door for lim- in-depth, and the lively give-and-take grams. bration in front of the synagogue, fea- ited in-person participation in Sabbath makes this 90-minute class absorbing Our congregation recently lost its turing the lighting of the Metro Meno- Eve worship starting at 7:00 p.m. each and engaging. dear friend and participant David Sen- rah, a sing-along and Hanukah treats. Friday. Those attending are required Tuesday evenings are for Adult Ed- sha. October marked the passing of
for in-person services, Torah and Kabbalah study led by Rab- Shabbat are taking place in our SLC SHALOM LIFE CENTER clubs and special events bi Lawrence Dermer with a focus on Zoom room for the time being. If you’d Fort Myers soon. In the meantime, the relevance of our timeless traditions like to learn more, please email or call. (239) 218-3433 we invite the entire com- and bringing the ancient wisdom of To- SLC also offers many other oppor- munity to connect and rah and Kabbalah into our daily lives. tunities to enhance your Jewish life and www.shalomlifecenter.org engage with us through SLC also has a dynamic Women’s learning, and further your involvement Livestream services and Circle led by Rebbetzin Robin Dermer in community service while making Shalom Life Center is Southwest Flor- Zoom meetings. with an emphasis on women’s spiritu- friends in a warm and welcoming com- ida’s warm and welcoming home for Every Friday at 7:30 p.m. we expe- ality and personal growth. munity. contemporary Jewish life with a pas- rience an uplifting, musical and mean- Bar/Bat Mitzvah preparation, To- Let your spirit soar at Shalom Life sionate commitment to community and ingful Livestream Shabbat service. To rah study, Women’s Circle Ladies Center, where community is fami- spiritual growth where everyone is al- join with us, visit www.shalomlifecen- Night, What’s Up Wednesday, Book ly, and prayer is always inspirational, ways welcome. ter.org and click on SLC TV. Club, Green Team, Yiddish Culture meaningful and musical. For more in- We are hoping to be safely welcom- Every Saturday at 10:00 a.m. SLC Club, Genesis Study Group, monthly formation, visit www.shalomlifecenter. ing everyone back into our building offers an interactive and participatory healing services and our Virtual Oneg org.
ideas and taking every ¡ The winds of change are fuel- each other’s backs. BAT YAM TEMPLE OF THE ISLANDS opportunity to benefit ing and propelling us to the point ¡ We were given insight into what Sanibel from the knowledge the where the old humor does not ap- to do when there is a challenging (732) 780-2016 seminar provided of how ply. The joke was that when a new problem. “Declare a fast,” until it to move their congrega- temple president tells a friend of is resolved. www.batyam.org tions into the future and his position he is offered “condo- ¡ We were told deep change always fulfill their mission and lences” instead of “congratula- meets resistance, but no one is The 22nd Annual Scheidt Seminar con- vision. tions.” We learned that we can look alone. We have a movement and vened online for Congregational Pres- At this year’s seminar, 138 current back on our leadership roles with are on our journeys together. Do idents, Co-Presidents and Presidents and upcoming presidents registered great pride and a sense of contrib- not underestimate how much com- Elect from October 15-18. President to attend. The seminar has its origins in uting to something deeply mean- fort synagogues are able to pro- Michael Hochschild and 1st Vice-Pres- the philanthropy of Rudy and Honey ingful and lasting. “Condolences” vide. ident Janice Block Chaddock of Bat Scheidt of Memphis, Tennessee, where are not accepted anymore. ¡ The rabbis who led different dis- Yam Temple of the Islands joined their they served as leaders of Temple Israel ¡ The Seminar is designed to bring cussion groups all spoke of the peers from across North America via as well as the larger Reform movement. out the best in ourselves and we need for effective communication, Zoom to learn from 27 top-notch Re- They created the URJ Scheidt Seminar resolved on day one to learn as especially the importance of active form movement scholars and profes- in 1998. Since that year, the Seminar much as possible and to continue listening. Leadership should listen sionals. Bat Yam Temple of the Islands has engaged over 1,700 congregational learning from the leadership and with compassion and realism, and was honored to have received two presidents, to learn, stay current on sig- team-building tool kits we were then make tough decisions. invitations. In past years, the Scheidt nificant developments, network, build given. ¡ There was much discussion as to Seminar had not invited more than one relationships and enhance leadership ¡ We learned how to become more whether partisan politics belonged individual from any temple belonging skills. impactful leaders and agents for on the pulpit. One answer was that to the URJ. Bat Yam Temple of the Is- A report back from Janice Block change, and were gifted the idea there is a need to talk about the lands has only had one previous presi- Chaddock and Michael Hochschild in- we are God’s partners, and two most urgent and moral questions dent, Alan Lessack, attend. The attend- cluded the following enthusiastic take- are better than one. We came to acknowledging differences but to ees networked over four days, sharing aways: understand that instead of viewing do this honestly and with respect. our work as endless temple chores, ¡ We learned the role of president we are forming sacred partnerships involves navigating new realities. social distancing will be with each other in the fulfillment An example of this was technolo- TEMPLE SHALOM enforced with masks. At of God’s work. gy competence. Our congregation Charlotte Harbor & the Gulf Islands the conclusion, a special ¡ We saw how all of us who support has embraced innovative tech plat- (941) 625-2116 Hanukkah gift bag will the temple, from clergy, commit- forms and practices, and has been be distributed to those www.templeshalomfl.com tee chairs and volunteers, officers strengthened as these communica- who attend. Many thanks and Trustees to congregants are all tion tools become our modus ope- to the Shelly and Marc God’s partners. We are engaged in randi and a means of extending our Temple Shalom has been working as a Friedman Memorial Fund. a sacred commitment. geographical reach. vibrant synagogue in Charlotte County The temple expresses appreciation ¡ We have developed partnerships We came away assured that good in meeting the needs of all who come to Shelly Harris and Mike Post for im- within our temple which have re- governance, organizational change, to its doors. proving our video capabilities with the sulted in smarter, wiser, more em- empathy and caring have put us on the During this pandemic, Temple purchase of a top-of-the-line camera pathetic leadership, and we are re- right path to our future and, most im- Shalom has updated its ability to com- with an anonymous gift from a temple solved to continue this. It is vital portantly, that no one person can do it municate with its membership. Staring member. for us to work as a team and have alone. It is all about the team. in November, the temple will have at The music for our services was least one Shabbat a month on YouTube. made possible by a gift from Kays It will resume its program of Jewish Ponder Funeral Home – a member of Current Events on the last Tuesday of the Family Funeral Homes of Dignity Sign up for the Federation’s each month. In addition, there will be Memorials. speakers who will either be on Zoom For information about Temple or YouTube. Shalom, please call 941.625.2116. weekly e-blasts. Send an email On Sunday, December 13 at 4:00 A joyous Hanukkah to all. Stay p.m., there will be the lighting of the safe and well. to [email protected]. menorah on the lawn of the temple, and L'CHAYIM DECEMBER 2020 TEMPLE NEWS Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 31
Religious school be- being an attorney. families in need at the Heights Center. TEMPLE JUDEA gan in-person classes in The next Chaverot book club meet- There is a barrel outside the synagogue Fort Myers November. Safety mea- ing is on Tuesday, December 1 at 7:00 to drop off donations for the Jewish (239) 433-0201 sures including social p.m. The book to be discussed is The Federation food pantry. Members con- distancing, wearing of Only Woman in the Room by Heather tinue to volunteer at the Harry Chapin www.tjswfl.org masks, and disinfecting Terrell. It is a fictional account of the Food Bank. all surfaces and instruc- life of inventor and actress Hedy La- Creative planning is underway to On Saturday, December 12 at 5:15 p.m., tional items before and after class are marr, born in the 1914 in Austria to a safely provide a Christmas breakfast Temple Judea will host a “Hanukkah followed. Any families wishing to Jewish father and Catholic mother. Her for the homeless and those in need. Jan Tailgating Havdalah” event in its park- enroll their children in our religious life under the Nazis and her eventual Klein and Ronnie Lamm are the coor- ing lot with social distancing and tons school should call the synagogue of- escape to the United States, where she dinators of the breakfast. of fun planned. Potato latkes, desserts fice to speak to Education Director is not only a well-known film star, but Regularly scheduled events: and drinks, as well as paper goods and Tab Scribner. Tab will lead an interac- also a talented scientist, is the focus of • “Like” the Temple Judea Facebook chairs, will be provided by the shul. At- tive and lively Tot Shabbat service via this book. page to livestream services or call tendees should bring their own tables Zoom on Friday, December 11 at 5:00 On Tuesday, January 12 at 7:00 the office for the Zoom link. Shabbat are taking place in our SLCand any other food for themselves. We p.m. All families with young children p.m., the Chaverot book club will • Friday evening Shabbat services at Zoom room for the time being. If you’d will eat, celebrate Havdalah and light are invited to participate. Zoom with the author of its next book 6:30 p.m. like to learn more, please email or call.the third night of Hanukkah candle to- Zoom cooking classes hosted by selection, Tangled in Ivy. Author Ash- • Saturday morning Shabbat ser- SLC also offers many other oppor-gether. RSVP to the synagogue office if Chaverot, Temple Judea’s Sisterhood, ley Farley will talk about her book, her vices at 9:30 a.m. tunities to enhance your Jewish life andyou would like to attend. continue on Sunday, December 20 at writing process and answer any ques- • Morning minyan every Monday learning, and further your involvement Rabbi Sack’s lunchtime Torah 11:00 a.m., when Jenean Eichenholtz, tions in her Zoom chat with us. Call the at 9:00 a.m. in community service while makingStudy is the first Thursday of each will demonstrate an easy way to make synagogue office for Zoom information • Tot Shabbat the second Friday friends in a warm and welcoming com-month at noon, with the next class on both “Muffins and Mandel Bread.” to access the Chaverot programming. night of each month at 5:00 p.m. munity. December 3. At this time, the class is Jenean is the daughter of Jan and Jed Doreen Kostel is coordinating the • Rabbi Sack’s monthly lunchtime Let your spirit soar at Shalom Lifeheld over Zoom. There is no cost to Klein, and grew up at Temple Judea. social action programs for our shul. Torah study sessions the first Center, where community is fami-attend and all levels of Jewish back- She now lives in New York and is an Members of Temple Judea will help Thursday of each month ly, and prayer is always inspirational, ground are welcome. accomplished baker in addition to to hand out food for Thanksgiving to meaningful and musical. For more in- formation, visit www.shalomlifecenter. org. pounds of donations have Changing your address? TEMPLE BETH EL been collected for 17 Fort Myers food banks in Lee Coun- Seasonal resident? Keep L’CHAYIM (239) 433-0018 ty. There is still more to do and more love to coming to your home. www.templebethel.com spread! Local food banks Email [email protected]. are specifically looking Between elections and COVID, it has for donations of tuna, peanut butter, been a stressful time, but Temple Beth soup and cereal for students choosing El is ready to celebrate Chanukah with to attend classes online during the pan- everyone! To kick off the first night, demic, since they are not eligible for Temple Beth El will hold a virtual latke school food programs. Donations can cooking demonstration, using healthy be dropped off at the front of the tem- and vegan recipes, on Thursday, De- ple building on a designated Tuesday cember 10 at 7:00 p.m. On Saturday, from 10:00 to 11:00 a.m. Monetary December 12 at 5:00 p.m., there will be donations in the form of checks can be a socially distanced festival outdoors written out to Cycle Forward, Jewish for the kids where they can show off Federation Food Bank or Harry Chapin their homemade menorahs! Food Bank, as well as mailed to Tem- The celebration continues on Sun- ple Beth El. day, December 13 at 1:00 p.m. with a Our youth are excited to partake free virtual tour of Israel led by guide in the Fort Myers chapter of BBYO, and educator Moshe Gold. Please reg- Or Shemesh. The Or Shemesh chapter ister by December 10 to reserve your is hosting a Chanukah party on Mon- spot for the virtual tour. Those who day, December 7 at 6:30 p.m. Email register are in for a surprise treat. President Jalen Goodman for details Finally, our Chanukah festivities at [email protected] or direct mes- conclude with a virtual menorah light- sage the chapter on Instagram. Anyone ing on Thursday, December 17 at 5:00 in Cape Coral, Fort Myers or Naples in p.m. The community is encouraged to eighth grade through high school and bring their menorahs to the table and interested in schmoozing with other light all eight candles together via Jewish youth in the area over Zoom Zoom. can follow the Or Shemesh chapter of All are encouraged to light Chanu- BBYO on Instagram for updates on kah candles once more on December events (Instagram: @orshemeshbbyo). 17 at 7:00 p.m. and join the Sisterhood TBE’s brand new Media and Mar- for the movie Catskills on Broadway. keting Committee is working to bring You are ensured to have two hours of ease of access and widespread knowl- laughs, laughs and more laughs! The edge of our events to you. Visit our cost per household is $18. website and follow us on Facebook Our Pet Shabbat for Parshat Noach (Temple Beth El Fort Myers) and on was a success! We enjoyed snuggling Instagram (@templebethelfortmyers) up with our furry friends and learning for updates, information and an online about Noah’s contribution to saving all community experience. creatures on this earth. All Shabbat ser- Just as the Jewish people have ris- vices are livestreamed through Face- en above challenges for years, the TBE book and accessible through Zoom. community is rising above the chal- Sign up for the Federation’s See our website or call our office at lenges COVID has presented. Come 239.433.0018 to be added to our email join our community and take part in blast list. Zoom Hebrew classes, current events weekly e-blasts. Send an email Thank you to those who have been discussions, Shabbat services on Fri- contributing to our Food and Feminine day nights and much more. We look Product Drive, organized by the TBE forward to seeing you in person soon! to [email protected]. Mitzvah Committee! 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