Holistic Newborn Care: (Almost) Everything you need to know about your baby in the 4th trimester
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Support from Manhattan Birth after you give birth – attend with your baby! www.manhattanbirth.com to register
New Moms Support Group (8 weeks – join anytime) With Jenna Bourgeois Tuesdays 10:30-1:00 in Manhattan Wednesdays 10:30-1:00 in Prospect Heights BK *Ends with optional Infant CPR/Relief of Choking class
Mother Mentoring (an online support group for 6 weeks or ongoing) With Tanya Wills, CNM, IBCLC Ongoing – www.manhattanbirth.com/mother-mentoring
Comforting Touch for Babies (4 weeks offered bimonthly) Baby Massage class With Yiska Obadia-Gedal Thursdays 11:30-12:30 – see website for dates
Walking With Whitney Understanding your baby, her cues, and her development With Whitney Burke (Occupational Therapist and mom) Offered Monthly in Manhattan – see website for dates
Infant/Toddler CPR/Relief of Choking With Sarah Lovell Offered Monthly on Monday nights Private classes also available
Lactation Consultants Tanya Wills, CNM, IBCLC Yael Borensztein, RN, IBCLC Contact us through our website
Birth & Postpartum doulas also on our website
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TABLE OF CONTENTS Title Page ...... 1 Support/Classes from Manhattan Birth for after your baby ...... 2 Table of Contents ...... 3 Introduction ...... 4 Cartoon ...... 5 Sanity Check – Our Alumni have a message for you ...... 7 How Things Change ...... 11 Where Does All the Time Go? ...... 12 Who Ya Gonna Call? Planning Support ...... 13 After The Birth, What a Family Needs ...... 14 Tips for Addressing the Baby Blues ...... 16 Your New Baby/Newborn Procedures ...... 19 Your New Baby (characteristics) ...... 20 Newborn Procedures ...... 22 Circumcision vs Breastfeeding ...... 23 Attachment Parenting/Comforting your Baby ...... 25 Attachment Parenting – The 7 Baby B’s ...... 26 The 5 S’s and Comforting your baby...... 29 Understanding your Newborn ...... 33 Infant States...... 35 Infant Cues ...... 36 March of Dimes – States of the Term Newborn ...... 37 Feeding Cues ...... 51 Diaper Counting Chart...... 52 The Benefits of Skin-To-Skin ...... 53 The Magical Hour...... 54 The Importance of Skin-to-skin Contact ...... 57 Understanding Newborn Sleep & Nighttime Parenting ...... 59 AAP Recommendations ...... 60 Sleep Tips from Elizabeth Pantly ...... 62 I Read All the Baby Sleep Books ...... 69 Co-Sleeping and Bedsharing ...... 72 ÓTanya Wills and Manhattan Birth 2018
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When Will my Baby Sleep Through the Night? ...... 84 Babywearing ...... 87 Benefits ...... 88 Choosing a Baby Carrier ...... 89 Carrier Descriptions ...... 91 Resources ...... 93 Postpartum Doulas ...... 94 Lactation Consultants (IBCLC’s) ...... 101 Pediatricians, etc...... 102 Reading and Research ...... 107
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Sanity Check!
We asked our alumni to give you advice and they jumped at the chance. Here’s what they said.
Beyond: “Enjoy sleep while you can” and “Enjoy every moment with your baby”. What other parents are saying is NORMAL:
Endless frustration, perpetual bickering with spouse. All normal and take nothing personally.
The first parent to help should be maternal grandparent not paternal grandparent. A new mom will want the right to scream at them. It’s hard to do that with paternal grandma.
Trust themselves rather than anyone" should-ing" or "supposed to-ing" them. If something is working for their family at the moment and everyone is happy or getting it done then go with it. And every phase is just that...temporary and changeable.
If you feel sad or depressed after your baby is born, that is completely normal and you shouldn't feel bad about it - it doesn't mean that you don't appreciate parenthood or aren't a good parent. If you feel overwhelmingly sad or depressed, that is also completely normal - but please talk to your doctor or another expert you trust about it.
Everyone said it would get a lot easier once the baby starts smiling at around 6- 8 weeks. Everyone was right. Hang in there.
Try not to anticipate problems and take all advice with a grain of salt. Just because it works for many families does not mean that it is necessarily right for yours.
If you are planning to breastfeed, make sure you have support lined up in advance. New moms group, supportive husband, friends who breastfeed, etc.
People will tell you to "enjoy every moment". Those people are not as sleep- deprived as you. Resist the urge to kick them. Instead, ask them to change a diaper for you or make you lunch.
Also, trust your instincts - you know that baby better than anyone.
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Nursing is a full time job. It is different for everyone and all babies are different. It can be painful, tiresome, worrisome, rewarding and beautiful all at the same time. There will be nights/days when all you think you did was nurse the baby
You will get irritated with your significant other and they will not understand your hormones, night sweats, leakage, or your exhaustion.
You may not feel like yourself at times (or all the time for a while). It may feel like you never will again...but sure enough, you will!
I also felt like we got a new baby every 10 days. Just when we were high fiving each other about our routine (haha) it would change up. The best advice we were given is BABIES BE BABIES. We literally chanted it to each other like a mantra. Don't try to make them adults or dogs or like other people's babies.
When people visit in those first days don't feel you have to entertain them. Sit down and let them take care of you, giving birth is physically taxing and you may not realize it at first. Don't overdo it with guests either. Friends were over and real life kicked in with tar poops everywhere and baby crying. That's when I realized people were at my house too late and they were inside having fun while I was dealing with new baby and feeling very overwhelmed in the other room.
Even though you SWEAR your child will not have a pacifier, if it helps you get some rest, it won't make you the worst parent in the world.
We decided that no one was allowed to come and stay with us for two weeks. Some people love the additional help, but we knew we wouldn't need it and it made a world of difference to not have anyone there judging us. In fact, once my in-laws did show up my FIL laughed at me struggling with the ring sling (not cruelly a just because it was a sight) and I didn't even attempt to use it again for six weeks.
You will get pooped on. You will have a day where your baby squirts mustard colored poop all over everything. You will get puked on. You will eventually get to a point where dried spit up in your hair is not even disgusting. You will wonder if you will ever be sexual again. If breastfeeding, your breasts hardly feel like they "belong" to you anymore. Other, bigger kids will make you crazy - like STAY AWAY FROM MY BABY crazy. News stories about bad things happening to babies the same age as your baby will paralyze you with fear in a way previously unimaginable. You will second guess a lot of decisions, and realize that everything you thought you "knew" about parenting and all that judging of other parents before you had children of your own was all really dumb and that you don't know anything for sure, because YOUR kid is one of a kind. And just because everyone else says that one sleeping
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technique, feeding routine, etc worked for all their kids does NOT mean it will work for you. But don't worry, something will.
We also severely limited visitors especially during the first two weeks, and I do not regret that decision at all. It really helped us get our bearings as parents.
Our baby was on a pretty reliable three hour cycle from early on. We found that we could deal with visitors staying for one cycle (1-2 hours) but if they stayed longer than that it really impeded our ability to function. It cut too much into our ability to sleep or stay on top of critical chores like eating and laundry.
Oh yeah... Ignore the people who tell you to ignore the laundry. Your baby is going to produce a lot of laundry. You will probably need to do laundry preserve your sanity.
Also, I remember waking up a couple times in the middle of the night in a panic that the baby was in bed and I couldn't find her... when the baby was safe and sound in her crib. I've talked to a few other people who this has happened to... maybe common? Also I woke up in soaking wet sheets for about 4-5 weeks after I delivered. I had retained so much water I was sweating it out at night. Yuck. Also, you will leak breast milk EVERYWHERE, day and night.
Trust your own instincts over anything a doctor, nurse, "parenting expert," or parenting theory says you should do. Even if you don't feel like you have any idea what to do, remain calm and look inward. Baby chose you for a reason.
Don't panic about something "not going like it should" one day, such as baby not eating much, crying more than normal, etc. Every day is different, know that some days are just off.
There is a much touted "mommy-baby bond" that others talk about, but truthfully, not all experience, especially if you have a high needs baby. If you're not feeling a bond with baby, don't worry, many others don't and you're not doing anything wrong.
Even though you're in the thick of it and you're recognizing your life is forever changed, this phase will be over before you know it and you'll get back to a "normal" life of showering regularly, fixing your hair, wearing make-up, etc.
In the days after I delivered, Jeremiah said something that helped me a lot: the post- partum blues are real and they're just a part of the experience. Just try to maintain perspective when your emotions are seeming out of control and enjoy the ride as much as you can because that is part of bringing a baby into the world. Don't fight it,
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and don't let it make you feel like you're doing something wrong if you're blue or if your feelings of overwhelm send you into tears.
Also, it takes a little while to hit ground again. It will feel like your world has been turned upside down and that may be very scary, like you've lost yourself. But in time you will get to a new normal that just looks a little different than what you had before.
During those first few days after birth when people are visiting, (and when your hormones are all out of whack) you may cry profusely when people come and become extremely protective of your baby, even to the point of telling your husband to not let anyone ask to carry the baby. It sounds crazy but this totally happened to me when my very best friend came to visit when Emma was 3 days old. We laughed about it later, but it was such an intense and strong feeling!
It probably took at least 6 weeks if not longer before I stopped feeling like I was just watching someone else's child for them. I felt very little connection between my pregnancy and my baby. When he was born I felt mostly a strong sense of responsibility to him, but now at 5.5 months I really enjoy hanging out with him. It was (and still is) a process, and your relationship with your child has to develop just like any other relationship.
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How things Change Getting Support
After the Birth, what a family needs By Gloria Lemay, midwife http://wisewomanwayofbirth.com/after-the-birth-what-a-family-needs/
“Let me know if I can help you in any way when the baby is born.” … “Just let me know if you need a hand.” … “Anything I can do, just give me a call.”
Most pregnant women get these statements from friends and family but shy away from making requests when they are up to their ears in dirty laundry, unmade beds, dust bunnies and countertops crowded with dirty dishes. The myth of “I’m fine, I’m doing great, new motherhood is wonderful, I can cope and my partner is the Rock of Gibraltar” is pervasive in postpartum land. If you’re too shy to ask for help and make straight requests of people, I suggest sending the following list out to your friends and family. These are the things I have found to be missing in every house with a new baby. It’s actually easy and fun for outsiders to remedy these problems for the new parents but there seems to be a lot of confusion about what’s wanted and needed…
1. Buy us toilet paper, milk and beautiful whole grain bread.
2. Buy us a new garbage can with a swing top lid and 6 pairs of black cotton underpants (women’s size____).
3. Make us a big supper salad with feta cheese, black Kalamata olives, toasted almonds, organic green crispy things and a nice homemade dressing on the side. Drop it off and leave right away. Or, buy us frozen lasagna, garlic bread, a bag of salad, a big jug of juice, and maybe some cookies to have for dessert. Drop it off and leave right away.
4. Come over about 2 in the afternoon, hold the baby while I have a hot shower, put me to bed with the baby and then fold all the piles of laundry that have been dumped on the couch, beds or in the room corners. If there’s no laundry to fold yet, do some.
5. Come over at l0 a.m., make me eggs, toast and a 1/2 grapefruit. Clean my fridge and throw out everything you are in doubt about. Don’t ask me about anything; just use your best judgment.
6. Put a sign on my door saying “Dear Friends and Family, Mom and baby need extra rest right now. Please come back in 7 days but phone first. All donations of casserole dinners would be most welcome. Thank you for caring about this family.”
7. Come over in your work clothes and vacuum and dust my house and then leave quietly. It’s tiring for me to chat and have tea with visitors but it will renew my soul to get some rest knowing I will wake up to clean, organized space.
8. Take my older kids for a really fun-filled afternoon to a park, zoo or Science World and feed them healthy food.
9. Come over and give my partner a two hour break to go out to a coffee shop, pub, hockey rink or some other r & r that will be a delight. Fold more laundry.
10. Make me a giant pot of vegetable soup and clean the kitchen completely afterwards. Take a big garbage bag and empty every trash basket in the house and reline with fresh bags.
These are the kindnesses that new families remember and appreciate forever. It’s easy to spend money on gifts but the things that really make a difference are the services for the body and soul described above. Most of your friends and family members don’t know what they can do that won’t be an intrusion. They also can’t devote 40 hours to supporting you but they would be thrilled to devote 4 hours. If you let 10 people help you out for 4 hours, you will have the 40 hours of rested, adult support you really need with a newborn in the house. There’s magic in the little prayer “I need help.” Tips for Addressing the Baby Blues By Lois Nightengale Taken from http://nightingalecenter.com/?p=78
1. Spend time with your baby! Remember how long you have been waiting to hold your precious angel.
2. Rest! Rest! Rest! Enjoy this time with your new baby. Let others wait on you. Enjoy being pampered for the first few days you are home (longer if you underwent a cesarean or other major complications).
3. Bring baby into your room or bed to minimize walking.
4. Avoid fixed or rigid schedules, they place undue stress on new mothers. Go with the baby’s flow and your own intuition.
5. Avoid overexertion, bothersome friends and relatives. Limit length and number of visits per day. (If uninvited guests find you in a robe they are less likely to over-stay their welcome).
6. Get up for short periods of time, some exercise is good. Do not overexert yourself. Fatigue and pain can exaggerate negative feelings. Notice when you are feeling weary.
7. Whenever your baby sleeps, rest or sleep yourself. (This is NOT the time to jump up and do those 40 chores you have been thinking about!)
8. Eat right. Have healthy snack foods on hand. Nutritious, easily prepared foods are helpful. (Send the donuts home with grandma). Make sure to eat some complex carbohydrates (bread, corn, rice, rye, potatoes, oats, whole- wheat crackers, etc.) every three hours to keep your blood sugar up.
9. Drink lots of fluids. Your body is healing, and if you are breast-feeding extra fluids are essential. Drink lots of water. Unsweetened juices are also terrific. Avoid caffeine, and empty calorie sodas. Avoid or conscientiously limit alcohol use.
10. Get help with the housework, meals and other children. Take friends up on their offers of: “If there’s anything I can do, just ask”. Don’t be afraid to ask!
11. Prioritize to conserve energy. Not all housework is equally important.
12. Thank your partner for all they are doing around the house, with meals or the older children. A little gratitude will go a long way during these days.
13. Hand squeezes, hugs and kisses between the two of you as new parents, to keep you both going.
14. Pamper yourself. Give yourself a facial, or a manicure. Condition your hair. Take a bath by yourself or with your baby. Read a frivolous book (you deserve it after months of studying only serious baby material.
15. Get outside. Enjoy the fresh air. Sit on the stoop in the early days. Later, take baby with you for a walk in a carrier. Don’t try to do too much too soon. Work up slowly. Listen to your body.
16. Surround yourself with other moms. Find groups of new mothers with whom you can talk and go do things with your babies. (Mother and baby exercise classes, park days, La Leche League, the hospital’s new Parents’ group, childbirth class reunions, your roommate in the hospital, babysitting co-ops, church, temple or synagogue groups, neighbors, or start your own group).
17. Learn relaxation techniques or meditation. Learn to make the most of the few quiet moments you have. (Remember the relation exercises from childbirth classes).
18. Focus on what you are doing. Concentrate on the present, this precious time goes by very fast.
19. Do fun things with your baby. (Baby gym classes, walks, dress him/her up in that “adorable” outfit, go to the park and feed the ducks, nature walks etc.)
20. Exercise with doctors’ approval. (Ask about specific exercises and how long you should wait to begin after delivery).
21. Be gentle with yourself, give yourself ample time to heal. The physical, hormonal and psychological recovery from pregnancy, labor and delivery may take longer than you had anticipated.
22. Take all advice with a grain of salt. Follow your own mothering intuition. You know what is best for your beautiful baby!!
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Attachment Parenting Comforting Your baby
Attachment Parenting: The 7 Baby B’s Taken from askdrsears.com
You can find more in The Baby Book by Dr. William Sears and Martha Sears, R.N.
1. Birth bonding The way baby and parents get started with one another helps the early attachment unfold. The days and weeks after birth are a sensitive period in which mothers and babies are uniquely primed to want to be close to one another. A close attachment after birth and beyond allows the natural, biological attachment-promoting behaviors of the infant and the intuitive, biological, caregiving qualities of the mother to come together. Both members of this biological pair get off to the right start at a time when the infant is most needy and the mother is most ready to nurture.
"What if something happens to prevent our immediate bonding?" Sometimes medical complications keep you and your baby apart for a while, but then catch-up bonding is what happens, starting as soon as possible. When the concept of bonding was first delivered onto the parenting scene twenty years ago, some people got it out of balance. The concept of human bonding being an absolute "critical period" or a "now-or-never" relationship was never intended. Birth bonding is not like instant glue that cements the mother-child relationship together forever. Bonding is a series of steps in your lifelong growing together with your child. Immediate bonding simply gives the parent- infant relationship a head start.
2. Breastfeeding Breastfeeding is an exercise in babyreading. Breastfeeding helps you read your baby's cues, her body language, which is the first step in getting to know your baby. Breastfeeding gives baby and mother a smart start in life. Breastmilk contains unique brain-building nutrients that cannot be manufactured or bought. Breastfeeding promotes the right chemistry between mother and baby by stimulating your body to produce prolactin and oxytocin, hormones that give your mothering a boost.
If, for some reason, you cannot breastfeed, you can still practice attachment parenting. Once again, it isn’t “all or nothing”.
3. Babywearing A baby learns a lot in the arms of a busy caregiver. Carried babies fuss less and spend more time in the state of quiet alertness, the behavior state in which babies learn most about their environment. Babywearing improves the sensitivity of the parents. Because your baby is so close to you, you get to know baby better. Closeness promotes familiarity.
4. Bedding close to baby Wherever all family members get the best night's sleep is the right arrangement for your individual family. Co-sleeping adds a nighttime touch that helps busy daytime parents reconnect with their infant at night. Since nighttime is scary time for little people, sleeping within close touching and nursing distance minimizes nighttime separation anxiety and helps baby learn that sleep is a pleasant state to enter and a fearless state to remain in.
5. Belief in the language value of your baby's cry A baby's cry is a signal designed for the survival of the baby and the development of the parents. Responding sensitively to your baby's cries builds trust. Babies trust that their caregivers will be responsive to their needs. Parents gradually learn to trust in their ability to appropriately meet their baby's needs. This raises the parent- child communication level up a notch. Tiny babies cry to communicate, not to manipulate.
6. Beware of baby trainers Attachment parenting teaches you how to be discerning of advice, especially those rigid and extreme parenting styles that teach you to watch a clock or a schedule instead of your baby; you know, the cry-it-out crowd. This "convenience" parenting is a short-term gain, but a long-term loss, and is not a wise investment. These more restrained styles of parenting create a distance between you and your baby and keep you from becoming an expert in your child.
7. Balance In your zeal to give so much to your baby, it's easy to neglect the needs of yourself and your marriage. As you will learn the key to putting balance in your parenting is being appropriately responsive to your baby – knowing when to say "yes" and when to say "no," and having the wisdom to say "yes" to yourself when you need help.
MORE ABOUT ATTACHMENT PARENTING AP is a starter style. There may be medical or family circumstances why you are unable to practice all of these baby B's. Attachment parenting implies first opening your mind and heart to the individual needs of your baby, and eventually you will develop the wisdom on how to make on-the-spot decisions on what works best for both you and your baby. Do the best you can with the resources you have – that's all your child will ever expect of you. These baby B's help parents and baby get off to the right start. Use these as starter tips to work out your own parenting style – one that fits the individual needs of your child and your family. Attachment parenting helps you develop your own personal parenting style.
AP is an approach, rather than a strict set of rules. It's actually the style that many parents use instinctively. Parenting is too individual and baby too complex for there to be only one way. The important point is to get connected to your baby, and the baby B's of attachment parenting help. Once connected, stick with what is working and modify what is not. You will ultimately develop your own parenting style that helps parent and baby find a way to fit – the little word that so economically describes the relationship between parent and baby.
AP is responsive parenting. By becoming sensitive to the cues of your infant, you learn to read your baby's level of need. Because baby trusts that his needs will be met and his language listened to, the infant trusts in his ability to give cues. As a result, baby becomes a better cue-giver, parents become better cue-readers, and the whole parent-child communication network becomes easier.
AP is a tool. Tools are things you use to complete a job. The better the tools, the easier and the better you can do the job. Notice we use the term "tools" rather than "steps." With tools you can pick and choose which of those fit your personal parent- child relationship. Steps imply that you have to use all the steps to get the job done. Think of attachment parenting as connecting tools, interactions with your infant that help you and your child get connected. Once connected, the whole parent-child relationship (discipline, healthcare, and plain old having fun with your child) becomes more natural and enjoyable. Consider AP a discipline tool. The better you know your child, the more your child trusts you, and the more effective your discipline will be. You will find it easier to discipline your child and your child will be easier to discipline.
Taken from https://happiestbaby.com/using-the-5-ss/
Dr. Harvey Karp – The Happiest Baby on the Block
The 5 S’s and some ways to comfort
All babies cry, and believe it or not, that’s actually a good thing. How else would we know if our helpless infants were cold, hungry, lonely or in pain.
During the first few months, babies fuss an average of 1.5 hours/day and 10% cry more than 3 hours/day (the medical definition of colic). That’s a whole lot of crying; and it doesn’t even include our crying!
Usually, this irritability starts churning around sundown and can go on for hours. No wonder it makes us exhausted, frustrated and concerned. Traditionally, parents have been encouraged to just keep their chins up and wait until the baby grows out of it. But, this is easier said than done!
Persistent crying – and the exhaustion it triggers in us – creates huge stress in families, include, marital conflict, maternal and paternal depression, obesity/ car accidents (people make poor decisions when stressed and overtired), SIDS and suffocation (tired parents fall asleep, baby in arm, on unsafe couches and beds). In addition to this human suffering, the national costs of the complications of infant crying and parental exhaustion total well over $1 billion dollars a year.
Most doctors say that colic is a mystery. That’s what I used to say, too, until 1981 when I learned about the Bushmen of the Kalahari Desert who can usually calm their fussy babies in under a minute!
The more I thought about it, the more it realized we could be as successful as the Bushmen, but only if we adopted two new ideas (described in The Happiest Baby on the Block book/DVD):
1) All babies are born 3 months early. Although newborn horses can run within an hour of birth, our mushy little babies need a virtual 4th trimester of womb sensations (soft touch, jiggly motion, snug holding, etc).
2) The symphony of rhythms fetuses experience every day before birth triggers a reflex that keeps babies relaxed. This calming reflex is a virtual off-switch for crying and on- switch for sleep.
The Bushmen are successful because they mimic the womb by carrying and rocking their babies 24 hours/day (and feeding them 3 times/hour!). Similarly, many parents in our community soothe their babies with weird womb-mimicking tricks, like car rides and vacuum cleaner noise. No wonder babies do best when held/rocked/shushed 12 hours a day. Does that sound like a lot? Actually, even 16 hours/day is a 40% cut back from the 24/7 embrace babies enjoy the months before birth. Smart parents around the world have invented many ways to calm babies and most are variations of 5 simple womb-like sensations I call the 5 S’s: Swaddle, Side-Stomach Position, Shush, Swing and Suck.
1St S- Swaddle
Swaddling imitates the snug packaging inside the womb and is the cornerstone of calming. It decreases startling and increases sleep. And, wrapped babies respond faster to the other 4 S’s and stay soothed longer because their arms can’t flail wildly.
Babies shouldn’t be swaddled all day, just during fussing and sleep. Wrap arms snug – straight at the side – but let the hips be loose and flexed. Use a large square blanket, but don’t overheat, cover your baby’s head or allow loose blankets.
Does your baby struggle against the swaddle? Just add the other S’s and within minutes he’ll be calm…and sleep better, too!
2nd S – Side or Stomach position
The back is the only safe position for sleeping but it’s the worst position for calming fussiness. This “S” can be activated by putting a baby on her side, on her stomach or over your shoulder.
3rd S – Shush
Contrary to myth, babies don’t need total silence. That’s why they’re so good at sleeping at noisy parties and basketball games! In the womb the sound of the blood flow is a shush louder than a vacuum cleaner.
But, not all white noise is created equal. Hissy fans and ocean sounds often fail because they lack the womb’s rumbly quality. The best way to imitate these magic sounds is with a white noise CD. CDs are better than sound machines because they’re so easy to use in the car or when travelling. And, my “Super-Soothing” Sleep Sounds CD has 6 unique, specially engineered sounds to quickly calm crying and boost sleep. (To calm crying – play it as loud as your baby; to promote sleep -play it as loud as a shower)
4th S – Swing
Womb life is jiggly (imagine your baby jiggling inside you when you walk down the stairs!). Slow rocking is fine for keeping babies calm, but to soothe crying mid-squawk, the motion needs to be fast and tiny. (My patients call this the “Jell-o head” jiggle.)
Always support the head/neck; keep your motions small (no more than 1 inch back and forth); and never, never, never shake your baby in anger or frustration. 5th S- Suck
Sucking is the icing on the cake of calming. Many fussy babies relax into a deep tranquility when they suck.
Other great calming techniques that imitate the womb include, delicious skin-to-skin contact; wearing your baby in a sling; warm baths; gentle massage.
The 5 S’s only work when they’re done exactly right. The calming reflex is just like the knee reflex that only works when you hit the knee exactly right (hit 1 inch too high or low and you’ll get no response).
All babies do better with swaddling and white noise, but try adding on the other S’s, too, to see what your baby prefers. If she doesn’t calm with the S’s, ask your doctor to make sure she isn’t ill. If there is no illness, she’ll likely calm after you review The Happiest Baby DVD to make sure you are doing the 5S’s right.
6th S – Sleep!
The keys to good sleep are swaddling and the white noise CD. Sound is like a comforting, teddy bear. Play it for all naps/nights as loud as a soft shower for at least the first year.
Sound helps good sleepers sleep even better. It keeps babies keep sleeping as they are weaned from swaddling at 4-5 months. And, it prevents sleep disturbances from mild hunger, disturbing noises and teething pain.
After 4 months, the 5 S’s may still work (even adults fall asleep rocking in a hammock and to the sound of rain), but the magic is no longer irresistible (shushing an irate 8- month-old I may make her even madder!).
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Understanding Your Newborn The Infant States of Being Newborn Behavior
INFANT STATES BIRTH to 6 MONTHS
CRYING • Tears • Muscle tension • Jerky movements • Rapid breathing • Color changes • Generally doesn’t respond quickly
IRRITABLE • Lots of movement • Sometimes fussy • Irregular breathing • Sensitive to body and surroundings • Eyes open, but not focused • Common before feeding
QUIET ALERT • Little body movement • Wants to play and interact • Eyes wide open • Requires energy and can • Steady, regular breathing make babies tired • Very responsive
DROWSY • Variable movement • Tired eyes • Irregular breathing • Delayed reaction time • Opens and closes eyes
LIGHT SLEEP (ACTIVE SLEEP) • Some movement • Rapid eye movement (REM) INCREASING INTENSITY • Irregular breathing • Easily awakened • Facial movement and startled
DEEP SLEEP (QUIET SLEEP) California • No body movement • Not easily • Regular breathing awakened • Bursts of sucking BEHAVIOR Campaign
Source: Brazelton, TB (1973) Neonatal Behavioral Assessment Scale. Clinics in Developmental Medicine, No. 50. JP Lippincott, Philadelphia. In collaboration with the UC Davis Human Lactation Center Infant
CUESBIRTH 6 MONTHS to
ENGAGEMENT DISENGAGEMENT “I want to be near you.” “I need something to be different.”
ENGAGEMENT CUES DISENGAGEMENT CUES • eyes open • turns or looks away • looks intently at your face • pushes away or arches back • follows your voice and face • cries • smiles • coughs • relaxes face • extends fingers with a stiff hand • smooth body movements • yawns or falls asleep • feeding sounds • grimaces • rooting • has a glazed look
CAREGIVER/PARENT RESPONSE CAREGIVER/PARENT RESPONSE Time to play or feed (if baby shows Play detective and follow the cues to hunger cues). figure out what needs to be different. Remember, playing is hard work for baby and baby tires easily.
California WIC Program, California Department of Public Health This institution is an equal opportunity provider. Source : Kelly, Jean F. PhD; Zuckerman, Tracy PsyD; Rosenblatt, Shira PhD. HUMAN LACTATION CENTER Promoting First Relationships: A Relationship-Focused Early Intervention Approach. Infants & Young Children. 2008; 21 (4): 285-295. In collaboration with the UC Davis Human Lactation Center Perinatal Nursing Education Understanding the Behavior of Term Infants
States of the Term Newborn
State, also known as state of consciousness, Table 2. Sleep and Awake States powerfully influences the way infants respond at any given time. A state is a group of characteristic Sleep States Awake States behaviors and physiologic changes that recur Quiet sleep Drowsy together in a regular pattern (Brazelton & Nugent, 1996; Wolff, 1966). Active sleep Quiet alert Active alert Characteristic behaviors seen in individual states include: Crying • Body activity • Eye movements • Facial movements Significance of Infant States • Breathing pattern States provide a framework for observing and • Level of response to external understanding ways in which infants interact with and internal stimuli their caregivers. States are important in infant growth and development and in helping caregivers In addition to the different characteristic behaviors understand newborn behavior. that occur with each state, physiological changes in heart rate, blood flow, muscle tone, and EEG In each state, infants respond in a unique and patterns also occur. In the term infant who is not predictable manner–not chaotically, but in an monitored, caregivers rely on characteristic organized pattern. States allow infants to control behaviors to clinically assess the infant’s state. In how much and what kind of input they receive from term infants, state can readily be determined by their environments. Sleepy infants affect their using only characteristic behaviors. parents differently than alert or crying infants do. Infants who have long periods of wakefulness will Each state is organized into a pattern that differs have more frequent opportunities to interact with from any of the other states. States are divided into their parents than infants who sleep most of the sleep and awake states (Table 2). time.
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Figure 1. Quiet Sleep (also called deep sleep)
Quiet sleep is restorative and anabolic. It is associated with an increase in cell mitosis and replication, lowered oxygen consumption, and the release of growth hormone. The threshold to sensory stimuli is very high during quiet sleep; only stimuli that are very intense and disturbing can arouse infants.
Characteristics Body Activity Nearly still, except for occasional startle or twitch.
Eye Movements None.
Facial Movements None, except for occasional sucking movement at regular intervals.
Breathing Pattern Smooth and regular.
Level of Response The infant’s threshold to stimuli is very high; only very intense and disturbing stimuli will arouse the infant.
Caregiving Caregivers trying to feed an infant who is in quiet sleep will probably find the experience frustrating. The infant will be unresponsive.
Feeding will be a more pleasant experience if nurses and parents respect the infant’s cycles and needs by waiting until the infant moves to a higher, more responsive state.
Even if caregivers use disturbing stimuli, chances are the infant will arouse only briefly, then become unresponsive as he or she returns to quiet sleep.
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Figure 2. Active Sleep [also called light sleep or rapid eye movement (REM)sleep]
Active sleep is associated with processing and storing of information and has been linked to learning. It accounts for the highest proportion of newborn sleep and usually precedes wakening.
Characteristics Body Activity Some body movements.
Eye Movements Rapid eye movements (REM), fluttering of eyes beneath closed eyelids.
Facial Movements May smile and make brief fussy or crying sounds.
Breathing Pattern Irregular.
Level of Response In active sleep, infants are more responsive to internal stimuli (such as hunger) and external stimuli (such as handling) than they are in quiet sleep.
When stimuli occur, infants may remain in active sleep, return to quiet sleep, or arouse.
Caregiving Due to brief fussy or crying sounds during this state, caregivers who are not aware that these sounds normally occur may try to feed infants before they are ready to eat.
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Figure 3. Drowsy
From the drowsy state, infants may return to sleep or awaken further.
Characteristics Body Activity Variable activity level with mild startles interspersed from time to time. Movements usually smooth.
Eye Movements Eyes occasionally open and close, are heavy-lidded or slit-like.
Facial Movements May have some facial movements. Often none, and face appears still.
Breathing Pattern Irregular.
Level of Response Infants react to sensory stimuli, although their responses are delayed. A change to quiet alert, active alert or crying after stimulation is frequently noted.
Caregiving To awaken infants, caregivers can provide something for infants to see, hear, or suck to arouse them to a more alert state.
If infants are left alone without stimuli, they may return to a sleep state.
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Figure 4. Quiet Alert
During this state, infants are most attentive to their environment, focusing their attention on any stimuli that are present: nipple, voice, face, or moving objects.
Characteristics Body Activity Minimal.
Eye Movements Eyes brighten and widen.
Facial Movements Attentive appearance.
Breathing Pattern Regular.
Level of Response During this state, infants are most attentive to the environment, focusing attention on any stimuli present.
Caregiving In the first few hours after birth, many newborns experience a period of intense alertness before going into a long sleeping period.
As infants become older, they spend more and more time in this state.
Providing something for infants to see, hear, or suck will often maintain a quiet-alert state or help them enter a quiet- alert state from either a drowsy or active-alert state.
Infants in this state provide much pleasure and positive feedback to parents and other caregivers.
This is often a good time to feed the infant, especially if the mother is breastfeeding on an ad lib schedule.
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Figure 5. Active Alert
During active alert, infants’ eyes are open, but their eyes and faces are not as bright as in quiet alert. Infants have more body activity in active alert than they do in quiet alert.
Characteristics Body Activity Variable activity level with mild startles interspersed from time to time. Movements usually smooth.
Eye Movements Eyes are open, with dull, glazed appearance.
Facial Movements May have some facial movements. Often none, and face appears still.
Breathing Pattern Irregular.
Level of Response Infants react to sensory stimuli, although responses are delayed. With stimulation, the infant may change to quiet alert or crying.
Caregiving Infants may have periods of fussiness and become increasingly sensitive to disturbing stimuli (hunger, fatigue, noise, excessive handling).
Infants may become more and more active and may change to a crying state.
Fatigue or caregiver interventions often interrupt this state, allowing infants to return to a drowsy or sleep state.
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Figure 6. Crying
Crying is the infant state that presents the greatest challenge to the caregiver. This state is characterized by intense crying for at least 15 seconds.
Characteristics Body Activity Increased motor activity. Skin color darkens or changes to red or ruddy.
Eye Movements Eyes may be tightly closed or open.
Facial Movements Grimaces.
Breathing Pattern More irregular than in other states.
Level of Response Infants are extremely responsive to unpleasant external or internal stimuli.
Caregiving Crying is: • A communication signal. • A response to unpleasant stimuli from the environment. • A response to internal stimuli such as fatigue, hunger, or discomfort.
Crying tells the caregiver that the infant’s limits have been reached.
Sometimes infants can console themselves and return to active or quiet alert, drowsy, or a sleep state; at other times, they need help from caregivers.
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State Modulation the infant or environment (Table 3). An important component of infant states is state modulation, which allows the infant to adapt to and Although states may seem like a continuous spect- interact with his or her environment by controlling rum from quiet sleep to crying, each state is qualita- sensory input and responses to caregivers and the tively specific with its unique internal organization environment. State modulation (Barnard, 1999) is of physiologic and behavioral characteristics and the ability of the infant to: level of central nervous system control. • Make smooth transitions between states. • Cycle between sleep states (see page 11). Most infants flow smoothly between states, as if • Arouse when appropriate (e.g., for feeding or moving up and down a ladder one step or occasion- playing). ally two steps at a time (Barnard, 1999; Nursing • Sustain sleep states. (Barnard, 1999) Child Assessment Training, 1978). However, not all infants flow smoothly between states. Some infants State modulation allows the infant to: tend to jump from one state to another. These in- • Adapt to his or her environment by controlling fants always seem to be sleeping or crying and sensory input and responses to the environ- spend little time in other states. ment. • Use state behaviors to guide caregiving. Caregivers can aid with state modulation by helping • Modify social interactions. (Barnard, 1999) an infant to become alert [see the reading “Infant During the early months of life, an important role of Behaviors, Reflexes and Cues”] or by soothing the caregivers is to help the infant with state-modula- infant. tion activities. An infant who is having difficulty with state modulation has problems regulating sens- Factors Influencing Infant State ory input and responses (Barnard, 1999). Infants Infant states are influenced by internal physiologic who cannot turn stimulation on or off may miss needs, external environment, stressful events, and important input or become overloaded by stimuli. pathologic conditions (Table 4) (Hack, 1987). Problems with state modulation may originate from
Table 3. Illustrative Infant and Environmental Factors That Affect State Modulation
Infant Factors Environmental Factors Temperament Noise Immaturity Vibration Pain Light Stress Temperature Maternal substance abuse Caregiver actions Illness
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Table 4. Factors Influencing Infant State Factor Stimuli Effect of Stimuli
Touch Soothing and swaddling Reduces activity during active alert and crying
Handling (rubbing, stroking, Induces awakeness and activity holding)
Pain Increases awakeness and activity; inactive infants most sensitive to pain
Visual factors Pictures, objects, faces Induces quiet alert in drowsy, crying, or active-alert infants; quiet alert prolonged by interesting visual stimuli
Light/Dark Light Reduces active sleep; reduces level of activity in fussy or crying babies
Dark Increases quiet sleep
Auditory factors (sound) Variations in sound Increases activity
Rhythmic sound Reduces activity; more sleep, less crying
Continuous sound Reduces activity in crying and fussy babies; less active sleep, more quiet sleep
Proprioceptive factors (sensations Putting to shoulder and rocking Induces quiet alert in sleeping, related to movement of the body) in an upright position active-alert, and fussy babies
Environmental temperature Decreases Increases motor activity; decreases quiet sleep
Increases Increases sleep
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Figure 4 continued Sucking Sucking on a pacifier or own Induces quiet alert in active-alert finger or hand and crying infants; inhibits head movements and peripheral vision
Stressful events Circumcision Increases fussy crying; shorter time to fall asleep; increases quiet sleep; effects may last several days
Repeated awakenings Longer wakefulness; more sleep after the deprivation period; fussiness
Internal physiologic needs Hunger Increases activity, active alert, and crying
Satiety Quiets, induces sleep
Need to stool Waking activity
Pathologic conditions Coma Complete absence of state cycles and definable sleep
Asphyxia Poor sleep-cycle development and state modulation; decreases active sleep; increases quiet sleep
Hydrocephalus or microcephalus Increases amounts of wakefulness with less sleep; poor or absent sleep-state organization
Maternal preeclampsia with Poor sleep-state organization; intrauterine growth restriction disorganized quiet sleep with irregular respirations
Jaundice Decreases quiet-awake periods; increases sleep-cycle duration and active sleep
Down syndrome Increases awakenings; decreases active sleep continued on next page
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Figure 4 continued
Pathologic conditions (cont.) Biochemical disturbances Hyperirritability or decreased (hypoglycemia, hypocalcemia, wakefulness hypernatremia)
Drugs Meperidine (Demerol) and Decreases wakefulness, visual barbiturates alertness, and active-sleep spontaneous behaviors
Diazepam and barbiturates Increases a state that looks like quiet sleep; decreases active sleep
Heroin, methadone, and other Reduces quiet sleep; alters sleep opiates cycles; increases irritability, hyperactivity, and wakefulness
Cocaine and crack Increases irritability; rapid fluctuations in states; altered sleep patterns
Adapted from Hack, 1987.
Sleep Cycles Periods of active sleep and quiet sleep alternate in a Figure 7. Periods of Active Sleep and Quiet fixed pattern. A sleep cycle is the time from a per- Sleep in the Term Infant iod of active sleep, through a period of quiet sleep, to the beginning of the next active sleep period (Barnard, 1999). Infants spend approximately 60% of sleep time in active sleep and 40% in quiet sleep (Figure 7) (Barnard, 1999; Nursing Child Assessment Training, 1978). 60% active sleep The average length of a sleep cycle in term infants is 50-80 minutes. During a sleep cycle, infants spend 35-60 minutes in active sleep and 15-20 40% minutes in quiet sleep (Figure 8) (Barnard, 1999; quiet sleep Nursing Child Assessment Training, 1978). For example, a sleep cycle might last 60 minutes, with infants spending 15 minutes in quiet sleep and the remaining time in active sleep. At the end of a sleep cycle, infants either begin another sleep cycle or start to arouse.
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Figure 8. Minutes of Active Sleep and Quiet awake, and the states become more organized Sleep in a Sleep Cycle of the Term Infant (Holditch-Davis, 1998).
Co-Sleeping Co-sleeping, where the infant is in the same bed or room with parents, is the focus of recent research and is controversial. Because of the risk of suffoca- 35-60 minutes tion and injury, the American Academy of Pediatrics in active sleep (AAP) opposes co-sleeping where the infant is in the same bed with adults. The Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) and National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD) 15-20 also do not support co-sleeping. The AAP acknowl- minutes in edges that the CPSC opposes bed sharing by an in- quiet sleep fant and an adult but recognizes that a significant portion of the U.S. population practices bed sharing between mother and infant to facilitate breastfeed- ing and that it is common for the father to also be in the bed. Sleep and Awake Patterns As newborns grow and mature, their sleep and Advocates of same-bed sharing cite benefits for awake patterns change (Table 5 on next page). The breastfeeding, cultural continuation, close infant total amount of sleep per 24 hours does not change monitoring, and other potential physiological bene- significantly over the first year. The major change is fits being studied. Co-sleeping advocates advise in the organization of sleep and in consolidation of against co-sleeping for families who smoke. sleep into nighttime hours, with increased awake time during the day. The information about sleep states in this module is based on research with infants who are in separate Development of sleep and awake states during beds (i.e., are not co-sleeping). infancy reflects central nervous system (CNS) maturation and is important for growth, develop- In 2000, the AAP Task Force on Infant Sleep Posi- ment, and learning. With maturation of the CNS, the tion and Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) infant is able to increasingly inhibit smooth muscle concluded that there was insufficient evidence to movements, reduce generalized responses, improve conclude that bed sharing under carefully controlled habituation, and develop increased attention ability. conditions is clearly either hazardous or safe. Table Quiet periods become longer during both sleep and 6 on page 14 presents highlights from the AAP guidance on co-sleeping.
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Table 5. Changes in Sleep and Awake Patterns During Early Infancy
• The infant sleeps 14 hours per day by 1 month. • The total amount of sleep decreases to about 13 hours per day by 12 months. • Decrease in sleep is accompanied by a steady increase in the amount of wakefulness. • Awake times during daytime hours increase as the infant is able to put together two or more sleep cycles. • The duration of individual sleep periods increases. • The infant consolidates sleep periods into nighttime hours. • The percentage of active sleep decreases, and the percentage of quiet sleep increases. • Increased length of sleep at night is not related to the initiation of solid foods.
Adapted from Barnard, 1999.
Assessment of Infant States • Does the infant seem to move smoothly from Learning to identify the state of an infant is a skill one state to another, or does the infant jump that most nurses find relatively easy to acquire with from a sleep state, to crying, to drowsy? a little practice. Nurses can practice state identifi- cation with infants in the delivery, nursery, or post- With a little experience, identification of an infant’s partum areas. state becomes an automatic response so whenever the nurse is working with an infant, she or he can Initially, nurses will need to make a conscious effort anticipate the way the infant may respond and what to assess an infant’s state. They will need to ask activities may be most appropriate with the infant at themselves the following: that time.
• In what state is the infant as I approach the Video Clips and Cases bassinet and before the infant is handled? Return to the online module “Understanding the • How does the infant’s state change while be- Behavior of Term Infants” to view videos and cases ing touched, diapered, and/or bathed? related to this reading. • In what state is the infant while the mother or father is holding or feeding the infant, or when the infant is returned to the bassinet?
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Table 6. Guidance on Co-Sleeping from the American Academy of Pediatrics In 2000, the AAP Task Force on Infant Sleep Position and Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) concluded that there was insufficient evidence to conclude that bed sharing under carefully controlled conditions is clearly either hazardous or safe. This table presents highlights from the AAP guidance on co-sleeping.
• As an alternative to bed sharing, parents may consider placing the infant’s crib near the parents’ bed to allow for more convenient breastfeeding and parent contact.
• Mothers who choose to have their infants sleep in their beds to breastfeed should follow these guidelines: – Ensure that the infant is in a nonprone sleep position. – Avoid soft surfaces and loose covers. – To prevent entrapment, position the bed away from the wall and other furniture and avoid beds that present entrapment possibilities, such as two side-by-side mattresses.
• Adults other than parents, children, or siblings should avoid bed sharing with an infant.
• Parents who choose to bed share with their infant should not smoke or use sub- stances such as alcohol or drugs that may impair their arousal.
• Overheating should be avoided. The infant should be lightly clothed and should not feel hot to the touch. The bedroom temperature should be kept comfortable for a lightly clothed adult.
• Some daily tummy time while the infant is awake and observed is recommended to encourage development and to help prevent flat spots on the occiput. To help pre- vent positional plagiocephaly, caregivers may place the infant to sleep with the head to one side for a week or so and then change to the other. Periodically changing the infant’s orientation to outside activity (e.g., the door of the room) will encourage the infant to change head position.
• Devices to maintain sleep position or to reduce the risk of rebreathing are not recommended, because none has been tested sufficiently to show efficacy or safety.
• Electronic cardiac and respiratory monitors may be of value for home monitoring of selected infants who have extreme cardiorespiratory instability. However, there is no evidence that such home monitoring decreases the incidence of SIDS.
Adapted from AAP, 2000.
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The Benefits of Skin-to-Skin Contact with your Newborn
The Magical Hour
The First Hour After Birth: A Baby’s 9 Instinctive Stages
The first hours after birth are a developmentally distinct time for a baby and there are well-documented short and long-term physical and psychological advantages when a baby is held skin-to-skin during this time.
When a baby is in skin-to-skin contact after birth there are nine observable newborn stages, happening in a specific order, that are innate and instinctive for the baby. Within each of these stages, there are a variety of actions the baby may demonstrate.
Stage 1: The Birth Cry The first stage is the birth cry. This distinctive cry occurs immediately after birth as the baby’s lungs expand.
Stage 2: Relaxation The second stage is the relaxation stage. During the relaxation stage, the newborn exhibits no mouth movements and the hands are relaxed. This stage usually begins when the birth cry has stopped. The baby is skin-to-skin with the mother and covered with a warm, dry towel or blanket.
Stage 3: Awakening The third stage is the awakening stage. During this stage the newborn exhibits small thrusts of movement in the head and shoulders. This stage usually begins about 3 minutes after birth. The newborn in the awakening stage may exhibit head movements, open his eyes, show some mouth activity and might move his shoulders.
Stage 4: Activity The fourth stage is the activity stage. During this stage, the newborn begins to make increased mouthing and sucking movements as the rooting reflex becomes more obvious. This stage usually begins about 8 minutes after birth.
Stage 5: Rest At any point, the baby may rest. The baby may have periods of resting between periods of activity throughout the first hour or so after birth.
Stage 6: Crawling The sixth stage is the crawling stage. The baby approaches the breast during this stage with short periods of action that result in reaching the breast and nipple. This stage usually begins about 35 minutes after birth.
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Stage 7: Familiarization The seventh stage is called familiarization. During this stage, the newborn becomes acquainted with the mother by licking the nipple and touching and massaging her breast. This stage usually begins around 45 minutes after birth and could last for 20 minutes or more.
Stage 8: Suckling The eighth stage is suckling. During this stage, the newborn takes the nipple, self- attaches and suckles. This early experience of learning to breastfeed usually begins about an hour after birth. If the mother has had analgesia/anesthesia during labor, it may take more time with skin-to-skin for the baby to complete the stages and begin suckling.
Stage 9: Sleep The final stage is sleep. The baby and sometimes the mother fall into a restful sleep. Babies usually fall asleep about 1! to 2 hours after birth.
Benefits for Babies: Regardless of how you are feeding your baby, your baby can benefit from skin-to- skin contact.
• Babies are warmer. • Babies are calmer. • Babies can hear their mother’s heartbeat. • Heart and breathing rates are normalized. • Milk supply may be improved. Other family members can hold and bond with babies through skin-to-skin holding too!
What To Do in the First Hour with Mother You and your baby are covered with a blanket. The baby’s head stays out. The baby is naked and not wrapped. You and your baby will rest skin-to-skin for an hour or two after birth. This is a special time for you and your baby. Necessary procedures and checks are done with the mother and baby skin-to-skin.
If there are medical reasons that keep you and your baby from skin-to-skin holding right after birth, start as soon as possible.
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The Importance of Skin to Skin Contact There are now a multitude of studies that show that mothers and babies should be together, skin to skin (baby naked, not wrapped in a blanket) immediately after birth, as well as later. The baby is happier, the baby’s temperature is more stable and more normal, the baby’s heart and breathing rates are more stable and more normal, and the baby’s blood sugar is more elevated. Not only that, skin to skin contact immediately after birth allows the baby to be colonized by the same bacteria as the mother. This, plus breastfeeding, are thought to be important in the prevention of allergic diseases. When a baby is put into an incubator, his skin and gut are often colonized by bacteria different from his mother’s.
We now know that this is true not only for the baby born at term and in good health, but also even for the premature baby. Skin to skin contact and Kangaroo Mother Care can contribute much to the care of the premature baby. Even babies on oxygen can be cared for skin to skin, and this helps reduce their need for extra oxygen, and keeps them more stable in other ways as well (See www.kangaroomothercare.com) (See the information sheet Breastfeeding the Premature Baby).
To appreciate the importance of keeping mother and baby skin to skin for as long as possible in these first few weeks of life (not just at feedings) it might help to understand that a human baby, like any mammal, has a natural habitat: in close contact with the mother (or father). When a baby or any mammal is taken out of this natural habitat, it shows all the physiologic signs of being under significant stress. A baby not in close contact with his mother (or father) by distance (under a heat lamp or in an incubator) or swaddled in a blanket, may become too sleepy or lethargic or becomes disassociated altogether or cry and protest in despair. When a baby is swaddled it cannot interact with his mother, the way nature intended. With skin to skin contact, the mother and the baby exchange sensory information that stimulates and elicits “baby” behaviour: rooting and searching the breast, staying calm, breathing more naturally, staying warm, maintaining his body temperature and maintaining his blood sugar.
From the point of view of breastfeeding, babies who are kept skin to skin with the mother immediately after birth for at least an hour, are more likely to latch on without any help and they are more likely to latch on well, especially if the mother did not receive medication during the labour or birth. As mentioned in the information sheet Breastfeeding—Starting out Right, a baby who latches on well gets milk more easily than a baby who latches on less well. See the video clips of young babies (less than 48 hours old) breastfeeding at the website nbci.ca. When a baby latches on well, the mother is less likely to be sore. When a mother’s milk is abundant, the baby can take the breast poorly and still get lots of milk, though the feedings may then be long or frequent or both, and the mother is more prone to develop problems such as blocked ducts and mastitis. In the first few days, however, the mother does have enough milk, but because it is not abundant, as nature intended, the baby needs a good latch in order to get that milk. Yes, the milk is there even if someone has proved to you with the big pump that there isn’t any. How much does or does not come out in the pump proves nothing—it is irrelevant. Many mothers with abundant milk supplies have difficulty expressing or pumping more than a small amount of milk. Also note, you can’t tell by squeezing the breast whether there is enough milk in there or not. And a good latch is important to help the baby get the milk that is available. If the baby does not latch on well, the mother may be sore, and if the baby does not get milk well, the baby will want to be on the breast for long periods of time worsening the soreness.
To recap, skin to skin contact immediately after birth, which lasts for at least an hour (and should continue for as many hours as possible throughout the day and night for the first number of weeks) has the following
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positive effects. The baby:
Is more likely to latch on Is more likely to latch on well Maintains his body temperature normal better even than in an incubator Maintains his heart rate, respiratory rate and blood pressure normal Has higher blood sugar Is less likely to cry Is more likely to breastfeed exclusively and breastfeed longer Will indicate to his mother when he is ready to feed
There is no reason that the vast majority of babies cannot be skin to skin with the mother immediately after birth for at least an hour. Hospital routines, such as weighing the baby, should not take precedence.
The baby should be dried off and put on the mother. Nobody should be pushing the baby to do anything; nobody should be trying to help the baby latch on during this time. The baby may be placed vertically on the mother’s abdomen and chest and be left to find his way to the breast, while mother supports him if necessary. The mother, of course, may make some attempts to help the baby, and this should not be discouraged. This is baby’s first journey in the outside world and the mother and baby should just be left in peace to enjoy each other’s company. (The mother and baby should not be left alone, however, especially if the mother has received medication, and it is important that not only the mother’s partner, but also a nurse, midwife, doula or physician stay with them—occasionally, some babies do need medical help and someone qualified should be there “just in case”). The eye drops and the injection of vitamin K can wait a couple of hours. By the way, immediate skin to skin contact can also be done after cæsarean section, even while the mother is getting stitched up, unless there are medical reasons which prevent it.
Studies have shown that even premature babies, as small as 1200 g (2 lb 10 oz) are more stable metabolically (including the level of their blood sugars) and breathe better if they are skin to skin immediately after birth. Skin to skin contact is quite compatible with other measures taken to keep the baby healthy. Of course, if the baby is quite sick, the baby’s health must not be compromised, but any premature baby who is not suffering from respiratory distress syndrome can be skin to skin with the mother immediately after birth. Indeed, in the premature baby, as in the full term baby, skin to skin contact may decrease rapid breathing into the normal range.
Even if the baby does not latch on during the first hour or two, skin to skin contact is important for the baby and the mother for all the other reasons mentioned.
If the baby does not take the breast right away, do not panic. There is almost never any rush, especially in the full term healthy baby. One of the most harmful approaches to feeding the newborn has been the bizarre notion that babies must feed every three hours. Babies should feed when they show signs of being ready, and keeping a baby next to his mother will make it obvious to her when the baby is ready. There is actually not a stitch of proof that babies must feed every three hours or by any schedule, but based on such a notion, many babies are being pushed into the breast simply because three hours have passed. The baby who is not yet interested in feeding may object strenuously, and thus is pushed even more, resulting, in many cases, in baby refusing the breast because we want to make sure they take the breast. And it gets worse. If the baby keeps objecting to being pushed into the breast and gets more and more upset, then the “obvious next step” is to give a supplement. And it is obvious where we are headed (see the information sheet When a Baby Has Not
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American Academy of Pediatrics Announces New Safe Sleep Recommendations to Protect Against SIDS, Sleep-Related Infant Deaths 10/24/2016 https://www.aap.org/en-us/about-the-aap/aap-press-room/pages/american-academy-of-pediatrics- announces-new-safe-sleep-recommendations-to-protect-against-sids.aspx
San Francisco, CA -- Infants should sleep in the same bedroom as their parents – but on a separate surface, such as a crib or bassinet, and never on a couch, armchair or soft surface -- to decrease the risks of sleep-related deaths, according to a new policy statement released by the American Academy of Pediatrics.
Recommendations call for infants to share their parents' bedroom for at least the first six months and, optimally, for the first year of life, based on the latest evidence.
The policy statement and an accompanying technical report will be released Monday, Oct. 24, at the AAP National Conference & Exhibition in San Francisco. The report, to be published in the November 2016 issue of Pediatrics (online Oct. 24), includes new evidence that supports skin-to-skin care for newborn infants; addresses the use of bedside and in-bed sleepers; and adds to recommendations on how to create a safe sleep environment.
"We know that parents may be overwhelmed with a new baby in the home, and we want to provide them with clear and simple guidance on how and where to put their infant to sleep," said Rachel Moon, MD, FAAP, lead author of the report. "Parents should never place the baby on a sofa, couch, or cushioned chair, either alone or sleeping with another person. We know that these surfaces are extremely hazardous."
Approximately 3,500 infants die annually in the United States from sleep-related deaths, including sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS); ill-defined deaths; and accidental suffocation and strangulation. The number of infant deaths initially decreased in the 1990s after a national safe sleep campaign, but has plateaued in recent years.
AAP recommendations on creating a safe sleep environment include:
• Place the baby on his or her back on a firm sleep surface such as a crib or bassinet with a tight-fitting sheet. • Avoid use of soft bedding, including crib bumpers, blankets, pillows and soft toys. The crib should be bare. • Share a bedroom with parents, but not the same sleeping surface, preferably until the baby turns 1 but at least for the first six months. Room-sharing decreases the risk of SIDS by as much as 50 percent. • Avoid baby's exposure to smoke, alcohol and illicit drugs.
Skin-to-skin care is recommended, regardless of feeding or delivery method, immediately following birth for at least an hour as soon as the mother is medically stable and awake, according to the report.
Breastfeeding is also recommended as adding protection against SIDS. After feeding, the AAP encourages parents to move the baby to his or her separate sleeping space, preferably a crib or bassinet in the parents' bedroom.
"If you are feeding your baby and think that there's even the slightest possibility that you may fall asleep, feed your baby on your bed, rather than a sofa or cushioned chair," said Lori Feldman- Winter, MD, FAAP, member of the Task Force on SIDS and co-author of the report.
"If you do fall asleep, as soon as you wake up be sure to move the baby to his or her own bed," she said.
"There should be no pillows, sheets, blankets or other items that could obstruct the infant's breathing or cause overheating."
While infants are at heightened risk for SIDS between the ages 1 and 4 months, new evidence shows that soft bedding continues to pose hazards to babies who are 4 months and older.
Other recommendations include:
• Offer a pacifier at nap time and bedtime. • Do not use home monitors or commercial devices, including wedges or positioners, marketed to reduce the risk of SIDS. • Infants should receive all recommended vaccinations. • Supervised, awake tummy time is recommended daily to facilitate development.
The AAP recommends that doctors have open and nonjudgmental conversations with families about their sleep practices. Media outlets and advertisers may also play a role in educating parents by following safe sleep recommendations when presenting images and messages to the public.
"We want to share this information in a way that doesn't scare parents but helps to explain the real risks posed by an unsafe sleep environment," Dr. Moon said. "We know that we can keep a baby safer without spending a lot of money on home monitoring gadgets but through simple precautionary measures."
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1 Don’t Exceed Baby’s “Happily Awake Span”
Newborns can only last forty-five minutes to an hour between sleep sessions. By three months of age this can extend to two or three hours, maximum. If your baby is awake longer than biology allows he’ll be fussier and cry more, plus find it harder to fall asleep.
2 Learn your Baby’s Sleepy Signals Your newborn will give you signals when she’s tired. If you miss the signs, your baby will quickly become overtired. On the flip side, a baby who isn’t tired will reject efforts to get her to sleep. Look for that perfect sleepy moment. Babies share a few common signs of tiredness, such as losing interest in people and toys and making slower movements.
3 Correctly Identify Sleeping Sounds and Motions Newborns grunt, coo, twitch, and shift position during sleep. These noises and movements don’t always signal awakening. Rushing to pick your baby up during these occurrences can actually wake her up! So, take a pause to observe and listen. If your baby is sleeping – let her sleep!
4 Use White Noise to Mask Baby-waking Sounds The use of quiet, rumbly white noise can soothe your baby and mask any outside sounds that wake him. Find a sound that you enjoy, too, since your baby may enjoy these sleepy sounds up through toddlerhood.
5 Feed your Newborn Frequently – Day and Night.
Your baby doesn’t have a day/night body clock, so sleep and feedings occur throughout a 24-hour period. Your newborn’s teaspoon-sized stomach doesn’t last long without food. Newborns can’t sleep when they’re hungry and will keep waking up until they’re fed. It’s better to respond to feeding cues quickly so you can both get back to the important job of sleeping.
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The simple, repetitive “Shhh Shhh” sound helps to calm a baby because it mimics mother’s heartbeat. When a baby hears these types of sounds it allows him to focus on those, and then he can center himself and relax or fall asleep.
2 The sound masks harsh noises that startle your baby awake. A steady hum of background noise can help to block out sharp sudden sounds. White noise, played just loud enough (but not too loud), softens the edges of these sharp sounds.
You don’t want to have to always tiptoe around a sleeping baby, and the sounds of the house, like talking or soft footsteps, are actually soothing, as babies love to hear the sounds of the village as they sleep. However, sharp sounds like dishes clinking, a phone ringing, dogs barking, or older siblings shouting can be intrusive sounds that wake your sleeping newborn. Having white noise playing can mask these baby-waking noises.
3 White noise sounds can act as a bridge between sleep cycles. White noise can cover many disruptive sounds that happen during naps or in the middle of the night. When your baby is having a brief awakening between sleep cycles and hears these noises, they can gain his attention and bring him fully awake. White noise can help your baby move seamlessly through sleep cycles (when hunger doesn't interfere) so that your baby has a longer nap or fewer night wakings.
4 A sound used frequently creates a consistent cue. When your baby hears this specific sound she knows it’s time to sleep. When you routinely use the sounds as soon as you notice signs of tiredness, your baby comes to recognize it as sleeping music. Add some warm milk and a cuddle to easily lull your baby to sleep.
White noise is conducive to sleep, but unhelpful during awake times. Turn the white noise off as soon as your baby is awake. This keeps the sound exclusive to sleep and allows your infant to hear the sounds of the world when she is awake and alert.
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