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April 2006 IAC Newsletter
April 2006 IAC Newsletter Thank you all very much for sending in contributions to the IAC. The Treasurer’s report follows: The ending balance on this statement is $6,665.21. Fees of $28.54 which consist of: Bill pay service fee $9.95 which Stan says will be reversed Canadian handling fee $5.00 Foreign check adjustment of $13.59 of Canadian Funds. The deposit of March 24th for the amount of $1,257.92 outstanding The depost of April 3 for the amount of $230.00 outstanding, mixed funds Canadian/US There are no outstanding checks nor are there any other bank fees to my knowledge. Each month we receive interesting articles from our IAC members. I am enclosing one to you for yoru perusal. [The City of Cleveland will be renaming a portion of E. 22nd St near St. Vincent Charity Hospital after Sr. Ignatia during a ceremony on April 1st] From "When A.A. Came of Age": "...Dr. Bob [entered]...the doors of St. Thomas Hospital, the first religious hospital to receive prospective members of A.A. for treatment on a regular basis. Here there developed that great partnership between Dr. Bob and the incomparable Sister Ignatia...Sister Ignatia's night supervisor wasn't very keen about alcoholics, especially the d.t. variety, and Dr. Bob had arrived with a request for a private room for his first customer. Sister Ignatia said, 'Doctor, we do not have any beds, much less private rooms'...[but] then into the hospital's flower room she slyly bootlegged A.A.'s first jittering candidate for admission...From 1939 to the time Dr.Bob took leave of us in 1950, over 5,000 had thus been treated. -
Relationships in Recovery
RELATIONSHIPS IN RECOVERY Maintaining Connections Through Addiction, Recovery and Beyond BY THE STAFF OF SOVEREIGN HEALTH TABLE OF CONTENTS [Click on chapters to navigate to page] How to Recognize an Overdose 1 PAGE 4 How to Choose an Addiction Treatment Center PAGE 8 2 How to Manage and Defeat Cravings 3 PAGE 13 What to Do After a Relapse PAGE 17 4 How to Reconcile Damaged Relationships in Recovery 5 PAGE 21 How to Move Past Legal and Financial Problems PAGE 29 6 A Guide To Sovereign Health’s Facilities PAGE 34 A Directory of Behavioral 7 Health & Recovery Resources PAGE 39 8 2 INTRODUCTION CHEMICAL DEPENDENCY INVARIABLY LEADS TO LOSS. Material losses can usually be replaced in sustained recovery. Relationship loss or damage is a little trickier. An important part of the healing process requires honest self-examination and a look at our relationships. Chances are certain things will need to change so that old patterns of behavior don’t lead back to substance abuse. Perhaps amends need to be made. Maybe a toxic relationship needs to end. In any case, this process requires courage, acceptance and action. Relationships cannot heal by simply abstaining from alcohol or drugs. Whether you’re in recovery, or you are a parent, child, brother, sister, spouse, significant other, co-worker, boss, friend or neighbor of someone who is — reconciling relationships requires intentional effort. That’s where this book comes in. We explain why it is important to face the wreckage of the past and offer some practical tips to help. We also provide suggestions for protecting sobriety during the process and a handy directory of resources for everyone involved in the recovery process. -
Alcoholics Anonymous
Kurtz, E. and White, W. (2003). Alcoholics Anonymous. In Blocker, J. and Tyrell, I., Eds. Alcohol and Temperance in Modern History. Santa Barbara , CA: ABC-CLIO, pp. 27-31. Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) Ernest Kurtz, Ph.D. and William L. White, M.A. According to the presentation of itself read at the beginning of most meetings of Alcoholics Anonymous: Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues or fees for AA membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions. AA is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy, neither endorses nor opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stay sober and to help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety. Beginnings: 1935-1950 Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) began on 12 May 1935, when a recently sobered broker's representative from New York, while visiting Akron, Ohio, experienced a craving for alcoholic refreshment and, to stave it off, sought out an alcoholic local surgeon. The visiting New Yorker was William Griffith Wilson; the surgeon was Dr. Robert Holbrook Smith. Eventually, they w ould be known as “Bill W.” and “Dr. Bob,” cofounders of Alcoholics Anonymous. But not immediately, for Dr. Smith, attending a medical convention in Atlantic City, New Jersey, went on “one last toot.” Dr. Bob's sobriety date is usually given as 10 June 1935, which has become known in AA as “Founders’ Day,” despite recent evidence that Dr. -
2021-June-Tippler
June 2021 Volume 57, No. 6 The Tippler Wikipedia Article 1 AA was founded in 1935 in Akron, Ohio, when one alcoholic, Bill Wilson, talked to another alcoholic, Bob Smith, about the nature of alcoholism and a possible Office Activities 2 solution. With the help of other early members, the book Alcoholics Anonymous: The Story of How More Than One Hundred Men Have Recovered From Alcoholism was Akron Founder’s Day 3 written in 1939. Its title became the name of the organization and is today commonly referred to as "The Big Book". AA's initial Twelve Traditions were introduced in 1946 to help the fellowship be stable and unified while disengaged from "outside issues" Group Contributions 4 and influences. The Traditions recommend that members remain anonymous in public media, Contributions, Cont’d 5 altruistically help other alcoholics, and that AA groups avoid official affiliations with other organizations. They also advise against dogma and coercive hierarchies. Sub- Birthdays 6 sequent fellowships such as Narcotics Anonymous have adapted the Twelve Steps and the Twelve Traditions to their respective primary purposes. AA membership has since spread internationally "across diverse cul- Calendar 7 tures holding different beliefs and values", including geopolitical areas resistant to grassroots movements. As of 2016, close to two million people worldwide are esti- Daily Reflections 8 mated to be members of AA. AA sprang from The Oxford Group, a non-denominational, altruistic move- ment modeled after first-century Christianity. Some members founded the Group to help in maintaining sobri- ety. "Grouper" Ebby Thacher was Wilson's former drinking buddy who approached Wilson saying that he had "got religion", was sober, and that Wilson could do the same if he set aside objections to religion and instead formed a personal idea of God, "another power" or "higher power". -
Women in Alcoholics Anonymous: a Qualitative Research Study Ariel Larson
Duquesne University Duquesne Scholarship Collection Electronic Theses and Dissertations Summer 2015 Women In Alcoholics Anonymous: A Qualitative Research Study Ariel Larson Follow this and additional works at: https://dsc.duq.edu/etd Recommended Citation Larson, A. (2015). Women In Alcoholics Anonymous: A Qualitative Research Study (Doctoral dissertation, Duquesne University). Retrieved from https://dsc.duq.edu/etd/799 This Immediate Access is brought to you for free and open access by Duquesne Scholarship Collection. It has been accepted for inclusion in Electronic Theses and Dissertations by an authorized administrator of Duquesne Scholarship Collection. For more information, please contact [email protected]. WOMEN IN ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS: A QUALITATIVE RESEARCH STUDY A Dissertation Submitted to the McAnulty College and Graduate School of Liberal Arts Duquesne University In partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of Doctor of Philosophy By Ariel Larson May 2015 Copyright by Ariel Larson 2015 WOMEN IN ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS: A QUALITATIVE RESEARCH STUDY By Ariel Larson Approved May 1, 2015 ________________________________ ________________________________ Russell Walsh, Ph.D. Jessie Goicoechea, Ph.D. Professor of Psychology Assistant Professor of Psychology (Committee Chair) (Committee Member) ________________________________ Michael Flaherty, Ph.D. Guest Reader (Committee Member) ________________________________ ________________________________ James Swindal, Ph.D. Leswin Laubscher, Ph.D. Dean, McAnulty College Chair, Psychology Department Professor of Psychology iii ABSTRACT WOMEN IN ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS: A QUALITATIVE RESEARCH STUDY By Ariel Larson August 2015 Dissertation supervised by Russ Walsh, PhD This research looks at how women in particular navigate the complicated power dynamics of twelve-step programs, specifically AA, to achieve long-term sobriety. This study attempts to understand how women in AA are appropriating and shaping AA and its reliance on the twelve-steps in unique and resourceful ways to make recovery their own. -
Ebby in Exile a Vital AA Link
Ebby in Exile A Vital AA Link By Bob S. Edwin Throckmorton Thacher (1896-1966) This is a second edition, published in 2016 ~~ Bob S. One of Ebby’s favorite drinks But, lucky for us, he gave his was Ballantine’s Ale. last ones to his neighbor. Ebby’s Influential Family Edwin Throckmorton Thacher “Ebby” was born on April 29, 1896, into a family that amassed a great fortune as a railroad wheel manufacturer. The Thacher ancestry was predominant long before Ebby’s father, George H. Thacher II, was born in 1851. Thomas Thacher, his distant grandfather, came to America, from England, during the mid-sixteen hundreds to become the first pastor of the Old South Church, in Boston. The later dynasty achieved prominence in politics, including three George H. Thacher II family members who became mayors of Albany, New York: Ebby’s older brother was John Boyd Thacher II. Mayor of Albany, New York, from 1927— 1940. Ebby’s uncle was John Boyd Thacher. Mayor of Albany, NY, from 1886—1888; then for two full years, 1896 through 1897. Ebby’s Grandfather was George Hornell Thacher (1818—1887). Mayor of Albany, New York, from 1860—1862; then from 1866—1868; and again 1870—1874. A State Park near the suburbs of Albany in Voorheesville, New York, is named after Ebby’s great uncle: John Boyd Thacher State Park. Ebby’s father also was a political figure and hobnobbed with the likes of Abraham Lincoln’s son, Robert Todd Lincoln, and US President, William Howard Taft. As a youth, George was a skillful boxer, ballplayer, oarsman and swimmer. -
Alcoholics Anonymous and the Disease Concept of Alcoholism Ernest Kurtz, Ph.D.1
Alcoholics Anonymous and the Disease Concept of Alcoholism Ernest Kurtz, Ph.D.1 Given the issues and prejudices involved, it is unlikely that the question of the his- torical relationship between Alcoholics Anonymous and the disease concept of alcohol- ism will ever be definitively resolved. But this does not mean that study of the topic is useless. We can discover, organize, and evaluate presently available information with aspirations to increased clarity even if not to perfect pellucidity, hoping to approach ever greater accuracy even if -- until time-travel be perfected by omniscient observers -- we are barred from the Rankean paradise of wie es eigentlich gewesen sei. On the basic question, the data are clear: Contrary to common opinion, Alcoholics Anonymous neither originated nor promulgated what has come to be called the disease concept of alcoholism. Yet its members did have a large role in spreading and populariz- ing that understanding. How and Why and So What are the burden of this paper as a whole. As is often stated in introductions but too rarely recognized in analyses, Alcoholics Anonymous is its members. That membership tries to live their program’s Twelve Steps, guided by their fellowship’s Twelve Traditions. The Tenth of those Traditions reads: “Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the A.A. name ought never be drawn into public controversy.”1 The nature of alcoholism is an “outside issue.” Thus, Alcoholics Anonymous as Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on it, as most members will tell anyone who asks. But anyone who passes any time with members of Alcoholics Anonymous soon becomes aware of two other realities. -
Big Book Annotation
Big Book Annotation ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Fourth Edition Lesser-known details from our “basic text” Preface, Forwards, The Doctor’s Opinion, The First 164 Pages, and Personal Stories By Tim B. Revised July 2021 PREFACE- Nov / 2001 (p-xi) Page-xi, 2nd paragraph- “…basic text…” In the context of codified concepts to be used as a reference book. Page-xi, 2nd paragraph- “…the first portion of this volume, describing the A.A. recovery program, has been left largely untouched…” This is referring to the first 164 pages in which only minor changes have occurred since publication of the First Edition in 1939. Not all 4th editions contain the qualification, “largely”. It was added in 2006. I am working from a Fifteenth Printing, 2009. FOREWARD TO FIRST EDITION- April / 1939 (p-xiii) Page-xiii, 1st paragraph- “…one hundred men and women…” At the time of the manuscript going to print several women were sober. Of the total members counted, approximately 40 achieved permanent sobriety. FOREWARD TO SECOND EDITION- 1955 (p-xv) Page-xv, 3rd paragraph- “…New York stockbroker and an Akron physician.” Referring to both Bill Wilson and Dr. Bob Smith. Page-xvi, 1st line- “…an alcoholic friend…” Edwin (Ebby) Thacher. Page-xvi, 2nd line- “…Oxford Groups of that day.” The Oxford Group was an international non-denominational Christian religious movement. Founded by Frank Buchman and assisted in America by Rev. Sam Shoemaker. Rev. Shoemaker was Rector of Calvary Church, NYC. Frank Buchman (Lutheran) Sam Shoemaker (Episcopalian) Page-xvii, 1st paragraph- “Their very first case…” Eddie Reilly was most likely their first and Dr. -
Higher-Ground-03.21
District 10 Newsletter HMB Area 48 March 2021 Sunrise Over Vermont This month in AA History March 1 1941 – Jack Alexander’s Saturday Evening Post article was published, and membership jumped from 2,000 to 8,000 by year’s end. March 4 1891 — Lois W. was born. March 21 1881 — Dr. Bob’s wife, Anne, was born. 1966 — Ebby T., whom Bill W. called his sponsor, died sober. March 22 1951 — William Duncan Silkworth, MD, died at Towns Hospital. He helped more than 40,000 alcoholics during his lifetime. 1984 — Clarence S., “Home Brewmeister,” died at 81. March 25 1898 — Jim B. (“The Vicious Cycle”) was born. Other March happenings with no specific date 1941 – 1st Prison AA Group was formed at San Quentin. Thanks to Billy C. and Nancy O. for this list, used by permission. FILED UNDER: AA HISTORY, ARCHIVES District 10 Newsletter HMB Area 48 March 2021 **For Your Information** District 10 Monthly Meetings on ZOOM (all are welcome to attend!!) 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7:30pm Zoom ID: 895 8996 2911 Password: 212057 District 10 Contributions There is a new way to contribute to District 10!! Individuals and groups can now contribute through PayPal by sending contributions to: [email protected] CORRECTIONS Hey…Sober Person!! Are you looking to keep it green? Are you looking to do some service? The district 10 area is looking for people to carry the message of recovery into correctional facilities. It is a very real way to be reminded of what can happen to people who continue to drink or drug. -
Kent State University and Sister Ignatia — 1
William E. Swegan — Kent State University and Sister Ignatia — 1 Excerpted from Chapter 16, "Kent State University and Sister Ignatia," in William E. Swegan with Glenn F. Chesnut, Ph.D., The Psychology of Alcoholism, Hindsfoot Foundation Series on Alcoholics Anonymous History (Bloomington, Indiana: iUniverse, 2011). Kent State University and Sister Ignatia by William E. Swegan In 1951, the time came when my little one-man alcoholism treatment program at Mitchel Air Force Base had to be closed down …. I applied for an ROTC assignment. A Reserve Officers’ Training Corps unit was based at a college or university. In the process of earning a four-year undergraduate degree, students would also take courses each semester from the military personnel assigned to that university, and (with a small amount of additional training) would be commissioned as second lieutenants at the same time that they received their academic degrees …. I was given some choice of ROTC assignments, so I selected the one at Kent State University in northeastern Ohio. It was only thirty miles or so from my childhood hometown of Niles, so I considered this a choice location. Kent was also a kind of distant suburb of Akron, Ohio—it was only ten miles from Kent to downtown Akron—so I was also going to discover that this was an excellent opportunity to get to know Sister Ignatia, along with Bill Dotson (the third person to get sober in A.A.) and some other good old- timers there in Akron, where A.A. had first begun sixteen years earlier …. William E. Swegan — Kent State University and Sister Ignatia — 2 Since Kent State was only a short distance from Akron, I traveled in to St. -
Learning the Real Importance of a Home Group!
INSIDE THIS ISSUE: A Member Shares... 1 L EARNING T HE R EAL COVID-19 Update 2 I MPORTANCE OF A SEPIA Seek and Find 3 H OME G ROUP! Five-County Area Events 6 Zone Meeting Information 6 Hi, everyone! My name is Steve S. and I’m an alcoholic. My Home Group is Ridley Beginner’s Step. Out-of-Area-Events 7 Committee Meetings 13 When I had been going to Alcoholics Anonymous for about two weeks, a guy asked me if I wanted to make coffee. Before I could say “I don’t Committee Corner 13 drink coffee” he said it would keep me sober. I started making coffee. Bill W.’s Obituary 14 This helped me to feel that I was part of A.A. and I started to learn. I now realize there’s a little more to sobriety than that, but it was an important Financial Information 23 start for me. But service won’t keep me sober by itself. I need the 12 Steps. ...Continued on Page 4 2 2 0 0 2 2 1 0 COVID - 1 9 U P D AT E Why all this insistence that every A.A. must hit bottom Two new vaccines for COVID-19 were first? The answer is that few people will sincerely try to introduced in December, raising hopes that an practice the A.A. program unless they have hit bottom. For end to the pandemic and its restrictions on practicing A.A.’s remaining gatherings—including A.A. meetings—is in sight. eleven steps means the adoption of attitudes and The severe restrictions the State of actions that almost no Pennsylvania implemented in early December alcoholic who is still are set to expire January 4th. -
Unity, Recovery, Service Hudson Mohawk Berkshire District 5 Newsletter October 2016
Unity, Recovery, Service Hudson Mohawk Berkshire District 5 Newsletter October 2016 WELCOME TO THE HMB DISTRICT 5 NEWSLETTER The District 5 Newsletter is published monthly and is distributed as an e-mail in an effort to be more eco-friendly, as well as to reduce postage and printing costs. Please feel free to forward this e-mail, because we are unable to reach all our District 5 members, especially at the group level. If you want your contributions to be included in the newsletter, please e-mail us at [email protected]. The District 5 Newsletter Committee will do its best to make this a valuable resource for communication, and to allow the members of our District to keep in touch with each other, further strengthening the unity of our fellowship. We ask Group Chairs and GSR’s to bring this Newsletter to their Group Meetings. (Please print copies and distribute them at your groups) We hold a monthly business meeting for GSRs and committee members to discuss service needs in our district and to report on World Services on the First Friday of every month at the First Baptist Church, 45 Washington St. (corner of Railroad Pl. and Washington St., 2 blocks up from Starbucks), Saratoga Springs, at 7:00 pm. All members are welcome to attend. HELPFUL LINKS OF INTEREST SARATOGA TELEPHONE ANSWERING SERVICE (STAS) 518 - 587- 0407 GENERAL SERVICE OFFICE NYC http://www.aa.org/ GRAPEVINE WEBSITE http://www.aagrapevine.org/ AREA 48 HMB WEBSITE A.A. Area 48 HMB Hudson Mohawk Berkshire AREA 48 HBM DISTRICT 5 HOME PAGE District 5 Home Page HMB AREA