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ENTER OUR Kansas City’s best calendar of family PASTOR APPRECIATION events, concerts and more! CONTEST PAGE 7 REND COLLECTIVE • OCTOBER 24 CELEBRATING FAITH, FAMILY AND COMMUNITY IN KANSAS CITY VOLUME 25 • NUMBER 10 October 2014 FREE– TAKE ONE! Metro Voice to publish Ministry Needs in Nov. Meet the kids! Christopher Charlee Lisa, by Dwight Widaman Timothy, The Metro Voice will again publish our Annual Ministry Needs Guide in Jessica Matthew the November edition. The guide al - lows area organizations that serve the poor, homeless, at-risk children and women, Vets and seniors, to publish their Christmas “wish list”. The season Cheyenne between Thanksgiving and New Years finds these organizations stretched both financially and physically. Metro Voice shares their needs, at no cost, with our 70,000 readers so Christians can be connected with the churches and groups doing God’s work on the streets of our communities. If your organization needs volun - teers, finances, diapers, blankets, cloth - ing, turkeys etc., email your contact Alexus info with a 50-word description of your “wish list” to me at Jorge R & Emilio & Pilar [email protected]. Due date for inclusion is Oct. 23. See Read more about these children in our 2014 Adoption and Foster Care Guide - PAGE 7 our online Nov. 2013 PDF version for last year’s Ministry Needs Guide. High hopes for Operation Christmas Child this year New survey of food needs Organization wants to trip with Operation Christmas Child. time because of the high-risk gang vio - in Kansas, Missouri The group that Cordell traveled with lence that goes on in certain areas,” increase shoebox went to local churches and Cordell said. “Many of these children live collection by 10,755 schools over a two-day in tough circumstances, period to deliver gift- but I was able to see by Cassie Schenck filled shoeboxes to genuine joy on their faces Each year, Operation Christmas Child more than 200 chil - when we delivered the
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CALL 816-524-4522 OR EMAIL [email protected] 2 • October 2014 ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––metrovoicenews.com n facebook.com/metrovoicenews ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––Metro Voice Group pushes mandatory civics test How to bring bad news by Dwight Widaman America’s newest immigrant citizens know a lot more about the U.S. government than Workshop offered on compassion in Republicans and Democrats agree on most natural-born citizens. disease dialogue and death notification one thing: the vast majority of Americans are stupid on questions concerning the by Dwight Widaman and hospice and palliative care, attended American form of governance and basic the University of Missouri-Columbia as principles of our democracy. And they For doctors, nurses and those in the an undergraduate and graduated from have polls to back them up. faith community, sharing bad news with Stanford University School of Medicine Immigrants applying for U.S. citizen - an individual or family is a daunting and in 1991. His oncology training was at the ship are required to pass a 10-question heart-wrenching task. For most it is the University of Texas MD Anderson Can - civics test that asks basic questions about most distressing thing they are called to cer Center and he has 13 years of teach - American history and government. The do in their professions. It is often a sub - ing experience as a faculty member at the ten questions are asked orally, and are ject overlooked in medical or spiritual University of Missouri Health Care. taken from a list of 100 questions, with training. Festa began his professional career as suggested answers, provided by the United Park University’s Center to Advance a certified medical librarian on faculty States Citizenship and Immigration Serv - dents could recite the first line of the con - The group wants every Missouri high the Study of Loss will host a workshop with the medical school at the University ices. More than 97 percent of immigrants stitution. school student to pass that test before they on Friday, Oct. 10, of South Carolina. After earning his Doc - applying for citizenship pass the test by Backers of the Missouri Civics Educa - can graduate, and it’s not just in Missouri from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. torate of Ministry from Union Theolog - answering six out of ten questions cor - tion Initiative point to studies showing a where there is concern. A national group on the University’s ical Seminary in Richmond, Va., he rectly. need for a return to civics education. The including former New York Mayor Rudy Parkville Campus. The taught biomedical ethics at the Medical In Missouri, a bipartisan group has Pew Research Center says two-third of Giuliani, former U.S. Supreme Court Jus - workshop, “Compas - College of Virginia, Virginia Common - launched an effort to make sure the state’s Americans cannot name the three tice Sandra Day O'Connor and Pulitzer sion in Disease Dia - wealth University. high school graduates understand as branches of government. Studies show less Prize-winning reporter Carl Bernstein is logue and Death Other speakers include Laurel Hilliker, much about their country and its system than four percent of Oklahoma and Ari - backing this "civics education initiative" in ANDERSON Notification,”, is de - Ph.D., executive director of Park’s CASL of government as immigrants are required zona high school students could pass the states around the country. signed for profession - and assistant professor of sociology, and to know when they become citizens. At United States Citizenship and Immigra - National campaign director Sam als to gain knowledge Gerry Walker, D.H.Ed., MSN, RN, chair one time, civics was a course taught in tion Services test that 92 percent of immi - Stone says civics has gotten lost in the push in considerate truth- of Park’s Ellen Finley Earhart Nursing high schools and even elementary stu - grants pass on their first try. for STEM subjects–science, technology, telling throughout a Program and associate professor of nurs - engineering and math. “We’re just saying person’s disease jour - ing. Hilliker will facilitate the agenda and this is absolutely equally as important [as] ney and to develop briefly discuss current research on the strategies for using day’s topic, while Walker will provide a those subjects.” HILLIKER He says when citizens don’t understand compassion in death personal story of the tragic circumstances how government works and who we are notification. surrounding the death of a young adult as a nation, they’re not likely to vote or The keynote and the delivery of the news to the family take part in intelligent policy decisions, speaker for the event is in a hospital setting. thereby failing their communities. Clay M. Anderson, “The way in which the news of a ter - The shift away from civic education M.D., FACP, minal illness or the death of a family over the past two decades can be partially FAAHPM, senior member is delivered has been found to attributed to failed federal policies like that FESTA medical director for have a great impact on a person’s be - of Present Bush: No Child Left Behind, NorthCare Hospice reavement,” said Hilliker. “It is our hope President Clinton’s failed policy in the and Palliative Care. In addition, Rev. Dan that we will equip participants in this 1990s and the more recent Obama policy Festa, D.Min, pastor of Covenant Pres - workshop with compassionate practical of Race to the Top, which is now being re - byterian Church in Marshall, Mo., will strategies on this topic.” placed by Common Core. Recent research present on the topic. Anderson will focus Registration for the event is $50 and suggests states shifted educational re - on the disease dialogue concept and ex - includes lunch and refreshments. Con - sources away from social studies toward pand on strategies that utilize a positive tinuing education units are available. subjects that appear on statewide assess - approach for communication in hospice, ments. palliative care and other settings. Festa information Former Democrat Governor Bob will bring his experience and recommen - i more Holden, one of the co-chairmen of the ef - dations for sharing news of a death in a RegFisoterr bqeufoerset Tiohnurss doary, aOdctd. 7it. ional fort, says understanding the American sys - compassionate manner. information, contact Hilliker tem of government is “fundamental to the Anderson, trained and board certified at [email protected] or well-being” of the country and its states. in internal medicine, medical oncology, (816) 584-6808.
Are YOU thankful? by Dwight Widaman In November, Metro Voice will pub - lish “Why I’m Thankful” –our annual Thanksgiving feature with letters from readers sharing their blessings. You don’t have to be a writer to share your blessings! Have you or loved one recovered from illness? Did a a loved one accept Christ? Did you find a job? Every letter will be printed. Send us your letter of 350-400 words, along with your photo, by Oct. 23. Mail them to Metro Voice, PO Box 1114, Lee’s Summit, MO 64063 or email [email protected]. Metro Voice ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––metrovoicenews.com n facebook.com/metrovoicenews ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––October 2014 • 3 Formerly homeless, man is now a celebrity artist Is your marriage funny? City Union Mission Laughter isn’t only over-spiritualizes it,” the best medicine, it can says Gungor. “The re - offers exclusive also be the best marriage ality is that relation - counselor. We know of ships between men and drawings of Royals its power to reduce stress women are very down- players in everyday life, but to-earth. many couples have over - In the Friday session, looked its usefulness in “The Tale of Two Artist Alexander Austin has a unique their most important re - Brains,” Gungor will connection to the City Union Mission as lationship. break down the walls a former shelter guest him - On Oct. 24 and 25 at by making couples self. At 27, unable to find a Lenexa Christian Cen - laugh about the differ - good-paying job, he ended ter, married, single, and ences between men and up homeless and seeking divorced couples will get women, emphasizing assistance at the mission. tacting the mission’s chief To date, seven of the portraits have Gungor a chance to laugh about how marital difficulties During his stay, he met a development officer, Den - been sold and, with the team’s success, the – and make vital changes can be the result not of man who took him under nis Chapman, at (816) demand is growing. “We’re truly hon - more info to – their relationships n a heart problem, but a his wing, teaching him to 474-9380, ext. 1476. Pro - ored that Alexander has undertaken this Laugh Your Way To through Laugh Your head problem. paint street murals. That ceeds from the sales benefit exciting project on the mission’s behalf,” A Better Marriage Way to a Better Marriage Saturday morning’s relationship became a step - the mission’s programs said Executive Director Daniel J. Doty. “If Austin seminar hosted by pas - n Friday, Oct. 24 and Saturday, first session is called pingstone to the career that and services for homeless you’re an avid Royals fan, there couldn’t Oct. 25 tor, motivational “The No. 1 Key to In - has made him a Kansas City icon. and disadvantaged men, women and be a more perfect addition to your mem - Show Times: Friday, 7 p.m. to speaker, musician and n credible Sex.” In it, Now, Austin is giving back, working in children. orabilia collection. Contact the Mission 10:00pm, and Saturday, 9 a.m. writer Mark Gungor. Gungor will discuss partnership with City Union Mission and Today the walls of the inner city form now while the picture of your favorite to 12 p.m. Most marriage sem - how the sexual mes - inviting Royals fans to secure a personal Austin’s gallery. Among his creations are player is still available and know you’re n Doors Open: Friday, 6:15 p.m. inars tend to be serious, and Saturday 8:15 a.m. sages of our culture are memento of this winning baseball season representations of jazz legends at 18th supporting the Mission’s efforts to technical, and emotion - Lenexa Christian Center fundamentally flawed while helping the homeless of Kansas and Vine, portraits of Kansas City history strengthen the fabric of our Kansas City n ally taxing. Laugh Your 17500 W. 87th St. Pkwy. at best and destructive City. The Mission is of - along Troost Avenue, community!” Way to a Better Mar - Lenexa, KS 66219 at worst, and suggest fering drawings of each If you’re an avid Royals fan, and the Power & City Union Mission is an evangelical riage, by contrast, helps n For information call the church steps couples can take member of the 2013 Light District’s Christian ministry committed to sharing at 913-888-1559 or there couldn’t be a more couples deal with tough to achieving a spectac - Royals roster—as well 18,000-square-foot the Gospel and meeting the spiritual, visit http://www.lcclife.me to issues in a way that’s fun purchase tickets. ular and healthy sex as new players for perfect addition to your south wall. He has physical, and emotional needs of men, and non-threatening. life. 2014—created by also painted a mov - women and children who are poor or memorabilia collection. There are no workbooks to fill out, no Saturday’s final sessions, “Why Does Austin, now Major ing mural on the homeless. emotional “break-out” sessions, and no He/She Do That!?” and “How to Stay League Baseball’s “2012 Hometown He - wall of the multipurpose room of the one is ever forced to speak in front of the Married and Not Kill Anybody,” are hi - roes Artist”. Each portrait will be signed Mission’s Christian Life Center, and he information group. larious explorations of marital dynamics by Austin and the Royals player. continues to use his talents to benefit the i more “Our secular culture over-romanti - meant to inspire couples to convert un - The framed originals are being offered Mission, including these one-of-a-kind [email protected] or (816) cizes marriage and our Christian culture derstanding into action. for $1,000 each and are available by con - drawings of the Royals players. 584-6808. 4 • October 2014 –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– metrovoicenews.com n facebook.com/metrovoicenews ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––Metro Voice
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Brett leads and lives David Platt and Brett Younker and Band. North America challenging everyone— the youngest megachurch pastors in the under the leadership of some of the most baristas, electricians, lawyers, teachers and United States, is the New York Times best- influential leaders in the church today, in - for this album is that people would rise up North America Experience Tour coming cluding Louie Giglio, Chris Tomlin and into who Jesus has made them to be and to Kansas City or to RSVP, visit sendcon - Matt Redman. Come to the Water is walk daily in the freedom Jesus promises. ference.com. The event is free, but an 32nd ANNUAL Brett's third full-length album. The hope For more information about the Send RSVP is required. Eleven ways you can share the gospel Best Little Spreading the Good News doesn’t have to kill relationships Those who follow Jesus have a God- worried about getting it wrong and burn - you know unless they know how much given command and Spirit-empowered ing relationships with friends and family. you care. Here are 11 unique ways to desire to share the Gospel ... but often we It doesn't have to be that way! As the old "show" and "tell" from missional experts don't know where to begin. Plus, we're saying goes, people won't care how much Ben Connelly and Dr. Bob Roberts, Jr., au - Art and thors of A Field Guide for Everyday Mis - sion: 30 Days and 101 Ways to Demonstrate the Gospel (Moody Pub - lishers). Crafts Show 1. Walk your dog. Walk when your Are you neighbors are outside. Strike up conversa - tions. No dog? Here's your chance to guilt IN INDEPENDENCE trip your spouse into getting one. November 21, 10 a.m. - 7 p.m. confused? 2. Fix broken things. 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Southeast corner of Truman & Noland Roads to share the Gospel with those in darkness. • Three hours of college seminary credit may be earned Show dignity, kindness, grace, mercy and 816.325.7370 for information • Audit students are welcome. the love of Christ. The waiters, assistants, For more information or to register, contact janitorial staff, drivers and housekeepers who surround you, greet them by name. Sponsored by the Independence Dr. Carroll C. McCarroll, President, at 816-356-6380 Get off your phone before you check out Parks and Recreation Department www.heartofamericaministries.com • [email protected] See GOSPEL next page Metro Voice ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––metrovoicenews.com n facebook.com/metrovoicenews ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––October 2014 • 5 Join Our Pastor Appreciation Contest!
by Dwight Widaman ministry if they could, but have no other way of making a living. CONTEST DETAILS October is National Pastor Apprecia - Marriage and Family Troubling statistics aren’t they? And don’t tion month and Metro Voice wants to 80% believe pastoral ministry be fooled. Your pastor may be feeling one, honor pastors for their tireless work. In has negatively affected their families. if not several, of the above sentiments. First Timothy it says, “The elders who di - 80% of spouses feel the pastor is over - While a contest cannot solve each of rect the affairs of the church well are worked. these issues, we can show our love for our worthy of double honor, especially those 80% spouses feel left out and under- pastors. So, Metro Voice is having a contest! whose work is preaching and appreciated by church members. You are invited to write us a 300-word letter Church Relationships GOSPEL 9. Ask what people think of God. Literally teaching. For the Scripture says, ‘Do not on why you have a great pastor. How has n everyone considers that question and muzzle the ox while it is treading out the 70% do not have someone they con - your pastor changed your life? Send us the continued from page 3 most will answer. Even if some answers grain,’” –1 Timothy 5:17-18. sider a close friend. letter by Oct. 20. The person who convinces of a store. scare you, it's a way to see how others Through Oct. 20, Metro Voice is 40% report serious conflict with a us they have the best pastor will win their 8. Ask good questions. Show people you think about deep things. holding a “Pastor Appreciation Contest”. parishioner at least once a month. pastor a two-night Branson vacation includ - care about them, their beliefs and their de - 10. Talk to not-yet believers the same way See details at right. But, first, recent sur - #1 reason pastors leave the min - ing lodging at a beautiful Myer Hotel prop - sires. "When do you feel like that?" "Were you talk to Christians. Discuss hobbies, pas - veys of pastors find they are some of the istry — Church people are not willing to erty (compliments of Metro Voice), show you afraid?" "How did you respond?" sions, work or whatever you talk about in most stressed and least appreciated go the same direction and goal of the tickets (including the Great Passion Play in "What concerns you most?" "How are you Christian circles-95 percent of conversa - workers in God’s kingdom. The survey, pastor. Pastors believe God wants them Eureka Springs, Ark.) and gift certificates to doing with it now?" "Tell me more!" and tion can look the same. by the Schaeffer Institute, found: to go in one direction but the people are cover gas and meals for two (compliments Hours of course, "Why?" 11. Watch your reactions. Respond to not willing to follow or change. of Midwest Ministers Fellowship). But that’s Longevity frustrations in gracious ways. Ignore office 90% of pastors report working be - not all! The author of the essay will win tick - gossip. Display patience in difficulty. The tween 55 to 75 hours per week. 50% of new ministers will not last 5 ets to a future Christian concert. Mail your Construction work continues as "small moments" of life are platforms to 50% feel unable to meet job demands. years. letter to Metro Voice, PO Box 1114, Lee’s Training and Preparedness women move forward in life with display your faith. 1,700 pastors leave ministry every Summit, MO 64063 or email your submis - renovations and additions. Parting word of caution... beware of 90% feel they are inadequately trained month. sion to [email protected]. Act Experience a time turning people into projects and forcing to cope with the ministry demands. 1 out of every 10 retire as a minister. quick! Deadline is Oct. 15. Winners will be of revelation and the Gospel uninvited. Remember, most 90% of pastors said the ministry was 4,000 new churches begin each year announced in our November edition. reflection while mission happens through meaningful completely different than what and 7,000 churches close. reading this book. conversations and genuine relationships. they thought it would be like before they So above all, love others well. entered the ministry. Life is truly a Health and Well-Being From the book A Field Guide for Every - construction 70% of pastors fight depression. site. day Mission: 30 Days and 101 Ways to Demonstrate the Gospel by Ben Connelly 50% of pastors feel [email protected] and Dr. Bob Roberts, Jr. so discouraged that they would leave the 6 • October 2014 ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––metrovoicenews.com n facebook.com/metrovoicenews ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––Metro Voice news briefs MISSOURI LAWMAKERS toward women. The law Missouri’s bill passed with bipartisan support, Common Core have been adopted in more in place. Public awareness has grown since OVERRIDE VETO TO ENACT places Missouri in second despite an attempted filibuster by Democratic than 40 states, but according to a Phi Delta then, and so has public concern. Eighty-one ABORTION WAIT PERIOD place for most stringent senators. The vote was 117-44 in the House Kappa (PDK)/Gallup poll released in August, percent of poll participants this year had (WNS)--The Missouri state legislature en - wait-period laws. North and 23-7 in the Senate. the majority of Americans oppose them. By “heard at least a little” about Common Core, acted a 72-hour wait period for abortions in Dakota’s 72-hour wait pe - the end of 2012, all but a handful of states had and 60 percent said they don’t want it in their early September, overriding Gov. Jay Nixon’s riod, the strictest in the COMMON CORE LOSING THE adopted Common Core. But the 2013 classrooms. veto from earlier this year. The governor la - country, doesn’t include NIXON PUBLIC PERCEPTION TEST PDK/Gallup poll showed 62 percent of Ameri - weekends or holidays. (WNS)--The education standards called cans had never heard of the standards already HAMAS TERRORIST GOV’T beled the new bill “extreme and disrespectful” TO TALK WITH ISRAEL (WNS)--A Hamas leader said the group was ready to break its long-standing silent treat - ment of Israel and talk directly to the coun - try’s leaders. The terror group that controls the Gaza Strip, where a bloody conflict ended just last month, wants to negotiate over issues such as border crossings be - tween Gaza and Israel and prisoner releases. “Up till now our policy was no negotiation with (Israel), but others should be aware that this issue is not taboo,” said Hamas’s second-in-command, Musa Abu Marzouk, in an interview with Al Quds TV. While Israel controls entry of good in and out of Gaza on the Israel border, Egypt also has enforced a blockade on their borders with Gaza for the same reasons as Israel–security. CUBA CRACKS DOWN ON CHRISTIANS
(WNS)--Cuba’s communist government has increased its oppression of religious institu - tions, according to a Christian watchdog group, with reports of religious liberty viola - tions almost doubling in the last six months. According to a new report from Christian Sol - idarity Worldwide (CSW), there were 170 reli - gious freedom violations from the start of 2014 through mid-July. In 2013, there were only 180 incidents documented. This year’s vi - olations included government authorities beating pastors and lay workers, dragging po - litically dissident women away from Sunday services, and enforcing arbitrary detentions, church closures, and demolitions, CSW said. Since 1959, the Cuban government has planted informants within churches and religious groups to report anything critical of the state or deemed “counter-revolutionary.” MAJORITY OF AMERICANS BELIEVE INFLUENCE OF RELIGION IS WANING A new poll shows more Americans believe religion is less influential in soci - ety, with most viewing the trend as bad for society. According to the Pew Research Center, 72 percent of Americans believe reli - gion is losing its influence in so - ciety, up 5 percent from four years ago. And most of those say the trend is bad for Amer - ica. That might be why more Americans also said they want churches and other houses of worship to be more active in politics. The survey shows 43 percent say faith groups should speak out more about their so - cial and political views. That's a six percent in - crease since 2010. Metro Voice ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––metrovoicenews.com n facebook.com/metrovoicenews ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––October 2014 • 7
2014 Adoption & Foster Guide Meet the kids Wait No More KANSAS KIDS Kansas, Missouri Fore more info on the kids visit www.adoptk - skids.org for KS or adoptUSkids.org for MO. kids cry out for Charlee families. Focus on Case # CH-6026 Female, 11 years old the Family effort will Siblings: None Meet Charlee, she is a caring child who enjoys help on Nov. 1 helping others. Some of the things she likes do are reading and doing arts and crafts. In “When, God?” the Smiths wanted to school Charlee enjoys science the most as she know. “When is the right time to add to likes doing the experiments they do in class. our family?” She enjoys funny movies, especially the ones Adam and Carol already felt totally that really make her laugh. When she grows comfortable with the idea of adoption. Not up Charlee would like to be a massage thera - only were they emotionally ready (Carol pist. She works hard in school and is proud of has siblings who were adopted and she getting awards; Overall Charlee needs a fam - ily that will look out for her and give the love considers the experience “an amazing and support she deserves. Only families living blessing”), they were also spiritually ready. in Kansas will be considered at this time. They believe that “God calls us to care for the orphans among us.” Jorge, Emilio, Pilar All they needed was confirmation that The hardest part of any adoption, Carol Case # CH-5965 Male, 11 years old the time was right. says, is learning to blend so many different Wait No More event details Jorge, Emilio and Pilar need a two parent That confirmation came when they at - personalities and different ways of relating. home that is structured and has a routine in tended a Wait No More conference organ - “But God has united us and made us a place. Jorge is good with electronics. He en - ized by Focus on the Family (See sidenote), family,” she says. Focus On Family hopes public responds joys playing on the computer, playing video and heard testimonies from families who “It has been a joy to introduce them to Focus on the Family has joined the “Orphans are just one of the many games and watching TV. He also likes riding shared how God had carried them our God, who loves them with an unend - his bike, going swimming and spending one- Kansas Department for Children and groups that cannot speak for them - through the difficulties and challenges that ing love and has already adopted them as on-one time with the adults in his life. Jorge Families, the Missouri Children’s Di - selves, and we want to raise awareness can come with adoption. His sons and daughters!” Eighteen months really likes to read and says that reading is vision, local churches, adoption lead - of these precious children awaiting “The Lord used this time to calm our have passed since the adoption. And Carol his favorite class in school. He enjoys being ers and Metro Voice to raise adoption in Kansas and Missouri.” fears and quiet our says, “The kids are responsible for things and does well at help - awareness of and recruit permanent One goal is to gain the support of ing around the house. Jorge struggles with hearts,” Adam recalls. bonding and grow - “The kids are bonding and families for waiting children and churches. Kansas has more than 4,000 transitions and will need consistency in his “We feared our own ing. Both Rebecca youth in foster care. churches and Missouri has almost life. Jorge does have a few friends but likes to inadequacies at meet - growing. Both Rebecca (now age 8) and The Wait No More adoption con - 9,000. play by himself. Emilio is very loving and likes ing the challenges of Ryan (now age 6) ference will be held on Saturday, Nov. Conference participants will have to be praised. He always likes helping out! He these children. But the (now age 8) and Ryan have become Chris - 1, at Colonial Presbyterian Church, the opportunity to hear more about enjoys playing sports and video games. He event created such ex - tians and been bap - does well at school but needs assistance in (now age 6) have become 9500 Wornall Rd., in Kansas City. The the waiting children, the process of citement that we tized.” math and reading. Pilar is very aware of oth - conference will highlight the fact that adoption from foster care and ways couldn’t wait for this In fact, the adop - ers feelings. She is loving and enjoys giving Christians and been almost 400 legal orphans in Kansas to support adoptive families. In addi - next phase of Christ’s tion experience has hugs. She is a quick learner and a strong foster care and 1,400 in Missouri are tion, agency and county representa - journey for our fam - baptized.” been so great that the reader. awaiting adoption. The conference is tives will be on site to answer ily.” Smiths are in the process of adopting from 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. The conference questions and help families begin the Christopher A few months after the Wait No More again. Carol says, “We have more room, we Case # 100928 is free, however, because conference- adoption process. conference, the Smiths, who live in Mis - have more love and with the power of Male, 16 years old related materials will be offered, pre- Since November 2008, more than souri, were presented with the profiles of Christ and our community of believers be - Siblings: None registration is strongly preferred. 2,800 families (out of approximately two kids in foster care. So Adam and Carol hind us, we are able to step out in faith to Christopher enjoys Spiderman, Batman and “These kids are dealing with feel - 6800 that have attended events) have committed their hearts to move forward love these kids.” going swimming. His favorite class in school ings of rejection, fear and mistrust, initiated the process of adoption from is PE. Christopher requires one-on-one atten - with foster care adoption. The Smith kids realize that this will re - and we want to shine the light of foster care as a result of Focus on the tion and is in a special educational setting at “They were a good fit for our family,” quire sacrifice. God’s love to them through adop - Family’s 24 Wait No More events in school. He will need frequent reminders daily Adam recalled. And the children’s social But they’ve all prayed about it and asked tion,” said Kelly Rosati, who adopted 17 states. to follow the rules and expectations. Christo - worker agreed. Two months after first themselves, “Am I willing to pay the cost of her four children from foster care and For more info or to register, visit pher does not always listen to adults and will meeting them, Rebecca and Ryan moved answering God’s call?” serves as vice president of Commu - icareaboutorphans.org or call 1-800- not always be truthful especially if he thinks in with the Smith clan. Four months later, The answer they’ve come back with is that he is going to get in trouble. He will need nity Outreach at Focus on the Family. A- FAMILY. Also, see ad on page 24. the adoption was complete. YES! See KIDS page 7 8 • October 2014 ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––metrovoicenews.com n facebook.com/metrovoicenews ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––Metro Voice LIKE US! FACEBOOK.COM/METRO VOICE NEWS Life IS given hope for tomorrow KIDS Nine years ago, a pregnant young girl for her own needs and felt it would be bet - continued from page 6 with a life ravaged with hardship, came ter to free the resources of The LIGHT to be supervised when playing with peers to through the doors of The LIGHT HOUSE House to be used to make sure that his play is appropriate. He maternity home in Kansas City. She had help other young The Light needs a family that will understand his limita - no involvement with her biological par - women who House bottle tions and provide him with a stable and loving ents and was fearful she would not be able might have a drive is a environment. to remain in relationship with her siblings. greater need. tradition Alexus She already had one child that she was un - She verbal - with countless Case # 101533 able to care for and was going through the ized much churches Female, 12 years old adoption process. gratitude for and Alexus is a friendly and affectionate girl who Few thought she would make it all that the schools very much wants to be a part of a family! Her through junior high school and it seemed Lord and across the hobbies include arts and crafts and cooking. that every aspect of her life was a struggle. The LIGHT Kansas Her favorite classes in school are reading, math Throughout her pregnancy, and after de - House had City area. and science; she says that these subjects are livering a beautiful baby, this young girl done for her. fun. Alexus will need additional supports in place at school in order to be successful aca - found resources and support through The Most im - demically and behaviorally. Alexus struggles LIGHT House to aid in setting goals and pressive was with controlling her anger and can become ver - making positive decisions. She stayed con - her expres - bally and physically aggressive whenever she nected through The LIGHT House Out - sion of the is told no or when she is upset about some - reach Program where she was provided great hope for the future she holds for her - thing. Alexus needs a family who is committed, with baby supplies and was involved in self and her family. structured and loving. weekly Bible studies and parenting sup - The word “LIGHT” in the name port. LIGHT House, is an acronym for Life Is Missouri Today, she is the mother of three very Given Hope for Tomorrow, which is ex - These are just a few of the many kids in loved and cared-for children and is in the actly what is seen in this young woman’s Missouri who need a permanent family process of getting married and buying a life. This story is a reminder that the Lord Lisa, Timothy, Jessica home. is using The LIGHT House to change lives Ages: 13, 12, 6, 1 male, 2 female In less than eighteen months, she will and provide hope for those who believe Case # SMO047542 graduate from college and is excelling in they have no hope. Meet 3 awesome kids! Lisa, Timmy and Jessica. her job. For more information go to www.light - These three siblings are a great group of kids When told she was missed in The housekc.org or call 816-361-2233. Dona - who need a loving family that wants to open LIGHT House Outreach Program, she re - tions may be sent to P.O. Box 22553, Kansas their arms to a lot of extra love and fun. Lisa sponded that she was now able to provide City, MO 64113. is a fun loving, sweet young lady who turned 13 last October. She likes to spend her time out - doors, fishing, going for walks and just hanging out and loves to make friends. Lisa has gor - geous green eyes and black hair and a beauti - ful smile to match. Timmy is a very outgoing young man who is not one bit shy. He turned 12 this January and is as spunky as he is cute. Timmy is very kind hearted and loves to play sports and video games. Timmy has big blue eyes and the cutest dimples around. Jessica is a super cute little darling who turned 6 last Helping April. Jessica likes to spend her time with her big sister and loves to be outdoors playing. Families Grow Cheyenne Female, Age: 13 Through Race: White/Caucasian State: Missouri Adoption for Case # MO0420033070147 Cheyenne is a beautiful young lady that is Over 30 Years. sweet inside and out. Cheyenne is slender built, has long brown hair, pretty blue eyes, and a smile that will melt your heart. Cheyenne likes to travel, she likes swimming, she likes school, We have over 30 years of experience handling she really likes girly things, and she likes to learn about new things. Cheyenne is the oldest in-state, interstate and international adoptions, of a sibling group of three. She would like to representing adoptive parents and birth parents. keep in contact with her siblings. It’s important Including: to her to know that they are doing well and are I I safe. Cheyenne is a little shy until she gets to Step-parentI adoptions Private placement know you. adoptions PlacementsI through Social Services Matthew, Jalen Agency placements. 2 Males, Ages: 13, 10 State: Missouri Case # SMO038090 Gary K. Patton • [email protected] Matthew and Jalen are two peas in a pod! Their Jennifer S. Wagner • [email protected] beautiful smiles radiate positive energy and Breahn R. Vokolek • [email protected] their upbeat attitudes. Together, they enjoy Brock A. Patton • [email protected] playing video games, watching movies, reading books and snacking on sweets. Both boys also enjoy playing various sports and have partici - 114 Westwoods Drive pated on teams in the past, but they do not Liberty, Missouri 64068 usually enjoy lots of outdoor activities. Matthew has been described by his teachers (816) 792-2020 • www.pattonwagner.com as having a "positive attitude, tries very hard to comply with anything asked of him, and is pleasant and cooperative in class." Jalen has been described by his teachers as always hav - ing "a very positive, upbeat attitude and smiles a lot." Metro Voice ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––metrovoicenews.com n facebook.com/metrovoicenews ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––October 2014 • 9 Discipleship key to helping women in crisis Help a child love Christmas Many children born What happens when a kid is afraid at Christmas? It's not an unusual feeling to women in crisis for the boys and girls who enter the fos - pregnancies will be ter care and adoption programs at Saint Francis Community Services. adopted. Should we Many of the kids in our program have been abused and neglected. Holi - not disciple their days can be the hardest time of the year. birth mothers? Annie came to Saint Francis two years ago. She spent Destiny is 13 and looking for a home. most of her Christmas Day hiding from the fights and Her hobbies include drawing and by Clorisa Bridgers star gazing. Science is her favorite See ST. FRANCIS page 23 class in school. As Christians, we throw around the word “disciple” a lot, but what does it re - to love someone who feels unlovable or that she found to improve the lives of ally mean? perhaps behaves in a way that makes them those God entrusted to her: “We think Easton’s 1897 Bible Dictionary defines difficult to love. sometimes that poverty is only being hun - disciple as a scholar, sometimes applied to We have been blessed to have the op - gry, naked and homeless. The poverty of the followers of John the Baptist (Matt. portunity to love and disciple three young being unwanted, unloved and uncared for 9:14) and of the Pharisees (22:16), but women at Aaron’s House. is the greatest poverty. We must start in principally to the followers of Christ. A Each of those women had a son while our own homes to remedy this kind of disciple of Christ is one who (1) believes living at the maternity home who were poverty…Calcuttas are everywhere if only his doctrine, (2) rests on his sacrifice, (3) welcomed, cuddled, and treasured. we have eyes to see. Find your Calcutta.” – imbibes his spirit, and (4) imitates his ex - Zyanne, Sarah, and Jenny each left this Mother Theresa ample (Matt. 10:24; Luke 14:26, 27, 33; ministry knowing they were loved dearly – Clorisa Bridgers is director of Aaron’s John 6:69). and prayed for daily. House maternity home in The other day I was skimming the in - I love this quote from Mother Theresa Harrisonville, Mo. ternet and read the most fascinating and about poverty and the personal remedy inspiring paragraph: “The world’s most powerful evangelist, who could win 1,000 souls to Jesus each day of his entire life from the day he was born, would never win the world in his generation (80 years = 29,200,000). However, if one person disciples an - other person for an entire year and then each of them disciples another person the next year, there will be four discipling one person each the following year, etc. This %&$* & %&##, ('(' )!(&'$)#' could yield the amazing result of the earth’s population being discipled (not %&##, *& ( $# )( $# $%%$&()# ( ' just converted) in one generation!” '&* &&&!' )( $# # Think of that… choosing to mentor or $&( $# #$&"( $# disciple another person for one full year and then encouraging further discipleship )&