Anal Sex Toys

Preparation for Anal Play

The anus and are packed with sensitive nerve endings. Many people –male and female– find this to be their most sensitive erogenous zone. For men it is even more so because of the prostate gland. By stimulating this gland a man is able to have multiple orgasms, orgasm without ejaculation and experience an orgasm unlike a penis induced orgasm.

See the article on and 101.

Remember during anal play to always use plenty of lubricant. Wash yourself and your toys thoroughly. Don’t mix vaginal and anal play as bacteria may be transferred. Did we mention – use plenty of lube?

Flexi Felix, Translucent and Thai Anal beads are used to intensify the orgasm. A number of beads attached to a string or plastic stalk are inserted into the anus. They are pulled out at the moment of orgasm. This prolongs and intensifies the orgasm.

Most regular and vibrators can be used for anal play BUT ensure that have a large handle or a flared base, because at the point of orgasm the anus sucks and you do not want a trip to the emergency room.

Plugs are inserted into the anus and left there during sex. Because of the many nerve endings in the anus, this intensifies the orgasm. Anal plugs come in all shapes and sizes, and some even vibrate.

You’ll find plugs that are made from rubber, silicone, acrylic, jelly, glass or stainless steel. Choose one with a flange base – this ensures that the sphincter muscle tightens around the base and the plug can not get ‘lost’.

Anal Beads or Plugs

Before initial usage, run the pads of your fingers over each bead to make sure there are no sharp tags or seams left over from the moulding process. If there are, use a nail file to file the points smooth. Prior to each use, check the knot below the last bead to make sure that it is tied securely.

To clean plastic anal beads, scrub with a mild soap and hot water, paying special attention to the cord. An anti bacterial toy cleaner will ensure that all bacteria has been killed. Try Eva Toy Cleaner. Plastic anal beads cannot be sterilized, and there- fore it is strongly recommended that the beads not be shared, and that they be thrown away after 3-4 uses.

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The primary rule of anal pleasure is NEVER put anything the anus that does not have a large handle or a flared base. The second is taking the time to relax your sphincter muscles before inserting anything into your anus—relaxation is a prerequisite to enjoyable anal play.

Before insertion, lubricate both your finger and anus then position your finger at the opening. In anal play you can never, ever use enough lube! Make sure your nails are trimmed smooth, or you might want to wear a latex glove. Tease yourself—slowly massaging the lubricant around and into the anus. Try Pjur silicone or gel lubricants.

Maintain steady breathing, and when you're ready, exhale and begin to slide your finger in. Leave your finger in place as you continue to inhale and exhale. Maintain a relaxed pace as you continue your explorations.

If anything hurts or causes your muscles to tense up, slow down, stop moving, or stop altogether. Never use lubricant that contains benzocane or any other numbing agents because they will mask your body's signals, in addition to reducing your pleasure. There are a couple of reputable numbing products on the market, Pjur Analyse and Soothe from Intimate Organics.

Anything that goes into your anus should be smooth, seamless and free of rough, scratchy edges. Because the lining of the rectum is delicate, file down any plastic seams on hard plastic toys. You should also make sure there is no way to lose hold of whatever is going into your anus. All butt plugs or battery vibes intended for anal use should have a flared base, so that even if you let go, it won't slip into your rectum. If this does happen, it's more than likely that if you wait patiently in a relaxed position, it will come out on its own. In certain instances the toy can get pushed all the way into the colon and you will need to see a doctor immediately— especially if it's a . So choose and use your toys wisely! Try any of the Nexus Range, Smooth Ribs, Libido Wand or the Omega .

Please read our article on prostate massage and its benefits to your health and your orgasm.

Never transfer your toy from anus to without either washing the toy or using a . We find that the simplest, most convenient approach to keeping anal toys clean is to put a condom on your toy every time you play. On a plug, just pull the condom over the toy and tie a knot in the open end to keep it in place. Always clean your toys with an anti bacterial soap and a toy cleaner – try Eva available from www.lolamontez.co.za - Enjoy!

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