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Abuse, Torture, and Trauma and Their Consequences and Effects
Abuse, Torture, And Trauma and Their Consequences and Effects 1st EDITION Sam Vaknin, Ph.D. [email protected] [email protected] http://www.geocities.com/vaksam/narclist.html http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/narclist.html http://groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabus e http:/ / samvak.tripod.com http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html Pathological Narcissism – An Overview A Primer on Narcissism and the Na r cissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) The Narcissist's Entitlement of Routine Pathological Narcissism – A Dysfunction or a Blessing? The Narcissist's Confabulated Life The Cult of the Narcissist Bibliography The Narcissist in the Workplace The Narcissist in the Workplace Narcissism in the Boardroom The Professions of the Narcissist , Abuse, Torture - An Overview What is Abuse? Traumas as Social Interactions The Psychology of Torture Trauma, Abuse, Torture - Effec t s and Consequences How Victims are Affected by Abuse Victim reaction to Abuse By Narcissists and Psychopaths The Three Forms of Closure Surviving the Narcissist Mourning the Narcissist The Inverted Narcissist Torture, Abuse, and Trauma – In Fiction and Poetry Nothing is Happening at Home Night Terror A Dream Come True Cutting to Existence In the concentration camp called Home Sally Ann The Miracle of the Kisses Guide to Coping with Narcissists and Psychopaths The Author The Book (“Malignant Self-lo ve : Narcissism Revisited”) h ttp://samvak.tripod.com/siteindex.html A Profile of the Narcissistic Abuser Pathological Narcissism – An Overview A Primer on Narcissism And the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) What is Pathological Narcissism? Pathological narcissism is a life-long pattern of traits and behaviours which signify infatuation and obsession with one's self to the exclusion of all others and the egotistic and ruthless pursuit of one's gratification, dominance and ambition. -
Narcissistic Personality Disorders Are Leaders of Destructive Groups
The Personality Disorders Ten to thirteen percent of the world population suffers from some form of a personality disorder. These people lead lives that few can understand, or want to understand. The personality disorders are not only persistent and unrelenting, but also very hard to cure. Most people with personality disorders, unlike other psychological disorders, can function normally in every aspect of society outside their disorder. The character portrayed by Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction is a good example of a Histrionic Personality Disorder. Robert De Niro’s role in Cape Fear is another example of the “villain” in movies having the characteristics of an Antisocial Personality Disorder. Many leaders of destructive groups (David Moses Berg, Children of God; Jim Jones, People’s Temple; David Koresh, Branch Davidians, etc.) also appear to be examples of a particular personality disorder called Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Clearly, not all Narcissistic Personality Disorders are leaders of destructive groups. However, in our experience, all leaders of truly destructive groups, if not true NPD’s, exhibit extreme narcissistic traits and/or tendencies. The above listed individuals, and many others, all share in common these characteristics in an uncanny way. As the DSM IV states, “Many highly successful individuals display personality traits that might be considered narcissistic. Only when these traits are inflexible, maladaptive, and persisting and cause significant functional impairment or subjective distress do they constitute Narcissistic Personality Disorder.” Personality disorders are stable and all-pervasive, not episodic. They affect most of the areas of functioning of the sufferer: his career, his interpersonal relationships, his social functioning. -
Malignant Self Love Narcissism Revisited
Malignant Self Love Narcissism Revisited 1st EDITION 6th Revised Impression EXCERPTS Sam Vaknin, Ph.D. The Author is NOT a Mental Health Professional. The Author is certified in Counselling Techniques. Editing and Design: Lidija Rangelovska A Narcissus Publications Imprint Prague & Skopje 2005 © 1999-2005 Copyright Lidija Rangelovska All rights reserved. This book, or any part thereof, may not be used or reproduced in any manner without written permission from: Lidija Rangelovska – write to: [email protected] or to [email protected] All rights for this book are for sale. Literary agents and publishers, please contact Lidija Rangelovska. To get FREE updates of this book JOIN the Narcissism Study List. To JOIN, visit our Web sites: http://www.geocities.com/vaksam/narclist.html or http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/narclist.html or Visit the Author's Web site:http://samvak.tripod.com Buy other books about pathological narcissism and relationships with abusive narcissists here: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html ISBN: 9989-929-06-8 Print ISBN: 80-238-3384-7 Created by: Lidija Rangelovska, Skopje REPUBLIC OF MACEDONIA C O N T E N T S Foreword Introduction – The Habitual Identity The Narcissistic Personality Disorder A Primer on Narcissism Bibliography Overview Chapter I: The Soul of a Narcissist – The State of the Art Chapter II: Being Special Chapter III: Uniqueness and Intimacy Chapter IV: The Workings of a Narcissist – A Phenomenology Chapter V: The Tortured Self (The Inner World of the Narcissist) Chapter VI: The Emotional Involvement -
Jung: Narcissism Is Healthy and Sometimes, Genius
Review Article Jung: Narcissism is Healthy and Current Research Sometimes, Genius in Psychology and Sam Vaknin* Visiting Professor of Psychology, Southern Federal University, Russia Behavioral Science Abstract (CRPBS) The concept of the Knowledge Economy was initially presented by the OECD in 1996 to name the set of industrialized countries in which knowledge was recognized as the key factor in economic growth. It is defined as the new economy linked to the Internet and whose foundations are the creation, dissemination and use of knowledge. The education index is one of the four indicators of the knowledge economy index and includes the number of years the population has spent in school, Volume 1 Issue 2, 2020 as well as current enrollment. The objective of this research is to calculate the education index as part of the knowledge economy index of each state of the Mexican Republic to identify the regions with areas of opportunity for the development Article Information of sustainable government projects that allow the inclusion and transformation of the community in an information society Received date: May 20, 2020 in the short and medium term. Using the System for the Census Information Service (SCINCE) of the National Institute of Published date: June 11, 2020 Statistics and Geography of Mexico, low levels were found in various regions of the country, as well as marked inequality between the states, concentrating low rates of education and access to ICT in some regions, historically lagging behind in development. *Corresponding author Sam Vaknin, Visiting Professor of Freud and Object Relations Theorists Psychology, Southern Federal University, The narcissist’s True Self has relegated its functions to the outside world but is not in touch with the outside world: it is only Rostov-on-Don, and Professor of the False Self is in touch with it instead. -
Depression and Narcissistic Pathologies of the Self Sam Vaknin Southern Federal University, Russia
Research and reviews: Neuroscience Depression and Narcissistic Pathologies of the Self Sam Vaknin Southern Federal University, Russia Short Communication Abstract Narcissists mourn the loss of narcissistic supply; they grieve over vanished sources of supply; they bemoan the injustice and discrimination that they suffer at the hands of their inferiors. Narcissists are often in a bad mood, anhedonic, dysphoric, and outright depressed. The narcissist’s mood swings are self-destructive and self-defeating. The manic phase of Bipolar I Disorder is often misdiagnosed as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Bipolar patients in the manic phase exhibit many of the signs and symptoms of pathological narcissism - hyperactivity, self-centeredness, lack of empathy, and control freakery. During this recurring chapter of the disease, the patient is euphoric, has grandiose fantasies, spins unrealistic schemes, and has frequent rage attacks (is irritable) if her or his wishes and plans are (inevitably) frustrated. The manic phases of the bipolar disorder, however, are limited in time - NPD is not. Furthermore, the mania is followed by - usually protracted - depressive episodes. The narcissist is also frequently dysphoric. But whereas the bipolar sinks into deep self-deprecation, self-devaluation, unbounded pessimism, all-pervasive guilt and anhedonia - the narcissist, even when depressed, never forgoes his narcissism: his grandiosity, sense of entitlement, haughtiness, and lack of empathy. Narcissistic dysphorias are much shorter and reactive - they constitute a response to the Grandiosity Gap. In plain words, the narcissist is dejected when confronted with the abyss between his inflated self-image and grandiose fantasies - and the drab reality of his life: his failures, lack of accomplishments, disintegrating interpersonal relationships, and low status. -
The Relationship of Empathy and Impulsivity to the Dark Tetrad of Personality
Abilene Christian University Digital Commons @ ACU Electronic Theses and Dissertations Electronic Theses and Dissertations Spring 4-2016 The Relationship of Empathy and Impulsivity to The Dark Tetrad of Personality Ashlee Justice Abilene Christian University, [email protected] Follow this and additional works at: https://digitalcommons.acu.edu/etd Part of the Clinical Psychology Commons Recommended Citation Justice, Ashlee, "The Relationship of Empathy and Impulsivity to The Dark Tetrad of Personality" (2016). Digital Commons @ ACU, Electronic Theses and Dissertations. Paper 15. This Thesis is brought to you for free and open access by the Electronic Theses and Dissertations at Digital Commons @ ACU. It has been accepted for inclusion in Electronic Theses and Dissertations by an authorized administrator of Digital Commons @ ACU. ABSTRACT Though relationships between empathy, impulsivity, and personality traits making up the Dark Tetrad of personality have been studied individually, the relationship of empathy and impulsivity to the Dark Tetrad of personality simultaneously has not been studied. The current study examined the relationship of both empathy and impulsivity to the Dark Tetrad simultaneously, and assessed specific combinations of traits, empathy, and impulsivity. Participants from a private university completed online surveys. Correlations and predictions of variables were examined. Individuals who rated high on Machiavellianism, psychopathy, and sadism had significantly lower scores on empathy subscales, and individuals rating high on these as well as narcissism had significantly high scores on impulsivity subscales. Results also indicated that psychopathy and sadism both predicted lack of empathy, while only sadism significantly predicted poor impulse control. Surprisingly, narcissism was positively correlated with, and predictive of empathy. -
The Project Gutenberg Ebook of Malignant Self Love, by Sam Vaknin (#2 in Our Series by Sam Vaknin)
The Project Gutenberg EBook of Malignant Self Love, by Sam Vaknin (#2 in our series by Sam Vaknin) ** This is a COPYRIGHTED Project Gutenberg eBook, Details Below ** ** Please follow the copyright guidelines in this file. ** Copyright (C) 2003 by Lidija Rangelovska. Copyright laws are changing all over the world. Be sure to check the copyright laws for your country before downloading or redistributing this or any other Project Gutenberg eBook. This header should be the first thing seen when viewing this Project Gutenberg file. Please do not remove it. Do not change or edit the header without written permission. Please read the "legal small print," and other information about the eBook and Project Gutenberg at the bottom of this file. Included is important information about your specific rights and restrictions in how the file may be used. You can also find out about how to make a donation to Project Gutenberg, and how to get involved. **Welcome To The World of Free Plain Vanilla Electronic Texts** **eBooks Readable By Both Humans and By Computers, Since 1971** *****These eBooks Were Prepared By Thousands of Volunteers!***** Title: Malignant Self Love Author: Sam Vaknin Release Date: November, 2003 [EBook #4663] [This file was first posted on July 2, 2003] Edition: 11 Language: English Character set encoding: US-ASCII *** START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK, MALIGNANT SELF LOVE *** Copyright (C) 2003 by Lidija Rangelovska. Malignant Self Love Narcissism Revisited 1st EDITION 3rd Revised Printing EXCERPTS Sam Vaknin, Ph.D. The Author is NOT a Mental Health Professional. The Author is certified in Counselling Techniques. -
Coping with a Narcissistic Partner During Lockdown - a Qualitative Research
Vol. 20, 2021 A new decade for social changes ISSN 2668-7798 www.techniumscience.com 9 772668 779000 Technium Social Sciences Journal Vol. 20, 900-915, June, 2021 ISSN: 2668-7798 www.techniumscience.com Coping with a narcissistic partner during lockdown - A qualitative research Alin Costin, Dana Rad 1 2 Aurel Vlaicu University of Arad, Romania [email protected], [email protected] Abstract. This work is a phenomenological analysis that investigates how the lockdown was perceived by dysfunctional families, namely, narcissistic families. The literature indicates serious disorders in the family life of the narcissist, hostility, tension, conflict, instability (Campbell, Foster, 2002; Kohut, 1972), so, we are interested in describing how narcissistic partners perceive their relationship, and how they describe the period spent during the pandemic restrictions. Two case studies were conducted, which were selected so as to be relevant to the research objectives. We were also interested in the psychological symptoms of the two subjects investigated shortly after the restrictions were lifted. In this regard, the Revised 90 symptom assessment scale (Marian, M.I., 2008) was also applied. The results of this study confirm the negative effects on mental health that a relationship with a narcissistic partner holds during lockdown and encompasses surprising coping strategies that make living with a narcissistic partner possible. Keywords. lockdown, narcissistic family, stress, mental health, coping Introduction The period of isolation, an unprecedented one in our life, demanded our attention, energy, maybe exhausted our coping strategies. The growing interest of specialists in various fields has largely focused on the mental health consequences that isolation, with the restrictions it has imposed, has had on us. -
Are Pathological Narcissism and Psychopathy Different Constructs Or Different Names for the Same Thing? a Study Based on Italian Nonclinical Adult Participants
Journal of Personality Disorders, 28(3), pp. 394–418, 2014 © 2014 The Guilford Press ARE PATHOLOGICAL NARCISSISM AND PSYCHOPATHY DIFFERENT CONSTRUCTS OR DIFFERENT NAMES FOR THE SAME THING? A STUDY BASED ON ITALIAN NONCLINICAL ADULT PARTICIPANTS Andrea Fossati, DD, PhD, Aaron L. Pincus, PhD, Serena Borroni, PhD, Arina Ferrari Munteanu, MSc, and Cesare Maffei, MD, PhD To understand the similarities and differences in personality traits and moral disengagement associated with pathological narcissism and psy- chopathy, 740 Italian active community members who voluntarily par- ticipated in the study were administered the Italian versions of the Pathological Narcissism Inventory, the Levenson Self-Report Psychopa- thy Scale, the HEXACO Personality Inventory, and the Moral Disen- gagement Scale. Hierarchical regression analyses showed that low Hon- esty-Humility and Antagonism (i.e., low Agreeableness) were personality traits common to both pathological narcissism and psychopathy, whereas low Conscientiousness was only related to psychopathy. Dif- ferent associations with the HEXACO-PI scales and facets were ob- served for narcissistic grandiosity and narcissistic vulnerability, as well as for primary psychopathy and secondary psychopathy. Moral disen- gagement represented a common feature of pathological narcissism and psychopathy that was related to narcissistic vulnerability and to pri- mary and secondary psychopathy, but not to narcissistic grandiosity. Narcissism and psychopathy are long-standing and relevant clinical con- structs that developed in different contexts. Narcissism is derived from psychodynamic theory and practice (Ronningstam, 2011), and narcissistic traits are also studied widely in social-personality psychology (Tamborski & Brown, 2011). In contrast, psychopathy was developed within the field of clinical and forensic psychiatry/psychology (e.g., Cleckley, 1976; Hare, This article was accepted under the editorship of Robert F. -
Self-Awareness and Introspection in Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
ISSN: 2640-8031 DOI: https://dx.doi.org/10.17352/apt MEDICAL GROUP Received: 02 March, 2021 Opinion Accepted: 26 March, 2021 Published: 27 March, 2021 *Corresponding author: Sam Vaknin, Professor, Self-awareness and Psychology, Southern Federal University, Russia, Tel: +79884640967; E-mail: introspection in Narcissistic ORCID: https://orcid.org/0000-0003-3851-0551 Personality Disorder (NPD) https://www.peertechzpublications.com Sam Vaknin* Professor, Psychology, Southern Federal University, Russia Abstract With severe emotional defi cits, the narcissist may be self-aware and knowledgeable about Narcissistic Personality Disorder, but these do not lead to healing, merely to behaviour modifi cation. Narcissists balance a sadistic superego and a demanding and fantastic False Self. Narcissists describe themselves as machines or automata. When they do gain self-awareness and engage in soul-searching it is in order to enhance their skills at attracting and maintaining their sources of narcissistic supply. Paper Moreover: the narcissist may grow aware of certain behaviors of his that are pathological, dysfunctional, or self- Self-awareness and self-acceptance in narcissism defeating. He may even label them as such. But he never grasps the psychodynamic signifi cance of his conduct, the deeper “Can the Ethiopian change his skin, or the leopard his spots?” layers of motivation, and the relentless and inexorable engine (Jeremiah 13:23) at the convoluted and tormented core of his being. So he may say: “I really like attention” or even, disparagingly or self- If the narcissist becomes self-aware, if he accepts that deprecatingly: “I am an attention whore”. But, he won’t be able he is a narcissist, isn’t this the fi rst, important step, towards to fully account for WHY it is that he is addicted to narcissistic healing? supply and what role it plays in his psychology, interpersonal relationships, and life. -
American Psycho Malignant Narcissism on the Screen
Psychoanalytic Psychology Copyright 2001 by the Educational Publishing Foundation 2001, Vol. 18, No. 4, 737-742 0736-9735/01/S5.00 DOI: 10.1037//0736-9735.I8.4.737 American Psycho Malignant Narcissism on the Screen Isaac Tylim, PsyD Institute for Psychoanalytic Training and Research, New York University Postdoctoral Program in Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy, and Maimonides Medical Center American Psycho (1999) may be described as a vivid screen illustration of malignant narcissism. Adapted from Bret Easton Ellis's (1991/2000) eponymous novel, the film was elegantly directed by Mary Harron, whose previous work includes I Shot Andy Warhol (1996). Harron's films transfer the classical American myth of individualism and self-sufficiency—so often depicted in Westerns—to the urban landscape. Instead of cowboys, her films present creatures that roam around free, not in the big empty spaces of the American West, but the overbuilt and menacing jungle of America's big cities with their canyons-streets of cement. The conquest of the West is now the conquest of the Metropolis, and the brave and lone ranger of yesterday has been replaced by the greedy and lone narcissist of today. Despite the obvious differences between / Shot Andy Warhol and American Psycho, these films share the director's sensitivity towards characters that live their lives on the edge. They are young, obsessed individuals enveloped by the endless allure of commercialism and con- sumerism spiced with the cult of celebrity and the hunger for power. While riding in luxury cars these contemporary urban cowboys are struggling desperately to contain the fragility of their respective selves. -
Psychiatry and Psychological Syndromes November 11-12, 2019 | Madrid, Spain
Sam Vaknin, Clin Exp Psychol 2019, Volume: 05 conferenceseries.com 2nd World Congress on Psychiatry and Psychological Syndromes November 11-12, 2019 | Madrid, Spain Misdiagnosing personality disorders as anxiety disorders Sam Vaknin Southern Federal University, Russia nxiety is uncontrollable and excessive apprehension, a kind of unpleasant (dysphoric), mild fear, with no apparent external reason. Anxiety is dread in anticipation of a future menace or an imminent but diffuse and unspecified Adanger, usually imagined or exaggerated. The mental state of anxiety (and the concomitant hypervigilance) has physiological complements. It is accompanied by short term dysphoria and physical symptoms of stress and tension, such as sweating, palpitations, tachycardia, hyperventilation, angina, tensed muscle tone and elevated blood pressure (arousal). It is common for anxiety disorders to include obsessive thoughts, compulsive and ritualistic acts, restlessness, fatigue, irritability and difficulty concentrating. Patients with personality disorders are often anxious. Narcissists for instance, are preoccupied with the need to secure social approval or attention (narcissistic supply). The narcissist cannot control this need and the attendant anxiety because he requires external feedback to regulate his labile sense of self-worth. This dependence makes most narcissists irritable. They fly into rages and have a very low threshold of frustration. Subjects suffering from certain personality disorders (e.g., Histrionic, Borderline, Narcissistic, Avoidant, Schizotypal) resemble patients who suffer from panic attacks and social phobia (another anxiety disorder). They are terrified of being embarrassed or criticized in public. Consequently, they fail to function well in various settings like social, occupational, interpersonal, etc. Biography Sam Vaknin is a is Visiting Professor of Psychology, Southern Federal University, Rostov-on-Don, Russia and Professor of Finance and Psychology in CIAPS (Centre for International Advanced and Professional Studies).