PUBLISHED BY THE PEOPLE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT PARISH 120 OBAN ROAD, NORTH RINGWOOD 3134. PHONE 9876 3717 - SCHOOL 9876 1103 TO INFORM, TO SUPPORT COMMUNITY AWARENESS AND COMMUNICATION VOL 32, NO. 3 - SEPTEMBER 2017 RENOVATION @ HOLY SPIRIT- it’s DIVINE! Dear all committed to the Divine Renovation hospitality culture of the parish. Not to with anybody & everybody. Especially Project, alarm any newcomers, but to create a highly look out for newcomers and /or visible, tangible and authentic welcoming intentionally say hello to an existing I hope you and yours are well and coping atmosphere that cannot go unnoticed or parishioner that you don’t know very well. with the variances of our Melbourne experienced by them. winter. Thank you so much for your • Return your Name Tag to the stand. continued prayerful and active support So far we have about 80 people on the DR • Repeat this action every time you come of the Divine Renovation initiative. As has email list, with an average of 20 – 25 per to mass from now on! been communicated in THE WORD recently, mass time. With that many of us engaged Let our existing community and those who much has been happening and moving in the steps below, I’m sure we can achieve visit see clearly that we are intentionally forward behind the scenes and changes this aim. building a more meaningful community by are beginning to emerge outwardly. The Sign up roster sheets will be available at the giving active witness to all who join us each obvious one being the embracing of name back of the church soon. Below is an outline weekend. tag wearing at weekend masses. This of the extra elements… practice continues to grow with new names being added to the board each week. Thank • Participate at the mass of your choice. you to one and all for your enthusiasm and (everyone) co-operation so far. The challenge now is to • Get to mass 10 mins early (everyone) keep the momentum going and to entrench • Put on your Name Tag (everyone) the practice as the norm not a novelty. Don’t • Assist with name tag finding either worry if you wear your name tag home, side of the board (2 people) just have it ready to wear back next week. • Welcomer outside at the top of the Also, we are currently exploring options for steps – weather permitting (1 person) Finally, there will meetings in the coming a more permanent user friendly name tag • Welcomer at either side of the entrance weeks regarding the follow-up on display - watch that space. door giving out the WORD (2 people) expressions of interest in the renewal of • Welcomers throughout the congregation various areas of Parish life. Further to this Divine Renovation warm (everyone else) welcomers initiative, we hope to also Blessings, • Stay for 20 minutes after mass for a intentionally develop other elements to Mary (Ryan) - Chairperson cuppa and a chat (everyone) to mingle maintain and imbed this action into the Divine Renovation Leadership Team
Find it hard to get a parking spot at the fete? Happy Fathers Day Not sure where to park?
Today we with all of our Fathers, and Father figures • Running 10am til 5pm here with us today , and all fathers who are in our • Professional driver thoughts on this very Special Day a very Happy and • Gold coin donation • Details of pick up / drop off Meaningful Fathers Day - points can be found at www.holyspiritfete.org.au or Never underestimate the impact you, as fathers have • Ring Dale 0403 458 451
in our world, and always remember to share your gifts with those whose Fathers cannot be with them. Why not try the Fete Shuttle bus service? Saturday 14th October 2017 2 SEPTEMBER 2017
CONTENTS Thank You from the Editor Page 1 Divine renovation Page 2 Thank you from the Editor I sometimes find it hard to believe how quickly the NEXT edition of The Page 3 Around the parish - NAIDOC Sunday Spirit comes around, and I am sure many of you who contribute would Page 4 NAIDOC – Languages matter because people matter – agree. Andrew Hamilton Page 5 Around the parish - Baptism Welcomings I do appreciate how hard it is to find the time to get articles, photos, Page 6 Around the parish – Wedding Anniversaries. and stories together in time for the NEXT deadline, and I, and our Page 7 Remembering My Dad Leo Brophy– Cathy Donnison readers Thank you for your efforts. For a little Parish magazine we get a Page 8 My Dad – Simple Man, Simple Faith – Lawrence Cecconello wonderful amount of positive feedback about our publication, so please Page 9 Why Fathers are Special – David Ahearn keep up all of your contribution efforts. It is only because so many of you The Spirit New Masthead Competition. make such an effort that it becomes a worthwhile read. Page 10 Holy Spirit Community School - MY DAD As always there is plenty happening around our parishes – Page 12 World Refugee Day – Andrew Hamilton The Divine Renovation team has been so busy and the early results of all Page 13 Around the Parish – Shelah Batson their hard work are already visible every Sunday as people take the time Reading Links to stay after Mass and have a chat – If you haven’t already taken the time Page 14 Evergreens to do this – Give it a try next Sunday! Page 15 Everyone needs to hear the Good News - The Tablet Holy Spirit Fete time is almost upon us. Time to start now – How can you Page 16 Institutional Abuse - Homily – Fr Frank O’Dea help? Our Fete has become a benchmark for many other organizations Page 18 Twenty-First Sunday - Mike Bowden and so we need to maintain our great standards and improve every Page 19 Dear Mamas in the School Yard year to continue to achieve the outstanding results we have all come to Page 20 HOLY SPIRIT COMMUNITY FETE expect. Page 22 The History of Rosebank - Sponsored. Page 23 Viewpoint on hypocrisy– David Ahearn BUT, there is no way we can continue to do that, if we don’t have the flow Our Journey through Vietnam – Sponsored. of new volunteers to assist. There are so many areas in which you can help –cleaning out your cupboards for the various stalls – Be discerning Page 24 First Communions please! Good quality books, clothing, toys, Trash n Treasure etc is the way Page 26 A Snapshot - Bryony May to go. Around the parish Page 27 I AM WHO I AM – Len Moore Or, perhaps you can assist on one of the many stalls for a couple of hours Page 28 The Feast of Our Lady of Sorrows on the day – There is something for everyone and you will get far more Vinnies Need YOU! back than you ever put in! The secret ingredient for our Fete is that it is, Page 29 Loreto – Margaret Mary Flynn and has always been about the people and guess what? That translates into profit! Page 30 Cars 3’ has a message for kids – and for grownups. Page 31 Around the parish – Fr Mogg We can’t all leave it to someone else. The Feast of the Exaltation of the Cross. THE FETE SHUTTLE BUS – No more parking issues and no more carrying Page 32 HOLY SPIRIT FETE – HELP NEEDED those heavy bags full of purchases BACK to your car – take the time to Page 34 Child Safety Standards - For EVERYONE tell the team if you intend to use the service – You can email or drop a Page 35 Vale Gail Gaine note in to the Parish House – It’s not a taxi service but hopefully with your Opening of St Pauls Church Ringwood support it will become another Fete tradition. Page 36 Pope Francis on being “Noisy” The Masthead Competition for our illustrious Spirit Magazine is open to Page 37 Sudoku everyone – so get your creative/artistic juices flowing and amaze us all. Page 38 Advertising in The Spirit We thank Tobin Brothers Ringwood for their generosity in supplying the Page 39 Childrens Page prize. Page 40 HOLY SPIRIT FETE Fathers Day – Happy for some, very sad for others – please remember this and where possible share your day with those for whom it may not be a The Spirit Magazine is published four times a year. great day. Take a moment to speak to a family who may be missing their Editor: Helen Konynenburg E-mail: [email protected] Dad – Little things count! Publisher: Minuteman Press Mitcham Email: [email protected] The contents of this magazine are printed in an effort to support community awareness Finally safe travels to Fr Joe and the group departing for the Holy Land and communication and do not necessarily represent the views of the editors, our Parish Priest, or the people of the Holy Spirit Parish. Tour and thanks to Catherine Stone and the team at Rheom travel for Letters to the Editor, enquiries re distribution information and sourced contributions all their efforts in putting the tour together – I’m sure the experiences should be sent to: Holy Spirit Parish House, 120 Oban Road, North Ringwood (address above) the travellers have will translate into benefits for all of our community – Average circulation 700 copies - Not for profit Standby for Travel Movie nights with ALL our photo’s!! Only joking really -. NOW AVAILABLE IN FULL COLOUR ONLINE: http://www.holyspiritparish.org.au/TheSpiritMagazine.aspx Thank you to all Printed by Minuteman Press Mitcham - Shop 2, 535 Whitehorse Road Mitcham, Vic, 3132 - Phone: 9873 2888 www.mitcham.minutemanpress.com.au Email: [email protected] Closing date for next edition: Tuesday November 14, 2017 Helen Konynenburg Focus for next Edition: What are your hopes for 2018 and beyond. - IN NOTES SEPTEMBER 2017 3 Around the Parish NAIDOC SUNDAY
Again our Liturgy team prepared a beautiful and very meaningful display and liturgy to celebrate NAIDOC Sunday 4 SEPTEMBER 2017
NAIDOC: Languages matter because people matter Andrew Hamilton | 29 June 2017
The National Aboriginal and Islander Day Language is much more than a means of replace the old. It is an organic process, Observance Committee (NAIDOC) week communication. It is an emblem of our tribe, often over some generations, in which originated in the conviction that the marking out those who are our near relatives the new culture is grafted on to the older Australia Day celebration presented a one- and those who are strangers. Language vine, with the result that both cultures are sided image of Australia’s history. shapes how we interact with others. To say enriched and modified. that our languages matter implies that no Australia Day celebrated uncritically the In celebrating NAIDOC Week this year, one language is given absolute precedence disruption to the culture and life of the that sophisticated understanding of the over others. Diverse languages may have earlier inhabitants of the land which transmission of culture and language must precedence in different areas of our lives. followed the arrival of the First Fleet at be kept in mind. Many Australians have Sydney cove. It did not celebrate the assumed that English is the only language cultures and peoples who were destroyed by “An Australia that is that is or should be used for communication European settlement. in Australia, and that other languages seen as multilingual should fall into disuse as soon as possible, as NAIDOC week embodies the desire of should other national customs and cultures, Indigenous Australians to celebrate their while sharing English as to be retained only as museum items. The own rich cultures that preceded the Indigenous Convention, which brought European conquest and continue to form an its common language, together the reflections of Indigenous irreplaceable strand of Australian identity. and as multicultural communities around Australia, each with This year Naidoc Week is particularly their own traditional language, shows how significant because it is held in the shadow and multireligious while vacuous is that view and how rich are the of the Uluru declaration by the First Nations sharing a common consequences when diversity is recognised. National Constitutional Convention. In NAIDOC Week celebrates Indigenous lives response to the desire that Indigenous national identity, is richer and culture. But, like those lives and that Australians should be appropriately culture, its message is a timely gift to all recognised in the Australian Constitution, and more enduring than Australians. At a time when public discourse representatives of Indigenous communities is impoverished, national identity is often met to make an agreed statement about one in which there is defined in terms that narrow, exclude and what that recognition should mean. one language, religion demean minorities, and oppose the national They made it clear that any action should be and indispensable English language to other more than symbolic. It should and culture.” languages, which consequently give Indigenous Australians a do not matter. status that guarantees them a An Australia that is seen as say in the measures that affect multilingual while sharing them. It was not acceptable English as its common to make them objects of language, and that is also government decisions, as they seen as multicultural and have been in the Intervention. multireligious while sharing They must be agents, not just a common national identity, talked about, but empowered is a richer and more enduring to speak authoritatively. nation than one in which there The theme of the week is ‘Our is one language, one religion Languages matter’. It lies at the and one culture that exclude heart of the Uluru statement. others. Ultimately languages It also poses questions about matter because people the way in which we conceive matter. In Australia Indigenous our identity as a nation, and so languages and Indigenous about how we should respond Language is also the medium through people have both been treated to the Uluru statement. which culture is transmitted. Culture for far too long as if they don’t matter. Both NAIDOC Week and the Uluru statement call To say that our languages matter implies includes our relationship with our own for a better way. that in Australia we communicate in many history, the customs and symbols of our parents, and the songs and stories that make languages. English is the language of Andrew Hamilton is up our heritage. business and public life, but many other consulting editor of Eureka languages, both Indigenous and introduced, When we enter the language and culture of Street. are the primary languages of groups of another society, the transmission of culture We acknowledge Andrew Australians. Many people speak more than that takes place is not simply a transaction and Eureka Street for this one language, an endowment to be praised, between teacher and student in which we contribution - Do you receive Eureka Street? not lamented. learn a new language and new ways that www.eurekastreet.com.au SEPTEMBER 2017 5 Around the Parish Baptisms Welcomings Mary Ryan’s 9.00AM Mass Sunday 18th June granddaughter Parents Connor & Jade Ryan with Luna Josephine born 3/3/2017
10:30 am Mass Sunday 18th June
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Apologies from the Editor for no names for some of these beautiful families. But YOU and your families will know you AND our COMMUNITY knows and cares for you all 6 SEPTEMBER 2017
Around the Parish Wedding Anniversaries
Sean & Carmel Hill celebrating 53 Years of marriage From: Carmel Hill [email protected] Subject: Fwd: anniversary photo Date: 20 August 2017 6:46 pm To: [email protected]
Helen I think this is the best of the recent ones...and it was on our anniversary
Carmel xx
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Fiore & Luigina D’Assisi celebrating their 70th Wedding Anniversary
Barry (Leonardo) Ward and Keith (Michaelangelo) Gysberts hard at work restoring out parish House. Excellent work as always. Thanks a MILLION Emma D’Aristotle – Eucharistic Minister, Mitcham Emma attended a training course to become an extraordinary minister of communion in June. Fr Joe presented her certificate at mass SEPTEMBER 2017 7
Remembering My Dad…
Leo Brophy meant so many things to Dad worked long hours, getting up before Dad considered it sacrilege to put anything so many people but for me, he meant the sun rose and sometimes not getting other than butter and jam on a croissant remembering back to our days in home until we were all asleep but that and could never understand how anyone Liberia, West Africa. I attended Kakata didn’t stop him teaching us to swim at could enjoy a chocolate croissants or ham Demonstration School, which was a the Pan Am Swimming Pool in Monrovia, and cheese croissants. primary school that the United Nations Liberia’s capital city. Or when, on one of Dad worked long hours even when we Development Program build across the our trips back to Australia, we stopped over returned to Australia but Sundays was road from the teachers college where in Singapore, where he woke me up early his day to spend with his kids. After mass Dad’s office was located. Dad headed the to go and explore the markets with him. we often went on long drives to the Educational Development program in the Dandenong Ranges or Maroondah Dam or 70’s, setting up schools throughout Africa to see the sights at Port Melbourne where and teaching teachers to teach in them. he spent some of his childhood years. Dad I have fond memories of finishing school also loved to take in a show or two. As a at one o’clock and making my way across young girl, one of the many shows he took the dirt road to Dad’s office. Our school had me to see was the Russian Cossack Dancers a tin roof and with the tropical weather it at the Palais Theatre in St Kilda. We had was too hot to stay at school after one. Dad to fight our way past people protesting always kept his office like a freezer and my the Red Army. His grandchildren were sister and I would sit enjoying a small cold no exception, they still have a fond love glass bottle of coca-cola whilst he packed for theatre, pantomimes and of course, up and came home for lunch with us. We his favourite, the Australia Symphony would always sit at the table for lunch and Orchestra. Dad would pull out the Cuisenaire Rods When I finally found my path in life, Dad after lunch and then we would end with He didn’t wake anyone else or leave a note and I shared many long and stimulating me reading him a book, usually a John and for Mum, so we were both in trouble when conversations about ethics, social justice, Betty book. Part of Dad’s job meant him we return some hours later. It’s not many psychology, personal values, religion and and Mum often entertained dignitaries. 7 or 8 year olds that can brag about their equality. We had some great debates and One such dignitary was the President of Dad sending them down the road in Paris, there was lots of teasing particularly when Uganda, Idi Amin. He came for lunch and alone, to cross the road to a shop in the it came to equality, as I was never very after lunch I sat on his knee to read him my middle of a round-a-bout, to ask for “deux tolerant of the male chauvinist in him. Spot book. Who knew his regime would parquets de Benson and Hedges s’il vous When he was caring for Mum in her final be responsible for the human rights abuse Plait. And I have to chuckle when I think of years, I would ring each morning and ask and murder of thousands of people? Dad teaching his grandchildren many more how he was and his answer was always, I remember at one of the many parties French words than what I suspect their tongue in cheek, “I’m doing my woman’s we had, usually full of VIP’s, I had been teachers would have desired. work”. His last gift to me was a book on drinking what I thought was water from battling totalitarianism and one that Dad love attending Mass and writing many a Gin Bottle. In Africa we had to boil our advocates that women are the solution stories for the St Bridget’s Flyer and later water and then we kept it in all kinds of to tackling world poverty, disease and contributed a few to the Spirit. When he empty bottles in the fridge. I will never conflict. learnt I could touch type, he spent hours forget Mum screaming across the room to dictating, whilst I typed stories that needed Although, Dad pasted away in 2011, I often Dad, “Oh, Leo she’s drinking out of the Gin to be finished quickly to meet the Flyer feel his presence and see and experience bottle!” Or the time, my sister and I took deadline. In later years, when he moved so much of him, not only in myself but also the box of cigars, reserved for their many to Holy Spirit, he attended 9am mass and in the strong family values and beliefs that guests off the coffee table and hid in the would always check Gail had the right chair he passed onto his grandchildren. wardrobe of our playroom smoking them. or we would hear Kevin Green call out Although I love to unwind with a gin and Happy Fathers Day, Dad. “How are you, Leo the Lion?” Every week tonic, I have never been able to tolerate the Cathy Donnison (Brophy) after mass, Dad picked up croissants from smell of cigars, even to this day. the bakery and come over for breakfast. 8 SEPTEMBER 2017
My Dad – Simple Man, Simple Faith
My dad was born in 1920, in a place called Padova (Padua), which when I was 12 or 13). Not a day goes by without some thought or is located in the north of Italy, just west of Venice. He was one of 5 memory of what he might have said or done in a particular situation, siblings, and in the traditional way, shared his family home with not passing through my mind. I often remember how, shortly after my just his parents and siblings but grandparents, uncles, aunts and mother died, he would take off on his bicycle and start work at 7:00 cousins, all under the one roof. in the morning, rain hail or shine; he would get home in the evening in time to cook dinner and then begin his ‘second’ job, repairing Growing up in an agricultural environment, life was certainly not shoes at home in a small workshop he had set up. This lifestyle easy in his early years, with lots of farming duties before and after continued on for many a year, virtually until he retired, and yet I school; then came the depression years, followed not too long after, don’t recall ever really hearing him complain about anything – he by WWII. Being of just the right age (late teens, early twenties), like just got on with what he considered to be important for his family. many of his generation, he went off to war and lived through the And importantly through all the difficult times, he never lost faith. I many horrors and atrocities of those days. don’t recall even once that he didn’t go to Mass on the weekend. Being fortunate enough to survive the war, he came back to his If I now think back on his faith profile, I would say that his faith was home and after a few years married, built a small house in the same terribly simple, non-complicated, non-theological, non-cerebral. city and had a couple of kids. It was just a simple, unshakeable belief in what is good, what is Italy in the post war years was not an easy place to bring up a family, fair and what is right under God’s law, no matter what! And from a with much economic and social uncertainty, so my parents took the personal point of view, I can categorically say that at least some of very brave decision to migrate to a country far far away, which they those qualities have definitely rubbed off onto my way of looking knew very little about in terms of language, culture and prospects, at the whole faith thing. I know that I can speak confidently when I leaving behind family, friends, familiar language and culture, all in say that his life was very much guided and governed by these two the name of a better opportunity for their family. fundamental principles Of course this is a very common migration story, one that can be Love of God and Love of neighbour told by many millions of people from many different countries, and And after all, it can be said that these principles represent the I wouldn’t presume to say that my parents’ experiences were any pinnacle of what it is to be follower of Jesus. Yes, I owe much to my more difficult than someone else’s. dad, in all aspects of life, not the least of which is my belief and trust Fast forward nearly 60 years, and the influence that my father has in our God. had on my life is nothing short of profound (my mother passed away Lawrence Cecconello
Around the Parish Preparing for First Communion
Candidates being presented at 9AM Mass on Sunday 30 July SEPTEMBER 2017 9
WHY FATHERS ARE SPECIAL David Ahearn
Father’s Day will be celebrated on Sunday Dad took out the garbage each week and or hear about a person sentenced for a September 3. When I was growing up it mowed the lawns while mum prepared serious crime who comes from a broken seemed more fuss was made of Mother’s the nightly meals. Mum stayed home to home. Day. I believe there is still more of a focus look after me and my five siblings and dad There have been no serious role models in on celebrating the role of mothers in was the bread winner. It was more of a their lives and they have gone off the rails. society but this is not a criticism, just an traditional upbringing. That’s how it was This is no excuse for committing a crime as observation back then. we are all responsible for our own actions No one would question the absolute Times have changed and all but it may go some way to explain how importance of mothers in bringing up roles are now up for grabs. individuals can reach such a low point in children. But fathers also need to be their lives. celebrated for the essential role they play There are stay-at-home dads And if a child grows up in a household in family life. and there are mums who where domestic violence is rife, there I was fortunate to have terrific parents earn the money. Women play is a real danger the cycle of violence so both occasions were celebrated with football at a senior level and will continue into the next generation. much enthusiasm each year. True to say men flock to cooking classes. Another reason why a caring, attentive that as a child if I cut my knee or had a and loving father is such an important role fight with my older brother I would seek There are single mums and mode. solace in my mother’s arms. There was single dads and there are On September 3 fathers will have their always something special about a kiss and homes with just mums and day. It may involve a brunch, lunch or cuddle from mum. The world was a safer homes with just dads. dinner celebration, a family day out at the place and the tears and the hurt were soon football, or a drive in the country. Fathers, forgotten. While the past 40 years have brought many changes one thing that hasn’t like mothers, are special. Whatever you Dad’s role was different. We would enjoy a changed is the need for children to be have planned, Happy Father’s Day! kick of the footy in the backyard, and he’d nurtured and loved. The main ingredient Majellan Publications show me how to shave and how to cook here is love. [email protected] meat on the barbecue. He was always fun to be around and while he loved nothing Mothers and fathers have a vital role in P.O. Box 43 more than a barbecue and a beer or two, supporting their children as they mature www.majellan.org.au the steak would always be served the into adulthood and grapple with all of life’s Brighton. Vic. 3186 same way, very well done to near burnt. ups and downs. Too many times we read
Could you design an update for the masthead of the Spirit Magazine? Could you use a $100 Eastland voucher?
We are looking to update the Banner for the Front Page of The Ringwood North VIC 3134. No late entries will be accepted. Spirit Magazine and are calling for submissions. Email - [email protected] The Masthead/Banner will need to provide the current informa- Submissions will be judged by a panel of qualified persons, with tion in a new format. http://www.cam.org.au/holyspirit/The-Spir- Fr Joe having the final vote in the event of the panel being un- it-Magazine able to separate two entries. The Front page will be published in colour and will need to be All decisions will be final and no further correspondence entered suitable for uploading to the website to meet future require- into. ments. We gratefully acknowledge the generosity of Tobin Bros Ring- Submissions clearly marked Spirit Magazine Masthead Com- wood in sponsoring our search for a new Masthead with the petition, need to be submitted by 0900 Tuesday 17 October in donation of the $100 voucher. print and/or online to Holy Spirit Parish House 120 Oban Road 10 SEPTEMBER 2017 SEPTEMBER 2017 11
“Faith | Family | Friendship” 12 SEPTEMBER 2017
World Refugee Day Andrew Hamilton | 13 June 2017 World Refugee Day is a remained to them to shape their lives, forced from their own nations to seek protection. It to live for years cut off from uncontrolled is a time to remember and treasure the little time for remembering. human contact, sometimes separated from things that give shape to our lives — the family members living in Australia. smells, sounds and sights of our childhood We remember we live world and their continuity with our lives Time, the garden of remembering, is for today, and to remember that for refugees them a desert of dismembering, further in a world of millions of these things have been stripped away. It is separating them from world from which a time to remember what has been done to refugees, and that many they fled and from the life that they longed refugees when they came to Australia — to to find. of our fellow citizens hold in our memory the smell and texture On Manus Island, Nauru and in detention of life on Manus Island and on Nauru, the arrived as or are the centres they have their self-respect hacked casual brutality, the mud, the barbed wire away by a daily regime that takes away borders of their world, the erosion of time, children of refugees. We their privacy, the civility they had hoped to the lies and sneers of politicians who held also remember what it find from representatives of a democratic them there, the slogans that trumped government and from the confidence that human connection. It is a time for shame is like to be a refugee, the canopy of law might shelter them. and for compassion for a people who have come to this. To remember is first of all not They may also have their physical and allowing ourselves to to forget, not to move on. It is the beginning mental health excised, leaving them prey of conversion. touch, hear, see, smell to depression and anxiety. And when they read contemptuous words spoken about World Refugee Day is also a time for re- and taste the bitter stuff them they feel themselves stripped of all membering: for putting back what has been that remains to them — their self-respect as torn apart, for greening boughs that have of their lives. human beings. been stripped of leaves, for fleshing what has withered, for welcoming back what We may remember refugees, but in their “The Australian body politic also calls out has been rejected. That means demanding own lives they are dismembered. The tiles for re-membering. Over many years it has that we take for granted as the dismembering stop — we shape the mosaic of our that people are taken off ordinary lives have been prison islands, are listened hacked out of refugees’ lives. to and heard with justice Many people lost parents, and respect, that they are siblings and children in the reunited with families and persecution and the terrors of allowed to get on with war they endured in their own their lives. It also means lands. With each loss part of connecting with people who themselves also died. are isolated, encouraging and paying respect to people who Their ability to plan their own have shown such resilience. lives, to practice their religion, to meet with like-minded The Australian body people in order to help shape politic also calls out for their society, and to have their re-membering. Over many children educated were also years it has been stripped cut away. Their losses are not of respect of people for just entries in a ledger. They their simple humanity, of tear at the heart of identity, hospitality to strangers stripping away the connections that breathe been stripped of respect of people for their and of compassion for the vulnerable. To existence into life. simple humanity, of hospitality to strangers re-member is to make whole, to return to and of compassion for the vulnerable. To integrity. In their flight many were also cut off from re-member is to make whole, to return to their families, from the rhythms of work Andrew Hamilton is consulting integrity.” and rest, from connections with town and editor of Eureka Street. village, from communicating in a language For refugees to remember is a challenge: to Tuesday 20 June is World that is shared, and from all the things that remember who they are and to wear their Refugee Day. allow us to call house and nation a home. abused humanity as a flag of worth and not www.eurekastreet.com.au. We acknowledge of shame. When people come to the fences of other Andrew and Eureka Street for this contribution nations asking for protection they face For Australians, World Refugee Day is a time - Do you receive Eureka Street? www. further dismemberment. In Australia they of remembering. It is a time to remember eurekastreet.com.au have been deprived of what freedom the human stories of those who have fled SEPTEMBER 2017 13
Shelah Baston
Name: Mrs Shelah Batson
Organisation: Evergreens
Explanation:
Shelah has volunteered for the Evergreens for 20 years. Her exemplary efforts include driving people to meetings and appointments, regular nursing home visits, and reading, cleaning and food preparation. Shelah is always pleasant and obliging and is a major asset. She has also been a member of the Maroondah Bush Walking Club since 1987 and currently serves as co- ordinator. Shelah is a mother of eight and will soon celebrate her 80th birthday, but always gives her time generously.
Batson Family - whilst some of Shelah’s family were able to attend the award ceremony some from interstate were not so it was great when they all got together shortly after the event. The Batson family at The Chirnside Park Country Club, enjoying dinner with their son Chris, who was down from The Gold Coast for work. Chris got to meet his youngest niece Kaitlyn for the first time.
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Spring is here so hopefully the winter ills to the fact that the devonshire tea is a For general information, please call Jean will disappear and our sunseekers will meal and the tour is almost as wonderful 9876-2204. return home safely. as the garden. P.S. COME ON IN, THE WATER’S GREAT Our Winter Warmer Program has been Pleases feel free to join us on these There have been numerous notices available and enjoyed by members and outings. For bookings call Shirley 9870- recently about Maroondah Council’s friends. 1396. Active and Healthy Ageing initiative, October 29th is the Quarantine Centre & Our monthly meetings continue on the offering a program of gentle exercise Museum at Sorrento. All entrance fees last Friday (usually with a guest speaker). classes at the new Ringwood Pool. If you plus the bus is $30. Morning tea and Visitors always welcome. Mass at 9.15 have been considering it but want to lunch is at your own expense. am. followed by morning tea in the Mary know what it really is like, I’m here to tell Bresnan Room. you. The cost is heavily subsidized by the November 10th is a trip to Coombe Council at only $6.70, and the water is Cottage. The cost will be $30 also, which Members are reminded, if possible, to really warm. The exercises can be as hard includes Devonshire tea and tour of the bring a plate and a gift for the raffle. as you want or you can take it a bit easy if garden and $5 for the bus. Those who did that suits. (Carole) the trip a couple of years ago can testify
Sr Margaret Noone ,Founder of Very Special Kids, presenting Shirley Our Youngest EVERGREEN! “Indiana” Graham with her award for 20 Years of Maria’s granddaughter. volunteer service to this very special organization.
Maria with Hospitality students from Aquinas College who served afternoon tea to Museum & Imax outing Evergreen and St V De Paul members. SEPTEMBER 2017 15
We acknowledge The TABLET and thank Mary Ryan from the Archbishops Office of Evangelisation for submitting this for us. 16 SEPTEMBER 2017
Homily by Fr Frank O’Dea
The National Council of Priests of Australia However, in breaking news, Pope Francis has In this same issue of The Swag, the much (NCPA) puts out a quarterly magazine called replaced the prefect of the CDF with a new respected retired bishop Pat Power says we The Swag. man, Spanish Luis Ladaria Ferrer. need a church which is more humane, more humble, less clerical, more inclusive, more It has excellent reading material and I would Hopefully the new man will bring much- open, which finds unity in diversity and a encourage all of you to subscribe to it. needed reforms. church which truly reflects the person and The current issue has a number of very Francis Sullivan has made these values of Jesus. good articles on the sex abuse crisis and the recommendations: When allegations of abuse and cover-up disastrous state of the church today. Church leaders who never put victims ahead were made, the bishops called in lawyers to I’ll start with an article by Francis Sullivan of the church’s reputation should be held defend them. who is CEO of the Truth, Justice and accountable. Thus it became a battle between lawyers for Healing Council of the Catholic Church The church needs people with the right the prosecution and defence. and represented the church in the Royal skills to govern the church and must include Commission into child sex abuse. What they should have done is to read the good lay people including women. gospels and hear what Jesus said. He says that when he began his role he had no real sense This is what bishop Pat Power of the extent of the abuse meant by saying we need a church thinking that maybe the which truly reflects the person and church had 100 paedophiles values of Jesus. in its history. One of the most frequently In fact the records show that mentioned problems is clericalism, 1,200 priests and brothers the notion that clergy are superior have had allegations of abuse to the laity. made against them. This began about the year 300. He says the figures speak of a Prior to then the only priesthood moral disease that profoundly known in the church was the infects not only the religious priesthood which came from orders and dioceses but the baptism, the priesthood of the wider Catholic community, faithful. a fact not lost on the Royal Commission. All of us are priests and we all can Church leaders must move away from celebrate the Eucharist. At one point the 5 senior archbishops sat privilege, comfortable life styles and mix together in the witness box, attempting more with the people. About the year 300 the leaders of the church to explain the way in which clericalism, were ‘ordained’, giving rise to two kinds of He quotes Pope Francis saying we need celibacy, power, institutional might and priesthood. to become a church which is bruised, other issues played a part in the entire hurting and dirty because it has been out In my opinion, for what it’s worth, this is one scandalous affair. on the streets, rather than a church which of the biggest mistakes the church has ever Francis says, “My sense is they toiled in is unhealthy from being confined and from made. vain and there is now a deep malaise clinging to its own security. The ordained were put on a pedestal and compounded by a simmering anger within Church leaders should publically commit given titles such as Father, My Lord, Your the community about the church and child now to a public consultation and Grace, Your Eminence, Your Holiness. sexual abuse.” deliberative process on all issues within the The bishop’s house came to be known as Pope Francis set up a committee to Catholic community that are the source of the palace and Cardinals were called the investigate this grave matter. respectful dissent and even disengagement. Princes of the Church. One of the committee was Marie Collins Francis Sullivan says, “What Members of the hierarchy became very who was herself abused. has shocked and confronted wealthy and privileged. She has now resigned because of the This about as far from the gospels as you resistance and lack of cooperation by the me the most about the child can get, yet as leaders they should be Congregation for Doctrine and Faith. sexual abuse is that it took shining examples of the followers of Jesus She also denounces the ‘clericalism’ in some place in a church. The very living lives of simplicity. parts of the Roman Curia and the reluctance An urgent need is to have women in of the CDF to implement the Commission’s fact that the church was on responsible positions of authority. recommendations even after Pope Francis trial rips at the heart of what had approved them. They need to break through the stained the church is meant to be.” glass ceiling. SEPTEMBER 2017 17
Homily by Fr Frank O’Dea
Some believe that if women had some He tells the story that he was driving one various levels in the church.” responsibility for the placing of priests in day, stopped at lights, a car pulled up The pope has already set up a committee to parishes, those accused of abuse would not alongside, the driver noticed Kevin was a look into the matter of reintroducing women have been moved from parish to parish as priest and called out, “Off to abuse some deacons which the church had for over a has been happening. more children are we?” thousand years. The wrongs of the church go right to the top The cruelty of the remark is that Kevin Dillon The church is sometimes called the barque of the church’s structure. has done a huge amount of ministry for or ship of Peter. victims of sex abuse. I went all the sessions of the Victorian It has run aground on the rocks of scandal Parliamentary Enquiry except the first one a As if things couldn’t get worse, now Cardinal and is in danger of breaking up completely, few years ago. George Pell has been charged with sex battered by the failure of the hierarchy to abuse. On one occasion Archbishop Denis Hart told handle the sex abuse crisis according to the the enquiry that he wrote to the Vatican He is one of the nine cardinals whom the teachings of Jesus. asking how to deal with a priest who was pope appointed as his special advisers, the 2 To help to re-float the barque we must throw SEPTEMBER 2013 accused of sex abuse. so-called C9, and is in chargeof of my the way Vatican to pe rform an act of kindness to someone I don’t kno w. Today, I’ll giveoverboard a sincere compliment the baggage to the someone church has who Bank. 22-24 Holy Spirit Fete News He got an answer 14 years later. seems down. 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Twenty-First Sunday in Ordinary time Michael Bowden Matthew 16. 13-20+ were nothing in the face of this alliance. a legalised union then we are acting in an arrogant rocklike manner rather than in a Now when Jesus came into the district of But Jesus said something different at the just and merciful manner demanded by the Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, end of this discourse – “don’t tell anyone!” Gospel. ‘Who do people say that the Son of Man is?’ This warning by Jesus has been examined And they said, ‘Some say John the Baptist, for years by scripture scholars and in Mark My principles for acting on this matter but others Elijah, and still others Jeremiah is called the Messianic Secret. I’ve written are then firstly Humility. The gospel will or one of the prophets.’ He said to them, essays on it – which I can’t remember now! be accepted by others when it is seen as ‘But who do you say that I am?’ Simon Peter Maybe because there is no way for me to being comprised of gentleness, peace and answered, ‘You are the Messiah, the Son of contextualise the topic in the time of Mark compassion. We will convince others of the living God.’ And Jesus answered him, and Matthew. What the warning meant to God’s Love when we live in God’s Love with ‘Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah! For Mark’s audience and Matthew’s audience patience and understanding of the needs of flesh and blood has not revealed this to may have little relevance our present day. others. Secondly Justice should guide our you, but my Father in heaven. And I tell you, thinking. We should not deprive others of So what lesson can we draw from Jesus’ you are Peter, and on this rock I will build something that in the legal structure of our aphorism? Perhaps humility and trust my church, and the gates of Hades will not nation (not the religious belief structure) simultaneously. Perhaps as Catholics we prevail against it. I will give you the keys of is available to all except those who are should be very reluctant to be standing the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you same sex oriented. And thirdly Trust or its on the steeple of our cathedrals and bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and synonym, Hope. Hope is the eschatological pronouncing to the Australian public that whatever you loose on earth will be loosed understanding that we are called to make same sex marriage is a terrible abomination. in heaven.’ Then he sternly ordered the the Kin-dom come in the here and now, right This is not the war we need to fight. On disciples not to tell anyone that he was the now for everyone. We can’t afford, because close examination the issue is not one for Messiah. we reckon we are right and we stand on The Catholics, except in so far as the principle of Rock, to attempt to exclude anyone from the Reflection Justice should be our rallying call. I have not joys of the Kin-dom. heard one politician or advocate of same How should we think about Church? As sex marriage demand that a Catholic priest The Catholic Church in Australia is in a good Catholic boy growing up within a be required to marry a same sex couple. deep do dos. The Church is in a severely Catholic matrix it was easy for me, as for my How is this a problem for the institutional compromised position. Grandstanding peers, to adopt an approach to Catholicism Rock? Yet if the Biblical value of Justice is about sex at the moment is absolutely not that was triumphalist. From this gospel at the heart of our theology we Catholics available to the Church when our clergy, we take a theme of a Rocklike Church. We are required to offer to others the right to and bishops through their failure to manage grew up thinking our Catholic Church could a sense of equality, equity and opportunity their priests, are guilty of the worst period of withstand anything. We felt in Melbourne that we expect for ourselves and all sustained sexual abuse in Australian history. in the 50s that we were involved in a war humankind. Insofar as same sex couples Let’s get off our rocky steeple and live against both secularism and Protestantism. and their parents and families feel that there generous, humble lives as our founder did. Enemies on every side. But we were strong, is a discrimination operating that forbids we had God on our side and Peter the Rock Remember, Jesus told his disciples “sternly” these couples from experiencing the joy of as well! For sure the powers of the enemy to keep their mouths shut.
All will be revealed in the NEXT edition of The Spirit! SEPTEMBER 2017 19 Dear Mamas in the School Yard
This is a post that has been forwarded you know that she holds her child tightly often end in disaster. People have stopped anonymously... food for thought as they sob because they have yet again inviting them now. It will probably break not been invited to a party that you are your heart to hear that she has had to seek Dear mamas in the school yard, I want to hosting? Later that night when they are therapy & medication to cope with the write you this letter in the hope that it may fast asleep, she also cries with sadness for stresses of her daily life. And in her darkest help you to understand. I am writing it on her child and a pain in her heart that she hours she has contemplated leaving this behalf of the mother of the child who has cannot make go away. Did you know that world behind. I want to also let you know a behaviour issue. The one who who’s child most days she holds her phone close and that your child cannot catch a behaviour may be in your child’s classroom. The one is filled with anxiety as she expects the issue from being associated with this who’s child may at times be disruptive and school to call and say that there has been family. They do not have a contagious need lots of attention from the teacher. The yet another incident at school with her disease. What you & your child can learn by one that no doubt, the whole year level will child. She can’t relax & enjoy the time to being friends with them is a very valuable already know about! Did you know that herself. You probably couldn’t know that lesson in life. You can teach your child this mother has probably cried an ocean by now she has very little friends in her life how to have empathy & compassion for of tears for her child? She has probably anymore. Having a child with such high other individuals who have challenges. been through more than you or I could needs has meant many appointments, You can teach your child to lead the way in ever imagine. Maybe her child has a formal social skills groups and therapies. It has showing kindness and acceptance to the diagnosis like Autism or ADHD, but that also meant she is left exhausted and wiped children who need it most. You can do this really shouldn’t matter anyway. Maybe she out each and every day, and barely has by leading by example. That lovely mother is still grieving for the fact that her child enough energy for her husband, let alone needs more than anyone else in your life – a will face so many more challenges in their even attempting to reach out to one of friend. Someone to listen to her and show life than yours. She is still a mother, like you her few friends left who understand. And if support, without judgment. Even just a & I, who just always wants the very best you took the time to actually get to know simple smile or hello could lift her spirits for her child. Did you know that she hears her she might share with you that even immensely. We teach our students that your whispers and feels your disapproving members of her own family make her feel ‘excluding’ is a form of bullying, yet other looks? She knows all too well that you do like it is her fault. That she is a bad parent parents seem to do this to each other all not want your child to interact with hers and responsible for her child’s behaviour. of the time. Yes there may be times when in any way because of their behaviour. Did Most events or outings that she attempts you are together that issues may arise, but 20 SEPTEMBER 2017
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