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s his issue of The Rainbow Times is (not married)? What did you say was your hus- Validating the system’s ways or losing ourselves? devoted to a very important cause band’s name was? Is she your sister/daughter?” By: Jason Lydon/TRT Columnist and hearts of vet- n Tthat we all face—healthcare. The These things still happen in Massachusetts— n December 22nd President Obama erans. Not only New Year is often a time when people they still happen to us. And, if they still happen signed the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t is the treatment

io talk about resolutions. Many of those to us, chances are they also happen to you! That OTell. Many gay and lesbian people of the soldiers resolutions, I have witnessed through- is why we continue our work to end LGBT ig- around the country have heralded this as an in- immoral, what

n out the years, have to do with health. norance. We need comprehensive education credible accomplishment for civil rights for our the U.S. military i Because of that, we dedicated this Janu- outside of the LGBT community too. Because LGBT communities. The money, resources, sends these peo- ary, 2011 issue to LGBT healthcare. of such questions and actions, we are often and time that have gone into this campaign are ple to do around p We hope you enjoy it! turned off by the healthcare system and opt not countless, so many people’s lives dedicated to the world is one of

o When my wife and I have had to to see a practitioner, even when such treatment this fight. It is without question that many peo- the greatest forces change doctors, or when my wife has is needed. Because of that, we at TRT have ple have passionately fought for the freedom to of immorality in Jason Lydon called to make appointments for me, we al- tried to compile, through this issue, some of join the military and fight openly as a gay, les- the world. These ways find ourselves asking questions such the most open and affirming LGBT hospitals, bian, or bisexual person. This fight was fought soldiers, including openly gay ones, will be re- as: “Do you see gay patients? Is your doctor clinics and institutions, which showed interest and the fight for the repeal is over, but what has sponsible for operating drones that kill civilians understanding of LGBT issues? Do you treat to let our community know who they are, their this accomplished for us? in Pakistan, marching through Arab cities tak- other married gay couples?” The questions commitment to LGBT health and the variety of Queers for Economic Justice, QEJ, wrote in a ing people’s lives to steal resources, and other go on and on, because we want to ensure that services that they will offer to us—respectfully press release on the 22nd that, even as so many global military atrocities. we are treated with respect and dignity—most and openly. have claimed this repeal as a victory for poor Queers for Economic Justice continued in importantly with rights. Believe it or not, we According to the CDC’s website (cdc.gov), and working class LGBT people in the mili- their statement, “We stand in solidarity with have had answers to these questions that still the LGBT community is defined as being “di- tary, “military service is not economic justice, other LGBTQ people around the globe, and baffle us. Some of them have been: “We do not verse, coming from all walks of life, and it and it is immoral that the military is the nation’s do not condone violence against them or their see LGBT patients. What does LGBT mean? See Healthcare Disparities on page 16 de facto jobs program for poor and working- home countries so that ‘our gays’ have the class people. And since QEJ organizes LG- ‘right’ to serve openly in the military.” Yet, the BTQ homeless people in New York City, we moment has come, the ban has been lifted, and Queeries: Breast cancer makes me feel anxious about sex wanted to remind the LGBT community and openly gay people will be joining the violence By: Steven Petrow*/Special for TRT became widely accepted as real. The law now progressive anti-war allies that militarism and of U.S. militarism. The question we must ask extends its protections to all of us, regardless of war profiteering do not serve the interests of ourselves is which side of the queer family Gay cop faces harassment gender or sexual orientation. LGBT people.” They then go on to list four es- are we fighting for now? Must we continue to Q: I started working as a police of- However your workplace mistreatment might sential points of how the military is not serving fight for assimilating into the system of hetero/ ficer just last year. When I was first eventually be categorized, there are things you LGBTQ people including the rates of sexual homo-normative gender conforming systems hired, pretty much everyone asked me can do about it. Start by talking informally and violence within the military, the realities of the of domination? Is that our greatest possible why I’m not married. Then came the off-the-record to a supervisor or ombudsman lack of resources available for veterans, and the achievement? Will we achieve true success if gay jokes. I’ve tried to let it go since (someone whom you think is generally sup- epidemic of PTSD that is tearing at the minds See Civil Rights on page 5

advice I’m still a rookie, but it seems like they portive), to decide whether or not to file an know I’m gay and want to push me out official complaint. At the same time, do your the door. How would you handle this? best to make sure you have communicated that A: As a law enforcement officer yourself, the “jokes” offend you or make you uncomfort- Letters to the Editor The Rainbow Times 351 Pleasant St., #322 you may know that the workplace you’re de- able. This communication can be in person, by To Senator Scott Brown, scribing pretty much fits the description of letter or through email. In addition, keep a di- Northampton, MA 01060 I never served in the military. But through www.therainbowtimesnews.com “hostile” and your treatment verges on ha- ary of what’s going on, including dates, times, my job had contact with Air Force officers rassment. It may even be sexual harassment, places and what exactly has been said and done and enlisted men. I came to realized that the [email protected] depending on various factors such as whether and by whom. Also keep track what you have military was perhaps the last bastion of honor [email protected] your harassers know you’re gay. Often, people done in response. and honesty in our post-Reagan era of greed, Phone: 413.282.8881, 617.444.9618 think that sexual harassment only happens to If all else fails, make an official report to dishonesty, and selfishness. Thank you for or Fax: 206.203.0436 women, but that’s not the case. In fact, it was the department and/or contact an LGBT rights helping to foster that sense of honesty, honor only recently that same-sex sexual harassment See Queeries on page 14 and integrity in the people who serve in the Publisher Columnists military. This is a victory for civil rights, the Gricel M. Ocasio Lorelei Erisis Deja N. Greenlaw military and the American people. Editor-In-Chief Wishing one and all a Happy New Year Thank you for having the courage and in- Paul P. Jesep Nicole Lashomb Jason Lydon By: Jenn Tracz*/CABO’s Executive Director We are always looking tegrity to vote for the repeal. Assistant Editor Jenn Tracz ABO wishes everyone a happy and pros- for ways we can improve I am beginning to think that you are more than a good-looking man that drives a truck. Natalia Muñoz John Verlinden perous New Year. We have many great and maximize our relation- Susan Ryan-Vollmar ships with members, part- —Gerald Swanson Sales Associates Cthings going on throughout 2011 and Reporters encourage you to check us out when you can. ners, supporters and friends. Chris Gilmore Chuck Colbert During this year CABO is holding 4 regular If you have a suggestion for Dear Editor, It was refreshing and very instructive to read Liz Johnson Clara Lefton monthly events and hope you join us at the one what we can include in this Christine Nico closest to you. We have morning breakfast net- column each month, don’t your Fenway Health story about AIDS/HIV Lead Photographer because as your reporter pointed out, HIV is Tynan Power working events in New Haven, West Hartford hesitate to let us know. The Glenn Koetzner Joe Siegel and Westport and a rotating evening network- better we can serve our not perceived as a problem or a disease that Webmaster is killing millions of people anymore. Your Lead Designer ing event in New Haven County. For more de- audience the better we can Jarred Johnson Jim Curran tails on CABO events in your area, visit www. serve the community. in-depth reporting on this issue and the inci- TheCABO.org. CABO’s corporate part- dence of it for men of color was shocking and The Rainbow Times is published biweekly by CABO has also created many great partner- Jenn Tracz nerships include; Aetna, also educational. I find that your coverage is, The Rainbow Times, LLC. TRT is affiliated with the ships and initiatives within the CT community Foxwoods, Murtha Cullina by far, one of the best out here. National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce, and with our members statewide. The first part- LLP, Comcast Business Class, Clear Channel —Mia Gonzalez, Jamaica Plain CABO - The Connecticut Alliance for Business Radio and The Rainbow Times. Each of these Opportunity, and QSyndicate. The articles written nership of the New Year I’d like to take a mo- by the writers, columnists, and correspondents express ment to talk about is the True Colors Conference businesses has something great to offer and their Dear Editor, Your consistent and accurate coverage their opinion, and do not represent the endorsement taking place at UConn on March 11th and 12th. commitment and support to the LGBT commu- or opinion of The Rainbow Times, LLC or its owners. True Colors is a CT based non-profit that nity is what separates them from the rest. We of Trans issues still amazes me. At first I To write letters to the editor, please send your letters, works to create a positive environment for highly encourage you to do business with one or thought you’d do this for a while, like most with your name, address and phone number to: The LGBT youth; they are a great partner of CA- all of them. As a CABO member there are many publications, I must admit. Later on, as time Rainbow Times (address shown above), or e-mail BO’s and at this years 18th annual conference great exclusive offers to take advantage of. went by, I saw that you’re in it for the long any comment/s to the editor at: editor@therain- we are proud to announce our involvement as run and I must say I like it. I commend you bowtimesnews.com. All submissions will be edited * In her role as Executive Director, Jenn is for it and was very interested in the Trans according to space constraints. The Rainbow Times, a Rainbow Sponsor. 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In addition to being MTPC’s efforts. through electronic delivery, please visit our website. ing out more about True Colors and its role in CABO’s executive director, she also is a small —Raul Slim, Boston, MA The whole content and graphics (photos, etc.) are the the LGBT community, visit www.ourtruecol- business owner specializing in marketing and See Letters on page 5 sole property of The Rainbow Times, LLC and they ors.org or call (860) 232-0050. design services. cannot be reproduced at all without TRT’s consent. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 •  LGBT Health in MA, CT, & RI: A special report on nearby agencies supporting inclusive health care Organization lists LGBT friendly national healthcare providers By: Joe Siegel/TRT Reporter For many members of the LGBT com- munity, going to a doctor can be a nerve- wracking experience. The greatest fear is ess being exposed to a medical professional who has a bias against LGBTs. Fortu- n nately, there are many health organiza- tions which offer services specific to the New England LGBT community. One of them is Boston’s Fenway Com- munity Health, which treats over 70,000 patients and has 220 staff members. Fen- way offers primary medical services, and provides referrals for patients regarding Photo: chuck colbert infectious disease, gynecology, psychia- The Fenway Health team (L-t-R): Chris try, gerontology, dermatology, nutrition, and podiatry. There are also dental and Viveiros, Associate Director of Communica- eye care services. tions; Marcy Gelman, Chris Chianese, Complementary therapies (known as Vanessa Marquez, and Ron Bill. holistic medicine) are available include formation about programs and services. The chiropractic, acupuncture, and massage hospital is also the largest employer in Western therapy. Massachusetts. Fenway provides immunizations for In Connecticut, The Hartford Gay and Lesbi- Hepatitis A and B, meningitis, and an Health Collective (HGLHC) provides coun- tetanus. seling and treatment for people suffering from

health & well & health There are also therapy and support HIV/AIDS, in addition to dental care, STD test- groups and substance abuse counseling, ing, support groups, breast examinations, and as well as HIV counseling, testing, and referrals. Hepatitis A and B screening and immunization. Victims of domestic violence and hate crimes HGLHC was founded in 1983 by a group of can seek guidance from Fenway’s Violence Re- volunteer health professionals and supporters to covery Program. address the medical needs of the LGBT com- There is also a Transgender Health Program, munity, particularly those suffering from HIV/ Family and Parenting Services, and a GLBT AIDS. HGLHC also provides services to the Helpline and Peer Listening Line. For more in- transgender community. formation, go to www.fenwayhealth.org. “All of our staff is trained on transgender issues Another resource for and all of our services LGBT patients is Part- cater to the transgender ners Health Care, which population as well,” said includes several Boston- Drew Needham, who area hospitals, including serves as a HIV coun- Brigham and Women’s selor and grant writer for Hospital, Massachu- LHGLHC. setts General Hospital, In Rhode Island, there North Shore Medical isn’t a clinic or hospital Center, Newton-Welles- which is devoted solely ley Hospital, McLean to LGBT health. The Hospital, and Faulkner Rainbow Times solicit- Hospital. For informa- ed feedback from mem- tion about medical pro- bers of the LGBT com- viders and services, go Photo: ed cohen - baystate health munity to learn where to Brigham’s and Wom- In June, 2010, the Human Rights Campaign people go for medical en’s Hospital’s website Foundation gave Baystate Medical Center services. at www.partners.org. a perfect rating for the hospital’s inclusive One respondent, In Western Massachu- who wished to remain setts, Baystate Health, policies and treatment of LGBT people. Bay- state Health at NoHo Pride 2010’s Parade. anonymous, said: “For which includes Baystate my PCP I go to Anchor Medical Center in Springfield and Baystate Medical (1 Hoppin St., Providence). It is a very Franklin Medical Center in Greenfield, offers a welcoming practice. I came out after being an range of services to the LGBT community. established patient, but I’ve learned since that The facility offers invitro fertilization for les- there was a doctor there before that had a large bian couples, primary care physicians, and a caseload of LGBT patients. He left that particu- support group for the transgender community. lar practice and most of his patients stayed.” The hospital also hosts a transgender health con- Michael Airhart, of Providence, said the lack ference every year. of LGBT health services “is a real problem.” “We treat everyone with dignity and respect,” “When I moved (here), I knew that the Gay explained Visael “Bobby” Rodriguez, Chief Di- and Lesbian Medical Association offered a re- versity Officer for Baystate Health. ferral service for gay-friendly doctors. That Rodriguez said Baystate Health is always GLMA service had worked well for me before. working to improve the level of services they But few of Rhode Island’s doctors have signed provide to the LGBT community. up. Then I talked with a referral desk at Lifes- Baystate Health’s web site is www.baystate- pan. They wanted to be helpful, but the referrals health.com. weren’t very accurate -- the docs seemed to have Last June, the Human Rights Campaign Foun- no special knowledge of LGBT patient needs.” dation gave Baystate Medical Center a perfect A national resource, the Gay and Lesbian rating for the hospital’s inclusive policies and Medical Association (GLMA) is the world’s treatment of LGBT people. largest and oldest association of lesbian, gay, Baystate Health’s LGBT employees are bisexual and transgender (LGBT) health care very visible in the community. They attend professionals. The GLMA is a non-profit Northampton Pride every year and provide in- See LGBT Health Providers on page 20  • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com New HIV prevention tool is effective; though implementing ‘PrEP’ remains a challenge By: Chuck Colbert/TRT Reporter that it’s transmitted in their community, but A total of 2,499 gay and bisexual The results of a groundbreaking HIV pre- they don’t think it will happen to them. They men, other MSM and transgender vention study are indeed encouraging. Men deny their own personal risk, particularly young (male-to-female) women at high who had sex with men (MSM), taking oral black gay men” and other populations. risk of HIV infection participated antiviral medication daily, decreased their HIV PrEP “also requires you to disclose to your in the six-country, four continent risk by almost half compared to those taking a [primary] care giver your risk,” Daffin said. iPrex study. placebo pill. “You have to acknowledge with the current All study participants received a And yet health care providers, public health regimen: ‘I am a man who has sex with men comprehensive package of preven- officials, and community activists readily ac- and that I have to take this pill every day,’” tion services designed to reduce knowledge that the spreading word — getting although some men may be inclined to take their risk of HIV infection through- accurate information out — among popula- a “drug holiday,” which “we know from the out the trial, including HIV test- tions at risk won’t be easy. study that’s not something people can do and ing, intensive safer sex counseling, What’s next with the use of pre-exposure still be protected.” condoms and treatment and care for prophylaxis, or PrEP, as a new HIV prevention Indeed, sticking to the daily medication regi- sexually transmitted infections. tool? men is paramount. Study participants taking The Fenway Institute, along with Photo: Chuck colbert A panel of experts addressed the challenge medication daily had a 44 percent lower rate the San Francisco Department of L-t-R: Left to right: Panelists at Fenway Health’s com- recently at the Boston-based Fenway Health of HIV infection compared with those in the Public Health, was one of two U.S. munity forum for World AIDS Day, Dec. 1, 2010, include Center, during a community forum, held on placebo group, the study found. sites that enrolled study-volunteer Dawn Fakuda, director of the Office ofHIV /AIDS in the World AIDS Day, Dec. 1. The forum drew Better yet, participants who reported “high participants. Additionally, there adherence” — taking at least 90 percent of the were nine international sites in Bra- Bureau of Infectious Disease at the Massachusetts De- with more than 50 people. partment of Public Health, Gary Daffin, executive director Gay and bisexual men, particularly men medication — their protective effect against in- zil, Ecuador, Peru, South Africa, of color who have sex with men, are “bear- fection surpassed 70 percent. and Thailand. of the Multicultural AIDS Coalition, Robert Pomales, ex- ing the brunt of the disease,” said panel par- And for study participants with medication The iPrex study is the first evi- ecutive director of Health and Policy at the Latin Ameri- ticipant Gary Daffin, executive director of the levels detected in their blood, risk of infection dence that oral PrEP prevention can Health Institute, and Dr. Lenord Alberts, speaker for Multicultural AIDS Coalition, a non-profit decreased by more than 90 percent. reduces HIV infection in people the New England AIDS Education and Training Center. organization based in Boston’s Jamaica Plain The New England Journal of Medicine was at increased risk. An earlier study, the first to report about the new HIV preven- CAPRISA 004, found that topical PrEP, a mi- ponents of the PrEP HIV- prevention protocol. neighborhood. Still, other challenges remain. “Pockets of “Disparities, denial, and dollars” Daffin said, tion study, which tested the use of a daily tab- crobicide, protected at risk women. let containing two widely used HIV medica- The name iPrEx comes from the Spanish populations at risk are difficult to reach,” said summarize his primary concerns about the new Robert Pomales, executive director of health prevention tool. tions, the antiretroviral drugs emtricitabine and Iniciativa Profilaxis Preexposición or Prexpo- tenofovir. sure Prophylaxis Initiative in English. policy and partnerships at the Latin American PrEP “is an intervention that requires [folks] Health Institute. Among Latinos, for example, to know about HIV,” he explained. “They know The full article, “Preexposure Cheomopro- During the community forum, Dr. Kenneth phylaxis for HIV Prevention in Men Who Have H. Mayer, MD, a principal investigator on the 20 percent of people who show up at health Sex with Men,” is available at www.nejm. study and an author on the journal article, gave clinics are uninsured, 50 percent are undocu- org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMoa1011205. an over view of the results. mented, and 70 percent live below the poverty Manufactured by Gilead, Truvada is the brand Dr. Mayer co-chairs the Fenway Institute and line, he said. “These factors make it difficult name of the antiretroviral pill, which combines is its medical research director. for clients to access an intervention.” emtricitabine and tenofovir also known by the The iPrex “Achilles heel,” he said, is non-adher- In making PrEP available, Pomales asked, initials FTC and TDF respectively. ence to the daily pill regimen and the other com- See HIV Prevention Tool on page 8 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 •  Tough times for NY homeless youth shelter Civil Rights from page 2 Letters from page 2 we get a GLB and/or T president in the Dear Editor, By: Joe Siegel/TRT Reporter the deplorable conditions for homeless LGBT White House? When we simply fight for I must say I am not enjoying the constant The Ali Forney Center, which provides housing youth in New York. Ali’s murderer has never been civil rights it seems to me that we are losing jumps to your website. When I read a story for homeless LGBT youths in New York City, is identified. our greatly creative selves. When we fight to I tend to like it to end or be jumped, not sent experiencing severe financial hardships as a result The center was founded in 2002 and has an an- join the systems that are hurting us it seems to the web. of city budget reductions. nual budget of $3.4 million, and 50 staff members. to me that we are simply validating their —Richard Lee, Cambridge, MA The facility has had $150,000 in funding pulled Ali Forney provides services to over 1,000 LGBT existence and the harm they cause to other Dear Richard, by the city, in addition to $300,000 in federal funds, youth every year. communities. I am sad that the fight to re- Although we would like to send less sto- according to Executive Direc- The Ali Forney Day Center peal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” took so much ries to The Rainbow Times’ home site, we tor Carl Siciliano, who called in the Chelsea section of Man- of our resources and time as a community. are also trying to stay as green as possible the budget cuts “heartless and hattan provides street outreach, Now that you have won that fight the next while showcasing as many relevant stories stupid.” case management, primary struggle must be taken on, so how will that as we can. Because of that, at times, we have “We have kids show up here medical care, HIV testing, decision be made? to jump stories to our website. In addition, because they have nowhere mental health assessment and When a movement exists there are endless we love our readers’ visits to it and have else to go,” said Siciliano. treatment, food and showers, campaigns within it fighting toward some more informative articles on the website Without a place to live, many an employment assistance beautiful end goal. The demands are made from website-only reporters and writers. I LGBT youth resort to drug- program, and referral to the clear and tactics are decided upon after the exhort you to visit our website and see what dealing, stealing and prostitu- center’s housing programs. targets of power are understood. Visionary else we have to offer. In the meantime, I will tion in order to survive, all of Ali Forney also offers a scat- ideas are essential at this moment. Decisions keep your suggestion in mind and thank you which “has a much higher cost tered-site emergency housing need to be made by those most directly af- for your readership and support! to the city than providing them program with sites in Manhat- fected by oppression. This means that poor —Best, TRT Editor with the care that they so des- tan and Brooklyn, and a Transi- queer/trans people, queer/trans prisoners, perately need,” said Siciliano Photo: courtesy ali forney center tional Housing Program which queers/trans folks with disabilities, queer/ Dear Editor, Siciliano said there was an Ali Forney Center staffers currently offers housing to 20 trans youth, Palestinian queers/trans folks, I really liked your Publisher’s story about “enormous gap” between the amount of homeless youths in 4 different sites in queers/trans folks of color, and so many oth- regarding a tendency of female and male be- youth on the streets and the beds and services avail- Brooklyn and Manhattan. The residents are able to ers need to be heard at any decision-making haviors observed in society and animals. As able to them. 40 percent of those homeless youth live in a transitional housing program for up to two table about their lives. Are we willing to take a lesbian, I see that women in our commu- are LGBT and many of them rely on drop-in cen- years, while staff members assist them in maintain- the time to reflect on what the actual priori- nity are still trying to cause trouble amongst ters to survive, Siciliano noted. ing employment and in continuing their education. ties should be or are we rushing so quickly to themselves, so I agree with her assessments. The center was named in honor of Ali Forney, a Siciliano intends to seek funding from individual assimilate that we are unwilling to hear other I also think that the idea of getting closer homeless queer teen who was forced to live on the donors. A rally is being planned to be held on the voices? I am hoping that in 2011 one of our to other lesbians without wanting sex from streets of New York during the 1990s. steps of City Hall. resolutions can be to listen and to move for- them is not an easy one. Perhaps, like men, Forney was dedicated to the safety of other “I’m really focusing the majority of my effort on ward creating campaigns and demands that lesbians are seen as a threat personally and homeless queer youth; he was a committed HIV trying to persuade the city not to do this,” Siciliano meet the needs of our collective liberation, professionally. prevention worker, and advocated that the NYPD added. “I want the gay community to be very loud not our mainstream assimilation. —Nancy Bearstheim, Hartford, CT investigate a series of murders of the homeless about the fact that it’s wrong to let this happen to queer youth he had befriended. Ali became a hero our kids.” to those who knew him. In December of 1997, Forney was murdered For more information, visit the center’s web site on the streets. His tragic death called attention to at www.aliforneycenter.org. Next issue: Weddings & Valentines therainbowtimesnews.com  • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Brigham and Women’s reaches out to The National Coalition for LGBT Health Trans community for HIV Vaccine study applauds launch of Healthy People 2020 By: Joe Siegel/TRT Reporter In the past 15 years, more than 30,000 vol- Coaltion Director Hutson W. Inniss, explains proposal’s goals Researchers at Boston’s Brigham and Wom- unteers have enrolled in HIV vaccine studies en’s Hospital are recruiting HIV negative male- worldwide. Brigham and Women’s Hospital re- Washington, DC—The National Coali- of the Coalition’s efforts to spur a national dia- to-female transgender persons ceives funding from the National In- tion for LGBT Health (“the Coalition”) wel- logue about health, wellness, and prevention (ages 18-50) who have sex with stitutes of Health for this research. comed the release of Healthy People 2020, the for communities impacted by health dispari- men to participate in a vaccine Many HIV studies have been con- federal blueprint for building a healthier nation ties, particularly the LGBT community,” said trial to determine the effective- ducted at Brigham and Women’s, between 2010 and 2020. The Coalition is par- Hutson W. Inniss, Interim Executive Director ness of an HIV vaccine. All par- as well as affiliated hospitals such ticularly excited that Healthy People 2020 of the Coalition. ticipants will receive confiden- as Beth Israel Deaconess, Harvard will include not only numerous objec- Healthy People 2020 represents a tial HIV counseling and testing Medical School and Fenway Com- tives important for the lesbian, gay, significant advance in several aspects at no cost. munity Health. Participants are bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) over previous versions. Most notably, Dr. Lindsey Baden, principal healthy volunteers who are at low community throughout many topic the target areas and objectives will investigator of HIV vaccine risk of contracting HIV. areas, but also an entire topic area de- now be available in an interactive on- studies, said that HIV “is one Baden said the studies have voted specifically to LGBT health. line format, and the entire document of the biggest problems of our shown “very encouraging” results. The Coalition was founded ten years will be constantly updated to reflect generation.” One of those is the HVTN 505 ago by advocates working to achieve progress made toward the objectives by Estimated HIV infection rates Study, which focuses on men who LGBT inclusion in Healthy People 2020. In participating communities, providers, and pub- among specific transgender Photo: Brigham & Women’s have sex with men (MSM) and 2000, our work bore fruit in the development lic health advocates from around the country. populations range from 14 to Dr. Lindsey Baden transgender women who have sex of the Healthy People 2010 Companion Docu- “The Coalition applauds the work of its 69 percent; according to several with men. It is very important for ment for LGBT Health and several dozen objec- founders, members, and partners, including the transgender HIV/AIDS needs assessments and transgender persons to be represented in these tives recognizing the disproportionate impact of Department of Health and Human Services, in sexual risk behaviors studies. studies to ensure that as vaccines are devel- conditions such as HIV/AIDS and tobacco use fostering the development of such a promising Baden notes transgenders are a “vulnerable oped they are effective in this population. This on the health of the LGBT community. Dur- framework for initiating a broader conversa- and at risk population,” explaining the My “T” particular study will use a DNA prime/rAd5 ing his plenary speech at the Coalition’s recent tion about the health of everyone in America, Matters campaign is an effort to encourage the boost vaccine regimen developed by the Vac- annual meeting, U.S. Assistant Secretary for including LGBT people,” continued Mr. Inn- transgender community to participate in this cine Research Center at the National Institutes Health Dr. Howard Koh recognized this history iss. “We look forward to helping to make the very important research. of Health (NIH). Parts of this vaccine regimen by personally inviting the Coalition’s members promise of Healthy People 2020 a reality over This HIV vaccine study nationwide has en- are similar to the vaccine used in Step and to celebrate the launch of Healthy People 2020 the next ten years.” The Healthy People 2020 rolled almost 700 people. The response locally Phambili. and to take a leading role in supporting objec- target areas and objectives can be found at has been very favorable, according to Baden. While this vaccine is not on the path to li- tives important to the health not only of LGBT www.healthypeople.gov. “We do education about HIV and HIV pre- censure and is not expected to prevent HIV people but of our families, friends, and the larg- vention,” Baden said. “That’s something which infection, the results of HVTN 505 will help er communities in which we live and work. we are very committed to and want to do what researchers to better understand and develop T- “The Coalition is thrilled that Healthy People we can to engage the community, particularly cell-based vaccines. The vaccine used in this 2020 includes many new and updated topic ar- the communities that have higher rates of in- study cannot cause HIV infection. eas in fields such as LGBT health, the social fection because they’re the ones that need the All participants will receive the best available determinants of health, and access to health interaction the most.” See Brigham & Women’s on page 23 services. Healthy People 2020 is a centerpiece www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 •   • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Faith, Family, and God: Hyacinths Cooley Dickinson has nurses’ backs By: Paul P. Jesep*/TRT Columnist can change lives. with newly installed patient lift devices nother holiday season has In some ways God’s children (that’s us) passed. Tofurkey (a tofu prod- haven’t learned much over the centuries. War, Investment of nearly $1 million prevents back and other injuries Auct made with a stuffing as injustice, and financial exploitation haven’t NORTHAMPTON, MA—New nurse grad ficient throughout their workday. gross-sounding as the name) made gone away. Sisters and brothers, no matter their Laura Vanguilder gives the patient lifts two During a pilot of the patient lifts on several

god it onto the Christmas menu. I made a race, faith, gender, language, or sexual orienta- thumbs up. “The lifts will extend my career as a hospital units, there were no injuries among sincere effort to eat healthier. Call it a tion still find a reason to hate, hurt, and take nurse.” Registered Nurse Maria Etkin says the staff that used the lifts. Further, overall data f lapse in judgment. Okay. It was a huge advantage of one another forgetting that they lifts “will save our backs.” And Naira Francis, from the safe-patient handling initiative on lapse in judgment. No offense to vegans are given life from the same source. RN, says less strain on those units shows a 59 or vegetarians is intended. The Tofur- Yet the world has changed. It is better than a her back means she “can percent decrease in days key was worse than pressed over-salt- hundred, two hundred, or three hundred years move the patient more By completing this away from work and a ed, imitation turkey at a mediocre diner ago. Why? Because you’re in it! The world is safely.” decrease of days of re- where the cook’s ashes from a cigarette more beautiful for what you bring to it. You’re Cooley Dickinson is milestone, Cooley stricted work. pinched in his teeth drop onto the plate. a hyacinth. If you’re not sharing your inner getting encouraging re- Cooley Dickinson One holiday tradition that I started beauty then you’re holding back on the world. views from its nurses as Dickinson joins just six Hospital has been able ame o ame several years ago compensated for the This year think about how you share your well as the Massachusetts percent of hospitals to purchase the lifts and

n dinner whose name must never be ac- beauty with neighbors and the community. Nurses Association for the other improvements to its knowledged again. Every year I force Think about how you can make life better for Northampton hospital’s nationwide – primarily facilities and equipment hyacinth bulbs. In September, they’re someone who lost their job even if he or she commitment to safer care because the organization planted in pots, watered, and placed in is homophobic or a cantankerous homebound for staff and patients. teaching hospitals (and maintains a yearly $5 mil- the refrigerator’s vegetable bin for four- senior citizen next door. Be a hyacinth or other Last month, Cooley lion reinvestment fund. teen weeks. If bunny food ever comes flower in the New Year. Share your beauty. Dickinson completed only community hospital Having a reinvestment the installation of nearly fund allows us to invest the the in the form of chocolate covered cel- ery, carrots, squash, etc., then I’ll con- *Paul is an author, attorney, and a seminary $1 million in patient lift in central & western MA) in quality and safe care.

n sider finding another cold storage for the trained, ordained priest in greater Albany, NY. systems and mobile-lift – that have implemented It allows projects such as i hyacinths. His book Crucifying Jesus and Secularizing devices. By completing patient lifts that prevent In late December, I took the hyacinths out America – the Republic of Faith without Wis- this milestone, Cooley a comprehensive safe staff and patient injuries and placed them in the warmth of a sunny win- dom, is available on Amazon.com. He may be Dickinson joins just six and make patients more dow. Not long thereafter green stalks pushed reached at [email protected]. percent of hospitals na- patient handing program. comfortable. their way up from the dark, potted earth. Soon tionwide – primarily “We consider an in- there will be fragrant flowers of reds, whites, HIV Prevention Tool from page 4 teaching hospitals – that have implemented a vestment in patient lifts an investment in the comprehensive safe patient handing program. future of our nurses,” says Keith. and purples reminding me and those to whom “How do we prepare to implement without I give a gift of hyacinths that even in the cold “By making this investment in safer care, we According to the Massachusetts Nurse News- winter there is always life, beauty, and hope. increasing [such] disparities?” are preventing back, musculoskeletal and other letter, MNA officials praise Cooley Dickinson Winter is symbolic of the challenges we The cost of the medication is yet anoth- injuries associated with lifting and reposition- Hospital’s purchase of the patient lifts, saying face in our personal and professional lives. It er concern. “Who’s going to pay for the ing patients,” says Chief Nursing Officer Lee- that the “lifting equipment will help protect also foretells of new beginnings. The season drugs?” asked Daffin. sa-Lee Keith , RN. nurses while they are is a time of reflection. Ask yourself how you The cost of one Truvada pill is $30. While According to Derek on the job. Each year, become a better person in 2011. What do you physicians can write prescriptions for the Strening of Beacon thousands of nurses need to do that goes beyond personal drama to antiviral medication, it’s not clear if third- Health Care Products, Cooley Dickinson is the and health care workers across the country are make a small contribution that improves the party health insurance companies will pay only community hospital in central and western injured from manually lifting patients.” world? Winter is a time to watch good movies, for it. “That’s a gray zone,” Dr. Mayer said. Massachusetts to have extensive safe-patient The Occupational Safety and Health Admin- read great novels, and plan for the future. Still, “Who is going to pay for the public handling program. istration (OSHA) recommends that manual lift- The hyacinth reminds me of St. Therese of health [education] campaign?” asked Daffin, “Most hospitals have some sort of lift sys- ing of patients be minimized in all cases and Lisieux. She thought of herself and every per- who also sees the potential for a right-wing tem,” says Strening, a representative from the eliminated when feasible and that employers son she met as one of God’s flowers. Although backlash. company that installed the lifts. Strening says should put an effective ergonomics process in she is a Catholic saint often referred to as the “Society is not all of a sudden going to Cooley Dickinson is by far the only community place that provides management, involves em- “little flower,” I mention her not to promote embrace gay sex,” he said. Social conserva- hospital that has made such a large investment ployees, identifies problems, implements solu- any faith (Jew, Hindu, Muslim, Pagan, or in tives might well say: “‘No we are not giving “by providing full coverage of all patient care tions, addresses injury reports, provides train- this case Christianity) or a denomination (Wic- these gay people drugs so they can go out areas with overhead lift systems.” ing, and evaluates ergonomic efforts. can, Catholic, Orthodox, Episcopalian, Pagan- and have more sex.’” The benefits to patients are many, including Unitarian, etc.), but to highlight a wonderful Yet for all their apprehensions, panelists reduced bruising and tearing of patients’ skin, For a demonstration of safe-patient han- message that you can learn from her, although voiced hope the iPrex study would help save reduced fear of falling, gentler lifting and an dling practices and the patient lifts at contact her Christian denomination does not always lives. overall preservation of patients’ dignity. Staff the Marketing Communications office at (413) benefits from fewer injuries and are more ef- 582-2421. represent God in a positive way. All faiths, “I’ve been waiting for this news for two- religions, and denominations have truths to and-a-half decades,” said Rhoda Johnson- teach. They are manifestations of the Giver of Tuckett, manager of the Boston Public give your business a public display of affection in our special Life (one of God’s many names). The flower- Health Commission’s education and out- weddings & valentines issue ing bulbs I give to friends and acquaintances reach office. “I am very, very happy.” remind them of their own unique beauty that call 413.282.8881 or online at therainbowtimesnews.com

blog • chat personals calendar resources breaking news advertise & more ... therainbowtimes news.com blog • chat personals calendar resources breaking news advertise & more ... www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 •  Boxx-ing Match: An interview with Pandora, Drag Race contestant and “drag professor” By: Mikey Rox*/Special for TRT MR: Why do you think they picked you for though, winning that prize money would have But I’m not waiting around for something to hap- t As Pandora Boxx, Michael Steck stole “Drag U?” been lovely. pen. If you do that, well, you will end up waiting PB: I actually laughed at them when they called MR: There’s a show on the Logo network that forever. You have to make it happen, girl.

n the show on season two of “RuPaul’s Drag Race” – even if he didn’t take me and told me they wanted me to help come you’re probably familiar with, called “The A- MR: This past spring you wrote and starred in home the title of America’s Next Drag and style women. I said, “You want the one List.” Recently, one of the characters, Derek, a play called “The Lipstick Massacre,” a sort of Superstar. who got her style ripped to shreds to come and hosted a drag party and Reichen Lehmkuhl drag whodunit murder mystery. I was surprised

me In a recent interview, the drag diva help style women now?” I found great humor in showed up looking, well, let’s just say, rather in- to learn that you’re so multitalented. What else dishes about losing the catty reality com- that. I think they picked me because of my sense teresting. What advice would you give to those have you got up your sleeve that might shock n petition, why second place is sometimes of humor and that I was the nice one on “Drag queens out there who end up looking less femi- people? better than first, his stint as a “drag pro- Race,” and “Drag U” needed some nice queens nine and more Frankenstein when they dress in PB: I’m not too shabby at video games. [Laughs] fessor” on “RuPaul’s Drag U,” how to who also realized they were making a television drag? Geek! But seriously, I’ve always written. It’s handle gay bullies, and falling in love show. PB: I say fly your freak flag! If you can’t be a definitely something I love to do. I wrote my with a man who loves him for who he is MR: Had you won beauty queen, don’t even first play in the fifth grade and we put it on for – Texas-sized wigs and all. “Drag Race,” what do try. Drag is just about my whole school. I also draw and paint, though you think would have putting on something I don’t do that as often anymore. MIKEY ROX: Before certain inter- happened? And in your different than what you MR: I don’t want to bring down the mood, but opinion, does finishing normally would wear. with all the recent news of gay bullying associ- tertai views, I ask my Facebook friends if there’s anything they want to know about first give the winner a Campy drag is such fun. ated with teen suicide, I think it’s important that

n that person. It helps me gauge what the better shot at stardom I love campy queens. we talk about these issues. As a drag performer, general public wants to read. The first than the runners-up? I consider myself a you’ve undoubtedly been the target of abuse e question I got was about your name. So, Look at “America’s campy queen, even if I – verbal or otherwise. Can you tell me about a let’s start there – why Pandora Boxx? Next Top Model,” for go for a girlier look. For hurtful experience and how you handled it? PANDORA BOXX: According to Greek instance. Can anybody me, I just love beauti- PB: I certainly was a victim of bullying in mythology, Pandora was the first woman ever name a single winner ful woman who can be school, almost every day. It’s tough. My heart created and she opened the forbidden box and from that show? I can’t. total goofballs too, like goes out to anyone who is bullied. But it’s not let out all the evil unto the world, leaving only And from “American Goldie Hawn. just gay students. It’s fat students, it’s minority man’s hope inside. I thought the name conjured Idol,” several second- MR: You’re from students, it’s anyone who doesn’t fit the “norm.” up so many images right away. You would nev- placers have bigger Rochester, N.Y., and de- You just have to develop a tough skin and not er know what to expect with a name like that. I careers than those who spite your national fame let anyone bring you down. It’s tough to do and am also a huge Madonna fan, so Pandora and took home the title. No Photo: Kevin Thomas Garcia within the gay commu- I don’t know if you can make it so the cruelty Madonna seemed similar to me. offense to Tyra San- Pandora Boxx nity, you still live there. won’t hurt at all. It’s human to be hurt. No one MR: When you were eliminated from “RuPaul’s chez, of course, but she Why haven’t you moved said life would be easy, and it’s not. You just Drag Race,” Entertainment Weekly named you won your season of “Drag Race” and I’ve never to Los Angeles or New York like the rest of the have to consider the source. Anyone who bullies their pick for America’s Next Drag Superstar. heard of her. world’s homos? and harasses is just an ignorant person. They are Did that endorsement lift your spirits? PB: I think that, like you said, all you have to PB: [Laughs] I’ve actually been traveling so either ignorant because they don’t know any bet- PB: It definitely did! We were shooting “Ru- do is look at other reality competition shows to much I haven’t had time to sit down and map out ter or they are ignorant because they are scared Paul’s Drag U” while “Drag Race” was playing. know it’s not always the winner that gets the my move. I do plan to move but haven’t decided of what they don’t understand or what they, in most attention. Now I think that getting kicked on whether it’s going to be L.A. or NYC. I’m That helped me be a little less upset too, because See Pandora Boxx on page 22 I was on another show. off may have actually been better for me. Al- kind of seeing where my life will take me next. WOW! DO WE HAVE A SEASON FOR YOU WOW! WOW! @ THE FAC! WOW! The UMASS Fine Arts Center WOW! WOW!BRINGING WORLD ARTISTS TO THE VALLEY FOR 36 YEARS!

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With The New Quartet, Lloyd has assembled a virtuosic” (The New York Times). The Daily Hampshire Gazette, and WFCR 88.5FM group able to follow his excursions into the music and into the mystic. Sponsored by: El Sol Latino THE ARTS GIVE BACK: please bring a new or gently used suit or professional item of clothing (all sizes Sponsored by: Baystate Heart & Vascular program welcome) or accessory to donate to Dress for Success, a local organization dedicated to promoting the and WEIB 106.3 FM economic independence of disadvantaged women. Visit their web site at www..dressforsuccess.org. • TICKETS? CALL 413-545-2511 OR VISIT FINEARTSCENTER.COM • 10 • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com 3rd Annual Mamma Mia! Sing-Along and Costume Contest - A cure for winter blues Northampton, MA—“Mamma Mia, here a blast dressing in island or wedding attire or in I go again! My, my, how can I resist you?” Back flippers, boas, beach hats, blonde wigs or over- by popular demand, Out! For Reel LGBT Film alls in the middle of winter,” says Michaels. Series presents the Mamma Mia! Sing-Along on Join 800 fun-loving fans from all over New Saturday, February 5, at 7:30 p.m., at the Acad- England for an unforgettable evening of pure emy of Music Theatre in Northampton. Doors joy. Sing those ABBA songs as loud as you open at 6:30 p.m. for a social hour and the Any- want - everyone else is too. Closed caption will thing Goes Costume be used for lyrics and for Contest. For more in- the deaf community. formation, visit www. “Even the skeptics OutForReel.org. whose partners dragged “People get such a them to the theater came high from singing up- up to me afterwards ab- beat ABBA songs with solutely thrilled,” says 800 people. They can’t Michaels with a laugh. stop talking about how Don’t miss out on this much fun they had,” fabulous evening of en- says Jaime Michaels, tertainment - starring Executive Producer/Di- Meryl Streep and all of rector of Out! For Reel. Photo: universal films us! “It was a totally amaz- The cast of Mamma Mia! Tickets are $11 in ing experience! The sheer energy and joy of the advance, $14 at the door, $9 for students with audience is unforgettable,” says Heather Jack- current ID at the door. Advance tickets can be son, who attended the Sing-Along last year. purchased online at www.OutForReel.org. “Every year this event sells out so I recom- Tickets may also be purchased at these ticket mend people buy their tickets very early,” says outlets: State Street Fruit Store, Northampton, Michaels. Food For Thought Books, Amherst, and World Audience members are encouraged to wear Eye Bookshop, Greenfield. Tickets may also be costumes and to participate in the Anything purchased at the Academy Box Office (box of- Goes Costume Contest with three local celebrity fice fee applies). judges. There is no entrance fee. Prizes will be awarded to three winners. All ages, genders, and Out! For Reel’s mission is to create and costumes are welcomed. Contestants should ar- strengthen our LGBT community through cultur- rive by 7:00 p.m. al events, build connections to our heterosexual “Over 50 contestants, from ages 2- 80+, par- allies, and work toward the eradication of ho- ticipated in the contest last year. Everyone has mophobia through the arts and entertainment. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • 11 Mimi Imfurst to take on RuPaul’s Drag Race, and light up Hartford’s Chez Est this month By: Joe Siegel/TRT Reporter standout among the competition on the show. peal to audience members of all ages. the works. Entertainer Mimi Imfurst will be competing “What I do as a drag artist is very different from Recently, Mimi appeared as Cher in an off- Party Girl is a “fun song”, Mimi said, noting along with the country’s most celebrated drag a lot of the girls,” Mimi explained. “My drag is Broadway production of Boylesque, a spoof of the lyrics poke fun at infamous party girls such as queens on the third season of a bit more theatrical-based than Cher’s movie Burlesque. Lindsay Lohan and Paris Hilton. RuPaul’s Drag Race, premier- traditional drag. For me, it was Getting to play the beloved pop diva was a “We want everybody when they hear the song ing January 24 on LOGO. Mimi an amazing experience to get to “dream come true,” Mimi explained. to forget their problems and to be able to have will also be bringing her musical show the world what I do.” “Whatever she does, she does the best,” Mimi fun,” Mimi noted. stylings to Hartford, Connecti- Mimi, who grew up in Mas- said. “There’s nothing she can’t do. She’s had a Mimi also appeared on stage in Thank You For cut’s Chez Est on January 21. sachusetts and Maine, has been number one song every decade for the last five Being a Friend, a spoof of the popular 1980s tele- Mimi is a veteran of the stage, doing drag since she was 10 decades. No one else has done that.” vision comedy The Golden Girls. having appeared in several years old. Mimi said working on Boylesque was “a really “You can watch it today and it’s still really shows, such as Rhoda Heart- “The first time I ever did drag fun experience.” funny,” Mimi said. “The comedy (in the show) I break, The Diary of Anne Fran- was for vacation Bible school,” Mimi is also a member of girl group Xelle, think is still cutting edge.” kenstein, The Rocky Horror Mimi recalled. “The theme was featuring “real” girls JC Cassis and Rony G. Mimi enjoys performing and intends to keep Picture Show, Hedwig and the Jesus Undercover and my moth- The group’s debut single “Party Girl” unveils on doing it for a long time to come: “What I love Angry Inch, and The Facts of er dressed me and my 10-year January 1 on ITunes. A full-length album is in most is making people laugh.” Life: The Lost Episode. old brother up in drag. We were Mimi was thrilled at the op- aging beauty queens.” portunity to work with the drag Mimi has a fun show pre- icon, for whom she has a lot of pared for Chez Est, and prom- love and admiration: “Ru is gen- ises diversity: “I like to keep my uinely one of the most beautiful Photo: wilson models shows eclectic. I really like to people I have ever met in my Mimi Imfurst pull material from lots of differ- entire life. She’s flawless. She ent places.” has not aged a day. She really genuinely loves In addition to contemporary top 40 songs, the other drag queens.” show will also feature references to movies and Mimi believes her unique style made her a television shows, which Imfurst believes will ap- Deep Inside Hollywood: Lesbian surgeons to traumatize CBS By: Romeo San Vicente*/Special for TRT spooky, undead and Paltrow & Baldwin getting a piece of the Rock? bloodsucking contin- The casting continues for Adam Shankman’s ues to be all the rage, big-screen adaptation of the hit stage musical showing no signs of Rock of Ages. You know, the one where all the a weakening pulse songs are big hair-metal pop hits of the 1980s. whatsoever. For the As affordable as The biggest news, of course, has been the court- moment, all anyone Internet Dating with the personal ing of Tom Cruise and most-popular-girl-of- knows about this new touch of a Matchmaker right-now Taylor Swift. (And Seth Rogen for series is what it will what must be dude-cred reasons.) But the most not be. As in, it will recent names being tossed around are also stir- not be a proper spin- ring excitement. Gwyneth Paltrow, who’s been off, with no overlap- proving she can sing with a vengeance lately on Romeo San Vicente ping pilot characters Glee and in the movie Country Strong, has been showing up on Vam- offered a role. And Alec Baldwin may be joining pire Diaries first (or so they say now), and it will the rockin’ lineup as well. This could go on and not be coming down a fast track. It’s currently in on, naturally, and it should. There’s plenty of the talking stage. There’s no script, no cast, no room for everyone to rock. But why does it feel network interference; all that fun stuff will have like by the time this is over Dame Judi Dench to wait until Williamson has some great ideas and Jimmy Kimmel will also be involved? that the Suits want to crush. So be patient. Lesbian surgeons to traumatize CBS March of the Glee copycats CBS, the home of medical and police pro- ABC wants their own Glee and they’ll stop cedural programs your parents watch (OK, at nothing until they get it. To that end, they yes, we like NCIS, too.), is go- nabbed occasional Glee co-star ing to let The L Word’s creator Idina Menzel and are devel- Ilene Chaiken try her hand at it oping a musical drama series all with a doctor drama called around her. They’re also setting Rhodes to Recovery. The series up a musical comedy series with has been green lighted and will Sharpay Fabulous writer Robert feature a lesbian trauma unit Horn. But the most ambitious surgeon and her hetero male current idea floating around the colleague as they stitch together network involves Oscar-win- patients and unavoidably mix ning composer Alan Menken their professional and private (The Little Mermaid) and Oscar- lives. Coolest twist: early in the nominated lyricist David Zippel story one of them begins dating (Hercules) who are set up with the other’s ex-wife. Now all you a musical comedy of their own. have to do is guess who and wait The untitled show, described it out until this thing survives the as St. Elmo’s Fire-meets-Rent annual chopping of the pilot for- (yes, they still pitch projects this est. Meanwhile, the people in way, apparently), is supposed to charge need to do whatever it Photo: courtesy screen gems involve young sexy musicians takes to get Pam Grier involved. Gwyneth Paltrow trying to make it in the world Or really, what’s the point? and will feature at least a couple original songs each episode. Let’s hope they’re An afterlife partner for Vampire Diaries all underdogs with can-do attitudes and pitch Kevin Williamson’s Vampire Diaries is such correction technology at their disposal. a big hit for the CW that the network wants more. So the Scream master is developing a new *Romeo San Vicente feels like he’s living a companion series, a supernatural drama about a teenage dream. He can be reached care of this group of people who investigate paranormal ac- publication or at DeepInsideHollywood@qsyn- tivity. It only makes sense, given that everything dicate.com. 12 • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com TRT Heroes: Belle Pellegrino, Rhode Island’s champion of LGBT equal rights By: Joe Siegel/TRT Reporter community organizations; all the ‘little’ things something to ease that pain, I have to do it. It is munity to gain full acceptance in the world?” I Belle Pellegrino has been one of the cham- contribute to creating change in attitudes toward the only thing that makes sense to me. Injustice replied, “If one morning, all over the world, ev- pions of LGBT equality in Rhode Island for the LBGT Community and bring us closer to and inequality make me crazy. ery LBGT person woke up and found their skin more than three decades. Pellegrino was one equality. TRT: What can be done about teen suicides had changed color to purple [green, etc.]. If that of the participants in the state’s first-ever Gay TRT: What is the best advice you have ever that happen as a result of bullying or anti-gay happened, our existence could not be denied Pride Parade held in 1976. The marchers had been given to do the proactive things you do to- sentiment? by ourselves or others. People would discover to wage a legal battle for the right to publicly day for our community? BP: I really think that the most difficult time their parent, spouse, child, boss, best friend, etc. demonstrate their pride in their sexual identities. BP: A good many years ago, Rev. Troy Perry, in life are the teen years. 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H H and correct the misconceptions about us, the the attitudes that make it ‘popular’ to hate us, H H more we gain acceptance, the closer we come to permit bullying of our youth and others, and H H to full equality. About 1975-6, someone asked give license to “Gay Bashing” will take many H H the question, “What would you consider the best lifetimes. But, it will happen one day as long as H H heHroHHHeHs thing that could happen to help the LBGT Com- we keep on working and teaching. TRT Heroes Know someone who works for the LGBT community and who gives endlessly & selflessly to everyone? Nominate them to be our next TRT Hero! Please send your nominations to: [email protected] www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • 13 Point Foundation announces opening of its 2011 Creep of the Week: McCain, not so “Maverick” after all By: D’Anne Witkowski*/Special for TRT DADT was “effective” policy and that only application season and new Named Scholarships oday is a very sad day,” sighed a military folks who agreed with him were worth LOS ANGELES, CA—Point Foundation concludes with face-to-face interviews with se- doddering and out of touch John listening to. (Point), the nation’s largest scholarship- lected finalists in April2 011. “TMcCain on the day “don’t ask, don’t “They’re saying if it isn’t broke, then don’t fix granting organization for lesbian, gay, bi- For the first time, others can also recommend tell” was finally repealed by Congress. it,” McCain said. “I understand the other side’s sexual and transgender (LGBT) students a deserving student by accessing www.point- Oh, shut up, McCain. Your completely inde- argument because of their social-political agen- of merit, announces the foundation.org/recommen- fensible and fear-mongering position lost. Suck da, but to somehow allege that it has harmed opening of its 2011 ap- dastudent.html. it. our military isn’t justified by the facts.” plication season starting The average amount of an- “I hope that when we pass this legislation What exactly does McCain mean when he December 10, 2010. nual support devoted to each that we will understand that we are doing great calls DADT “effective policy?” Effective at Students who will be scholar is between $22,000- damage,” McCain said before the vote. what? Ruining people’s lives? Punishing mem- enrolled in undergradu- $31,000, which includes men- The only thing that the DADT repeal is go- bers of the military who are doing a job the vast ate or graduate programs for the 2010-11 toring, leadership and media training and direct ing to do great damage to is McCain’s reputa- majority of Americans are too chickens&*$ school year are eligible to apply for the financial support. Point’s multifaceted sup- tion. He’s staked his claim to the wrong side of to do? Coddling members of the military who prestigious, multi-year scholarships. The port extends far beyond the scholars’ time in history. As DADT’s staunchest defender in the think that gay people are too “icky” to work application deadline for this year’s schol- school as Point provides leadership training and face of possible repeal, he’s made himself the alongside? arships is February 11, 2011. mentoring. George Wallace of this issue. And how does kicking trained personnel out 2010 Point Scholar Kyle Inselman who Attending some of the nation’s foremost What’s especially unseemly is McCain’s not harm the military? is pursuing a BFA in film studies at the higher educational institutions, Point Scholars complete about-face. While he stands with In 2007 McCain said, “We have the best- University of Colorado at Boulder said, agree to maintain a high level of academic per- the anti-gay right-wingers he’s so capriciously trained, most professional, best-equipped, most “By working with my fellow scholars and formance and to give back to the LGBT com- aligned himself with, three years ago he was efficient, most wonderful military in the his-

ack to school to ack everyone in the Point family, I’m able to munity through the completion of an individual Mr. “DADT repeal is fine with me so long as tory of this country. There just aren’t enough flourish as a leader playing my part for the community service project each year. In addi- the top brass are cool with it.” of them.” Did he mean there just aren’t enough b larger movement, and encourage my fel- tion, scholars are matched with mentors from the “I listen to people like Gen. Colin Powell, straight ones? low scholars to accomplish the same. This truly is professional world through Point’s Mentoring former chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, It takes a lot of time and money to turn a a community of support and encouragement, and Program; mentors lend their professional exper- and literally every military leader that I know. new recruit into a fully trained member of the having it gives me the confidence to pursue my tise and career guidance and become important And they testified before Congress that they Army, Navy, Air Force, or Marines. And yet individual and collaborative goals, whether they role models to scholars. The Mentoring Program felt the ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ policy was the we’ve been kicking service members out sim- are through my film work, advocacy, or more.” and Point’s professional support network equip most appropriate way to conduct ourselves in ply because, say, he’s a soldier who doesn’t get Point’s rigorous selection process for its pres- scholars with skills to ensure a lifetime of leader- the military,” McCain said in 2006. “But the turned on by big jugs, or she’s a soldier who tigious scholarships is highly competitive and ship, success and well-being. day that the leadership of the military comes does. That’s the policy McCain has been so ra- requires demonstrated academic excellence, Since its inception in 2001, Point Foundation to me and says, ‘Senator, we ought to change bidly defending? leadership skills, community involvement and has invested over $4.8 million in the education of the policy,’ then I think we ought to consider As Joe Sudbay of AmericaBlogGay wrote, financial need. Particular attention is paid to outstanding LGBT students. The organization’s seriously changing it because those leaders in “They’re on the front lines, putting their lives students who have lost the financial and social growth over a short period of time is noteworthy. In the military are the ones we give the respon- on the front lines for the rest of us.” support of their families and/or communities its first year, Point received 268 applications and sibility to.” By saying that repealing DADT is simply as a result of revealing their sexual orientation, granted eight scholarships. In 2010, approximate- But of course, as soon as “the leadership of another notch in the belt of some “social-politi- gender identity or gender expression. The selec- ly 1,641 applications were submitted of which the military” was cool with it, McCain was not. cal agenda” McCain is essentially saying to the tion process begins with on-line applications and McCain went out of his way to insist that See Scholarships on page 22 See Creep of the Week on page 16 14 • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Facebook Co-Founder gives GLAD a Huge Gift Queeries from page 2 The last word: Don’t forget that each of us group or an attorney specializing in employ- is the composite of our experiences (surgery Facebook co-founder Chris Hughes, along with so many of the issues of what can and can- included), and these make our beauty unique. with his partner Sean Eldridge, has given not be done as a GLBT citizen in New England ment law to find out your options. But be care- GLAD (Gay and Lesbian Advocates and De- or even nationally. It was exciting. I felt like I ful: Lesbians and gay men can be fired at will Gay couple (plus cat) contemplates fenders) a boost of support in the form of a had a really tangible effect on people who were simply because of their sexual orientation. And a holiday photo card $50,000 matching gift. struggling with important problems.” until Congress enacts the Employment Non- Discrimination Act, that will remain the case. Q: Many of my straight friends send holiday As a Harvard undergraduate, Hughes worked Eldridge feels that winning full equality for cards with their kids front and center. Since on GLAD’s Legal InfoLine, helping LGBT LGBT Americans requires a three-pronged Breast cancer makes me nervous my partner and I don’t have any offspring, callers with legal problems. strategy of legislation, can we send a card with just us as the cover Hughes and classmates Mark public education and liti- about sex Q: I’m a lesbian who’s had breast cancer. models? We could add in our cat if you think Zuckerberg, Dustin Mosco- gation, and that GLAD’s that would help. vitz and Eduardo Saverin work is integral to that I’ve been dating a little but am uncomfort- able about my body and not sure when to dis- A: Most holiday photo cards feature kids launched the social network- strategy. (“aren’t they adorable!”) or vacation desti- ing phenomenon known as “GLAD has proven to cuss the various health issues and the marks they’ve left. Before we have sex – or after? nations (“look at how fabulous we are!”) as Facebook in 2004. do incredibly smart, ef- key elements. The truth is that these images Hughes also designed My- fective litigation that has A: Starting to date and then going to bed with someone new can raise all kinds of anxi- are just another example of the deep narcis- BarackObama.com, an online really moved the ball sistic streak in our culture (“look at me and organizing campaign which forward,” he explained. eties; add into the mix feeling self-conscious about scars and/or the loss of body parts and my beautiful family”). But there are limits: helped aid the president’s his- “When we think about It’s actually pretty rare that couples alone toric election in 2008. the litigation element of I can understand why you might feel uncom- fortable. Your question is part and parcel of -- straight or gay -- pose for their close-ups Hughes and Eldridge gave the work, GLAD is the without a supporting player. Since equality is an interview for GLAD’s first group that we think one of the most common of dating concerns: When do you talk about the “skeletons” in all about parity, I’d say do go ahead with your newsletter, Briefs, where they of and we feel indebted close-up—just don’t forget your cat (“isn’t explained their passion for to the work that you’ve your closet? The answer is slowly. As the re- photo: courtesy of glad lationship deepens, offer up the basic facts of she beautiful?”) LGBT equality. They also Chris Hughes and Sean Eldridge done and the work that One last note: If you’re not already out, this appear in a YouTube video, you continue to do.” your medical history and be open to any ques- tions. Not surprisingly, that’s why many of us is quietly effective way to do so. Imagine the which can be seen at GLAD’s web site – www. Hughes hopes that his and Eldridge’s year- photo: two husbands and their cat in front of glad.org. end donation challenge will motivate others to with body image concerns (full disclosure: I have a testicular prosthesis) choose to wait to the fireplace. (“The warmest of holidays from Eldridge, who is political director for the donate to GLAD. Justin, Benji, and Garfield!”) national organization Freedom to Marry, said, “GLAD is a phenomenal organization, [that] have sex until we’re comfortable enough with through that interview, “GLAD has proven to is working on and prioritizing the issues that a new partner to discuss these issues. Still, steel yourself for the possibility of rejection. *Steven Petrow writes for the Huffington do incredibly smart, effective litigation that has are important to both Sean and me,” Hughes Post, Advocate.com and 365Gay.com and is really moved the ball forward. We feel indebt- said. “[W]e couldn’t be any happier to support Once, after I told a new boyfriend that I had had testicular cancer, he thanked me for be- the author of the forthcoming book, “Steven ed to the work GLAD has done and continues you guys.” Petrow’s Complete Gay & Lesbian Manners” to do.” ing honest and sent me on my way, saying: “I just buried my partner who died from cancer. www.gaymanners.com. Have a question? “I knew that I wanted to volunteer for an or- Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders is Email him at [email protected]. ganization that was working for GLBT New England’s leading legal organization de- I can’t go down that path again.” Equality,” Hughes said. “I thought [the In- voted to ending discrimination based on sexual foLine] was really interesting because I would orientation, HIV status, and gender identity have an impact on people who were struggling and expression. facebook•fan page•therainbowtimesnews.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • 15 Repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell no threat to counseling by military chaplains By: Chuck Colbert/TRT Reporter would lose some.” abortion is murder and those who do not, those Writing in the Washington Post, he said, “Like Will lifting the ban on gays in the armed Nonetheless, he added, “I also heard from many who believe Jesus Christ is the Son of God and homosexuality, there is rarely a cure. There is a forces endanger military chaplains’ First chaplains who take very seriously their obligation those who do not — and those who have no reli- control through a process, which is guarded by Amendment religious liberties? to care for all. So I anticipate just as many feel gious convictions at all, already co-exist, live and absolute secrecy. It is an equivalent to ‘Don’t Not according the Pentagon’s Report strongly that repeal is the right thing to do.” fight together on a daily basis.” Ask, Don’t Tell.’ The process has worked well ews of the Comprehensive Review of Issues In its study, the Pentagon Working Group con- Harry Knox, religion and faith for some time without the charge Associated with Repeal of “‘Don’t Ask, tacted approximately 200 ecclesiastical agencies program director for the Human that it is discriminatory.” n Don’t Tell,” which concluded that “exist- that endorse military chaplains. Among the 77 Rights Campaign, noted that “His- But a Catholics for Marriage ing policies on chaplains’ protections and agencies that responded, which represents nearly torically, from the time of Wash- Equality spokesperson took strong

d d obligations are adequate and strike an 70 percent of active duty chaplains, most voiced ington and Lafayette, chaplains exception to the prelate. “As a psy- appropriate balance between protecting opposition to repeal “based primarily on theo- have served people of faith differ- chotherapist for over 30 years,” n a chaplain’s First Amendment freedoms logical objections to homosexuality,” according ent from their own and people of said Charles Martel of Boston, and a chaplain’s duty to care for all.” to the report. no faith, equally,” he said. “Archbishop Broglio’s comments The report also found that chaplains Chaplains serve as commissioned officers, ac- Father Geoff Farrow, an openly about homosexuality reflect a lack voiced “some of the most intense and tive duty or reserve. Their endorsement means gay Catholic priest who served in of understanding that it is not a dis- sharpest divergence of views” on the that their ordinations to the clergy are verified by the Air Force as a chaplain from ease, and therefore does not need gla topic of openly gay service. a religious denomination recognized by the De- 1989 to 1993, said his military to be ‘cured.’ One of the primary In fact, during hearings earlier this partment of Defense. experienced demonstrates First tenets of Alcoholics Anonymous, n month before the Senate Armed Forces But “none [of the ecclesiastical agencies] stated Amendment religious liberties are in which he makes a curious com- Committee, the topic of clergy’s con- it would withdraw its endorsements for military not in jeopardy. “Nobody ever parison, is that telling the truth of cerns over repeal surfaced when Senator chaplains” if the law were repealed. In fact, only came to me and said this Sunday’s Photo: chuck colbert who you are is key to good mental Joe Manchin III (D-W. Va.) asked Jeh three of 145 chaplains who participated in the homily should not say this or that,” Father Geoffrey Farrow, health. Denial kills you.” Johnson, co-chair of the Pentagon study study indicated they would separate or retire if he explained. “Abortion is the law a Catholic priest and for- Ironically, 17 years ago when group, about moral and religious objec- Congress lifted the ban. of the land,” Farrow added. “But mer Air Force chaplain. then President Bill Clinton signed ew e ew tions to repeal among the 3,000-member Active duty service members also voiced there is nothing stopping a chap- “don’t ask, don’t tell” into law, the strong objections. lain from saying abortion is immoral.” religious right, including Reverends Jerry Farwell

n chaplain corps. “We heard a lot of concern: Will this “For me personally, it’s morally wrong and Strongly worded opposition to repealing “don’t and Lou Sheldon, played religion and morality require me to change my religious beliefs or my socially unacceptable,” said one focus group ask, don’t tell” springs from two of the nation’s cards to rally social conservatives against openly religious counseling?” Johnson said. “The an- participant. largest Christian denominations. The Southern gay service. As Nathaniel Frank notes in his sem- swer to that is, ‘No.’” Yet another respondent said, “Homosexuality Baptist Faith and Message, for example, states inal work, Unfriendly Fire: How the Gay Ban Manchin’s follow-up question asked about is morally offensive. Like adultery and drug use, “Christians should oppose racism, every form of Undermines the Military and Weakens America, chaplain retention. “Is there any inkling how I cannot tolerate homosexuality. I will not work greed, selfishness, and vice, and all forms of sex- the Christian right’s orchestrated campaign “was many religious orders would not continue to side by side with someone that his an adulterer, a ual immorality, including adultery, homosexual- widely credited with helping turn public and po- serve” if “don’t ask, don’t tell” is repealed? drug addict, or homosexual.” ity, and pornography.” litical opinion against Clinton’s proposal to lift “There were definitely some pretty strong The Pentagon’s comprehensive review found, While the Catechism of the Catholic Church the ban on gay service.” views among the chaplain community,” Jeh said. however, that with the reality of a “pluralistic states that “homosexual acts are intrinsically dis- Not this time around. Aubrey Sarvis, executive di- “I would not for a minute assume that every single American society at large,” service members ordered,” Archbishop Timothy Broglio for the rector of Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, chaplain would continue to stay in the military. If with “sharply” different “religious convictions Military Services USA caused a stir by compar- said religious and moral concerns did not gain “any the law were appealed, we should assume that we and moral values — including those who believe ing homosexuality to alcoholism. traction” among lawmakers on Capitol Hill. 16 • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com To Cook is To Love: A Foodies Journal Items of interest in our local gayborhoods and beyond By: Joe Siegel/TRT Reporter for volunteers to call residents of Rhode Island

Changes, not resoultions, for the New Year s in an effort to identify supporters of marriage Massachusetts News: equality. The effort began in December and

By: John Verlinden/TRT Cuisine Columnist happened. It occurred to me that even though I f • The Fenway Institute has issued pre- can’t believe wished for something different each month, all will continue throughout January. liminary guidance for medical provid- MassEquality is holding the Red Party, a ower another year my wishes (once I’d put aside the “new Mer- p ers on the use of pre-exposure prophy- has passed. cedes,” the “beachfront villa” and the “winning major fundraising event on February 19. The I laxis (PrEP) as an HIV prevention tool. event will be held at the Estate, 1 Boylston St.,

megabucks ticket,” that is) basically boiled rie So have you This guidance follows publication of made any resolu- down to this – spend more quality time with Boston. Tickets are $100.

b a November 23 New England Journal hoto: rachel rachel hoto: family and friends, improve my health and do For more information, contact David Samson p tions? My New something creative. Sound familiar? Once I of Medicine article on the results of the at 617-878-2302. Year’s resolution iPrex trial showing that PrEP reduced for 2011: Make figured that out, I knew I could make all those wishes come true and I could do it all at the HIV infection in gay and bisexual and Worcester News: No Resolutions! other men who have sex with men • The Trustees of the Nathaniel Wheeler A resolution’s same time. You can too! Each month, let’s make a special dinner (MSM) and transgender women. Trust awarded AIDS Project Worcester a one-

a surefire way ews party (get out the good china and tablecloth) Those taking the medication daily had year grant in the amount of $1,450 to support to disappoint a 44 percent lower rate of HIV infection the purchase of perennials for the agency’s

should my best laid plan not quite for someone special in our lives. We’ll make n it with them (family and friends) – there’s no than those in the placebo. When looking Green and Gold Community garden. Some 70 work out. No matter how reasonable at only those with a high adherence level who plants will be purchased come spring 2011 and and thoughtful we are about setting our better way to bond than when prepping a meal together. Make it nutritious (better health), by reported at taking at least 90% of their medica- installed in the community garden. The project goals, some jerk always seems to come tion, the protective effect exceeded 70 percent. brought together students from WPI, staff from along about January 2nd to mess things making it the old fashioned way – from scratch with whole food ingredients. And, make some- For those in whom medication was detected in the Regional Environmental Council, volun- up. their blood, risk of infection decreased by more teers from the Toxic Soil Busters and Worces- Just because I’m not making resolu- thing you haven’t made before (creative op-

mucho gusto! mucho than 90 percent. The Fenway Institute was one ter Roots Project, and staff, volunteers, and tions, doesn’t mean I don’t intend to portunity); I’m finally going to tackle the fresh ¡ of two American sites involved in this study and consumers from AIDS Project Worcester. make some changes, I’m just making artichoke. And, if you should miss a month or we have Dr. Kenneth Mayer, Medical Research Director wishes this year instead. Cubans have a great and Co-Chair of The Fenway Institute is one of Connecticut News: tradition to ring in the New Year which I love; to order in pizza because our soufflé falls flat • The Imperial Court of Rhode Island is … no biggie, we’ve got eleven other chances the study authors. More about the iPrex study it’s called doce uvas (twelve grapes). Along and results at www.fenwayhealth.org/iprex. holding their annual Coronation from Febru- with your midnight glass of champagne to toast to get it right. ary 18-20 at the Hartford/Windsor Marriott in Have questions? Need a recipe? Want to sug- Steve Smith is stepping down from his posi- the New Year, you get a dish of 12 grapes. The tion as Executive Director of the Boston Gay Windsor. The theme is Yule Ball: A Night of grapes symbolize the months of the coming gest a topic? Contact me: john@muchogusto. Mystery and Magic in the Great Hall of Hog- com or www.muchogusto.com. Men’s Chorus in February in order to pursue year, and as you savor each one, you make a a leadership role with another performing arts warts. For more information, go to their web- wish for each month. As I ate my grapes and Until next time – ¡Mucho Gusto!, ¡Muchas site at: www.iscofallct.org. Gracias! y ¡Buen Provecho! organization this winter. concentrated on my wishes, something strange Over his sixteen years as Executive Direc- • Connecticut Trans Advocacy’s Fifth An- tor, Smith tripled the BGMC’s annual audience nual Transgender Lives: The Intersection of Healthcare Disparities from page 2 healthcare disparities affecting our people are and grew its annual operating budget from Health and Law Conference will be held on April 30, 2011 at the UConn Health Center in includes people of all races and ethnicities, not going away unless facilities and organi- $120,000 to $600,000. The Board of Directors zations start training their staff, working to- has initiated a transition and search process to Farmington, Ct. For more information, go to all ages, all socioeconomic statuses, and from their web site at: www.transadvocacy.com. all parts of the country.” In other words, treat- gether to reduce the healthcare incongruences hire Steve’s replacement; more details will be ment for our community is not simple, for we and combat such ignorance. announced by mid-January. For inquiries about Rhode Island News: do not fit the norms established by this soci- Happy New Year and may all of your reso- the transition and search, please send email to lutions come true! • AIDS Project Rhode Island will soon be ety. The site also states that “social inequality [email protected]. launching a search for a new Executive Direc- is often associated with poorer health status, • MassEquality will be holding phone banks tor. Stephen Hourahan, who has held that posi- and sexual orientation has been associated Gricel M. Ocasio tion for the past year, will be serving as a Senior with multiple health threats. Members of the *Gricel Martínez Ocasio is the co-founder, Creep of the Week from page 13 Advisor to Governor-elect Lincoln Chafee. Ho- LGBT community are at an increased risk for co-owner and Publisher of The Rainbow Times. urahan will advise Chafee on a range of issues. a number of health threats when compared to thousands of gay and lesbian service mem- She is a graduate of Marylhurst University Hourahan also was a senior advisor to Chafee’s their heterosexual peers.” bers who have lost their careers under DADT, (MBA, 2010) and of Temple University (1991). gubernatorial campaign and served as Chafee’s Needless to say, LGBT health care is often “You’re worthless.” She has been in the journalism and publishing Director of Communications for his U.S. Sen- a very nerve-wracking experience, unless you In the end it’s McCain himself who is worth- field for almost 20 years. You can reach her at: ate office. are one of the few who is being treated by an less. A man who once seemed to have a shred [email protected]. Hourahan, 52, was employed as the first open and affirming LGBT practitioner. The of integrity but who now barely clings to a shred of dignity after he’s sold out his career director of development at the AIDS Action trying to appease the anti-gay right. It looks Council in Washington in 1989. At the time, like that isn’t exactly “effective policy.” there was no action regarding the epidemic at the government level. AAC was the first na- *D’Anne Witkowski has been gay for pay tional AIDS organization. since 2003. She’s a freelance writer and poet After leaving the staff of AIDS Action, Ho- (believe it!). When she’s not taking on the urahan served as an APRI board member and follow us ... remained in that position until 1993. In 2008, creeps of the world she reviews rock ‘n’ roll shows in Detroit with her twin sister. Hourahan was presented with the organiza- twitter.com/therainbowtimes tion’s Richard Katzoff Leadership Award. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • 17 18 • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com The A-List: New York’s Ryan Nickulas bears soul Cape Cod Native on family, lover, the new season and bullying By: Clara Lefton/TRT Reporter Ryan Darius Nickulas, a Cape Cod native and star of LOGO’s “The A-List: New York,” met up with The Rainbow Times to discuss show secrets, coming out and children. It was just another Saturday morning in New York City’s West Village for Nickulas, who was seated at the front desk his salon as if just another em- ployee; despite the fact that he has worked with stars like Pamela Anderson, Rachel Ray and Isaac Mizrahi. Nickulas’ obsession with hair began from a young age in his hometown of West Barn- stable, MA. While his older brother Eric was playing ice hockey, and would eventually be drafted by the Boston Bruins, Nickulas was French-braiding his Barbie doll’s hair. “[The Barbie’s would] be in the tub with me, because for a little gay boy it’s lonely; you don’t iden- tify with the other boys: I don’t want to play soccer, Mom. I don’t want to go climb trees, or play manhunt, or whatever the game is,” he Photo: Andrew Werner recalled. Ryan Nickulas Nickulas came out of the closet at 16 and became president of Barnstable High School’s TRT: The first episode sets the premise that the Gay Straight Alliance by 1999 when he gradu- cast is good friends, who did you know before ated. “Truly because of living in the state of filming? Massachusetts and on the Cape, and the laws RN: I knew TJ [Kelly]. Of course I knew of that were in place at the time, I was able to Reichen [Lehmkuhl] and we have a mutual evolve as a young teenage man and not re- friend. And I know of Mike Ruiz, like who press myself. I’m just so grateful for that,” said doesn’t? I’m sorry if you’re young, and gay, Nickulas. and like fashion, and famous people, you know He went on to earn a degree from Beauty Mike Ruiz because he’s just brushed elbows Creators Academy in Everett, MA while si- with everybody. And we’ve all watched his ca- multaneously attending the University of Mas- reer going, “[moans] I wish I could be him.” sachusetts at Boston. It was in his college years So then Derek, and I and TJ were the only orig- that 20-year-old Nickulas first met and began inal cast to film the pilot. A lot of people don’t dating Desmond Smith, his future husband. “It know that. So I met Derek a year ago filming wasn’t the right time. I was young and crazy the pilot for the original series and then when but the connection was electric,” said Nicku- LOGO decided to go a different route they las. Despite a break up, the two stayed in touch. kept us three, and the other four boys fell to They have now been married for three and a half the wayside. years and live together in New York City; this TRT: Did you watch the show religiously ev- past August the couple was featured in a New ery week? York Times article (http://nyti.ms/hQZQqP) RN: Yeah I did. You know we were sent a about their fish tank. copy on Friday before everyone else saw be- Nickulas opened his salon in 2007 and it was cause a lot of us do interviews, so we have to while doing a friend’s hair overheard about the know what’s kept in. Eighty percent of what casting call for “The A-List: New York.” After shot this summer is left on the floor, if you can consulting with his husband, parents and broth- imagine that. So all the times that we went to er, Nickulas put himself out there. lunch or talked about this thing-I went to a few Patricia Fields parties, I did a few salon train- The Rainbow Times: Did they have a casting ings because I do a lot of platform artist work call? for companies and I’m an educator for people. Nickulas: Huge, huge casting [of over 6,000 We filmed all of that part of my career but people]. There are a lot of bitter bi$%^$#s in didn’t show up. New York City, who auditioned for the show TRT: Aside from TJ Kelly, your assistant, who and won’t admit it. I swear that’s why we got do you still talk to on a regular basis? so much hate in New York, because so many RN: I talk to Derek and Austin all the time. people didn’t get cast, felt like they were Reichen and Rodiney [Santiago] are kind of more…At first it was “The Real Househus- too cool for school right now. But I think as bands of New York” and then it was “The Gay viewers you all knew that. And they’re actu- Socialites of New York” and then they named ally badmouthing the show right now, which it “The A-List: New York,” which we didn’t is really sS&%ty. Rodiney is acting like a true even know until seven weeks into filming and Brazilian h**$#r. The show made him famous, we were all like, “S&%t. he was truly a no one and they enticed him to TRT: Did you feel like you had to live up to do a calendar. He’s now getting paid substan- the name? tially off this calendar. So he’s got the show, so RN: Well you know, I’ve never truly said that he got the job. He did the deed, so he got his in my life, that I’m A-List…I’m myself the en- money. Now he’s flipping the bird like I don’t tire time and I think people can tell. That’s the need you. So it’s kind of sad and then in the most response I get, ‘You’re so real, we love next Facebook post he’ll be like, ‘Come see me your advice.’ In an unnatural situation, so to in Miami at my next appearance!’ Which he’s speak, with cameras and lighting and a pretty getting paid for because of the show. It’s so set up- ‘We’re going to film at this restaurant shitty and I’m really not happy about it. and you guys are going to have lunch. Then TRT: Is Austin Armacost still in the U.K.? have your conversation.’ I tried to just truly RN: He runs back and forth. So he should be just stay myself and even though I knew there here this week and we’re all going to have dinner; was a shit show going around me, I just tried to give an honest perception of me and that was To continue this story, please visit us online at: the best way I could do it. www.therainbowtimesmass.com/01062011/ryan. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • 19 Taking a look back at the modifications in transgender thought since 2000 By: Deja Nicole Greenlaw*/TRT Columnist I was entering into. I but I had so many self-doubts that I knew that “realness of life” and “deeply caring about the

n he other day I was thinking back remember looking at I could never transition (or so I thought!). I trans cause” about them and I was impressed. to the year 2000 and of all the the transitioners and didn’t want to have a sad life like most of the Now, I was a happy CD who was also a radi- changes that have occurred in my hearing all the aw- transitioners had and I loved the happy CD life cal transactivist and although I was still in the io T life and in the lives of other transpeople. ful and depressing but I really didn’t identify with anyone. Yes, I closet, it was then that I knew that it was only stories of how they was different. a matter of time before I

n I remembered 10 years ago when I was

i just starting to come out of the closet lost their jobs, their Then I attended Fanta- would transition. and was starting to accept and discover wives, their family sia Fair, an annual trans- “I wasn’t sure what was going It was also around then p myself. Of course, I was very deep in members and their gender week in Provinc- on with me and I didn’t really when I met Keri Stebbins the closet back then and scared as any- friends. They would etown in 2003 and I met and the UniTy group, the thing, not to mention very confused, but tell me, “Deja, do not trans activists like Ethan identify with most of the Springfield, Mass. trans- I was also very intrigued of the possibil- transition unless you St. Pierre and Vanessa transgenders who I met. gender support group. It s o s ity to “change genders” and amazed at Deja Nicole Greenlaw really have to. Your Edwards Foster. These was there that I saw this the process to do so. It was all very new life will be very dif- were transitioned folks Yes, I liked to wear women’s same kind of positive n to me and as I came into the trans com- ferent and it’s not easy.” To me, the transitioner who were jobless be- clothing but I didn’t feel realness, purposefulness munity, I saw how others were dealing support meetings were very dark and depress- cause of discrimination and socialness that I had with being trans. Back then it was all ing and not something that I really wanted to and they were constantly totally comfortable being a identified with in DC with about going stealth and being secretive explore. This group was way too unhappy for fighting for trans rights. my radical friends. I had whether you cross-dressed or whether me so I then looked at the cross dressers. Something clicked with cross dresser and I was so also met transmen in DC tra you transitioned (living full-time as The cross dressers were generally very happy me and this crowd. At far from being a transitioner and again in the UniTy the opposite gender that you were physically folks who were in the closet, but they loved to first I didn’t know what group. I never even knew born into). The cross-dressers did not want to go out in public dressed up in women’s clothes it was but I felt at home at that point, I didn’t know that transmen existed! be outed nor did the transitioners. It was all and they had fun, partying and dancing at trans with this group. I some- who I was. I just kept my Up until DC and UniTy hush-hush and no one could ever dare outing events. They were all working and many had how identified with them. I thought that transgen- someone! There also was a kind of unsaid but pretty good jobs so money was really no object Next thing I know I was mouth shut and I took the der was all some kind duly noted “Be quiet and learn” message that or concern for them. Because this group was in our nation’s capital, unspoken advice. I listened of male-to-female thing. I received when I was first being introduced happy and was not even thinking about chang- dressed as female and That’s what I was led to into the support groups. I wasn’t sure what was ing their gender and possibly having a tougher lobbying on Capitol Hill and learned. believe by therapists and going on with me and I didn’t really identify life, I was drawn to them. I loved to be happy for trans rights. We even other transwomen. Now with most of the transgenders who I met. Yes, and I loved to party and dance, so I figured that I picketed outside of HRC (Human Rights Cam- this female-to-male thing was very evident to I liked to wear women’s clothing but I didn’t was some kind of cross dresser. I say some kind paign) because they always indicated that they me. Realizing that there are transmen as well as feel totally comfortable being a cross dresser of cross dresser because I didn’t really identify were supporting our rights, but they always transwomen in the world, the idea of “it’s only and I was so far from being a transitioner at that with this group either. Some of the CDs were withdrew their support whenever it came to males who want to be females” was thrown point, I didn’t know who I was. I just kept my so meticulous in their female presentations and crunch time. Suddenly, I was a radical transac- right out the window! I finally got the idea of mouth shut and I took the unspoken advice. I I knew that I was not like that. Some of the CDs tivist, yet I still had this smile and this penchant being in the wrong gender. It all started to make listened and learned. didn’t like to dance and I loved to dance. Some for fun and dancing and partying. I identified sense to me and I was on my way to identify- After several months of “listening and learn- of the CDs loved to dress up, but also liked to with these other transactivists because they ing myself! go back to being men and I knew that I was were not stealth, they were out and they were ing” I finally started to ask questions and tried See Transgender Thought on page 23 to figure out where I stood in this new life that not like that. I knew that I wanted to be female, fighting for our rights. There was a sense of I am now officially a girl named Robert! Pronouns usage and love of shoes By: Lorelei Erisis*/TRT Columnist However, certain very official, especially I would use “she” or fornia or GLAD (Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Dear TransWoman, government/bureaucratic (Health Insurance “he” and “hir” where Defenders) here in New England. They are both I have a question. One of my clients is facing for instance) or official ID reliant documents I would use “him” or excellent organizations doing fine work for the a claim of transgender discrimination, among require that I use male pronouns. Which I hate, “her.” The most flex- transgender community. I’ve had the pleasure other claims. My question is this: Their ex-em- but I have to do sometimes. ibility seems to incur of meeting folks from both organizations and ployee lives as a man and claims transgender When I had a run-in with the Holyoke Police where I am indicating I’m glad (!) to have them on our side!! discrimination because of that; however, he recently after my car was improperly towed, possession. I will of- Good luck CiCe! they refused to even use female pronouns ten use “ze’s” instead has filed the claim as a female, using his female Dear Lorelei, name and using female pronouns. in speaking to me directly, despite my very, of “hir’s,” but that’s dressed-for-the-office, feminine presentation really just a matter of Where is the best shoe store near Northamp- In responding to the claim, I want to use the ton (size 12)?? appropriate pronoun. Honestly, I would think and polite request that they do so. They would personal taste. it would be the male one seeing as that is how only go by what the information on my Driv- If you’re ever look- JC Lorelei Erisis he lives (and when he was hired, he told them er’s License gave them, including that dreadful ing for more legally As a woman who loves to have good shoes, he was transitioning to a man; his co-workers other name. specific advice about this is a question I spend an absurd amount of referred to him as such, etc.). I looked through It is worth noting here that just days ago, I transgender people or you ARE a transgender time trying to figure out. I’m a 21 /13 myself his personnel file and on the employment docu- finally received my brand new Massachusetts person in need of legal help or advice, I would and I can tell you, it’s not easy. ments he checked the female box. What do you Driver’s License, which while it still carries my strongly recommend contacting the fine folks at think would be appropriate under these cir- old legal name, now properly lists my gender the Transgender Law Center right there in Cali- See A Girl Named Robert on page 22 cumstances? I will undoubtedly need to use a as female! (Whooo-Hooooo!!!) Making me pronoun in responding to the claims or, alter- now officially a Girl Named Robert! So you natively, I could just constantly use Plaintiff, see how these things can get confusing. such as “the Plaintiff went to the Plaintiff’s My advice, assuming that the Plaintiff’s situ- office” but I never would write that way as it ation is similar is to use male pronouns. The would sound weird. best choice is always simply and politely to —Curious In Cali; Esq. ask. When that’s not possible, as I assume it might not be here, observation as to the domi- Great question CiCe!!! Just the sort of thing nant gender of presentation is appropriate. Your I thrive on. observation would seem to indicate a “male” A couple of things to clear up: I’m assuming identification, so male pronouns are most likely this is a female-to-male transgender person? If to be appropriate. that is the case, the discrepancy you are see- Alternately, if the gender is simply unknown ing may arise from the lack of legal document or a matter of question/debate, the gender non- changes. In my own case for instance, I live specific pronouns, “ze” and “hir” are really quite and work as a woman, but my documents be- useful (pron. “zee” & “here”). I use them all the ing not yet entirely changed often indicate that time when I don’t want to needlessly “gender” I am a “male.” So, on most documents I fill out, an individual whose gender is unknown to me, including work records, my resume and so on, either because it’s unclear or I have not enough I use “female” and feminine pronouns. This is information to go on. Some folks, especially generally okay, even in combination with my genderqueer identified folks, will use these to un-changed legal name, as it’s understood to be self-identify even. The usage has some flex- reflective of my “full-time,” day-to-day status. ibility but generally speaking I use “ze” where 20 • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Professional racecar driver Evan Darling needs Gay Inc. to keep his motor running By: Mikey Rox*/Special for TRT hate to prove them right. I will always put ef- to rednecks, rappers and religious organiza- Professional racecar driver Evan Darling is at fort into trying to get sponsors and race on a pro tions, groups that aren’t particularly fond of the a crossroads in his career: his engine is revved, level – and I have put all of my resources into it LGBT community. but he’s running out of gas. over the last few years. But the well is dry.” “Many people have made derogatory remarks “The LGBT community has been very sup- It’s not as if the Massachusetts-born, Oak- about my sexuality. I was fully expecting that portive and happy to see land Park, Fla., resident going in [to racing],” he says. “I am a mechanic me doing what I am for hasn’t tried to secure by trade and have had to put up with this men- the community – just sponsors, either. tality my whole life, so it’s not new to me.” not financially,” says Darling says he has In fact, Darling’s dealt with bigots since the 42-year-old openly approached LGBT birth. gay athlete. political supporters to His father, an attorney, represented the Irish And it’s that lack of sponsor him – with the American War Veterans in preventing Boston’s sponsorship that may promise of using their LGBT community from participating in its an- force the adrenaline money to place a large nual Veterans Day parade. His brother, Brian, junkie to trade in his fire Trevor Project logo on director for U.S. Senate Relations for the ultra- suit for a grease mon- his car to bring aware- conservative Heritage Foundation, famously key’s jumpsuit sooner ness of the initiative to feuded with Rosie O’Donnell on “Larry King than later. race fans – but they’re Live.” And his mother, well, she’s still in de- “Things are not not typically interested nial about her son’s sexuality. looking good for next in sporting events. But at least he can shrug that last one off. season and I may have to go back to being a Which is interesting considering how Gay “Things are a bit better now between us,” he Photos: Darling Enterprise mechanic,” admits Darling, who competes Inc. makes a big stink about wanting pro ath- says. “I visit them at Christmas and sometimes Evan Darling in NASCAR’s Grand Am series. “I have had letes to live and play out and proud. if I am in the area I stop in. I also call them ev- many say I would not get support, and I would Yet it seems to obtain sponsorship one must ery week as they’re getting up there in age.” career. I’m sure it would be interesting to see create a spectacle; it’s just not Darling’s tepid relationship with his family how his sponsors would react.” worth it to Gay Inc. investors is indicative of how he’s approaching this new The truth is, some of his current sponsors if the gay athlete isn’t making a chapter in his life – one that may see him fix- would abandon him. But with the media frenzy scene. ing cars instead of racing them. Much like his an announcement of that caliber would create, “I told my publicist I would parents, he suggests, NASCAR just isn’t ready new sponsors would step up to the pit, check- be way more popular if I wore a for a gay driver – and, as he’s realized, there’s books in hand – and none faster than Gay Inc. pink sequence blouse under my nothing he can do to change the minds of the Because as Darling knows all too well: “It’s racing suit,” Darling quips. “But unwilling. all about the bottom line.” that’s not me; I’m a regular guy “I think it would be great for the sport and Even if that should be, “supporting the com- that happens to be gay.” the LGBT community,” he says, contemplating munity that supports you.” Much to the chagrin of his what would happen if someone like Sprint Cup teammates, too. Professional superstar Jeff Gordon came out of the closet. *Mikey Rox is an award-winning journalist sports are notoriously homo- “[But] there would be huge fallout from the and the founder of Paper Rox Scissors, a copy- phobic – and perhaps none more NASCAR community. It would be very diffi- writing and creative consulting company in so than NASCAR, which caters cult for anyone that came out with that kind of New York City. He can be reached at mikey@ paperroxscissors.com.

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Tape recording was not Church teaches that the human “sense of self is ity for the bishops and their focus on laws as the Church’s recent opposition to civil unions legis- permitted because, he said,“When I give lecture essentially related,” he said. “We are born related only arbitrator of morality in the country.” lation passed by the Illinois General Assembly. as a bishop, snippets are and spend a lifetime growing Duddy-Burke spoke with George briefly after George told John Falcone his “argument was put together and taken out into those relationships.” the lecture and said she would write the cardinal to not with Mother Church but with Mother Na- of context,” becoming “an At the same time, the see if he would meet with her for conversation. ture,” adding, anyone who advocates same-sex exercise of manipulation, a Catholic Church holds up Chris Pett, president of the Chicago chapter of marriage or its equivalent “has lost touch with game of gottcha.” universal truth claims based Dignity, said he was encouraged by the cardinal’s the common understanding of the human race.” Falcone and another on faith, George argues in openness to dialogue. “He can be very pastoral, “No one has the right to change marriage,” Boston College graduate his book. he can listen and be respectful,” said Pett who George went on to say, neither “the Church” nor student, Ryan Nocito, both But contemporary culture has met with George twice over years but was “the state.” wore rainbow color sashes, privileges individual rights, not in Boston for the lecture. While it is one thing “creating laws so that peo- widely regarded as vis- George said. Downplaying Still, for Pett, there is a disconnect. “We have ple don’t feel persecuted,” the cardinal explained, ible indicators of solidarity the communal, American a body of knowledge,” he said.“We know more “don’t create a law that says apples are oranges.” with LGBT rights and full culture encourages a self- about human sexuality than we did 100 years ago. For a lawmaker to do so, George added, he “be- participation in the Catho- understanding “defined by And the Church doesn’t acknowledge any of that. lic Church. Other students personal choices” he said. They keep coming back to Adam and Eve.” trays his vocation to pass good law,” especially Photo: chuck colbert problematic for a “Catholic lawmaker.” wore rainbow armbands and At the same time, secular There is yet another disconnection for the Like many Catholic families with LGBT fam- ribbons. Doctoral candidate John Falcone and culture is suspicious of faith- Church. As the New York Times reported on ily members, even his own, Cardinal George ac- Falcone said that he at- master of theological studies student based claims about univer- Dec. 15, the Catholic Church has relented in knowledged his oldest nephew is gay and a “fine tended the lecture after Ryan Nocito at Boston College for sal truth. “The postmodern France, citingthe National Confederation of man.” reading a Facebook posting Cardinal George’s lecture. mind,” George argues in his Catholic Family Associations, which now says The cardinal archbishop came to Boston Col- about George’s lobbying book, “deconstructs tradi- civil unions do not pose “a real threat” to mar- lege at the invitation of the university’s School against civil unions. “I was upset about that,” tional truths.” riage and the family. of Theology and Ministry and the Church in the Falcone said. “People should not be able to say Nonetheless, George encourages dialogue, or A larger issue also remains: “The debate 21stCentury Center. The school and the center things with impunity. I want to remind them that conversation, between faith and culture. But if within the church is whether to view innate at- co-sponsored George’s lecture on Thursday af- they are causing trouble, and they cannot get the Church bumps up against cultural norms it traction to the same sex as a deformity of human ternoon, Dec. 7. His talk drew upon themes from away with it.” cannot accept, then “We have to change the cul- nature or as an alternative form of human sexual his recently published book, The Difference God Falconesaid that he wrote to the dean of the ture,” he said. nature,” said Prof. Lisa Sowle Cahill, a professor Makes: A Catholic Vision of Faith, Communion, School of Ministry and Theology ahead of time, A primary vehicle for cultural change, George of Christian ethics at Boston College, quoted in and Culture. informing officials that he would be at the lec- suggested, is the legal system. In America, there the Times on Dec. 17. The Church in the 21stCentury serves as“a ture. George appeared not to be taken by surprise is a near “religious veneration for the Constitu- catalyst and resource and renewal” for the US with the question. tion” and the law, he explained. “The law is an *Chuck Colbert holds a master of divinity (2002) Catholic Church. Originally established in 2002 “What I heard in his response,” Falcone said, arbitrator of what is right or wrong. The law and licentiate degree (2005) from the Weston Je- as a two-year initiative at Boston College in the “is that most important aspect the Church’s lob- teaches us the rules of the game.” suit School of Theology, now a part of the Boston wake of the clerical sex abuse scandal, the cen- bying against same-sex unions is that marriage is Marianne Duddy-Burke, executive director of College School of Ministry and Theology. He is a ter is now permanent, with a mission to explore between a man and woman, and homosexuality Dignity USA, attended the lecture. “It crystal- Jew by choice (2004) in the Reform movement. 22 • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Pandora Boxx from page 9 Fortunately, I have been with my boyfriend for Scholarships from page 13 A Girl Named Robert from page 19 fact, are. You just have to think of that and rise four and half years. The drag doesn’t bother 25 students were granted scholarships. As of When I lived in Hollywood I could find above it. It’s not easy, but it can be done. him at all, and he’s also not into drag either. June 2010, there are 66 Point Scholars cur- all the hooker shoes I wanted all the way up MR: I remember when Kevin Aviance was He’s always saying the people think he’s a rently enrolled in school and 97 Point Alumni. to size 19 (seriously, they were like small severely beaten a few years ago after leaving “tranny chaser” or “drag sniffer.” He’s to- Point Foundation’s Named Scholarship Pro- boats with spiked heels!!). And, don’t get a nightclub in Manhattan – the last place you’d tally not. He’s not dating Pandora; he’s dating gram allows individuals, organizations, founda- me wrong, I love a pair of outrageous heels think something like that Michael. tions and corporations to provide substantial sup- as much as the next girl, but God’s forbid, I would happen. Are you ever MR: What’s your mission as port to Point Foundation by honoring the name should want a pair of cute flats, or need some- a performer? Why Pandora afraid for your safety when of an individual or organization and to demon- thing for the office. you’re dressed in drag? Has instead of Michael? There are several great places online like PB: It was never really in- strate a public commitment to Point’s vision of that fear heightened now that valuing education, leadership and diversity. Zappos that have shoes in my size. And those more people recognize you? tended that way. I wanted to are an excellent resource for a style minded be an actor since I was five. A Named Scholarship is a commitment of PB: I always have been. I $100,000 over four years. This gift can be made transwoman. But for me, there’s nothing mean, I’m dressed up to look I still consider myself more of an actor than a drag queen. as a one-time gift or through a commitment of quite like the Cinderella-thrill of walking into like a woman and women four consecutive $25,000 annual installments. a store and finding just the right shoe. are victimized all the time. Pandora just sort of happened and I went with it. I’d love to Three new Named Scholarships have been About the only place I’ve found nationally I’m usually very cautious and created this year from the generous donations and definitely the only place I’ve found lo- careful whenever I’m out. I do more things as myself but right now she’s at the fore- by the following corporations, individuals cally where I can consistently find anything keep my eyes open. I also try and/or supportive organizations: George Benes is Payless ShoeSource. The selection is slim, to have someone with me. It front and that’s cool. MR: Where do you go from M.D. & Michael Mallee EdD, Darden Restau- but if I’m diligent about looking in every store can be scary to think of what rants and Toyota Financial Services. They join I pass, I can usually find something. people can do to other people here? PB: I’ve learned a lot these Point’s existing Named Scholarships: Jan Ar- Well that’s it folks! Keep those questions solely based on hatred or fear. onson, Thomas & Sara Branton, The Calamus MR: What about your love past few years and realized coming, don’t be shy and don’t be afraid, that you can be the master of Foundation, Walter M. Decker, Bob Fennell, I’m here to answer them!! Happy New Year life and dating? Has anyone Dr. Joan W. Shelley Fernandez, Allan Gilmour ever reacted negatively after your own destiny. You can friends! really make things happen & Eric Jirgens, Gregory Grosh, HBO, Joan R. Slainte! finding out that you’re a drag Heller, Kevin Hummer, Johnson & Johnson, queen? I suspect that it’s a hard if you want them to. I really hope to continue to be able to Lawrence King/Jeffrey FashionCares, Bryan *Lorelei Erisis, former Miss Trans New pill to swallow for even some Photo: Kevin Thomas Garcia L. Knapp, Jonathan D. Lewis, Phyllis Mandler England, can be contacted at: loreleierisis@ of the most “open-minded, share my talents with people Pandora Boxx and keep them entertained. & Gary Elden, Minton-Spidell, Point Honors therainbowtimesmass.com. liberal” gays. Do you tell guys LA & NY, Casey Sakir, Rand Skolnick, Paul immediately if you meet them out of character? I truly love making people laugh and would love to be able to keep being W. Speier, Time Warner, University of Phoe- PB: Drag queens are like car accidents – every nix, and Wells Fargo. wants to see one, but no one wants to be in- an entertainer for the rest of my life. volved with one. It’s hard because people can’t *Mikey Rox is an award-winning writer and For additional information on Point Foun- follow us on see behind the drag image. Or they have a cer- dation, please visit: http://www.pointfounda- tain image of what a drag queen is. I know that journalist and the founder of Paper Rox Scis- sors, a copywriting and creative consulting tion.org. our fan page! people haven’t wanted to be involved with me For information on how to apply for a Point because of drag. It is a lot to deal with some- company in New York City. He can be reached at www.paperroxscissors.com. Scholarship, please visit: http://www.point- times. It’s a lot for me to deal with sometimes. foundation.org/apply.html. search the rainbow times www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • 23 Expectativas que deben ocurrir para el año 2011 The OutField: Keelin Godsey has a hammer Por: Wilfred W. Labiosa*/Columnista de TRT estos políticos puedan abrir un diálogo al re- By: Dan Woog* It was a difficult decision. “I can’t look the es deseo specto de una reforma migratoria justa. Espero /Special for TRT way I want to look,” Keelin says. “I can’t do que puedan escribir una resolución positiva en

n a todo/as what I want to do.” ¡ relación a la reforma inmigratoria ya que nos hile a high The focus on training paid off. Keelin is a Lun Feliz school stu- afecta a todos/as. Tengo estas expectativas y two-time NCAA national hammer champion, Año Nuevo 2011! dent in Palm- Espero que su Nav- ¡espero que los cambios ocurran en el 2011! W and placed seventh at the 2008 Olympic trials. er, Colo., Keelin God- idad, Hannukah y Cuarto, espero que todos/as tengamos la ex- Last year, at the USA Track & Field champion- pectativa de que nos vamos a cuidar más unos/ sey dabbled in track’s ship, Keelin took fifth. Kwanzaa estuviera throwing events. Shot llena de felicidad, as a otros/as como comunidad LGBT. Espero Throwing the hammer takes tremendous pa- ess put and discus were H armonía y salud. que participemos más de la medicina preven- tience (“like being trans,” Keelin points out). visio

ric ric OK; soccer, basketball E En este nuevo año tiva, que comamos más saludablemente y que It’s an extremely technical event. Strength is disminuyamos el consumo de lo malo que pu- and softball were much important – and Keelin spends hours in the

n todo/as tenemos hoto: hoto: more interesting. p expectativas. Aquí eda afectar nuestra salud. Les deseo a todos/as weight room, working on speed and explosive- mejor salud. Heading east to col- ness – but so is technique. Wilfred Labiosa incluyo algunas de lege, Keelin planned las que yo espero Quinto, espero que en el 2011 podamos apre- Dan Woog In the post-college track and field world, nder más sobre los temas que nos afectan como to play basketball. But Keelin’s sexuality is “rarely mentioned. I as- que se hagan realidad en el 2011. Maine’s Bates College Primero, espero que todo/as nos po- individuos y como comunidad Latina LGBT. sume a lot of people know. People think I’m lati offered a strong track and field program, and damos unir más y en ocasiones pararnos Que todo/as puedan participar de la 1era Asam- cheating and taking hormones, but I’m not.” Keelin suddenly found enjoyment in throwing. Keelin wants one more shot at the Olympics. junto/as como una comunidad Latina y LGBT. blea de Latino/as LGBT a llevarse a cabo en Bates helped Keelin discover something else: Recuerden la celebración de Julio en Boston (para más in- The next Games are set for 2012. Before that, “My sexuality had always been undefined. I’d the world championships loom. Keelin says, “I Orgullo de Boston de Junio 3 formación visita: www.uni- just felt wrong. I’d read about lesbian history, al 12 y las otras celebraciones doslgbt.net o www.somosla- want to go as far as I can competitively. It’s a but that was all I knew.” A freshman seminar hard choice not to transition. Once I stop com- de Orgullo a través del año, tinoslgbt.org). La fuerza se introduced Keelin to the concept of “transgen- que comienzan en Northamp- construye con educación y en peting, we’ll see what happens.” der.” Books by Leslie Feinberg and Kate Born- Training and competing is only part of ton y terminan con Orgullo la fuerza esta la victoria. stein helped Keelin figure out that a binary defi- Latino. Aunque estas celebra- Sexto, tengo expectativa Keelin’s day. The rest is spent as a physical nition of sexuality does not work for everyone. therapist in the Berkshire Mountains of New ciones son importantes, más de que todo en la vida de ust- “I’d always been classified as a butch lesbi- importante son las protestas edes y mía va a mejorar en el England. Keelin also helps coach hammer and an,” says Keelin. “I hated that. I never thought discus throwers. y demonstraciones que ocur- 2011. Les deseo a todos/as of myself that way.” It was harder for Keelin to ren a través del año, en estas todo lo mejor y espero que Yet thoughts of sexuality – even of physi- identify as lesbian than as transgender. cal therapy – are secondary. For now, Keelin SI necesitamos unirnos como Dios, Buddha y los Orishas “I am who I am,” Keelin says. comunidad. No debe haber nos bendigan y que nos brin- concentrates on track and field. The structure of It was, surprisingly, very easy to identify as each day, the physical exertion and the mental excusas ya que en la unión den un mejor año 2011. an athlete. Erica Rand, who teaches courses esta la fuerza. En conclusión, les deseo preparation provide an important outlet. on contemporary culture – with particular at- But, sexuality aside, Keelin is no different Segundo, tengo la expecta- todo lo mejor a todo/as en tention to sexuality, race and gender – helped tiva de que todo/as nuestro/as el 2011 y tengo muchas ex- from any elite-level athlete. Competition is key. Keelin talk to coaches and athletic administra- “When I have a bad day at practice, I do hermano/as que están afuera pectativas para el 2011. Sé tors. Keelin calls Rand’s help “crucial to how que si tenemos expectati- question why I’m doing this,” Keelin says. de nuestra nación peleando en smoothly everything went.” “But after a good day, I know why.” las guerras puedan regresar a vas quizás nos frustremos si Track and field coach Jennifer “Jay” Harts- casa pronto sanos/as y salvos. no se hacen realidad, pero horn was brand new to Bates, Keelin notes, and creo que si “mandamos y hablamos” de estas *Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer Espero también que la violencia y alto homici- had “every right to worry” about a transgender coach, gay activist, and author of the “Jocks” dio observado en el 2010 no vuelva a ocurrir expectativas con el ‘universo’ y rezamos/me- athlete. series of books on gay male athletes. Visit en 2011. ¡Tenemos que detener esta violen- ditamos al respecto entonces estas expectativas But, Keelin says, “she was awesome. She his website at www.danwoog.com. He can be cia! Además, vamos a unirnos y dialogar con se pueden hacer realidad. ¡Qué todos nuestros asked all kinds of questions about how she reached care of this publication or at Out- nuestros jóvenes ya que ellos/as son nuestro sueños, resoluciones y proyectos se hagan re- could support me. She made sure I didn’t have [email protected]. futuro, no importa su orientación sexual o ex- alidad! ¡Feliz Año Nuevo 2011 y Feliz Día de to deal with any intrusions. She helped me talk presión de género. los Reyes a todos/as! ¡Muchas bendiciones a to the team, and always stood up for me.” Tercero, tengo las expectativas de que nuestra todo/as mis lectores de Visión Latina en TRT! And, Keelin adds, “she never messed up my Brigham & Women’s from page 6 economía va a mejorar y que nuestro/as sena- pronouns.” prevention services, including risk reduction dores y representantes se unirán y podrán traer *Escrito en ambos idiomas por Wilfred W. La- Keelin began referring to himself as “he” in assessment and counseling, condoms, and una resolución positiva para todo/as nosotros/as biosa, líder comunitario y Director de Unid@s the summer of 2005, prior to his senior year at access to local prevention services. que trabajamos tan duro. También espero que La Organización Nacional LGBT Latina. Bates. However, without going through hor- “I think if we can develop a vaccine to mone treatment or gender reassignment sur- prevent HIV, it would be a really important Transgender Thought from page 19 to these folks as it really is a constant battle, gery, Keelin is still biologically female – and advance and interest to all of us, particularly thus competes as a woman, not a man. communities which are disproportionally af- From then on, I met and noticed that more and it does weigh on you unbearably. Me? I much prefer living as an out transgender and Keelin attributes Hartshorn’s instinctive, fected by HIV,” Baden added. and more transpeople began coming out and from-the-get-go support to the simple fact that living openly as transgender and they were living proudly as transgender. I am who I am To learn more about the HIV vaccine research and I have this incredible peace coming from “that’s who she is: an open, understanding per- unafraid of being called trans. More and more studies being conducted at Brigham and Wom- within myself now. This was virtually un- son.” And, Keelin laughs, “she got her coach- ing degree at Smith.” en’s Hospital, you can visit their Twitter page of them were choosing to be visible. I consid- heard of back in 2000. Back then, very few, if ered this to be a very healthy sign, being com- Opponents were not always so kind. Keelin at www.twitter.com/mytmatters or call 617-525- any, of the trans were living openly as trans. was occasionally called “she-male” and “tran- 7327 or email [email protected]. fortable with whom you are instead of hiding They were all hiding. That’s why you never from who you are! Up to then most transgen- ny girl.” Keelin shrugged them off, saying, noticed them before. There has always been “People are afraid of what they don’t know.” ders were deeply stealth and were extremely lots of transfolk around, but they were on the afraid of being recognized as trans. If you Generally, though, Bates made sure “I didn’t down low in their very secret stealth closets! hear about any drama.” Coming in the next issue don’t know, let me tell you, it is very hard on Looking back, it’s truly amazing how things trans people to go stealth and it can drive you A track and field website posted something of The Rainbow Times: have changed and I wonder what it’s going to about the trans athlete. “They said I was cheat- crazy as you are always constantly afraid that be like, say ten years from now, around 2020. someone will “be on to you” or will some- ing and wanted to have everything. People are Weddings & Valentines I can only imagine that as more and more entitled to their opinions. I just how “figure you out.” Now the tide was turn- of us begin feeling good about ourselves as ing. This new breed of transfolk were very tried to prove I’m a good com- trans and begin living openly and not hiding, petitor. Just had to keep doing open and very proud of who they were. There we will become more and more visible and was no hiding or worrying or driving your- what I was doing.” more and more accepted and respected. This Keelin found it harder to come self crazy by constantly worrying about be- will happen only if we continue to live out out in the trans community than ing “found out.” I totally identified with this and proud! I am excited and feel very positive in the athletic world. “This is my new breed! I never understood, agreed nor about the future and the day when transpeople experience – I can’t speak for identified with the old school trans thought, will be completely accepted into society!” anyone else – but because I didn’t but this concept I immediately grasped! plan on transitioning, trans people Today, there are still those who are stealth. *Deja Nicole Greenlaw is a local trans- didn’t understand my choices. I There are stealth CDs and there are stealth woman who has 3 grown children and works just wanted to concentrate on my transitioners. It is truly up to the individual on at a local Fortune 500 company. She can be sport. I focused my attention on whether to go stealth or not. I say “good luck” contacted at [email protected]. athletics, and I still do.” 24 • Jan. 6, 2011 - Feb. 2, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com