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SIBLING SHIFT: ADJUSTING TO A NEW BABY THE SPRING STANDARDIZED SPORT TESTING SWING EQUALS STRESS END THE WITCHING HOUR 50 CAMP OVERNIGHT FAIR MARCH 23 CAMPS MALL OF LA + BENEFITS OF SENDING TWEENS TO CAMP

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ON THE COVER GETTING READY 38 is on a mission. 2018-19 Cover Kid Gauge F. FOR SPRING SPORTS At only six years old, he wants everyone How to prepare before your child plays to know just how special they are, and he wants to make them smile. In order 44 9 BENEFITS OF to accomplish this, he reaches out to SENDING TWEENS TO CAMP everyone he sees and says, “Good Find out how teens can thrive at camp morning” or “Hello,” before giving them one of his infamous hugs. Gauge 2019 OVERNIGHT CAMPS 48 enjoys helping others, especially his Plan for a memorable summer mom, and he loves going to church and by browsing these camps learning about the importance of serving others and our communities. 54 LIFE LESSONS LEARNED AT OVERNIGHT CAMP Gauge is quite possibly one of the sweetest Discover ways your kiddos young boys you will ever meet, and he has big will grow while at camp dreams! Gauge is a big fan of Coach O, so much so, that he immediately recognized his THE TEST 58 appearance in The Blind Side, which also happens Understanding a child’s mental to be Gauge’s favorite movie. Gauge hopes to health in the classroom one day play football for Coach O, but for now, he enjoys playing baseball and soccer. Gauge 72 THE WITCHING HOUR also likes Transformers, all of the superheroes, Survive the “child” rush hour and spending time with his Siberian Husky, Koda, with these tips and his Bearded Dragon, Toothless. He is the son of Leslie and Paul F.

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To Spring and New Life ’m seeing the buds on the trees again while the Mardi Gras floats pass by and the season of spring makes her debut. I often think of the Ilessons we’ll try to pass along this year, many by example, and many by opportunities we can provide to our children. Our Camp Fair and Summer Fun Expo is always a great start. There, we search for that one special venue that will help our children get along with others, learn thinking and problem solving skills, and foster self- esteem, self-reliance, resiliency, and friendships. Through this event, we hope you and your littles come away with a camp that offers a chance for new experiences, distractions from the everyday world, and a nurturing environment that makes it all possible. Whether it be through a traditional tent-sleeping, campfire-making camp or an engineering camp learning nanoscience, I hope we continue to help our children stay grounded as they pursue an opportunity that will teach them lessons we might not be able to at home. They’ll learn that what is most valuable in their lives is not what they have, but who they have. That two people can look at the same thing and see it differently–and that’s okay. In fact, it’s what makes the world go around. We hope they also learn that true friends know everything about them–and like them anyway. Camp offers our children the chance to learn and grow. This is the month of green, of spring and new life, of shamrocks and Mardi Gras. It’s a chance to review, a chance to plan ahead, and most of all, a chance to remember those special moments you have made so far this year. Happy spring!

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A TOUCHY SUBJECT You’re at the store picking up items for dinner when you see KID-FRIENDLY another child acting up for his mom. His behavior, in your mind, is APRIL FOOL SPOOFS completely unacceptable. How do you respond? We reached out For great April Fool’s to our readers to find out what they do in this difficult situation. jokes, visit us online. ■ brparents.com Do you step in when someone else’s child is acting up? 7% Yes, 33% No, 60% Depends on what the child is doing.

“If what they are doing affects “The correction depends “I have very strong facial me or someone I am with, on age and attitude. I have expressions. I love kids and I will speak up. If they are made corrections before, normally get their attention just being bad, but it doesn't but the kids were from my and shake my head. When interfere with anyone in my son's school basketball team. they are not corrected by circle, I might shoot them the In extreme cases, I will, no that, I just give them a strong evil eye.” matter the age and attitude stare and they stop the —Paula T. because guidance can be the behavior.” difference between life and —Toyia C. “If they are risking harming my death.” kid, themselves, or someone —Dominique B. “Usually, I do not interfere with else, I will definitely step in. someone else's child because Other than that, I think it is “It's not my place to correct parents get so defensive. the parent’s responsibility to someone else's child unless However, if a child is in discipline his or her child.” the parent gives me that danger of harming himself —Caroline F. permission. I will, however, or someone else, I feel the ask the parent to correct the need to protect the potential “If the child is doing something child.” victim. If the child has invaded that might be dangerous, I —Angela N. my space, I feel I have a definitely intervene, and I right to help redirect his or have never been chastised for “Only if the parent is not her behavior. Sometimes doing so. It all depends on how around.” parents are barely surviving, one approaches a situation.” —Lin W. and it can be hard, so I try to —Roberta V. understand.” —Carolyn M. “You have not walked in their “Children must understand shoes. Some disabilities are that there are rules to follow invisible, so you do not have “Unless they are putting anywhere, not just at home or the right to discipline other themselves or others school. It’s part of being in a people's children. The only in danger, it’s not our community.” exceptions are if the child is responsibility to correct —Ruth M. in your personal space, if the other children. They will learn child is hurting or being mean through experience.” —Diana A. “It all depends on how you to your child, or if the child is handle yourself. I would not in immediate danger and the correct with a sharp tongue, parent is not around.” “If someone is physically but explain what might —Danielle M. hurting my child or someone happen or that it’s hurting else’s, I step in.” someone else.” “No. Not my child, not my —Brittany M. —Megan C. problem.” —Ahilia F.

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ARE YOU LUCKY? Test your luck and play games as the leprechauns do on KIDS FLY FREE this fun, family night. Search for your “Pot-O-Gold,” run Plan your next vacation to somewhere tropical because now your children can fly to the finish line in the Rainbow Races, enjoy Shamrock- free to get there. Frontier Airlines is allowing children under 15 years of age to fly free N-Roller on scooters, and play a game of Laser Tag with a with an adult through their Discount Den program. All you have to do is select a flight Leprechaun. The entire family will have a ball celebrating on a date that is qualified for Kids Fly Free, book a flight from one of the Louisiana St. Patrick’s Day at BREC’s Jefferson Highway Park on locations, and save money on your next family vacation or spur of the moment trip. Friday, March 15 at 6 p.m. ■ brec.org ■ flyfrontier.com/kidsflyfree

AUGMENTED REALITY AT HOME While you’re most likely aware that your child’s classroom is taking on Augmented Reality (AR) to help make learning even more hands-on, there’s now a way you can use AR at home with your kiddos, too. Metaverse is a free service that brings Augmented Reality right to your fingertips. It’s the easiest way to create interactive content with your little ones, and you can play games together, participate in scavenger hunts, and enjoy educational experiences. ■ studio.gometa.io

TOUCH A TRUCK It’s not everyday your children get the chance to see, touch, and explore big trucks and heavy equipment! At Touch A ENJOY $5 MOVIES ON TUESDAYS Truck, they can get hands-on with their favorite trucks and Call a friend and make plans, and maybe even start a new tradition on Tuesdays at Movie listen to the sirens, and they can even meet the individuals Tavern. Browse the films they will be showing for the day before you pick the one you want who protect, service, and build Baton Rouge. Junior to see because now, they are offering a chance for you to see movies with your special League of Baton Rouge’s Touch A Truck will be at BREC’s someone or your children for only $5. And a movie isn’t a movie without some popcorn. Fairgrounds from 9 a.m.-4 p.m. on Saturday, March 23. They will also be offering free, complimentary-size popcorn with each admission. This great There will also be Silent Hours from 9-11 a.m. for those deal starts at 6 a.m. on Tuesdays. ■ movietavern.com sensitive to noise. ■ juniorleaguebr.org 16 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 BABYANDTODDLER

MOMMY BLUES SUPPORT GROUP & SCREENINGS Mommy blues are common, and they can occur before or weeks after you give birth. The American Academy of Pediatrics is urging pediatricians to screen moms to help identify depression, according to an updated statement on perinatal depression (PND). PND refers to prenatal and postpartum depression, and the AAP recommends that mothers are screened for depression once during pregnancy, and again during the infant’s well visits at one, two, four, and six months of age. Woman’s Hospital also offers a Mom 2 Mom Support Group on the second and fourth Wednesdays of the month for those who are experiencing the mommy blues. It’s free, and registration is not required. ■ (225) 924-8456

WE’RE DOIN’ THE POTTY DANCE Dancing and singing along to The Wiggles is a fun time, but one thing that is not a fun time is potty training. However, there’s now an easy way to combine something your child loves with something you want to encourage her to do. The Wiggles have released “The Toilet Song,” just for potty training. This upbeat song goes through each step of going to the potty. The song can also be used as a timer to help you encourage your child to stay on the potty throughout the song instead of jumping right up as soon as she sits down.

HUG THOSE BABIES! We all love a good hug, but did you know that hugging your babies could help make their brains grow? According to a study from the Nationwide Children’s Hospital, hugging babies does just that! The results from the study indicated that the babies who showed stronger brain response had received more affection from parents or hospital staff. And, no one knows this better than the Cuddlers at Woman’s Hospital. The Cuddlers hold and rock the babies in the NICU. Through this, the babies are able to relax and focus their energy on growing and being able to go home sooner.

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LESS STUFF MEANS MORE TIME We all want more hours in the day, but did you ever think that having less stuff might be the answer to your problem? When there is less to pick up everyday, you have more time for family time or self care. While getting rid of things might feel overwhelming at first, there is an easy way to start. Put together a donate box that everyone can access. As you go about your days, allow each person to drop items into the box when they find something they want to donate. Then, donate the items! You will instantly have fewer things lying around your home. Baton Rougean and owner of Organized By The Hour, Shelly Jones, shares, “Decluttering and properly organizing what remains gets rid of the burden of ‘stuff’ so that you can enjoy the essentials of life WEAR PURPLE FOR EPILEPSY and the simple things that make you happy.” Don’t forget to wear purple on Tuesday, March 26 for Purple Day. Purple Day is an international effort dedicated to increasing awareness about epilepsy worldwide. Throughout the world, people are encouraged to wear their purple and attend events in support of this great cause. Cassidy Megan, the Founder of Purple Day, says, “I wanted people around the world to come together and teach others about epilepsy.” Fifty million people have epilepsy worldwide, and you can show your support by volunteering at a local association, holding a fundraising event, or hosting a walk/run. ■ purpleday.org

BOOKS EQUAL SUCCESS Reading is a big deal! A recent study published in Social Science Research, assessed data from 160,000 adults from 31 countries, including the United States, Canada, the United Kingdom, Australia, Turkey, Japan, and Chile and discovered that homes

with ample libraries can give L. John Paul Kid Cover 2017-18 Photography Kleinpeter credit: Photo children skills that persist into adulthood. Now, don’t feel like you need to create the library like the one Beast gifts Belle in Beauty and the Beast. Instead, start small and work your way up to however large you want your library to be! Across the board, the study concluded that more books in the JOANNA GAINES’S home was linked to higher NEW CHILDREN’S BOOK proficiency in literacy, Failing is hard for anyone, but learning from a numeracy, and information young age to try again is invaluable. Joanna Gaines’s communication technology. new children’s book, We Are The Gardeners, was written to tell the story of their journey in the garden. It’s a story of trying and failing, trying MAKE A DIFFERENCE again, and never giving up. The 40-page hardcover Many women in our state are suffering from addiction, being exploited in sex book officially launches Tuesday, March 26, but it’s trafficking, and trying to survive in dangerous and abusive environments. However, available for pre-order now. It’s the perfect story there are few resources available to provide the help they need. This month, the New to read to your little ones at bedtime, or whenever Orleans Mission will host a live auction at Lynhaven Retreat in Hammond to raise they need a boost of confidence. funds to help provide rescue, recovery, healing, and hope. ■ neworleansmission.org

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RAISING WORKER BEES We all want our kiddos to grow up to be successful adults. In order to make sure they get there, we have to help them develop a strong work ethic. In a Harvard Grant Study, researchers identified two things that people need in order to be happy and successful: love and work ethic. Interesting combo, we think! One way to help instill a great work ethic is by assigning your children chores to do around the house. They can be simple tasks such as picking up items off the floor around the house, making sure the dog is fed, washing dishes, or helping fold the laundry. Whichever you decide to assign to them, the chores will help them to establish a routine of helping out and being responsible.

SET SMART GOALS Having goals is a good thing, but setting them is often not taught alongside manners and other valuable life skills. It is important that our children learn how to plan ahead and figure out the steps needed in order to achieve their goals. One of the best ways to teach them how to set goals is by using the SMART method. When your children set goals that are SMART, they are setting goals that are specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and time-bound. Get together with your kiddos to help them set their SMART goals for the rest of the school year or the upcoming summer months.

FROM STORIES TO SERIES Storytime with the little ones is always a special time, and now, those stories can be enjoyed in a whole new way. Your child’s favorite Roald Dahl stories such as Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, The BFG, Matilda, The Magic Finger, and Rhyme Stew are among over 15 different stories that will become animated series on Netflix. Grab the popcorn and cuddle up on the couch with your children this month to enjoy these unique stories. It will be great family time, and it will offer a chance for all of you to kick back and relax—something we all need every once in a while.

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PICCADILLY EXPANDING FOR FAMILIES Piccadilly has been a fan favorite in Baton Rouge for years. And now, they are focusing on opening even more To Go locations. So, you’ll be getting the same home-cooked food you have always enjoyed, but now available through a quick pick up. “This is one of the VIRTUAL BREASTFEEDING sharpest trends we’ve ever seen. Families are just as busy as ever, but they want the quality CONSULTATIONS and freshness of a home-cooked meal,” says Piccadilly CEO Azam Malik. This summer, Breastfeeding can be both beautiful and challenging. Piccadilly is scheduled to open a new prototype location in Denham Springs. The menu will However, having someone to answer your questions be a mix of traditional specialties and new items, including healthy baked fish entrees and throughout the process is reassuring. You can get the more exotic dishes. help you need through Woman’s BreastTime virtual consultation service. This service makes getting NEW RECOVERY PROCESS FOR C-SECTION PATIENTS the support you need much easier and convenient. If you’ve had a C-section, you know the recovery process is usually longer than a You can even have an appointment with a lactation vaginal birth. And according to Woman’s Hospital, “This extended recovery often nurse from the comfort of your bed, if you so desire. requires use of narcotic pain medication.” A study by The American College of Appointments are available Wednesdays and Fridays Obstetricians and Gynecologists states that women are prescribed opioids in excess during specified hours. ■ womans.org of the amount needed. Because of this recovery process, Woman’s Hospital has implemented Enhanced Recovery After Surgery to reduce the risk of long-term opioid abuse and side effects after a C-section. This process reduces the risk of breathing difficulties, helps a patient maintain normal gastrointestinal function, and requires a shorter time period before ambulation.

BREC RENOVATING BOXING ACADEMY By this fall, your family will be able to engage in some fun boxing in the renovated Boxing Academy, located at BREC’s North 14th Street Park. The building is undergoing renovations, and will include new lighting, security cameras, basketball courts, ornamental fencing, and landscape improvements. To pay tribute to the building’s previous use, IVERSTINE FARMS LAUNCHES SUBSCRIPTION SERVICE the Dr. Pepper Bottling Plant, and the neighborhood history, If you have a barbecue coming up and your hungry family is coming over, you’re in luck. the finishing touch of these improvements will be a painted Now, you will no longer have to fight traffic to purchase Iverstine Farms products. Through Dr. Pepper advertisement on the exterior wall. BREC their new Butcher Bundles subscription service, you can have pastured-raised meats, grown Superintendent Corey Wilson says, “This gym has a long and locally on their farm, delivered right to your door. Let’s face it, going to the store isn’t always storied history in Baton Rouge, and we have designed these possible, and Baton Rouge traffic doesn’t make it more appealing. But with the new service, improvements to pay homage to the history while giving each Bundle includes a monthly selection of 11-13 pounds of cuts, curated by their team the entire park a fresh look, without changing the character of expert butchers. Best of all, they will even provide appropriate cooking techniques and of the boxing facility, which has produced Olympic and recipes that you can view online, quickly and easily. ■ iverstinefarms.com professional athletes.” ■ brec.org 20 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 TWEENANDTEEN

INSTAGRAM MAKING CHANGES Social media is embedded in our daily lives, especially for our teens who enjoy being connected. While we can ignore the negativity online and not let other users persuade us through their photos, our teens have a harder time doing so. A father in Britain claims that Instagram contributed to his daughter’s decision to take her own life. Because of this, Instagram has agreed to ban any graphic images of self-harm, such as cutting, on the platform. Instagram plans to focus on getting resources to those who are posting these photos, and direct them to organizations that can help. ■ instagram-press.com

TEENS WHO PROCRASTINATE When it comes to being a procrastinator, your teen could probably go pro, considering he always stalls on cleaning his room and taking out the trash. While it doesn’t seem like a big deal to push off tasks that need to be done, it eventually can be. It’s best to address the issue early on. According to Dr. Adam Price, teens who procrastinate are attempting to resolve underlying issues such as anger, perfectionism, and self-doubt. To help put the procrastination to rest, Dr. Price recommends rebutting their rationalizations, such as “I work better under pressure.” Also, he encourages you to challenge their negative thinking by turning things like “I have to…” to “I choose to…” and to get to the root of what causes his procrastination.

GET CREATIVE! It’s spring time, and with the flowers blooming, your creativity is probably blooming, too! New South Story Lab will be offering Write-Ins over the next few months. During these Write-Ins, writers, poets, artists, and creatives come together to simply create. Whether you want to write, paint, create, or hang out, visit the Main Library on Goodwood for this one-of-a-kind experience. ■ newsouthstorylab.org

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AWARD-WINNING AUTHOR VISITS U-HIGH, EPISCOPAL Children’s fiction author James Ponti visited Episcopal School of Baton Rouge and University Laboratory School to share his personal journey to becoming a novelist after DUNHAM STUDENTS a successful screenwriting career for Disney, Nickelodeon and PBS. FRAMED!, Ponti’s BUILD NEWSPAPER CHAIRS Edgar Award-winning series, features middle schoolers solving mysteries and discovering Fourth graders at The Dunham School were the meaning of friendship. At the schools, Ponti also conducted writing workshops, and challenged to design and build a chair from newspaper students learned the creative process to choose a main character, setting, and problem of a strong enough to hold an adult for at least 30 potential story. ■ jamesponti.com seconds. The students worked in teams in the school’s Innovation Lab using the engineering design process, BR FLAIM NAMED SCHOOL OF EXCELLENCE unlimited newspaper, and one roll of masking tape. Baton Rouge’s only public elementary foreign language immersion school has been The winning design, created by Robert Cato, Charlie named a National Magnet School of Excellence by Magnet Schools of America. Myers, John Brocato, and Jackson Jantz, easily Baton Rouge Foreign Language Academic Immersion Magnet, where students are supported middle school science teacher Ed Van taught all classes by French, Spanish, or Mandarin speaking teachers, received the Haute, who served as judge. Valerie Jaques, fourth national merit award for its ability to raise student academic achievement, promote grade science teacher, and Nikole Blanchard, director racial and socioeconomic diversity, provide integrated curricula and instruction, and of innovation and technology, oversaw the contest. create strong family and community partnerships.

WALKER HIGH SENIOR LAUNCHES READING PROGRAM With $100 from a Neighbors Federal Credit Union contest, Emily Seighman launched “Books and Braids,” a program that helps students learn to read while having their CATHOLIC HIGH HELPS PROVIDE A FAMILY HOME hair braided before school. Seighman, a senior at Walker Students, faculty, and staff of Catholic High School (CHS) raised money and worked High School, visits Denham Springs Elementary School to build a home for a local mom and her two sons with Habitat for Humanity of Greater once a week to braid hair and read with four second graders, Baton Rouge. Warrick Dunn Charities’ Home for the Holidays provided down payment three of whom are English as a second language learners. assistance, and Aaron’s, Inc. provided furnishings and technology for the home. Dunn, Seighman purchased hair care products and children’s Baton Rouge native and former NFL running back, is a 1993 CHS alumnus who founded books with the money from the contest, which seeks ideas Warrick Dunn Charities in memory of his mother. This is the third Habitat home CHS has to improve communities with limited funds. sponsored, and the 20th Habitat homeowner assisted by Dunn. ■ habitatbrla.org 22 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 What started as a way to fill summer days as a kid became a passion for 16-year-old Joshua Green. When Joshua was five, his mom, Brenda, began taking him to the Kids Bowl Free summer program. Joshua quickly discovered that he was a good bowler, and he has worked hard to become competitive at the high school level and be part of the Southern Scratch Junior Bowling Association League. Brenda knew Joshua was serious when “for his 11th birthday, he used his birthday money to buy his own bowling ball.” Joshua is now the owner of 15 bowling balls featuring a variety of designs. After his first full year of competitive bowling, Joshua qualified for the Junior Gold Championships, an accomplishment he’s re- peated this year. Brenda and Nelson, Joshua’s dad, take turns traveling with Joshua almost every weekend where he competes with the best youth bowlers in the country. “You win scholarship money that goes into a SMART account, and he does have a little bit in there,” Brenda says. “He can use it for any type of school after he graduates.” Joshua, a junior at Lee Magnet High School, taught himself to bowl two handed, and his high score is 278. He has also qualified for singles state finals. Joshua is also on his school’s advanced robotics team and dreams of fixing up an old car. He hopes to continue bowling in college, where he plans to study engineering. With his athletic and academic successes, Joshua is certainly one amazing kid.

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GREEN SPACE GROWING AT PARKVIEW BAPTIST There’s a new garden growing on the campus of Parkview Baptist School. Students in the Advanced Placement environmental science high school class have constructed a “green space” garden as they learn about sustainable FESTIVAL HONORS CHINESE CULTURE & TRADITIONS agriculture. The students were inspired by a project at Kennesaw State University that grows vegetables for the The Baton Rouge International School hosted its first Chinese Festival in honor of the cafeteria using compost from kitchen food waste. Lesley Chinese New Year. This year is the year of the pig in the Chinese zodiac. Attendees were Meaux, high school science department chair, teaches able to embrace Chinese culture through live student performances, a traditional Dragon the class, which spends Fridays unloading soil, researching Dance, games, authentic Chinese food and drink, and other activities. The festival allowed plants, and creating garden design. the school to highlight Chinese culture, and it invited the community to engage with Chinese traditions for the new year.

RUNNELS FIFTH GRADERS HONORED FOR ESSAYS Three fifth graders at Runnels Elementary School were honored for their D.A.R.E. (Drug Abuse Resistance Education) essays at a recent ceremony. The winning essays by Alex Griffin, Henry Frederic, and Lexie Maten reflected on how they used the D.A.R.E. decision-making model in their lives and what they learned in the 18-week D.A.R.E. course. After reading their essays aloud, the students received certificates and “Best Essay” pins from Capt. Randy Aguillard of the East Baton Rouge Sheriff’s Office, the D.A.R.E. instructor at Runnels for 24 years.

CTEC STUDENT VOLUNTEERS HELP LOCAL COUPLE The home of an elderly Baton Rouge couple displaced after the 2016 flood will soon be ready for occupancy thanks in part to an East Baton Rouge Career and Technical Education Center service project. Lufti Abuhajah, Broadmoor High School senior, and ASCENSION HIGH SCHOOL CAREER FAIR DRAWS 600+ Sean McCants, Glen Oaks High School senior, More than 600 juniors and seniors from four Ascension Parish schools attended the worked with the Cajun Navy and Jeff Maruschak, district’s third annual high school career fair. Students from Donaldsonville, Dutchtown, heating ventilation air conditioning and refrigeration East Ascension, and St. Amant high schools explored a variety of career options presented (HVACR) instructor at the center, to install A/C by 134 different businesses and potential employers. The fair gives students real-world ducts, thermostat wiring and make other HVACR knowledge of the variety of professional opportunities available to them after graduation or improvements in the home. The students earned 50 college. Professionals encouraged students and explained in detail the careers represented bonus points for their volunteer work. and education and experiences needed to be successful in their field. 24 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 SCOTLANDVILLE STUDENTS ENJOY CRAZY WAFFLE BAR Community-based students at the Scotlandville Pre-Engineering Magnet Academy had a sweet treat and hands-on learning experience when the Crazy Waffle Bar came to school. The middle schoolers in the Exceptional Student Services program were invited to create their own waffles in various colors, flavors, shapes and sizes, being introduced to common kitchen items in the process and learning valuable life skills. Crazy Waffle Bar is a New Orleans-based business founded by a former special education teacher and her sister.

EPISCOPAL EARNS GRIEF-SENSITIVE DESIGNATION Episcopal School of Baton Rouge received designation as a Grief-Sensitive School by New York Life, an insurance company. The initiative helps prepare teachers to help grieving students by providing access to resources and training. To earn the designation, some Episcopal faculty and staff were trained on providing support for students who experience the death of a loved one. The first school in Baton Rouge to receive the designation, Episcopal received a $500 grant, which was used to support the school’s viewing of “Screenagers,” a documentary exploring pressures and realities students face in a digital world. MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 25 CONNECT PATHWAYS TO PARENTING

Bipolar Disorder egardless of outside circumstances, being a parent can be difficult, but when you do factor in those outside circumstances, things can be even more Rtricky. These outside circumstances can include an unexpected mental health diagnosis. For around three million Americans each year, this diagnosis is often a type of Bipolar Disorder. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, Bipolar Disorder can be broken down into four different types: Bipolar I Disorder, Bipolar II Disorder, Cyclothymic Disorder, and Other Specified and Unspecified Bipolar and Related Disorders. The main difference between all of these types is how long one spends in an “up” or manic state and how long one spends in a “down” or depressive state. Manic states can be characterized by having more energy than normal, increased activity, and risk-taking behavior. Depressive states are often the opposite of this, characterized by having little energy or activity levels, not eating a lot, and feeling like normal activities are not enjoyable. Family Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner, Suzanne Jones, says, “The difference between mania and hypomania is a matter of degrees. With Bipolar II, the symptoms are less severe and don’t significantly affect the person’s work, school, or social functioning.” The treatment plan for any type of Bipolar Disorder is complicated. “Medications alone are not enough. Lifestyle adjustments will be needed. Bipolar Disorder is a complex condition that affects not only the person with the diagnosis, but also the family. Psychotherapy is important for both patients and their families,” says Jones. Essentially, treating Bipolar Disorder is less of being prescribed a medication, and more a mixture of medication, therapy, and lifestyle changes. However, helping your children to understand is crucial. “When the children are old enough to understand, and parents are in a calm, stable place, give simple explanations about what a complex biological disorder is. They need to know your extreme moods are not a reflection on them. If you have been hurtful, apologize.” Essentially, don’t hide things from your kiddos, and try to explain the hard things to them. That fact, coupled with a support network, will make living with Bipolar Disorder a little easier. ■ 26 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 27 Hospital. Also, reassuring him that he will have some time with the baby early on can help make him feel good When is He about himself. “Let him see the baby first, before you let in the mass droves Going Back in Your Belly? of the entire family. Because then, it is increased stimulation when there are tons Adjusting to a New Baby on Board in the room, and it can be overwhelming,” By Jamie Lober she says. Be conscientious of the first meeting. efore your new bundle of joy change can weigh on him. He may want Remember that this is an adjustment arrived, his “big” brother was things to return to the way they were for all of you, especially your child. “I over the moon about being the before the new baby arrived. Here are B recommend that when the child walks older sibling in the house. However, ways you can prepare your child to into the room that the mom is not holding now that his little brother is here, you’ve ensure that the two siblings can build a the baby, and the first thing the child is noticed that his excitement has faded. strong relationship. greeted with is ‘Come sit with mom on You expected some jealousy, and even Empower with knowledge. Some the bed. I have missed you, and I am glad prepared yourself for it, but things have moms prefer to take matters into their to see you,’” says Bardwell. The father or become difficult to manage. He has even own hands, but some opt to attend a class another family member should be holding asked “When is he going back in your with their little ones at one of the local the baby before slowly introducing him at belly?” A question you absolutely weren’t hospitals. These classes often cover how the child’s comfort level. prepared for. to hold the baby, change diapers, and Another way to add to the first Anticipating the arrival of a new feed with the bottle. They also allow your meeting is by bringing along a gift from addition can bring on mixed emotions child to see what a hospital room looks the new sibling for the older sibling. “To in your home. Of course, it is an like. And best of all, if you consider the make my son feel special, I gave him a exciting time for everyone, but it also questions and concerns your child may storybook and said it was from his new comes along with changes for all, have, you can address them with your baby sister, and he was very excited and especially for the older sibling. As you obstetrician and empower your child with wanted to read it to her,” says Maggie strive to juggle everyone’s schedules even more knowledge. O’neil, a local mom. and keep relationships strong, the “I recommend Let your child take ownership of the taking him to see new baby. When you give instructions, the area where refer to him as “his baby brother or the action is sister,” or ask him to get “his” baby some going to go wipes, or whatever the task may be. down,” says While you may wonder at first how you Meghan will divide your time and love among Bardwell, the kids, it becomes effortless and even community rewarding to watch the older sibling childbirth participate in basic care. The level of educator at involvement in the baby’s day-to-day life Woman’s usually depends on age. Doing something simple like having the older child grab the pacifier or hold your hand while you give the baby a bottle, makes him feel included and eases tension. Kristen Montgomery of Baton Rouge adds, “I asked my eldest daughter to be mommy’s helper by doing things like handing me a washcloth and diaper, and a year later, she continues to be a wonderful helper with even bigger tasks.” While it is great to spend quality time together, do not forget to single out some time that is one-on-one 28 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 with each child. “Letting the other child experience time with the parent, where you talk about things other than the baby, like what his day was like, the best and worst part, or reading a book can make him feel he is not left out or forgotten,” says Bardwell. Expect a little jealousy. “Even the most well-adjusted children will go through periods where they will say it is not fair they cannot go outside or be as loud as they want because of the baby,” explains Bardwell. Always offer positive reinforcement, and if a child acts out because of his feelings about the new baby, explore why he may be feeling that way. “If it is a toddler, you cannot sit down and talk. They will be less understanding and more demanding, so you have to set ground rules,” says Bardwell. Over time, it should become accepted that the baby is not going anywhere, and some kids just take longer than others to love the new sibling, and that is okay. Listen to your child. “Throwing him into the situation is a recipe for disaster, so the earlier you bring it up, the better,” says Bardwell. When he knows what to expect, he may be more accepting or eager to take on his new role. “Prepare him by saying the baby takes up a lot of your time, but that does not mean that you want to spend less time with him,” she says. Explain that the baby needs you, but there are things he can do to help and contribute, too. “You have to go at the child’s pace, as some will jump right into it and want to hold and love the baby right from the beginning, and some are very unsure,” says Bardwell. Do not be pushy, but instead, follow the child’s lead. A sibling relationship will form eventually. Celebrate your child’s individuality. “When you go into labor, you can have a bag packed for your child with coloring books, stickers, markers, a shirt that says ‘Big Brother,’ and a little camera. It is a great diversion and something special just for him,” says Bardwell. Keep lines of communication open, and have a positive attitude toward the journey. She adds, “The more you expose him and prepare, the more he will love it.” ■ MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 29 LIVE LOCAL PROFILE

to an international tournament,” says Carmichael. In the tournament, girls build and program a LEGO Mindstorms robot to compete against other teams on tabletop playing fields. The teams apply STEM concepts to solve real- world problems. Carmichael enjoys watching the girls in her troop continuously grow and mature as a Girl Scout. “When they were younger, they needed a lot of supervision and guidance,” she says. Now, Carmichael gives them the opportunity to be the leaders. “The mission of Girl Scouts builds courage, confidence, and character, and I try and help the girls remember this,” she explains. Not all leaders have a long Girl Scout history, though. Local troop leader and former Service Unit Leader, Missy Shanklin didn’t consider Girl Scouts at first. “I had just moved to Baton Rouge and had never really thought about Girl Scouts before. My daughter came home Taking the Lead with a flyer to sign up, so I went to the By Melanie Forstall Lemoine, Ph.D. meeting not knowing a soul.” have vivid memories of my friend’s prepare them for the future. She wanted However, becoming a leader was one dad teaching us how to change a tire a community where girls could embrace of her greatest decisions. “Being a leader I and use jumper cables,” says Cathy their individuality, strength, and intellect, has been so much more than I could Carmichael, a local troop leader who while also enhance their courage, ever have imagined. Watching your own started as a Brownie, of her experience confidence, and character. Her vision is daughters gain confidence in a skill or task in Girl Scouts. For her, Girl Scouts had a currently being carried out by Girl Scouts is being a mom, but to watch other girls positive impact on her life when she was Louisiana East (GSLE). Located in Baton accomplish goals through your influence younger. She grew up with Eagle Scout Rouge, GSLE hosts events that give the as a leader is what being in Girl Scouts is brothers and both of her parents served as girls opportunities to explore their own all about.” volunteers. However, she wasn’t planning talents, create new friendships, and give Both Carmichael and Shanklin on becoming a leader herself. back to their communities. GSLE often agree that being a Girl Scout has had Girl Scouts has influenced her life, but highlights science, agriculture, and the an incredible impact on their daughters. now, it is also playing a role in the lives arts. One of the events they participate in Shanklin says, “They have learned what of the girls in her troop. This positive allows the girls to explore robotics. it means to give back to a community in experience is what Juliette Gordon Low, “Last year, I volunteered to be an which they live, hustle in some cookies the founder of Girl Scouts of the USA, assistant coach for one of Girl Scouts sales, and they could seriously build a fire envisioned for all young girls. Louisiana East’s First LEGO League from nothing.” Juliette Gordon Low aspired to create Robotics teams. I had no idea that eight Knowing these life skills are what an organization for girls that helped months after joining, we would be going make being a Girl Scout truly special. ■ 30 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 31 LIVE MOM NEXT DOOR Renita Williams Thomas By Amanda Miller

OCCUPATION ▪ Owner & Founder of In Loving Arms Pediatric Day Health Center HUSBAND ▪ Oliver Thomas, III CHILDREN ▪ Kori, 36, Kreig, 31, Kendal, 28, Daniel, 13, Tyrese, 11, Sissy, 10, & Kamrin, 8, her grandson HOBBIES ▪ Reading developmental books, traveling, and spending time with family

hen it comes to creating a to-do list, WRenita Williams Thomas is religious about it. For her, being able to accomplish her checklist goals (at least 90 percent of them!) each day are what make her feel her best. Along with checking off her daily tasks, Renita pours her soul into her work, nurturing little ones who are often machine dependent and unable to attend traditional day care centers. She loves her job, but the love she has for her family is indescribable. She beams with pride whenever she discusses their accomplishments, and she always encourages them to be their true selves. She’s passionate, caring, and inspirational. To put it simply, Photo credit: Alisha Hudman Photography Renita’s one incredible mom!

Tell me about your children. What do you keep on your nightstand? What kind of mom would you describe R: Kori is a quiet storm. She’s a woman of few R: A book and my glasses. I am currently yourself as? words, but she’s incredibly focused. Kreig is the reading Outliers: The Story of Success by R: Very absolute, structured, kind, and loving, detective in the family. He’s very strategic and Malcolm Gladwell. but I hold my children accountable. I run a tight observant. Kendal is intelligent, well spoken, and ship here. our strategic planner. Daniel is a spitfire. He’s What music do you enjoy listening to? the smartest and sweetest kid. Ty is very quiet, R: Mozart and Beethoven. Classical music helps What advice do you often give your children? but goofy. He’s the one you have to encourage me relax. It also helps children with dyslexia to R: To take responsibility for their actions as to participate. Sissy is the epitome of the life relax and concentrate. opposed to making excuses. I want them to of the party. She has dyslexia, dysgraphia, and work really hard and take risks. I teach them to dyscalculia. She has lots of personality, and she How has parenthood changed you? be compassionate and kind, to say ‘please’ and commands attention. R: It has taught me to be more selfless. I’m ‘thank you,’ and most of all, to always be their more giving now, more nurturing. brother’s keeper. What do you like to do together as a family? R: We travel. Our objective is to have our What lead you to adoption? What do you love most about your job? children touch all seven continents. We’ve R: My paternal grandmother adopted three R: My grandmother would say to find a job been to Africa, Switzerland, and China. We are children and I saw how her loving intervention you love and you will never work a day in your planning to go to Australia, and Sissy wants to in their lives reshaped their future. It was my life, and that is this job for me. The Center is go to Ireland. ambition to change the life of a child. As our for children who are medically fragile, yet they youngest son, Kendal, was headed off to college remain full of joy. Coming in every day and What’s the greatest thing about being a mom? at Morehouse, we were called about Daniel who seeing their joy, it takes my breath away. R: Being able to mold the next generation. I needed what was thought to be a temporary encourage my children to be self-sufficient and placement, and our journey began...Ty and Sissy What’s the hardest part of your job? also reliable. quickly followed. R: Work is tough. Sometimes children aren’t 32 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 given very long to live, so the death and dying side to it is the hardest part of my job.

How do you find the balance between work and family time? R: I make time for both, and I make sure everything is done ethically and professionally. I separate the two to keep the balance.

What’s your favorite family game to play with your kids? R: We are a game family! We play Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy together.

What do you do to take care of yourself? R: Massages and pedicures are definitely my stress relievers.

What’s the best parenting advice you have ever received? R: Allow children to be children, but make sure they are responsible.

What personality trait of yours do you hope your children also get? R: My work ethic. I want them to work hard and love hard. We really are a tight knit, non- traditional family. We love hard.

What are some things you want to do that are still on your bucket list? R: I hope to expand the Center to help meet the needs of more families outside of Louisiana.

Do you have any advice for other parents? R: Allow your children to be who they are with their strengths and weaknesses. Accept them as they are, and mold them into who they are destined to become. ■

Quick Q&A

The parenting item I couldn’t live without…the Internet. In my fridge, you will always find… grapefruit juice and milk. Favorite movie growing up…Gone with the Wind. My guilty pleasure is…dark chocolate and Cinnabons. My favorite ice cream is...chocolate.

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and sweeter vegetables, cause him to have diarrhea because his body cannot process the fructose. However, Emily has been able to find foods to help keep her active, healthy three-year-old growing and developing properly. “Jack is just going to have to learn to be a meat and potatoes guy,” Emily explains. Finding foods that Jack likes and can tolerate has been trial and error, Photo credit: Alisha Hudman Photography Alisha Hudman credit: Photo but the Beaches have enlisted the help of a dietitian and friends. Emily is also always looking for more food ideas, and she is also looking to meet other families who are dealing with similar dietary restrictions. When Jack started at Christ Covenant Preschool, Emily was worried about how his diet could be managed in a classroom setting. His teacher, Fran Harbour, made things easy by adjusting the class snack list to fit Jack’s needs. When the class does have special treats, like decorating cookies as part of a Christmas celebration, A Smile Sweeter Than Any Cupcake Jack “handles it like a champ,” Emily By Mari Walker says. He knows what he can and cannot ike most babies, when Jack Beach easiest way to test this was to give Jack eat, and he is good about refusing things turned one, his parents, Emily and straight fructose and observe him. that will make him feel bad. LDavid, switched him to whole “Fructose wasn’t easy to find, but I got The family, which also includes milk and started adding fruits and veggies it and put it in his bottles,” Emily says. 12-year-old Mary Ellis and six-year-old to his diet. Unlike most babies, however, “Almost immediately, after two or three Anna, looks at the limitations on Jack’s Jack reacted badly and began having 7-10 bottles, he began having diarrhea.” At diet as a way for them to also eat healthier. icky diapers per day. With Jack being the only 14 months old, Dr. Alberty diagnosed “If we’d all eat like Jack eats, we’d all be couple’s fourth child, Emily knew right Jack with fructose malabsorption. so much healthier,” Emily explains. “It away that something wasn’t right. “I guess the worst part about it is that really is not a bad thing.” At first, Jack’s pediatrician suspected my husband and I just assumed it would Through it all, Emily and David that he had a milk allergy, but those just be a temporary thing,” Emily says. maintain a positive attitude and inspiring tests came back negative. Then, the However, fructose malabsorption is a outlook. “There are so many other things family took Jack to see a pediatric lifelong condition. If Jack’s diet isn’t well that really could be life threatening for our gastroenterologist. Since Jack’s nine-year- managed, there’s the potential for him child, and we are blessed that he doesn’t old brother, Howard, had salmonella as to develop Irritable Bowel Syndrome or have any sort of life-threatening condition. a baby, the Beach family returned to Dr. Crohn’s disease. “So, that’s really why we It can be managed,” Emily says. “We just J. Brannon Alberty for Jack’s care. Dr. have to watch what he eats,” Emily says. feel fortunate that we have been blessed Alberty suspected that Jack had fructose Jack’s diet is limited in that any sugar with four kids, and overall, they are in malabsorption or sucrose deficiency. The or high-fructose corn syrup, most fruits good health.” ■ 34 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 35 LIVE FAITH

Build Your Faith By Scott Bledsoe, Senior Pastor of Household of Faith ’m a local church pastor who routinely gets the opportunity to point people towards faith in God. It can seem like an overwhelming task in today’s culture when you hear Ithe statistics on families, education, economics, and crime in our area. When I read God’s Word, it reminds me that we were born into a broken world. We didn’t break it; it was broken when we got here. It is a collection of ancient manuscripts written over the course of 1600 years by >40 authors in three different languages on three different continents that describes one story. Jesus came in human form to fix the brokenness in us. So here’s my encouragement: live counter-culture. Build your faith instead of letting culture steal it. Here are a few basics that have long stood the test of time as wisdom. First, start off your day with Bible reading. I know, kids, laundry, work…but trust me, it works. Faith comes by hearing the Good News about Christ. Focus on the quality of that time versus the quantity. Secondly, I’d encourage you to plug into a good Bible believing church where you can be discipled. Let me say it this way, a place where you find someone to follow. This practice has served me well for 35+ years, and it’s amazing that Jesus recruited many of his world changers with these simple words: “follow me.” Third, develop of network of other believers that you “do life” with. Faith is more relationally caught than information taught. Some churches call themselves small groups because the biblical pattern for growth was done through a community with other like- minded believers. Finally, find a place to make a difference by serving others. You were designed by God to do this. Church should be a place where you can discover and use your gifts to serve others. It’s really so simple, and we have a variety of great church communities in our area. Don’t attend a building; become a part of a faith community, and I believe the best is yet to come for your life and family. ■ 36 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 37 GETTING READY FOR SPRING SPORTS Team Sports Versus Individual Sports By Christa Melnyk Hines t’s quiet on the ride home from your son’s baseball game. What is usually Ia joyous time filled with, “Did you see my home run?!” and “Mom, we won!” has been replaced with silence and the occasional heavy sigh. As you check your rearview mirror, you see him with his head against the window and a look of defeat on his face. Hating to see him this way, you do your best to turn things around for him. You tell him about all of the good catches he made, how he helped his team, and how next time will be better. Eventually, his frown starts to fade, and before you know it, he’s ready for his next game. When your child plays a sport, these teachable moments are in an abundance, and they are just one of the many benefits of allowing your child to get involved. Youth sports offer a host of emotional and physical benefits, from helping kids stay active to building self-esteem and learning to work with others. Jennifer Burns, a Baton Rouge mom, adds, “It’s important for parents to encourage kids to do team sports because it teaches them how to be successful in life. They learn how to work together and support each other, and they realize that it takes everyone doing their best to 2018-19 Cover Kids Kylie B. and Joel L. win. I love the fact that the kids can face Photo credit: Kleinpeter Photography adversity through sports and develop mental toughness to push through when

38 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 39 things get hard. The qualities they learn through playing sports will help them in their everyday lives.” However, knowing which sport is best for your child often depends on your youngster’s personality, as well as the time and money you’re willing to invest in a particular activity. Determine readiness. Before the age of six or seven, many kids are still developing gross motor skills like running, kicking, jumping, and catching. They’re also still learning social skills like sharing, taking turns, and losing/ winning games gracefully. Rather than organized sports in the early years, experts recommend exploring different activities, like kicking a ball around, playing at the playground, and taking swim or gymnastic lessons. Burns encourages parents to help their children explore activities they are interested in. “I think, as parents, it’s important that we expose our kids to a lot of different activities so they can figure out what they really like. If you put them in too early, you will be able to tell, and maybe then, you should wait a while and come back to it later,” she says. Aim for fun. Many parents naturally gravitate toward introducing their kids to the sports they enjoyed as children. While this is a good place to start, your child may not end up sharing your enthusiasm. And, you may go through several sports before you find one that’s the right fit for your child. “We really need to look at what our kids do to have fun. If they are having fun, they will stay in the sport longer. They won’t burn out,” says Randy Goldstein, D.O., a board certified pediatrician who specializes in youth sports medicine. “If they are having fun, they are more likely to make goals that are to their highest potential.” Know the pros of team sports. Any sport your child participates in should help him develop strength, balance, and coordination, and provide him with an opportunity to push himself in a healthy, positive environment. “In a team sport, the kids have to work together towards a common goal and take instruction from a coach who 40 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 IS YOUR CHILD READY FOR ORGANIZED SPORTS?

Consult with your pediatrician before enrolling your child in a sport, and Dr. Goldstein recommends discussing questions like: Is your child ready and able to… • listen to adults other than mom or dad? • play with others, and when necessary, wait in line to take his or her turn? • be away from mom or dad? • understand how to play safely with the equipment involved with the chosen sport? • physically play the sport? (Physical readiness includes balance, body awareness and awareness of the space around you to learn beginning sports skills such as running, jumping, safe landing, and change-in-direction techniques.)

BENEFITS OF ORGANIZED SPORTS FOR KIDS

• Enhances critical thinking/problem- solving skills • Increases social interaction/ cooperation with peers • Improves concentration, attention and behavior • Reduces incidences of depression and anxiety • Fosters self-esteem, goal-setting and leadership skills • More likely to be active adults Source: The Aspen Institute Project Play

WHAT IS THE TOP TEAM SPORT FOR CHILDREN AGES 6-17?

A. Basketball B. Outdoor soccer C. Baseball D. Court volleyball E. Touch football Answer: A. Basketball; followed by baseball, outdoor soccer, touch football and court volleyball Source: NYU Child Study Center

MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 41 isn’t necessarily a parent,” Goldstein says. team. “Even individual sports have the best she possibly can, both for her own “This is important to learning how to be camaraderie or the partnership of a benefit as well as the benefit of the team. I around future teachers, future bosses and team,” Goldstein says, who works with absolutely love watching her compete and future leaders.” premier-level gymnasts. “They travel excel at the sport she loves to do.” Kassie Williams, a Prairieville mom, together and learn to become partners, Burns, whose daughter, Bailey, is shares that her son, Adam, is thriving and they accomplish individual goals, but on Crawfish Aquatics Youth Tri Team, in team sports. “I feel like he thrives as a team.” adds, “I love seeing my daughter happy. because he is competitive and wants to For Demy, competing in gymnastics When she is out there having fun with a be the best to help get a win. On the flip allows her to stay active and meet friends smile on her face, that makes me happy. side, because he’s so competitive, the outside of school. However, she also I love watching her give it her best and older that he gets, the more difficult it shares that there is more pressure when improving each race. When she is able to is for him to do things all by himself. it comes to having teammates. “I feel place or win, I love the confidence I see However, it’s helping him to have to trust there is more pressure to have teammates in her.” ■ his teammates to do their part. It’s a work because you want everyone to do well, so in progress.” you can win a team award at the end of Every child progresses at his or her the meet.” own speed. Encourage your young athlete The downside? Not all kids feel drawn toward his personal goals with positive, to the spotlight during a performance calm support, and celebrate his personal or sporting event. And, some kids may accomplishments along the way. put undue “Watch for individual progress, not pressure what your child’s teammates are doing. on Your child may seem behind or ahead themselves of the others. This can change like the to reach weather,” Goldstein says. “It takes one or personal two seasons to judge improvement and goals, success–not one or two competitions.” causing the The downside? Much like individual negatives to sports, team sports like baseball and outweigh the soccer have become more year-round in positives. nature. Although this approach can help Some parents the team and individual players grow even find stronger and more skilled over time, it difficult families may find that the sport is more watching their of a time and money commitment than youngsters they’d bargained for. navigate the Know the pros of individual sports. pressures of a Much of the success in individual sports sport on their like tennis, dance, swimming, and own, but overall, gymnastics depends on the motivation seeing them excel of the particular athlete. Athletes who and thrive in the excel at individual sports find satisfaction environment is a pushing themselves to achieve a personal great experience. goal rather than relying on the team to Demy’s mom, help them get there. Brittney, shares, “In Demy Martin, a Baton Rouge gymnastics, you only gymnast, says, “I set personal goals for get one shot at each myself. When we are warming up, I listen event. The only event to what the coaches tell me to work on, you get to do twice is and once we reach the actual competition, the vault. When I 2018-19 Cover Kids Kylie B. and Joel L. B. Kylie Kids Cover 2018-19 Photography Kleinpeter credit: Photo I set goals to try and fix the errors I made am watching while warming up.” her compete, While your child might prefer an I sit in the individual sport, that doesn’t mean stands, saying a little prayer she has to sacrifice the support of a that she nails each event and does the 42 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 43 learn how to plan and build a house for someone who is in need.

2. Making new friends. It’s important to continue to grow and change, and adding new friends to one’s life enriches it at any age. Some tweens attend the same camp or camps every summer and might find the same friends there, year after year. Many are attending for the very first time and need to hone their social skills to make new friends and get to know other tweens in their age range outside of a school setting. Being in close proximity for days or weeks 9 helps them get closer, faster.

Benefits 3. Learning new things. Whether your tween attends a camp to learn of more about horses, adventure, a specific sport, or anything else, they have an entire day, week, or longer Sending to focus on that one activity and really immerse themselves in it. Tweens Who knows? Your tween might find a new passion that he never thought of before that could be helpful in to Camp his educational or work life later on By Kerrie McLoughlin down the road.

4. Deepening their faith. If your tween enjoys church youth groups, a church or other religious camp is an option. The day might begin with a church service, followed by breakfast, a hike, and some time spent in the ummer camp is often a place to 1. Learning how to give back. cabin with friends memorizing Bible send elementary-aged kids so they Community service camps offer verses for a competition at the end Saren’t sitting around the house a great chance for tweens to make of the week. Later, there could be bored, and so they’ll make friends and a difference and help out in the singing songs around a bonfire while learn new things while having fun. As community, while also learning roasting s'mores. children grow out of their “little kid skills that will carry them through years,” we sometimes forget that they still their lives. Tweens get to spend their 5. Developing a hobby. When your need those experiences they had when days helping others, which just feels child is disconnected from the TV, they were younger, just in a different good to everyone involved. Maybe video game console, or smartphone, form. Maybe you don’t think your tween your tween will learn how to pack he can really focus on developing a needs summer camp. Your tween should food for the homeless, teach kids hobby in a creative way. It seems like be babysitting, mowing lawns, working at how to read, or work on a project these days there’s a camp for pretty the pool, or hanging around with friends, that will benefit the community, like much any interest your child has. right? Well, sure! But why not send them cleaning up a playground or fixing There are camps for horse and other off for a week or more of summer fun and equipment. They could even learn animal lovers, sports lovers of all learning this year for a break? Here are how to paint a house, care for a yard types (think developing soccer skills, some great benefits for tweens attending for an elderly person who is unable swimming, football, volleyball, summer camp. to do so anymore, or they may even baseball—anything!), Boy Scout 44 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 45 camp (it covers so many different friends while going on hikes, paddle 9. Appreciating everything. When hobbies and topics), or Girl Scout boating, and swimming, depending our tweens are away from their camp (it also covers so many great on the camp they choose. screens, it is easier for them to focus skills for tweens). on nature, learning, and forming 8. Standing on their own. Let’s face relationships. When they are away 6. Working as a team. Your tween will it, as our children get older, they from us, the parents, tweens will be meeting other tweens and tweens start to grow away from us. They are come home with a new appreciation of various ages and from different simply preparing to head out on their for what it takes to be in a family backgrounds. Learning how to get own, and they are also preparing you and help out in the running of the along and work as a team is a huge for that transition by perhaps being household. Your tween will probably life skill that will be reinforced at a little distant. They are stuck in also appreciate funny things like a camp. Some camps even have them between childhood and adulthood, full pantry that's open all day, their participate in team-building and trust and it's a confusing time. Going comfy bed, and privacy. activities to help them get to know away to camp for even a short period each other. of time helps teach independence. Tween summer camps offer many There is a daily structure at camp benefits that cover all the bases, including 7. Staying active. Forget sitting that's already in place, which tweens physical, social, mental, and spiritual. As around doing “screen time” all day need to follow. Parents aren’t the for the rest of the summer? Well, your long during the summer. When a ones doing the nagging, so tweens tween can spend plenty of time doing tween attends summer camp, they often don't tune them out because those odd jobs to help pay for camp next often forget all about those things they are respecting other adults and year, because trust me, they will want to and focus on having fun with their learning from them. go back! ■

46 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 47 2019 Overnight Camps

Before your camper-to-be starts packing for his exciting summer, he needs to find the perfect camp for him to attend. And don’t worry, we did the work for you! With this Overnight Camp Listing, you can begin your search right away because you have the dates, rates, ages, and locations for local and out-of-state camps in your hands.

CAMP NAME LOCATION PHONE GENDER AGES DATES RATES DIRECTOR WEBSITE

Alpine Camp for Boys (256) 634-4404 Mentone, Alabama alpinecamp.com Boys Grades 1-9 May 28-July 30 $2,995-5,575 Glenn & Carter Breazeale

Camp Aldersgate (501) 225-1444 Little Rock, Arkansas campaldersgate.net Coed 6-18 Varies Varies Ali Miller *For Children with Special Needs

Camp Barney Medintz (706) 865-2715 Cleveland, Georgia campbarney.org Coed Grades 2-10 June 2-July 25 $3,150-5,995 Jim Mittenthal

Camp Bear Track (501) 825-8222 Drasco, Arkansas campbeartrack.com Coed 6-16 June 2-July 23 $1,350-2,800 Olivia Dowell

Camp Blue Ridge (706) 746-5491 Mountain City, Georgia blueridgecamp.com Coed 6-16 June 9-July 27 $5,800-7,800 Joey & Lori Waldman

Camp Cedar Cliff (828) 450-3331 Asheville, North Carolina campcedarcliff.org Coed Grades 2-10 June 8-August 2 $380-1,420 Tim Brady

Camp Chatuga (864) 638-3728 Mountain Rest, South Carolina campchatuga.com Coed 6-16 June 16-July 31 $440-3,850 Angela Gordon Sullivan

Camp Chosatonga (828) 884-6834 Brevard, North Carolina twofuncamps.com Boys 8-17 June 2-July 31 $1,680-9,220 David Trufant

Camp Dovewood (386) 935-0863 O'Brien, Florida campdovewood.org Girls 7-16 June 9-July 20 $625-1,025 Roberta Richmond

Camp Fern (903) 935-5420 Marshall, Texas campfern.com Coed 6-16 June 2-August 3 $1,544-4,775 Margaret Lee

Camp Highlander (828) 891-7721 Mills River, North Carolina camphighlander.com Coed 6-16 June 9-August 2 $1,650-4,900 Bryan & Melissa Fitzgerald

Camp Hollymont for Girls (828) 686-5343 Asheville, North Carolina hollymont.com Girls Grades 1-9 June 9-July 26 $1,700-7,700 Amy Lewallen

Camp Juliette Low (706) 862-2169 Cloudland, Georgia cjl.org Girls 7-17 June 2-July 21 $940-1,890 Nancy Brim & Kappy Kelly

Camp Kahdalea (828) 884-6834 Brevard, North Carolina twofuncamps.com Girls 8-17 June 2-July 31 $1,680-9,220 Anne Trufant

48 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 49 CAMP NAME LOCATION PHONE GENDER AGES DATES RATES DIRECTOR WEBSITE

Camp Kanuga (828) 692-9136 Hendersonville, North Carolina campkanuga.org Coed 7-15 June 6-August 5 $575-2,095 David Schnitzer

Camp Kesem LSU (225) 288-7301 Pollock, Louisiana campkesem.org/lsu Coed 6-18 July 28-August 2 Free Julia St. Pierre

Camp Kiowa (940) 665-3800 Gainesville, Texas campkiowa.com Coed 6-17 June 23-August 3 $919-5,014 Kristin Hillestad

Camp Laney for Boys (256) 634-4066 Mentone, Alabama camplaney.com Boys 7-15 June 2-July 26 $1,975-3,465 Rob Hammond

Camp Lurecrest (704) 841-2701 Lake Lure, North Carolina camplurecrest.org Coed Grades 3-12 June 16-August 1 $555-660 Kris Decker

Camp Nakanawa (931) 277-3711 Crossville, Tennessee campnakanawa.com Girls 8-17 June 16-July 28 $1,950-3,650 Ann & Pepe Perron

Camp Pinewood (828) 692-6239 Hendersonville, North Carolina camppinewood.net Coed Grades 1-10 June 11-August 1 $2,650-7,750 Chris Coloson & Sue Lyons

Camp Pinnacle (855) 378-1928 Flat Rock, North Carolina camppinnacle.com Coed Grades 1-9 June 9-August 9 $3,395-7,295 John Dockendorf

Camp Rockmont (828) 686-3885 Black Mountain, North Carolina rockmont.com Boys 6-16 June 9-August 9 $1,530-5,870 Dan Davis

Camp Skyline (800) 448-9279 Mentone, Alabama campskyline.com Girls 6-16 June 2-July 26 $4,130 Sally & Larry Johnson

Camp Stanislaus (228) 467-9057 Bay Saint Louis, Mississippi campstanislaus.com Coed 8-15 June 9-July 6 $360-1,365 Sam Doescher

Camp Tekoa (828) 692-6516 Hendersonville, North Carolina camptekoa.org Coed 7-17 June 9-August 9 $250-1,425 James Johnson

Camp Wayfarer (828) 696-9000 Flat Rock, North Carolina campwayfarer.com Coed Grades K-10 June 9-July 27 $1,500-6,600 Mary Kenson & Wilson Lewis

Camp Westminster (770) 483-2225 Conyers, Georgia campwestminster.org Coed 6-16 June 2-July 26 $305-595 Andy Rogers

Camp Woodmont (423) 472-6070 Cloudland, Georgia campwoodmont.com Coed 6-14 May 26-July 26 $910-1,445 Alyson Gondek

Cedar Lake Camp (931) 823-5656 Livingston, Tennessee cedarlakecamp.org Coed 8-14 June 2-July 20 $395 Ryan Higgins

Eagle's Nest Camp (828) 877-4349 Pisgah Forest, North Carolina enf.org Coed Grades K-11 June 8-August 11 $1,695-4,690 Paige Lester-Niles

Falling Creek Camp (828) 692-0262 Tuxedo, North Carolina fallingcreek.com Boys Grades 1-10 June 2-August 9 $1,650-6,500 Yates & Marisa Pharr

50 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 51 CAMP NAME LOCATION PHONE GENDER AGES DATES RATES DIRECTOR WEBSITE

Girl Scout Camp Marydale (225) 747-0403 St. Francisville, Louisiana gsle.org/camp Girls 6-17 June 2-July 7 $100-455 Lauren Vance

Girl Scout Camp Whispering Pines (225) 747-0403 Independence, Louisiana gsle.org/camp Girls 6-17 June 2-July 7 $75-325 Lauren Vance

LSU Architecture Camp (225) 578-3864 Baton Rouge, Louisiana outreach.lsu.edu Coed 15-17 June 9-14 $925-975 Lucy Foval

A Survey of Calculus LSU College Readiness Program: and College Math (225) 578-3864 Baton Rouge, Louisiana outreach.lsu.edu Coed 14-17 June 9-28 $1,295-3,350 Lucy Foval

LSU College Readiness Program: Math Circle (225) 578-3864 Baton Rouge, Louisiana outreach.lsu.edu Coed 14-17 June 9-28 $1,295-3,350 Lucy Foval

LSU LeaderShip U (225) 578-3864 Baton Rouge, Louisiana outreach.lsu.edu Coed 15-17 June 16-July 12 $925-975 Lucy Foval

LSU Robotics Camp (225) 578-3864 Baton Rouge, Louisiana outreach.lsu.edu Coed 14-17 June 23-28 $1,145-1,195 Lucy Foval

LSU STEM Pathways: Introduction to Engineering (225) 578-3864 Baton Rouge, Louisiana outreach.lsu.edu Coed 14-17 June 9-28 $1,295-3,350 Lucy Foval

Mo-Ranch Summer Camps (800) 460-4401 Hunt, Texas summercamp.moranch.org Coed 8-15 June 2-July 20 $140-1,610 Richard Bombach

Pali Adventures (909) 867-5743 Running Springs, California paliadventures.com Coed 8-16 June 16-August 17 $2,299-20,691 Daniel Hammond

Redeemed Ranch Camp (318) 470-7917 Heflin, Louisiana redeemedranch.org Varies 8-15 June 10-July 19 $500 Joe Robinson

Riverview Camp for Girls (800) 882-0722 Mentone, Alabama riverviewcamp.org Girls 6-16 May 26-July 27 $2,075-3,850 Susan Hooks

Rockbrook Camp for Girls (828) 884-6151 Brevard, North Carolina rockbrookcamp.com Girls 6-16 June 9-August 15 $3,750-6,350 Jeff and Sarah Carter

Strong Rock Camp (706) 348-1533 Cleveland, Georgia strongrockcamp.com Coed Grades 1-11 June 2-July 26 $850-1,790 James Himstedt

Twin Lakes Summer Camp (601) 845-6858 Florence, Mississippi twinlakescamp.org Coed 6-12 June 3-July 13 $589 Andrew Vincent

Valley View Ranch Equestrian Camp for Girls (706) 862-2231 Cloudland, Georgia valleyviewranch.com Girls 8-17 June 2-July 26 $2,000-3,500 Nancy Jones

YMCA Camp Chandler (334) 538-4658 Wetumpka, Alabama ymcamontgomery.org Coed 5-15 May 26-July 26 $260-1,270 Matt Thomas

YMCA Camp Thunderbird (800) 732-3855 Lake Wylie, South Carolina campthunderbird.org Coed 6-16 June 9-August 10 $1,125-4,060 Brad Rippetoe

52 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 53 LIFE LESSONS LEARNED AT OVERNIGHT CAMP

By Janeen Lewis sk anyone who has ever been to to communicate face-to-face with their And without parents there, children learn overnight camp about his or her peers is important. to pick up after themselves and keep up Aexperience, and you will hear Rosenberg quotes a 2015 Pew with their things. endless tales of comradery, cabin mates, Research Center study that says, “Just 25 Overnight camp can also prepare and campfires. Many times, campers will percent of teens spend time with friends students for independence in their next say overnight camp was the first time in person outside of the school day on a steps in life, like trips abroad and college. they rode a horse, shot a bow and arrow, regular basis.” or flew down a zip line. It’s where they In light of that statistic, overnight How to be a part of community living. learned to make their beds and keep their camp is a good place to get kids to Sometimes it’s hard to live with other belongings tidy in cramped quarters. socialize without technology. “About people, especially if other people drape With the perfect blend of adventure and 90 percent of camps don’t allow kids their clothes over your bed or hog the responsibility, camp life teaches kids to have computers or cell phones,” says shower. And it’s not like kids can escape valuable lessons they can use for the Rosenberg. “In general, camps are an to their own room when they are at rest of their lives. If you send your child oasis for human-powered socialization.” summer camp because everyone bunks to overnight camp, here are some life together in one cabin. But kids can learn lessons they are likely to learn. How to be independent. to work out differences they may have For many children, camp is the first about how they share their living spaces, How to communicate face-to-face. time they are away from parents and the and it’s more fun for campers to do the Tom Rosenberg, President and Chief familiarity of home. cabin chores together than alone. Executive Officer of the American Camp While this may cause some As they grow up, kids have to learn Association, says today’s youth spends so homesickness, it also gives children an to work in groups in their communities, much time on technology that learning opportunity to overcome being homesick. and the cabin atmosphere helps with that. 54 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 How to embrace diversity. Children who go to camp meet other campers from all over the country. They are introduced to kids from different socioeconomic and cultural backgrounds. In a study conducted by Philliber Research Associates and the American Camp Association, 94 percent of campers have said that camp helped them get to know other campers who were different from themselves. Rosenberg adds that this is important for kids in the 21st Century because “making new friends is an essential skill kids are going to need to have.”

How to overcome fears. Going to camp takes kids out of their normal day-to-day settings and gives them a chance to try things they might not try when they are at home. In the Philliber study, 74 percent of the kids surveyed said that at camp, they did things they were afraid to do at first. Children may feel more comfortable taking a risk around new acquaintances than they do under the watchful eye of parents, siblings, or school peers. If they are trying an activity they have never tried before, they may feel encouraged by staff or counselors who are there to support and guide them.

How to become resilient. Camp life doesn’t always go as planned, but through this experience, kids learn to adapt and move with what's happening around them. Camp goers also become more resilient from trying again when they fail, according to Rosenberg. “Part of growing up is learning that you are not always going to be successful. Sometimes, campers fail and counselors help them try again,” says Rosenberg. “Camp is a safe place to make mistakes.” Attending an overnight camp benefits children in many ways. It provides a place for them where they can get out of their daily settings, have new adventures, meet new people, and learn new skills. And, while they are doing all of those things, they will probably learn a few life lessons that will stay with them throughout the rest of their lives. ■ MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 55 Baton Rouge Parents Magazine and Healthy Blue Present

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56 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 are you ready for summer 2019? Parents, mark your calendar!

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MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 57 THEStandardized Tests and StudentsTEST’ Mental Health

By Jannean Dixon, M.Ed. t’s going to be on the test!” How children that high-stakes testing is the “ many times did you hear this phrase most important indicator of academic Iwhen you were in school? The culture achievement. What testing cannot and surrounding testing is emotionally does not measure are skills such as charged for parents, students, teachers, relationship building, communication and administrators. School performance skills, perseverance, and teamwork– scores are a nearly direct reflection of all factors that are valuable skills in students’ standardized test scores. If that successful adulthood. If academic wasn’t enough, the rules surrounding self-efficacy is determined by one score testing keep changing. High stakes; on one test, we are taking the chance not high stakes; alternative of minimizing the importance of testing; are all scores included? traits such as creativity, appreciation And our children, who soak up for human connection, independent our emotions like a tiny sponge, problem solving, and big picture decision hear and feel what we broadcast about making. Are we telling children that the stress of testing, often leading to testing is the only way to achieve them to begin worrying about their own success? When we highlight unique performance in school. strengths, we give kids the opportunity to succeed in their own story, not just the THE STATE OF TESTING one laid out for them.” Surveys suggest that there is an increase of mental health-related THE NEED TO issues among students while SUCCEED they are taking tests. Wanting to excel in school work Teachers have reported that can have an impact on every there’s an increase in fear of failure student. Even when a child and depression due to today’s is doing his absolute best, system of testing. he can still have moments Veteran teacher Layla where he feels his best Dupuy shares, “I have seen their End of Course tests or achieved just isn’t good enough. This can lead to the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of their personal best on the ACT. Logically, a variety of issues for some, including standardized testing. I have experienced I understand the need for standardized anxiety and stress. testing meltdowns with third graders who tests for evaluating student performance. “We took our son to a therapist were confused by spending long periods Where the problem lies is in the emphasis because he was experiencing anxiety of time filling in tiny bubbles. I have we put on these results. How a student tied to math,” recalls mom and teacher comforted eighth graders as they sobbed performs on one test, on one day, should Megan S. “This took shape in the form uncontrollably when they received the not be the sole measure of his or her of tears that would start at the sight of news that they failed the LEAP test, potential for future success.” his math homework. Even after being which meant they also failed the eighth And unfortunately, that is the given a break to play outside, he would grade. I have celebrated with high school current state of testing. Local therapist, still become debilitated at the thought students upon learning that they passed Tara Dixon adds, “We are teaching of working on it. This was despite

58 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 59 tremendous skill level in the subject. He scored in the 98th percentile of his school in math, but nonetheless, felt pressure from his teachers, who would often make whole-class statements meant to encourage everyone to improve. Testing anxiety can happen to students at any and all achievement levels. To him, the MEET motivation was interpreted as added ROWDY: pressure to continue building upon THERAPY DOG already impressive scores.” she says. AT MAYFAIR LAB SCHOOL TESTING EFFECTS “Tests don’t cause anxiety,” shares local therapist Star Marks. “They can make you nervous or worried. The conversation needs to start with this as the baseline: Is your child nervous versus anxious? Another factor to consider is the household level of anxiety surrounding test taking and the pressure that is put Stress and anxiety are School, started bringing her is another earned behavior on the student. Do we have realistic common in a classroom dog, Rowdy, to work with her reward for students. expectations for our children, and are setting, however, for some over the summer of 2018. Mitchell adds, “Because students, stress and anxiety “The ladies in the office of his unique markings and they based on individual strengths can be debilitating. were very supportive. two different colored eyes, vs. universal expectations? A little To combat these feelings, Then, parents and children it also opens the door to nervousness is healthy and pushes us to some schools are utilizing started coming in to test discuss with our students try a bit beyond our comfort levels, but therapy dogs throughout the for admission, and teachers how cool it is that we are all children who have anxiety disorders can school day. From helping were starting to decorate unique. He dresses up for be triggered by testing expectations.” a child relax during a test their rooms and attend holidays and attends some Stress and anxiety can start at an early to comforting a child when professional development assemblies as well. He loves age and can lead to health problems later he’s upset, these therapy on campus. Before you when our custodian, Leah in life. Introducing high levels of stress dogs are trained to assist in knew it, Rowdy had a fan Chase, takes him for walks early in a child’s life could be putting keeping the students calm, base! He was also becoming and lets him play with the him at risk for adulthood depression cool, and collected. acclimated to commuting to children at recess. More than It’s important to note and from school with me and anything, he has simply given and anxiety, obesity, heart disease, that therapy dogs are being in our ‘PAW-FICE.’ I everyone here unconditional increased chance of chronic pain, and different from service dogs. had heard of therapy dogs, love. I even receive messages gastrointestinal problems. Mental health According to the Alliance and decided to do some at night sometimes from therapist Amanda Morris shares, “There’s of Therapy Dogs, “therapy research. After researching, parents, telling me how more pressure than ever on students to dogs’ responsibilities are and discussing the potential much their child loves achieve high test scores, and test anxiety to provide psychological for a therapy dog at Mayfair Rowdy, and how they are is common.” or physiological therapy to with our principal, we thrilled for him to be here.” Testing can exacerbate many individuals other than their created a policy for safety While they are very underlying issues, but testing cannot, handlers. These dogs must and cleanliness guidelines considerate to those who in itself, be the root cause of anxiety have stable temperaments, and decided to give it a shot,” aren’t dog lovers, overall, be people-friendly, and have says Mitchell. Rowdy is warming hearts disorder; autism; eating disorders; ADD; easy-going personalities. As a therapy pup in all around. “If you ask ADHD; ODD; or other behavioral, health, Typically, they visit hospitals, training, Mitchell shares Andra Taplin, our guidance or mental health diagnoses. schools, hospices, and that Rowdy now attends counselor, she would tell you nursing homes. Unlike reading lessons with students she was not keen on the idea, STRESSED STUDENTS service dogs, therapy dogs in classrooms, comforts ill due to a negative experience How can a parent know if his or her child are encouraged to interact or upset children, calms in the past. Now, she will be is experiencing undue stress because with a variety of people anxieties, serves as a the first to tell you that he of testing? Dixon explains, “I always while they are on-duty.” behavior incentive reward for has convinced her that all ask parents to categorize their child’s Jessica Mitchell, Assistant children, and participates in he wants to do is love and be symptoms. You are looking for physical, Principal at Mayfair Lab "Recess with Rowdy," which loved,” Mitchell says.

60 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 61 emotional, and behavioral symptoms. Morris also encourages you to teach When they are present together is when your children mindfulness strategies, you know you’re truly dealing with such as meditation, to help improve focus anxiety. And most of the time, you can and reduce test anxiety and stress. trace them back like dominos. If your child’s school does not have For example: John is presented a a mental health professional on staff, reading passage, and he immediately consult one who is in your community experiences fear of failure (emotional). who specializes in working with children He also begins having racing thoughts and adolescents. and heartbeat (physical), and therefore, begins squirming in his chair excessively ASSESSMENT DATES (behavioral). Because the behavioral Louisiana public schools have begun symptoms are easier to notice, children preparing students for the spring are often scolded for that one symptom. Louisiana Educational Assessment As adults, we tend to focus on the Program (LEAP 2025) and the Louisiana end result of getting the passage read. End-of-Course (EOC) tests. However, in order to decrease the The content of each test is aligned to behavioral component, you must back the standards adopted by the Louisiana up and teach the child to address the first Department of Education and the emotional one.” curriculum taught in each parish. Each test includes multiple choice and open- WHAT YOU CAN DO ended items. Trust your gut, and investigate changes Kindergarten and Grade 1 will take in your child’s behavior. Have daily time English Language Arts (ELA) and together to connect without distractions. mathematics assessments. Students in Morris adds, “Ideally, there should be Grades 2-8 will be tested in the four core mental health screenings on all children subjects: ELA, mathematics, science, and at regular intervals throughout the school social studies. year beginning in Kindergarten, or even Students in Grades 5 and 8 will take PreK, to both identify issues and monitor LEAP 2025. LEAP 2025 covers ELA, them over time. Children don’t yet have math, science (new for this year), and the language to say, ‘I’m anxious,’ or social studies. Some schools have the ‘I’m struggling with depression,’ but option to test students in Grades 3 and 4. their behavior tells the story. Identifying The spring testing dates are from April the signs of emotional distress could be 29-May 3. life-changing for a child or teenager. Students with disabilities may be Untreated emotional problems will eligible to take the LEAP Alternate directly impact a child’s academic Assessment, for Science, in Grades 4, performance and social functioning.” 8, and 11, and LEAP Connect in Grades Tirza Fernandez-Brazier, Director of 3-8, and 11. LEAP Connect is given to Counseling and Guidance of East Baton students through March 15. Rouge Parish School System, adds, "We Students who are in Grades 9-12, must be sure to care for our students. in Louisiana, must take and pass three It is very important to ensure students Louisiana EOC tests. The tests must be in are ‘mentally healthy,’ and that positive English II or III, Algebra I or Geometry, affirmations are being reinforced. and Biology or American History. EOC We must continue to promote tests measure the knowledge and skills a positive self images and cultivate student is expected to have mastered by positive environments. Facilitating the end of a specific high school course. healthy conversations and fostering All students must receive a passing grade healthy relationships, while exhibiting on each test, or they will not be eligible characteristics of care and concern, is to receive a diploma. The spring testing vital to the well-being of the students' dates are from April 15-May 17. ■ mental health.”

62 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 63 PLAY A DAY IN THE LIFE OF DAD

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Just taught my kids about taxes by eating 38 percent of their ice Get in the Game ‘‘ cream.” By Brandon Foreman —Conan O’Brien t’s spring and the plants and grass seem to be coming back to life for another summer, but it’s time we get in the game as well. Too many times, I think we fall into autopilot mode when it comes to running the week. We get up at the same time every day, and I PIC OF THE MONTH we go through the same motions of getting everyone ready and off to school and work. Then, we leave, grab kids and dinner, and toss a shower in there. Then, we do all of it all over again. With my schedule, it is sometimes hard to break the cycle, but recently, we had a change in the matrix. It used to be that Saturday was the day that we got to catch up on sleep, but not anymore. Now, we are a family with two soccer players, and they have games that are every Saturday at 8:30 a.m.—meaning we have to be out of the house for 7:30 a.m., just like every other day of the week. Let me tell you, I was not a fan of this part of the drill, but once I was moving and we got to the field, I was excited to see these little guys running and playing with their friends. They really enjoyed playing, and I enjoyed watching them have fun instead of seeing them sitting in front of a TV. Once the game was over, we headed back to the house to what turned out to be a very productive day. It turned the whole weekend around because I was not rushed on anything. We had plenty of time to get done what we needed, and we even had some time to sit around and do nothing. So, give it a shot and break the normal cycle. Get up early, go for a walk, get ice Anthony G. and his daughters, Madison cream, do anything, just make it a point to do at least one thing every day that is not part and Zoey, enjoy spending the day of your normal routine, and be sure to include the whole family, even if it is kicking a ball reaching new heights. in the yard for a few minutes. Turn off the autopilot routine and get in the game. ■ 64 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 65 PLAY GET OUT OF TOWN LEGOLAND Florida

BEFORE YOU GO Coordinates | 28.0222° N, 81.7329° W THINGS TO DO Baton Rouge to LEGOLAND | 714.7 miles Did you really go to LEGOLAND if you don’t build with LEGOs at least Driving Time | 10 hours, 39 minutes once? Well, now you can at the Building Zone. Your child can let his Flying Time | 4 hours, 15 minutes (BTR - MCO) imagination run wild as he has an endless supply of LEGOs at his fingertips. Why LEGOLAND? | Everything is awesome at LEGOLAND, and now your LEGO lovers will get to really experience what being a part of LEGO Taking on tall roller coasters is an absolute must at LEGOLAND, especially world is all about. This one-of-a-kind resort offers great accommodations since they combined one of them with Virtual Reality (VR). When you and quick access to the LEGOLAND theme park. strap on the VR headset during The Great LEGO Race, you are pulled head first into a race with other LEGO characters. What makes this ride even WHERE TO STAY more mindblowing is that you get to “drive” your own LEGO vehicle, all When staying in LEGOLAND, your family can choose from two while riding on a roller coaster. different hotels:LEGOLAND Hotel and LEGOLAND Beach Retreat. LEGOLAND Hotel is only “130 kid steps from LEGOLAND,” and it has Vacation within your vacation as you visit the LEGO versions of California, four themed rooms for the LEGO lovers to enjoy. The resort also offers Daytona International Speedway, Florida, Kennedy Space Center, character meet and greets and nightly activities for even more LEGO fun Las Vegas, New York, and Washington D.C., without ever leaving after hours. The LEGOLAND Beach Resort offers a “lakeside bungalow” LEGOLAND. All of these places show the highlights of various attractions, environment that will give you just the right amount of relaxation. And, it including the Golden Gate Bridge and the Smithsonian, and these little also provides a complimentary shuttle service to the theme park. spots are a great way to allow your children to learn all about different sights.

WHERE TO EAT Take a ride on the Safari Trek to see all of the different animals Dragon’s Den LEGOLAND has to offer. The safari vehicles allow your children to drive LEGO Kingdom through the park, fueling their sense of adventure. There’s lions and tigers, There’s something that even dad will love at Dragon’s Den. With turkey and bears, oh my! legs, bratwurst sausages, and honey-battered corn dogs, this quick stop is the perfect meal, if you need a quick bite to eat. Experience 4D at the 4D Theatre in Fun Town. This isn’t 3D like you have seen at the theater back home. This is an immersive experience that is Kick’n Chicken Co. sure to keep you on the edge of your seat. See all of your LEGO favorites, LEGO City including LEGO City 4D Officer in Pursuit, The LEGO Movie, and The LEGO For a brick-tastic meal–it’s a good thing, we promise–head on over to Kick’n Ninjago Movie. Chicken Co. Feast on salads, wraps, chicken tenders, and chicken-less chicken (for the vegetarian in the family!). You really can’t go wrong with Climb aboard a mysterious wooden train ride powered by the wizard’s this delicious place to dine, but if you’re wanting to try what everyone raves magic on Merlin’s Challenge. This magical experience is perfect for your about, be sure to order the Cinnamon Waffle & Chicken BLT. smaller riders, and puts them seated comfortably in a train made out of, you guessed, it LEGOs! Pepper & Roni’s Pizza Stop The Beginning If you’re heading to LEGOLAND in the warmer months, then the Build- Sometimes our children want to stick to the basics with food, and A-Raft River is a must on your to-do list. You can build your own raft to use sometimes, that’s plain pizza. Luckily, Pepper & Roni’s is the place to get a to float around the 1,000-foot lazy river. Put your own unique spin on your variety of quick grab-n-go pizzas, including pepperoni, cheese, and veggie. raft, and make it one of the most relaxing parts of your trip. 66 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 67 PLAY THINGS WE L VE

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Stop 2: Sweet Grace Boutique Mommy To compliment her incredible makeover so far, we headed to Sweet Grace Boutique. There, makeover Leslie spoke with Toni Schexnayder Guerin, the After receiving hundreds owner, about wanting to look age appropriate of entries for our Mommy in her clothing choices, while still getting an Makeover, Leslie Leonard update. Together, they decided on this trendy was randomly selected as snakeskin mini dress. And, it was only $42. our winner. And now, Jami Redmond and Katrina Liza, our beauty gurus, are here to share the Mommy Makeover process, and of course, the incredible reveal.

Thank you to Williamson Cosmetic Center, Drybar, Kendra Scott, and Sweet Grace Boutique for helping make this makeover possible.

Stop 1: Williamson Cosmetic Center “During our consultation, Leslie expressed interest in making her look ‘less tired.’ She realized she had loose skin around her eyes and neck, but didn’t want to do surgery yet. She was also concerned with the fine lines on her forehead and around her eyes. I also noted volume loss in her mid face Stop 3: Kendra Scott which contributes to folds and loose skin along the jawline. It was time to accessorize! For the big reveal, Also, her lips had lost volume, and her facial expression Kendra Scott in Perkins Rowe loaned several lines on her forehead and eyes were caused by overactive beautiful pieces that perfectly complemented muscles. Our treatment plan was Botox for the frown lines, Leslie’s outfit. These pieces are: Diane Ear- forehead, and crow’s feet. I recommended Juvederm XC rings in Gold and Ivory Mother of Pearl, Tenley Voluma to the cheeks, Juvederm XC Vollure to the under Bracelet in Gold and Ivory Mother of Pearl, eyes, and Juvederm XC Ultra to re-establish volume and Edie Bracelet in Gold and White Mother of architecture to her lips. My goal was to make her look like Pearl, Uma Bracelet in Gold, Mavis Bracelet in herself, just more rested and youthful.” Gold and Ivory Mother of Pearl, Thin Adjustable —Shelly Esnard, PA-C, Chain in Gold, Mothers and Families Charm in Partner of Williamson Cosmetic Center Gold, and the Reagan Ring in Gold. 70 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 Stop 4: Drybar “Her hair style is the Cosmo, with lots of loose curls! To get the style, Jalysia, her stylist, washed her hair with On the Rocks Clarifying Charcoal Shampoo and Conditioner. She also got a Bay Breeze shot treatment for hydration and nourishment. After the wash, Prep Rally Prime & Prep Detangler was sprayed on the wet hair to protect the hair from heat, along with Southern Belle Volume-Boosting Mousse, and Southern Belle Volume-Boosting Root Lifter. All was completed with Money Maker Flexible Hold Hairspray.” —Sarah Benjamin, Manager of Drybar

The Big Reveal “The entire makeover experience exceeded all of my expectations. I loved all of it. The results made me look and feel great. The day of beauty made me feel like a star. The outdoor photo shoot was fun, and the wind in my hair made for some good shots!” —Leslie Leonard MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 71 your children are likely to be hungry, exhausted, and craving attention, all the while knowing that there’s more work to do when they get home. Taking simple proactive measures such as planning for the family to spend 10 minutes decompressing and THE connecting, without technology, could make a huge difference. Like Valenti, Gresham recommends giving complete WITCHING attention for a few moments so children will have an easier time turning their HOUR attention to homework, helping, or independent play. “Your children are experiencing a similar range of feelings, just as you are, except their cognitive abilities to identify and verbalize their expansive feelings about going home [or going to bed] is limited,” Gresham says. “Make connecting with your children a priority so that they don’t seek out attention in negative ways.”

Utilize Technology While it’s important to plan for time to decompress without technology, it’s By Lindsey Saucier Kayla Valenti, her household witching equally as important to utilize it, if you’re he witching hour is near, and you hour usually takes place between 7 and 8 a parent short on time. can almost feel it. Although, if p.m. with her six-year-old daughter and “Because most parents have busy Tyou are so lucky to not know what three-year-old son. schedules during the week, one stressor the “witching hour” is, you can probably “It is chaotic,” she explains. “The kids that is often brought up is dinner time,” guess. Odds are, it’s happening in your start fighting and crying. It’s almost like Gresham says. “If you know this is a house every day. they have gone mad.” Valenti combats her struggle in the evenings, plan your meals Derived from folklore, the witching witching hour by turning it into a time Sunday evening, use one of the apps to hour is when paranormal activity occurs, of relaxation. She and her children do a order groceries, and pick them up or have and “creatures” are thought to be most variety of low-key activities, including them delivered.” powerful. In modern day households, reading, watching movies, and even it’s the hour after you get home or right sitting together and discussing their days. Practice Self-Care before bed, when those creatures, also “This helps to make the transition Leslie Todd, Licensed Clinical Social known as your children, seem to be to bedtime easier,” she says. “If we’re Worker and Therapist, recommends conducting black magic. The house is a sitting and relaxing, we usually make combatting the witching hour first thing mess, the dishes are overflowing in the it a time where we can cuddle together in the morning. “I ask a lot of my clients sink, homework needs to be completed, and talk about our days or anything they what they had for breakfast, and some the children are arguing, there’s a stack of want. Just spending more time with them, of their nutritional habits aren’t great,” bills on the counter that need to be paid, where they have my complete attention she says. “If you don’t eat until noon, and someone needs to get dinner started. helps out a lot.” it’s tough and can have negative impacts It’s chaos around every corner. Lynn Gresham, Licensed Professional outwardly through your emotions.” Counselor, says it’s important to remain Practicing self-care—whether it’s Decompress and Connect mindful of what each member of the through proper nutrition, exercise Sorcery aside, if you approach this hour family is carrying with them into that or relaxation techniques—is vital to with self-regulation, dominance, and transitional time of day—whether it’s the combatting the witching hour with a calm pre-planned compassion, you just might hour after everyone gets home or the hour and level-headed demeanor. If you aren’t be able to bring your children back to right before bed. If your witching hour sure what helps to give you that extra pep the natural world. For local mom of two, happens when the working day is done, in your step, it’s important to perform 72 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 an assessment of your own self-care to figure it out. “In terms of self-regulation, we need TIPS FOR A SINGLE PARENT OR TRANSITIONAL to take care of ourselves in order to HOUSEHOLD be there for our children,” Todd says. The witching hour may be magnified “There’s no cheating on that. As adults, during a transition from one household we forget that we have already learned to the next, or when a parent is battling coping mechanisms. We all have our own the hour solo. Here are some fast tips to witching hours, but we have developed keep you and your family organized and coping mechanisms to combat it. Kids on track. haven’t yet, so we have to become their • Transitions between households coping mechanisms, depending on how can be dramatic for children. They old they are.” may need down time to themselves before they can re-engage with The age of your child deeply depends the household they’ve come into, on his or her ability to self-regulate. With known as “the receiving household.” very little ones, you, the parent, need to • Don’t start peppering them with provide that outside discipline and make questions about what they did in it a teachable moment so they can begin the previous household. Give them to fully understand self-regulation. a warming up period and know they “When the child is having a fit, we need time to readjust. have to remain calm and provide that • During transitions, children may outside self-regulation so we can help act out or be fussy or defiant, but them learn to regulate themselves,” Todd it is important to remember that says. “This might mean giving them a this is not a reflection of the other parent. It is a reflection of the snack when they’re ‘hangry,’ insisting on child’s emotional nature. a nap, or telling them to go to their room. • Children don’t have the ability to We have to provide that for them and in self-regulate yet. Turn the “witching turn, stay calm ourselves.” hour” into a teachable moment of Thankfully, with teenagers, self- self-regulation whenever possible. regulation mechanisms have, or are • Gresham recommends utilizing beginning to, fully develop. technology. “Use an organization In turn, conversations can be held system. They make the framework that might provide valuable feedback. of the day visible, while providing “You can tell a teenager ‘Look, I don’t reassurance, a sense of control, and individual responsibility,” she says. need this right now,’ but you can’t tell • Take advantage of grocery delivery that to a four year old,” Todd says. “To services, meal kits, and other apps that end, your teenager may be able to that can help make parenting tell you they need time when they get life easier. It’s not a cop-out or home to relax in their room. They may be laziness—it’s productive. right. You can get some buy in from other • Encourage older sibling assistance. household members, simply by having If one child is old enough, rely on the discussion.” them to self-regulate themselves, Gresham says if it comes to your then get their help with the dishes, sanity or theirs, remind yourself that the laundry, supper, and even teaching witching hour is temporary. “The meme their little brothers’ or sisters’ self- regulation techniques. you see of someone’s phone with the • Create a routine. “Routines are alarm clock time set every few minutes important because they set the could’ve been taken directly from my standard and decrease anxieties personal phone,” she says. “However, of each day. In turn, individual it’s important that we remind ourselves stress is decreased and the value that while we’re tired and wanting some of the family working together is ‘peace of time’ as my son calls it, each reinforced,” says Gresham. day is not a means to an end. We signed up for this full life that is just that—full of life.” ■ MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 73 IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR

March WEARIN’ OF THE GREEN PARADE Celebrate St. Patrick’s Day by having a fun, family day at the Wearin’ of the Green Parade. The parade starts at the corner of Hun- dred Oaks and S. Acadian Thruway by the Catholic Life Center at 10 a.m. on Saturday, March 16. Proceeded by the Shamrock Run 5K that starts and ends at Moreau Physical Therapy on Perkins Road at 8 a.m. Cost for the run is $25. ■ wearinofthegreen.com 1 FRIDAY 1970 performance in front SENSORY SENSITIVITY for kids, King Cakes, a BATON ROUGE ARTS BOOK BABIES. Wat- of over 300,000 US fans. TIME. EBR Main Library photo area, and a special MARKET. Farmers Market son Library at 10:30 a.m. Unrated film. Tickets are from 8:30-11:30 a.m. with appearance by Sparkles the downtown from 8 a.m.- Activity for infants through $9.50. manshiptheatre.org a special storytime at 9:30 Clown. Tickets are $10-20. noon. Features special art age five with stories, music, KREWE OF SOUTH- a.m. Flashing overhead louisianastatemuseum.org activities for kids. artsbr.org and games. DOWNS FLAMBEAUX and side lights will be STORIES IN ART. LSU BATON ROUGE (225) 664-3963 PARADE: SCIENCE turned off, and patrons can Museum of Art at 10:30 MARDI GRAS FESTIVAL. DISNEY’S MULAN, JR. FICTION. Southdowns leave a library card at the a.m. Free program for North Boulevard Lawn LSU Shaver Theatre at subdivision at 7 p.m. Children’s desk to receive children from birth to Stage from 10 a.m.-7 p.m. 7 p.m. Take a mystical southdowns.org noise cancelling head- preschool and their care- Free festival with music, art, journey to ancient China PONCHATOULA phones, sunglasses, and givers. Enjoy a book and art Mardi Gras Indians, and in this action-packed stage ANTIQUE TRADE DAYS. fidget items. Registration project designed to make food and drink. Lawn chairs adaptation of Disney’s Downtown Ponchatoula required. (225) 231-3750 families comfortable ex- encouraged. batonrouge- animated film. Perfor- from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. through SOUTHEAST HIGH ploring in a museum setting. mardigrasfestival.com mance by Christian Youth March 3. Outdoor festival, SCHOOL RODEO. (225) 389-7207 CASA ORIENTATION. Theater. Tickets run $16-22. featuring antique and Lamar Dixon Expo Center TIGERS FOR AUTISM CASA office at 10 a.m. cytbatonrouge.org collectible vendors, arts at 7 p.m. Features young AWARENESS FRIDAY Capital Area Court Ap- FAMILY DINNER IM- and crafts, food, a petting cowboys and cowgirls NIGHT OUT. LSU Wom- pointed Special Advocate PROV SHOW. Manship zoo, and family activities. from across the state, with en’s Center from 6-9 p.m. (CASA) Association holds Theatre at 7:30 p.m. From ponchatoulachamber.com door prizes, auction items, Gathering between LSU orientation for interested the folks who brought you PORT VISIT OF NAO vendor booths, and conces- students and teens with volunteers. Registration Spoof Night! with Films at SANTA MARIA. USS sions. Admission is $10 for special needs. Registration required. casabr.org Manship comes a locally KIDD Veterans Mu- ages six and up. required. fhfgbr.org CELTIC KNOT made, comedy show. Ages seum from 10 a.m.-6 p.m. tourascension.com NECKLACES AND 17 and older. Tickets are $6. Includes a guided tour SPANISH TOWN 2 SATURDAY LEPRECHAUN CUBEES. manshiptheatre.org through the five decks of PARADE PARTY. Capitol Pride-Chaneyville Library JIMI HENDRIX: ELEC- the Santa María, where Park Museum from 10 A WALK IN THE PARK. at 3 p.m. Teens can make TRIC CHURCH. Man- you can find informative a.m.-2 p.m. Tickets include Parker Park, St. Francisville, a fun craft for St. Patrick’s ship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. panels on the ship and talk viewing of the parade, food from 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Arts Day. (225) 658-1550 Documentary about Jimi with the crew. Tickets run and beverage, a cash bar, and crafts fair with 60 DISNEY’S MULAN, JR. Hendrix’s historic July 4, $5-10. facebook.com Mardi Gras mask making facebook.com LSU Shaver Theatre at 74 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. Take a mar Dixon Expo Center at from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Out- MOMMY AND ME. special parade at 4:45 p.m. mystical journey to ancient 10 a.m. and 7 p.m. Features door festival, featuring Baton Rouge General Regular admission applies. China in this action- young cowboys and cow- antique and collectible Hospital, Bluebonnet, from knockknockmuseum.org packed stage adaptation of girls from across the state, vendors, arts and crafts, 11 a.m.-noon. A continued MARDI GRAS PA- Disney’s animated film by with door prizes, auction food, a free petting zoo, breastfeeding support and RADES. Throughout Loui- Christian Youth Theater. items, vendor booths, and and family activities. education group designed siana and the Gulf Coast. Tickets run $16-22. concessions. Admission ponchatoulachamber.com to help mothers and babies louisianatravel.com cytbatonrouge.org is $10 for ages six and up. PORT VISIT OF NAO learn about successes and FIRST SATURDAY OF tourascension.com SANTA MARIA. USS challenges with breastfeed- 6 WEDNESDAY THE MONTH HIKE. Port SPRING FISHING KIDD Veterans Mu- ing. Free. brgeneral.org Hudson State Historic CLASSIC. Cabela’s, Gon- seum from 10 a.m.-6 p.m. PARENTS NIGHT OUT ASH WEDNESDAY Site at 10 a.m. Join a park zales, at noon. Includes free Includes a guided tour FOR SPECIAL NEEDS ranger on a guided hike of Catch and Release pond, through the five decks of REGISTRATION DEAD- I CARE LIVE. Webinar se- the battlefield area known photo download, craft, bait the Santa María, where LINE. St. Jean Vianney ries at noon by the I CARE as Artillery Ridge. bean bag toss, a Woman’s you can find informative Church on March 8 from program with various guest (888) 677-3400 Fishing Workshop at 1:30 panels on the ship and talk 6:30-9 p.m. for children speakers who promote KREWE OF TICKFAW p.m., and a Kids’ Fishing with the crew. Tickets run with special needs ages personal safety, drug MARDI GRAS BOAT Workshop at 2:30 p.m. $5-10. facebook.com 2-12 and their siblings. prevention, and self-help PARADE. Tickfaw River, cabelas.com SENSORY SENSITIVE Registration requested. educational resources. Springfield, at 2 p.m. An- SWAMP BIRD WALK. SUNDAY. Chuck E. $5 donation requested. icare.ebrschools.org nual boat parade. BREC’s Bluebonnet Cheese’s at 9 a.m. Opens parentsnightout@ facebook.com Swamp from 7-9 a.m. Hike two hours early on the first stjeanvianney.org 7 THURSDAY LAMAZE: LABOR OF led by a volunteer of the Sunday of the month with SAFE SITTER COURSE. LOVE. Woman’s Hospital Baton Rouge Audubon reduced lighting and games Woman’s Hospital from 9 BODY BASICS FOR from 8 a.m.-5 p.m. for Society. General admission. for children with autism a.m.-3:30 p.m. Sitter can GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital couples wanting to learn (225) 757-8905 and other special needs. learn safety skills, first aid from 6:30-8 p.m. Preteen how Lamaze techniques as- THE KILTED MAN. EBR chuckecheese.com and rescue skills, life and girls ages 9-12 will learn sist in labor and birth. Plan Main Library at 10:30 a.m. SOUTHEAST HIGH business skills, and child how their bodies grow, to take this class during the and Carver Library at 3 SCHOOL RODEO. care skills. Registration what changes to expect last 8-10 weeks of preg- p.m. Matthew Gurnsey Lamar Dixon Expo Center required. (225) 231-5475 during puberty, and how nancy and after attending performs a free concert at 10 a.m. Features young THE HOUND OF THE to take care of themselves. the Special Delivery class. combining traditional Irish cowboys and cowgirls BASKERVILLES MYS- Cost is $15. Registration Registration required. and Scottish music. from across the state, with TERY ADVENTURE. required. (225) 231-5475 womans.org ebrpl.com door prizes, auction items, Delmont Gardens Library CASA ORIENTATION. NATIONAL READ vendor booths, and conces- at 4 p.m. Teens can go on CASA office at noon. ACROSS AMERICA 3 SUNDAY sions. Admission is $10 for an adventure as DAY. Also known at Dr. ages six and up. part of the Seuss Day. Events are held DISNEY’S MULAN, JR. tourascension.com spring One across the U.S. nea.org LSU Shaver Theatre at SPRING FISHING Book One PONCHATOULA 3 p.m. Take a mystical CLASSIC. Cabela’s, Gon- Community ANTIQUE TRADE DAYS. journey to ancient China zales, at noon. Includes free celebration. Downtown Ponchatoula in this action-packed stage Catch and Release pond, (225) from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Out- adaptation of Disney’s photo download, craft, and 354-7050 door festival, featuring animated film by Christian bait bean bag toss. antique and collectible Youth Theater. Tickets run cabelas.com 5 TUESDAY vendors, arts and crafts, $16-22. cytbatonrouge.org THE KILTED MAN. food, a petting zoo, and FREE FIRST SUNDAY. Jones Creek Library at 3 MARDI GRAS family activities. Free admission to the LSU p.m. Matthew Gurnsey ponchatoulachamber.com Museum of Art, LASM, performs a free concert GEAUX FISH PORT VISIT OF NAO the Old State Capitol, combining traditional Irish CATFISH RODEO. SANTA MARIA. USS USS Kidd, Capitol Park and Scottish music. BREC’s Zachary Com- KIDD Veterans Mu- Museum, and BREC’s ebrpl.com munity Park from 8-11:30 seum from 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Magnolia Mound Planta- a.m. The pond will be Includes a guided tour tion. visitbatonrouge.com 4 MONDAY stocked with adult channel Capital through the five decks of KREWE OF COMOGO catfish to be caught. Regis- Area the Santa María, where PARADE. Highway 1, LINE 4 LINE. O’Neils tration required. Court you can find informative South Plaquemine, at 7 Barber and Beauty Salon. brec.org Appointed panels on the ship and talk p.m. The westside’s only Free haircuts once a month HOPE CHESTS BREAST Special Advocate (CASA) with the crew. Tickets run nighttime parade with to boys ages 2-16 who read CANCER SUPPORT Association holds orienta- $5-10. facebook.com throws and street parties. to the barbers. Free food. GROUP. Ochsner Hospi- tion. Registration required. READ ACROSS AMERI- kreweofcomogo.org (225) 389-7207 tal from 6-7 p.m. Monthly casabr.org CA: Dr. SEUSS’S BIRTH- KREWE OF GOOD MARDI GRAS AT THE support group with speak- FORUM 35’S HOLMES DAY. Jones Creek Library FRIENDS PARADE: MUSEUM. Knock Knock ers and light refreshments. TRIVIA NIGHT. at 2:30 p.m. Children LOUISIANA FESTI- Children’s Museum. Mardi ochsner.org Londoner Restaurant ages five to eight will listen VALS. Port Allen at 1 p.m. Gras-themed activities, MARDI GRAS AT THE from 5:30-7:30 p.m. As to The Cat in The Hat and kreweofgoodfriends including King Cake deco- MUSEUM. Knock Knock part of the One Book make a craft. Registration oftheoaks.com rating, bead murals, and a Children’s Museum. Mardi One Community celebra- required. (225) 756-1160 PONCHATOULA special parade at 4:45 p.m. Gras-themed activities tion, adults are invited SOUTHEAST HIGH ANTIQUE TRADE DAYS. Regular admission applies. including King Cake deco- for a fun night. SCHOOL RODEO. La- Downtown Ponchatoula knockknockmuseum.org rating, bead murals, and a forum35.org MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 75 IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR SOUTH LOUISIANA community who have been SINGO 2019. LSU Union 9 SATURDAY AND SEAFOOD FAMILY FESTIVAL. the first in their industries. Theater at 7:30 p.m. Free FESTIVAL. Gonzales Civic Lamar Dixon Expo Center Tickets are $25. performance by the Musi- BATON ROUGE Center through March through March 9. Includes eventbrite.com cal Theatre Club of LSU. SPRING GARDEN 10. Includes live music, a rodeo, craft fair, car show, LAGNIAPPE MUSIC facebook.com SHOW. LSU John M. food court, arts and crafts, color run, AG farm, fair, AND SEAFOOD FES- SOUTH LOUISIANA Parker Coliseum from 9 carnival games and rides, food, and music. Rodeo TIVAL. Gonzales Civic FAMILY FESTIVAL. a.m.-4 p.m. with a Chili car show, silent auction, tickets are $10. Center through March Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Cook-off from 10:30 a.m.- and gumbo cookoff. lafamilyfestival.com 10. Includes live music, Gonzales, through March 9. 4 p.m. Features vendors, Benefits Stand for Autism TEEN ADVISORY food court, arts and crafts, Families can enjoy a rodeo, information booths, plant LA. standforautismla.org BOARD. Watson Library carnival games and rides, craft fair, car show, color health clinic, and children’s MERCYME’S 2019 at 5:30 p.m. Teens can car show, silent auction and run, AG farm, fair, food, activities. Admission is $5 IMAGINATION NATION suggest programs, vol- gumbo cookoff. and music. Rodeo tickets for ages 12+. TOUR. Raising Cane’s unteer, and help patrons standforautismla.org are $10. (225) 578-1813 River Center at 7 p.m. choose books. LEPRECHAUN GAME lafamilyfestival.com BREASTFEEDING Multi-platinum selling band (225) 686-4180 NIGHT. BREC’s Zachary THE EDGE OF NIGHT. BASICS. Woman’s Hos- With Crowder and Micah Community Park from BREC’s Highland Road pital today from 1:30-5 Tyler. Tickets run $25-78. 8 FRIDAY 6-8 p.m. All ages can test Observatory from 5:30- p.m. Learn the benefits raisingcanesrivercenter.com their luck in a night of fun. 7:30 p.m. This will be of breastfeeding, how to MID CITY MAKERS BREASTFEEDING SUP- brec.org the winter session of the prepare for breastfeeding, MARKET. 541 South PORT GROUP. Woman’s LOVE, LOSS, AND WHAT introduction of twilight. how to get the baby on Eugene Street from 4-8 Hospital from 9:30-11 I WORE. Brew Ha-Ha (225) 768-9948 the breast properly, the p.m. Includes makers’ a.m. Learn from a certified at 7 p.m. Performance TRASH AND TREASURE father’s role, and how to booths, food, kids’ area, lactation nurse and other by Red Magnolia Theatre, SALE. Old Mervyn’s in avoid common problems. and music. moms about their own suc- celebrating International Cortana Mall from 7:30 Cost is $35. Registration midcitymakers.market cesses and challenges with Women’s Day. Reading of a.m.-3 p.m. All items will required. (225) 231-5475 MODEL TRAINS. breastfeeding. Free. Nora and Delia Ephron’s be 50 percent off. This CHILDBIRTH CLASS. Republic of West Florida (225) 231-5475 monologues and ensemble is the annual sale by the Ochsner Medical Center Historical Museum, HIGH VOLTAGE CON- pieces. redmagnoliatc.org Inner Wheel Club of from 8 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Jackson, from 11 a.m.-3 CERT. LSU Digital Media PJ MASKS LIVE! SAVE Baton Rouge. Proceeds will Free class covers pregnan- p.m. Free indoor and Center Theatre at 7:30 THE DAY. Raising Cane’s benefit various charities. cy, pain theories, pre-labor outdoor model train p.m. An eclectic concert River Center at 6 p.m. All innerwheelbr.org signs, postpartum/newborn displays by the Greater of trans-media works, in- new super-heroic live musi- WIGGLE WORMS. procedures and basic Baton Rouge Model terweaving live performers, cal show. Denham Springs-Walker breastfeeding. Registration Railroaders. acoustic instruments, and raisingcanesrivercenter.com Library at 10:30 a.m. required. (225) 755-4854 (225) 634-3473 technology. Free. SAFE SITTER COURSE. Children up to age five and EXTREME COLOR READ ACROSS THE cmda.lsu.edu Woman’s Hospital from their caregivers can par- RUN. Lamar Dixon Expo MUSEUM. Louisiana INTERNATIONAL 9 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Sitters ticipate in music and dance Center at 10 a.m. Part of Children’s Museum, New WOMEN’S DAY CEL- learn safety, first aid, res- activities that help enhance the South Louisiana Fam- Orleans, from 11 a.m.-3 EBRATION. Perkins Rowe cue, life, business, and child lifelong learning and neural ily Festival. Cost is $25. p.m. Includes storytelling, from 6-9 p.m. The celebra- care skills. Registration development. extremecolorrun.com reading, sharing, theater, tion honors women in the required. (225) 231-5475 (225) 686-4140 LAGNIAPPE MUSIC and language development lessons. lcm.org READER’S THEATRE SERIES AUDITIONS. LSU Women’s Center from 3-6 p.m. Red Magnolia Theatre needs women for 9 12 Angry Men Performed by 12 Impassioned Women and men and women for Motherhood Out Loud. redmagnoliatc.org ROCKIN’ AT THE SWAMP. BREC’s Bluebonnet Swamp from 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Features a rockhound market, a treasure trail, gold mine, craft corner, fossil quarry, and rock and gemstone activities. Admission is $4- 5. (225) 757-8905 SLEEPY SLOTHS. Jones Creek Library at 2:30 p.m. Children ages three to six OUR LADY OF THE LAKE CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL AMAZING HALF MARATHON AND 5K RACE. North will listen to Score One for Boulevard Town Square with the Half Marathon and 5K at 7 a.m. and a Kids’ mini-marathon and fun run at 7:30 a.m., the Sloths and make a cute followed by the Finish Festival. ■ amazinghalf.com sloth picture. Registration required. (225) 756-1160 76 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE SOUTH LOUISIANA by a tasting. Mingle with FAMILY FESTIVAL. costumed steampunk Lamar Dixon Expo Center. enthusiasts. You can dress Includes a rodeo, craft fair, in costume. ebrpl.com car show, color run, AG farm, fair, food, and music. 10 SUNDAY Rodeo tickets are $10. lafamilyfestival.com DAYLIGHT SAVINGS SPECIAL SATURDAYS: TIME BEGINS SURVIVING EXTREME DARKNESS. LSU A TASTE OF ENGLISH Museum of Natural TEA. Jones Creek Library Science, Foster Hall, from at 3:30 p.m. An after- 10-11 a.m. with the exhibit noon of tea-tasting and area open from 11 a.m.- tea customs, including noon. A STEM program, Sherlock Holmes’s favorite featuring a short engaging tea. Bring your favorite tea

WEEKLY EVENTS WEEKLY talk accompanied by cup. Registration required. hands-on activities. Free. (225) 756-1150 AIRLINE HIGHWAY. LSU Reilly Theatre from March 21-31. In the parking lot of Registration required. BATON ROUGE the Hummingbird Motel, the hotel’s residents have gathered to celebrate the life lsu.edu SPRING GARDEN of Miss Ruby, an iconic burlesque queen. Tickets run $17-32. ■ cmda.lsu.edu ST. PATRICK’S DAY SHOW. LSU John M. SHAMROCK STORY/ Parker Coliseum from 9 BASF KIDS’ LAB. LASM on the second and fourth Saturdays at 11 a.m., 1 p.m., CRAFT. Greenwell a.m.-4 p.m. with a Chili and 3 p.m., and Sundays at 1:30 p.m. and 3 p.m. Explore the world of chemistry in Springs Library at 2:30 Cook-off from 10:30 a.m.- hands-on workshops for children ages 6-12 and their parents or caregivers. p.m. Children ages three 4 p.m. Includes vendors, ■ [email protected] to six can listen to The information booths, a plant Luckiest St. Patrick’s Day health clinic, and children’s CAJUN CLASSIC WHEELCHAIR TENNIS TOURNAMENT. Paula G. Man- Ever and make a shamrock activities. Admission is $5 ship YMCA from March 19-24. Annual international wheelchair tennis tourna- craft using crepe paper. for ages 12+. ment. See athletes from around the world compete. ■ brwta.org Registration required. (225) 578-1813 (225) 274-4450 CAT VIDEO FEST. Man- ELIZABETH CREE. LSU Shaver Theatre from March 21-24. This suspenseful and STORY TIME IN THE ship Theatre at 2 p.m. theatrical opera interweaves the trial of Elizabeth Cree, a series of brutal murders, GARDEN. Burden Center, Along with the videos, and the spirited world of the English music hall. Tickets run $17-32. every half hour from visit with people from Cat ■ cmda.lsu.edu 9 a.m.-noon. Includes Haven and meet some cats storybook readings and looking for homes. A por- FREE FRIDAY NIGHTS. LSU Museum of Art on Fridays from 5-8 p.m. Free imagination-themed tion of each movie ticket admission to the museum. ■ lsumoa.org activities. Ages three to sale will be donated to Cat eight. Free. lsu.edu Haven. manshiptheatre.org LOUISIANA SPORTSMAN SHOW & FESTIVAL. Lamar Dixon Expo Center TODDLER FUN DAY. CLAIRE CARTER, BONE from March 14-17. Louisiana’s premier outdoor show will feature boats, fishing and Donaldsonville and DETECTIVE. EBR Main hunting equipment, ATVs, tractors and lawn equipment, and activities. Dutchtown Libraries Library at 3 p.m. As part of ■ louisianasportsmanshow.com from 9-11 a.m. Paint with the One Book One Com- tempera paint sticks, play munity celebration, author MISS TRUDY’S TRAVELING TRUNK SHOW. LASM on Saturdays at 11 a.m. with bingo marker art, Mary Manhein will discuss Sing, dance, and share stories in this interactive program that explores the art and pretend to be a doctor, her first children’s book. science of the seasons. Regular admission applies. ■ lasm.org build with blocks, and A Q&A will follow the dance to music. myapl.org presentation. ebrpl.com NO GLASS SLIPPERS PROM GIVEAWAY DRESS AND SHOE DONA- TRASH AND TREASURE LAGNIAPPE MUSIC TIONS. Drop off at all Capital Area YMCAs from March 1-15. Prom Giveaway will SALE. Old Mervyn’s in AND SEAFOOD FES- be held on March 24. ■ noglassslippers.com Cortana Mall from 9 a.m.- TIVAL. Gonzales Civic 3 p.m. All items will be 50 Center. Includes live music, PLANETARIUM FAMILY HOUR AND STARGAZING. LASM on Saturdays at percent off. Annual sale by food court, arts and crafts, 10 a.m. Gather around the campfire to learn about stars and constellations in the the Inner Wheel Club of carnival games and rides, local nighttime sky before enjoying a planetarium show. ■ lasm.org Baton Rouge, benefitting car show, silent auction, various charities. Free and gumbo cookoff. ROCK ‘N ROWE. Perkins Rowe on Thursdays from March 14-May 9 from 6-9 admission. standforautismla.org p.m. Free concert. Lawn chairs are welcome. ■ perkinsrowe.com innerwheelbr.org READER’S THEATRE VICTORIAN SERIES AUDITIONS. SCIENCE ACADEMY. BREC’s Highland Road Park Observatory on Saturdays STEAMPUNK TEA. LSU Women’s Center from from 10 a.m.-noon for children ages 8-12. Cost is $5-6. ■ hrpo.lsu.edu EBR Main Library at 2 3-6 p.m. Red Magnolia p.m. Women are invited Theatre needs women for THE 25TH ANNUAL PUTNAM COUNTY SPELLING BEE. Theatre Baton Rouge to a special tea as part 12 Angry Men Performed from March 8-24. An eclectic group of six vie for the spelling championship of a of the One Book One by 12 Impassioned Women lifetime. Rated PG. Tickets run $19-30. ■ theatrebr.org Community celebration and men and women for of The Hound of the Motherhood Out Loud. Baskervilles. Red Stick redmagnoliatc.org Spice Co. will lead a Tea SENSORY FRIENDLY 101 presentation, followed SUNDAY: DR. SEUSS’S MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 77 IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR OH THE PLACES YOU’LL (225) 686-4140 Union Theater at 7:30 p.m. Denham Springs-Walker avoid common problems. GO. Louisiana Children’s THE COMPOSER FORUM Tickets run $11-18. Library at 5 p.m. Open Registration required. Museum, New Orleans, SERIES: MUSICAL POT- cmda.lsu.edu to ages 12-18, members (225) 231-5475 from 10:30 a.m.-noon. POURRI 2. LSU School PARENTS/CAREGIV- practice writing in many CASA ORIENTATION. Families with children of Music Recital Hall at ERS NETWORKING different styles and genres CASA office at 5 p.m. with disabilities or sensory 7:30 p.m. Performance by MEETING. Conference to fine-tune skills and chal- Capital Area Court Ap- processing differences can the Louisiana Sinfonietta. call at noon, sponsored by lenge themselves. pointed Special Advocate explore the museum in a Tickets are $25. the Louisiana Department (225) 686-4140 (CASA) Association holds comfortable and accepting louisianasinfonietta.org of Health and Families ZOO AND ME MORN- orientation. Registration setting. Pre-registration Helping Families of Greater ING: DOWN ON THE required. casabr.org required. 12 TUESDAY Baton Rouge. For parents FARM. BREC’s Baton GROCERY STORE [email protected] of children with behavioral Rouge Zoo from 9:30- TOUR. Rouses Market, TRASH AND TREASURE BREASTFEEDING issues who need informa- 11:30 a.m. Children’s Bluebonnet, from 10-11 SALE. Old Mervyn’s in BASICS. Woman’s tion and support. Access program for ages three to a.m. Join Baton Rouge Cortana Mall from 11 a.m.- Hospital from 6:30-8:30 number is 546755#. six. Cost is $18-30. Regis- General’s dietitians for a 4 p.m. All items will be 50 p.m. Learn the benefits (641) 715-3273 tration required. grocery tour to learn how percent off. Annual sale by of breastfeeding, how to PREPARING FOR (225) 775-3877 to choose fresh and healthy the Inner Wheel Club of prepare for breastfeeding, DELIVERY. Woman’s foods and how to under- Baton Rouge, benefitting how to get the baby on Hospital. Two-day class 13 WEDNESDAY stand confusing nutrition various charities. Free ad- the breast properly, the today and March 13 from labels. Free. Space is lim- mission. innerwheelbr.org father’s role, and how to 6:30-8:30 p.m. Learn ited. Registration required. avoid common problems. basic information so you brgeneral.org 11 MONDAY Registration required. can recognize signs of labor MADEA’S FAREWELL (225) 231-5475 and practice comfort mea- TOUR. Raising Cane’s CASA ORIENTATION. FLAMINGOS STORY/ sures. Registration required. River Center at 7 p.m. Ty- CASA office at 6 p.m. CRAFT. Carver Library at (225) 231-5475 ler Perry brings his beloved Capital Area Court Ap- 4:30 p.m. Children ages SWAMP SCHOOL. characters to venues across pointed Special Advocate 9-11 can listen to Flamingos BREC’s Bluebonnet the United States. raising- (CASA) Association holds and make a pink flamingo Swamp from 2-4 p.m. Fea- HAPPY BIRTHDAY canesrivercenter.com orientation. Registration craft using construction tures different themes for Solei L. PREPARING FOR required. casabr.org paper. Registration re- children ages 6-10 and an DELIVERY. Woman’s LSU TIGER GLEE CLUB quired. (225) 389-7450 adult. This picks up where 2018-19 Cover Kid Hospital. Last of a two day AND WOMEN’S CHO- GARDENING IN Trail Time for Toddlers 9 years old class from 6:30-8:30 p.m. RALE. St. Alban’s Chapel ASCENSION PARISH. leaves off. Registration Learn basic information so at 7:30 p.m. Free concert. Galvez Library at 6:30 p.m. required. brec.org BREASTFEEDING you can recognize signs of cmda.lsu.edu The Ascension Parish Mas- THRIVING WITH BASICS. Woman’s labor and practice comfort MICROSOFT EXCEL ter Gardeners Association DIABETES: BLOOD Hospital. Last of a two-day measures. Registration BASICS. Denham Springs- will present the topic of GLUCOSE MONITOR- class from 6:30-8:30 required. (225) 231-5475 Walker Library at 6:30 “Twelve Essential Garden ING 101. St. Elizabeth p.m. Learn the benefits TOUR FOR TWO (OR p.m. Students ages 12+ will Hand Tools for Home Hospital, Gonzales, from of breastfeeding, how to MORE). Baton Rouge learn the basic features of Gardeners.” Registration 6-7 p.m. Free workshop. prepare for breastfeeding, General Hospital, Bluebon- Excel, along with entering, required. (225) 622-3339 Registration preferred. how to get the baby on net, from 6-7 p.m. Free sorting, and computing LSU SYMPHONIC BAND (225) 621-2906 the breast properly, the tour of the Birth Center. data. Registration required. CONCERT. LSU Student YOUNG WRITERS CLUB. father’s role, and how to brgeneral.org 14 THURSDAY NATIONAL PI DAY

BABY FOOD BASICS. Baton Rouge General, Bluebonnet, from 6:15- 7:30 p.m. A class for parents preparing to introduce their infants to solid foods. brgeneral.org BODY BASICS FOR BOYS. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Preteen boys ages 10-13 and their dads/moms will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. 12 Cost is $15. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 HYPE ON THE MOVE. North Boulevard Town Square from 6-7 p.m. Free family-friendly yoga class sponsored by JEOPARDY @ THE HypeBR. ■ [email protected] LIBRARY. Jones Creek Library at 7 p.m. Adults 78 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE can play Jeopardy in teams requested. lsu.edu EXPRESS. Woman’s navy assault and the de- and Mega Bloks will be pro- to test their knowledge of SIPS AND SUDS AT Hospital from 11:30 a.m.- struction of the USS Mis- vided. (225) 673-8699 Sherlock Holmes and the THE STABLES. Live Oak 1:30 p.m. Small group class sissippi. (888) 677-3400 AUDUBON PILGRIM- United Kingdom to win Arabians from 6-9:30 for women only. Recom- JAMBALAYA CUP. Cajun AGE. Felicianas through prizes. (225) 756-1170 p.m. Fundraiser benefiting mended as a refresher class Industries Soccer Complex, March 17, with historic LULU AND BEAN STO- McMains Children’s Devel- or for women who prefer Gonzales, through March home and garden tours, RYTIME. Lulu and Bean opmental Center. Includes a fast-paced class. Cost is 17. Tournament open to all costumed re-enactors, liv- at 9:30 a.m. Babies and food, drinks, live music, $20. (225) 231-5475 competitive and recre- ing history demonstrations, toddlers up to age three live and silent auctions, a CHRIS BOTTI. Raising ational teams. Also features and period music and danc- can enjoy 20-30 minutes wine pull, and whiskey toss. Cane’s River Center at 8 an Academy Festival for all ing. (888) 677-2838 of free interactive fun with facebook.com p.m. Great Performers in 9U and 10U teams. BIG BIRD’S BIRTHDAY a storyteller. THE UNITED STATES Concert Series with the soccer.sincsports.com BASH. LASM from 10 luluandbeanbr.com NAVY BAND SEA Baton Rouge Symphony LEPRECHAUN GAME a.m.-5 p.m. Learn about LUNCHTIME LECTURE: CHANTERS. University Orchestra. brso.org NIGHT. BREC’s Perkins astronomy with Big Bird HOW TO WEED YOUR Baptist Church at 7 p.m. DENIM AND DIA- Road Park from 6-8 p.m. and Friends. Enjoy a day ATTIC. West Baton Rouge Free performance of a vari- MONDS: JDRF IMAG- All ages can test their luck of stargazing, hands-on Museum, Port Allen, at ety of music, ranging from INE GALA. L’Auberge in a night of fun. brec.org astronomy activities, and noon. Dr. Elizabeth Dow traditional choral music Casino and Hotel at 6:30 SUNSHINE SOCIAL: special planetarium show- lectures on deciding what and opera to Broadway and p.m. Includes cocktails, SHAMROCK SHUFFLE. ings. lasm.org to keep, discard, and how contemporary. food, live and silent auc- BREC’s Womack Ballroom BREASTFEEDING to determine what has facebook.com tions, a special Fund A from 6-9 p.m. Dance for BASICS. Ochsner Medical historic significance. Cure segment, and live ages 16 and up, with special Center from 9 a.m.- westbatonrougemuseum.com 15 FRIDAY entertainment. needs and their friends noon. Learn the essential NIGHT AT THE MUSE- jdrf-louisiana.ejoinme.org and families. Wear green. information needed to UM: FISH. LSU Museum AUDUBON PILGRIM- GHOST SHIPS ON THE Suggested donation is $5. breastfeed successfully. of Natural Science from AGE. Felicianas through RIVER. Port Hudson State (225) 216-7474 Free. (225) 755-4854 6-7:30 p.m. Scientists will March 17, with historic Historic Site, Jackson, at BULLS, BANDS AND give talks about their rehome and garden tours, 6:30 p.m. Includes a walk 16 SATURDAY BARRELS. Lamar Dixon search and then take guests costumed re-enactors, liv- to Fort Desperate, stories Expo Center at 7 p.m. on a behind the scenes ing history demonstrations, of bizarre and ghostly ASCENSION LEGO Features Frank Foster tour of their focus collec- and period music and danc- battles, a nighttime firing CLUB. Dutchtown Library with Chase Tyler. Special tion. Light refreshments ing. (888) 677-2838 of the 42-pounder cannon, at 10:30 a.m. for all ages. appearance by Chris Shiv- served. Free. Reservations BREASTFEEDING and a reenactment of the LEGOs, Duplo blocks, ers. Tickets run $12-40.

MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 79 IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR bigtickets.com sist in labor and birth. Plan (225) 756-1170 DATE NIGHT CASA ORIENTATION. to take this class during the TODDLER FUN DAY. CASA office at 10 a.m. last 8-10 weeks of preg- Galvez and Gonzales Li- Capital Area Court Ap- nancy and after attending braries from 9-11 a.m. Paint pointed Special Advocate the Special Delivery class. with tempera paint sticks, (CASA) Association holds Registration required. play with bingo marker orientation. Registration womans.org art, pretend to be a doc- required. casabr.org LIGO SCIENCE SAT- tor, build with blocks, and FELICIANA TRADE URDAY: ENERGIZE. dance to music. myapl.org DAYS. Graceland Portable The Laser Interferometer WEARIN’ OF THE Buildings, Jackson, from 9 Gravitational Wave Obser- GREEN PARADE. Starts a.m.-5 p.m. Includes crafts, vatory, Livingston, from 1-5 at the corner of Hundred pottery, clothes, yard sale p.m. Tour the facility, talk Oaks and S. Acadian Thru- ROLL IT UP. Why not instead of simply eating items, a farmer’s market, to a LIGO Scientist or sci- way by the Catholic Life sushi, you learn how to roll your own? At Tsunami, and food. (225) 719-2199 ence specialist, and explore Center at 10 a.m. Proceed- you can do just that. This one-of-a-kind date night FRISCO FEST. San Fran- and interact with over 40 ed by the Shamrock Run puts you and your date right in the middle of the cisco Plantation, Garyville, LIGO Science Concept 5K that starts and ends at action in the kitchen. However, you don’t even have from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. through exhibits. ligo.caltech.edu Moreau Physical Therapy to be at Tsunami to participate. Tsunami offers sushi March 17. Includes arts and MURDER MYSTERY DIN- on Perkins Road at 8 a.m. classes throughout the year, in house or offsite. crafts, car show, bike tour, NER THEATRE. Nottoway Cost for the run is $25. Which means, you can learn how to make your sushi music, pony rides, petting Plantation, White Castle, wearinofthegreen.com favorites right from the comfort of your own home. zoo, space walks, Euro at 5:30 p.m. The story, set It’s fun and food, all rolled into one. Bungee, and food vendors. in 1859, features Notto- 17 SUNDAY ■ servingsushi.com sanfranciscoplantation.org way’s original owners, John GIRLS DAY OUT. St. and Emily Randolph. ST. PATRICK’S DAY Elizabeth Hospital, Gonza- Throughout the eve- les, from 8:30 a.m.-12:30 ning, historically AUDUBON PIL- p.m. A day of learning, dressed actors GRIMAGE. Felicianas, laughing, and movement and actresses will with historic home and activities for women. $10 perform between garden tours, costumed fee includes a continental dinner courses. re-enactors, living history breakfast and snacks. Reg- nottoway.com demonstrations, and period istration required. SPRING BIRD STORY/ music and dancing. eventbrite.com CRAFT. Bluebonnet (888) 677-2838 HIGH SCHOOL MATH Library at 10:30 a.m. Chil- COLORS OF LOVE FASH- CONTEST. LSU Tureaud dren ages 8-11 can listen to ION SHOW: AUTISM FORE! Tee off with your loved one this month by Hall and the Howe-Russell Igor, the Bird Who Couldn’t AWARENESS AUDITION. challenging one another in a game of high-tech golf Geosciences Complex at 9 Sing and make a spring bird BREC’s Baker Center at Topgolf. Each hitting bay is climate controlled and a.m. High school students craft. Registration required. from 3-5 p.m. Open to plays music, and after you get your game on, you can register to test their (225) 763-2250 ages 4-21. Colors of Love can feast on delicious food and drinks. But don’t mathematical mettle in SPRING GREEN AT will be a fashion show worry, even if you aren’t the best at golf or at keep- individual competition or in THE ZOO. BREC’s Baton dedicated to bringing ing score, you will still have a great time. Topgolf’s team competition. $7 do- Rouge Zoo from 9:30 awareness to children in amazing technology allows you to track your golf nation to receive a t-shirt a.m.-4 p.m. Celebrate the community diagnosed ball, and it accurately scores each shot for you. until March 6. Being Green and learn how with autism. Registration ■ topgolf.com math.lsu.edu you can help wild animals required. eventbrite.com JAMBALAYA CUP. Cajun and wild places through FRISCO FEST. San Fran- Industries Soccer Complex, special amphitheater cisco Plantation, Garyville, Gonzales, through March programs, games, and a from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. 17. Tournament open to all scavenger hunt. Regular Includes arts and crafts, competitive and recre- admission applies. music, 5K, one-mile fun ational teams. Also features brzoo.org run, pony rides, petting zoo, an Academy Festival for all STUDIO SATURDAYS. space walks, Euro Bungee, 9U and 10U teams. LASM at 1 p.m. Hands-on and food vendors. soccer.sincsports.com workshop for children ages sanfranciscoplantation.org LADY SHERLOCK: A 8-14 and their caregivers. GIRL TALK. Baton Rouge STUDY IN SCARLET Build your own pinhole General Hospital, Blue- WOMEN. EBR Main camera. Nonmembers is bonnet, at 2 p.m. One-day Library at 7 p.m. Celebrate $5 per child plus general class led by Baton Rouge the spring One Book One admission. Registration General OB/GYNs for CAN YOU ESCAPE? Challenge your mind, Community selection with required. lasm.org girls ages 9-11 and a parent test your ability to work together, and push your a riveting book talk led by TEEN SHERLOCK or trusted adult. Focuses resourcefulness on your next date night. Pair up author, Sherry Thomas. HOLMES ESCAPE on what girls experience with your special someone (and a few other couples) Q&A period will follow the ROOM. Jones Creek during puberty, including to take on Bequest or The Diner at Sequestered presentation. ebrpl.com Library at 3 p.m. Teens skin changes, first periods, Escape Room Adventures. Experience the adrena- LAMAZE: LABOR OF can try to escape a room and breast development. line rush as you solve riddles and puzzles together on LOVE. Woman’s Hospital by solving a series of clues. Cost is $10. brgeneral.org an adventure like no other. It’s a date night that the from 8 a.m.-5 p.m. for Inspired by the One Book HOSPITAL ORIENTA- both of you will want to do again and again. couples wanting to learn One Community Spring TION. Woman’s Hospital ■ sequesteredescape.com how Lamaze techniques as- 2019 book. from 1:30-2:45 p.m. or 80 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 81 IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR 3-4:15 p.m. Tour the labor breastfeeding techniques. required. (225) 686-4180 can listen to The Detective MUDDFEST. Raising and birth suites, family Cost is $30 per couple. 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Cost (225) 274-4450 BREAKFAST WITH (225) 763-2250 LASM from 10 a.m.-3 p.m. is $15. Pre-registration PRACTICE ACT TEST. BELLE...BE OUR GUEST. CAMP FAIR AND Annual event featuring required. (225) 621-2906 Delmont Gardens Library La Divina Italian Cafe from SUMMER FUN EXPO. 30+ interactive stations, HOPE FOR HEMO- and EBR Main Library at 8-9 a.m. Enjoy a breakfast Mall of Louisiana from 10 showcasing a wide array PHILIA. BREC’s Baton 9:30 a.m. Students can with Belle along with photo a.m. to 3 p.m. Find the of engineering and design Rouge Zoo from 10 a.m.-3 take the test at either opportunities, stories, and perfect camp for your specialties. General admis- p.m. For families affected library. Preference given to sing-a-longs. Tickets are child through meeting sion applies. lasm.org by Hemophilia. Includes high school students. Re- $25. eventbrite.com face to face with local and EXPLORE CIRCUITRY crawfish, hamburgers, face sults will be sent by email. FARM 5K. LSU Central out-of-state camps. With WITH LITTLEBITS. Gon- painting, music, and zoo Registration required. Research Station from 7 overnight and day camps, zales Library at 10:30 a.m. admission. Tickets run $15- ebrpl.com a.m.-1 p.m. Presented by SWAMP DOG DAY. the Block and Bridle Club BREC’s Bluebonnet at LSU. Includes a Fun Run. Swamp from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Registration runs $15-25. Bluebonnet Swamp drops facebook.com its “no pets” policy and HOLI FESTIVAL OF opens its doors and trails to BATON ROUGE. Galvez pets four days out of the Plaza from 1-4 p.m. Holi, 23 year. General admission the festival of colors, is applies. brec.org considered to be one of the TEEN DIY INSTAGRAM most revered festivals in CUBES. Jones Creek India. This family-friendly Library at 3 p.m. Teens event will have food, drinks, can learn to make this fun music, Indian cultural danc- decoration. es, and color. facebook.com (225) 756-1170 LACHADD SUPPORT TOUCH A TRUCK. GROUP. Families Helping BREC Fairgrounds from 9 Families of Greater Baton a.m.-4 p.m. with a Silent Rouge office at 2:30 p.m. Hour from 9-11 a.m. for ADHD meetings are open those sensitive to noise. and free to the public. Unique, interactive, one- Children are welcome day annual event that al- at the regular meet- lows children to see, touch, ings, if closely supervised. CHILDREN’S WORLD FAIR. Louisiana Children’s Museum, New Orleans, from and explore their favorite lacachadd.org noon-4:30 p.m. Families will explore cultural diversity through performances and big trucks, vehicles and NO GLASS SLIPPERS various activities of eight countries. Tickets run $16-20. ■ lcm.org heavy equipment, as well PROM GIVEAWAY. as meet the individuals who McKinley Alumni Center MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 83 IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR from 2-6 p.m. Free prom Cost is $25. Registration musical experience with LEGOs provided. 29 FRIDAY dresses for young ladies required. high definition sound from (225) 686-4180 in high school. Must bring (225) 231-5475 92 speakers. Free. PRENATAL CLASS. FETCH CLAY, MAKE school ID. Free bras also RON K. BROWN cmda.lsu.edu Baton Rouge Clinic MAN. LSU Studio Theatre available from Jess’ Bra EVIDENCE DANCE PER- PADDLE UP 2. BREC’s Pediatric Building at 5:30 at 7:30 p.m. In the days Closet. FORMANCE. Manship Greenwood Community p.m. Free class with Baton leading up to one of the noglassslippers.com Theatre at 7:30 p.m. New Park from 6-7 p.m. for Rouge Clinic pediatricians. most anticipated fights for PREPARING FOR York-based dance company ages eight and up. Regis- Registration required. Cassius Clay, the heavy- DELIVERY. Woman’s which incorporates modern tration required by March batonrougeclinic.com weight boxing champion Hospital from 1-5 p.m. dance with West African 25. Cost is $10-12. RIVER CITY JAZZ MAS- forms an unlikely friendship Learn basic information so rhythms. Tickets run $25- brec.org TERS SERIES: MON- with controversial Hol- you can recognize signs of 45. manshiptheatre.org TEREY JAZZ FESTIVAL lywood star Stepin Fetchit. labor and practice comfort 28 THURSDAY ON TOUR. Manship The- Play by New Venture The- measures. Registration 26 TUESDAY atre at 7:30 p.m. Features atre. Tickets run $15-20. required. Cost is $35. FEEDING YOUNG a top roster of diverse and newventuretheatre.org (225) 231-5475 AMERICAN GIRL LIVE. MINDS. Watson Library at international millennial tal- MARY POPPINS: THE RON K. BROWN Raising Cane’s River 5:30 p.m. Free meal spon- ent and the leaders of jazz’s BROADWAY MUSICAL. DANCE MASTER Center at 7 p.m. Premier sored by Mighty Moms future Tickets run $25-45. Brown-Holt Chapel Arts CLASS. Manship Theatre stage production featuring in partnership with LPPS manshiptheatre.org Center, The Dunham from 5-7 p.m. For ages 15 original songs. Tickets run School Food Services. SISU AND YOU. Knock School, at 7 p.m. This and up with all dance levels $38-113. (225) 686-4180 Knock Children’s Museum magical family musical is welcome. raisingcanesriver- GRANDPARENTS RAIS- from 5:30-7:30 p.m. Topic based on the children’s manshiptheatre.org center.com ING GRANDCHILDREN. is “A New Health Perspec- books by P. L. Travers and THE MANY FACES CASA SPRING Family Road at 10 a.m. tive: The Body Revolution the beloved 1964 Disney OF SHERLOCK PRE-SERVICE Information and support Kids Need.” A creative film. Tickets are $15-20. HOLMES. TRAINING. group for grandparents and workshop for families. The dunhamschool.org EBR Main CASA office. Regis- others raising children not program is free for kids Library tration required. (225) their own. lagrg.org ages 5-11. Registration 30 SATURDAY at 3 p.m. 379-8598 LA LECHE LEAGUE required. eventbrite.com Louisiana THINK LIKE A LADY, OF BATON ROUGE SLIME TIME. Denham A BABY IS COMING. State University ACT LIKE A QUEEN. MEETING. Java Mama at Springs-Walker Library Woman’s Hospital from faculty member 7373 Scenic 10:30 a.m. The La Leche at 5:30 p.m. Children 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. for and crime fic- Highway from League helps mothers to ages 8-11 can have fun children ages four to eight. tion scholar, 5:30-6:30 p.m. breastfeed through support, with slime. Registration Class designed to help big Dr. Kris A free etiquette encouragement, informa- required. (225) 686-4140 brother and sister learn Mecholsky and self esteem tion and education. All STEEL MAGNOLIAS. Old about their new sibling’s ar- will lecture on workshop for girls ages participants will receive South Jamboree, Walker, rival by talking about what the history of 10-17, hosted by Ms. discounted open play. at 7 p.m. A play about the new babies are like. the character. Black Louisiana. event- facebook.com friendship and love of a (225) 231-5475 (225) 231-3750 brite.com LEGO CLUB. Watson group of southern women. CAT SHOW: SPRING LPSO SELF-DEFENSE Library at 5 p.m. for ages Performed by Spotlight IS IN THE AIR. Lamar 25 MONDAY MOVES. Watson Library 3-11. Includes a monthly Theater Players. Tickets are Dixon Expo Center from at 5:30 p.m. Teens can theme, craft, and snack. $15. stpds.com 9:30 a.m.-5 p.m. Includes CATCHING THE BUZZ: learn simple and effective BEEKEEPING AND self-defense techniques HONEY TASTING. Eden from Livingston Parish Park Library at 5 p.m. The Sheriff’s Office. Registra- Capital Area Beekeeping tion required. Association will give a free (225) 686-4180 presentation on beekeep- SWAMP SCHOOL. ing. A sweet honey tasting BREC’s Bluebonnet 31 follows. (225) 231-3250 Swamp from 2-4 p.m. DIY SUNCATCHER. Ages 6-10 and an adult. Carver Library at 4 This picks up where Trail p.m. Adults can make a Time for Toddlers leaves off. suncatcher using a variety Cost is $15. Registration of designs. 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Hartley/ dunhamschool.org well Springs Road Library Dixon Expo Center at 6 Occasionally the date or Vey Studio Theatre at MID CITY RISING ART at 2:30 p.m. Children can p.m. Benefits Professional Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. MARKET. Create Studios listen to Hooray for Hoppy Fire Fighters Association location of an event may and 6 p.m. Performances from 6-9 p.m. Evening of and make a butterfly craft. Of Louisiana. $26. change after publication. of the best of Broadway. art and music. Registration required. facebook.com Always phone ahead or manshiptheatre.org facebook.com (225) 274-4450 check website to confirm FETCH CLAY, MAKE MAN. NANO DAYS. BREC’s STEEL MAGNOLIAS. Old 31 SUNDAY important information. LSU Studio Theatre at 2 Highland Road Park South Jamboree, Walker, p.m. and 7:30 p.m. Cassius Observatory from 3-7 at 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. A play CODING WORKSHOP Clay, the heavyweight p.m. Children will have the about the friendship and FOR GIRLS. BRAGTS SUBMISSIONS boxing champion, forms an opportunity to see how love of a group of women Academic Success Lab Baton Rouge Parents unlikely friendship. Play by big they are compared to in Louisiana. Performed by from 2-3 p.m. Free coding Magazine welcomes New Venture Theatre. nanoscale objects. Spotlight Theater Players. workshop for girls. submissions of events of newventuretheatre.org hrpo.lsu.edu Tickets are $15. stpds.com brgifted.org GREAT ROVER ROAD SATURDAY NIGHT THE HIGHLAND FETCH CLAY, MAKE interest to families. RUN. LSU Vet School. 5K FAMILY NIGHT SKY GAMES AND CELTIC MAN. LSU Studio Theatre Send all calendar at 8 a.m. and one mile at VIEWING PLUS NIGHT. FESTIVAL. Lamar Dixon at 3 p.m. Cassius Clay, the submissions to: 9 a.m. Registration is $25. BREC’s Highland Road Expo Center, Gonza- heavyweight boxing cham- [email protected]. lsu.edu Park Observatory at 7:30 les, from 10 a.m.-6 p.m. pion, forms an unlikely Include: dates, times, GREEN DINOSAUR p.m. Sky viewing plus a sky through March 31. Includes friendship. Play by New PANCAKES. Java Mama tour, demonstrations, lunar children’s activities, music, Venture Theatre. location with address, at 10 a.m. Author Kat Pig- trips, and a marshmallow demonstrations, and ven- newventuretheatre.org recommended age, cost, got book reading. Breakfast roast. hrpo.lsu.edu dors. $5-10. lahgcf.com THE HIGHLAND public telephone number, rates apply for the green SPRING FOOD TRUCK THE MUSIC OF LED ZEP- GAMES AND CELTIC website address, and dinosaur pancakes. Regular FESTIVAL. Tanger Outlets PELIN PLUS THE MUSIC FESTIVAL. Lamar Dixon photos. play rates apply. from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Fea- OF ZEBRA. Raising Cane’s Expo Center from 10 a.m.- facebook.com tures food trucks, activities, River Center at 8 p.m. Per- 6 p.m. Includes children’s MARY POPPINS: THE DJ, face painting, and a formance by Baton Rouge activities, music, and Submit information for BROADWAY MUSICAL. contest to win a shopping Symphony Orchestra. demonstrations. the April calendar by The Dunham School at 5 spree. tangeroutlet.com raisingcanesrivercenter.com lahgcf.com March 8, 2019. p.m. This magical musical SPRING POPSICLE WHO’S BAD: THE ULTI-

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Every Woman’s Dream? Adventures with a House Hubby By Kimberly Blaker was one of those lucky women watch in awe, finally whose husband helped around the catching a breath of I house. But, I still remember trying to relief as he began to convince him to assist the first few years clean up. of our marriage when the kids were little, The relief, and I was working full-time. however, was only I became so desperate. One day, temporary. He I calculated on paper the total time I grabbed the dishcloth, expended daily for every little task: ran it under cold changing diapers, 45 minutes; laundry, an water, and began hour; picking up the house, two hours and mopping the counter. 20 minutes; errands, an hour and a half; I guess his mother “He grabbed feeding our newborn, three hours. By the never taught him to time I compiled the list, I was exhausted ring out the dishcloth. the dishcloth, just thinking about it. But my list brought As he sloshed the about a seemingly miraculous change. water around the ran it under Suddenly, my couch potato was counter, it ran down buying groceries, folding clothes, and the cabinets. Not to cold water, taking on many other household duties. worry though, our He was becoming the perfect Mr. Mom. brand new carpet and began Of course, I had no clue what I was would absorb all of getting into. Our grocery bill quickly the overflow. mopping the doubled; every meal was a full-blown I could watch buffet. My five-year old daughter was no more. I finally counter.” soon asking why my shirts were hanging offered my help to in her closet. As for the kitchen, it was finish cleaning the unrecognizable. I now had my very own mess, and my hubby Chef De’ la Clutz. eagerly obliged. He then rinsed his hands Luckily, he did finally catch on. Or, One day upon entering the kitchen, I under the faucet and shook them over the maybe I just didn’t allow him to do quite instantly froze from the cyclone that had soon-to-be-eaten meal. I suppose it would as much, while closing my eyes to the hit. The entire room was coated with dry have been too much to ask him to use one rest of the things he did do. Still, I tried pancake mix, as if the box had exploded. of the seven dishtowels he had already to keep in mind that the sincerity behind Immobilized from the sight, I discovered strewn about the kitchen. his helpfulness is what truly mattered the the secrets to my husband’s gourmet As he left the wreckage, I wiped the most. By the time our kids were grown, meals. He’d grab the handle of the frying perspiration from my forehead. Following he did have the housework techniques pan, and with a quick upward jerk, 10 dinner, I spent an hour cleaning skillfully mastered. sausages were doing acrobats through the the disaster zone. This led to more So if you’re struggling to get your air as their oily perspiration splattered the calculations. If I had prepared the meal, husband’s help around the house, give kitchen walls. it would have taken 30 minutes and the my calculation method a shot. Once he Next, preparing the pancakes, I nearly cleaning another 15. I would have been begins to pitch in, just take plenty of deep mistook my husband for my five-year-old done in 45 minutes. How was it possible breaths. Though it may take a while to learning to pour as batter spilled over to have enlisted his help and then spend train him, the eventual reward is worth the edges of the skillet. I continued to more time in the kitchen? the agony and wait. ■ 88 BRPARENTS.COM | MARCH 2019 MARCH 2019 | BRPARENTS.COM 89 IN EVERY ISSUE SNAPSHOTS

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