Ryan Pinto, CEO, Ryan Group awarded among the brightest young Entrepreneurs by Business World 40 under 40

Mumbai, Nov. 06: Ryan Pinto, CEO, Ryan International Group of Institu- tions was awarded among India’s brightest young entrepreneurs and most definitive young achieversby Businessworld 40 under 40. The award was presented by Dr. Annurag Batra, Chairman & Editor-in-Chief – Business Worldduring the 3rd Edition of BW Businessworld 40 under 40 Awards in association with BW Dis- rupt on 23rd October 2019 at Delhi. The awards recognized and felicitat- ed 40 brightest young entrepreneurs, innovators, and change-makers.

BW 40 under 40 is a quest for the most influential leaders of the year to acknowledge their exception con- tribution in their respective field. All the winners who were selected for the awards have demonstrated excep- tional contribution in their work and personal growth. 40 awards and 3 special mentions were awarded after a rigorous jury process. The entries ranged from various categories of

Subscriptions for business and others who showcased that have put their trust in us. I am outstanding elevator pitch, organiza- grateful to the entire team of Busi- Renewal as well as New, can be tion USP, growth parameters, vision ness World and the eminent jury for sent through Bank Fund Transfer to any and faith, and conviction. Ryan Pinto this prestigious recognition. It is truly one of the following banks: was also on the Panel of a session ti- humbling to receive this honour. We tled, “Growing Traditional Businesses the Ryan Group continue to remain Bank: HDFC Bank in the Age of Disruption”. The panel committed to serving the nation in Branch : CST - Mumbai VT consisted of leaders from education, giving access to quality education & Account Name: The Secular Citizen publishing, restaurantsand media. empowering the youth”. Current Account No. 03552000006744 ISFC code: HDFC0000355 Ryan Pinto one of India’s youngest Dr. Annurag Batra Chairman and or entrepreneurs in the K-12 education Editor in Chief BW Business world, Bank: Citizen Credit Co-op Bank Ltd., sector, while receiving the award said, said “BW Business world 40 under Branch : Colaba, Mumbai “I want to give all the glory to my Lord 40 is a process led, jury driven and Account Name: The Secular Citizen Jesus Christ for all His blessings & fa- editorial knowledge driven list of CurentAccountNo. 2090031000000489 vor. I dedicate this award to my amaz- young achievers list, these achievers ISFC code: CCBL0209003 ing parents, Dr. A F Pinto & Madam are the future of the country and will Grace Pinto for the opportunity they make India better and in some way Please inform us through email: secu- have given me, my family for their sup- is an encouragement to build on the [email protected] or through phone: port, my dedicated team for all their good work they have already done.” 9820485389 after transferring the same. hard work & to the lakhs of parents — Ronida

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through WhatsApp / Email On Nov 3, 2005, as a morning ritual, I called home to speak to my Mom and Subscribers in India and worl- Dad. Dad was super excited for 2 reasons, Serena Williams was playing Fi- dover can now get their Digital nals for Australian Open and Mercedes had signed me up for their associa- tion. He told me that it was his dream and would be proud to drive his son’s copy of The Secular Citizen by Merc, although he had his. I laughingly said that why didn’t you tell me before, WhatsApp / email every week. he joked and said: “you had never asked.” Then in one of his do good moods Send in your request to : went on to relate an anecdote that he said would do good for me +91 - 9820485389 or A farmer in ancient China had a neighbour who was a hunter, and who owned [email protected] (Contd.. on p. 4) 18-24 November 2019 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 3 (Contd.. from p. 3) able to buy a fleet of cars, but you He said that I had come a long way can’t buy time. ferocious and poorly trained hunting from being a mischievous, teasing dogs. They jumped over the fence little boy…. And must now ensure that We all wish that we could reverse time frequently and chased the farmer's I spread the above anecdote to one and bring our loved ones back. But lambs. The farmer asked his neigh- and all in order to make the world a can we? Unfortunately, no! bour to keep his dogs in check, but better place… And went back to an this fell on deaf ears. incident that happened when I was in So don’t wait.....just fulfil their wish class 7 and used to ask a lot of ques- NOW...... no point feeding the poor One day the dogs again jumped the tions……! One day I asked my Eng- or giving a decent donation ... after fence, attacked and severely injured lish teacher “Why do we ignore some their demise...... better feed your par- several of the lambs. The farmer had letters in pronunciation e.g. the letter ents with their favourites .... And be had enough, and went to town to con- H…. in Hour, Honour… etc…?’ blessed! sult a judge who listened carefully to the story and said: "I could punish the My teacher said, “We are not ignoring You are living because they gave you hunter and instruct him to keep his them: they’re considered silent”… (I birth, now it's your Turn.... Give them dogs chained or lock them up. But was more confused…) everything so that they feel proud of you would lose a friend and gain an bringing you in to this world. enemy. Which would you rather have, During the lunch break, my teacher friend or foe for a neighbour?" gave me her packed lunch and asked For them you are their World. me to heat it in the Cafeteria. I ate all The farmer replied that he preferred a the food and returned her the empty Let us make an effort to make a pact friend. container…..!!!! that we will be polite when we speak and not make rude and sarcastic re- “Alright, I will offer you a solution that My English teacher: What happened? marks at every opportunity we get, keeps your lambs safe, and which will I told you to go and HEAT my food, especially with Our Parents, Families, keep your neighbour a friend." you are returning me an empty con- Friends and Colleagues. tainer. Having heard the judge's solution, the farmer agreed. Prayer & Thanksgiving I replied, “Madam, I thought “H” was silent. Prayer to the Sacred Heart Once at home, the farmer immediate- ly put the judge's suggestions to the We then laughed as usual and dis- test. He took three of his best lambs connected. and presented them to his neigh- bour's three small sons, who were be- Late morning on the same day, he side themselves with joy and began passed away. No child can ever be to play with them. To protect his son's ready for this loss; it leaves a hole in newly acquired playthings, the hunt- your heart. Makes you feel empty, be- er built a strong kennel for his dogs. trayed by Gods and unprotected to Since then, the dogs never again Oh Lord Jesus Christ, to Your most the World. Sacred Heart I confide this intention (your bothered the farmer's lambs. request). Only look upon me, then do what I still wonder about the line he said: your love inspires. Let your Sacred Heart Out of gratitude for the farmer's gener- “you had never asked.” decide ... I count on You ... I trust in You ...I osity toward his sons, the hunter often throw myself on your mercy. Lord Jesus, You shared the game he had hunted with So many times since that unfortunate will not fail me. the farmer. The farmer reciprocated Sacred Heart of Jesus, I trust in you. day, I wish I could have done more for by sending the hunter the cheese he Sacred Heart of Jesus, I believe in your him, made him proud, and fulfil all his had made. Within a short time the love for me. wishes. neighbours became good friends. Sacred Heart of Jesus, Your kingdom come. Sacred Heart of Jesus, I have asked Life lesson - Don’t wait for a single you for many favors, but I earnestly implore A Saying in Old China went something more moment. Our parents might this one. Take it, place it in your open Heart. like this, “One can win over and influ- never ask for anything and just give When the Eternal Father looks upon it, he ence people the best with gestures of all their lives to us. will see it covered with your Precious Blood. kindness and compassion.” It will be no longer my prayer, but yours, Surprise them, spoil them, hug them, Jesus. Sacred Heart of Jesus. I place all A similar Western Saying: “One catch- my trust in You, Let me not be disappointed. ask them about their dreams, and love es more flies with honey than with vin- Amen. them. Because one day you might be egar." —Sujata, Kurla

4 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 18-24 November 2019 not stepped in to stop this wasteful expenditure, knowing very well that the status quo of the deceased soul doesn’t undergo any change by dec- orating the grave. The biblical poor man Lazarus died by the wayside and was taken to heaven, while the rich man who must have been buried with cerning religion is taken for granted pomp and pageantry went down to Save precious on the basis of our faith. The follow- Hell. So, instead of splurging on dec- lives of PMC bank ing are some passages from the Gos- orating the graves ,it would be better pel that mentions Jesus as the Son of if only a candle or a diya is lit and a depositors God. few prayers said for the repose of the 1. Mathew 16:15-17 soul. Secondly, by offering masses Yet another depositor of the scam- 2. Mathew. 3:16-17 for the dead, we are only feeding the tainted PMC bank has succumbed to 3. John 20:31 priests without any benefit for the the clampdown by the Reserve Bank 4 John 3:16 soul. This was the practice followed of India(RBI) on the withdrawals from Chotebhai says that he has expe- by the corrupt clergy by selling indul- bank accounts and Fixed deposits rienced the power of God ,signs, por- gences, which was condemned by , taking the death toll to 9, in a short tents and wonders several times in his Martin Luther during the Reformation span of around 45 days. Although life. I too have such instances and the in his ‘95 Theses’, where he stated “ the RBI-appointed administrator has latest happened in last May— most When the pennies keep jingling in the moved swiftly by asking the Eco- unexpected thing happened to save church coffers , the souls keep flying nomic Offensive Wing (EOW) and En- my life. But these are personal and out of Purgatory”. Today Martin Luther forcement Directorate (ED) to release the hearer may have his own interpre- is regarded as a saint in many church the attached assets of the scamster tations. In our retreat centres I do not circles . -owners of RDIL and auction their know how some preachers announce ——A. F. Nazareth, Alto Porvorim properties to pay back their loans to miracle happening. It is difficult for me PMC and the depositors their money, to appreciate the way it is announced. past experience has shown that the However the late Fr C. J.Varkey ( a de- Potholes contribute process is a lengthy one , as attached voted priest in Kozhikode) wrote in an to the Economy! properties are withheld for years be- article that he used to get sometimes fore being auctioned .It would there- the vision of some persons ,like name, The much-maligned pothole is a fore be prudent for the RBI to relax the disease and healing during retreats. I huge source of income and employ- restrictions on withdrawals to relieve am unable to comment on this. ment and should be given its due thousands of depositors of their suf- The Catholic Church has certain place in our economy . Potholes are ferings and misery. For a start , with- measurable factors and conditions to to be found not just in Mumbai and drawals not exceeding Rs 5-lakh per elevate a person to sainthood. I be- Goa. They are equitably distributed month would be reasonable without lieve that the authorities satisfy all the across the country with every city putting a burden on the bank. If the parameters , though I may not be able and town reaping it's economic ben- PMC has adequate reserves, then to certify hundred percent accuracy. efits. The contribution of potholes to why not?. Rs 50, 000/ will hardly serve Are we the faithful to act as auditors the GDP (Gross Damage Potential) is to address the woes of depositors in such fields humongous. Potholes provide liveli- who have their life savings in Fixed hood for road contractors, PWD em- deposits. —K. C. Thomas. ployees , auto-mechanic , road-side —A. F. Nazareth Navi Mumbai tyre-puncture-wallas , orthopaedic Alto Porvorim surgeons and even undertakers. As potholes play such a vital role Miracles On decorating in our economy the govt must cre- graves ate a separate ministry for potholes We read in the article captioned “ headed by a minister of cabinet rank. Do I believe in miracles” Every year on All Souls’ Day No- Scholars should be encouraged to — The Secular Citizen 4-10 No- vember 2, we see graves decorated write research papers on the "Contri- vember— that “ Most of the Christians and lit up in all Catholic cemeteries bution of Potholes to the Indian Econ- take it for granted that Jesus is the as a mark of respect to the deceased omy". Who knows, we may even land Son of God ,without going through his members of our family. However, it is another Nobel Prize for Economics ! earthly pilgrimage and actually walk- difficult to understand why the church —Prof Robert Castellino ing in his footsteps” Everything con- still encourages this practice and has Mumbai

18-24 November 2019 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 5 The Verdict: is There Closure?

he long-awaited verdict on the acres in the town must be allotted to Some Hindu groups formed a commit- contentious issue of the disput- the Sunni Waqf Board for construc- tee, in 1984, to begin the construction Ted land in Ayodhya was finally tion of a mosque of a Ram temple. Three years later, a delivered by the Supreme Court on • the destruction of Babri Masjid in district court ordered the gates of the 9 November 2019. The judgement 1992 was a blatant violation of law mosque to be opened after almost five has come after a 70-year old conflict • the rights of Ram Lalla to the dis- decades and allowed Hindus to wor- filled with acrimony, divisiveness, hate puted property is subject to mainte- ship inside the "disputed structure." A and violence between sections of the nance of law and order and commu- Babri Mosque Action Committee was Hindus and Muslims of the country. At nal harmony formed by Muslim groups. In 1989, the the core of the issue was the • the suit by Nirmohi foundations of a temple were laid on Ram Mandir – Babri Masjid Akhara was time barred land adjacent to the "disputed struc- dispute: was there a tem- • the Ram Janmab- ture". ple on the place where the hoomi has no juristic per- Masjid was built? To whom sonality. But Ram Lalla, the A watershed year was 1990, when the should the land be given to? deity has juristic personality then BJP president LK Advani took • the Suit by Sunni out a cross-country rath yatra to gar- For the five-member Consti- Waqf Board is maintainable ner support to build a Ram temple at tution bench headed by the by fr. cedric Prakash and not barred by limitation the site. This yatra polarised a good Chief Justice of India Ranjan sj • the Sunni Waqf Board section of the Hindu community. An Gogoi and comprising Jus- has not been able to prove immediate result was that some vol- tices S. A. Bobde, D.Y.Chandrachud , adverse possession. There is evi- unteers of the Vishwa Hindu Parishad Ashok Bhushan and S. Abdul Nazeer dence to show that the Hindus had (VHP) stormed the disputed area and delivering the verdict was not an easy been visiting the premises prior to partially damaged the Babri masjid. task- given the fact that the dispute 1857 December 6, 1992 will certainly go has been one of the longest in the • there is evidence to show that Hin- down in the history of the country as country’s history and secondly, it has dus worshiped in the outer court- one of its blackest days! On that in- always been a very emotional issue yard of the disputed site. As regards famous day members of right-wing between the country’s majority com- the inner court yard, there is no evi- Hindu groups, took law and order in munity: the Hindus and the largest mi- dence in the suit by Sunni Board to their own hands and demolished the nority community : the Muslims. The show exclusive possession prior to mosque! Communal violence fol- verdict was a unanimous one, relying 1857 lowed all over the country, in which on the findings of the Archaeological hundreds of people lost their lives and Survey of India (ASI) In order to understand this judgement, widespread destruction. which is bound to have far- reaching Some of the key points of the implications, one needs to briefly The then Congress Government at 1054pages landmark judgement go through the way the dispute has the Centre immediately set up the include that: evolved over the years. The Babri Liberhan Commission was set to • the entire disputed land of 2.77 Masjid was apparently built in Ayod- probe the demolition of the mosque. acres in Ayodhya must be handed hya in 1528. Some Hindu groups Strangely, only seventeen years later over for the construction of a Ram claim it was built after a temple was in June 2009, the Commission sub- Mandir demolished; though the ASI has found mitted the report of its inquiry, nam- • the Central Government has been some remains of and from a previously ing LK Advani, Atal Bihari Vajpayee directed to formulate a scheme in built structure, there is no conclusive and other BJP leaders as those re- this regard within three months. A evidence that it was in fact a temple. sponsible for the demolition. Earlier, Board of Trustees must be set up for The first recorded communal clashes in September 2003, a court ruled that construction of temple over the site took place in 1853.Some seven Hindu leaders, including some • the findings of ASI report cannot be years later in 1859, the British admin- prominent BJP leaders, should stand brushed aside as conjecture istration put a fence around the site trial for inciting the destruction of the • ASI reports indicate that the Babri marking separate areas of worship for Babri Mosque. But no charges were Masjid was not built on a vacant Hindus and Muslims; this lasted for al- brought against Mr Advani who was land. The underlying structure was most ninety years. In 1949, for the very then the Deputy Prime Minister of the not of Islamic origin. The faith of Hin- first time, the dispute on the property country under Vajpayee. A year later, dus that the place is birth place of went to court, after idols of Lord Ram an Uttar Pradesh court ruled that the Lord Ram is undisputed. were found placed inside the mosque. • an alternate suitable plot land of 5 (Contd.. on p. 7)

6 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 18-24 November 2019 (Contd.. from p. 6) bench began daily hearings from vari- ous stake-holders on 6 August this order which exonerated him should Babri Masjid year; the hearings went on for forty be reviewed. The case against the days till 16 October After mediation BJP leaders, including Murli Manohar proceedings by a Supreme Court- 2019 Secular Joshi and Uma Bharti as well, is being appointed three-member team failed heard by a trial court in Lucknow. In to find an amicable solution to the July this year, the Supreme Court ex- Politics. dispute earlier this year, a five-judge tended the tenure of the judge hearing constitution bench began day-to-day the case and set a nine-month dead- hearings on August 6. The daily hear- —Don Aguiar. line for the verdict. ings at the Supreme Court came to an end after 40 days on October 16. The Writing in ‘The Wire’ (9 November If the public opinion turns majori- verdict was reserved and set to be de- 2019), well-known writer and political tarian, how long can we expect the clared before November 17 (the day analyst Siddharth Varadarajan says, court to be untouched by its shad- on which Chief Justice Ranjan Gogoi, “The court acknowledged the man- who is due to retire). Finally, the ver- ow? Can we depend upon courts to ner in which Ram idols were planted dict was delivered today 9 November fightthe battle of ideas that we have in the mosque was illegal and that the 2019. lost on the streets and dhabas? mosque’s demolition in 1992 was “an egregious violation of the rule of The verdict has obviously drawn mixed law”. Yet, the forces responsible for The SC recent verdict leaves much reactions: a good percentage of the the demolition now find themselves in country will breathe a sigh of ‘relief’ to be desired. While the Supreme legal possession of the land. The site that after years there is some kind of Court observed that demolition of will be managed by a trust that the gov- ‘end’ to an age -problem. There were Babri Masjid by a mob was an un- ernment will now set up. And the gov- enough indications since the last few lawful act yet its verdict appears to ernment and ruling party have in their days, that many if not some, seemed legitimise that act. While the Su- ranks individuals who have actually to had an inkling or guessed what the preme Court has acknowledge that been charge sheeted for conspiring ‘final order’ would be like. The postur- to demolish the mosque”. Whether the neither party has legitimate claim ing and utterances of several key lead- cause of justice, on this matter, will ul- on the disputed land, yet it offered ers from the BJP/VHP/RSS combine, timately be served, is at this moment, it to one of the parties. No doubt that “there should be no celebrations” anybody’s guess! the Court attempted to craft a com- is indicative enough of this. True, there promise but does not appear fair or have been no big ‘celebrations’; but In April 2002, a three-judge Luc- in keeping with their DNA some right- consistent with the court’s own rea- know bench of the Allahabad High wing leaders have been making un- soning. Court began hearings on determin- necessary statements and were even ing who owned the site. In Septem- distributing sweets. At the time of writ- ber 2010, the Allahabad High Court The Wafq Board and many other ing this, there are no reported cases pronounced the verdict. The verdict activists are not happy with the of violence. However, in some areas of said the site of the Babri Masjid is to Ahmedabad, where a sizeable section compromise offered by the court be divided into three parts, each go- of Muslims lives, like Naroda Patiya and with good reason. There is an ing to Nirmohi Akhara, Ram Lalla and – these areas had a deserted look; apprehension that the majoritarian the Sunni Central Waqf Board of Ut- people had locked their houses and sentiment may have cast its shad- tar Pradesh; in no time, both Hindu gone away. They are afraid that they ows on the Supreme Court as well. groups and Muslim groups moved the witness a repeat of the Gujarat Car- Supreme Court challenging the High nage of 2002! Court verdict. The Supreme Court, This is a moment to reflect for all of in 2010, stayed the Allahabad High Most Muslim groups on the other us. This is a moment to introspect Court order; earlier, the top court had hand, are not happy with the verdict; for those who frequently asserted said the Allahabad High Court verdict some of them have gone on record, that faith is above law and they will was “strange and surprising”. The Su- to say that they may consider a review not accept a judicial verdict. This is preme Court in an attempt to resolve petition. Finally, we do have a verdict the issue appointed a three- member also a moment of secular politics to on a vexatious issue…but, one won- commission to work towards a media- reflect about its inherent weakness ders if we, the people of India are con- tion; however, this group too failed to that brought the situation to this im- fident that there is a closure too!!! arrive at an amicable solution, despite passe. This is the moment to rethink being given extensions to do so. *(Fr. Cedric Prakash SJ is a human rights & and revitalise secular politics. peace activist/writer. Contact: cedricprakash@ Finally, a five -judge Constitution gmail.com)

18-24 November 2019 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 7 #AIRPOCALYPSE! Do you know that? The CHURCH is our college. Hundreds of furious Delhiites dem- es”, together with Pan-Amazonia and onstrated on Tuesday, 05 Novem- United Nations, to find ways of achiev- HEAVEN is our university. ber 2019, demanding urgent action ing the Sustainable Development to tackle “air pollution”! – saying it’s Goals!- Some of which are: JESUS is our Principal. #AIRPOCALPSE! They also carried a “Combating poverty; Achieving ‘triple banner, #BullShitNoMore! (The Bom- health’ spiritual, mental and physical; The HOLY SPIRIT is our teacher. bay Times, 07 Nov. 2019). Educating females towards equal- But now a publication in BioScience ity; Tackling climate change by 2030; ANGELS are our classmates. has revealed, “11,258 scientists from Committing towards a green econo- 153 countries (69 from India) declare a my; Protecting local cultures thriving The BIBLE is our study book. ‘Climate Emergency’!” Their sugges- on land and forest; Zeroing on illegal tions are: “End destruction of nature deforestation; and, Controlling Com- TRIALS and TEMPTATION are our by restoring forests and mangroves panies by limiting their supply chains, exams. which absorb CO2 and release oxy- and by avoiding new forms of slav- gen; Use energy more efficiently by ery!” WINNING SOULS is our assignment. applying carbon taxes to cut fossil The PAS has promoted 13 confer- fuel use; Stabilize global population ences on environmental issues since PRAYER is our attendance. through reproductive health and fam- 2013; often with groups opposed to ily planning; Educate and empower key Church teachings on ‘reproduc- The CROWN of LIFE is our degree. girls towards equality; Eat plants and tive health’ (abortion, contraception, less meat!” and family planning). PRAISE and WORSHIP is our first classwork. The ‘Report’ warned, “untold suffer- We are all dependent on a viable and ing is inevitable without deep and hygienic environment; and should be ‘coz we are children of GOD. lasting shifts in human activities and responsive in mind and heart as Jesus lifestyles, which contribute towards advised: “First clean the inside of your greenhouse gas emissions related to cup and plate, so that the outside also adverse ‘climate change’!” may become clean” (Matthew 23:26). — Jubel D’Cruz, However, on 28 October 2019, the ------# Mumbai Pontifical Academy of Sciences (PAS) on similar lines expressed, “14 Pledg- —Dr. Trevor Colaso, Bandra(W), Mumbai Thanksgiving

Thanks to Divine Mercy, St. Jude, Sacred Heart, Mother Mary and Fr. Agnel for the favours granted —Clarista, Pune

8 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 18-24 November 2019 The Butterfly Sisters!

ot until the half of our popula- despotic regime killed more than fifty of ill health than traffic accidents and “Ntion represented by women thousand Dominicans and thousands malaria combined. and girls can live free from fear, vio- more of Haitians, specific targets in Biblical Briefings: The Apostle Paul lence and insecurity, can we truly say October 1937, now referred to as the gives guidelines for chaste sexual be- we live in a fair and equal world” - UN Parsley Massacre! havior, both for the married and the Secretary-General, Antonio Guterras. With the idea of defending democ- unmarried: “Anyone united to the Lord A day was set aside by the United racy and freedom, the Mirabal sis- becomes one spirit with Him. So shun Nations in 1993, which declared 25 ters joined the underground political fornication, because the fornicator November as International Day for group, “June 14”! In 1960 their faction sins against one’s own body. Do you the Elimination of Violence against bore the brunt of Trujillo’s reign of ter- not know that your body is the temple Women! It defines violence against ror! The Mirabal sisters were detained of the Holy Spirit! You are not your women as, “Any act of gender-based on several occasions, tortured in clan- own. You were bought with a price; violence that results in, or likely to destine sites, and raped by Trujillo’s therefore, glorify God in your body. // result in physical, sexual or psycho- soldiers. It is indeed well for a man not to touch logical harm or suffering to women; a woman; but because of sexual im- As the daughter of one of the mur- including threats of such acts, coer- morality, each should have their own dered butterfly sisters wrote: “If they cion or arbitrary deprivation of liberty, spouse, with each their conjugal kill me, I shall reach my arms out of whether occurring in public domain or rights and authority. Devote your- the grave, and I shall be stronger! Let in private life.” selves to prayer, so that Satan may there be thousands of arms to fight not tempt you because of your lack of Participants are encouraged to wear against the so called weaker sex. Let self-control” (1 Corinthians 6:17-20 // a touch of orange in solidarity, sym- it honor the legacy of the ‘Butterfly sis- 7:1-5). bolizing a bright future – #OrangeUr- ters’!” World: #HearMeToo! The date (see The Book of Hebrews enthrones mar- Some Sombre Statistics: Violence below), marks the launch of 16 day riage as a sacred Sacrament: “Let against women and girls is one of the of activism that will conclude on 10 marriage be held in honor by all, and most widespread, persistent and dev- December, the International Human let the marriage bed be kept unde- astating human rights violations in our Rights Day! filed; for God will judge fornicators world today. It remains largely unre- and adulterers” (13:4). The Butterfly Sisters! On 25 Novem- ported due to the stigma and shame ber 1960, the three brave Mirabal sis- surrounding it. —Dr Trevor Colaso, Bandra (W), ters, Patria, Maria-Teresa and Minerva Mumbai. * 1 in 3 women and girls experience were released from prison. Their car physical or sexual abuse in their life- Dr. Trevor is a Pro-life activist, and was a was stopped on the highway, and the time; and most frequently from an in- core member of the International Divine three sisters and their driver were bru- timate partner. * Only 52% of married Mercy Apostolate! tally beaten to death, and thrown into women or in a consensual relationship a ravine to simulate an accident. make their own decisions about sexu- They were affectionately called Las al relations and contraceptive use. * Mariposas – The Butterflies! For more Globally, almost 750 million women details refer Julia Alvarez’s historical and girls were married before their novel, In the Time of the Butterflies. A 18th birthday; and 200 million of them forth sister, Dede Mirabal is founder have undergone the illegal and brutal and director of the Mirabel Museum. Female Genital Mutilation (FGM). * 1 in 2 women was murdered by their The 31 years of dictator Rafael Tru- partners or family in 2012. Dowry was jillo’s cruel ironclad rule (1930 to also an issue. * 71% of all human traf- 1961) was characterized by severe ficking victims were females. * Vio- repression of labor and trade union lence against women is as serious a movements, of leftist and youth or- cause of death in their reproductive ganizations, and of his opponents age as cancer; *and a greater cause and dissidents. It is estimated that his

18-24 November 2019 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 9 Youth and tech can change the world

outh and technolo- tions have begun to ask how technol- with built-in camouflage, because gy have become a per- ogy might inspire unoccupied youth most youth are on their phones all the Yfect mate in today's date. to provide the help. Here, technology time. And when things that are good This is a blend, which can change is being used to message volunteer for youth are filtered through their fixa- the world and below we will discuss it opportunities to young people as well tion on texts, they become acceptable how is it possible? as ways to develop their insight and to many, while allowing those faint of skills. heart to fly under the social radar. At least one thing is true of youth in every country; give them access to Matching youth to livelihoods: Creative expression: technology and a bit of guidance and Technology also can play a role in Internet, few people got the chance to they're capable of changing the world matching youth to economic opportu- widely distribute their creative work. for the better. Today, youth actively nity. Job-seekers also often fall short These days, creative expression is contribute to the creation of new jobs, on qualifications when they do apply. one of the obvious benefits of tech- economic empowerment of vulner- Ubiquitous cell-phone technology nology. Anyone with a tech gadgets, able groups, the promotion of better can play a role here–both connecting can produce and share work online. health systems and access to inclu- youth to job opportunities through a Thousands of people can potentially sive and quality education. Here are mobile, web-based platform, and also see it your novel, short story, photog- few ways where avantgarde technol- allowing youth to build more basic raphy, film, or other visual art. ogy, creative ideas and young and online profiles, using just their mobile passionate visionaries interwine to phone to do so. give life to development initiatives that Technology is career option: can change the world. Breaking stigmas: Youth are tech savy. They love to get surrounded by various gadgets and Many young people in poor commu- mobile applications. More the apps. Motivating good deeds : nities, like the one where I grew up, more will be the job scopei in this sec- Just as technology can build connec- need psychological, emotional and tor. Daviating from various traditional tions between young people and the practical help to kick habits, cope courses, youth are opting each ca- help they need, it can also connect with family dysfunction and discov- reers., which is redefining the world in them to helping others. Job shortages er and embrace their unique gifts. a new manner. Jobs in the field like in a community don’t imply a short- Technology can put that help in their Articicial Intelligence (AI) and others age of work that needs to be done. So hands. Texting, it turns out, is a route are increasing and becoming the ne- plenty of community-based organiza- to young people’s hearts and minds cessity of future.

10 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 18-24 November 2019 First Sunday of Advent: 1st. December 2019 Let Us Purify Ourselves For His Coming

In this season of Advent the global a house of sacrifice.”(2 Ch.7:12). The Christian community have a single faithfulness of God is further shown target in mind: to be focused, patient when the prayers of the Levites arose and prepared. The Messiah will soon and they blessed the people….” arrive. Their voice was heard, and their prayer came to his holy habitation We hear his prophets and apostles By Melvyn Brown in heaven”.(2 ch.30:27). During the guiding us through successive gen- season of Advent, prayer shares a erations to keep our minds and hearts holy bond with heaven. open to their message, showing the Bible to learn and to know the love mystical patterned canvas of divine and power of God and how he sent In the Old Testament the Lord had grace in action. His only Son to redeem humanity. spoken to Eliphaz the Temanite, Soon across the world he will come when he said, “…my servant Job We have gained something precious. and all Christians will rejoice. shall pray for you, for I will accept his Today, we will try to purify ourselves prayer not to deal with you according for the Lord’s coming. The prophet The faithful have also been warned to your folly…”(Job.42:8). Isaiah once said: “Rejoice for the not to be unprepared, by the apostle sake of thy servants, the tribes of thy Mark. “Lest he come suddenly and During Advent remember the power heritage” (Is.63:17). find you asleep. And what I say to you of prayer is further attributed to ones I say to all: watch.” (Mk.13:36-37). sincere desire to ask for forgiveness We have an obligation to prepare and from retribution, to pray for want, or be prepared for his arrival and to be This Advent, make it a routine, a hab- peace and joy. St. Mark in his Gospel joyful in the spirit. We, the people of it, a tradition in your family to read wrote: “And he said to them, “This God should not be taken by surprise. a chapter and verse from the Bible kind cannot be driven out by anything His coming is charged with the poi- once-a-day. Do what the psalmist but prayer and fasting.”(Mk.9:29). gnant message of “redemption and advised: “To you, O Lord, I lift up my salvation” through his birth and resur- soul.”(Ps.25:1). Now, is as good a To wait, watch and pray for His com- rection. time as any to lift up our hearts and ing is entrenched in the spiritual our voices, to tell the world of His psyche of the human Christian soul. St. Paul in his first letter to the- Cor coming. St. Paul was the apostle to the Gen- inthians gave thanks to God on our tiles. The conversion of Paul took behalf “that in every way you were en- Advent expects us to unite in this place on the road to Damascus when riched in Him with all speech and all grand experience of togetherness and he heard the voice of God saying, knowledge. “(1Cor.1:9). to announce the birth of Jesus Christ. “Saul, why do you persecute me?” Thousands heard of his conversion The birth of our Lord in a lowly man- The pursuit of prayer at Advent is and there was great joy. ger will be our happiness, for He has amazing and powerful. It helps in come to us and all mankind. Down monitoring man to his maker. Advent Today, we hear the inner voice of the the centuries the prophets in the Old paves the path to meeting the Lord. Spirit telling us of this coming of Je- Testament paved the golden bricks of And prayers are always the founda- sus. We praise God for this special trust, expectation and faith in the Mes- tion for celebration and hope. gift He as given to all on earth. siah. The Psalmist cried out, “Help us, O God of our salvation, for the glory of In the Second book of Chronicles, “Take heed, watch and pray; for thy name; deliver us, and forgive our the Lord had heard the prayer of you do not know when the time will sins, for thy name’s sake!” (Ps.79:9). Solomon. “Then the Lord appeared come.” (Mk.13:33). to Solomon in the night and said to The Holy Bible, is the word of God him: I have heard your prayer, and written by inspired men. We read the have chosen this place for myself as

18-24 November 2019 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 11 Profile of Lawrence Fernandes, Bento Lobo Vice President, Bombay Catholic Sabha Vice President BCS

Have over 18 years of active service as a Sabhaite, which in- volved taking active part in activi- ties and programmes at the unit, deanery and centre. I have had personal as well career growth and have received acknowledge- ment in church and society. I have attempted to highlight a few of these activities/ accomplish- ments: • At the Parish Unit: Began my career in BCS in 2001 Mr Bento Lobo is a Business man by as a Unit Secretary, St Joseph’s profession. He has a Degree in Bach- Church, Umerkhadi. elors of Commerce from the Mumbai Revived the Our Lady of Rem- university. He graduated from St An- edies Church Unit, Poinsur, Kan- ed the protests against the disrespect drews college Bandra, with leader- divali (W) in 2010. shown to our religion through social ship skills, for which he was elected As a foot soldier and Unit Chairperson pub décor by involving all the Borivali as A class representative, he also pur- and with the support of my manag- deanery units. sued law for one year from National ing committee members have spear- Led the BCS Morcha to Gopal Shet- law college Bandra. He has entrepre- headed my church’s fight with the ty’s Office when he questioned the neurship skills across manufacturing, BMC to challenge the builder – poli- contribution of Christians in the free- training, retailing and currently holds a tician nexus. A BMC road widening dom movement of India. position as a property consultant .The notice was served to our church in leadership skills in him resurfaced in 2012, since then we have been tak- • First BCS member to graduate The 2012, when he joined the family cell of ing the BMC head-on by objecting, IMFE: Institute for Ministry of Faith our lady of victories parish by heading conducting silent protests, agitating Enrichment – A Graduate Course it. He was elected to the parish coun- on the streets. The fight continues as for Lay Ministries. Official designa- cil from his community from 2013 to the matter is now in court and we have tion as “Lay Ministers” is given only 2016. He was elected a Vice-presi- along with the Archdiocese of Mumbai to those who have graduated from dent of the parish council of Our lady have picked up one the best lawyer to the one-year intense course for min- of victories church from 2016-to 2019. represent us. istry, the IMFE. To reach out to people from our com- • At the Deanery: Councillor - Borivali • Co-convenor of Sabha Day 2011 munity and help them in their different Deanery (2011-2016) • Vice President of the PPC – Our needs lead him to join The Bombay was Deanery Councillor - Borivali Lady of Remedy Church, Poinsur for catholic Sabha in 2012. Under his Deanery for two terms and with rea- two consecutive terms (2013 -2019) leadership as chairman of the unit, it sonable pride we may say that we as • Deanery Coordinator for the Borivali reached a new peak by winning the a team of units from the Borivali Dean- Deanery at the Archdiocesan Pas- best unit award 4 years in a row. He ery has achieved fair amount of suc- toral Council (APC), Archdiocese of was elected as The North Bombay cess and the work done is visible. Mumbai. (2016 -2019) Deanery councilor and came into the • Member of the Executive Council & executive committee after which he Head of Youth Activities Forum (2010- Qualification: was elected into the executive com- 2016) MBA - Marketing – University of Mum- mittee in 2016. After the sad demise Organised Career Guidance Pro- bai. Currently pursuing Phd from Uni- of late Anand Castelino in 2017, he grams for Youth & School Children in versity of Mumbai was appointed as the Secretary Gen- BCS Units across the Archdiocese of Work Exp.: eral of The Bombay Catholic Sabha, Bombay. Currently Director – Retail Learning& the role which led him to take up chal- • At the Centre: Vice President (2016- Membership at the Retailers Associa- lenging tasks of stabilizing the Sabha, 2019) tion of India (RAI), work closely with with full commitment and also took Convenor of ‘Careers in Civil Services the Retail Industry& Central & State the Sabha forward to the next level. Awareness Program: Workshops Govt. Skill Missions. In 2019 he contested for the post of conducted at various deaneries that Have 27 years of Work Experience in Vice-president and was elected as benefitted over 1600 youth, thanks to Hospitality, FMCG & Retail the vice-president for the term 2019- the support of Sabhaites.Spear-head- 2022. 12 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 18-24 November 2019 Robert D'Souza Bombay Catholic Sabha Vice President BCS

them to play a useful and effective The Bombay Catholic Sabha (BCS) role in public life and to contribute was founded on January 20, 1989 as to national integration and welfare. a non-political organisation registered To be an exponent of Catholic opin- as a Public Trust, under the Bombay ion and to spread the influence of Public Trusts Act 1950. The BCS is Christian ideals, values and prin- a recognised lay association of the ciples in public life. Archdiocese of Bombay, affiliated to To safeguard the legitimate rights, lib- the All India Catholic Union (AICU) erties and interest of the Christian that is in turn recognised by the Cath- community and to make represen- olic Bishops' Conference of India. tation to public and private authori- ties and bodies in all matters affect- The Bombay Catholic Sabha is one ing Christians. of the largest Christian organization in the country with a membership of To undertake humanitarian work, proj- over 52,000 with units and presence ects or schemes for the needy, ir- The newly elected Vice President of in four districts ... respective of race, caste, creed or the Central unit of BCS is a man of ac- community and to do charitable tion with courage. The Bombay Catholic Sabha is an offi- work in general. cially recognized Church Association To affiliate to the All India Catholic of the Archdiocese of Bombay that Robert D'Souza is heading the St. Jo- Union and other regional, national works for the empowerment of the la- seph's Church, Vikhroli unit of Bom- or international Catholic organiza- ity in Civic, ... bay Catholic Sabha. This unit under tions and to co-operate with Chris- his leadership has been popular in tian and other bodies having aims Vision: activities and has addressed success- and objectives similar to those of “The vision of the BCS is “To Create fully several issues of public interest the Sabha. specially in Vikhroli area. His unit has a Just Society through Involvement won several awards and appreciation in Socio, Civic & Political Affairs.” It is To promote renewal within the Church within the Sabha and even from vari- also involved in Human Rights, Inter- and to foster good relationships ous organisations as well as media. religious Dialogue and Environment through dialogue, collaboration Issues. Its objective is to work for the and service between the Church Citizens Have No One To empowerment of the community in and Society, in keeping with the particular and society in general in the policy and programs of the Catho- Hear Them civic, political, social, economic, and lic Church. educational sectors. “ The Bombay Catholic Sabha, Vikhroli To raise, borrow and to spend funds, to receive or use any gift, dona- unit under the leadership of Robert Aims & Objectives of the Sabha are tion or foundation in cash or kind. Dsouza VP n Mario Rodrigues Unit as follows : chairman took the initiative of expos- to own and dispose of moveable ing the corrupt auto-rickshaws at Vikh- or immoveable properties and to roli West. Also Anna Ambrose Vice To promote the social, economic, own and manage institutions for Chairperson was there to assist in this political, cultural, educational and the fulfilment of the objectives of matter. The same was high lighted in general welfare of Catholics in par- the Sabha. ticular and Christians in general. various dailies. To take all other measures necessary To promote fraternal solidarity among for or incidental and conducive to The Bombay Catholic Sabha Vikhroli Catholics in the Archdiocese of the attainment or advancement Unit organised the students facilitation Bombay, to establish units in all the of the aims and objectives of the program for the 10th standard, 12th Parishes and to co-ordinate their Sabha. standard, Degree who haved passed activities. for the academic year 2018-19. The Sabha derives its overall strength To foster in particular civic, social, po- Robert and his team took initiative in from its Parish Units. The Parish units litical and national consciousness the construction of Road over Bridge of the Bombay Catholic Sabha are in- among all citizens and more par- from East to West near Vikhroli station deed the flag bearers for the organiza- ticularly among Catholics, to help tion.

18-24 November 2019 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 13 Amazing Kanji Curry Celery substitutes

LOVE IT OR hate it, celery is one those ubiquitous kitchen Sta- ples everyone keeps around. But what if you don’t find one of those flavourful stalks while preparing your dish? Follow the list of substitutes here

Celery is best used for soups, stews and stocks and its inimi- Ingredients: Recipe: table crunch is ever important in stir-fries, not to mention pasta, 350 grams prawns chicken and green salads. 1 small brinjal 2 drumsticks What do you do, though, if your loved ones can’t stand the taste 1 medium-sized onion, cut thick or you accidentally run out of the green? Where do you turn for A few pumpkin pieces, cut into squares that one-of-a-kind crunch? And what will you do when (if ever) 3 cups rice kanji water you want the taste but not the texture? Here are a few celery 2 tsp tamarind juice substitutes to try on your own!

Carrot : Masala to grind: Carrots can provide the classic crunch of celery - without the 1 bunch fresh coriander leaves celery -in cooked and raw dishes. For a standard mirepoix sub- 5 flakes garlic stitute (mirepoix -2 parts onion, 1 part carrot and 1 part celery, ¼ inch ginger rough-chopped), simply double the amount of carrots you use. 4 green chillies ¼ tsp jeera Green apple : ¼ tsp dry coriander seeds For those who enjoy their veggies juiced, green apple can easily fill the place of celery in your morning green machine and it’ll Method: taste tart and light to boot. Cut the vegetables. Wash and place them in a vessel with the slice onions and prawns. Cucumber : Add 3 cups of rice kanji water. Let it cook. When Cucumber don’t taste much like celery but their cool, crunchy nearly cooked, put the ground masala, tamarind texture is perfect in place of celery for cold summer salads. juice and let it boil for some time. Put down from the fire and serve warm with Fennel stalk : white rice. While most people are more familiar with fennel as an herb- an aromatic with a taste similar to a mild anise - when cooked, its flavor mellows and becomes very fresh, like celery. The stalks, often disused in kitchens, are great as a celery substitute in cooked dishes, especially when preparing fish. In terms of tex- ture, you’re not going to get closer to celery than this. by Jubel D’Cruz Celery seeds : nese vegetable resembles Romantic lettuce on top If what you’re looking for is celery flavor, celery seed makes a and celery at the bottom. It’s actually a member of perfect alternative when the fresh vegetable isn’t available. Cel- the turnip family, related to the cabbage, broccoli ery seeds has also been used for centuries for its medicinal and cauliflower of Western cuisines. With a light fla- properties. vor and satisfying crunch, bok choy can be used as Instead, there are three key elements when it comes to a good substitute and raw dishes. It’s also rich in the best way to store celery. Keep it whole, wrap it in aluminium calcium, magnesium, potassium, iron and vitamins foil and store it in the crisper drawer of the refrigerator. The veg- A, C and K. etable will lose less moisture when kept whole for as long as WATER CHESTNUTS possible and the foil should be tight enough that moisture can’t These are common ingredients in Chinese cuisine, escape but not so tight that it crumples the stalks. as well as. Water chestnuts are another great celery substitutes because of both texture and flavour. You Bok choy : can compare the texture to an apple or a pear, so Also known as Chinese cabbage, this crunchy, cruciferous Chi- you’re sure to get the similar crunch.

14 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 18-24 November 2019 Health hazards of fast food Ultimate tips Health is wealth. The sale of junk and take of trans fat can raise low density fast food should be banned com- cholesterol levels and increase the to stay healthy pletely in schools and colleges, as risk for cardiovascular disease. these food items have no nutritional Foods commonly considered as for night shift value in them. They lack vitamins, junk foods include salted snack iron, minerals and dietary fibres. foods, candy, sweet desserts, fried Junk food is also the source of con- fast food, and sugary carbonated workers stipation and other sicknesses like beverages. diabetes, heart ailments, clogged ar- Not only people consume junk Being the night owl for creative teries, heart attacks and strokes. food, but they also consume soft purposes is a comforting story Regular intake of junk and fast drinks which are an added unhealthy but for some of us living in the food causes obesity and many other intake. real world, working a night shift health related problems to children Teenagers are the heaviest consum- becomes a necessity. Your body and young adults in the future too. ers of junk and fast food. They obtain The main cause for the increase in around 25 to 40 percent of their total goes through a lot of changes the sale of junk and fast food is its in- energy from them. when you start working night creased availability and misguidance Fast food and vended snacks have shifts and some of them take a of nutritional value. become a popular choice for young- turn for the worse. Realising the Fast food has become popular sters today who need readily avail- pitfalls you must take care of today because the food is inexpen- able food when they feel hungry, and sive, convenient and tastes good. food which can be consumed easily your health following these mea- However, fast food is often made with and quickly. This increasingly popu- sures. cheaper ingredients such as high lar fast food and snack items are the fat meat, refined grains, and added main factors which leads to obesity Consume protein foods : sugar and fats, instead of nutritious in young people, especially children. Eat high protein foods (vegetables, ingredients such as lean meat, whole So children must stop eating junk peanut butter on crackers, fruit and grains, fresh fruits and vegetables. food and eat only what their mother other stuffs) to keep you alert. If you Manufacturers process the raw ingre- cooks in the kitchen. simply must eat some sweets, which dients, often adding hydrogenated tend to make you sleepy, do so at the oils, trans fats and monosodium glu- end of your shift. tamate to enhance taste and prolong —Jubel D'Cruz, the shelf life of the product. A high in- Mumbai Avoid alcohol : Avoid drinking alcoholic beverages before bedtime. Although the sedative Benefits of coriander seeds you effect helps you fall asleep, it tends to wear off in two to three hours and might have not heard of causes disturbed sleep in the latter Coriander seeds come from the same and secrete concentrated bile acids. half of night. plant as cilantro. They are common These acids play an important role in ingredients in curries. The seeds look digestion and absorption. Avoid caffeine : small and round, are kelly green or Avoid coffee, tea, colas, all other caf- yellowish brown and have a lemony May relieve arthritis symptoms : feine drinks, which interfere with sleep. citrus flavour. Coriander seeds can relieve arthritis On a coffee break, drink orange juice pain by fighting the activity of pro in- (protein) and walk around. Physical Aid diabetes treatment : flammatory cytokines in the synovium activity promotes wakefulness. Coriander seeds can help lower blood (a membrane that lines the inner sur- sugar levels. They achieve this by im- face of a joint) Pro-inflammatory cyto- Sneak in power naps : proving the function of the pancreatic kines are compounds in the human If your work allows it, you can sneak beta cells (cells that release insulin system that promote inflammation. in a power nap so that your productiv- and regulate blood sugar levels). Though coriander seeds are ity doesn’t suffer during the rest of the common ingredients, not many are night. This’ll also help make sure you Enhance digestion : aware of their benefits. Now that you sleep better when you do get home. Coriander seeds have long been used are aware, you can include more of Polyphasic sleep cycles are another as digestive stimulants. The seeds these seeds in other dishes and try option that works very well with power may stimulate the liver to produce out new recipes. naps.

18-24 November 2019 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 15 A women had eight children, all of too high for him to touch. After watch- them boys. So one day a magazine ing the boy’s efforts for some time, the sent a journalist to her house for an in- policeman moves closer to the boy’s terview. He asked her about the boys position. He steps smartly across the and what their names were. She said street, walks up behind the little fellow ‘Kevin’. ‘Right’, he said, ‘what about and, placing his hand kindly on the that boy over there?’ ‘Kevin’, she said. child’s shoulder leans over and gives ‘Oh and the tall one with the freckles?’ the doorbell a solid ring. Crouching ‘Kevin’, she said ‘Well, and the little page down to the child’s level, the police- chubby one with the baseball cap?’ man smiles benevolently and asks, ‘Kevin’, she said, ‘Are all your boys Two men are trying to get in a quick “And now what, my little man?” To called Kevin?’ he asked, ‘isn’t that eighteen holes but there two women which the boy replies, “Now we run!” terribly complicated?’ ‘Not at all’, she golfers in front of them who are taking ***** said, ‘it makes everything very easy, quite a long time to play each hole. actually. When I shout: Kevin, tea The first guy says, “Why don’t you go Driving in the city now is like video is ready! they all some. When I say; over and ask if we can play through?” game. Difficulty level keeps increas- Kevin, it’s time for bed!, they all go to The second guy gets about halfway ing. bed.’ ‘I see. But what if you want only there, turns and comes back. The first Level 1 : Metro construction one of them?’ ‘No problem.’ she an- guy says, “What’s wrong?” The sec- Level 2 : Metro + rains and potholes swers. ‘Then I call them by their sur- ond guy says “One of them is my wife Level 3 : Metro + rains and potholes names.’ and the other is my mistress.” The first + petrol at 90 ***** guy says, “That could be a problem. Level 4 : Metro + RP + petrol at 90 I’ll go over.” He gets about halfway +festive processions. There is only one perfect child in the there and he turns and comes back, Bonus round - Bharat Bandh world and every mother has it. There too. The second guy says, “What’s ***** is only one perfect wife in the world wrong?” The first guy says, “Small and she agrees with me. world!” Wife, “Tell me who is stupid? You or ***** ***** me?” Husband (calmly), “Dear every- one knows that. you are so intelligent, The nurse handed over the new born Two cannibals, a father and son, were you will never marry a stupid person.” to the mother and said, “Congratula- elected by the tribe to go out and get What a smart way of coming out a tions, it is a baby boy!” something to eat. They walked deep tricky situation! The mother silently handed over the into the jungle and waited by a path. ***** kid to her husband. The husband Before long, along came this little old placed the boy in his sister’s hands. man. The son said, “Oh dad, there’s Little Johnny’s math teacher asks the She gave the kid to her husband. He one.” “No,” said the father. “There’s class, “If you have a dollar and you handed over the kid to his parents. not enough meat on that one to feed ask your father for another one, how They in turn gave to the kid’s grand- the dogs. We’ll just wait.” Well, a little much would you have?” “One dol- parents. The grandparents handed while later, along came this really fat lar,” yells Little Johnny from the back over the kid to a visitor there. The woman. The son said, “She’s plenty of the class. “Oh, come on”, says the visitor returned the child back to the big enough.” “No,” the father said. teacher. “Surely someone your age mother in bed. “We’d all die of a heart attack from the knows how to count, Jonny!” “It isn’t The new born chid was worried. “What fat in that one. We’ll just wait.” About that I don’t know how to count,” re- is happening, mama?”, he enquired. an hour later, here comes this abso- plies Jonny. “It is that I know my dad a “What to do, they all are addicted to lutely gorgeous woman. The son said, lot better than you do!” this WhatsApp habit. Forwarding as “Now there’s nothing wrong with that ***** soon as they receive”, mother said. one dad. Let’s eat her.” “No,” said the ***** father. We’ll not eat her either.” “Why The newlywed wife and said to her Santa to Banta : My wife and I always not?” asked the son. “Because, we’re husband when he returned from work. compromise. I admit I’m wrong and going to take her back alive and eat “I have great news for you. Pretty she agrees with me. your mother.” soon, we’re going to be three in this ***** ***** house instead of two.” Her husband ran to her with a smile on his face and Parent and refere A policeman is walking down the street delight in his eyes. He was glowing Having one child makes you a parent. one day when he notices a very small with happiness and kissing his wife Having two makes you a referee. boy trying to press a doorbell on a then she said: “I’ glad that you feel ***** house across the street. However, the this way since tomorrow morning, my boy is very small and the doorbell is mother moves in with us.”

16 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 18-24 November 2019 Inspiration! Look out for self-esteem not 'likes'

Don’t overdose on likes, find real Imagine this scenario: You post a love : photo or a status and every hour (or HA VE YOU NOTICED how Though we believe the more attention more), you scroll through your list of posting on social media we get, the happier we will feel, it’s re- people who liked it. There’s nothing ally just challenged with something, wrong with posting things on social sites can be addictive? the less sensitive you become. The media but, there’s a lot wrong with It starts off seeming like more and more likes we get, the less obsessing over whether or not peo- something fun and harm- fulfilled we are. One day, you will wake ple approve of what you post. Who up and the 100 likes you used to get cares if someone ‘liked’ your status less. You post a few im- excited over will not be enough. Soon or not? Who cares if you don’t get as ages of yourself on the you will need 1,000. After that, noth- many ‘likes’ for your default photo as ing will ever seem truly important or your friend? Insecure people are al- beach and suddenly doz- real and you will go low on your self- ways seeking some kind of approval ens of your friends have esteem. for the things they do but, in reality, liked or shared them. it shouldn’t matter if someone likes Never expect perfection : something you posted. Being confi- Feels good, isn’t it? How- Have you noticed that when you dent means, being able to post things ever, in time, we can get constantly seek perfection - life of- without seeking an approval. ten disappoints you? While it’s cer- caught in a vicious cycle tainly a good idea to aim high, don’t Do what you love and have fun : of continuously need- get caught in the ‘perfection trap’. It Low self-esteem can be associated ing positive feedback can prevent you from taking advan- with anxiety and even depression. tage of new opportunities, as well as Don’t get dragged down into these on our posts. If the likes blocking your ability to finish things. ‘joy-killers’. Instead, make an effort and shares are missing As an example, think of a time when to have fun- and lighten up your life! you were seeking a new job. You may Focus less on how many likes and - a part of us feels miss- have overlooked the ideal role simply shares you’ve received today and in- ing too. However, what’s because it didn’t tick all your precon- stead, focus on the things that really missing isn’t others’ ap- ceived boxes. matter in life. As you rise-up your self- esteem, you will find new energy and proval, its self-esteem Focus on what you do well : purpose. Life is a journey. Just make If you look around at others, you will sure you are travelling in the right di- instantly see that they can do many rection. Becoming dependent on social media things better than you. If you allow ‘likes’ and ‘shares’ for our happiness this comparison, you’ll inevitably feel • Didn’t your mother tell you not to is a difficult addiction to break. Your weak and inferior. However, you don’t snack before dinner? You will ruin mobile device holds your attention - need to think like this. Every one of your appetite. Likes are a lot like and often holds you hostage. The first us is unique. This means that we also those empty calories. They fill us step in learning to escape is to under- have unique talents. Your boss may for the moment, only to keep us stand that needing constant likes and be great at decision making, whereas from enjoying the healthy meal, the share is usually a symptom of low self- you might excel at customer service. real thing. esteem. And if you have low self-es- The trick is to find what you’re good The first step in learning to escape is teem, you may feel inferior and worth- at and focus on this. Don’t try to be a to understand that needing con- less. However, with high self-esteem, jack of all trades! stant likes and shares is usually a you will have the opposite qualities: symptom of low self-esteem. Confidence and value . Here’s how! Stop following your posts, con- stantly :

18-24 November 2019 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 17 Modern Religious Heroes (Feast day: Nov 26) The Media Saint (Bl. James Alberione)

By F.M. Britto the great tree of the Pauline family of the Church. To attract the youngsters, ten religious congregations, aggre- he also began a children’s weekly, “II gated institutes and lay co-operators. Giornalino” (The little Newspaper). Over the years he made many founda- n this age of media, God inspired Their goal is to live and give “Jesus the tions in Italy and abroad. He also built a man to raise followers to evan- Way, the Truth and the Life” through the magnificent Church of St. Paul in gelize the world through the mod- the modern media of press, cinema, I Alba, two churches of the Divine Mas- ern means of communication. That is television, radio and other media. He ter at Alba and Rome and the Sanc- James Alberione. called this the ‘Pauline Family’, nam- ing after his model St Paul. tuary of the Queen of the Apostles in Rome. He also served as a theological He was born in a peasant family on expert in the Vatican II, participating in April 4, 1884 in San Lorenzo di Fos- With the help of Mother Tecla Merlo (now Venerable) and a few girls, Al- the private sessions during which the sano, in the province of Cuneo, Italy. Council decrees were formed. He was the fourth of six children of Mi- berione founded then the Daughters chael and Teresa Alocco. Financially of St. Paul, the female counter part of When he was 40, he fell very ill which supported by his uncle (god-father), the Society of St. Paul, in 1915. Then halted his works. But he recovered, the sixteen years old Alberione went in 1924 he founded the contempla- which he attributed it as miracle of to join the diocesan seminary at Alba tive wing “The Pious Disciples of St. Paul. He also got the Lord’s as- by an ox-cart. Here he met his spiri- the Divine Master”. Then in 1938 the surance, which continues to inspire tual father Canon Fracesco Chiesa, pastoral “The Sisters of Jesus the the Pauline Family in their chapels, now a Venerable, who continued to Good Shepherd”, to pray for voca- “Do not be afraid. I am with you. From be his guide, father and model till the tions ; “The Sisters of Mary Queen here I want to enlighten. Be sorry for end of his life. of the Apostles” in 1957, for the lay men “The Institute of St. Gabriel the sin.” Archangel” (1958), for the lay women Ordained a priest on the feast day of “The Institute of Mary of the Annuncia- Alberione died on Nov 26, 1971 at the Sts. Peter & Paul (June 29) in 1907, tion” (1958), for the diocesan clergy ripe age of 87 in Rome and was bur- Alberione got his doctorate in theolo- to adopt the Pauline spirituality “The ied in the sub-crypt of the Basilica of gy on the following year. He was then Institute of Jesus the priest” (1959), Mary Queen of the Apostles. Manifest- posted as assistant parish priest in for married couples “The Institute of ing his admiration, Pope Paul VI made Narzole. Then he served as the spiri- the Holy Family” (1960) and the As- a personal visit to him an hour before tual director and teacher at both the sociation of Pauline Co-operators in his death. major and minor seminaries at Alba, 1918. Thus Alberione has become besides catechising and preaching in the founder of ten religious congrega- the parishes. The pope then remarked: “Here he is tions, aggregated institutes and lay humble, silent, tireless, always vigi- co-operators. lant, ever recollected in his thoughts On the night of Dec 31, 1900 when that run from prayer to action; always Brother Alberione spent five hours “The first concern of the Pauline Fam- attentive to the ‘signs of the times’ that praying before the Blessed Sacra- ily should be holiness of life; the sec- is, the most ingenious ways to reach ment, the Lord inspired him to use ond, holiness of doctrine,” he said. souls.” The pope continued, “Our Fa- the modern technology in the coming He taught his followers to dedicate ther Alberione has given the church 20th century to preach the gospel to themselves to Jesus (Master and new instruments to express herself... all nations like St. Paul to better the Shepherd, Way and Truth and Life), and of the possibilities of her mission society. He had been also influenced Mary (Mother, Teacher and Queen of in the modern world and with modern by Pope Leo XIII’s encyclical “Tametsi the apostles) and St. Paul the Apostle. means.” And the pope rejoiced “in his Futura”. He often said, “The works of God are long, faithful and untiring labour and performed by persons of God.” He in the fruits produced by it for God’s On August 20, 1914 Father Alberione took great efforts to train them. glory and the good of the church.” began with two teenagers the “Little Printing School of Typography” which Printing and popularising the Bible On June 25, 1996 Pope John Paul II later became “The Society of St. Paul”. and various periodicals, Alberione declared Alberione a Venerable and The seed has grown today to become spread the message of Jesus and he beatified him on April 27, 2003.

18 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 18-24 November 2019 There's more to life than being happy

So in the meantime, don't Your continuous focus on hap- whether consisting in pleasure or piness is likely to lead lyou to virtue, or both, is more often found just seek a life of happi- selfishness and take you further with those who are highly cultivated ness but keep yourself away from happiness. Whereas a in their minds and in their charac- busy with your purpose. focus on meaning, purpose and ter, and have only a moderate share passion leads to deeper fulfil- of external goods.” The question of Wake up every day like ment and so some level of hap- our culture being unsustainable is the you mean it, sacrifice piness. The pursuit of happiness question of where to draw the line be- may be a natural right, but it's tween scarcity and abundance. The inconvenience for kind- also self-centered. The pursuit of problem isn’t comfort; it’s too much ness; surround yourself happiness may be a natural right, comfort. The problem isn’t cities; it’s with good people. Cry but it's also self-centered. What too many cities. The problem isn’t we want to tell you is that we need roads; it’s too many roads. The prob- when you must, look for to have a shift from this elusive lem is if you have too many unhealthy inspiration where you 'happiness mind-set', this shift people it makes the world unhealthy is really all about finding mean- for healthy people to live in. Extrem- must. Never fall into any ing and purpose in your life and ism is the bane of health. The solution extreme; be truthful, be about doing what you are pas- is sacrificing comfort and extremism, loyal, be a person of sionate about and want to do, as which means making healthiness pri- opposed to have to do. So, let's mary to happiness. class no matter your sta- find about a couple of things out tus. Love more than you there, which according to us are Some people might ask: what’s the more life than happiness. point? The point is to have a healthy think is possible; forgive process so that one is able to ask: always. Be willing to sac- we discover our own meaning. Dis- what’s the point. A healthier process rifice for what is good. covering our own meaning, especially might “hurt” more in the short run, but in the long run the happiness gained And when you are tired, in the face of meaninglessnes, is the act of un-wrapping our gift for the cos- is not only more abundant but more rest. mos. When we un-wrap this gift we rewarding. are revealing our soul-signature, our There are a plethora of get-happy- life’s purpose. We are proving to the Gifting goes beyond happiness: quick schemes out there. As a culture, world that being a free, independent It feels good to give; really good. And we seem to be obsessed with being person who struggles is far superior radical generosity is even more pro- happy at all costs. And yet, with all our than being an unfree, codependent found. We each have a connection to creature comforts; with all our gadgets person who is comfortable. the universe that is unique to us. We and toys and things-things-things de- each have the capacity to learn from signed to make us happy, we are gen- In other words, we are declaring to this connection: a particular flavor of erally a miserably unhealthy people the world that meaning (purpose, knowledge that cannot be gained in living in an unsustainably lost culture. no matter how painful) is primary to any other way than through us. Also, life has its ups and downs, and happiness (comfort, no matter how yet what many of us strive for is a feel- pleasurable). True meaning can only The happiness gained from giving ing of happiness. But what if striving be discovered through freedom, and what’s needed -as opposed to what’s for ‘happiness’ was the wrong way freedom is expensive to say the least. wanted- is happiness unlike any oth- of going about it? What if, instead, And so it is always preferable to be an er: a prestigious happiness, a righ- we should be searching for meaning unsatisfied free person than a satis- teous happiness, a sacred and divine in our lives? Here are five things we fied slave. The satisfied (happy) free happiness that feels good in the soul. ought to make primary over happi- person is the one who has discovered And there is perhaps no greater gift ness in order to achieve an optimal their purpose and brought meaning to than the personal development of our healthy evolution for our species. the meaninglessness. own soul.

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18-24 November 2019 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 21 26 pilgrimages to Velankanni....on foot

readers of Secular Citizen Weekly. awareness of the 'holy land' around us is a need of the times. Walking pilgrimages purely on foot Capt Russell : are unusual among Catholics in most Russell Lowe is an amazing personal- It is wonderful to know of this 'walking parts of India, pilgrims travel to holy ity now in his mid 60s, the group of pilgrimage' to Velankanni, for last 26 places these days by modern modes walkers fondly call him "Captain", this years, since 1993, starting from Chen- of transport...the Holy Land and Eu- incredible feat by "The Madhavaram nai, indeed they 'walk the talk'. The ropean shrines are very popular, lo- Group" (it is an area in North Chen- leader here with very supportive dedi- cally Kerala, Velankanni and so on. nai), is Godly love, immeasurable. cated mates of 26 vintage voyages is The attendant hi-life, holiday culture This 'Captain' has devoutly organised Russell Lowe, his younger son Ken- on such 'pilgrimages' is today of big the pilgrimages to Velankanni Shrine neth Lowe, in Australia, gave details value. While, holy places just around from Chennai ( one way - outward) and here adapted to inspire esteemed the corner are not known - deeper covering 317 kms in 10 days at a bat- tle pace of more than 30 kms a day. (Contd.. from p. 19) spiritual adventure. Discover a jour- Calculating for 26 trips are equivalent ney of the most high. Become ho- to the distance of 8,242 kms. of how everything is connected, it listic. Meditate. Witness the world would change the world more pro- with “over-eyes.” See beyond your Capt. Russell and his wife Carol have foundly than any other gift could. preconditioned state. Reach beyond two sons - first Gary and second Ken- your comfort zone. Shatter the all- neth, both in Australia. They said that Wholeness insurances happiness: too-precious glasshouse paradigm mom Carol's role in this is big, pray- The joy of being human goes beyond where your Codependency lies ing, offering words of wisdom and is the conditioned walls of culture. It curled-up in abject fear and coward- one 'power house' for Dad Russell's goes beyond what we’re indoctrinat- ice of being “unhappy.” commitment at all times; despite ed into believing is the case. It goes his polio stricken right leg, he never beyond right and wrong, good and Cultivate art, happiness will fol- showed physical and mental strains of evil, happy or sad. low: walking on pilgrimage. It will be hard One of the most empowering ways to forget the 'Captain and crew' that Human joy cannot be contained, ex- we have to bring meaning (and as helped shape this voyage of devotion cept in the sense that it can be felt a result, happiness) into our lives is for those that follow on. and then let go of. It can be found to create art, especially art imprinted within the most excruciatingly painful with our own soul-signature. Art tran- Our protagonist Russell Lowe served ordeals. It can be found in the dark- substantiates the world. It brings na- for decades in FCI's (Food Corpora- est places. It can even be taught by ture to life in a human way. tion of India) supply chain opera- the shadow. The human spirit cannot It is a human-nature/cosmic-nature tions for South India. To smoothen be bound except by the individual union creating a seismic synergy that the many sharp nitty gritty and ease who allows it to be bound. The entire can stand the test of time. Objective- human struggles on such walking cosmos is a continuous process of ly, art is alive in a way forbidden natu- challenges with travel kits, guides initiation. ral objects and, subjectively, in a way and planned arranged food stops, Splitting the sack of culture and stick- subsuming the subjects who create night shelter, prayers and Mass at ing our heads out is precisely an act them. Indeed, Art is a species-wide pre-marked checkpoints were indeed of independence that has the poten- immortality project that trumps, no God sent. tial to lead to an enlightened state of tramples, happiness under its never- interdependence. So what if you’re ending hooves of creativity. The crew : “happier” in the “comfort” of your When you take up an art the result is The dear Crew of men only, on the “home.” So what if your job is keep- happiness that transcends the pain, road to Velankanni express their ing you “safe” and “secure.” So what jealousy, anger, or grief, precisely be- views, volumes said can not fit in print if your friends will “disapprove” of cause we have taught ourselves how here, an overview: you if you are “irresponsible” accord- to turn the tables on our feelings, we ing to their outdated, culturally-pre- have picked the lock of our emo- Dr. Theo Rodrigues one of Russell's scribed notions of right and wrong. tional prisons and broken free into a oldest friends, a medical doctor, ob- Leave home anyway. Quit your job new way of being human: becoming served that after years of walking with anyway. Disappoint your friends any- a hero in the world instead of a victim Russell on this rare pilgrimage, a look way. Get out into nature. Discover a of it. (Contd.. on p. 23)

22 THE SECULAR CITIZEN 18-24 November 2019 (Contd.. from p. 22) and more - just observing places, at his polio stricken leg, gave cour- people and situations. They walked age and never allowed drop outs..... according to a plan and rested at ear- Russell has been an inspiration to marked places with basic facilities..... so many, an administrator and divine it was a joy and test at all times. strategist. Another crew mate is the other Russell - Russell Vanderputt Russell Lowe is a towering figure, - who is all praise for his namesake spiritually and humanly too, meticu- and 'Capt' over the years, for having lously planning the walk, virtually ev- planned every year the walk to make ery step of was praise and prayer..... it an experience in prayer and bless- No, doubt all the positive care, con- ings. cern, joviality continues to equip all of this group for deep service and Brendon Gozmao who was a mem- good work for God and Country. Voyaging on : ber on the very first walk, stressed I am told that everyone one who took "Uncle Russell is a Good Shepherd, any part in this pilgrim walk of 10 caring for all the sheep not only on By -Ivan Saldanha-Shet, days, experienced faith, hope, char- pilgrimage, but consistently. Food is inputs from Kenneth Lowe. ity, humility, affection, happiness.... always organised and Aunty Carol's amazing off scene contribution and support is unbelievable." Russell stated that Brendon managed to land in India from Australia a bit late for the 25th walk in Aug 2018, but he caught up midway and his devotion was doubled.

Another walking pilgrim to the feet of our Lady of Velankanni, is Ken- nedy Philbert, he explained that this blessing for him first came about in the year 2003. 'Capt' Russell always encouraged youngsters to join the group saying it was the only way to make sure the glorious tradition con- tinues in future too. Barrington Jude Rosario, one of the members of the group, made his first walk in 2006 and it became the experience of a lifetime, and then became regular.

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