Parshat Matot- July 13-14 2018 / 2 Av 5778

​Eruv Hotline: 201-254-9190 www.FairLawnEruv.com

Friday Early Mincha and Kabbalat Shabbat – 6:45 p.m. Early Candle Lighting – not before 6:55 p.m.

Candle Lighting B’zman – 8:10 p.m. There will be no Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat B’zman. Repeat Kriat Shema after 9:18 p.m.

All are invited for a Shalom Zachar at the Donath home (4-33 2nd St. Fair Lawn) on Friday night at 9:15 p.m.

Shabbat Day 8:00 a.m. Minyan Kiddush s​ ponsored by ​Lenny and Susan Goldstein.

9:00 a.m. Minyan Sof Zman Kriat Shema – 9:19 a.m.​

Youth Groups Youth Director: Talia Katz Groups meet in the upstairs youth rooms 9:30 a.m. – Ages 3 through 2​nd​ grade 10:30 a.m.​ – ​Tot Shabbat

Kiddush is s​ ponsored by the Shul to celebrate the birth of a baby ______boy to our and Rebbitzin. K​ iddush Clean-Up Team:​ B​ oard Members​ - Gatz, Kravetz. M​ embers​ - Hersch, Isaac, Kaufman, Welcome ​to S​ hulamit and Salomon Menache who are visiting Kaufman, Keyak, Kimmel, Klein, Klein, Kovel, Kranson. Darchei Noam this Shabbat! Yasher Koach to and Shira Schwarz for hosting the Menache family! Mincha – 8:00 p.m. Followed by Seudah Shlishit, sponsored by Eve Thaler to mark NEW! Yoetzet Halacha Program: the Shloshim for her husband and our friend, Dr. David Thaler. Seudah Shlilshit Summer Series Dvar by Chanan Strassman. Maariv – 9:08 p.m. This Shabbat, July 14, at 5:30 p.m. ​ Dvar Torah by Rachel Kravetz @ Shabbat Ends – 9:18 p.m. Kravetz, 48 Schweid Ct. August 11 at 5:30 p.m. ​ Dvar Torah by Aliza Strassman @ Strassman, WEEKDAY SCHEDULE 3-12 Morlot Ave. Sunday All women of the community are welcome to a monthly Seudah Shacharit ​– 8:15 a.m. Shlishit to socialize and share Divrei Torah. Food contributions Brit at 8:50 a.m., Seudah at the Fair Lawn Jewish Center. welcome—please contact the hosts if you have questions regarding what to bring. Weekday Shacharit Monday and Thursday - 6:35 a.m. Youth Department Announcement Tuesday, Wednesday, and Friday – 6:45 a.m. Darchei Noam is currently looking to hire a new youth director, because our current youth director, Talia Katz, will be moving back Mincha and Maariv:​ Sunday thru Thursday - 8:15 p.m. to her hometown at the end of the summer. If you know of anyone interested in the position, please have them contact Beit Night.​ ​Mondays, for one hour after Maariv. B​ ring [email protected]​m. your own chavrusa, or we can help you find a group to learn with. All are welcome. Sponsored by Susan and Lenny Goldstein. If you Upcoming at Darchei Noam would like help finding a chavrusa or to sponsor, contact Daniel at ​[email protected]​. Help enhance our Tish’a B’av—Volunteer to share explanations of kinnot. ​In past years, many people have helped enhance our Tish’a Parsha and Cholent/Sushi Shiur ​ is on hiatus for the summer. B’av experience by sharing insights into one or more of the kinnot. We hope to do this again this Tish’a B’av. We are also looking for Your Cooperation, Please someone to lead and organize the kinnot initiative. Please contact We again ask for everyone's cooperation in not raising the Rabbi Donath​ if you’d like to volunteer to lead and/or participate. window shades at any time. They are there for our collective security. Thank you.

Rabbi Jeremy Donath • President: Mark Moerdler • Vice Presidents: Abe Adler, Dr. Orrin Davis, Nathan Bednarsh, Liz Glasser, Andy Schultz ​ ​ 10-04 Alexander Avenue • P.O. Box 1331 • Fair Lawn, NJ 07410 • 201-773-4080 • www.darcheinoam.com ​ ​

Tish'a B'Av Film Screenings. Sunday, July 22, 6:30 p.m. W​ e will be schedu​le , visit: ​www.PatersonShul.com ​ or contact screening two films about survivors of the Holocaust: "Greenhorn," [email protected] adapted from the book by our very own Anna Olswanger, and "Schindler's List Survivor," an account from Schaja Kleinberg, Tefillah & Tehillim: How Talking to G-d Speaks to Us​, by Leah grandfather of our very own Mickey Blumenfeld Weisberger. See , third lecture of a three-part women-only Tefillah series. YIFL, details at ​darcheinoam.com/event/5778/tisha-bav​. Monday night, July 16 at 8:00 p.m.

Three Food Drive,​ ​ Friday, June 29 at 6:00 p.m. until Support Darchei Noam when you shop @ Amazon Smile Shabbat, July 21 at 11:59 p.m. ​The Food Pantry at Jewish Family Next time you shop on Amazon, shop with a purpose! Go to and Children's Services of Northern New Jersey (JFCS) needs our smile.amazon.com and designate Darchei Noam of Fair Lawn as help. Stop by the shul and pick up a blue reusable grocery bag from your charity. Amazon will make a donation for every purchase. You the coat room. Fill it with unopened, unexpired and non-perishable get the same great Amazon prices and service—and Darchei Noam food items. For information about foods to donate and other details, benefits, too. Just go to www.smile.amazon.com or ​click​ ​here to visit h​ ttps://www.darcheinoam.com/event/food-drive activate.

Join Darchei Noam's new Social Action Committee!​ If you are interested in helping Darchei Noam do some good within and outside of the community, please email Faigy Gilder at Darchei Noam Contacts [email protected]​. Rabbi: ​ Jeremy Donath (r​ [email protected])​ Annual Summer BBQ. Sunday, July 29 at 4:00 p.m. R​ egistration is President:​ Mark Moerdler ([email protected]) now open for the 2nd Annual Summer BBQ! $10/adult, $6/child, Yoetzet Halacha​: Shira Donath ([email protected]) $36/family max. RSVP or support the event by becoming a Shul Rentals, Kiddush & Seudah Shlishit sponsorship:​ Abe Adler Hamburger Level Sponsor ($100) or Hot Dog Level Sponsor ($50) by ([email protected]) visiting ​darcheinoam.com/event/5778/BBQ​. If you're interested in Leining & Seudah Shlishit Dvar Torah:​ Rabbi Avi Herzog volunteering, please email Oren Kravetz at (a​ [email protected]​) [email protected]​. Chesed (Shiva and those who are ill):​ Marilyn Wilen First Annual Darchei Noam Book Swap! ​Make space on your (m​ [email protected]​); ​(recent births):​ Amanda Rosenzveig shelves, support the shul, and get some quality reading for the end (A​ [email protected]​) of the summer and chagim. Divest books you don’t want and grab Siddur or Chumash dedications: D​ ov Mintz some great new-to-you books! H​ OW IT WORKS​: 1. DROP OFF: (b​ [email protected]​) Between June 11 and August 17,​ drop off gently used books at Bulletin:​ Marshall Wilen ([email protected]) 10-01 Bellair Ave. Include a note with your name and email address. Events: ​Oren & Rachel Kravetz (​[email protected])​ 2. SHOP: Come to Congregation Darchei Noam on August 19 to get Website:​ Oren Kravetz & Marshall Wilen some new-to-you books! You get one credit for each book you (w​ [email protected]​) contribute. 3. GET MORE: Beyond book credits, you can pay $1 per Youth Groups: T​ alia Mendenhall Katz book that you'd like to take home. (t​ [email protected]​) Hospitality: L​ ily Langer, Talia Goldman, Rizi Harris, and Michal Yoetzet Halacha Program: Ladies’ Luau. Sunday, August 5, 11:00 Lenik (h​ [email protected]​) a.m.-1:00 p.m. ​Join the women of Fair Lawn for a spiritual spa day! 8:00 a.m. Shabbat Minyan:​ Andy Schultz (a​ [email protected]​) Relax by the pool with friends, refreshments, cocktails/mocktails, make-your-own body scrub, and chair massages. Stop by Galina Please patronize our sponsors Datkovsky's pool at 5 Chittenden Road. RSVP for $18 before 7/15 (or $25 after) at ​darcheinoam.com/event/ladies-luau.​ Carol Weissmann Broker Associate, REMAX Properties Select Scavenger Hunt. Sunday, Aug 12 at 11:00 a.m.–1:00 p.m. T​ hink you Direct - 201-390-6600 • C​ [email protected] know Fair Lawn? This is your chance to prove it, while having a great time with family and friends. On August 12 Darchei Noam will be running the inaugural Fair Lawn Scavenger Hunt. Get ready for 90 minutes of crazy Fair Lawn trivia, puzzles and some good old Sholom Silvestri fashion hustle. Whether you're new in town or lived here for years, Mortgage Banker, Approved Funding this is going to be a blast! Sign up with your team (up to 5 adults) Residential & Commercial Mortgages now at ​darcheinoam.com/event/scavenger-hunt​. Direct: 201-254-4​312 · S​ [email protected] NMLS ID: 1730931 Martial Arts & its Principles for Kids (Mondays at 7 p.m.) and Meditation & Tai Chi for Adults (Mondays at 8 p.m.). ​For more information and to register, contact Ilya Brodsky at [email protected].​

Community Announcements Help Make the Minyan in Paterson: ​ The Paterson Shul at Federation Apartments located at 510 E. 27th Street (corner of 12th Ave) will have a Minyan July 28 Parshat Va’etchanan, August 11 Parshat Re’eh and then September 1 with a special Bar- anniversary kiddush in honor of Phil Kestenbuam, a regular Ba’al Koreh with us for Parsha . Groups meet up at the Morlot & Broadway Bridges at 8:30a.m. For more info and an updated

Rabbi Jeremy Donath • President: Mark Moerdler • Vice Presidents: Abe Adler, Dr. Orrin Davis, Nathan Bednarsh, Liz Glasser, Andy Schultz ​ ​ 10-04 Alexander Avenue • P.O. Box 1331 • Fair Lawn, NJ 07410 • 201-773-4080 • www.darcheinoam.com ​ ​