Study Guide for Refuge An Expanded Version

By Melinda Viergever Inman

Refuge Study Guide

This study guide is designed to help you think about the Biblical truths embedded in Refuge.

This is a novel that illustrates how spiritual battles are fought, lost, and won. It reveals Satan’s tactics for attacking human beings. It also shows God’s mercy for even our blatant sins.

Each study section has questions and Scriptural passages for you to consider. This guide can be used for group discussion or for your own contemplation. Below are two ideas for your use.

How to use this study guide:

Work through each meditation and discussion section at your own pace. Two options:

1) When a portion of the story sparks your curiosity or prompts you to seek deeper

answers turn to this study guide. Focus on the topics that address your questions.

Pick and choose the areas where you want to go deeper.

2) Or work straight through the guide as you march through the story. The guide

follows the story, allowing you to pause and reflect before moving on.

Look for the obvious as you answer the questions. Each question aims at simple observation.

What do you see? The answer is right there in the written text.

I hope this guide enriches the story by highlighting God’s desire to restore and forgive. God’s loving purpose is eternal. Satan desires to ensnare human beings in sin. His tactics remain the same, though they adjust to our culture and our time. Yet, God’s love trumps Satan’s efforts.

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Refuge Study Guide Topics

Satan’s limitations………………………………………………………………………………3-6

Jesus and Satan……………………………...…………………………………………………..7-8

Why do we need someone to destroy Satan?...... ,...... 9-12

Who was the Seed? How did God shape his lineage?...... 13-16

The Genesis 3:15 promise fulfilled in Christ...... 17-18

Marriage...... 19-23

What does it mean to become “one flesh”?………………..……………………………...... 23

Cain’s character………………………………………………………………………………24-26

Cain’s mentions in the Bible…………………………………………………………………24-25

Lilith: the facts...... 27

Lilith: the legends……………………………………………………………….……...... 28-29

Lilith: Why use a name of myth and legend?.….………………………………...…………..30-31

What do we know about ?...... 32

Cain’s repentance……...……………………………………………………………………..33-37

What was the mark?...... 38

What was the purpose of the city?...... 38

List of sources………………………………………...………………………………………….39

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Discussion Guide and Meditations about Satan: Chapters 2, 5, 10, 12, 16, 25, 35, 40

First step: Reflection

The conversation between Satan and God in Chapter Five of Refuge is based on the book of

Job, Chapters One and Two. This provides us with a Biblical model of Satan’s limitations.

For now, simply think about these questions as you read:

• How much power does Satan have?

• What actions can he take to impact the lives of people?

• How is he limited or constrained?

• How do we prepare for Satan’s attacks and respond to them?

• What is the undergirding truth about God’s intentions toward us? Read and contemplate the following passages:

• Job 1 and 2

• 1 Peter 5:6-11

• Ephesians 6:10-18

• Romans 8:26-39 Pause to think about this. The next step digs deeper.

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Second step: Reflecting on Satan. Digging in.

What particularly does Satan do to gather information about specific people? In Chapter Two of Refuge we find Satan on a fact-finding mission, attempting to glean information about Cain.

Throughout the story, we then see Satan prowling around again, adjusting his data and tactics.

Take your time to work through these questions. They are demonstrated throughout Refuge.

Examine the verses to find the Biblical model. What do you think?

• From 1 Peter 5:8, Ephesians 6:11-12, Job 1:7, and Job 2:2, what does Satan do? Is he everywhere at once (omnipresent)? Or does he travel from place to place? Does he attack everyone? How do we know this from these passages?

• In Job 1:8 and 2:3, who draws attention to Job in the conversation between God and Satan? Has Job done anything wrong, according to God? What kind of man does God himself say Job is?

• Though we never learn God’s reason for testing Job in this way, the refining uncovered areas where Job needed to grow in humility and trust. God had a good purpose in mind. Read Romans 8:26-39. What is God’s purpose in any trial or test he allows to touch us? Can any type of trial separate us from the love of God?

• What do we see about Satan’s desire to tempt us? In contrast to God’s purpose to strengthen us through our trials, what is Satan’s plan? What does Job 1:9-11, Job 2:4-5, Ephesians 6:10-18, and 1 Peter 5:8 tell us about Satan’s aims?

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• In Job 1:9-11 and 2:4-6 had Satan already spied out Job’s weaknesses before God spoke about him? How do you know? What is the evidence?

• What type of activity has Satan done in 1 Peter 5:8-11 and Ephesians 6:10-18 to ascertain our weak spots? Does he already know them from previous attempts?

• How could Satan attack Job? Whose permission was required, according to Job 1:12 and Job 2:6? Who established the perimeters? How does this mesh with Romans 8:26-39?

• During the time period of Refuge, about 120 years after creation, what did Satan know about his limitations? Consider what he knew in Job 1 and 2. What does he know now?

• Consider the harm that befell Job and his family. Satan will be held accountable for the sins he committed in harming them, even though it was allowed by God for a good purpose. For harming people, Satan will pay for what he does when he faces judgment (see Revelation 20:10). In Job 1:13-19 and 2:7-10, what tools did Satan use to attack Job?

• How did Job respond in Job 1:20-22 and Job 2:10? For a deeper study, read Job’s responses to his so-called friends’ attempts to blame and/or comfort him.

• Based on the book of Job and on the 1 Peter 5:6-11 and Ephesians 6:10-18 passages, how should we respond to spiritual attack?

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• How does God protect us in all of these passages? Carefully consider.

• Why did come, according to 1 John 3:8?

• Want more? Read Job 38-42 for the end of Job’s conversation with God and the outcome.

• Online source: A Collision of Worlds: Evil Spirits Then and Now. C. S. Lewis Institute: http://www.cslewisinstitute.org/A_Collision_of_Worlds_page1

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Discussion Guide and Meditations: Jesus and Satan

Read and contemplate these passages spoken by Jesus. Take your time.

• Jesus’s words and interactions about Satan:

o Jesus’s temptation: Matthew 4:1-11; Mark 1:12-13; Luke 4:1-13

o Beelzebub: Matthew 12:22-32; Mark 3:20-30; Luke 11:14-28

o The sower: Matthew 13:1-23; Mark 4:1-20; Luke 8:4-15

o The weeds: Matthew 13:24-43

o The sheep and the goats: Matthew 25:31-46

o Jesus predicts his death: Matthew 16:21-23; Mark 8:31-33

o Jesus’s authority and what he allowed Satan to do: John 8:39-47; Luke 10:17-24;

John 6:67-71; Luke 22:3-6, 31-34; John 13:1-30

o Jesus heals a woman: Luke 13:10-17

What do you think?

• What key teachings contained in more than one of the gospel provide us with most of Jesus’ words about Satan?

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• Since these are eyewitness accounts, written either by the eyewitness himself or by a scribe or researcher working under the direction of eyewitnesses, what principles about Satan do we have straight from Jesus Christ—God in the flesh?

• How do Jesus’s words guide our words and actions about Satan?

• What do we learn about Satan and how he works?

• How do these words help us to gain courage in the lifelong struggle against evil?

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Discussion Guide and Meditations about the Seed:

First step: Reflection

What do you think? Take time to consider.

• In the time period of Refuge, did and ’s family know who the serpent was?

• Did they know who the Seed—the One who would crush Satan’s head—would be? Consider how Satan still works today.

Read and contemplate these passages. Answer the questions.

• Genesis 3:1-19. The serpent is the embodiment of Satan. Notice the serpent’s tactics.

• Review: Jesus tells us of Satan’s character as a liar in John 8:44. Read it again.

• What is said about God’s truthfulness in Hebrews 6:17-20 and Titus 1:1-3?

Who can we believe, Satan or God?______

What did Satan try to get to believe about God?

In what ways does he habitually insinuate or imply that God is a liar, when it is he himself who always lies?

How does Satan still introduce these lies about God into hearts and minds when he tempts?

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How does Satan still tempt us to take matters into our own hands and to gain knowledge in a way that is contrary to what God desires for us?

In what ways does Satan still try to get us to ignore our consciences and to determine what is right and what is wrong contrary to our consciences and to God’s words?

• Read Genesis 3:8-24. What do we see about God’s holiness, justice, and love?

How do God’s holiness and justice inspire worship? How does it relieve us that a holy God is just and will bring justice? How does it produce holy reverence and fear in us?

• Read Exodus 34:6-7; Romans 1:18-19; 2:5-11.

What is said about God’s holiness, love, wrath, and justice?

What about God’s wrath is a relief? What about God’s wrath is terrifying?

Why do we need someone to pay for our sins so we ourselves don’t have to?

The next step digs deeper

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Second step of reflecting on the Seed: Why do we need him?

Read and contemplate these passages:

• Read again: Genesis 3:15. This is the promise that the Seed would triumph over Satan.

• Romans 1:16-32. This shows how sin works and why we need the gospel.

• Romans 3:10-20. The present reality in all our lives.

• Romans 5:12-20. As you read, compare the two men: Jesus Christ and Adam.

:7-12. This is the promise of the final destruction of Satan.

Take time to think about it. Then continue on with deeper meditation.

What do you think?

• How did Satan’s temptation make God’s redemption necessary?

• When did God first promise Satan’s destruction?

• When Adam (the “one man” who sinned) listened to Satan, disobeyed God, and ate the , what was the result? (Romans 5:12-20)

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• How does that sin multiply within humanity? (Romans 1:18-32)

• Since sin has entered the world, in what state do we all find ourselves (Rom. 3:10-20)?

• Why did God promise to do about it? (Genesis 3:15)

• What resulted from Christ’s death and resurrection? (Romans 5:12-20)

• What will the outcome be for the great serpent? (Revelation 12:7-12)

• How are we given salvation? (Romans 1:16-17) How must we live to be righteous?

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Step Three: Digging deeper still. Who was the Seed?

Since the beginning, God has overseen history. The Old Testament record focuses on the descendants of Abraham through his son Isaac. This Jewish family is the lineage of the Promised

One. He is Jesus. With his sacrifice on the cross, he destroyed the power of sin and death, bringing all believers—Jews and Gentiles—back into God’s family as they were in Eden.

Tracing the Seed’s lineage: Read these passages. Address the questions.

• Read again the promise of redemption: Genesis 3:15

What did God promise to do to the one who tempted Adam and brought sin into the world?

• Read Genesis 4:6 and Luke 3:38

According to the above two passage, which son of Adam and Eve produced the offspring who would lead to the Savior?

• Read Genesis 12:1-3; 13:14-17; 15:4-6; 17:1-9; 21:1-7; Romans 4

After the flood and the tower of Babel, to whom did God appear? What did God promise to Abraham? How did God test Abraham and cause him to grow in faith as he waited? In Genesis 15:6, what caused God to count Abraham as righteous (it is repeated in Romans 4)?

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• Review Romans 1:16-17.

See the similarity between Romans 1:16-17 and Genesis 15:6. The message of the Old Testament and the New Testament is the same. Salvation has always been given as a result of faith. Where do we obtain faith? Do we have to manufacture it on our own?

• Read Romans 5:1-11 and Ephesians 2:1-10

What did God do for us according to these two passages? Who is the source of our faith?

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Continue tracing the Seed’s lineage.

We are examining significant people in the genealogy of Jesus—the Seed, the One who would crush the head of the serpent—though every ancestor was an important link. So far we have examined Adam to , then on to Noah to Abraham and to Isaac.

• Read Genesis 22:1-18; Hebrews 11:17-19

How did God test Abraham after Isaac was born? What did Abraham believe God could do? What does Abraham’s near-offering of Isaac teach us about God giving us his own Son?

• Read the book of Ruth; Matthew 1:1-6

God provides an Old Testament story during Israel’s history, providing Boaz as a picture of the coming Seed, the Kinsman-Redeemer, Christ our lover-redeemer. Read the lineage of the Seed in Matthew 1:1-6. Notice the women included. Two are Gentiles (Rahab and Ruth, 1:5), and two are controversial (Tamar, 1:3, and the wife of Uriah, Bathsheba, 1:6). With this inclusion into Jesus’s own family tree, which is peopled with notorious sinners, God shows us that the Seed is coming to redeem the sins of all kinds of people, regardless of family, ethnic group, or history of sin. What does the model of Christ in the Old Testament tell us about God’s eternal intentions?

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• Read 1 Samuel 16:1; 2 Samuel 7 and 1 Chronicles 17; 2 Chronicles 6:16—David’s son Solomon’s prayer. God made a promise to David that he would never fail to have a son sitting before God on the throne. This was a promise that David’s descendant would be the Seed, the Son of David who would reign forever.

• Read the rest of that lineage of the Seed: Matthew 1:7-16

• Read Galatians 3:6-14, 16-29

• Read John 1:1-18

What is said about the Seed? Not only is he descended from Adam, a seed of the woman Eve, but whose Son is he?

Consider how God worked through all of human history to bring his own Son to crush the evil one and to bring God’s redemption. Only a perfect man could die for our sins, having no sins of his own. Only God in the flesh, fully God and fully man of Adam’s lineage, could be that perfect man and have his sacrifice credited to us. Record your thoughts.

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The Genesis 3:15 promised fulfilled in Christ:

Read the following passages and think about the questions:

• How did God carry out his intention to redeem believers and to destroy Satan?

• Read Colossians 1:13-20

When God rescued us from the dominion of darkness into whose kingdom did he bring us? In Christ, what does he give us? Who presided over creation? Who is before all things? Who holds all things together? Who was the first to rise from the dead never to die again? Who is the head of the church? God reconciled all things to himself through Christ’s death on the cross.

• Read Romans 3:9-31

How do these verses quoted from the Old Testament prove that all of humanity sins and that everyone needs a Savior? How did God redeem us? Can we boast that we did any part of this?

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• Read Heb. 1:1-4; 1 Peter 1:18-21; and Philippians 2:4-11

God used to speak to people through Old Testament prophets, but how does he speak to us now? Who is Jesus? When was Christ chosen to redeem us? What was Jesus’s mindset when he obeyed the Father’s plan to redeem us? How are we redeemed? What did Jesus do after providing purification for our sins? How do we believe in God?

• Ephesians 1:3-14

Who chose, predestined, adopted, and called us? When was all of this determined? How are we redeemed? What does God do with the riches of his grace? When will all of God’s blessing be put into effect? When were we included in Christ? How were we then marked, guaranteeing our inheritance and the restoration of all that was lost in Eden?

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Discussion Guide and Meditations about Marriage: God provided the model with Adam and Eve.

The first two chapters of Genesis tell the same story, but Chapter Two gives more detail about the pinnacle events of Day Six, the creation of humanity. Read the creation account in this order:

1) Genesis 1:26-27

2) Genesis 2:5-23

3) Genesis 1:28-31

4) Moses’ editorial comment: Genesis 2:24-25.

What do you think? What principles can we see in the Biblical model?

• In bringing Eve to Adam and making her to be his wife, how did God create marriage?

• What vow and statement did Adam make to Eve?

• From this God-initiated model, what can we learn about the covenant of marriage, what two people comprise a God-ordained marriage, and how marriage is to take place?

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What does Moses’ editorial comment in Genesis 2:24 mean?

“What Genesis 2:24 is telling us, among other things, is that marriage is not just a man and a woman deciding to be monogamous sexual partners. Instead, it is telling us that they made formal, legal promises to each other before God. Proverbs 2:17 describes this explicitly when, speaking of an unfaithful wife, it says that she ‘has left the partner of her youth and ignored the covenant she made before God.’ This is why a biblical definition of marriage calls marriage ‘a formal human relationship.’ Note that it is a “formal human relationship.” That’s important, too, because there are animals that mate for life, yet they are not married. Only humans were made in

God’s image and, as we saw, this is why humans have intelligence and free will. Although other animals may mate for life, they do not make formal legal relationships before God.”1

“According to the Bible marriage is a permanent, formal, human relationship created by God between one man and one woman” (Brian Gordon Jones, Christian Faith & Modern Family pg. 2).

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Read the following passages about the marriage model:

• Ephesians 5:22-33

• Remember the Old Testament account on the book of Ruth.

• Song of Solomon What do you think?

• In marriage, what do we learn about the relationship between Christ and the church?

• What kind of experience does married love give us that models our relationship with the Creator of the universe, Christ Jesus?

• What type of language does married love provide that gives us vocabulary for the wooing and pursuing God does of our hearts?

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Consider now the anthropological and theological implications:

“Secular anthropologists admit that marriage is universal in human societies, that it is different from monogamy (which they believe, based on their evolutionary assumptions, developed first, before marriage), and that it precedes recorded human history. However, they cannot explain these things. Why is it that marriage exists in every human society? Why, if some animals practice monogamy, would marriage be necessary for humans? Why did people make promises to each other in marriage before anyone started writing down human history and why do they keep doing that in every human culture? Secular scholars have no good answers to these questions...The Bible, however, tells us that marriage exists and is so universal because God created it. Again, Genesis 2:24 says, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.’ In Genesis 2:24 Moses gives us his conclusion to the story of the creation of Eve, and his conclusion is that marriage exists because

God created humans. As the human author of Genesis, Moses is telling us where marriage originated and why it is such a dominant force in human societies. All human societies in every part of the world, in every historical time period, practice marriage. It transcends geographic, ethnic, racial, religious, and chronological boundaries. Why? Because God created it.”2

• How does this evidence reinforce and prove God’s creation of marriage?

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What does it mean to become “one flesh”?

God’s purpose in creating marriage was for companionship, for the spread of godliness and stability, for populating the earth, and for subduing it. In creating Eve for Adam, giving them a blessing and instructions for living, and then mandating them to take dominion over the earth,

God provided this model. In giving Adam a wife, rather than merely a friend, God created sex.

The first sex occurred after the first vow. How does sex provide the “one flesh” bond?

• Read Genesis 2:24 again.

• Read 1 Corinthians 6:15-20.

• Read Christ’s comments about Genesis 2:24 in Matthew 19:4-6.

What are the reasons given for avoiding sex with someone who is not your spouse?

What is the proper response to the temptation to immorality?

When a married couple has sex, who joins them together?

“When two people have sex, they become so closely joined emotionally and psychologically that they become united, almost as if they were one person. Sex seals the legal, covenant relationship of a husband and wife. It unites them mentally, emotionally, and spiritually in a way that no other human covenant can unite people. And this is why God created sex; he created a unique physical activity that would create a permanent psychological bond between them” (Brian Gordon Jones, Christian Faith & Modern Family, pg. 17).

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Discussion Guide and Meditations about Cain:

Read and consider this narrative:

• Genesis 4:1-17

This is the Biblical framework for Refuge. The fictional story was carefully crafted to conform to all of the elements of these real-life people and events while filling in the details with a story.

What do you think?

• Who was Cain? What kind of man was he?

• What can we learn from the Biblical record?

Read and consider the other Biblical references to Cain:

• 1 John 3:11-12

Why did Cain murder Abel according to this passage?

• Hebrews 11:4

Here we learn about Abel’s offering. What do we see about Cain?

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Read and consider these other passages related to Cain:

The following passages describe false teachers and people who turn from worshiping God and idolize their own desires. In Jude 1:11, Cain is compared to this type of person.

• Jude 1:5-16

• 2 Peter 2 (a similar passage to Jude 1:5-16)

• Romans 1:18-32

As Cain is portrayed in Refuge, what qualities from these passages showed in his life?

What type of man do you think Cain was? Does Refuge give an accurate portrayal?

Cain presented an offering to God and followed an outward form of religion, yet his heart was not right with God. How is he like a person who attends church and claims to be a Christian while living a life of hypocrisy and hardheartedness?

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Read and consider the following passage about Cain’s descendants:

• Genesis 4:17-24 What do you think?

• What do we learn about Cain from his descendants?

• What kind of people were Cain’s descendants?

• What were their gifts, skills, and aptitudes?

• How did they gift mankind with their creativity?

• Cain introduced the sin of murder into humanity. What new sin did his descendant Lamech introduce? God gave Adam one wife. What did Cain’s offspring Lamech do?

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Discussion Guide and Meditations about Lilith

Consider this passage: The facts about Cain’s wife

“And the LORD put a mark on Cain, lest any who found him should attack him. Then Cain went away from the presence of the Lord and settled in the land of Nod, east of Eden. Cain knew his wife, and she conceived and bore Enoch. When he built a city, he called the name of the city after the name of his son, Enoch” Genesis 4:15b-17 (ESV).

What do you think?

• When did Cain and his wife have their first child?

• What was the timing of Cain’s marriage? Do we know?

• What might the birth of his firstborn tell us, considering that the prevention of conception and birth control did not exist at this point in human history?

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Lilith’s Name: The Legends

The Genesis 4:15-17 contains the only factual information we know about Cain’s wife. We don’t know her real name. The use of the name “Lilith” for Cain’s wife is my nod to the wealth of mythology on the subject. “Lilith” is a Hebrew word with a history. It is used in Isaiah 34:14 and means “a night specter.” It is not a person’s name, but is a Hebrew word associated with a type of demon that inhabits the desert. What does such a name have to do with Cain’s wife?

The first people were ancient Sumerians and Akkadians. Adam and Eve were not Jews. All humans are their descendants. They lived in Mesopotamia, also known as Sumer. The ancient

Sumerian and Akkadian pre-Hebrew cultures were Adam and Eve’s descendants to the tenth generation down to Noah, and they were Noah’s descendants in Mesopotamia after the Flood.

All people are descended from Adam first and then from Noah. The Jewish people are the offspring of Abraham, the first man to be called a Hebrew. He lived near the Sumerian city of

Ur. Abraham descended from Seth, a son born to Adam and Eve after Cain killed Abel.

These first people on the earth all shared a common history, language, and folklore based on oral tradition, including accounts of creation, of the worldwide flood, and of the events immediately afterward. Because these events are humanity’s common history, they were passed down verbally in the histories of ancient peoples all over the earth.

The Sumerian King List quite possibly detailed Cain’s lineage. In their dialect the first king’s name was Alulim, the first of a line of eight (or ten, depending on the source) kings who ruled in a walled city in the days before “the Flood swept over” the land, as recorded in that history. The

Sumerian and Akkadians had a myth about a female demon named Lilitu, a name similar to

Lilith. The Epic of Gilgamesh, a Sumerian history legend, mentioned this female demon.

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Over the centuries, these Sumerian legends were incorporated into ancient Jewish writings, such as the Babylonian Talmud. Here rabbis interpreted and commented on the Scriptures

(including “lilith” from Isaiah 34:14). Just as commentators today offer their opinions on

Scripture, so these rabbis offered theirs. These writings were not Scripture.

Though modern scholars now argue over these sources, the fact remains that these murky legends were morphed into Jewish mythical folklore. Because these were only stories, of course the details varied, as is the case with all ancient mythology. These are not facts.

Moses recorded the Pentateuch over two thousand years after creation. The Old Testament was inspired by the Holy Spirit and was written mostly in Hebrew; therefore, Genesis contains the factual and infallible account of the early history of mankind. There we have the facts.

Genesis is the God-given account of the creation and these first events in our human history.

Since we do not know Cain’s wife’s name, I chose to use the name “Lilith” for two reasons:

1) The Hebrew word is used in the Old Testament in ways that prompted storytelling—ancient fiction that sprang from fear of the unknown demonic world. 2) These stories then became attached to Sumerian and Akkadian pre-Hebrew legends and myth associated with Cain’s wife.

For more information visit the author’s website: http://showknowgrow.com/a-novel-journey-mythology-and-lilith/

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Why use a name of myth and legend?

Refuge is a fictional retelling of a Biblical story, filling in the gaps with details that might have happened while adhering to the factual Biblical framework. In writing a story that is linked to a true Biblical account, it was imperative that I strive for accuracy. Since ancient legends were birthed around the Sumerian and Akkadian campfires of Adam and Eve’s descendants, I had to consider what non-recorded events or actions could have sparked a legend. The storytelling of both friends and foes of Cain and his wife would have birthed the myths, and they would have been passed down generationally. As I studied, I began to imagine the type of real-life behavior a strong and misunderstood actual woman—Cain’s wife—could have carried out, leading her remembrance to be objectified, demonized, and mythologized. What kind of a woman would marry Cain and leave their family to live with him after he had killed their brother? What might motivate her? I attempted to build a strong female character who could have provoked legend.

What do you think?

• Why would the wife of such a man spark speculation?

• What about the woman who would marry Cain might prompt curiosity? Is it the man himself? Or is it the question of what kind of woman would attach herself to him?

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• What about Cain’s wife and her actions, as I have portrayed her in Refuge, might be fodder for storytelling if this were an era of campfires and oral traditions?

• How might the Lilith of Refuge, as portrayed here, produce similar myths if told in a more superstitious time?

• Were you inspired by Lilith’s unwavering love for Cain? Or did her continual forgiveness of his violent flaws trouble you?

More information, if you’re interested:

• Use online search engines to research Lilith and Jewish mythology.

• A concise and informational Bible-based source about this myth is contained in Biblical

Demonology by Merrill F. Unger, Kregel, Grand Rapids, 1994. Look in Chapter IV: “The

Reality and Identity of the Demons” under the heading of “Seirim” and under “Demons

the Disembodied Spirits of Inhabitants of a Pre-Adamic Earth,” pg. 33, 43, 60. Biblical

Demonology also contains a thorough description of other myths regarding the word

“lilith” and Biblically debunks the theory of a pre-Adamite race, a demonic-human Lilith

character, and the blending of other mythological traditions into this ancient fiction.

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Discussion Guide and Meditations about Abel:

Abel fills this novel, even though he dies in Chapter Seventeen. He is humble and self-effacing, trying to do what is best for everyone. Through no fault of his own, he is caught up in his oldest brother’s rage spiral as Cain struggles with his conscience and with the unseen evil forces arrayed against him. Abel is the victim of Cain’s approval-based religious efforts and failures.

After his death, Abel’s murder shapes Cain’s repentance, his city, and his following decisions.

What does the Bible say about Abel?

Though Abel was on history’s stage for a shorter time than Cain and he left no descendants,

Jesus spoke of him, and he appears in the Faith Hall of Fame of Hebrews 11. As the first victim of violence, his blood is used in a comparison to illustrate the redemptive value of Christ’s blood.

Read and consider these passages:

• Genesis 4:2-11, 25-26

• Judgment on the hypocritical scribes and Pharisees: Matthew 23:29-36; Luke 11:47-51

• Through his blood, Abel still speaks to us: Hebrews 11:4

• Hebrews 12:18-24

What do we learn about the eternal value and example of a godly life? How does Abel’s blood still speak to us today? What is the better word spoken by Christ’s innocent spilled blood?

What about Abel’s actions and attitudes in Refuge inspired you? How do you feel he modeled righteousness in his life?

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Meditations on Cain’s repentance: Chapters 21-26

Read and consider this Biblical exchange between God and Cain:

“Cain spoke to Abel his brother. And when they were in the field, Cain rose up

against his brother Abel and killed him. Then the LORD said to Cain, ‘Where is Abel your

brother?’ He said, ‘I do not know; am I my brother's keeper?’ And the LORD said, ‘What have you done? The voice of your brother's blood is crying to me from the ground. And now you are cursed from the ground, which has opened its mouth to receive your brother's blood from your hand. When you work the ground, it shall no longer yield to you its strength. You shall be a fugitive and a wanderer on the earth.’ Cain said to

the LORD, ‘My punishment is greater than I can bear.* Behold, you have driven me today away from the ground, and from your face I shall be hidden. I shall be a fugitive and a

wanderer on the earth, and whoever finds me will kill me.’ Then the LORD said to him, ‘Not so! If anyone kills Cain, vengeance shall be taken on him sevenfold.’ And

the LORD put a mark on Cain, lest any who found him should attack him. Then Cain went

away from the presence of the LORD and settled in the land of Nod, east of Eden” (Genesis 4:8-16, ESV). [*4:13 Or “My guilt is too great to bear”]

What do you think?

• Did the real-life Cain repent?

• What is the evidence for repentance?

• What is the evidence against?

• Is it possible to be forgiven for this type of sin?

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Consider this theological information:

Most English versions translate Cain’s words as “My punishment is more than I can bear!” or

“My punishment is greater than I can bear!” However, as noted in the footnotes of the English

Standard Version, Crossway Bibles, and the Amplified Bible, Zondervan, some ancient versions read: “My guilt is too great to bear!” or “My guilt is too great to be forgiven!”

Did Cain repent? Scholars differ in their opinion. Because of that, for this fictional account, based on God’s response of mercy, I chose to have him repent. Pertaining to Genesis 4:13-15a:

“The fact that the Lord’s response was one of mercy and protection suggests that the

author understood Cain’s words as those of a repentant sinner. By themselves Cain’s

words do not necessarily suggest repentance, but the Lord’s response (‘Very well; if

anyone kills Cain, he will suffer vengeance seven times over,’ NIV mg.) implies that

Cain’s words in v. 13 are words of repentance.”3

Why Redeem Cain?

First, I wanted to demonstrate that God is capable of redeeming anyone. The One who would crush the serpent’s head has come—Jesus Christ. Fulfilling all the prophesies from the very first one given in the Garden, God the Son put on flesh, lived a perfect life, and died to redeem all who put their trust in him alone. We’re all sinners, just like Cain. None of us can live a righteous life. Christ did it for us. His perfect life and his sacrifice on our behalf were accepted by God. He paid for our sins and rose from the dead to legally justify us in God’s eyes, thus crushing Satan’s head. In this tale, the One holding Abel in his arms in heaven hinted at this.

3 The Expositor’s Bible Commentary, Twelve Volumes on Interactive CD-ROM, Frank E. Gaebelein, General Editor, Zondervan, 2006.

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Second, as I researched theological material for this book, enough reputable Biblical scholars believed that Cain’s words to God and God’s response in Genesis 4:13-15 might show repentance and God’s response to repentance that I felt I could pursue that possibility in a fictional story. Did Cain, in fact, actually repent? Only God knows. Unlike Manasseh son of

Hezekiah, David son of Jesse, or Saul of Tarsus—all notorious sinners, Cain’s repentance is not made crystal clear. It is vague, possibly inferred, as are some other accounts in Scripture. Not much literary space is given to Cain’s life, hence, the scholarly disagreement.

But, as far as we are concerned, removed thousands of years as we are, whether Cain repented is immaterial. It affected only him and his eternal destiny. The effect on humanity was the same, whether Cain repented or not. Like Manasseh, his sin is held up as a deterrent, and God brought judgment because of it. What played out in Cain’s family is what we see in every family where a progenitor has committed a grievous, life-altering transgression, regardless of that ancestor’s repentance. Sin affects future generations. This is one reason God hates sin—it affects and harms the children.

King David’s sons demonstrated their hardening toward sin, because of the adultery and murder (and other sins) David had committed, though David had repented. King Manasseh’s son

Amon carried on the atrocities his father had implemented before his repentance, walking in all the previous idolatrous ways of his father, as if Manasseh had never repented (2 Chronicles

33:10-20). King Amon was so evil that his own officials assassinated him.

The sobering fact is that even when we repent of grievous sin, still it affects our offspring.

Our having done it gives them a reason to try the sin themselves. We did it, after all, giving our tacit approval, even if our words and deeds now demonstrate our regret and turning from it. They

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often see us years removed from the sin, without the taint of it upon us; so it seems harmless to them, and they feel justified, even though we warn them against it. Nothing bad seemed to happen to us from their vantage many years removed from the scene of the crime, even if we tell them the tale of how God broke us down to bring us to repentance. Younger generations often believe themselves to be stronger and wiser than their parents. I know I was this way. This is how sin multiplies from generation to generation. We’re all sinners.

Often, those who are most affected by a sin, such as the siblings who were closest to Abel, are the ones whose pain prompts them to seek vengeance, thus destroying their lives through bitterness and creating a sin paradigm in their own families. These are the dynamics I crafted into this fictional story, and which I develop more fully in the tale that follows this one. In my opinion, the rapid spread of evil over the face of the earth was driven by this first murder, not only through Cain’s descendants justifying sin, as we see in his family tree (Genesis 4:19-24), but by the way it affected all of ’s siblings and their families, increasing violence through attempts at retribution. More families were corrupted by Cain’s murder of Abel than just the direct descendants of Cain. If it had been otherwise, more than eight people would have gotten onto the ark and God would not have had to destroy the earth with a flood.

What do you think?

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A story Jesus might tell:

Refuge is a tale of murder, revenge, and broken dreams: Can we ever find God if we kill someone we love and have to run? All of us face moments in our lives when we realize the damage our sins have done to ourselves and to others may not ever be repaired. Is God there?

My story illustrates the power of God’s mercy. This is a redemption story. With fiction, a writer can produce a “good Samaritan” type story, one where the person we expect to be the bad guy is transformed to become the good guy. Jesus used this technique. It shocks and gets across a point we can’t in any other way. God is able and wants to forgive any sin. He wants broken people to turn to him. Staying true to every Biblical reference of Cain, I crafted my fictional story based on

God’s decision to grant him mercy.

What do you think?

• Does this story give you hope that you, too, can be forgiven?

• Do you have a large regret over something you have done that has damaged others?

• Can God forgive you? What do you think?

• What will God’s forgiveness look like in your life? How will you respond?

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The purpose of the mark and the city: Chapters 18, 22-23, 26-30, 33-34, 36-37, 39, 41

There is much curiosity about the mark God put on Cain. What was it? What did it look like?

Literature portrays it in a variety of forms, usually as a festering, ugly scar. I aimed a different direction. The mark in my story is the Tetragrammaton, the four-letter Hebrew representation of

God’s own name: YHWH. In Refuge, God marks Cain with his own name in a written language not yet invented when these events occurred. This mark is a sign that Cain belongs to God and that God will draw him and transform his heart, giving him the necessary faith in the coming

One who will crush the serpent’s head. Salvation has always been by faith, and those who believe belong to God, marked with his name.

There is also a theological idea that the city itself might have been the mark. In later Jewish history God established cities of refuge for protection from vengeance, allowing time for due process. This first city offered the same: protection, time, and lessening of bloodshed. Cain’s city may have served as a foreshadowing or type of the coming Jewish cities of refuge.

Since there is no eyewitness account of Cain’s mark, there will always be speculation.

Read and consider these two passages:

• Genesis 4:15-18

• Numbers 35:9-34 What do you think? How could the city be like a mark for protection?

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These Scriptures and sources were consulted:

• The Holy Bible, translations: ESV, NIV, NASB, and Amplified. No Scripture text is quoted verbatim within the novel. Conversations are paraphrased. Passages consulted:

• Genesis 4:2-17 • Job 1, 2 • Hebrews 11:4; 12:18-24 • Matthew 23 • Luke 11:47-51; 16:19-31 • 1 John 3:11-12, 15 • Jude 4-11; 2 Peter 2 • Psalm 32, 34, 51 • Song of Songs 2:3 • Lamentations 3:31-33

• Arnold, Clinton E. “A Collision of Worlds: Evil Spirits Then and Now,” Knowing & Doing. C. S. Lewis Institute, Summer 2009.

• Dickason, C. Fred. Angels: Elect & Evil. Moody Press, Chicago, IL, 1975, 1995.

• ESV quote in this study guide: Scripture quotations marked (ESV) are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, ®), copyright 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers.

• First Book of Enoch, extra-biblical, pseudepigraphical Jewish literature.

• Gaebelein, Frank E., Editor. The Expositor’s Bible Commentary: Twelve-Volume Interactive CD-ROM. Zondervan, Grand Rapids, MI, 2006.

• Hamilton, Victor P., Editor. The New International Commentary on the Old Testament (NICOT), The , Chapters 1 – 17. William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, Grand Rapids, MI, 1990.

• Jones, Brian Gordon. Christian Faith & Modern Family. Brookpointe Ministries, 2013.

• Lewis, C.S. The Screwtape Letters. Harper, San Francisco, 1996.

• Lutzer, Erwin W. The Serpent of Paradise. Moody Publishers, Chicago, IL, 1996.

• Unger, Merrill F. Biblical Demonology. Kregel Publications, Grand Rapids, MI, 1994.

• Waltke, Bruce K. with Cathi J. Fredricks. Genesis: A Commentary. Zondervan, Grand

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Rapids, MI, 2001.

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