The Parish of Good Shepherd & St. Joseph June 17, 2018 Eleventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

! ! Saturday: 5:00pm • Sunday: 8:00am & 11:15am • Monday through Saturday: 9:00am (excluding Tuesdays )! Good Shepherd Church is fully handicapped accessible. ! ! Sunday Mass: 9:30am ! ! ! Saturday: 4:00 4:55pm • Monday thru Friday: 8:30 8:55am ( excluding Tuesdays )! ! ! Eucharistic Adoration every Friday from 9:30am until 12:00pm from September thru June ! ! ! Miraculous Medal Novena after 9:00am Mass on Mondays • Daily Rosary 8:30am ! ! ! Baptisms are conducted on the weekend. Parents who have not previously ! attended instruction in the sacrament must do so prior to the child's Baptism. ! ! ! Those seeking to marry must meet with the Pastor at least 6 months prior to the proposed ! wedding date. The time is needed for attending pre marriage programs, gathering appropriate documents, and securing any dispensation from ecclesial authorities .= ! ! ! !

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Saturday June 16 Weekday ! June 10, 2018…$5904 9:00AM Patrick Kenny + ! June 11, 2017….$5548 req. Kathleen Kennedy ! 5:00PM Henry Campbell + ! TO HELP ASSURE OUR PRESENCE FOR THE NEXT req. Brandes Family ! GENERATION, WE ASK THAT YOU PLEASE REMEMBER THE ! PARISH OF GOOD SHEPHERD-SAINT JOSEPH IN OUR WILL . !! ! Sunday June 17 Eleventh Sunday in ! Ordinary Time ! 8:00AM Father’s Day Novena (1) ! 11:15AM Helen & Edward Kozloski + ! req. Alex & Linda Sabo ! ! CATHOLIC TV !EWTN (Eternal Word Television Network) 9:30AM James Torpy + is seen in Rhinebeck on Cable Channel #97, digital channel req. Rifenburgh Family ! #135 system, Direct TV #370, Dish #261. Mass is broadcast ! daily 8 am, Noon, 7 pm and Midnight. ! Monday June 18 Weekday ! ! 9:00AM Father’s Day Novena (2) ! ! DAYTOP FOR A DRUG FREE WORLD . Call the numbers ! ! listed below if a loved one has a serious drug or alcohol prob- ! lem: 845 876 3789 or Fax 845 876 3276. ! Tuesday June 19 Weekday ! No Mass ! Crisis Pregnancy? For help contact Care Net Pregnancy Cen- ! ter of the Hudson Valley, Poughkeepsie (845) 471 9284 • Life Wednesday June 20 Weekday ! Options Center, Yonkers (914) 620 4464. ! 9:00AM Father’s Day Novena (3) ! ! ! BIRTHRIGHT has opened a new office on Main Street in Thursday June 21 St. Aloysius Gonzaga, Religious Poughkeepsie, near Holy Trinity Church. The organization 9:00AM Father’s Day Novena (4) ! provides, “love, support and hope to women facing unplanned ! pregnancies”. For counseling, referrals, to volunteer or to learn more about their services, please call 845 473 1300. ! Friday June 22 Weekday ! 9:00AM Benjamin Bortzfield + ! FILM RATINGS : Is this film suitable for children? Find the ! req. Jeffreys Family ! moral rating on the web: http://www.usccb.org/movies/. Spon- ! sored by the U.S. Catholic Bishop’s Office of Film and Broad- Saturday June 23 Weekday ! casting. ! ! 9:00AM Father’s Day Novena (5) ! ENCOURAGE is a Catholic Apostolate for those who have 5:00PM Ralph Gagliardi + ! family members with same sex attraction. A new website has req. Barb Dooley ! been created to help the faithful who are searching for infor- ! mation about Encourage, the Church’s teachings on same sex ! Next Sunday June 24 The Nativity of ! attraction and spiritual support. www.encourageny.com ! ! ! St. John the Baptist 8:00AM Lina Brocchetti + ! Please continue to save Boxtops for Education logos from ! General Mills products for Youth Religious Education. ! req. Michael & Annie Antonell 11:15AM Lucy & Matthew Miller + ! req. Betty Lutz ! 9:30AM Linda Marchini + ! Parishioner Update ! req. Alan & Debbie Shaffer ! NAME ______! ADDRESS______!  PHONE______! SANCTUARY LAMP at Good Shepherd Church:  EMAIL : ______! Will be lit in memory of Marie F. Vilagi ! __ Change of Address __ Moving out of Parish ! Req. by Fr. Douglas Crawford ! ! at St. Joseph Church  __ Home Visit Requested __ Want Envelopes ! Please fill out this form, cut out and return it through the Collec- will be lit for the Ruscher & Doell Families Req. by The Browne Family ! on Basket or by mail to the Parish Office. New registrants are ! invited to visit the Rectory during office hours to receive the reg- istraon form and informaon on parish acvies .! A Dad Like Jack: The Influence of stunned by the sight of his father sprawled out in the ’s Father snow on the front porch. “He was drunk,” his son later remembered. “Dead to the world … crucified.” Jack’s by Paul Kengor hair was soaked with melted snow, matted unevenly When we open our newspapers on Fa- against the side of his reddened face. The smell of whis- ther’s Day, we expect to find something nice key emanated from his mouth. about dads—often heroic dads. Yet, for every boy or girl whose father was a doctor or Marine Young Reagan stood over his father for a minute or two. who stormed the beaches of Normandy, there is a He wanted to simply let himself in the door and pretend dad who was more complicated; not a great dad his dad wasn’t there. Instead, he grabbed a fistful of but one still loved and had an impact, sometimes overcoat and heaved Jack to the bedroom, away from in unorthodox ways. This describes a father I’ve the weather’s harm and neighbors’ attention. He felt no resentment, just grief. This, after all, was the man who studied: Jack Reagan, father of the late presi- him dent, Ronald Reagan. had always carried .

Born in the Midwest, Jack Reagan was a shoe sales- The event shook the young Reagan; he never forgot it. man who scraped and scrapped so his family could get Four months later he was baptized at his mom’s church. by. And they didn’t get by very well. Before long, The story of Ronald Reagan’s dad is sad. Yet, it describes drinking—a lot of drinking—was helping Jack to many father-son relationships and reveals how a com- cope. plex father can possess both negative and positive attrib- utes—and, yes, there were positives. Jack uprooted the family at every turn. Throughout young Ronald Reagan’s childhood, his family never Jack instilled in Ronald Reagan the work ethic that pro- owned a home. In one of these moves, to the little pelled him into radio, then the movies, and then televi- Illinois town of Galesburg, Ronald had a kind of sion—all in the heyday of each medium. In the 1930s, epiphany. The lonely boy ventured to the attic of his when most of America suffered, Ronald Reagan soared. latest home. The previous tenant left behind a collec- He would go on to twice win (in landslides) the gover- tion of bird’s eggs and butterflies enclosed in glass. norship of the nation’s largest state and the presidency of The curious first -g rader escaped into the attic for the world’s most powerful nation. His father taught him hours at a time, marveling at the eggs’ rich colors and that success comes from within, not by a handout. the intricate wings of the butterflies. “The experi- Reagan saw in his dad an ability to roll with the punches, ence,” Reagan remembered, “left me with a reverence a trait crucial to Reagan’s thick political skin. He also for the handiwork of God that never left me.” These learned from his father the gift of gab that the Great wonderments, said Reagan, were like “gateways.” The Communicator ultimately mastered. notion of a Creator was etched into the boy’s con- sciousness. He later thanked that previous tenant as Moreover, completely neglected by history was “an anonymous benefactor to whom I owe much.” Ronald Reagan’s hatred of racial and religious bigot- Ironically, this dramatic rendezvous with the Creator ry. Here, too, his dad had a role. Jack didn’t just tell was Jack’s inadvertent doing. his son that racism was bad; he shared indelible ac- counts that Reagan internalized and retold through- Moving took a toll on the young Ronald; it created a out his life. void in him—a hole that religion came to fill. In need Of course, dads can’t do everything. For the duty of of a rock of reliability, he looked to where his mom, spiritual development, Jack Reagan delegated to his his heart, and his desolation pointed him: upward. wife, Nelle. Give him credit, I suppose. Jack knew There, he found what he perceived as a permanent his limits and his wife’s strengths. Nelle excelled at friend—God, who was always in His place, accessible the task. Really it was together, both at any moment, who never moved on him. Jack and his wife, who serve as an excellent example of how it takes two-a mom and dad, each bringing Another foible of Jack’s may have contributed to his separate strengths to the table-to best raise a child. son’s turn to God. It was a brisk February evening in Maybe that’s a worthwhile thing to remember on Dixon, Illinois in 1922. Returning home from a bas- Father’s Day, and any day. ketball game at the YMCA, 11-year-old Ronald ex- ©Crisis Magazine. Reprinted with Permission pected to arrive to an empty house. Instead, he was For Every Child, a Father do not lead, and often they are not even there at all. We men by Johann Christoph Arnold need to be fathers, not only to our own children, but to all  Writing about Mother’s Day is a joy. But writing the children whose lives we touch. Even men without chil- about Father’s Day is sadder and more difficult. Today dren of their own can embody the best attributes of father- more than half of U.S. children spend at least a part of hood. In this sense, fatherhood is a duty that is entrusted to their childhoods living apart from their fathers. How do every male, and true men will be like fathers to all children. we do justice to Father’s Day in an increasingly fatherless Over the years I have known many coaches and teachers in society? I had a good father, and even though he was high schools and elementary schools who were the only fa- gone a lot because of pastoral duties, I knew he loved ther figures many of their students knew. In a time when me. He also set firm boundaries and taught me to love true fathers are so hard to find, we would do well to heed and respect my mother. He was a leader and a role mod- the Cuban writer José Martí, who said that “the greatest aim el. I believed he could do anything he set his mind to. of our education should be to make true fathers out of the I’ve been married for 46 years. My eight children are all boys, and true mothers out of the girls. Everything else is grown. I know I was not always a good father, even secondary.” There is deep wisdom is these words. Boys hun- though I wanted to be one. But with 42 grandchildren, as ger for masculine role models, and suffer when they do not well as the many other children I meet every day, I wel- find them. Conversely, those who do find true fathers can come the chance to make up for lost time! The Fourth one day become good fathers and leaders themselves, and Commandment in the Bible tells us to honor both father leave behind a legacy that will change still more lives.Daring and mother, and that when people heed this rule, things and fearless, these men will enter into the battles of life as will turn out well. But how can a father expect to be hon- good soldiers, ready for challenges and combat. And like ored—that is, to be loved and respected—if he does not soldiers anywhere, they will remain alert and ready for duty live a life worthy of these things? If a man is lazy, dishon- 24 hours a day. They will not be afraid to lead, or to learn est, impure or indecisive, we can expect no better in his from their mistakes. In this way they will make a difference children. On the other hand, a father who loves and re- for their own children and for the world around them. Men, spects his wife—and who leads his family with decision let’s encourage one another to become true fathers again. In and dedication—is the greatest gift a child can have. A an age when fear dominates every relationship, we need real child’s emotional stability depends on his or her father’s fathers more than ever – men who are beacons of light, and example. Because the first five years of a child’s life are who provide companionship, love and hope in a world filled the most formative, this example should be present from with loneliness, pain and despair. Do you have such a father? early on. From earliest times, men have been expected to If you do, you are truly fortunate. Let Father’s Day remind lead their families, and we men should be proud of bear- you to take a moment and be grateful for him and to thank ing this responsibility. Today, however, too many men him. ©Crisis Magazine. Reprinted with Permission ! PARISH ANNOUNCEMENTS PARISH ORGANIZATIONS AND EVENTS ! GOOD SHEPHERD PRAYER SHAWL MINISTRY Blessing of Fathers Prayer shawls are not just for women...Please know that God and Father of all creation, Good Shepherd’s Prayer Shawl Ministry tries to have mas- we come before you today with hum- culine ‘shawls’ on hand at all times. Do not hesitate re- ble hearts. questing a shawl for any one in need of prayer. May dear You are our model of a loving father. St. Joseph intercede on behalf of all the men of our Parish

When we fail and fall short of your ex- this Father’s Day ! pectations, you are always there at the end of the AND THE THEME IS…… day with open arms, Summer with the Shepherd theme this year is “In the ready to heal the cuts and scrapes of City of God!” Registration forms are available now. They the day can be picked up at the parish office, at the religious edu- and to encourage us to try again and cation office or from the vestibule of Good Shepherd not to give up. church.

We hold up these men in our midst who act in the world *****YARD SALE MEETING****** as fathers to their children or models Will be held on Wednesday, June 27th at 7:00pm in of fathers for others. the church hall. For more information please contact Bless them in their moments of doubt Kitty Ghee at 845-876-6798 or Kellie Hanna at 484-753- and frustration with their children. 2920. Give them warm and open hearts to forgive failures. Provide them with the words needed

for encouragement and perseverance. Readings for the Week of June 17, 2018 ! We ask all this in the name of Jesus. Sunday: Ez 17:22 24/Ps 92:2 3, 13 14, 15 16 [cf. 2a]/2 Amen. Cor 5:6 10/Mk 4:26 34 ! Monday: 1 Kgs 21:1 16/Ps 5:2 3ab, 4b 6a, 6b 7 [2b]/ Mt 5:38 42! Tuesday: 1 Kgs 21:17 29/Ps 51:3 4, 5 6ab, 11 and 16 [3a]/Mt 5:43 48 ! Coffee Hour Wednesday: 2 Kgs 2:1, 6 14/Ps 31:20, 21, 24 [25]/Mt Will take place on Sunday, June 17th after the 8:00am 6:1 6, 16 18 ! and the 11:15am Masses in the church hall. Please join Thursday: Sir 48:1 14/Ps 97:1 2, 3 4, 5 6, 7 [12a]/Mt 6:7 15 ! us for coffee, baked treats and good fellowship. As Friday: 2 Kgs 11:1 4, 9 18, 20/Ps 132:11, 12, 13 14, always your donations are greatly appreciated. This 17 18 [13]/Mt 6:19 23 ! will be our last coffee hour for the summer. We will Saturday: 2 Chr 24:17 25/Ps 89:4 5, 29 30, 31 32, 33   ! see you again in September. 34 [29a]/Mt 6:24 34 Next Sunday: Vigil: Jer 1:4 10/Ps 71:1 2, 3 4, 5 6, 15, 17 [6b]/1 Pt 1:8 12/Lk 1:5 17 ! Father Cassian Folsom, OSB Day: Is 49:1 6/Ps 139:1 3, 13 14, 14 15 [14a]/Acts 13:22 26/Lk 1:57 66, 80 ! will be visiting Good Shepherd Church this week- end, June 16th and 17th. Fr. Cassian will be saying the 9:00am and the 5:00pm Masses on Saturday, June 16th, and the 8:00am Mass on Sunday June, 17th.

Baby Bottle Fundraiser for Life Pray for the Sick Many thanks for the generous response to the fund- raiser for the Expectant Mother Care-EMC Frontline. •Monica LoBrutto Boudreaux All baby bottles are due back today-Father’s Day (June •Ida Heins •Maureen O’Connor 17th). A collection basket is located at the main en- •Donna Luby •Henry Ingber •Rita Goetz •Donna Bisanz trance of the church . •Sr. Dorothy Robinson, S.U. •Edward Menti

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