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Hilchos Niddah Session #3 Hilchos Niddah Session #3 תלמוד בבלי מסכת ברכות דף ד/א כך אמר דוד לפני הקדוש ברוך הוא רבונו של עולם לא חסיד אני שכל מלכי מזרח ומערב יושבים אגודות אגודות בכבודם ואני ידי מלוכלכות בדם ובשפיר ובשליא כדי לטהר אשה לבעלה So said Dovid Hamelech to HASHEM, Master of the Universe, aren’t I a righteous person? When all of the kings of the east and the west sit gathered in their honor, and I get my hands dirty with the blood of women in order to permit them to their husbands. Proper attitude – permitting within confines of Halacha Asking Shaiylos Severity of Niddah relations ספר ויקרא פרק כ וְאִישׁ אֲשֶׁר יח) יִשְׁכַּב אֶת אִשָּׁה דָּוָה וְגִלָּה אֶת עֶר ְ וָתָהּ אֶת מְקֹר ָ הּ הֶעֱר ָ ה וְהִוא גִּלְּתָה אֶת מְקוֹר ר דָּמֶיהָ ְתוּוְנִכְ שְׁנֵיהֶם מִקֶּר ֶ ב עַמָּם ? כרת What is 1. Premature death 2. Part of Nishoma cut off 3. Affect children משנה מסכת שבת פרק ב עַל: ו) שָׁלשׁ עֲבֵרוֹת נָשִׁים מֵתוֹת בִּשְׁעַת עַל לֵדָתָן, שֶׁאֵינָן זְהִירוֹת בַּנִּדָּה וּבַחַלָּה וּבְהַדְלָקַת הַנֵּר Tshuvah is possible Conduct during the Niddah Period ספר ויקרא פרק יח ו ְא ֶל: א יט)ִשּׁ ָה בְּנ ִדּ ַת ט ֻמ ְאָת ָהּ א תִקְר ַ ב לְגַלּוֹת עֶר ְ וָתָהּ רמב"ם יד החזקה - הלכות איסורי ביאה פרק כא כל הבא על ערוה מן העריות דרך איברים או שחבק ונשק דרך תאוה ונהנה בקרוב בשר הרי זה לוקה מן התורה שנאמר לבלתי :עשות מחקות התועבות וגו' ונאמר לא תקרבו לגלות ערוה כלומר לא תקרבו לדברים המביאין לידי גילוי ערוה Included in this would be: Hugging, kissing, holding hands, or any contact with pleasurable intent. הרחקות In addition to this the Rabonon added a category of behaviors called These were created to keep a distance between a husband and his wife during the Niddah time period. Page 1 Hilchos Niddah Session #3 Basic Biology מקור Womb / Uterus פרוזדור Vaginal tract/birth canal What makes a woman a Niddah? טור יורה דעה סימן קפג ואשה כי תהיה זבה דם יהיה זובה בבשרה שבעת ימים תהיה בנדתה ולמדו חכמים ממדרש הפסוקים שלא בכל מקום שתזוב ממנה .דם טמאה אלא דווקא דם הבא מן המקור Three requirements from the Torah 1. Blood 2. From the Uterus (sensation) הרגשה With .3 If it is some other liquid, or if it didn’t come from the Uterus, or it came without a woman feeling it, .מדאורייתא would not render her a Niddah (sensation) הרגשה Rabonon – even without The Rabonon decreed that any blood that comes from the uterus, even without sensation makes a woman a Niddah. Page 2 Hilchos Niddah Session #3 This refers to any amount of blood no matter how minute. Any amount of blood no matter how minute, (if it came from a woman’s uterus and she felt it coming out) would render her a Niddah. Woman is a Niddah until she goes to the Mikvah Once a woman becomes a Niddah she doesn’t leave that state until she properly immerses herself in a Kosher Mikvah. Even if a woman is very old and no longer menstruates, if she had once been a Niddah and hasn’t gone to the Mikvah, she remains in her Niddah status. All young women from the age of Bas Mitzvah are in a status of being a Niddah. ?sensation - הרגשה What constitutes a Body shaking נזדזע גופה.1 Opening of the Uterus – פתיחת המקור .2 Internal flow of liquid – זיבת דבר לח.3 Internal flow of liquid – זיבת דבר לח If a woman felt liquid flow within her body, even though she didn’t feel any of the other sensations, if blood was found connected to that sensation, she would be a Niddah. Within the Vaginal tract The sensation that is being referred to here is inside her body (Anywhere within the vaginal tract). If she only felt it on her legs or outside her body, this wouldn’t constitute a sensation (and would not .(מדאורייתא render her a Niddah .(Rabbinicaly) מדרבנן She would however be a Niddah most common זיבת דבר לח Most women do not feel the first two types of sensations. Page 3.
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