Copyright © 2015, Christina Oxenberg Copyright © 2020, LAGUNA Kupovinom knjige sa FSC oznakom pomažete razvoj projekta odgovornog korišćenja šumskih resursa širom sveta. NC-COC-016937, NC-CW-016937, FSC-C007782 © 1996 Forest Stewardship Council A.C. This book is dedicated to Karadjordje & All his descendants & With a special salute to my beautiful, courageous & ageless mother HRH Princess Elizabeth of Yugoslavia (Jelisaveta Karadjordjevic) Kupovinom knjige sa FSC oznakom pomažete razvoj projekta odgovornog korišćenja šumskih resursa širom sveta. NC-COC-016937, NC-CW-016937, FSC-C007782 © 1996 Forest Stewardship Council A.C. It is easy for me to be grand with our well experienced army and vast financial resources, but down in the south, in the Balkans, there is a General who has arisen from the simple peasant folk, and who gathered his sheepherders, and with- out sophisticated weapons, with just the small cannons, shook the foundation of the almighty Ottoman Empire thus freeing his enslaved people. That is Karadjordje, to him goes all the glory of being the greatest General. Napoleon Bonaparte Table of Contents Foreword: Princess Myth 11 Prologue: Serbia, Why Now? 13 Chapter 1: HRH Prince Paul of Serbia (Part One) 32 Chapter 2: HRH Princess Olga of Greece and Denmark 60 Chapter 3: HRH Prince Paul of Yugoslavia (Part Two) 94 Chapter 4: Djordje Petrovic aka Crni Djordje, Black Djordje 122 Chapter 5: His Serene Highness Prince Alexander I of Serbia, Aleksandar Karadjordjevic 161 Chapter 6: HRH Prince Arsene of Serbia and later HRH Prince Arsene of Yugoslavia 176 10 Royal Dynasty Chapter 7: Princess and Countess Aurora Demidoff di San Donato, Aurore Demidoff 189 Chapter 8: HM King Peter I of the Serbs, Croats and Slovenes 202 Chapter 9: HM King Alexander I 222 Chapter 10: HM King Peter II of Yugoslavia and HRH Crown Prince Alexander of Yugoslavia Now Crown Prince Alexander of Serbia 238 Epilogue: The Descendants 275 Acknowledgements 287 Author’s Biography 291 Foreword Princess Myth Girls all over the world dream of being a Princess Not unreasonably they imagine wearing the finest frocks and being squired by the most desirable bachelors, to be pam- pered in palaces of marble and to live lives of unimaginable splendor Why not such a dream, indeed? They would be wise, however, to beware and never forget beneath the surface are veins of boiling vengeance Behind the glory lie heaps of mutilated bodies, rival brothers hanged or hacked to death, tremulous fathers mercilessly shot The founder of this dynasty met with a grisly end, decapitated, his head sent to the Grand Sultan in Constantinople All this so that one day Serbia’s children might exist in tranquility, free of repression from Turks or their vassals, and with the gory past politely swept aside From a mountain geyser spouts the first droplets of a widening river of descendants linking eventually to the sea The sea of civilized life where they could become noble patrons of the arts and esthetes I look at footage of King Alexander I, 1934 Marseilles He is dapper in an open car in formal military dress He 12 Royal Dynasty is smiling at the thronging crowds that welcome his offi- cial visit He is visibly pleased And then he is shot, dead instantly, and his skull reclines slumping sideways, blood oozes down his jaw It was shocking to me to watch this What a way to meet a relative How does such a dynasty begin? Christina Oxenberg, 2015 Prologue Serbia, Why Now? Despite my research into the story of my Serbian Karadjor- djevic family past, and while I have nothing but respect and admiration for all they accomplished, my intentions are not to dwell on these last two hundred years I doff my hat, I reverentially remember them and restore their sto- ries here as best I can But my objective is forward looking My goal and my hope is to carry on in their name for ways how I and my generation and the others of the Karadjord- jevic clan can continue the tradition of humbly serving the country of Serbia and help the needy and promoting the sciences and the arts, of which there is an abundance My vision if for the present and for the future I tip my hat to the past, I curtsy respectfully to my ancestors, and I stride proudly forward hand in hand with the Serbia of the twenty-first century That is my most sincere wish and intention Please join me on this quest As is the way with my life unexpected turns present themselves and switch my direction sending me down unpredictable routes So why now Serbia? Perhaps because 14 Royal Dynasty I’ve spent the first half of my life sorting out who my father was, and recovering from the collateral damage attached Now, at the midway mark of my life, I have decided I will spend my remaining years studying my mother’s side of things, this Serbian side Then, surely, I shall be done! I would never have decided this in any strategic way, rather a trove of good luck fell into my lap, glittering gifts Gifts that include a crypt of my own at the family mausoleum in Topola, central Serbia, a land of mountains and for- ests thick with poplar trees and the sweetest air When the time comes I will be all dressed up, and I will have somewhere to go By birth I am an American, born in New York City, on the upper east side of the island of Manhattan All my life I attributed much of my personality to this single fact Gradually I learned the same truths as do so many children and grandchildren of immigrants born in the “States”, that there is a past, there is a story, but everyone has done their best to forget it, to eradicate it It is typi- cal of an American, somewhere around middle age, as I am now, to look up from gazing at the ground beneath one’s feet, after years of sifting the soil and hoping for local answers only to look up, blinking at the brightness of the hugeness of the world and to begin a search for explanations on a horizon that goes beyond the world as one sees it The world of the past It is equally typical for an American to begin this enquiry by asking questions of parents and grandparents only to discover they have chosen to have forgotten everything In many cases the grandparents, if they were the first to board those rickety ships and cross the fierce unforgiving Atlantic Ocean, Serbia, Why Now? 15 they might not have learned English and cannot even communicate with grandchildren They will deny their religious heritage They will obscure their origins The only thing they might hold dear are recipes for favorite food This “origin-washing” is so thorough, all informa- tion so bleached that the “seeker” is as likely to give up the quest before they start As my friend and professional photographer Leigh Honey Vogel says, “If I tried to research my family roots I’d hit a dead end somewhere in the Bronx and that would be the end of it ” I am well aware and very grateful that my situation is unique because instead of a willfully reluctant relative who claims airily, “We come from somewhere in Russia, it’s all long ago now, don’t ask questions Have some more soup” In my case I can fire up the internet and research my family At least my mother’s side of the family This is a luxury for an American, and I have only just begun to take advantage I ask you, what do you think an American is? I ask this because when I travel abroad I am often privy to hostility and judgements So I like to pose this question which is what do you think an American is? Do you think they sprang out of the ground? I will tell you they are the descendants of people from all over the world, they are your ancestors’ lost grandchildren, and they do not know who they are They are rootless They have no personal identity From house to house they have no bond That is why they obsessively ask of each other, “Where are you from?” and inevitably the answer is the name of a town and a State But the real question is far subtler than they 16 Royal Dynasty even realize, and the correct answer is not known to them The truth is they have no idea where they are from or who they are So their identities are being fashioned on the spot, like an anvil miraculously thrown up in their paths, they create themselves America is the great experiment Many have thrived from this experiment, however, in the eyes of some this is an experiment that has not faired so well Having never been to Serbia in my entire life, in the summer 2014 I traveled to Belgrade to attend a party Sure, it is a long way to go for a fiesta but the circum- stances were appealing to me The soiree was in honor of the restoration of a property taken from my Serbian family after they were thrown out of the country all those years ago Obviously, the family lost far more than just this property, they lost their homeland We have all been wandering ever since When the current government (of 2014) restored own- ership of this property to my mother and her brother Prince Alexander, this was for us a very big deal The first true welcome home after half a century of exile, oh and death threats To me, along with many family mem- bers, this was more than a respectable reason to celebrate Karadjordjevic cousins from all over the world converged on Belgrade in the summer of 2014, magnetically drawn and instantly bonded together for the first time and for the same cause We recognized each other instantly, we all look exactly alike This was an exhilarating experience I am half Serbian I was born in New York City and raised in England resulting in a mishmash of an accent Serbia, Why Now? 17 Americans assume I am British but I have not a single drop of English blood