NORMAN LAMM VA-YISHLACH EECStfiSR I960 MTHS tf AYS OF SSAU" At the beginning of this morningfs Sictra, we find Jacob awaiting the fateful confrontation with his brother Esau* Jacob is apprehensive — even terrified — as he prepares for Baau who is advancing upon him with four hundred armed men, with vengeance and murder in his heart. At this point, Jacob decides to divide his retinue into two separate camps* His reason, according to the Torah, was that should Esau destroy one camp, at least the other would escape and survive. Allow me to bring to your attention an additional reason for Jacob*s strategy, one suggested by the eminent Hssidic master, the author of the Sefat ISraet, in tb& name of his renowned grandfather, the Kotzker Rebbe, He bids us read a bit further, when Esau and Jacob finally do meet, Esau ran towards Jacob, embraced him, fall upon his neck — ya-ylshakehu, and he kissed him. The word va-yishakehu is written with a series of dots on the top of it. This is rare in the Torah, and when it does occur, it indicates that there is a deeper meaning that must be searched out. Th&t our Rabbis did, and Rabbi Yanai taughtt melamed ahe-lo bikesh lefnashko ela le'nashkho — Esau did not intend to kiss Jacob, to give k*331 a nes"?-fc&fr °r kiss. He did intend to give him a neshikhah — a bite, a mortal wound* He eiubraced him, and then fell upon his neck in his characteristically wild, bestial manner in order to kill him. But, by a miracle, Jacobfs neck turned hard ag marble, and so Esau — kissed him. It was a hypocritical kiss; a kiss not of love but of death, not of affection but of affliction. These are the two ways Esau always tries to overcom Jacob: the ways of neshikah and neahikhah. Sometimes Ssau acts directly and openly — like a wolf. At other times he is devious and sly — like a fox. At such times the neshikah hides the deadly neshikhah5 and honey drips about the inner poison. NORMAN Um -2- VA-TISHLftCH DECEMBER I960 »TH£ WATS OF SSAU" Jacob, knowing of the two approaches by Ssau, therefore divides his own camp into two, training each of them how to cope with one of the alternate strategies that Esau mi^it be expected to use. He teaches on® camp how to resist £saufs neshlkhahj his bite or direct physical onslaught. He teaches the other how to oppose the neahlkah or kiss of Bsau, his inviting manner which intends only t© threw Jacob off guard. Therefore, the Kotzker concludes, Jacob prayed to G-dt hatzileni na mi-yad achi» rai-yad Ssav, save me from the hand of ray brother, from the hand of Esau. In other words, sa*^ m® both from Bsau when he appears undisguised, as Esau my sworn enemy who aims but to destroy raes and save me from Esau when he appears to se as a brother, in the guise of fraternal affection. Deliver me both from his bite and from his kiss. In our own days w© have suffered grievously from the bite of Ssau. One third of our people were the victims of the vicious neshikhah. But we have begun to develop the capacity to resist it. From th© ghetto resistance fighters to the Hagg&nah, from the Israel Defense Arniy to the various efficient agencies combatting anti-Semitism in America and abroad, we have learned how to withstand the noxious bite of the Esaus of our day. The great, overwhelming problem of our day, however, is not tb§ bite. It is the kiss of Esau. Where twenty centuries of Christianity have failed to budge us by swerd or by stake, by e>dle or by persecution, the alternative policy of smiling sweetness, of the neshikahj has begun to show the first signs of success. No longer are we thre&tanad ¥ith forced conversions. No longer do ex-Jewish priests challenge us to public debates and slander the Talmud as a t>aek of anti-Christian lies. Now the ex-Jew first praises the Talmud as a very fine book indeed — but ose that has been surpassed. Nowadays a missionary to the Jews first writes a book against anti-Semitism. Then he writes a book about "building -3~ VA-TISEUCH DECEMBER I960 »THBWATS OF fcl bridges," Then he invites us into a "dialogue»" And so on • •• Most recently w@ have witnessed the most incredible, embarrassing kind of situation where Jewish organizations have bean cornpsting for the honor of Esau's dubious kisses. It is something we Orthodox Jews must study- deliberately and ealaly, but that we must not dare overlook or neglect. The press recently reported that Dr. Nahua Golcteian, President of the World Zionist Organization and the trorld Jewish Congress, had been ia contact with a very important Cardinal (a German) to arrange for a single Jewish delegation to attend the forthcoming Scumenical Council at the Vatican, kn Ecumenical Council is a world-wid® assembly of high church officials, under the presidency of the Pope, convoked to discuss matters of Catholic Law and Doctrine. At this coming Council the main business will be an understanding with frotestantism and the ultimate merger of all Christian churches. Reform Rabbis, at least certain prominent ones, have heartily endorsed the plan. In recent years, incidentally, there has been a pronounced tendency on their part to take a positive, affirmative, and even affectionate approach to the founder of Christianity• Reform preaching and writing in this direction has increased noticeably of late. s What should be the reaction of Orthodox Jew? The very first reaction is, I believe, that of speechlessness at the enormous audacity of self- appointed Jewish "leaders*1 who dar© to speak on behalf of all Jewry on mattera of such moment to our faith. There is really little that one can say, because there is so much that one should say. Twenty centuries of experience with £sauf3 bites are to be discarded as Jewish leaders vie for the kiss of the sairse Esau! They are so flattered by the affectionate attentions of Ssau that, in their spiritual sycooh&ney and religious obsequiousness, they are willing to forget all that Jacob stands for* NORMH LAMM ~U~ VA-XISRLACH DECBMBER I960 "THE WAYS OF ESAP* But speak we must, for to be silent in the face of such gross insult to the whole Jewish historic experience would be sinful. We ssust expose the massive folly of this unfortunate move* First, they have shown a lack of self-respect and have delivered a heavy blow to Jewish dignity by not -waiting for an invitation. They have invited themselves, and now stand hat in hand waiting breathlessly for the host!s confirmation, A party-crasher is reprehensible whether the party is social or religious, private or international. One has the uncomfortable feeling that much of this has been said with an eye on the headlines, indicating once again how widespread is the poison secreted by the demon of public-relatifnism and the press release. Imagine the chagrin and embsrrassaant that all of us will suffer if, as rumor has already indicated, Rome rebuffs these Jewish leaders because it does not wish to offend the Arabs or the Catholic countries which are anti-Semitic* Second, this represents an ungracious, distasteful, ignominious intervention in somebody else's religion. What business do Jews have in a Christian religious conference called to discuss Christian fellowship? How dare any Jew nreaum© to tell Christians how to worship or what to believe3 Of course, we agree that Christianity is the source of most of anti-Semitism. Some action should be taken to urge liberal Christians to recognize the source of so much human misery and do something constructive about it. But it is never to be done ag part of "negotiations," as the Jewish politicians would ha^@ itf much less as a result of "dialogue" as the Reform would have it. Third, who is the President of the World Jewish Congress to speak on behalf of religious Jawry? It is a sad commentary on American Jewry that only here would such © scandalous situation be tolerated, wherety an avowed secularist and political figure arrogates to himself the prerogative um ~$- VA-TISHUCH DECEMBER I960 "THE WAYS OF £SAU« of representing one religious community vis-a-vis another] It is true that Dr. Goldman consulted Orthodox leaders — but only after his ill-fated meeting with the Gerraan cardinal. This is not consultation. This is a salvage attempt. The difference is that between saving souls and saving face. Fourth we roust acknowledge soberly and proclaim publicly that, despite all disclaimers, this conjures xxp the old, dreaded Hebrew word? shemadl Of course these Jewish leaders do not want to lead us into mass conversion! But they are the blind and unwitting tools of just that — a campaign of shen-ad. The she mad Esau could not achieve by a couple of hundred centuries of biting, he now wants to achieve with a light kiss — assisted by love-starved Jewish leaders! This is the end result of a secularism which regards Judaism as only a cultural backdrop for a nation or people, and which regards Torah as only a vestige •#£-&*&&* This is the end result of a Reform which denies the uniqueness of the Jew and reduces our faith to a few well-intentioned liberal phrases in poor imitation of our non-Jewish environs. And as if these deeds were not enough, one party to all this maneuvering had the ill grace, the temerity, and the spiritual obtuseness to suggest to Catholics that as a gesture to Jews they increase the number of their saints from amongst Old Testament heroesI What an ill- advised, vulgar, gross meddling with another's religion! And more important: are they so naive as not to realize that Catholics will ask a price for all this? Orthodox Jews ask: what is the price we are ejected to pay for this kiss of Esau? 1iat, especially,