November/December 2020 Cheshvan/Kislev/Tevet 5781 THE NEWSLETTER OF THE LIBERAL JEWISH SYNAGOGUE LJS News Photograph by Peter Singer Celebrating Chanukkah An exciting array of services, events and activities throughout the festival period are planned for Inside this issue Chanukkah, the first night of which falls on Thursday 10 December. Community News; 2-3 Shabbat and Festival Assuming there are no restrictions on entering the services synagogue building, we will be lighting our Menorah A personal experience 4-5 (pictured) designed by the Israeli sculptor Frank Meisler, of Rosh Hashanah and look forward to everyone sharing their chanukkiyot Celebrating Sukkot 6 with us when we gather together via Zoom. and Simchat Torah In addition to the Erev Shabbat and Shabbat morning Council Report 7 L’Dor va’Dor Chanukkah services on 11 and 12 December, 80th anniversary 8 we are delighted to announce that The Most Revd Justin of LJS bomb damage Welby, Archbishop of Canterbury, is joining us, together The Lessons of Chanukkah 9 with other special guests, for a multi-faith event on the Chanukkah food 10 evening of Thursday 17 December. Lighting your 11 Other celebrations include a quiz night and a light- Chanukkiyah at home hearted talk on Chanukkah and Christmas by Rabbi The Learning Circle; 12-14 Dr Michael Hilton. On the afternoon of Sunday 13 new course on Racism December, there will be a virtual KIT (Keep In Touch) party. Rimon Corner 15 Full details will be communicated to everyone via Extracts from November 16 Shalom LJS and the LJS website. We hope you will enjoy 1940 newsletter; Send in the variety on offer and be able to join us for some, if not your favourite Jewish word! all, the celebrations. Chuppahs at Mixed Faith Congratulations Blessing Ceremonies to Peter Lantos At their September meeting, the Conference of Liberal Rabbis and Cantors (CoLRaC) voted to allow In the Queen’s couples, where one of the partners is Jewish and Birthday Honours the other non-Jewish, to hold their mixed faith List, LJS member blessing underneath a chuppah. Although the vote Professor Peter Lantos was carried, there were a number of abstentions and was awarded a British the CoLRaC stated that the decision was a matter Empire Medal (BEM) of rabbinic discretion and would be determined by for his services to the intention of the couple to create and maintain Productions © Atlantic Holocaust Education a Jewish home and family. As previously, couples and Awareness. We offer Peter our sincere must have a civil marriage ceremony before they congratulations on this well-deserved honour. hold their blessing and may not hold their blessing Peter’s highly acclaimed book Parallel lines: on Shabbat or festivals. a journey from childhood to Belsen gives an For more details about either a Jewish marriage account of his early years and his personal or mixed faith blessing at the LJS, please contact experience of the Holocaust. Rabbis Alexandra Wright and Igor Zinkov. Bereavements We extend our sympathy to those who mourn: Fergus Falk, husband of Vivian, father of Harriet, Annabel and Sebastian, and brother of Victor and Gavin Brenda Foguel, mother of Julia John Gluckstein, husband of Janet, and father of Juliet, Mark, Diana and Catherine Do you live around Regent’s Park and would you Brenda Lebor, mother of Adam and Jason like to meet with other LJS Members and Friends for physically distanced walks in the park? Please email We also extend our sympathy to Naomi [email protected] for meet-up details. Goldman and her family on the death of Naomi’s mother Marian Goldman and to the Community Care family and friends of former LJS member Aviva Shafritz, our Community Care Co-ordinator, is Margaret Libbert, who died in Canada. ready to help with any diff iculties our members are experiencing, including illness and the provision of care. Email: [email protected]; Tel: 020 7286 5181 May God comfort you and all who mourn Membership Renewal 2021 In December, the membership renewal notices will start to be issued to every Member and Friend of the LJS. We realise that this has been a very challenging six months financially for many people, and that there are harder times ahead, but now more than ever, the synagogue needs your support so that we can continue to reach out, connect and engage with all our members. Please look out for your membership renewal. We look forward to your prompt response. The next issue of LJS News will outline in more detail the initiatives you are supporting and the benefits you are receiving. 2 Shabbat and Festival services: November 2020 to early January 2021 Friday evening services are at 6.45pm. Shabbat morning services are at 11.00am. At the end of each service on Friday evening and Shabbat morning, congregants are invited to join together for Zoom Kiddush. DATE RABBI/SPEAKER AND NOTES Friday 6 November Alexandra Wright Co-led by Bar Mitzvah Charlie Grainger Shabbat 7 November Alexandra Wright Bar Mitzvah Charlie Grainger Vayera Remembrance Shabbat Monday 9 November 7.30pm Dr Barbara Warnock, The Senior Curator and Head of Education at the Kristallnacht service Wiener Library Wiener Library gives a talk following a short service Friday 13 November Igor Zinkov Co-led by Bar Mitzvah Sidney Gruber Shabbat 14 November Alexandra Wright Bar Mitzvah Sidney Gruber Chayyey Sarah Friday 20 November Rachel Benjamin Co-led by Bat Mitzvah Olivia Sinclair Shabbat 21 November Rachel Benjamin Bat Mitzvah Olivia Sinclair Toledot Friday 27 November Alexandra Wright Shabbat 28 November Igor Zinkov Vayetze Friday 4 December Alexandra Wright Co-led by Bar Mitzvah Theo Frankel Shabbat 5 December Alexandra Wright Bar Mitzvah Theo Frankel Vayishlach Friday 11 December Alexandra Wright Please join us with your Chanukkiyot so that we can Erev 2nd Night Chanukkah kindle the lights together Shabbat 12 December Igor Zinkov and 2nd Day Chanukkah; Human Rights Shabbat Vayeshev/Chanukkah Matt Turchin Two concurrent services: L’Dor va’Dor service co-led by Rimon students and teachers Alexandra Wright Koleinu service Friday 18 December Igor Zinkov Erev 8th Night Chanukkah Shabbat 19 December Alexandra Wright Mikketz Friday 25 December Alexandra Wright Shabbat 26 December Igor Zinkov Vayiggash Friday 1 January 2021 Igor Zinkov Shabbat 2 January Alexandra Wright Va’y’chi At the time of going to press, we are planning for ‘hybrid’ services: a safe and limited number of people may be admitted to the Sanctuary; others will be able to access the services online. Our return to the synagogue will be based on government guidance. Please see our weekly Shalom LJS email for further information nearer the time or telephone the LJS on 020 7286 5181. 3 Rosh Hashanah - a very moving service LJS member Carolyn Simon tells us of the impact this service made on her It is Rosh Hashanah steps forwards at the beginning of the Aleynu. I morning. I am am delighted that some knee-bending is making wearing an elegant a comeback, at least for the Bar’chu. In short, I am dress and pearls secretly a fan of the Psalmist’s approach to prayer: for only the second ‘All my bones shall say…’ time since March. This Rosh Hashanah morning my bones are free However I am not to speak as never before. During the musical wearing tights or passages, I am dancing balletically (or so I like shoes. Exceptionally, to think). During the Torah reading I find myself I am not going to miming the Akedah – the story of the binding synagogue. In this of Isaac – in synchrony with the Hebrew words. time of pandemic, When it comes to the sermon, I lie on the floor in synagogue is coming semi supine (a well-known Alexander Technique to me. position for ‘constructive rest’) and am able to I have set up our family’s iPad in the sunniest, listen without distraction whilst simultaneously most spacious upstairs room of our house, the resting my back. one with the best garden view. At 11.00am the When the service ends, I am feeling spiritually LJS service, streamed via YouTube, goes live. uplifted (normal) and physically enlivened Meanwhile my husband Michael and my brother- (unprecedented). I go downstairs. I assume the in-law Paul are in the dining room, watching Alyth live-stream has finished too, as I can hear the Alyth Reform Synagogue service on our son Michael and Paul talking. But no, their service is Reuben’s laptop. I had expected that Reuben still in progress. As might happen in an Orthodox would join one or other of these prayer options, shul, Michael and Paul are chatting! In fact, the but he is in bed with a bad cold. evidence on the dining room table suggests that So I am on my own for the Morning Service – and they have been sipping tea and eating honey this turns out to be completely liberating! One cake! There is no one else to be disturbed. change from normal is that I have a glass of water The main reason I found Rosh Hashanah 5781 so at hand. A more significant change is that I can uplifting and so refreshing has nothing to do with move freely whenever the urge takes me. my glass of water or my delight in being able to I lived my teenage and early adult years primarily move. It is because those tasked with planning ‘from the neck up’. That is, I was a fairly cerebral and running the first live-streamed, Covid-19 person, disconnected from my body. In my early secure High Holy Day services in the history of thirties I redressed this imbalance and trained the LJS rose to the challenge with such amazing as an Alexander Technique Teacher, a mind- commitment, talent and creativity.