Get Inside Her: The Female Perspective Dirty Secrets From A Woman On How To Attrack, Seduce, and Get Any Female You Want Marni Kinrys THE ULTIMATE WING GIRL Edited by Rebecca McLeod Copyright 2012 Velocity House Publishing Copyright 2012 Marnie Kinrys ISBN: 978-1624090127 All rights reserved. No part of this document may be reproduced or transmitted in any form, either by electronic or mechanical means including information storage and retrieval systems without the prior written permission of the publisher. The only exception is for a reviewer who may quote brief passages in the review. This publication is presented to you for informational purposes only and is not a substitution for any professional advice. The contents herein are based on the views and opinions of the author and all associated contributors. 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Table of Contents Title Page Copyright Dedication Preface Introduction I. What the F do Women Want? II. How To Approach Women III. How to Talk to Women and Create Attraction IV. The Dating Playbook V. How to Avoid the Friend Zone VI. How Women Want It! The How, What, Where, When and Why Behind Every Female Action. VII. Conclusion VIII. References Dedication I thank every person I have ever encountered who made me feel anxious. Each of those people pushed my buttons and frustrated me at the time, but ultimately these encounters pushed me to become the woman I am today. I dedicate this book to: Justine Mazin for her incredible, funny chapter introductions. All the men who have supported the Wing Girl Method and me for the past decade. The ex-boyfriends that hurt or loved me. My amazing male friends. My kick-ass girlfriends who have allowed me to interrogate them for intimate details and strap microphones to their bodies so I could complete my research. My family, for supporting me and my ideas no matter how crazy they seemed The best man among all men, my husband. Without him I would not have an example of what it truly means to be a man that women want! He is a man who I hope to spend the rest of my life with. Special thanks to my industry peeps: everyone in The Seduction Syndicate, Sean Stephenson, Eben Pagen, Carlos Xuma, David Wygant, Josh Pellicer, Mark Ling, Nina Rubin, Neil Strauss, Ross Jefferies, Nicole Powers, Brian Gross, Kelly Perkins, and Rabbi Shwartzie. Preface I have been trying to write this book for four years. By trying I mean attempting to pawn off the work on someone else who I thought could more creatively present the work I’ve been doing for nearly a decade. Every time I tried, the writer failed to convey what I wanted. The content of the book didn’t convey the passion I have for my life’s work. I wanted perfection. I wanted everyone to love what I wrote and I wanted every guy who picked up a book with my name on it to be magically motivated and transformed. Then I realized something... I was doing exactly what I tell men, every day, to stop doing. I was stopping myself from going after what I wanted because I was afraid of failure. Just as you cannot attract and charm the pants off every woman, you cannot create the perfect book that will motivate and transform every man. So I said, "Fuck it," and started putting together my book! My advice has already helped hundreds of thousands of men around the world. A little poor grammar and shoddy spelling were not going to hold me back. This book represents close to a decade of hard work, constant testing, as well as years of being in the trenches with clients and friends. This book is a compilation of the work I have been doing for almost a decade. I’ve gathered what I think to be my best blogs, articles, newsletters, emails to clients, stories, and responses to comments on my website and I have put them all into one place. This book is not designed to make you feel good about the things you have done in the past. Men come to my website, sign up for my programs and buy my books because they want a female perspective. I make it my goal to give them that perspective, and sometimes it hurts. It can be hard to hear that you’ve been going about getting a date in totally the wrong way, but it can stop right now. As a woman who studies what women want, I am going to tell you exactly how to approach women. You are going to learn in-depth, real things about women; the things they want, the things they expect, and why what you are doing now and have been doing until now is not working. The pieces I have gathered for you do not tell you how women should act; they tell you how they do act. women should act; they tell you how they do act. Enjoy. Marni Kinrys, World’s Best Female PUA of the Year (2010, 2011) Introduction I waited backstage at the Renaissance Hotel ballroom, where the Pick-Up Artist Summit was in full swing and I was the next scheduled speaker. If you are not familiar with the term Pick-Up Artist, it means a man (generally) who is skilled at meeting, attracting, and seducing women. Typically, Pick-Up Artists, or PUAs, are associated with the seduction community, a heterosexual male subculture based on the goal of improved sexual and romantic abilities with women. For years this world has been kept a secret but with the success of VH1’s show "The Pick Up Artist" and Neil Strauss’ bestselling book "The Game" (Strauss, 2005), it‘s not so secret anymore. In fact, it has become a big business. The PUA Summit is a gathering of the world's top PUAs and their followers who are eager to learn. Some of the experts teach pick-up lines, while others teach routines, but all teach their method on the art of getting the girl. If you‘re confused as to why I, a woman, was speaking at the PUA Summit, let me give a quick description of my job: I pick up women for men. My name is Marni and I am a professional Wing Girl. Men pay me to help them pick-up, attract, date, and get the women they want. Not to brag, but I'm really freaking good at it. Besides being invited to speak at the PUA Summit this year where I was awarded, "World's Best Female PUA of the Year," I have successfully helped thousands of great men get the women they want. So how did a nice Jewish girl like me get into this profession? I started my business, the same way most people do: drunk and by accident. One Friday night, I attended a Shabbat dinner at the home of Rabbi Shwartzie. I am not religious but I was new to Los Angeles and wanted to connect with my people. Just like any other Jewish event, this dinner was also a singles mixer. I had recently started dating someone (who I am now married to) but felt there was no harm in window-shopping. The matching making soiree was off to a rocky start, and the event felt more like a junior high dance than a singles mixer. Boys on one side of the room, girls on the other side. No one was interacting. I started grabbing men and pushing them to talk to women. When they were finished interacting, I would give them them to talk to women. When they were finished interacting, I would give them feedback on their technique, made tweaks and send them out again. By the end of the night, people were mixing, exchanging numbers, and having a great time. I went home, buzzed from the night and the open bar, and spoke to my roommate. I was in public relations at the time and hated every second of it. I said to him, "What if I could do what I did tonight, but as a job? What if I was a professional Wing Girl"? My roommate responded with, "There’s no way guys would pay for a service like that unless you threw in a BJ and case of beer." I disagreed, marched into my bedroom, and put an ad up on Craigslist. It went something like this: "What better way to attract bees than with honey? All you have to do is sit back, relax and I’ll bring the women to you..." By the next morning, I had over 75 responses and the start of a brand new business! I have to admit; the first few months were somewhat frustrating because I was trying to figure out exactly what it was that I had created.