BRIDGE June 2021 Newsletter of the parish of Middleham with Coverdale, East Witton & Thornton Steward Bridge over Cover at West Scrafton Letter from the Rectory – We’re not in Control – Rev’d Jeff I was listening to the radio on a recent Friday, and the presenter started the programme by congratulating the listeners on making it to the end of the week. This struck me as not being very ambitious, is that what our lives have become, surviving from one Friday to the next? A colleague I used to work with many years ago, when she left each day would say, ‘See you tomorrow, God willing.’ Most of us usually stop at ‘tomorrow’ in that phrase. Adding ‘God willing’ creates a sense of doubt as to whether or not she would make it in the next day. When I lived in Brazil, the phrase, God willing, se Deus quiser, was a phrase in common use. If someone said to you, ‘See you tomorrow’ or something similar, it was customary to respond with, ‘se Deus quiser.’ In fact, to any future plan the phrase, se Deus quiser, would be added. What all of these situations reveal, is a sense that our lives are not our own, we’re not in full control of our destinies. We like to think we are and we’ve been fortunate enough in this country to expect to do what we want, when we want with who we want. When the pandemic has restricted these freedoms we sometimes find it difficult to accept the loss of freedom and what has been an inconvenience has been regarded as hardship and suffering. There is a paragraph in the letter of St. James in the Bible which expresses our lack of control in very plain terms which, the NRSV translation titles, Boasting about Tomorrow, 13 Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to such and such a town and spend a year there, doing business and making money.” 14 Yet you do not even know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. 15 Instead you ought to say, “If the Lord wishes, we will live and do this or that.” James 4:13-15 We need to remember that we’re not in control of our lives, our hope is based on God’s faithfulness not on our achievements. We need to focus on the work that God has given us to do and hold lightly to our own plans. It looks like the radio presenter my former colleague and Brazilian culture have got it right all along! Verse of the month: James 4: 14-15. Yet you do not even know what tomorrow will bring…15 Instead you ought to say, “If the Lord wishes, we will live and do this or that.” Emergency food supplies available: Text/ phone 07796 988302 Or pm Lorna Skelton on Middleham Residents Facebook page. Confidential ----------------------------------------------------- HELPLINE: Citizens Advice Money & Benefits Advice Service, N Yorks Call 0300 3031 598 Monday to Friday 9.00 to 4.00 Email advice can be requested via the contact form on website cany.org.uk Extra Legal Help for North Yorkshire Residents A new project, set up by Citizens Advice in North Yorkshire, is giving legal help and advice to those who need it to solve problems in their everyday lives, as well as support for those representing themselves in court. Three newly recruited legal advisers are already helping clients with issues around housing, family and discrimination. Office Opening times Citizens Advice Offices in Mid-North Yorkshire are open for emergencies or for clients unable to access online or telephone support. Northallerton Monday & Thursday 10.00 – 14.00 Hambleton Office: 277 High Street, Northallerton, DL7 8DW. Tel: 01609 776551 Richmond Tuesday 10.00 – 14.00 Richmondshire Office: 23 Newbiggin, Richmond, DL10 4DX. Tel: 01748 823862 www.citizensadvicehrs.org.uk FOODBANK SUPPORT If you would like to contribute to the food bank in Richmondshire – please place items (as stated on the can, left) – in boxes located in the following parts of the parish: The Grange, East Witton; Top of drive to Coverham Abbey Applegarth House, Leyburn Road, Middleham Thanks to Jo Harrison-Topham and Harriet Corner for organising these collections which will go to the Store House which is based in Richmond at Influence Church. And thanks to everyone who contributes so that hungry families have something to eat. Hear To Help Just B Just B is offering emotional wellbeing support to people in the Harrogate District, Hambleton and Richmondshire, with the ‘Hear to Help’ phoneline. Available to anyone who may be dealing with anxiety/low mood etc - children, young people, and adults. Available seven days a week, 8am-8pm. Call (01423) 856 799. Calls charged at local rates/ may vary on time of day/maybe inc in your call package. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------------------- The Warm and Well partnership, North Yorkshire: 01609 767555 www.warmandwell.org.uk … can help with energy comparison/ switching; energy Debt Advice /support with applications for Energy Trust Funding and Grants; practical advice on energy efficiency measures; referrals to partners to conduct home visits for Heating/insulation advice and installation; applications for funding for the purchase of emergency fuel i.e. coal, electric heaters, prepayment cards and gas bottles from various charitable organisations; support clients with high energy bills; sourcing funding for new or replacement boilers and heating systems and installation. Or visit www.thegreendoctor.org (charity) for help to reduce energy costs. Bible Book Club Saturday June 26th at 11.30am – 12.30pm. We’ll be looking at 2 Peter. We’ll be meeting at Applegarth House, Leyburn Road, Middleham (outdoors if the weather is nice) if you’d like to join us Update on Bellringing Bellringing practice is now permitted. In Middleham, it began in mid- May, with up to six in the tower, with all the necessary precautions of masks etc. Time of ringing is currently limited to 45 minutes. To ensure that all the ringers get some time in the tower, the usual session on Wednesdays from 7.30 to 8.15pm is taking place, and another on a Monday at the same times. You may not have heard the practices as the louvers are being kept shut to cut down the sound a bit. If you are interested in finding out more about bellringing please email [email protected] or via Facebook at Wensleydale Ringers, via twitter at #wensleydaleringers CCCBR guidance link: https://cccbr.org.uk/coronavirus/guidance-17-may-to- 21-june/ COVERDALE NEWS The Parish of Middleham with Coverdale, East Witton and Thornton Steward ‘Jervaulx Churches’ Private Prayer in Church: Mondays - Thursday, 9am – 5pm (unless there is a wedding or a funeral). Parish e-services: Sundays - a weekly email service of worship Wednesdays - a weekly email reflection following ‘We make the road by walking’ by Brian McLaren – pursuing ‘aliveness’. Please email [email protected] – to be added (BCC) to our email services group. Sunday Worship – every one welcome! Our pattern of worship enters the next ‘interim’ period as we move towards the date set by the government’s roadmap on 21st June. This pattern will change from July, providing guidelines permit it. Services are indoors unless stated otherwise. Please bring a mask. Congregational singing in church is not yet permitted. Sunday 6th June: 10am Middleham Church Sunday 13th June: 10am Thornton Steward Churchyard 11am East Witton Church Sunday 20th June 10am Middleham Church 11am Horsehouse Church Sunday 27th June 11am East Witton Church Weddings and Funerals Update: (subject to change) Weddings Up to 30 people are currently allowed to attend weddings (depending on the size of the building; less if the venue is small) From 21 June at the earliest, the government may remove all limits on social contact, including lifting wedding restrictions. However, the guidance may be that masks and social distancing will remain compulsory, and congregational singing may still not be allowed. We await further announcements. Funerals are limited to the capacity of the building by which it is possible to safely socially distance. Funerals directors have current information on government guidelines, and parish policies, which vary. With the help of the Cheeky Pandas, the Revs prepared some special ‘Collective Worship’ sessions (assemblies) for the children of Middleham and Spennithorne schools (FEDMAS). Here’s what one of the headteachers said in their newsletter: Ascension to Pentecost is a period called 'Thy Kingdom Come' when the Church of England joins other churches for a period of prayer and reflection. The rectors kindly created a week of Worship opportunities to be used in each class. As part of this, the children watched a range of Cheeky Panda videos linked to a range of messages for us. The final Worship was about Pentecost. Thank you so much for your hard work. The children loved these this week! Covid and the Charitable sector All charities, including the church, have been severely impacted by the Covid pandemic as far as their funds are concerned. Meanwhile, 75% of the population have been able to save due to lockdowns and restrictions inhibiting usual spending – shopping/ socialising/ holidays, for example. If you would like to support your local churches, maybe as a way to express your thanks to God that your livelihood has been secure, or just as an expression of thankfulness, an easy way is to do so is via the links below. All donations are completely confidential – only the church treasurers are aware of any donations. In anticipation, we offer you our thanks as a parish.