Remember Uncle Ishmael?

Remember Uncle Ishmael?

Remember Uncle Ishmael? Central Synagogue Text Study for Parashat Toldot November 18, 2017 / 29 Cheshvan 5778 Source Sheet by Nicole Auerbach בראשית כ״ו:ל״ד-ל״ה Genesis 26:34-35 (לד) ַו ְי ִ ֤הי ֵﬠ ָשׂ ֙ו ֶבּן־ ַא ְר ָבּ ִ ֣ﬠים ָשׁ ָ֔נה ַו ִיּ ַ ֤קּח ִא ָשּׁ ֙ה When Esau was forty years old, he (34) took to wife Judith daughter of Beeri the ֶאת־ ְיהוּ ִ֔דית ַבּת־ ְבּ ֵאִ ֖רי ַֽה ִח ִ ֑תּי ְו ֶאת־ ָ ֣בּ ְשׂ ַ֔מת Hittite, and Basemath daughter of Elon the ַבּת־ ֵאי ֖ן ַֽה ִח ִֽתּי׃ (לה) ַו ִתּ ְה ֶי֖יןָ ֹ֣מ ַרת ֑רוּ ַח Hittite; (35) and they were a source of ְל ִי ְצ ָ ֖חק וּ ְל ִר ְב ָֽקה׃ (ס) .bitterness to Isaac and Rebekah בראשית כ״ז:מ״ו-כ״ח:ט׳ Genesis 27:46-28:9 (מו) ַו ֤תֹּא ֶמר ִר ְב ָק ֙ה ֶאל־ ִי ְצ ָ֔חק ַ ֣ק ְצ ִתּי ְב ַחַ֔יּי Rebekah said to Isaac, “I am disgusted (46) with my life because of the Hittite women. ִמ ְפּ ֵ֖ני ְבּ ֣נוֹת ֵ֑חת ִאם־ ֵ֣ק ַח ֠ ַי ֲﬠ ֹקב ִא ֨ ָשּׁה If Jacob marries a Hittite woman like ִמ ְבּ ֽנוֹת־ ֵ֤חת ָכּ ֵ֙א ֶלּ ֙ה ִמ ְבּ ֣נוֹת ָה ָ֔א ֶרץ ָ ֥ל ָמּה ִ ֖לּי ,these, from among the native women ַחִֽיּים׃ (א) ַו ִיּ ְק ָ ֥רא ִי ְצ ָ ֛חק ֶֽאל־ ַי ֲﬠ ֖ ֹקב ַו ְי ָ ֣ב ֶר what good will life be to me?” (1) So Isaac ֹא ֑תוֹ ַו ְי ַצ ֵ֙וּה ֙וּ ַו ֣יֹּא ֶמר ֔לוֹ ֽלֹא־ ִת ַ ֥קּח ִא ָ ֖שּׁה sent for Jacob and blessed him. He instructed him, saying, “You shall not take (ב) ִמ ְבּ ֥נוֹת ְכּ ָֽנ ַﬠן׃ ֥קוּם ֵל ֙ ַפּ ֶ ֣דּ ָֽנה ֲא ָ֔רם ֵ֥בּי ָתה .a wife from among the Canaanite women ְבתוּ ֵ֖אל ֲא ִ ֣בי ִא ֶ ֑מּ ְו ַקח־ ְל ֤ ִמ ָשּׁ ֙ם ִא ֔ ָשּׁה Up, go to Paddan-aram, to the house of (2) ִמ ְבּ ֥נוֹת ָל ָ ֖בן ֲא ִ ֥חי ִא ֶֽמּ׃ (ג) ְו ֵ֤אל ַשׁ ַדּ֙י ְי ָב ֵ֣ר Bethuel, your mother’s father, and take a wife there from among the daughters of ֽ ֹא ְת ֔ ְו ַי ְפ ְר ֖ ְו ַי ְר ֶ ֑בּ ְו ָהִ ֖יי ָת ִל ְק ַ ֥הל ַﬠ ִֽמּים׃ (ד) Laban, your mother’s brother, (3) May El ְוִֽי ֶתּן־ ְל ֙ ֶאת־ ִבּ ְר ַ ֣כּת ַא ְב ָר ָ֔הם ְל ֖ וּ ְל ַז ְר ֲﬠ ֣ Shaddai bless you, make you fertile and ִא ָ ֑תּ ְל ִר ְשׁ ְתּ ֙ ֶאת־ ֶ ֣א ֶרץ ְמ ֻג ֶ֔רי ֲא ֶשׁר־ ָנ ַ ֥תן numerous, so that you become an ֱא ִ ֖הים ְל ַא ְב ָר ָֽהם׃ (ה) ַו ִיּ ְשׁ ַ ֤לח ִי ְצ ָח ֙ק assembly of peoples. (4) May He grant the blessing of Abraham to you and your ֶֽאת־ ַי ֲﬠ ֹ֔קב ַו ֵיּ֖ ֶל ַפּ ֶ ֣דּ ָֽנה ֲא ָ ֑רם ֶאל־ ָל ָ ֤בן offspring, that you may possess the land ֶבּן־ ְבּתוּ ֵא ֙ל ָֽה ֲא ַר ִ֔מּי ֲא ִ ֣חי ִר ְב ָ֔קה ֵ֥אם ַי ֲﬠ ֖ ֹקב where you are sojourning, which God ְו ֵﬠ ָֽשׂו׃ (ו) ַו ַיּ֣ ְ רא ֵﬠ ֗ ָשׂו ִֽכּי־ ֵב ַ ֣ר ִי ְצ ָח ֮ק assigned to Abraham.” (5) Then Isaac sent ֶֽאת־ ַי ֲﬠ ֹק ֒ב ְו ִשׁ ַ ֤לּח ֹאת ֙וֹ ַפּ ֶ ֣דּ ָֽנה ֲא ָ֔רם ָל ַֽק ַחת־ ֥לוֹ Jacob off, and he went to Paddan-aram, to Laban the son of Bethuel the Aramean, the ִמ ָ ֖שּׁם ִא ָ ֑שּׁה ְבּ ָב ֲר ֣כוֹ ֹא ֔תוֹ ַו ְי ַ ֤צו ָﬠ ָלי ֙ו ֵלא ֹ֔מר brother of Rebekah, mother of Jacob and ֽלֹא־ ִת ַ ֥קּח ִא ָ ֖שּׁה ִמ ְבּ ֥נוֹת ְכּ ָֽנ ַﬠן׃ (ז) ַו ִיּ ְשׁ ַ ֣מע Esau. (6) When Esau saw that Isaac had ַי ֲﬠ ֹ֔קב ֶאל־ ָא ִ ֖ביו ְו ֶאל־ ִא ֑מּוֹ ַו ֵיּ֖ ֶל ַפּ ֶ ֥דּ ָֽנה ֲא ָֽרם׃ -blessed Jacob and sent him off to Paddan (ח) ַו ַיּ֣ ְ רא ֵﬠ ֔ ָשׂו ִ ֥כּי ָר ֖ﬠוֹת ְבּ ֣נוֹת ְכּ ָ ֑נ ַﬠן ְבּ ֵﬠי ֵ֖ני aram to take a wife from there, charging him, as he blessed him, “You shall not take ִי ְצ ָ ֥חק ָא ִֽביו׃ (ט) ַו ֵיּ֥ ֶל ֵﬠ ָ ֖שׂו ֶאל־ ִי ְשׁ ָמ ֵ֑ﬠאל a wife from among the Canaanite women,” ַו ִיּ ַ֡קּח ֶֽאת־ ָמ ֲח ַ ֣לת ׀ ַבּת־ ִי ְשׁ ָמ ֵ֨ﬠאל ֶבּן־ ַא ְב ָר ָ֜הם and that Jacob had obeyed his father (7) ֲא ֧חוֹת ְנ ָב ֛יוֹת ַﬠל־ ָנ ָ ֖שׁיו ֥לוֹ ְל ִא ָֽשּׁה׃ (ס) (and mother and gone to Paddan-aram, (8 Esau realized that the Canaanite women displeased his father Isaac. (9) So Esau went to Ishmael and took to wife, in addition to the wives he had, Mahalath the daughter of Ishmael son of Abraham, sister of Nebaioth. Rabbi Jill Hammer, "Toldot -- Machalat bat Ishmael," www.reclaimingjudaism.org To save her favorite son, Rebecca goes to Isaac and tells him to send Jacob far away, to her family, to find a wife. Isaac sends Jacob off, reminding him not to marry a Canaanite woman. Esau, knowing that his father is angry about Esau's foreign wives, marries his grandfather¹s son's daughter, Machalat. Is this a good move? We could imagine that Isaac and Rebecca would be pleased that Esau has married a relative, just as Jacob will soon do. Isaac, who saw his brother Ishmael exiled when both men were children, may be delighted to welcome a member of Ishmael's family into his household. There are even midrashim, legends, that Isaac went to visit his brother Ishmael and try to convince him to come home. So maybe this is a sign of repentance for Esau, and some ancient rabbis say that the name Machalat,"forgiveness," means that Esau was forgiven when he married her (Genesis Rabbah 67:13). Or, perhaps, Esau is making a foolish, or even a spiteful, move. Abraham and Sarah rejected Ishmael and his mother Hagar, Abraham's concubine. Esau now brings a daughter of the rejected Ishmael into the house, on top of his already offensive Canaanite wives. Some ancient rabbis argue that if Esau really meant to make his parents happy, he should have divorced his first wives (Genesis Rabbah 67:13). But while some people do get married to please or spite their parents, it is also possible to choose a life partner because that person gives you something unique. We don¹t know what Machalat's personality is, but we can speculate. What might Machalat have given Esau that he needed? One thing we know about Machalat is that she is Ishmael's daughter, and therefore she understands what it is to be rejected. Her father and grandmother were forced into the desert, nearly dying of thirst, because Sarah, Abraham's wife, did not want Ishmael to inherit Abraham's blessing and possessions‹ Sarah wanted Isaac to inherit. So Machalat knows how Esau feels. She may be able to give him empathy and understanding that no one else can give him. Machalat's empathy may help to heal Esau of his deep bitterness and we know that Esau is healed, because in Parashat Vayishlach, when Jacob and Esau meet again after many years, Esau is no longer angry, he embraces his brother and forgives him. Machalat also is Hagar's granddaughter. Hagar is one of the only women in Genesis to talk to God, and she is the only person in Genesis to give God a name, she calls God El-Ro'i, God of seeing, when she has a vision near a well that she will give birth to a son. Machalat calls the son she has with Esau Reu'el, "See God!" The similarity between Hagar's name for God and Machalat's name for her son shows that Machalat is spiritually connected to the God of her grandmother. She has successfully inherited a way of speaking to God‹ one might even say that she has inherited a blessing. So Machalat has spiritual wisdom to offer Esau, and she can also show him how to connect with his family. It must be hard for Esau to trust her after he has been rejected by his mother, father, and brother, but perhaps it is her wisdom and kindness that allow Esau to finally reach out to his brother Jacob. בראשית כ״ד:ס״ב-כ״ה:ו׳ Genesis 24:62-25:6 (סב) ְו ִי ְצ ָח ֙ק ָ ֣בּא ִמ ֔בּוֹא ְבּ ֵ֥אר ַל ַ ֖חי ֹר ִ ֑אי ְו ֥הוּא Isaac had just come back from the (62) vicinity of Beer-lahai-roi, for he was י ֵ֖וֹשׁב ְבּ ֶ ֥א ֶרץ ַה ֶֽנּ ֶגב׃ (סג) ַו ֵיּ ֵ֥צא ִי ְצ ָ ֛חק ָל ֥שׂוּ ַח settled in the region of the Negeb. (63) And ַבּ ָשּׂ ֶ ֖דה ִל ְפ ֣נוֹת ָ ֑ﬠ ֶרב ַו ִיּ ָ ֤שּׂא ֵﬠי ָני ֙ו ַוַ֔יּ ְרא ְו ִה ֵ֥נּה Isaac went out walking in the field toward ְג ַמ ִ ֖לּים ָבּ ִֽאים׃ (סד) ַו ִתּ ָ ֤שּׂא ִר ְב ָק ֙ה ֶאת ֵ־ﬠי ֶ֔נ ָיה evening and, looking up, he saw camels ַו ֵ֖תּ ֶרא ֶאת־ ִי ְצ ָ ֑חק ַו ִתּ ֹ֖פּל ֵמ ַ ֥ﬠל ַה ָגּ ָֽמל׃ (סה) ,approaching. (64) Raising her eyes Rebekah saw Isaac. She alighted from the ַו ֣תֹּא ֶמר ֶאל ָ־ה ֶ֗ﬠ ֶבד ִֽמי ָ־ה ִ ֤אישׁ ַה ָלּ ֶז ֙ה ַה ֹה ֵ֤ל camel (65) and said to the servant, “Who is ַבּ ָשּׂ ֶד ֙ה ִל ְק ָרא ֵ֔תנוּ ַו ֥יֹּא ֶמר ָה ֶ ֖ﬠ ֶבד ֣הוּא ֲא ֹדִ ֑ני ”?that man walking in the field toward us ַו ִתּ ַ ֥קּח ַה ָצּ ִ ֖ﬠיף ַו ִתּ ְת ָֽכּס׃ (סו) ַו ְי ַס ֵ֥פּר ָה ֶ ֖ﬠ ֶבד ”.And the servant said, “That is my master So she took her veil and covered herself.

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