Sexual Actions Sexual Actions/Interests (Kinks, Soft Limits, Hard Taboo Limits, Fetishes, Compulsions) Rating Vaginal sex (riding) 1 Vaginal sex (penetrating) 1 Feeldoe (use vaginally) 1 Strapon (use vaginally) 1 Dildo (small) – Use 1 Dildo (medium) – Use 1 Vibrator (small) (use on partner) 1 Fellatio 2 Cunnilingus 2 Licking (body part) 2 Biting (genitalia) 2 Biting (body part) 2 Bare hand spanking 2 Clothespins (apply to partner) 2 Buttplug (small) – Use 2 Dildo (large) – Use 2 Buttplug (medium) – Use 2 Dildo (extreme) – Use 2 Rope (restrain partner) 2 Hair flogger (use on partner) 2 Wet towel (use on partner) 2 Bullet vibe (external/clitoral) (use on partner) 2 Vibrator (medium) (use on partner) 2 Anal vibrator (small) (use on partner) 2 Deepthroat 3 Breast Sex (penis) 3 Breast Sex (breasts) 3 Kiss feet 3 Feeldoe (use orally) 3 Feeldoe (use anally) 3 Strapon (use orally) 3 Strapon (use anally) 3 Nipple clamps (apply to partner) 3 Clamp (lips together) 3 Clit clamp (apply to partner) 3 Cockring (make wear) 3 Peg (tongue) 3 Electricity - Tens Unit (use on partner) 3 Buttplug (large) – Use 3 Strapon (suck) 3 Leather cuffs (restrain partner) 3 Bandages (restrain partner) 3 Bondage tape (restrain partner) 3 Handcuffs (restrain partner) 3 Wooden ruler (use on partner) 3 Wooden spoon (use on partner) 3 Hairbrush (use on partner) 3 Strap (use on partner) 3 Paddle (use on partner) 3 Birch (use on partner) 3 Flogger (use on partner) 3 Magic Wand (use on partner) 3 Vibrator (large) (use on partner) 3 Anal vibrator (medium) (use on partner) 3 Page 1 Sexual Actions Face sitting 4 Anal Sex (riding) 4 Anal Sex (penetrating) 4 Watersports (pee play) 4 Buttock kissing 4 Skullfuck 4 Chastity device (add score for any insertible used) 4 Cupping/Suction (perform) 4 Electricity - Violet Wand (use on partner) 4 Buttplug (extreme) – Use 4 Spreader bar (short) – Use on partner 4 Armbinder – Use on partner 4 Spreader bar (medium) – Use on partner 4 Spreader bar (long) – Use on partner 4 Straitjacket (make wear) 4 Sleepsack (make wear) 4 Stocks (place partner in) 4 St Andrew's Cross (restrain partner) 4 Pillory (place partner in) 4 Bondage bed (restrain partner) 4 Chains (restrain partner) 4 Manacles/shackles (restrain partner) 4 Yoke (wrist-and-neck) (restrain partner) 4 Cane (use on partner) 4 Tawse (use on partner) 4 Riding Crop (use on partner) 4 Cat O' Nine Tails (use on partner) 4 Anal vibrator (large) (use on partner) 4 Waterports (target drinks) 5 Watersports (drink partner's pee) 5 Anilingus/rimming (perform) 5 Anilingus/rimming (receive) 5 Enema (give to partner) 5 Mummify partner (tape or bandages) 5 Rack (use on partner) 5 Singletail/Bullwhip (use on partner) 5 Inflict Pain 4 Experience Pain 4 Ride dildo (Small) 1 Ride buttplug (Small) 2 Ride dildo (Medium) 1 Ride buttplug (Medium) 2 Ride dildo (Large) 2 Ride buttplug (Large) 3 Ride dildo (Extreme) 2 Ride buttplug (Extreme) 4 Perform (masturbate for watching partner) with dildo (small) 1 Perform (masturbate for watching partner) with dildo (medium) 2 Self-insert/play with buttplug (small) 2 Perform (masturbate for watching partner) with dildo (large) 2 Self-insert/play with buttplug (medium) 3 Self-insert/play with buttplug (large) 3 Page 2 Sexual Actions Perform (masturbate for watching partner) with dildo (extreme) 3 Self-insert/play with buttplug (extreme) 4 Present to be tied (Rope/Tape/Bandages/Chains) 2 Present to be cuffed (Handcuffs/Shackles/Manacles/Armbinder/ Spreader bar) 3 Over the knee/Assume the position (present for Strap/Leather belt/tawse/bare hand spanking) 2 Present for corporal punishment (ruler/spoon/hairbrush/paddle) 2 Present to be whipped 3 Vibrators (riding/used on self) Small 1 Vibrators (riding/used on self) Medium 2 Vibrators (riding/used on self) Large 3 Bullet Vibe (riding/used on self) 2 Page 3 Sexual (Reactons) Sexual Reactions (Turn-ons, Squicks, Soft Taboo Limits, Hard Limits) Rating Vaginal sex (be ridden) 1 Vaginal sex (be penetrated) 1 Feeldoe (take vaginally) 1 Strapon (take vaginally) 1 Dildo (small) – have used on 1 Dildo (medium) – have used on 1 Vibrator (small) (used on) 1 Fellatio (be sucked) 2 Cunnilingus (be tongued) 2 Be licked (by body part) 2 Be Bitten (genitalia) 2 Be Bitten (body part) 2 Receive bare hand spanking 2 Clothespins (wear) 2 Buttplug (small) – have used on 2 Dildo (large) – have used on 2 Buttplug (medium) – have used on 2 Dildo (extreme) – have used on 2 Rope (restrained) 2 Hair flogger (used on) 2 Wet towel (used on) 2 Bullet vibe (external/clitoral) (used on) 2 Vibrator (medium) (used on) 2 Anal vibrator (small) (used on) 2 Take cock deepthroat (made to receive) 3 Have cock deepthroated (made to take) 3 Partner performs Breast Sex 3 Partner rubs cock between breasts (Breast Sex) 3 Have feet kissed 3 Feeldoe (take orally) 3 Feeldoe (take anally) 3 Strapon (take orally) 3 Strapon (take anally) 3 Nipple clamps (wear) 3 Clamp (placed on lips) 3 Clit clamp (wear) 3 Cockring (wear/be made to wear) 3 Pegged (tongue) 3 Electricity - Tens Unit (have used on) 3 Buttplug (large) – have used on 3 Strapon (partner sucks) 3 Leather cuffs (restrained) 3 Bandages (restrained) 3 Bondage tape (restrained) 3 Handcuffs (restrained) 3 Wooden ruler (used on) 3 Wooden spoon (used on) 3 Hairbrush (used on) 3 Strap (used on) 3 Paddle (used on) 3 Birch (used on) 3 Flogger (used on) 3 Magic Wand (used on) 3 Page 4 Sexual (Reactons) Vibrator (large) (used on) 3 Anal vibrator (medium) (used on) 3 Have face sat on 4 Anal Sex (be ridden) 4 Anal Sex (be penetrated) 4 Watersports (be pee'd on) 4 Have Buttocks kissed 4 Be Skullfucked 4 Chastity device (add score for any insertible used) (made to wear) 4 Cupping/Suction (done to) 4 Electricity - Violet Wand (have used on) 4 Buttplug (extreme) – have used on 4 Spreader bar (short) – have used on 4 Armbinder – have used on 4 Spreader bar (medium) – have used on 4 Spreader bar (long) – have used on 4 Straitjacket (wear) 4 Sleepsack (wear) 4 Stocks (be placed in) 4 St Andrew's Cross (restrained) 4 Pillory (be placed in) 4 Bondage bed (restrained) 4 Chains (restrained) 4 Manacles/shackles (restrained) 4 Yoke (wrist-and-neck) (restrained) 4 Cane (used on) 4 Tawse (used on) 4 Riding Crop (used on) 4 Cat O' Nine Tails (used on) 4 Anal vibrator (large) (used on) 4 Watersports (have to drink) 5 Anilingus/rimming (partner licks) 5 Anilingus/rimming (made/asked to lick) 5 Enema (receive) 5 Be mummified (tape or bandages) 5 Rack (used on) 5 Singletail/Bullwhip (used on) 5 Inflict Pain 4 Experience Pain 4 Watch partner perform (masturbate) with dildo (small) 1 Watch partner perform (masturbate) with dildo (medium) 2 Watch partner self-insert/play with buttplug (small) 2 Watch partner perform (masturbate) with dildo (large) 2 Watch partner self-insert/play with buttplug (medium) 3 Watch partner self-insert/play with buttplug (large) 3 Watch partner perform (masturbate) with dildo (extreme) 3 Watch partner self-insert/play with buttplug (extreme) 4 Page 5 Sexual (Reactons) Be offered to tie partner (Rope/Tape/Bandages/Chains) 2 Be offered to cuff partner (Handcuffs/Shackles/Manacles/Armbinder/ Spreader bar) 3 Partner offers Over the knee/Assume the position (present for Strap/Leather belt/tawse/bare hand spanking) 2 Partner presents to receive corporal punishment (ruler/spoon/hairbrush/paddle) 2 Partner presents to be whipped 3 Watch partner using vibrator (Small) on self 3 Watch partner using vibrator (Medium) on self 3 Watch partner using vibrator (Large) on self 3 Watch partner using bullet vibe on self 3 Page 6 Non-Sexual Non-Sexual Reactions Taboo (Weaknesses, Cringes) Rating Classes (choose up to 3) 0 Measurements (By size and gender) 0 Cheek kiss 0 Flirty remark/question 0 Back of hand kiss 0 Origami 0 Knitting 0 Small talk 0 Receive token 0 Sandals 0 Flats 0 Trainers/sneakers 0 Brogues/Oxfords 0 Ballet shoes 0 Safety boots (steel-capped) 0 Winklepickers 0 Loose skirt 0 Ballgown 0 Party frock 0 Jeans 0 Chinos 0 Combat trousers 0 Office trousers 0 Office shirt/blouse 0 T shirt 0 Polo shirt 0 Casual button-up shirt/blouse 0 Leotard 0 Speedos 0 Wetsuit 0 Pullover 0 Cardigan 0 Smart jacket 0 Blazer 0 Mackintosh 0 Overcoat 0 Opera gloves 0 Leather gloves 0 Necklace/Pendant 0 Necktie/cravat 0 Bowtie 0 Wristwatch 0 Bracelet 0 Bangle 0 Belt 0 Partner strips self 1 Lips kiss 1 French kiss (tongues) 1 Neck kiss 1 Undo item of clothing (they do it to me) 1 Undo item of clothing (they do it to their own clothes) 1 Carried 1 Page 7 Non-Sexual Strappy Stilettos 1 Bovver Boots 1 Kilt 1 Pencil skirt 1 Mini skirt 1 Little Black Dress (LBD) 1 Summer dress 1 Sun dress 1 Off the shoulder 1 Velvet trousers 1 Bermuda shorts 1 Short shorts 1 Tight top 1 Bikini 1 Bomber jacket 1 Leather jacket (black) 1 Leather jacket (colours) 1 Trenchcoat 1 Marigolds 1 Choker 1 Private Clothed Massage/Stroking (by body part, and by public visibility) 1 Love bite 2 Neg 2 Lewd comment 2 Kino (flirty touching in public) 2 Stripped by force 2 Riding boots 2 Micro skirt 2 Schoolgirl skirt 2 Low cut 2 Leather trousers 2 Sexy Uniform 2 Latex gloves 2 Public Clothed Massage/Stroking (by body part) 2 Flirty butt slap 2 Have feet kissed 3 Grope (available when target is in kilt/microskirt/arseless trousers) 3 Thigh-length boots 3 French Maid outfit 3 Goth/fetish spiked collar 3 Pet collar 3 Leather cuffs 3 Corset (underbust) 3 Corset (overbust) 3 Ballet boots 4 Open crotch trousers 4 Arseless trousers 4 Metal collar 4 Page 8.