The Goodland Star-News / Tuesday, August 10, 2004 5 abigail bad I would cross the street to avoid her or her behavior; it has only to do of. — JANIE IN WASHINGTON pened once, because I stood up to Accusations by speaking to a former classmate; I with him. If she’s smart, she’ll dump DEAR JANIE: You have insight. him. I filed charges and he went to van buren couldn’t even go into the grocery him. — BEEN THERE IN There’s an old French saying that jail. That’s when I found out that I store without him.After 25 years of MONTREAL translates (roughly), “A man doesn’t wasn’t the first. He had been arrested boyfriend may marriage, and his having at least two DEAR BEEN THERE: I agree look behind the bedroom door un- six times for abuse.Please tell Miss •dear abby affairs, he finally left me for another with you. less he has hidden there himself.” “Innocent” from someone who’s reveal his actions woman. — SYMPATHETIC IN DEAR ABBY: Any time someone DEAR ABBY: “Innocent” should been there: Get away before he starts DEAR ABBY: “Innocent and if there was “any hope” for their re- HARRISONBURG, VA. constantly accuses you of something run as far from that guy as she can. I hitting you. — STANDING TALL Faithful in L.A.” told you that she lationship. DEAR SYMPATHETIC: It may (infidelity, lying, etc.) it is time to once had a boyfriend who claimed IN DAYTON, OHIO has been in a long-distance relation- You advised her to keep the rela- take counseling to help you recover look into what THAT person may be that I treated everyone — including DEAR STANDING TALL: You ship with her boyfriend. tionship long-distance or end it. Oh, from 25 years in emotional prison, doing. When we are constantly my pets — better than I treated him. are lucky that you drew the line Although she has been com- how I wish someone had given me but I’m glad to know that you’re fi- placed in the position of having to He tried to tell me not to talk to my where you did. Some people are so pletely devoted to him for two years, that advice before I married my hus- nally free. Read on: defend ourselves, we often don’t friends or my children’s father. I insecure they cannot function unless he continues to accuse her of seeing band. DEAR ABBY: I can tell “Inno- take time to look into what the ac- drew the line when he told me I had they feel completely in control, re- other men because he has a “gut feel- I felt that if we were married, he cent” from firsthand experience that cuser may be doing. If “Innocent” to let his abusive cousin come to my gardless of how destructive that con- ing” about it. She said he reads her would finally be secure and not ac- no, there isn’t any hope. Nothing she were able to seriously look into his apartment to visit. trol may be to the object of their ob- e-mails, and she suspects he has cuse me of seeing other men. After can say will reassure him because behavior, I’ll bet she’d discover he’s When I told him to pack his things session. Once an emotional and ver- hacked into her computer. She asked our wedding, it got worse. It got so his paranoia has nothing to do with doing exactly what he’s accusing her and get out, he hit me. 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