Parshat Vayishlach 19 Kislev 5781 December 4-5, 2020 FRIDAY, EREV SHABBAT daven at home and to consult with your physician to determine Candle Lighting: 4:10 p.m. whether it is a good idea to join a minyan. Similarly, anyone who Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat/Ma'ariv*: 4:15 p.m. lives with such a person should consider continuing to daven at Shkiah (Sunset): 4:28 p.m. home. ● It is prohibited to attend a minyan if one is sick with any condition, Repeat Kri’at Shema after: 5:18 p.m. including but not limited to a fever, sore throat, cough, stomach issues or body ache. You will not be able to resume attending a SHABBAT DAY minyan until cleared by a doctor. Anyone who has tested positive for Earliest Tallit: 6:12 a.m. COVID must be cleared by a doctor for participation in a minyan. Neitz (Sunrise): 7:06 a.m. ● The minyanim, for now, are open to men and women, ages 9 and Shacharit*: above as long as they stay with a parent and wear a mask. Annex: 8:00 a.m. ● Participants at minyanim, shiurim and shul events must follow social distancing and mask wearing guidelines, both at minyanim and Backyard: 8:30 a.m. wherever else is required to do so by the law. Main Sanctuary: 9:00 a.m. ● Please do not come to shul or any shul function while in quarantine. Sof Z’man Kri’at Shema: 9:26 a.m. Earliest Mincha: 12:11 p.m. Mincha* (Backyard): 4:05 p.m. ANNOUNCEMENTS ● Motzei Shabbat Learning is sponsored by Amalia and David Shkiah (Sunset; daven Mincha before this time): 4:28 p.m. ​ Schwartz, Faigy and Ari Gilder in honor of Yael’s 5th birthday, and Shiur Shira and David Schwarz in honor of the yahrzeit of David’s cousin, Ma’ariv* (Backyard): 5:05 p.m. Teibah Channah bat Yehonatan HaCohen. Havdalah: 5:19 p.m. ● Please keep in mind the following names of people who are in Motzei Shabbat Learning: 6:15–7:00 p.m. need of a refuah shleima: Levi Yosef ben Chasya Devorah, Yosef ​ ben Devorah, Ha’Rav Alter Shmuel ben Chava Leah, Gruna Zlata bat WEEKDAY SCHEDULE Sara, Gittel bat Chippah, Menachem Mendel Ben Perel, Moshe Shacharit* (Main Sanctuary): haLevi Ben Ettel, Yisrael ben Rochel Leah, Yosef ben Malka, Ratza Sunday: 8:00 a.m. Naomi bat Leah, Eyal Ben Zahava Penina. (NOTICE: List is refresh the first week of each secular month. To place a Monday–Thursday: 7:00 a.m. name on the list or extend its placement, email [email protected]​) ​ ​ Friday: 6:50 a.m. Mincha/Ma’ariv* (Backyard): YOETZET HALACHA EVENTS Sunday 4:20 p.m. ● Fair Lawn Frumba, Motzei Shabbat, Dec. 19th, 8 p.m.- Come dance ​ Monday–Thursday: 12:40 p.m. the night away over zoom with your fellow Fair Lawn ladies with Ma’ariv Only* (Main Sanctuary): our host Tziporah from Frumba Chicago. $10 to register and all registrants will be emailed the zoom ID. Visit dno.am/5781/frumba Sunday–Thursday:​: 8:00 p.m. ​ to register. * Minyan at shul for registered participants only (see below). Zoom ID ​682 YOUTH EVENTS 603 3886 to join all weekday tefillot. ​ ● Chanukah Donut Decorating, Sun Dec 13th, 10:30 a.m.​ — Decorate delicious donuts with Darchei Noam! Join us on the third day of LUACH REMINDERS Chanukah, Sunday December 13 at 10:30AM in the Darchei Noam ● A reminder that we will begin to recite Ve’tein Tal U’matar liv’racha backyard (weather permitting). Each family will receive a box of starting Motzei Shabbos in our weekday Shemoneh Esrei. donuts ($12 per family) for everyone to decorate and enjoy, along ● First night of Chanukah is this coming Thursday night. We will with a fun Chanukah craft for all the children. If it is too cold, please daven 10 minutes earlier in the mornings to accommodate the longer come to the shul at 10:30 to pick up your box and enjoy this activity shacharis during Chanukah. at home. Please register by Wednesday, December 9 at dno.am/5781/donut​. Looking forward to lots of delicious fun! Sponsored by Jon and Ahuva Lamm. Indoor/Outdoor Minyan Update •December 2 • 16 Kislev ● Motzei Shabbat Learning, 6:15–7:00 p.m. — Join the Youth ​ What changes: Department for our Motzei Shabbat Learning Program at 6:15 p.m. on zoom (dno.am/zoom/msl) or use meeting ID: 841 1588 7897 for ● Please be aware that starting Sunday, December 6th, due to Fair ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ Beit Midrash style learning with your family followed by more Lawn town regulations about tents during the winter months, our interactive learning at 6:30 p.m. A second parent can come to the tent will be taken down. We will still be able to have outdoor shul to pick up a slice of pizza for each child. Looking forward to minyanim, weather permitting. learning with you! Sign up or sponsor at dno.am/youth/msl. ​ ​ What stays the same: ● Family Groups & Tot Shabbat — CANCELLED THIS WEEK DUE ​ ● We will begin shacharit with Rabbi Yishmael Omer. TO INCLEMENT WEATHER ● You must register for all Minyanim, even if you did so last week. ● Register at ​shomrei-torah.org/minyanparticipation​. ​ LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES ● Daf Yomi, Nightly at 7:30​ ​p.m​. — Join at ​dno.am/zoom/dafyomi​. We remind you that: ​ There ​is no shiur on Friday, Shabbat, or Yom Tov. ● Anyone who is immunocompromised, over 60 years old, obese, has ● Mussar Musings, Sundays 8:30 p.m., with Rabbi Schrier- A series of heart disease, asthma or COPD, is on dialysis, has liver disease, or ​ “schmoozim” and growth in the Modern Orthodox community. has another compromising condition is strongly urged to continue to Rabbi Jeremy Donath • Co-Presidents: Mark Moerdler & Jon Lamm • Executive Board: Nathan Bednarsh, Rivki Bleichman, Oren Kravetz and David Schwarz 10-04 Alexander Avenue • P.O. Box 1331 • Fair Lawn, NJ 07410 • 201-773-4080 •​ ​www.darcheinoam.com Meeting ID: 647 347 032 dno.am/zoom/mussar-musings ​ BULLETIN SPONSORS ● Chaburah learning Chovas HaTalmidim, Mondays, 8:30 p.m. — To sponsor, visit dno.am/bulletinads ​ ​ Monday nights at 8:30 pm on zoom with Rabbi Donath Meeting ID: 851 6095 1201 dno.am/zoom/chovos ​ ● Chizzuk group for Baalei Teshuva — Join us virtually for an ​ uplifting and honest discussion about the unique qualities and challenges of becoming observant later in life. Ideas for meeting topics are always welcome. Please contact Rabbi Donath or Ally Mawhirter ([email protected]) for more information or to RSVP. ​ ​ ● Drasha Dose, Thursdays, 8:30 p.m. — Meeting ID# 647 347 032. ​ ​ CHESED OPPORTUNITIES ● Meals for families impacted by COVID-19 — To contribute, select ​ ​ ​ “Chesed Fund” from ​dno.am/donate​. Every cont​ribution is helpful to help make this happen. Tizku L’mitzvot. ● Grocery Request Form & Shopper Volunteers — The Chesed ​ Committee has a WhatsApp Group (​dno.am/whatsapp/shoppers​​​​​​) for ​ volunteers who are going shopping to pick up extra items and drop them off at the homes of those in need, and a Grocery Shopping Request Form (​dno.am/shopping-request​) for people who are quarantined, immunocompromised, or are otherwise vulnerable. For questions, email Faigy Gilder (​[email protected]​). SPECIAL NOTICES ● Donations are needed — Please consider paying down your shul ​ ​ ​ account. Donations are also needed for the Rabbi’s discretionary fund, which supports individuals in need in our local community, ​ and for the Chesed Fund, which provides urgently needed meals during shiva or illness. Contribute at ​dno.am/donate​. ● Amazon Smile ​— Support Darchei while you shop on Amazon Smile by designating us as your charity at ​dno.am/amazon​. COMMUNITY ANNOUNCEMENTS ● Please patronize our local establishments — Our local stores and ​ ​ ​ restaurants are still open and need our support. ● Bergenshulstogether.com: Resources to Help Us During COVID Recovery. bergenshulstogether.com/helpus​. ​ Bergenshulstogether.com is supported by Elie Y. Katz and chopst​ixusa.com. ​ ● Help make the Paterson Minyan-Shabbat Chanukah, December 12 ​ 9:00a.m.- Address: Senior Towers of Paterson 510 E. 27th Street/12th Ave, Paterson. Ventilation and safety precautions in place. Masks must be worn at all times. “It’s always a miracle to have a Minyan in Paterson” that benefits the men and women at the apartments. For more info, e-mail: [email protected] / visit: www.PatersonShul.org ● Project Ezrah Virtual Reception is scheduled for Saturday, December ​ 19th, 8:00 PM. Register online at https://projectezrahgala.com/ or call 201-569-9047. ● Refuat Hanefesh is offering free online facilitated peer support ​ groups for people experiencing COVID Pandemic related struggles. Each group will meet 6 times once every other week. For more information and full schedule visit facebook.com/refuathanefesh/photos/a.1318245001567326/3602782 619780208/?type=3&theater DARCHEI NOAM CONTACTS For Rabbi and committee contacts, visit ​darcheinoam.com/contact ​ Rabbi Jeremy Donath • Co-Presidents: Mark Moerdler & Jon Lamm • Executive Board: Nathan Bednarsh, Rivki Bleichman, Oren Kravetz and David Schwarz 10-04 Alexander Avenue • P.O. Box 1331 • Fair Lawn, NJ 07410 • 201-773-4080 •​ ​www.darcheinoam.com .