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From the Editor 5 The Minister’s Message 6 Sunday Worship in the Parish 7 Parish Registers 9 QUALITY PAINTING Christmas Isn’t Cancelled... 9 AND DECORATING Girlguiding, Brownies and Scouts 11 A TRUSTED Travels with my RIG 18 ★ INTERIOR AND ADVERTISER FOR OVER 18 News from the Parish Council 21 EXTERIOR YEARS Schools’ Pages 22 ★ INSURANCE WORK ★ FREE Advice from Trading Standards 25 UNDERTAKEN ESTIMATES Historic Sunninghill 26 ★ COMPETITIVE ★ EXCELLENT News from the Beat 29 PRICES REFERENCES Remembering The Missing 30 Our Friends in The Gambia 33 01344 625477 Using Poetry to Help Us Remember 34 c 07818 670875 (mob) Jukebox Runner Update 37 e-mail AT [email protected] Notices 39 7 CHARTERS WAY, SUNNINGDALE, SL5 9QQ Sudoku 45 CITY AND GUILDS REGISTERED Caption Competition 47 FULLY INSURED Crossword 49 The Directory of Advertisers 50 Daily Prayer 51 Ascot Chiropractic Clinic The Parish Who’s Who 52 Improved general health Sandra Garratt D.C. (Palmer USA) and effective pain relief Philip J. Hehir M.Chiro, D.C. by structural corrections Paul Kobayashi M.Chiro, D.C. Robert Viney M.Chiro, D.C. PRINTED WITH VEGETABLE-BASED INK of musculoskeletal 8 HERMITAGE PARADE, HIGH STREET, ASCOT problems plus tel 01344 874202 rehabilitation www.ascotchiropracticclinic.com 2 3 FROM THE EDITOR... he month of November has always summoned up gloomy images Tto me; what with short days and long nights, fogginess and damp and, of course, the remembrance of fallen men and women during not only the two world wars, but in many conflicts since. As I write this, our latest disaster, the coronavirus pandemic seems to be raising its ugly head again. But before we complain too much, let’s remember the constraints placed on our ancestors by the dreadful events of 1914-18 and 1939-45. Not to mention the Spanish flu’ outbreak of 1918 which is estimated to have infected 500 million people and killed 50 million of them. The disease continued to affect people well into its 3rd year, in 1920. Tony Parker We will remember them all during Remembrance Services up and down the country during this month; Painter and Decorator perhaps a timely reminder that life is fragile and not 8 1 9 to be taken for granted. Remember those whose faith 1 , A I sustained them through the trenches of northern N R O F France and Belgium, those whose faith carried them I QUICK L A C through the horrors of Auschwitz and all the other , E T RELIABLE T places of death, torture and starvation. It’s no good E Z A saying let it not happen again because it has, and it G FULLY INSURED Y L I will until we learn to grow up. We may have crossed A D Y E frontiers of science and medicine but we are still in HONEST & L E K nappies as far as common sense and common R E TRUSTWORTHY B humanity is concerned. In 1929, less than a century ago, a popular song was released “If I had a talking picture of For general enquiries or you”, which my mother used to refrain to me when I was ever so small (much later than 1929 I hasten to add). It coincided with the innovation of talking movies in the cinema, and the free estimates call singer dreamt of being able to capture a talking picture of a loved one to play when feeling blue. Well now we can. Which is nice, but does it make us better people? No. Does it make Tony Parker us any less lonely? No. During this Covid business, so many people are feeling desperately on 07711 318527 lonely, and no amount of talking pictures (goodness knows, we have plenty of those these days), even live talking pictures on Zoom , are not enough to make us feel loved. We need to be in the presence of others, there’s nothing scientific about that, we need the touch of a hand, the warm smile, the friendly ‘hi there’ just as much as we need food and water. The Church has been talking about how we might go about alleviating that, especially over the Christmas period, and there are plans afoot here, so keep an eye out for that. Remember that whatever life throws at us, we will see it through. St Paul says in his letter to the Corinthian church “for now we see in a glass, darkly, but when that which is perfect has come, then face to face; now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known. And now abide faith, hope and love, but the greatest of these is love.” Mike Cross tel 01344 303991 mobile 07737 088423 4 5 THE MINISTER’S MESSAGE SUNDAY WORSHIP IN THE PARISH – NOVEMBER HELP! It’s wonderful to have you all back to St Michael’s and All Souls’ for regular, weekly worship. Thankfully the 9:15 THE FAMILY SERVICE Every week. Government guidelines still permit us to all worship in Our informal, child friendly, 30 minute family very year at Remembrance, we are powerfully reminded of the service and Church. Please wear a face-covering to all our services service. We still act out stories from the Esacrifice of our armed forces. We hear stories of life lived through times of unless you have an exemption and do bring your own Bible and pray together for our villages and tragedy; give thanks for all they gave for us; and grieve the loss of those water or other refreshments if you need them. Our PCC, the world. who have died in conflicts across the world. But perhaps the most striking thing church wardens and ministry team have worked hard on • 1st November – No Service at St Michael’s protocols to keep everyone safe and give us confidence Church. All Souls’ Patronal Festival for me, as a civilian with such little exposure to the military life, is seeing and • 8th November – Remembrance Sunday hearing about the camaraderie of those who serve in the forces. You can see an during these changing times. If you have any concerns or suggestions then please do get in touch. We will also • 15th November – Generous Community identification with the squadron or the unit that goes beyond the particular people of any given time. be strictly adhering to social distancing rules. We thank • 22nd November – Worshipping Community You can sense an identity that is formed, and held quite tightly, by many in the army, navy or air force you for your understanding. • 29th November – 1st Sunday of Advent that shapes how they live and think. At times in our current Covid crisis, the military metaphors have been rolled out, which I have 10:30am ALL SOULS WORSHIP – With our favourite Bible readings and prayers. found unfortunate and unhelpful. But the spirit of togetherness and bond of unity that the military • 1st November – All Souls’ Patronal Festival (MW) display might be just what we need as individuals, community and nation at this time. • 8th November – Remembrance Sunday. Due to potentially large numbers attending, we will have As I write this, at the beginning of October, no one knows what November, let alone Christmas, will an audio feed available for any outside – to listen along whilst remaining at a safe distance. (MW) bring. However, I feel confident in assuming that there will be hardship across Sunninghill, there will • 15th November – Generous Community (MW) • 22nd November – Worshipping Community (HC) be isolation in South Ascot, and struggles in Cheapside too. In the spring our community banded • 29th November – 1st Sunday of Advent (MW) together wonderfully and can I encourage you to take this nudge to reach out again – whether that is to the neighbours you met for the first time, or on the street WhatsApp or Facebook group – however 10:45 TRADITIONAL SERVICE at St Michael’s Church – These services contain our favourite Bible you were connected, please maintain or rediscover those links and bonds. readings, prayers and liturgy and reflections to help sustain us spiritually week by week. This winter will also be a time to ask for help when you need it – certainly another essential in • 1st November – No Service at St Michael’s Church. All Souls’ Patronal Festival(MW) military life. There is so much support available in our area for almost every need – practical (with food • 8th November – Remembrance Sunday. Due to potentially large numbers attending, we will have and driving), emotional, relational and spiritual. The Sunninghill and Ascot Covid hub run by the Parish an audio feed available for any outside – to listen along whilst remaining at a safe distance. (MW) Council is one place to go, alongside your local churches which are open daily and our amazing local • 15th November – Generous Community (HC) • 22nd November – Worshipping Community (MW) charities too. Or why not just reach out to our local groups online? We found earlier this year that Key: HC = Holy Communion • 29th November – 1st Sunday of Advent (MW) MW = Morning Worship there was far more help being offered locally than being accessed, so please do ask. An Old Testament passage from the book of Ecclesiastes sums up our need to help and our need for others.