Bob & Diane Borlase An average American couple who dedicated their lives to serving their country and their community. Chapter 01 – 1:26 Introduction Announcer: Bob and Diane Borlase’s service to our nation and to our state came in the form of the US Navy, the US Coast Guard, and the Oklahoma County Sheriff’s office. Bob enlisted in the Navy in 1952 during the Korean War. He was chief radioman, using international Morse code as his ship patrolled the coast of Korea. In 1953, Bob and Diane had a one-week honeymoon before he was sent to the island of Kwajalein in the Marshall Islands for a year’s worth of isolated duty. Following the navy, Bob worked while attending a technical school in downtown Detroit. One night he heard an advertisement on the radio, which said that if you were an ex-serviceman the Coast Guard could use you. By this time, Bob and Diane were raising a family, which in 1959 had grown to three, eventually growing to five daughters. So in 1959, Bob joined the US Coast Guard with duties as a radioman on an ocean station near Honolulu. And then during the Vietnam War, the US Coast Guard played a vital role where Bob served as chief radioman. The ship assignment limited coastal infiltration by the Viet Cong into South Vietnam. Bob and Diane will tell you about their service in the US Coast Guard, their move to Oklahoma City, and Bob’s work in the Sheriff’s office. They would like to be remembered as an average American couple who served their country and their community. So now, listen to this oral history interview with Bob and Diane Borlase on VoicesofOklahoma.com. BOB & DIANE BORLASE 2 Chapter 02 – 10:00 Coming to America John Erling: My name is John Erling and today’s date is November 14, 2017. Bob, would you state your full name, please? Bob Borlase: Robert Arthur Borlase. JE: Your date of birth? BB: 3/31/32. March 31, 1932. JE: And where are we recording this interview? BB: At my home in Bethany, Oklahoma. JE: Joining us today is your wife, Diane, to keep us on the straight and narrow. Diane, you think you can do that? Diane Borlase: Sure, no problem. JE: When did you two meet? DB: In 1949 in Detroit, Michigan, at a friend’s house. JE: Okay, we will talk about that. Bob, your father’s name? BB: Edward Borlase. He had no middle name. JE: Where did he grow up? BB: In England, Cornwall, England. JE: Cornwall, England. DB: Uh-huh (affirmative). JE: How did he come to the United States? BB: By boat, came over in about 1920, I think. JE: Did he come through Ellis Island? BB: Yes he did. JE: Where did he settle then after he came through Ellis Island? DB: They went to New Jersey, he and his brother came over and they had an epidemic in New Jersey and his brother died. And he came to Northern Michigan, the upper peninsula, to work in the mines up there. JE: So it was work in the mines that brought him to Michigan? DB: In the copper mines up there. He had worked in the mines in Red Roof, Cornwall, the tin mines. JE: So he followed his profession from England? DB: Yeah. BB: Um-hmm (affirmative). JE: What was his personality like? BB: He was a very stern person, he took command. He was not a huggable type of fellow to be a father. We had five boys in the family and two girls. And I worked for my father for BOB & DIANE BORLASE 3 a period of time, but he was always my boss. But he was there whenever you needed anything. He was the most dependable person you ever want to know. JE: How many brothers and sisters did you have? BB: I had four brothers and two sisters. I had an older brother and two younger brothers, and an older sister and a younger sister, then me. JE: So you’re in the middle? BB: Yes. JE: Your mother’s name? BB: Mary Louise and her maiden name was Loquin. JE: What was her background? Where did she come from? BB: She came from Bay City, Michigan. JE: So the two met in Michigan? DB: Yep. BB: Yes. JE: Obviously. And what was your mother like? Her personality? BB: Ah, she was a huggable. My mother was a very nice person, took good care of us kids, was always there if you ever needed her. JE: Your father had to earn quite an income because he had seven children. BB: Yes. Father hauled ice and coal during the Second World War. I remember him, he worked for Pitman and Dean for a while, and he delivered coal right to your residence. He would deliver it by a wheelbarrow to some addresses and he also had a conveyer to put it on another one’s so he could use it. And he’d bring ice right into the house and put it in the refrigerators. And he did it at our own home there for a period of time. JE: Everybody enjoyed hearing the icemen coming in the summertime, didn’t they? BB: Yeah, right. And the end of the Second World War put him out of business because they started building refrigerators and supplying it to homes. JE: Yeah. What did he do then? BB: He worked for an automotive repair and gasoline station. And he went to work for a man called Art Conley. He worked for him for a long time and then bought his own gas station and ran it. JE: Did you work for him in that gas station? BB: I worked with my dad at the station with the Conley’s. We worked together, and my older brother also worked with my dad at the gas station. And then dad bought a gas station of his own. Then I was in the military. And when I got out of the military, I worked for him for a period of time. JE: What about your grandparents? Do you have any memory of them? BOB & DIANE BORLASE 4 BB: On my dad’s side, no. But on my mother’s side, yes. I remember my grandfather and my grandmother. The family used to go over to their house for Christmas and for stuff like that. They had a cottage at Stony Point in Michigan. In the summer, we would go there and sometimes the whole family would stay there by ourselves. We would have a reunion or a get-together every year with the whole family at this cottage. JE: So it’s obvious then, you only knew your maternal grandmother because she grew up in the United States. BB: That’s true. JE: And she probably grew up in Michigan. BB: No, I don’t believe so. DB: They grew up in Canada, they were French Canadian. BB: French Canadian. JE: Okay, did they speak English? Only speak French or…? BB: It was kind a little bit of both. JE: You remember hearing both? BB: Oh, yes, but I wasn’t around them very often. We’d see them a little bit in the summer and we always saw them around Christmastime. My grandmother was a very huggable person. She would grasp you and give you a big hug. JE: Um-hmm (affirmative). BB: But there was a lot of grandchildren and the family was large, her family itself. JE: So do you have pleasant memories then of Christmas and large gatherings at Christmas and Thanksgiving? BB: Yeah, I did. It was one of those times when there was a lot of people around and I’m not much on being around a lot of people. I’ve been there all my life doing that but I’m not always comfortable in that. JE: You were even that way when you were a young person. BB: That’s correct. JE: Would you describe yourself as a shy youth? BB: I would, yes, I would very much, yes. JE: Was that a handicap for you, being shy? BB: I felt at times it was. I’m not too open right today. I don’t feel comfortable talking to strangers. Frankly, I’m not comfortable right now. JE: [all three laughing] Well, we admire your honesty. BB: Um-hmm (affirmative). JE: Did you have any health issues as a child? BB: I was always a small person and lightweight. I’m not always but at that time I was. Later on in life I put some weight on. I’m trimmed down some now. BOB & DIANE BORLASE 5 JE: What was the first school that you attended? BB: I think it was Hosmer, I went to the first school— JE: And where was it? BB: That was in Detroit. But we moved from there. I went to another school, I went to Keating School for a while. And when they put me in the Keating School I was very lightweight and malnourished, I believe, and they put me in an open-air class. They actually had a room that was set up for people that were light of weight or had health problems, maybe. It was set up with these deck chairs that folded back. The desktops would fold over the front of your lap so you could do your work. But you took a nap in the morning and you took a nap in the afternoon.