Welcome to … Online Safety for Parents ceop.police.uk www.thinkuknow.co.uk Luke Brent-Savage Education Child Protection Ltd. Child Exploitation Online Protection Centre

You should always report if your child is, There are education programs for all primary year groups, including or has been, in contact with some who is… age-appropriate films to show the children.

Chatting to your Asking them to child about sex do sexual things on webcam

Asking to meet up if Making them feel ‘Thought They they’ve only met unsafe ‘Animal Magic’ ‘Jigsaw’ them online Knew…’ series 2-8 year olds 8-10 year olds 10–11 year olds

Parent and Carer

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1 Keeping ourselves safe…

Keep your personal EDUCATING information private CHILDREN

Never give out your Top Secrets Keeping ourselves safe…

Be kind to your online friends, like you would in the playground at school

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Keeping ourselves safe… Keeping ourselves safe…

Check If you get before you stuck, or something download makes you feel something worried, new always tell a trusted adult

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2 Keeping ourselves safe… What else do CEOP say...?

WE ARE HERE TO HELP! “We are police officers. We take this very seriously”.

It’s really simple draw a CHECK YOUR USERNAME! picture of your “Don’t tell people who you are – real friend but use a fun nickname instead”. you don’t always know what an online TRUST YOUR TUMMY! friend looks like “If anything makes your stomach feel funny, tell an adult you trust, or CEOP....”. Education Child Protection Ltd.

What could you give as answer if someone on a game says to you: “where do you live?” JamieWilliams220408 N O Y B

“None of your business…!”

Using social networking sites, it is so important that we use privacy settings to keep ourselves, and our information, safe!

So how do we do it…?

3 CHILDREN’S ONLINE WORLD

4 Online Games… Which of these don’t let you talk to strangers…?

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Chat Chat (2)

WhatsApp BBM Kik Send Safe

WhatsApp is an Blackberry's BBM Kik is an instant Send Safe is a instant is an instant messaging app free service, messaging app, Messenger ooVoo messaging app. which lets you which allows you which lets you You have you share Messenger is an to send a send instant Oovoo is a video own 4 digit PIN messages, app which allows message via messages, chat app. It lets and other people photos, games users to popular apps, …that is images and you make video can only add you and news, or communicate videos to Viber calls, voice calls using this organise events. with their self- Tango number. Hangouts friends. and send text friends from IMO destructing, Viber lets you messages. You Tango is an app Google Hangouts their after seen can webcam up Message and text, call, which allows you is a platform by account or once. to 12 people at video chat with share photos to make voice Google which phonebook. and send video once. your friends and calls and video includes instant family for free, messages to calls, and have messaging, no matter what people group chats. video chat and device they are worldwide. SMS features. on.

Video Video (Music)

Dubsmash Musical.ly Skype Facetime Dubsmash is a Musical.ly is a Skype is a Facetime is mobile app where video community computer video calls over users can choose that allows you to programme and Wi-Fi from your an audio create, share, app, which lets Triller YouTube iPhone, iPad, recording or KamStar and discover you make audio Omegle iPod touch or soundbite from short videos. and video calls YouTube lets you A group video Mac. You can movies, shows, KamStar allows you Triller is a music to friends and enjoy the videos Talk to Strangers! chat app. When even make music, and internet to create video maker app family. Omegle connects FaceTime calls for iPhone. Pick a and music you you and your trends and record Music Video with love. Upload you randomly to over mobile song, select the friends are in the a video of Magical Effects! original content, another person networks on portion of the song app at the same themselves Share on Apps like and share it all who's on the site, time, you’ll see iPhone or iPad. you want to use, dubbing over that Muscal.ly and with friends, and lets you talk each other snap a few takes, piece of audio. WhatsApp. family, and the to them in a instantly. One and with the tap of world. one-to-one tap and you're in. a button you have video chat. a celebrity-quality music video.

5 Video Social Networks (Live Streaming)

Live.ly Live.me Facebook Live.ly is a new Live.me is a live live video video streaming Facebook is the Twitter is a Huggle Skout streaming app. Allowing biggest social platform created you to broadcast network, which messaging Huggle allows Skout is a Social by musical.ly. Twitch You Now and watch live lets users create service that lets you to discover Kiwi Network that is You can start a chat. Join in a page about you send public Owned by On You Now you and connect with for meeting live.ly to Twitch is a live discussions with themselves. Kiwi is a fast and message called Twitter, video game can tap ‘Go Live’ others who new people broadcast to your YouTubers and frequent the easy way to 'tweets'. Periscope is a website. You can and you’re on! near you. fans and friends, Musical.ly stars... same places as ask your friends live video watch playbacks Broadcast to a Instantly meet and have real- you. See the interesting of games being live audience, people close by or time interactions streaming app. places you have questions and played by other expand your around the world Allows you to in common. find out what people. You can anytime, send direct live Share photos, they think. following, anywhere! video feeds to also live stream videos and start comment on your Twitter your own chatting… followers. games, and chat videos and buy to other gamers. virtual gifts.

Social Networks Anonymous (Pictures)

Snapchat Ask.fm Yik Yak is an Instagram is a app that lets you picture and Yik Yak is an send a photo or Ask.fm is a social video sharing networking site online bulletin short video to app. Users can where you can ask board. It uses the your friends. The post content and other people Secret GPS schools on ‘snap’ appears PopJam use to your mobile phone Yellow Yovo questions. It’s up Whisper is a social on screen for a share Secret is a social or tablet to find to you whether you network where you matter of PopJam is a experiences, networking app your location and Yellow allows Yovo is a way to want to ask the can remain seconds before creative website thoughts or where you can show you the most you to you meet for children and create a story question anonymous, disappearing. memories with post content or recent posts from new people young people. using live shots anonymously publish text and an online content other people around the You can share or photos from or not. receive replies community. anonymously. around you. world. Make new drawings, your library. from other people. friends, chat and photos and Then after 48 It also allows you meet new audio messages hours it simply to communicate people! Right to with friends and disappears with others like, left to pass! other people. forever. through private messages.

Online Dating Secret Folders

Tinder MyLOL Calculator+ Piano

Tinder is a dating MyLOL is a dating Calculator+ hides Secret Piano hides app, which used to site for private photos photos, videos, have two separate teenagers aged and videos passwords, notes, audios, locations communities – one 13-20, but some behind a and secret for adults (18+) MeetMe Snog users are up to Private Photo Secret Folder calculator. messages behind a and one for 25 years old. Like Anyone who starts Vault App MeetMe is a which real piano. The young people Snog is a teen an adult dating this application a social network aged 13-17. dating site that site, you can view looks as a Private Photo Vault Secret Folder App app will capture and dating site and But this was lets you rate other people’s calculator but if locks your photos helps you to photo of allows users to profiles and search you put in and videos protect your intruders if they changed in meet and other people’s for others based passcode it will photos and. No attempt to June 2016. communicate with profiles as snog, behind a pin. open up private access it. You swipe left other people marry or avoid. on their age, Keeps your photos one can enter for ‘no’ or right worldwide. You can also send gender and area. etc. hidden from except those others. for ‘yes’. private messages. location. who know the passcode.

6 Report S-Start T-Telling Save the O-Other evidence 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year P-People

No safe place, hard to escape Be aware of what Try not to you share respond Doesn’t empathise with victim Bully can be anonymous Block the Bully Easily shared with an audience and has the ability to go viral in seconds

What should I do if my child What you say Ask yourself is it is being bullied online? online should pass through True? three gates Ask yourself is it Necessary?

Ask yourself is it Kind?

Report information to your child's school.

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Child Exploitation Online Protection Centre (CEOP) Online grooming: The five stages

How do offenders engage youngsters? Friendship – by using the sites that they use.... Flattering a child into talking in a private chatroom/game where Often posing as they will be isolated a child of the same age / gender. The child will often be They will often purposefully present a very asked for a non-sexual similar profile as the child. picture of themselves They are skilled at manipulating them into criminal sexual relationships

7 Online grooming: The five stages Online grooming: The five stages Risk assessment

Forming a relationship Asking the child about the location of their Gaining information computer/tablet and who asking the child what problems else has access to it /needs they have to create the illusion of being their in order to assess the risk of best friend and that they can help being detected. The desire is to They begin to fill the needs of the create situations where child they are alone together to help reinforce a special connection

Online grooming: The five stages Online grooming: The five stages Sex talk / Meet Exclusivity Engaging the child in explicit conversations & requesting sexually Building up a sense of explicit pictures from mutual love and trust them with the child At this stage the predator suggesting that they can will usually try to discuss "anything" arrange a meeting with the child

post or send indecent images

blackmailed / exploited – as young as eight years old

Two boys, aged 12 and 14 60% groomed on 40% 13-18 yr olds Minecraft 13-18 yr olds admitted to admitted to by Adam Isaac (23 years) seeing images and persuaded to send SEXTING of others indecent images on Snapchat and Skype Do pictures sent via snapchat always disappear after a short amount of time….?

8 Snapchat Apps….

Kids ‘sext’ to….. show off to entice someone to show interest in someone to prove commitment

By creating, sending or possessing indecent pictures of a person under 18 you are breaking the law (Protection of Children Act 1978 / Criminal Justice Act 1988) …

Police have only recently started filing crime reports about sexting…

If school choose to take an incident to the MAKING THINGS police, then officers must record the crime. SAFER

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Language Children Use Online..

ASL? ‘Age, Sex, Location’

POS or ‘Parent over Shoulder’ or PIR ‘Parent in Room’

IRL or ‘In Real Life’ or ‘Let’s Meet in LMIRL Real Life’

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9 Helpful sites for Parents & Carers Making things safer….

www.net-aware.org.uk

Allows parents and carers to search for apps, games and sites if they have a concern or need more information Education Child Protection Ltd. Education Child Protection Ltd.

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These will allow you to prevent children from Parental controls for tablets / smartphones are accessing certain sites – but they are not a available too – as always, try them and see

completely full-proof system Education Child Protection Ltd. which works best for you and your family

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Making things safer…. Parents … making things safer….

• Manage up to 10 devices • Block, grant and schedule access to the internet • Block, grant and schedule access to certain apps

Making things safer…. Message children Simple checklist for parents: Dinner in 5? Send a message to their screen and get the whole family to the table I have visited www.thinkuknow.co.uk with my child on time (I have bookmarked the CEOP website and told my child what is there)

Open and honest dialogue – show an interest and learn Cross Platform Set schedules about what your child does online Screen Limit is available on When it's time for school, a wide range of devices. homework or bed Screen Limit schedules help the Stay in control as much as you can through day run like clockwork parental filters, Family Sharing, and apps like Screen Limit

Rewards Advertise yourself as one of the people your child can turn Bedroom need tidying? Use Countdown to – without being chastised… internet time as a carrot Keep the peace with a and keep everyone happy! countdown on their screen Education is better than saying to your child that shows how much time “you are not doing this anymore…” until screens off Education Child Protection Ltd.

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