St. Justin the Martyr Roman 975 Fischer Boulevard, Toms River, NJ 08753 March 10, 2019 FIRST SUNDAY OF LENT

March 6, 2019

Pastor: Reverend Mark A. Kreder PARISH OFFICE HOURS: Parochial Vicar: Reverend Thomas J. Barry, Jr. Monday ~ Thursday 9:00 AM to 12:00 Noon and Deacons: James Campbell; James Gillespie 1:15 PM to 4:00 PM; Friday 9:00AM-12:00 Noon

Frederick C. Ebenau, Sr.; Richard Hauenstein REGISTRATION: All are welcome! Sponsorship Pastoral Associate: Deacon James Gillespie letters for the Sacraments of , Confirmation Religious Education: Ellen Noble or Matrimony will only be issued to registered Trustees: Jean Glynn, William Anderson parishioners. Please contact the Parish Office to Director of Sacred Music: Angela Petti register and please also notify the Parish Office of a Sacristan: Carol Lewandowski change of address or if you plan to move from the parish so that we may keep our records updated. The Altar Bread, which will become the Body of Christ at the Masses celebrated during the week is

SUNDAY, March 10 in Loving Memory of FIRST SUNDAY OF LENT 7:30am Chester & Mary Bielski Janet Mascera Martin & Catherine Brennan 9:00am Jaron Family requested by Fran Baranowski, Anatilde Espogeiro Barbara Finley and Alice Rush 10:30am Joseph & Mary Cooney

Edward Plenzo 12Noon Ann Marie Neveroski Joseph Napolitano

MONDAY, March 11 Lenten Weekday 8:30am Joseph Baranowski John Gawron

TUESDAY, March 12 Lenten Weekday 8:30am Olga Lewandowski Margaret Ebenau MONTHLY FOOD COLLECTION: Every third weekend of the month. WEDNESDAY, March 13 Lenten Weekday

8:30am Janet Mascera Robert Ulrich PARISH OFFICE: 732-270-3980 6:30pm Cosimo & Giuseppina DiBrizzi Family (living) RELIGIOUS EDUCATION: Susan Heschle (living) 732-270-3797

THURSDAY, March 14 PARISH WEBSITE: www.stjustin.org Lenten Weekday

8:30am John Keseday MASS SCHEDULE: Saturday Vigil: 5:00PM Rev. John Bogacz (living) Sunday: 7:30AM, 9:00AM, 10:30AM, 12:00Noon Monday-Friday:8:30AM; Saturday: 9:30am FRIDAY, March 15 Holy Days: Announced Lenten Weekday 8:30am Marie Wetzel BAPTISM: Parents are required to attend a Mary Carol Steinig Baptism Preparation Session. Godparents/Sponsors are invited and strongly encouraged to attend. Please call the SATURDAY, March 16 Parish Office as early as possible to make arrangements. Lenten Weekday 9:30am People of the Parish SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION: Saturdays: At 3:30PM 5:00pm Mary Korab Maureen Kluxen INTERESTED IN BECOMING A CATHOLIC? Adult R.C.I.A. program: Contact Parish Office SUNDAY, March 17 Children R.C.I.A. program: Contact Religious Ed.

SECOND SUNDAY OF LENT MARRIAGE: The Sacrament of Marriage requires a 7:30am James Rooney time of spiritual preparation. According to the Joyce Hnilicka Common Policy adopted by the Bishops of New 9:00am Eric J. Muraczewski Jersey, this preparation requires attendance at a John A. Norcross marriage preparation program (Pre-Cana) as well as 10:30am Edward Plenzo sessions with the parish deacon or priest. Therefore, Peter Dich Nguyen couples should make arrangements at the Parish Office one Dennis Becht (living) 12Noon Jose Gomez year before the planned wedding date and before finalizing any social plans. Maureen Kluxen MISSION STATEMENT: The goal of Justin the Martyr Parish is that each member grow in the Grace Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, through Jesus Christ, and in so doing cooperate with the and let perpetual light shine upon them. Holy Spirit in giving glory to God, in experiencing the May they rest in peace Amen salvation of their soul, and in building up the Body of Christ. 514 page 1 From the Pastor remaining son was captured and held hostage 1st Sunday of Lent - C by the warring factions that wreaked havoc in March 10, 2019 the Church: three men claimed to be Pope at ““HE COMMANDS HIS the same time, and the clergy was mostly in a ANGELS WITH REGARD ‘free-for-all’ mode, with no shepherd to guide TO YOU, TO GUARD YOU them. Her request to form a new Religious WHER-EVER YOU GO.” Order, who would be exempt from the This verse from Psalm traditional habit, communal life and other 91:11 is usually quoted customs so they could assist the sick and dying in the Gospel on the 1st and those in dire need - was rejected. So she Sunday of Lent: the eventually formed a lay group of women to do Temptation of Jesus by the necessary work. Her trust in God was sorely Satan in the desert. It tested, as was her patience with - and hope for - also dovetails nicely the Institutional Church … sounds awfully with the Saint the familiar, doesn’t it? This led her to suffer from Church [somewhat] honored yesterday; since we anguish, depression, and resentment - much of are in Lent, the Optional Memorial of Saint which was caused … by the very Church she so Frances of took a ‘back seat.’ But that in loved! no ways implies that she, nor the lessons she provides for us, are unimportant! After praying However, she persevered and eventually over- the Collect for the Mass offered in her honor, came all her bitterness and anger. What a great which we may use to end the Universal Prayer at Saint to turn to when the Church disappoints, Masses on the morning of the Saturday after Ash shocks or upsets us! For Saint Frances of Rome Wednesday, we present her ‘case.‘ is one of the Patron of: Troublesome In-Laws; Those Who Lost a Child through Death; Collect - Saint Frances of Rome, Religious Widows, and Those Wounded by Holy Mother O God, who have given us in Church!

Saint Frances of Rome a singular model PROMOTER OF GUARDIAN ANGELS. Shortly of both married and monastic life, grant us per- before her daughter died, she had a vision in severance in your service, that in every circum- stance of life we may see and follow you. which she was promised that an Angel, who Through our Lord Jesus … forever and ever. Amen. would always be at her side, and whom she would literally see, would guide her through

“I’VE LOOKED AT LIFE FROM BOTH SIDES NOW.” the rest of her life’s trials until she was called These words, sung by Joni Mitchell in her 1968 home to heaven. She is usually portrayed with folk hit, ‘Both Sides Now,’ are an apt description her Guardian Angel at her side, and in her of Saint Frances of Rome, who lived both a writings, she encouraged everyone to rely on - and listen to - their Guardian Angel. married family life and a consecrated, religious life. Born into a wealthy, noble Roman family in OF MOTORISTS & AUTOS. In 1925, the late 1300’s, she felt drawn to the religious Pope Pius XI declared Saint Frances of Rome the life, but her parents objected and chose a Patron Saint of Automobile Drivers, even husband for her, as was customary back then, though she never drove a car. [She was born in for political and business purposes. The couple Rome in 1384 and died in 1440 on what is now had three children, but during a severe plague her Feast Day: March 9.] But based on a legend that devastated Italy, one son and one daughter that an Angel used to light the road before her died; eventually, her husband died - whereupon with a lantern when she traveled, keeping her she devoted her remaining wealth to caring for safe from hazards, she is now implored for by her remaining son and for all the sick and dying. those seeking safety behind-the-wheel, while on She literally went from riches to rags, joys to -the-road! Saint Frances of Rome, pray for us … sorrows, luxury to languishing in need. and keep all motorists safe.

BITTER BEFORE BETTER. Her decision to use In Christ, family money to help the poor enraged her [former] mother-in-law [technically, the death of her husband ended that ‘in-law’-ship!] and other relatives, who disowned and ridiculed her. Her

514 page 2 Readings for the Week of March 10, 2019 RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS

Monday: Lv 19:1-2, 11-18; Ps 19:8, 9, 10, 15; Mt 25:31-46 REMINDERS Tuesday: Is 55:10-11; Ps 34:4-5, 6-7, 16-17, 18-19; Mt 6:7-15 Wednesday: Jon 3:1-10; Ps 51:3-4, 12-13, 18-19; Lk 11:29-32 All Confirmation paperwork is now overdue. Please Thursday: Est C:12, 14-16, 23-25; Ps 138:1-2ab, 2cde-3, return all paperwork to the religious education office 7c-8; Mt 7:7-12 Monday – Thursday Friday: Ez 18:21-28; Ps 130:1-2, 3-4, 5-7a, 7bc-8; Mt 5:20-26 9:00am – Noon 1:15pm-3:30pm Saturday: Dt 26:16-19; Ps 119:1-2, 4-5, 7-8; Mt 5:43-48 Please remember to bring your non-perishable food to Sunday: Gn 15:5-12, 17-18; Ps 27:1, 7-8, 8-9, 13-14; Phil 3:17 th st — 4:1 or Phil 3:20 — 4:1; Lk 9:28b-36 class the week of March 18 - 21 for our Saint Joseph’s table

St. Justin Center of Learning is hosting JMT Productions to do a puppet show featuring

the Lenten Journey. Date: Saturday, March 16, 2018 Please join men from our parish family for a Doors Open at: 10:15am retreat at Loyola Jesuit Center in Morristown, NJ. Please bring at least one can of food to be It will offer you a time to relax, reflect and grow donated to the St. Vincent de Paul Society Food closer to God. We will explore the theme of Bank as your admission. “Transformation” - letting go of past hurts and The show will start at 10:30am and run for about 30 wounds so that we can be transformed into the minutes. We are inviting children of ALL ages! person God has called us to be, living a full and Light Refreshments will be available. joyful life! The weekend includes preached talks on For further info: Walter & Patricia:732-255-6216 the theme, daily Mass, optional private consultations or Francine @ 908-814-2242; with retreat leaders, Reconciliation, a Healing Mass, Email: [email protected] outdoor stations of the cross, the Rosary and generous amounts of free time for personal prayer Attention Confirmation and reflection. It is truly a wonderful retreat Student Parents: and the cost is a free will offering. Led by: Rev. George Collins, SJ. The date to volunteer for the Arrival Time: Friday between 5:00pm to 7:00pm. Simon Soup Kitchen is Departure: Sunday after lunch Tuesday, March 12, 2019 To register contact: Deacon Jim Gillespie from 4:45 to 7:00pm. 732-691-2644, email: [email protected]. Simon’s Soup Kitchen is located at 100 Grant Ave., Seaside Heights.

Any parent wishing to participate may leave their STATIONS OF THE CROSS name and number at the parish office. 6:00pm Friday Evenings during Lent:

3/15: Men’s Faith Group Over 800 pancakes were served at our third annual 3/22: Confirmation Candidates Pancake Breakfast that was held on 3/29: Parish Deacons Sunday, March 3rd. Many thanks to the Men's Faith 4/05: Holy Innocents-St. Justin Center of Learning Group and Altar Rosary Society for hosting this 4/19: GOOD FRIDAY, Youth Group very enjoyable event! Check our parish website: www.stjustin.org for pictures of this event. LENTEN PENANCE SERVICE

Penitential practices take many forms: apologizing to an St. Justin The Martyr injured party, healing divisions within our families, Friday, April 12th 7:00 pm fasting during the Lenten season, or graciously accepting the menial tasks of life. Penance Services in surrounding parishes to be The purpose of penance is not to diminish life announced in upcoming bulletins but to enrich it. www.usccb.org 514 page 3

To everything there is a season and a time to St. Patrick/St. Joseph Luncheon every purpose under heaven Celebration Sunday, March 24, 2019 Ecclesiastes 3:11

“...a time to be born…” Time: 1:30 pm until 5:30 pm Where: Parish Hall “...a time to love…” Featuring: …”and a time to be born to Eternal Life…” WILLIE LYNCH IRISH BAND Frances LeVicchi COME ENJOY: GREAT COMPANY Those who have died in the Service of our Country. “...and a time for peace in all the world…” BRILLIANT IRISH MUSIC- DELICIOUS FOOD- pray for our servicemen and women at home and abroad, FUN CONTESTS- Cody Fisher, David Cozad, Jason Howie, Daniel Robert Costello, Mark Caruso, Rick DiSanti, A.J. Elbert, ADULTS- $25.00 Ryan Buckley, Eric P. Fenske, Louis Graffeo, Michael Griffing, AGES 13-17 - $15.00 CHILDREN 12 & UNDER - FREE Alexandria Del’Romero Hughes, Audrey Hughes, Antoni Jedra, Charles Jones, Ian Krong, Tickets go on sale beginning Saturday, March 2nd Armando Leonor, Walter Reed, Tyler Brandon Sansone, after all Masses, and will be available at the Parish Office during regular business hours Trevor Smida, Christopher Sylvester, Nick Roma Nick Panzara, Brian Macnab, Greg Hermack, John DiMicelli, *All Profits Go To Social Concerns John M. Budenas, Robert Tront, Joey Colosimo Menu: ☘ Michael Anthony DeAnni, Kieran Murphy, Colin Berrios Salad with Dressings, Corned Beef, Cabbage, Potatoes, Carrots, Chicken Francaise, Penne ala Vodka and for our President and Rye Bread with Butter Chips, Homemade Desserts elected Leaders of our Country. Coffee, Tea, Soda, Milk, Water

For further info call the parish office Wednesday Evening Mass at 732-270-3980 during Lent will be held at 6:30pm on the following dates:

March 13, March 20, “A nation that kills March 27, April 3* its children in the womb has

lost its soul.” Immediately following the Mass - Mother Teresa 1910-1997 on these dates—enjoy our Lenten Enrichment Program Lecture Series: RESPECT LIFE UPDATE

March 13th: Forgiveness Please join our Respect Life March 20th: A Pastoral Approach to Difficult Cohort in praying a Topics Facing Catholics Memorare Novena (pray the March 27th: The Image of the Church as a Ship prayer 9 times a day for 9 days)

starting Monday, March 11th. **April 3: Father Pablo Gadenz will celebrate Mass at 6:30 and Once again the Physicians Assisted Suicide Bill will be then offer a presentation on brought up for a vote this month. The Passion and Resurrection The U.S. Senate has also voted against a bill that would give full medical attention to babies who Narratives in Luke’s Gospel. survive abortion. The vote was 53 in favor and 44 St. Luke’s account of the Passion against, 60 votes are needed to pass the bill. will be read this year on Passion (Palm) Sunday. Memorare In November, we were privileged to have Father Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was Gadenz lecture on: An Introduction to St. Luke’s it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thine intercession was left unaided. Gospel and the Infancy Narrative. Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of He is an associate professor of Biblical Studies at virgins, my mother; to thee do I come, before thee I stand, Seton Hall University and the author of a sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, commentary on the Gospel of Luke. Father is an despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and outstanding teacher. answer me. Amen

Do not miss this informative lecture! 514 page 4 BUS TRIP TO Golden Nugget Casino PARISH MINISTRY MEETINGS Benefiting St. Vincent de Paul Society

TEEN YOUTH GROUP Tuesday, April 2, 2019

Next Meetings: March 10th, 17th, 24th, & 31st. $30 Tickets, Receive $25 in Slot Play; 6:00—8:00pm St. Justin’s Conference Room $5 Food Voucher All Grade 8 through 12 youth are invited to become part of the “Youth Group.” . Come to a meeting for Pizza & Bus Leaves St. Justin’s Parking Lot at 11am Fun! Any questions? See Deacon Fred after Mass. For info/questions call Maryann at: 732-270-3404

ST. JUSTIN’S BEREAVEMENT GROUP or Kim at 732-664-2311 Next meetings: March 11th & March 25th in St. Justin’s Conference Room Anyone who has lost a Ladies Knights of Columbus Council #4969 113 loved one please come join us in prayer, and sharing, The Tennyson Avenue, Toms River Council meetings will be held at 7:30pm. LENTEN DINNERS ST. JUSTIN’S SHAWL MINISTRY Friday Night at 5:30-7:00 pm. Next Meeting—Wednesday, March 13th If you crochet or All You Can Eat While Supplies Last knit or want to learn how to do either, you will be welcomed by our group. We also happily accept donations of $9.00 Adults $3.00 Children 7-12 under 6 Free yarn for creating prayer shawls, baby blankets, lap blankets and various other items for people in need. Menu March 15: Salad Bread Linguine with Clams, For details & information about the meeting Pasta Marinara, Baked Fish, Cole Slaw, call Fran: 848-241-3976 or 732-492-0329 Coffee, Tea and Dessert

ST. JUSTIN’S SENIORS Next Meeting: Tuesday, March 19, 2019, in the Donovan Catholic National Honor Society Invites you to Parish Hall –Starting at 11:30 (please bring a non- perishable food item to the meeting) We will discuss an “NEW YORK, NEW YORK” upcoming trip on May 21st. Bateaux—New York, The 2019 Senior Citizen Prom Luncheon Cruise. This is a glass enclosed yacht giving you a beautiful view of the NY skyline, stop at South Sunday, March 31st 1-4pm Street Seaport for 1 1/2 hrs. Special Chicken and a in the Donovan Catholic HS Café vegetarian lunch, cost $120.00 All payments must be in DJ, Dancing, door prizes, raffles, food $7/ticket by April 15th. Our March meeting on the 19th, Experience the Famous Neighborhoods of Manhattan, Coney St. Patrick's luncheon, corned beef sandwich, chips, Island, Little Italy; China Town, Broadway, Central Park cole slaw free to paid up members, guest will pay 8-seats at a table for $50. $8.00 For Info: Call Barbara at 732-232-3733 Get your tickets now. Call 732-349-8801 x2403

ST. JUSTIN’S MEN’S FAITH GROUP Monday, April 1, 2019, 7:00pm, St. Justin’s FORMED PIC OF THE WEEK: Conference Room Come and See. Join other Men “A Lent to Remember” from the Parish for prayer, discussions and brother- A Lenten Encounter with Mercy hood as we live out, learn and share our Catholic Faith. “This Lent, get daily reflections from Bishop MENDING THROUGH FAITH Donald Hying, delivered right to your email, every Family and Friends who have lost their Loved Ones day. Watch, Read, and Reflect for just 10 Minutes a through addiction meet once a month to help mend their Day: Watch a beautiful, 5-minute video reflection broken hearts through faith. The next meeting is from Bishop Hying's ECHO series. Read an inspiring scheduled for: Monday, April 1, 2019 at 7:00 pm passage from the Catechism of the Catholic Church in the Religious Ed Building Reflect on how God's truth applies to your daily life.” All Family and Friends are welcome. For further Register today! Visit our website: www.stjustin.org information call or text Kate Miick at 732-237-4080 On the Home page just click on FORMED or Diane Noonan at 732-503-1536. Questions? email [email protected] ST. JUSTIN’S ALTAR-ROSARY SOCIETY Start enjoying this free gift from our Parish today! Come join this wonderful group of women, we welcome new members as we pray the rosary, and serve God and the parish thru charitable events such as a shower for Birthright. Next meeting March 27th 6:30pm in the church for the Lenten evening Mass, & Lenten Enrichment program at 7pm. Further info? Pease contact president Pat McDonald: 732-270-4061

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