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Finding the Golden Mean: the Overuse, Underuse, and Optimal Use of Character Strengths
Counselling Psychology Quarterly ISSN: 0951-5070 (Print) 1469-3674 (Online) Journal homepage: https://www.tandfonline.com/loi/ccpq20 Finding the golden mean: the overuse, underuse, and optimal use of character strengths Ryan M. Niemiec To cite this article: Ryan M. Niemiec (2019): Finding the golden mean: the overuse, underuse, and optimal use of character strengths, Counselling Psychology Quarterly, DOI: 10.1080/09515070.2019.1617674 To link to this article: https://doi.org/10.1080/09515070.2019.1617674 Published online: 20 May 2019. Submit your article to this journal View Crossmark data Full Terms & Conditions of access and use can be found at https://www.tandfonline.com/action/journalInformation?journalCode=ccpq20 COUNSELLING PSYCHOLOGY QUARTERLY https://doi.org/10.1080/09515070.2019.1617674 ARTICLE Finding the golden mean: the overuse, underuse, and optimal use of character strengths Ryan M. Niemiec VIA Institute on Character, Cincinnati, OH, USA ABSTRACT ARTICLE HISTORY The science of well-being has catalyzed a tremendous amount of Received 28 February 2019 research with no area more robust in application and impact than Accepted 8 May 2019 the science of character strengths. As the empirical links between KEYWORDS character strengths and positive outcomes rapidly grow, the research Character strengths; around strength imbalances and the use of strengths with problems strengths overuse; strengths and conflicts is nascent. The use of character strengths in understand- underuse; optimal use; ing and handling life suffering as well as emerging from it, is particularly second wave positive aligned within second wave positive psychology. Areas of particular psychology; golden mean promise include strengths overuse and strengths underuse, alongside its companion of strengths optimaluse.Thelatterisviewedasthe golden mean of character strengths which refers to the expression of the right combination of strengths, to the right degree, and in the right situation. -
HERBERT ROSENFELD This Article Was First Published in 1971 in P
HERBERT ROSENFELD This article was first published in 1971 in P. Doucet and C. Laurin (eds) Problems of Psychosis, The Hague: Exceqita Medica, 115-28. Following the suggestion of the organizers of the Symposium that I should discuss the importance of projective identification and ego splitting in the psychopathology of the psychotic patient, I shall attempt to give you a survey of the processes described under the term: 'projective identification'. I shall first define the meaning of the term 'projective identification' and quote from the work of Melanie Klein, as it was she who developed the concept. Then I shall go on to discuss very briefly the work of two other writers whose use appeared to be related to, but not identical with, Melanie Klein's use of the term. 'Projective identification' relates first of all to a splitting process of the early ego, where either good or bad parts of the self are split off from the ego and arc as a further step projected in love or hatred into external objects whi~h leads to fusion and identification of the projected parts of the self with the external objects. There are important paranoid anxieties related to these processes as the objects filled with aggressive parts of the self become persecuting and are experienced by the patient as threatening to retaliate by forcing themselves and the bad parts of the self which they contain back again into the ego. In her paper on schizoid mechanisms Melanie IKlein (1946j considers first of all the importance of the processes of splitting and 117 Melanie Klein Today: Projective Identification denial and omnipotence which during the early phase of develop ment play a role similar to that of repression at a later stage of ego development. -
The Emotional Content of Sexual Fantasies, Psychological and Interpersonal Distress, and Satisfaction in Romantic Relationships
City University of New York (CUNY) CUNY Academic Works All Dissertations, Theses, and Capstone Projects Dissertations, Theses, and Capstone Projects 9-2017 Women’s Sexual Fantasies in Context: The Emotional Content of Sexual Fantasies, Psychological and Interpersonal Distress, and Satisfaction in Romantic Relationships Sarah Constantine The Graduate Center, City University of New York How does access to this work benefit ou?y Let us know! More information about this work at: https://academicworks.cuny.edu/gc_etds/2162 Discover additional works at: https://academicworks.cuny.edu This work is made publicly available by the City University of New York (CUNY). Contact: [email protected] i Women’s Sexual Fantasies in Context: The Emotional Content of Sexual Fantasies, Psychological and Interpersonal Distress, and Satisfaction in Romantic Relationships By Sarah Constantine A dissertation submitted to the Graduate Faculty in Psychology in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of Doctor of Philosophy, The City University of New York 2017 ii © 2017 SARAH CONSTANTINE All Rights Reserved iii Women’s Sexual Fantasies in Context: The Emotional Content of Sexual Fantasies, Psychological and Interpersonal Distress, and Satisfaction in Romantic Relationships By Sarah Constantine This manuscript has been read and accepted for the Graduate Faculty in Psychology in satisfaction of the dissertation requirement for the degree of Doctor of Philosophy. May 16th, 2017 Margaret Rosario ___________________________________________ Chair of Examining Committee Richard Bodnar ___________________________________________ Executive Officer Supervisory Committee Diana Diamond Lissa Weinstein Diana Puñales Steven Tuber THE CITY UNIVERSITY OF NEW YORK iv Abstract Women’s Sexual Fantasies in Context: The Emotional Content of Sexual Fantasies, Psychological and Interpersonal Distress, and Satisfaction in Romantic Relationships by Sarah Constantine The Graduate Center and City College, City University of New York Adviser: Margaret Rosario, Ph.D. -
The Development of Compassionate Engagement and Action Scales For
Gilbert et al. Journal of Compassionate Health Care (2017) 4:4 DOI 10.1186/s40639-017-0033-3 ORIGINAL RESEARCH Open Access The development of compassionate engagement and action scales for self and others Paul Gilbert1*, Francisca Catarino2, Cristiana Duarte3, Marcela Matos3, Russell Kolts4, James Stubbs5, Laura Ceresatto6, Joana Duarte3, José Pinto-Gouveia3 and Jaskaran Basran1 Abstract Background: Studies of the value of compassion on physical and mental health and social relationships have proliferated in the last 25 years. Although, there are several conceptualisations and measures of compassion, this study develops three new measures of compassion competencies derived from an evolutionary, motivational approach. The scales assess 1. the compassion we experience for others, 2. the compassion we experience from others, and 3. self-compassion based on a standard definition of compassion as a ‘sensitivity to suffering in self and others with a commitment to try to alleviate and prevent it’. We explored these in relationship to other compassion scales, self-criticism, depression, anxiety, stress and well-being. Methods: Participants from three different countries (UK, Portugal and USA) completed a range of scales including compassion for others, self-compassion, self-criticism, shame, depression, anxiety and stress with the newly developed ‘The Compassionate Engagement and Actions’ scale. Results: All three scales have good validity. Interestingly, we found that the three orientations of compassion are only moderately correlated to one another (r < .5). We also found that some elements of self-compassion (e.g., being sensitive to, and moved by one’s suffering) have a complex relationship with other attributes of compassion (e.g., empathy), and with depression, anxiety and stress. -
A Critical Examination of the Theoretical and Empirical Overlap Between Overt Narcissism and Male Narcissism and Between Covert Narcissism and Female Narcissism
View metadata, citation and similar papers at core.ac.uk brought to you by CORE provided by Smith College: Smith ScholarWorks Smith ScholarWorks Theses, Dissertations, and Projects 2009 A critical examination of the theoretical and empirical overlap between overt narcissism and male narcissism and between covert narcissism and female narcissism Lydia Onofrei Follow this and additional works at: https://scholarworks.smith.edu/theses Part of the Social and Behavioral Sciences Commons Recommended Citation Onofrei, Lydia, "A critical examination of the theoretical and empirical overlap between overt narcissism and male narcissism and between covert narcissism and female narcissism" (2009). Masters Thesis, Smith College, Northampton, MA. https://scholarworks.smith.edu/theses/1133 This Masters Thesis has been accepted for inclusion in Theses, Dissertations, and Projects by an authorized administrator of Smith ScholarWorks. For more information, please contact [email protected]. Lydia Onofrei A Critical Examination of the Theoretical and Empirical Overlap Between Overt Narcissism and Male Narcissism, and Between Covert Narcissism and Female Narcissism ABSTRACT Within the past twenty years, there has been a proliferation of empirical research seeking to distinguish between overt and covert types of narcissism and to elucidate the differences between narcissistic pathology among men and women, yet these two areas of research have largely been carried out independently of one another in spite of clinical observations suggesting a relationship between them. This project was undertaken to systematically examine whether an overlap exists between the clinical category of overt narcissism and male/masculine narcissism, or between the category of covert narcissism and female/feminine narcissism. Secondly, it sought to elaborate on areas of overlap between these categories. -
A Model for Cognitively-Based Compassion Training: Theoretical…
Social Theory & Health https://doi.org/10.1057/s41285-019-00124-x ORIGINAL ARTICLE A model for cognitively‑based compassion training: theoretical underpinnings and proposed mechanisms Marcia Ash1 · Timothy Harrison2 · Melissa Pinto3 · Ralph DiClemente4 · Lobsang Tenzin Negi2 © The Author(s) 2019 Abstract Across cultures and belief systems, compassion is widely considered to be benefcial for the development of personal and social wellbeing. Research indicates that com- passion-training programs have broad health benefts, but how and why compassion- training programs are efective is still relatively unknown. This paper describes the theoretical underpinnings of a specifc compassion-training program, CBCT® (Cog- nitively-Based Compassion Training), and proposes an integrative model that draws on existing health behavior constructs to identify CBCT’s core components and hypothesizes their directionality and interaction. The model includes two primary categories of skill development: (1) intrapersonal skills leading to greater resiliency, and (2) interpersonal skills leading to greater compassion. It is hypothesized that these two pathways are mutually reinforcing and both contribute to greater wellbe- ing. This model provides a foundation for theory-driven research on the underlying mechanisms in CBCT training. An understanding of CBCT’s mechanisms is a criti- cal step towards optimizing and personalizing the intervention to meet the needs of specifc populations. Keywords Compassion · Wellbeing · Resilience · Contemplative practice · Mechanisms of behavior change Introduction The purpose of this paper is to provide a conceptual model that explains how the components of Cognitively-Based Compassion Training (CBCT ®) lead to greater resilience, compassion, and wellbeing. There is a compelling body of evidence to support the role of compassion in improving health and wellbeing (Hofmann et al. -
Roots & Rituals
ROOTS & RITUALS The construction of ethnic identities Ton Dekker John Helsloot Carla Wijers editors Het Spinhuis Amsterdam 2000 Selected papers of the 6TH SIEF conference on 'Roots & rituals', Amsterdam 20-25 April 1998 This publication was made possible by the Ministery of the Flemish Community, Division of the non-formal adult education and public libraries, in Bruxelles ISBN 90 5589 185 1 © 2000, Amsterdam, the editors No part of this publication may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopy, recording, or any informa- tion storage and retrieval system, without permission of the copyright owners. Cover design: Jos Hendrix Lay-out: Ineke Meijer Printed and bound in the Netherlands Het Spinhuis Publishers, Oudezijds Achterburgwal 185, 1012 DK Amsterdam Table of Contents Introduction ix Ton Dekker, John Helsloot & Carla Wijers SECTION I Ethnicity and ethnology Wem nützt 'Ethnizität'? 3 Elisabeth & Olaf Bockhorn Ethnologie polonaise et les disciplines voisines par rapport à l'identification nationale des Polonais 11 Wojciech Olszewski Üne ethnie ingérable: les Corses 25 Max Caisson SECTION II Ethnie groups, minorities, regional identities Ethnic revitalization and politics of identity among Finnish and Kven minorities in northern Norway 37 Marjut Anttonen Division culturelle du travail et construction identitaire dans le Pinde septentrional 53 Evangelos Karamanes Managing locality among the Cieszyn Silesians in Poland 67 Marian Kempny Musulmanisches Leben im andalusischen Granada -
Codependency in Master's-Level Counseling Students
Andrews University Digital Commons @ Andrews University Dissertations Graduate Research 2007 Codependency in Master's-Level Counseling Students Terri Lynne Pardee Andrews University Follow this and additional works at: https://digitalcommons.andrews.edu/dissertations Part of the Higher Education Commons, and the School Psychology Commons Recommended Citation Pardee, Terri Lynne, "Codependency in Master's-Level Counseling Students" (2007). Dissertations. 619. https://digitalcommons.andrews.edu/dissertations/619 This Dissertation is brought to you for free and open access by the Graduate Research at Digital Commons @ Andrews University. It has been accepted for inclusion in Dissertations by an authorized administrator of Digital Commons @ Andrews University. For more information, please contact [email protected]. Thank you for your interest in the Andrews University Digital Library of Dissertations and Theses. Please honor the copyright of this document by not duplicating or distributing additional copies in any form without the author’s express written permission. Thanks for your cooperation. Andrews University School of Education CODEPENDENCY IN MASTER’S-LEVEL COUNSELING STUDENTS A Dissertation Presented in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree Doctor of Philosophy by Terri Lynne Pardee March 2007 Reproduced with permission of the copyright owner. Further reproduction prohibited without permission. UMI Number: 3261212 Copyright 2007 by Pardee, Terri Lynne All rights reserved. INFORMATION TO USERS The quality of this reproduction is dependent upon the quality of the copy submitted. Broken or indistinct print, colored or poor quality illustrations and photographs, print bleed-through, substandard margins, and improper alignment can adversely affect reproduction. In the unlikely event that the author did not send a complete manuscript and there are missing pages, these will be noted. -
Featuring the Portuguese Connection
NO. 74 | SPRING 2018 a quarterly publication of the ata’s literary SOURCE division Amanhecer no Hercules (Finger of God mountain peak) at the Serra dos Órgãos FEATURING National Park, state of Rio de Janeiro, Brazil New column: WORDS, WORDS, WORDS THE PORTUGUESE INTERVIEW: KATRINA DODSON CONNECTION TRANSLATING MÁRIO DE ANDRADE SAUDADE SPRING 2018 IN THIS ISSUE FROM THE EDITORS.............................................................03 SUBMISSION GUIDELINES ..................................................04 INTRODUCTION OF NEW COLUMN...................................05 LETTER FROM THE LD ADMINISTRATOR .........................06 ASSISTANT LD ADMINISTRATOR PROFILE: AMANDA WILLIAMS .............................................................08 READERS’ CORNER...............................................................09 VÃO / VÒNG A CONVERSATION WITH KATRINA DODSON Interview by Madhu H. Kaza...................................................12 TRANSLATING HUMOR, NATIONALISMS, ETC., IN MÁRIO DE ANDRADE’S MODERNIST WRITINGS (excerpt) By Krista Brune ......................................................................18 SAUDADE by Patrick Saari .....................................................26 WORDS WORDS WORDS COLUMN: “Rule of law” and “L’Assommoir” ............................................35 by Patrick Saari BY THE WAY TOONS by Tony Beckwith...........11, 17, 25, 34 CREDITS................................................................................38 © Copyright 2018 ATA except as noted. SOURCE 2 SPRING 2018 From -
The Five Stages of Marriage by Mark Goulston, M.D
The Five Stages of Marriage By Mark Goulston, M.D. There's a joke about marriage that goes, "Where does sex take place in a marriage? Early on, anywhere and everywhere; later on, in the bedroom; and finally, in the hallway when you and your spouse walk by each other and say, 'Screw you!'" Many married couples laugh at such jokes about how marital bliss turns into blisters, not just because they're funny, but because they ring true. Understanding these marital stages can help us tame our expectations and feel more satisfied in our relationships. Does every couple go through these? Yes and no. Every marriage has its ups and downs. These are periods where you may question the relationship or when outside influences like financial, career, child rearing or personal issues take priority over the marriage. Healthy relationships recognize when they are entering danger zones like stage two and three and take steps to reverse the trend together. Together is the key word. Both people in the relationship are committed to making it work. Unhealthy or unfulfilling relationships may have one person trying to keep it together and the other not caring or both still in their own world and oblivious to the needs of one another. In these cases, if action isn't taken to fix the problem, the couple becomes more distant until eventually the relationship disintegrates somewhere in stage two or three. This does not mean the damage cannot be fixed. It just means it will take twice as much effort and commitment to bring the relationship around. -
The Theory of Moral Sentiments
The Theory of Moral Sentiments Adam Smith Copyright © Jonathan Bennett 2017. All rights reserved [Brackets] enclose editorial explanations. Small ·dots· enclose material that has been added, but can be read as though it were part of the original text. Occasional •bullets, and also indenting of passages that are not quotations, are meant as aids to grasping the structure of a sentence or a thought. Every four-point ellipsis . indicates the omission of a brief passage that seems to present more difficulty than it is worth. Longer omissions are reported between brackets in normal-sized type.—In Adam Smith’s day a ‘sentiment’ could be anything on a spectrum with feelings at one end and opinions at the other. This work of his is strongly tilted in the ‘feeling’ direction [see especially the chapter starting on page 168), but throughout the present version the word ‘sentiment’ will be left untouched. First launched: July 2008 Contents Part I: The Propriety of Action 1 Section 1: The Sense of Propriety...................................................1 Chapter 1: Sympathy.......................................................1 Chapter 2: The pleasure of mutual sympathy.........................................4 Chapter 3: How we judge the propriety of other men’s affections by their concord or dissonance with our own..6 Chapter 4: The same subject continued...........................................8 Chapter 5: The likeable virtues and the respectworthy virtues............................... 11 Section 2: The degrees of the different passions that are consistent with propriety..................... 13 Chapter 1: The passions that originate in the body..................................... 13 Smith on Moral Sentiments Chapter 2: The passions that originate in a particular turn or habit of the imagination.............. -
BRAND ADMIRATION: Your Secret Ingredient for Building Brand Equity Brand Admiration: Your Secret Ingredient for Building Brand Equity
BRAND ADMIRATION: Your Secret Ingredient for Building Brand Equity Brand Admiration: Your Secret Ingredient for Building Brand Equity Marketers have historically used an array of metrics to measure a brand’s success—from awareness, name recognition, and differentiation, to customer loyalty, advocacy, and social-media following. Each of these elements, along with brand trust and love, plays an important role in the life and livelihood of a brand. But what if there was an overarching framework that could be used to understand how a brand can systematically create value—and ensure that value endures—for both the firm and its customers? Researchers C. Whan Park, Deborah J. MacInnis, and Andreas B. Eisingerich have recently introduced such a framework in their forthcoming book to be published by Wiley, Brand to Last: How Brand Admiration Builds Your Bottom Line. Their framework applies to brands in any type of business and across industries—from B2B and B2C, to tech, commodities, celebrities, institutions, non-profit organizations, and more. It can be applied to new or existing brands with equal success. Park, MacInnis and Eisingerich describe a brand as more than a mere name that helps with identification and differentiation of a product or service. It is a value-generating entity relevant to both customers and the brand owner—and the effort required to create an admired brand is worth its weight in gold. In this white paper, we introduce some aspects of their framework, as well as the importance of embedding its tenets into the fabric of a company and its brands. You’ll learn: What brand admiration is and why brands should strive for it Teachings from some of today’s most admired brands Why training across an organization is crucial to enable brand admiration and its benefits The framework is backed by extensive scientific research from marketing and psychology as it pertains to building great brands (and companies).