WESTCHESTER October 2016 -- Tishri 5777, Volume 22, Issue 10

JewishWESTCHESTER COUNTY’S ONLY MONTHLY JEWISHLife NEWSPAPER New Yorkers Mourn the Loss of Education Experts Explain How to Foster Values President Shimon Peres BY STEPHEN E. LIPKEN “The question of Jewish endurance and strength of A stellar panel of Jewish the community is a question education experts including that touches all of us,” Berger Rabbi Rick Jacobs, President, noted. “The most recent Pew Union for Reform Judaism; Dr. Survey found that almost 1/3 of Michael Kay, Ph.D., Solomon young , Millennials born Schechter Westchester School after 1980 described them- Headmaster; Michael Stein- selves as having no religion. By hardt, Co-Founder, Birthright comparison, those born before Israel and main supporter of 1928, 93% identified them- the Hebrew Language Charter selves religiously. School movement and Tik- “How do we nurture feel- vah Wiener, Co-Founder and Left to right: Dr. Michael Kay, Headmaster, Schechter Westchester; Joseph ings for Israel, particularly Director of I.D.E.A. Schools Berger, Moderator; Tikvah Wiener, Co-Founder/Director I.D.E.A. Schools when pupils will be confronted Network appeared at JCC Mid- Network; Rabbi Rick Jacobs, President, Union for Reform Judaism; Michael on campuses with the signifi- Shimon Peres Westchester, Scarsdale on Steinhardt, Co-Founder, Birthright Israel. cant hostility of Boycott, Divest Wednesday, September 21 to and Sanction (BDS) move- New York is home to mon Peres was a leader and a discuss “Jewish Education for zens from Westchester and tion Project; Scarsdale Adult ment? How much Hebrew more than 1.7 million Jews – statesman, and an especially the 21st Century,” moderated surrounding Jewish com- School; Solomon Schechter of should they learn? How much the largest Jewish community wonderful friend to all of us,” by retired New York Times re- munities attended the event, Westchester; UJA Federation Bible and Talmud? What outside of Israel in the world. stated Governor Andrew M. porter/editor and author Jo- sponsored by Birthright Is- of NY; Westchester Jewish about the secular achieve- “The community is mourning Cuomo on hearing the news seph Berger. rael Foundation; JCC Mid- Council (WJC) and Westches- ments of the Jewish people?” the loss of a larger-than-life of the passing of Peres on Sep- Approximately 80 citi- Westchester; Jewish Educa- ter Reform Temple (WRT). continued on page 4 figure. Former President Shi- continued on page 11 Special Envoy Forman Discusses “Confronting Shofar Blast on High Global Anti-Semitism”in Briarcliff Manor BY STEPHEN E. LIPKEN program, Forman began, “One because of Anti- “We are try- of our most important allies is Semitism?’ In ing to get a working Congregation Sons of the Catholic Church, especial- Hungary the multilateral defini- Israel (CSI), Briarcliff Manor, ly the Pope. number was 48%; tion of Anti-Semi- in conjunction with Pleasant- “There are different types France, 46%. In tism including the ville Community Synagogue of anti-Semitism…The first Hungary you have 3D’s: 1) Demonizing (PCS) hosted a presentation thing I hear is that this is the the xenophobic Israel; i.e. they treat by President Barack Obama’s 1930’s all over again… I don’t extreme right Palestinians like the Special Envoy to Monitor and think so…Jewish communi- wing, neo-Nazi Nazis; 2) De-legiti- Combat Global Anti-Semitism ties, small vulnerable ones in Anti-Semitic Job- matizing, Israel has Ira Forman, Secretary’s Office Europe particularly may not bik party; Greece, no right to exist; 3) of Religion and Global Affairs be viable if present trends con- Golden Dawn. Double Standard,” (SRGA), Washington, D.C. on tinue. Anti-Semitism is driving Both have signifi- Forman concluded. Wednesday, September 7. people to 1) emigrate and 2) as- cant parliamen- “The speaker Over 250 audience mem- similate... tary representa- Ira Foreman was excellent,” bers from the County filled “Fundamental Rights tion. Both have AJC Westchester/Fairfield In preparation for Rosh Hashana, the Jewish New Year, nearly every seat. The program Agency of the European Union street militias. President Beverly Rosenbaum Rabbi Eytan Hammerman of the Jewish Community Cen- was sponsored by Ameri- conducted a survey in 2012. “The militias attack mi- noted. ter of Harrison arranged a memorable Rosh Hashana Shofar can Jewish Committee (AJC) They asked 8 Jewish commu- grants and in Hungary, Roma “He pointed out that most (ceremonial Ram’s horn) sounding for students from the con- Westchester/’Fairfield. nities in EU representing 90% (Gypsies)—not the Jews yet. people in the audience weren’t gregation. As Rabbi Hammerman serves as Chaplain of the Introduced by PCS Rabbi of Europe’s Jews how Anti- In France there are multiple aware of the fact that an Office Harrison Volunteer Fire Department, the Department was Dr. Julie Danan, PhD., who Semitism was affecting their forms of Anti-Semitism, the like this existed in the State only too happy to lift him ninety-five feet in the air, atop the with her daughter Liora, SRGA lives. xenophobic right wing; left Department. It is inspiring “Tower Ladder Fire Truck.” The students on the ground called Chief of Staff, contacted AJC “They were asked, ‘Have wing and Anti-Semitism asso- and heartwarming to know out the special notes used to sound the Shofar and Rabbi Ham- Director Scott Richman, re- you thought about emigrat- ciated with Israeli-Palestinian that…our government is en- merman responded to their calls. What a way to usher in the cruiting AJC to sponsor the ing over the last five years conflict. gaged in this important area...” “High” Holidays. Covering all of Westchester for over 21 years! Visit www.westchesterjewishlife.com 2 • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 • Westchester Jewish Life www.westchesterjewishlife.com On Global Shabbat, Moishe House Marks a Decade Nora Anderson Discusses “How to Be of Redefining Life Ninety-two Moishe rejoice and reflect on the last the Jewish Parents We Mean to Be” BY STEPHEN E. LIPKEN Houses in cities spanning 21 10 years of creating meaning- ing Jacob and Esau; Prov- countries marked the orga- ful and intentional communi- erbs 22:6, “Train a lad in the A congenial group of Jew- nization’s 10th anniversary ties for young Jewish adults way he ought to go…” and ish parents from Westches- of re-defining Jewish life for around the world. All Shabbat Wendy Mogel’s The Bless- ter County and surrounding young adults by celebrating programs began local time in ing of a Skinned Knee in communities met with Car- Shabbat together on Septem- each community. which Mogel talked about mel Academy, Greenwich, CT. ber 23. “After an amazing and in- parents’ preparing children Head of School Nora Ander- Moishe House, the larg- spiring decade, today we have a for a competitive world yet son to discuss “How to Be the est organization in the world wonderful opportunity to con- expecting almost nothing Jewish Parents We Mean to serving post-college Jewish tinue to grow for the future, at home. “As a result they Be” on Sunday, September 25 young adults, celebrated its to expand our reach, to con- often didn’t learn to solve at Westchester Jewish Cen- first decade with thousands tinue to say ‘yes’ to the growing problems on their own or ter (WJC), Mamaroneck at a of Moishe House residents, network of incredible young gain the strength that comes brunch sponsored by Carmel local community members, leaders who want to open up with independence.” Academy and WJC Adult Edu- family members and do- their homes and redefine Jew- Some of the parents David Cygielman cation Committee. nors in Asia, Africa, Europe, ish community to meet their pointed out that Esau and Ja- Introducing Anderson, Australia, North and South was to bring together the global needs and the needs of their cob had the same genes but Heather Taffet Gold, WJC America and Israel. The goal Moishe House community to continued on page 12 had separate personalities. Adult Education Committee Anderson stressed that the Co-Chair, mentioned that Nora Anderson mindset must see children Anderson trains the WJC fac- for whom they are, not trying ulty. Anderson began, “I feel Anderson said that her to change them but to work I’m coming home. Carmel goal is to develop a parenting with them, respecting their originated at WJC 13 years action plan. She asked the differences. ago. Education has been my audience to list some charac- Anderson concluded passion…I have brought up teristics that they would like that despite the Millennial five sons…Each one of them to see in their children. The Era, curfews can still be ad- was extraordinarily differ- answers included creativity, hered to; dress codes and ent… How do I manage my flexibility, respectful, adapt- respecting shul’s including ‘quiet kid,’ my super outgoing able, overcoming challenges, WJC prohibiting the use of one, the one who naturally keeping their word (loyalty) cell phones on Shabbat, plus wants to work or the one who and caring for others. talking to children in family tells me ‘Do I have to go to She then showed two meetings to gauge their feel- school?’ texts, Genesis 25:27 regard- ings and goals.

WISHING YOU A 5777 bursting with sweetness

HADASSAH Westchester 10 New King Street, White Plains, NY 10604 914.937.3151 [email protected]

HADASSAH THE WOMEN’S ZIONIST ORGANIZATION OF AMERICA, INC. ©2016 Hadassah, The Women’s Zionist Organization of America, Inc. Hadassah, the H logo, and Hadassah the Power of Women Who Do are registered trademarks of Hadassah, The Women’s Zionist Organization of America, Inc. www.shorelinepub.com Westchester Jewish Life • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 • 3 FIDF Westchester Annual Dinner Supports Educational Programs for Israeli Soldiers More than 350 leaders from the Westches- The keynote address was deliv- ter community gathered on September 17 for the ered by Mosab Hassan Yousef, dubbed Friends of the Israel Defense Forces (FIDF) West- “The Green Prince,” by Shin Bet, Is- chester Annual Dinner at the Ritz-Carlton, West- rael’s internal security agency. Yousef chester, to salute the brave soldiers of the Israel is the son of Hamas leader Sheikh Defense Forces (IDF). Hassan Yousef and used his connec- The dinner gave FIDF supporters the chance tion to the terrorist group to become to celebrate – and meet – Israel’s men and women Shin Bet’s most valuable intelligence in uniform, helping to deepen their connection to resource, helping to prevent dozens Israel’s defenders, and to learn about FIDF’s well- of attacks on Israeli soldiers and civil- being and educational programs for IDF soldiers. ians. He fled the West Bank and moved Attending were active-duty IDF soldiers, to the U.S. in 2007. including 1st Lt. Sivan, an Ethiopian Israeli who “I am humbled to be among the serves as an officer in the IDF Spokesperson’s Unit; real heroes tonight,” Yousef said. “In wounded 1st Lt. Nir, who, with help from the West- their war against the enemies of that chester community, has made a successful recov- which is right – the enemies of human- (From left) FIDF Westchester/Connecticut Chapter Development Associate Ali Picheny; FIDF Westchester/Connecticut Chapter Director ery after his special operations task force was am- ity – the IDF has to make tough choices. Anat Chavkin; IDF Cpl. Margot, a Lone Soldier originally from Harrison, N.Y.; IDF Sgt. Alexander, a Lone Soldier from New Rochelle, bushed by Hamas, killing three of his friends and During the First Intifada, I saw Israeli N.Y.; IDF Brig. Gen. (Res.) Gila Klifi-Amir and her husband, FIDF National Director and CEO Maj. Gen. (Res.) Meir Klifi-Amir; FIDF leaving him badly injured; Sgt. Alexander, a Lone soldiers rescue Palestinian victims Westchester Dinner Co-Chair Hyla Ruby; IDF 1st Lt. Nir; FIDF National President Peter Weintraub; FIDF Westchester Dinner Co-Chair Soldier originally from New Rochelle, who serves from a collapsed building in Ramallah Steven Ruby; and FIDF National Chairman Arthur Stark and his wife, Sylvia; FIDF Westchester Dinner Committee Members Wendy and in an IDF combat infantry unit; and Cpl. Margot, a – and people thanked them by throw- Dan Moskowitz; and IDF 1st Lt. Sivan. Lone Soldier originally from Harrison, who serves ing stones and Molotov cocktails at in a special operations canine unit. them on their way out of the city. The nity needed to hear that there really is potential Member Marc Jason and his wife, Dana; FIDF Na- Speaking was Sarit Gomez, the widow of Is- IDF’s mission is complex and very difficult.” for peace.” Also co-chairing the dinner were Ruby’s tional Board Member Wendy Moskowitz and her raeli Air Force Capt. Daniel Gomez Z’’L, a helicop- After reading Yousef’s autobiography, Hyla husband Steve, Jonathan and Lynette Tulkoff, and husband, Dan; FIDF National Director and CEO ter pilot who was killed just before the end of the Ruby, who co-chaired Saturday’s dinner, wanted to Aram and Shari Rubinson. Maj. Gen. (Res.) Meir Klifi-Amir and his wife, Brig. Second Lebanon War. The IDF Musical Ensemble share his story with the Westchester community. Other distinguished guests in attendance Gen. (Res.) Gila Klifi-Amir; FIDF Westchester/Con- performed traditional and contemporary Israeli “It was truly inspiring to see how someone literally included FIDF National Chairman Arthur Stark; necticut Chapter Director Anat Chavkin; and FIDF songs, and Gomez’s son, Aviya Daniel Gomez, born into terrorism could change for the better – FIDF National President Peter Weintraub and Westchester/Connecticut Chapter Development joined them for a song memorializing his father. and, help save so many lives. The Jewish commu- his wife, Ellen, of Scarsdale; FIDF National Board Associate Ali Picheny. 4 • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 www.westchesterjewishlife.com New Ten Year Security Assistance Agreement Between the U.S. and Israel On September 14, Ste- ture of the State of Israel.” an important mes- phen M. Greenberg, Chairman In remarks delivered at sage to the entire of the Conference of Presidents the signing, Ambassador Rice region of the Mid- of Major American Jewish Or- said, “This MOU is not just dle East of the en- ganizations attended the cer- good for Israel—it’s good for during strength of emony at the State Department the United States. Our secu- the U.S.- Israel spe- for the signing of a new Memo- rity is linked—when allies and cial relationship. randum of Understanding for partners like Israel are more It underscores to U.S. security assistance to Is- secure, the United States is those who have rael that will continue U.S. aid more secure. Moreover, our Is- tried to portray a at historically high levels until raeli friends will be able to buy fraying in the fab- 2028. Secretary of State John more of the advanced capa- ric of the relation- Kerry, President Obama’s Na- bilities produced by the United ship that the two tional Security Advisor Ambas- States, which will support countries have the sador Susan Rice, Israel’s Am- American jobs. Like so many strongest security bassador to the United States aspects of the U.S.-Israeli rela- and intelligence Ron Dermer and the U.S. Am- tionship, this MOU is win-win.” cooperation and Malcolm Hoenlein bassador to Israel Dan Shapiro, Greenberg echoed those an enduring com- were present for the signing. new MOU provides both Israel sentiments, noting the “tens mitment to mutual “It was a privilege to and our nation with enormous of thousands of American jobs support. represent the Conference of benefits, ” Greenberg said. that will be created by Israel’s “We are grate- Presidents at the signing of President Obama issued purchases from the U.S. using ful for the ongoing this historic agreement which a statement in which he said all of the funds provided under support of the Ad- represents an unprecedented “For as long as the state of Is- the MOU. Moreover, the tech- ministration, Con- Congresswoman Nita Lowey commitment by the U.S. to the rael has existed, the United nological advances developed gress and the Ameri- security of Israel and the Israe- States has been Israel’s great- by Israel will better protect can people for the friendship li people. The overwhelming est friend and partner, a fact American troops and improve and dedication to the U.S.- Is- the security of both nations. protect its citizens and secure sense reflected in statements underscored again today. This their effectiveness on the bat- rael partnership.” “For nearly 70 years, the its borders. from President Obama and commitment to Israel’s secu- tlefield.” On September 14, Con- U.S.-Israel relationship has “I congratulate the Obama Prime Minister Netanyahu, in rity has been unwavering and Malcolm Hoenlein, Exec- gresswoman Nita Lowey, Rank- been based on shared values, Administration and the Netan- Ambassador Rice’s remarks is based on a genuine and abid- utive Vice Chairman and CEO ing Democrat on the House mutual respect, and an en- yahu Administration on reach- and expressed by everyone at ing concern for the welfare of of the Conference of Presi- Appropriations Committeeduring commitment to each ing this milestone agreement. the signing today was that this the Israeli people and the fu- dents added, “This MOU sends and the State and Foreign Op- nation’s security. Fostering As Ranking Democrat on the erations Subcommittee, is- and strengthening this rela- House Appropriations Com- sued the following statement tionship is our shared moral mittee and its State and Foreign on news that the United States responsibility. This MOU - the Operations Subcommittee, I and Israel have agreed to a new largest bilateral aid package will do everything in my power 10-year Memorandum of Un- ever reached - builds on our to fully support and implement derstanding (MOU) on military unshakeable commitment to the new MOU. I will also work assistance; Israel’s security by providing to ensure that the United States “I am pleased the United certainty with regard to our continues to be the greatest States and Israel have agreed foreign military assistance force against efforts to dele- to a new Memorandum of Un- and missile defense funding gitimize Israel in the interna- derstanding on military assis- through this decade and be- tional community as well as the tance, extending a productive yond. Israel will be in a better greatest advocate for a lasting partnership that has ensured position to address turmoil peace between Israel and the Israel’s continued qualitative and instability in the region Palestinians and recognition of military edge and advanced and therefore be able to better Israel by all of her neighbors.”

Education Experts Discuss How to Foster Values continued from page 1 Berger pointed to a re- the non-Orthodox world 10% of that his mother, in a hurry to cent article by Steinhardt in the kids attend day schools; the get to work, dropped him off a recent Tablet magazine, say- Orthodox world, nearly 100%. saying, “’Go get Jewish. I’ll be ing that 20% Nobel Peace Prize We should focus on Jewish back in an hour and twenty recipients were Jews “and Los achievements during the last five minutes.’ At WRT, parents Alamos during the Manhattan 300 years, the post-Enlighten- park their cars and learn along A-Bomb project was practi- ment/Haskelah period.” with their children. Our school cally a ‘stetel’ (Jewish village).” Questioned whether af- is engaging, lifelong and not a “Let’s talk about num- ter school programs foster compartmentalized part of the bers,” Steinhardt replied. “In values, Jacobs remembered Jewish student.”

westchesterjewishlife.com www.shorelinepub.com Westchester Jewish Life • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 • 5 Second Annual “Cancer Ain’t Kosher” PJ Library -- Bringing Sammy Spider Fundraiser at Ben’s Kosher Delicatessen to Westchester Jewish Center

How do we teach children to help a friend who feels sick? Do we bring them chicken soup? Make them a card? To- day, we can even encourage our children to sing a friend a song and make them a special video and send it on our smart- phones. We can even Facetime with them since in - person visits might not be encouraged when someone is sick. This is all part of Bikur Cholim, the mitzvah of visiting the sick to bring them comfort and make them feel better. On Sunday, November 6th at 12:30pm, Westchester Jew- ish Center families and friends During the month of October — National Breast Cancer Awareness Month — customers who will join Sammy Spider and his order Ben’s Kosher Delicatessen Restaurant & Caterers’ famous Soup will have the oppor- friends to learn about this im- tunity to upgrade to a Pink Matzo Ball for an additional $1 charge through the company’s Second An- portant mitzvah. Written by nual “Cancer Ain’t Kosher” Fundraiser. The total proceeds will be donated to Winthrop-University Rebecca Schoffer and Joel Es- Hospital’s Breast Health Center’s “The Angel Fund.” This committee-run organization is committed to her, based on the book by Sylvia raising funds in support of Breast Cancer research. A. Rouss, Sammy Spider’s First Last year, more than 1,300 pink matzo balls were sold and the aim is this year is to double that Mitzvah: The Musical was origi- number. These efforts will be further supported through a friendly inter-store competition, during nally developed and presented which each Ben’s restaurant throughout New York, and in Boca Raton, Florida, will work to get the at the 92nd St Y. winning title of “Most Pink Matzo Balls Sold.” As all Ben’s locations will be closed for Rosh Hashana, Sammy Spider, his mother, Mrs. Shapiro and Josh will all be at Westchester Jewish Center, the promotion will begin on Thursday, October 6. Palmer and Rockland Avenues, Mamaroneck as part of synagogue’s partnership with PJ Library. Launched by the National Breast Cancer Foundation, National Breast Cancer Awareness Month Tickets are $5.oo and the performance is open to the public. For more information contact Ale- is an annual campaign held during the month of October to increase awareness of the disease and za Kulp, Education Director & Congregation Program Coordinator at (914) 698-2966. urge those to make a plan to detect the disease in its early stages and encourage others to do the same. According to the organization, breast cancer affects one out of every eight women in their lifetime. For more details about Ben’s Kosher Delicatessen Restaurant & Caterers, visit www.bensdeli.net. 6 • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 • Westchester Jewish Life CALENDAR OF EVENTS www.westchesterjewishlife.com

On November 10, The Hadassah UJA Community in collaboration with On October 27, The Holocaust and Hu- Beth El Synagogue Center, 1324 Westchester 2016 Film Festival local JCC’s presents Aly Raisman, man Rights Education Center will host North Avenue, New Rochelle hosts will screen “Joan Rivers – A Piece Olympic Gold Medalist, speaking at On October 8-9 visit the Bruce their Annual Benefit Dinner honoring “A Night of Music & Joy” on Novem- of Work” at The Scarsdale Library Westchester Philharmonic’s 34th Season Central Synagogue, 652 Lexington Museum’s Outdoor Arts Festival at 1 the Rosenshein Family and President ber 19 at 7:30pm sponsored by at 7pm. For more information call opens October 23, at 3pm, featuring Avenue, NYC on October 10 at 6pm. Museum Drive, Greenwich, CT from Thomas J. Schwartz of Purchase Westchester Jewish Council and Kol 937-3151. Jaime Laredo conducting with Bella Hris- RSVP to Amanda Sweetwood, 212- 10am to 5pm featuring original fine College at 6pm at the Mamaroneck Hazzanim. RSVP to 328-7001. tova on violin and guest composer David 836-1258. art, children’s art activities and live Beach and Yacht Club, Mamaroneck. Ludwig. Performances take place in The music. Call 203-869-0376 to learn To RSVP, call 696-0738. Concert Hall at The Performing Arts Cen- more. ter, Purchase College, 735 Anderson Hill Road. For tickets visit westchesterphil.org or call 682-3707. Upcoming Mussar, which literally means through December in the shops for caregivers are as fol- ing on his Holocaust related Westchester Jewish Center, “something that is transmit- Westchester Jewish Center Ac- lows: “Effective Communica- Greenburgh Nature Center, works. Lecture is funded by Palmer and Rockland Avenues, ted”, refers to a body of litera- tivity Center, beginners’ class tion Strategies” will take place 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale the Samuel Fredman Family. Mamaroneck displays a new ture and thought that teaches from 7:30-8:45pm and inter- October 6 at The Ambassador hosts a Fall Festival from 11am Free and open to the public. exhibit called Family Gath- a Jewish mindfulness practice mediate class from 8:45-10pm. of Scarsdale, 9 Saxon Wood to 3pm, featuring pumpkin Address questions to the Hu- erings: The Photographs of that is centuries old. Explore Call 584-6738 for additional Road in White Plains, from carving, cider making, tractor manities office at 251-6550. Richard Margolis on view until some of these texts to discover information. 6:30-8:30pm; October 13, the rides and more. Register be- December. Call 698-2960 for what this tradition teaches. topic is “Understanding and re- fore Oct. 16 for reduced ticket details. Wednesday evenings, 7 – 9pm The JCC of Mid-Westchester, sponding to dementia-related prices at www.greenburghna- November in a private home. The next 999 Wilmot Road, Scarsdale, behavior” from 6:30-8pm; And turecenter.org or call 723-3470. 2 Temple Sholom, 300 East Put- session will be October 19, 26, hosts a Mah Jongg beginner on October 20,” Legal & Finan- The Brother John G. Driscoll nam Avenue, Greenwich, will November 2, 9, 16. To register series, from 10am-Noon and cial Planning for Alzheimer’s 21 Professorship in Jewish-Cath- host several October events. or with questions, email rabbi- running for six Fridays, begin- Disease” from 6:30-8pm; On The Performing Arts Center, olic Studies present a play On Oct. 16, from 11:30am to [email protected]. ning October 14. Call 472-3300 November 15 the topic is “ De- Purchase College, 735 Ander- by Rohina Malik, “Yasmina’s 1pm, families are invited to to register. Wednesday, Octo- mentia Conversations” from son Hill Road, Purchase fea- Necklace” in the Romita Au- come decorate the Temple Yorktown Jewish Center, 2966 ber 19 from7:30-9pm The JCC 7:30-9pm at Temple Shaaray tures the Warsaw Philhar- ditorium, Ryan Library, Iona Sholom sukkah. This event Crompond Road, Yorktown hosts an evening with Deans Tefila at 89 Baldwin Road, monic at 8pm in The Concert College, 715 North Avenue, New will feature arts and crafts, a Heights, resumes their class and Directors of several popu- Bedford Corners. For more in- Hall. For tickets visit https:// Rochelle, at 4pm and 7pm. The make-your-own edible sukkah on “Talmud and the Ethics of lar colleges, free but RSVP is formation or to register for the tickets.artscenter.org/single/ program is free and open to the station and a kosher lunch. our Sages” on Thursday, from required. On October 21 from groups, contact Heidi Weiss, PSDetail.aspx?psn=6045. public. Call 637-2744 for addi- The program is free, RSVP to 10:30-12Noon in the Social 10-11:30am and continuing for LMSW, MHA at hweiss@wjcs. tional information. alice.schoen@templesholom. Hall. Classes will continue the next three Fridays, Andree com or call 761-0600. At 9 am, join the Westchester com or call 203-542-7165. On every Thursday. New partici- Aelion Brooks speaks on “Ghet- Chapter of the Brandeis Na- 3 Oct. 21, at 7:30pm, author and pants are welcome. For addi- to, Emancipation, Emigra- tional Committee members At 7:45am, join UJA-Federation professor Amy-Jill Levine will tional information visit info@ tion: The Story of The German October taking a trip to the Whitney of New York Westchester Busi- discuss “How Jews and Chris- yorktownjewishcenter.org or Jews.” Tickets at jccmw.org. 9 Museum in NYC and lunch at ness and Professional Divi- tians Read Scripture Differ- call 245-2324. At 5:30pm StandWithUs will Carmine’s on the Upper West sion’s Fall Breakfast at Willow ently,” in a program presented Derfner Judaica Museum + present Supporting Israel Side. Bus departs from Green- Ridge Country Club, Harri- by The Sholom Center, the cost Rabbi Molly Karp will lead a The Art Collection at Hebrew Around The World – Israel ville Shopping Center. Trip son with speaker Seth Pinsky to attend is $18 and includes a discussion series with read- Home at Riverdale will be ex- 101 for high school and col- raises money for the Central speaking on Reinventing West- festive Sukkot dinner, RSVP to ings from Arthur Hertzberg’s hibiting “Robert Katz: The Five lege students and others at Westchester Endowed Schol- chester’s Downtowns. RSVP to Alice Schoen at 203-542-7165. classic work, “The Zionist Books of Moses” through Janu- Young Israel of New Rochelle, arship Fund. Email prbnc372@ Nora Shapiro at 385-2122. On October 30 at 9:15am, Rabbi Idea” from 10am to 12:15pm on ary 5, 2017. The museum is lo- 1149 North Avenue. For ques- yahoo to attend. Mitchel M. Hurvitz will lead an the following dates, October cated in the Jacob Reingold Pa- tions contact Shaun Meller at 6 adult education program on 19, 26; November 2, 9, 16, 30; vilion at 5901 Palisade Avenue [email protected]. 22 Westchester Jewish Center, “Rosh Chodesh,” the first day December 7, 14, 21 and January in Riverdale. Call 718-581-1596 The Symphony of Westchester Rockland and Palmer Avenues, of each month of the Hebrew 4 at Beth El Synagogue Center, or visit [email protected]. 16 opens its 20th concert season Mamaroneck present Sammy calendar. For more informa- 1324 North Avenue, New Ro- The American Cancer Society at Iona College in the Christo- Spider’s First Mitzvah, The tion visit www.templesholom. chelle. To enroll or for ques- On October 9, 30 and Novem- holds the 22nd Making Strides pher J. Murphy Auditorium, Musical at 12:30pm. For more com. tions, email rabbimollykarp@ ber 13 and 20, Bingo is played Against Breast Cancer walk 715 North Avenue, New Ro- information contact Aleza gmail.com. at the Yorktown Jewish Center, at Manhattanville College in chelle. The concert features Kulp at 698-2960. “Balance & Mobility,” a unique 2966 Crompond Road, York- Purchase. More information on All-Mozart program with movement training course be- Every Monday at 9:30am, town Heights. Doors open at is available at www.making- pianist Tian Lu and soprano 7 ing offered at the Harold and WJCS offers Jewish Mindful- 5pm, play begins at 6:30pm. strideswalk.org/westchester Sharla Nafzinger. Tickets are At 7:30pm UJA Federation of Elaine Shames JCC on the ness Meditation at Temple For additional information vis- or call 397-8810 to sign up. available on line at www.the- New York and Beth El Syna- Hudson, 371 South Broadway, Israel Center, 280 Old Mama- it info@yorktownjewishcenter. symphonyofwestchester.org gogue Center, 1324 North Av- Tarrytown addresses the like- roneck Road, White Plains. org or call 245-2324. The Rye Historical Society, or by phone, 654-4926. enue, New Rochelle present lihood of a fall. The 18 session Call 761-0600 to learn more. one Purchase Street, Rye will “The Journey from Crisis to course is being held Tuesdays Westchester Jewish Commu- screen the film “All the Presi- 31 Healing around the World,” from 1 to 2pm. For a free trial Westchester Jewish Center, nity Services will hold support dent’s Men” at 2:30pm. Admis- At 4:30pm, Professor Michael with Talia Levanon, Executive class, call 366-7898 or register Palmer & Rockland Avenues, groups for individuals affected sion is free. Visit www.ryehis- Traub, Jewish Studies Faculty, Director of the Israel Trauma at JCContheHudson.org. Mamaroneck, holds Israeli by Alzheimer’s disease called tory.org or call 967-7588 for Purchase College, will host Coalition. RSVP to Susan Dance Classes, on Mondays, “You are not Alone.” The work- additional details. Thane Rosenbaum speak- Scharf Glick at 385-2120. www.shorelinepub.com Westchester Jewish Life • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 • 7

sweeter together

As we celebrate the Jewish New Year and approach our centennial, we renew our commitment to meet vital needs, solve pressing problems, and make the world sweeter for millions of people — in New York, in Israel, and around the globe.

Shanah tovah. May the new year bring peace, health, and happiness for all.

www.ujafedny.org

ujafedny.org @ujafedny 8 • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 • Westchester Jewish Life www.westchesterjewishlife.com Scarsdale Couple Share Cross-Country Israel Adventure with Soldiers Supporters of Friends show solidarity with the brave connect with brave men and of the Israel Defense Forces men and women of the IDF and women benefiting from FIDF (FIDF) tightened their gears as experience Israel in a whole programs.” they took a once-in-a-lifetime new way. Scarsdale couple Vivi- eight-day bicycle ride through “This cycling tour is an in- enne and Perry Braun joined Israel September 17-24. Join- credible opportunity to bring 34 other cyclists from across ing the American FIDF sup- FIDF supporters together with the U.S. and covered more porters for this cross-county Israeli soldiers and strengthen than 400 miles with a total ride, which began in northern the bonds between them,” said vertical climb of up to 32,000 Israel on Sept. 17, were a group FIDF Cycling Tour leader Dany feet. Cyclists began near the of wounded Israeli combat vet- Saar, a former IDF soldier and Sea of Galilee and headed to erans who have benefited from avid cyclist from West Bloom- the hot springs near the Jorda- FIDF rehabilitative programs field, Mich. “Biking across Is- nian border, then climbed the and prosthetic devices. The rael with wounded veterans Golan Heights toward Mt. Her- ride allowed participants to will allow participants to really mon, Israel’s tallest peak, be- Perry and Vivienne Braun, of Scarsdale, on this year’s FIDF Cycling Tour of Israel (photo credit: Nadav Ariel). fore descending to the lowest and life-changing support point on Earth, the Dead Sea, for the soldiers who protect and riding through the Ramon Israel and Jews worldwide. Crater in the Negev Desert. Today, FIDF has more than Along the way, the group vis- 150,000 loyal supporters, and ited Israeli military bases, na- 16 regional offices throughout tional landmarks, and ancient the U.S. and Panama. FIDF historic sites. proudly supports IDF soldiers, FIDF was established in families of fallen soldiers, and 1981 by a group of Holocaust wounded veterans through a survivors as a 501(C) (3) not-for- variety of innovative programs profit organization with the that reinforce the vital bond Privately owned and operated by the Weinstein Family since 1930 mission of offering education- between the communities in al, cultural, recreational, and the United States, the soldiers social programs and facilities of the IDF, and the State of Is- that provide hope, purpose, rael. Wishing you and your family RiverTowns Socials 2nd Annual Lot a SweetDay after New day,Year Party in Tarrytown season afterfrom season, our family. year after year people come to us Suzin Weinsteinbecause Ruben they know & Russell we willGreenblatt be there for them. L’shana Tovah

Peter Rofe, Dr. Alton Baron and Jon Kashkin, all of Irvington

More than 100 guests socialized and enjoyed food truck fare at RiverTowns Socials’ Second Annual Lot Party at the Shames 1652 Central Park Avenue | Yonkers, NY 10710 JCC on the Hudson in Tarrytown on August 11th. RiverTowns Socials (RTS) is a JCC community-building and social action ini- (1 block North of Tuckahoe Road) tiative that hopes to connect and engage the broader community P. 914.793.3800 | F. 914.793.2300 through fun activities, while making a difference. | RTS is sponsored in part by UJA-Federation of NY. The eve- [email protected] www.weinsteinchapels.com ning took place in the shadow of the JCC’s new facility (opening Summer 2017), which guests were invited to tour. Revelers do- nated school supplies to support the month’s RTS cause of choice, Kids Kloset in White Plains. The evening was chaired by Rebecca Schleifer and Liza Wang, both of Irvington. www.shorelinepub.com Westchester Jewish Life • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 • 9 Linda Barat Attends JWRP Global Leadership Conference Linda Barat from Mount Vernon During the event, JWRP honored Among the featured speakers The JWRP brings Jewish moth- participated in the Jewish Women’s Lihi Lapid, an acclaimed Israeli femi- were Mindy Scheier, founder of Run- ers on life-changing Momentum trips Renaissance Project (JWRP) Leader- nist author, and Rachel Fraenkel, the way of Dreams, which designs adap- to Israel, with support from Israel’s ship Conference, which ran from Sep- mother of a slain Israeli teenager who tive clothing and who joined the first Ministry of Diaspora Affairs, to in- tember 18-20, in College Park, Md. became a national symbol of hope, JWRP Fashion trip this summer; spire them to change the world. Since The JWRP Leadership Confer- with the Pamela Claman Leadership Ariel Halevi, founder and co-owner 2009, more than 8,000 Jewish moth- ence, held in collaboration with Isra- Award. This JWRP award is given to of Vayomar, an Israel-based commu- ers from 150 partner organizations el’s Ministry of Diaspora Affairs, gath- international role models who have nications consulting firm; Charlie Ha- in 26 countries spanning several con- ered Jewish women from across the significantly shaped the Jewish world rary, an entrepreneur, philanthropist tinents including Australia, Africa, world to hone their leadership skills with exceptional and inspired leader- and leader of the JWRP Momentum Europe, North America, and South and create a global Jewish women’s ship and serve as role models for Jew- men’s trips; Gidi Grinstein, founder America have experienced the Mo- movement. The annual conference ish women around the world. and president of the Reut Institute, mentum trips. Participants commit was launched in 2013 with 65 par- “Rachelle and Lihi both speak on a non-profit strategy group focusing to getting involved in activities when ticipants from the U.S., Canada and our Momentum trips, and are true ex- on Israel and Jewish issues; Janine they return home, including com- Mexico, and has grown to include amples of Jewish women from diverse Kurnoff, founder and principle of the munity events, Israel engagement some 300 people from nine countries, worlds who know what it means to Presentation Company, a communi- programs, Jewish education, global including Australia, Cuba, Greece, love one another based on the values cations consulting firm; Dr. Zeev Ben learning, leadership development Israel, Panama, Russia, Spain, South they share,” said Lori Palatnik, found- Shachar, director of Israel education and Momentum Israel missions for Linda Barat. Photo courtesy of Shlomo Cohen Africa and the U.S., this year. ing director of the JWRP. at Hebrew University; and others. husbands. Neil Sandler Named President of the WJCS Board of Directors Ben’s $3.99 Kid’s Neil Sandler, a WJCS board member for the past four years and treasurer for the past three years, has been elected president of the board of directors, effective July 1, 2016. Meals In October!! “We’re delighted that Neil has been selected as presi- dent of our board,” said Alan Trager, WJCS CEO. “The agency Purchase any has benefited greatly from Neil’s wise counsel and extensive financial background. We look forward to his continuing the sandwich or excellent stewardship set by his predecessors that has enabled WJCS to serve 20,000 people each year.” entrée at “During my four years on the WJCS Board, I’ve been awed by WJCS’ exceptional work in Westchester,” says Sandler. regular price “With more than 80 programs spanning virtually every life- stage, from pre-school literacy to senior care and advanced in Ben’s dining mental health treatment for all, WJCS helps residents and local communities overcome major challenges. The rapidly chang- room during ing healthcare environment poses significant difficulties for all nonprofits, including WJCS, but our dedicated Board mem- the month of bers and I are committed to ensuring that the agency contin- ues to provide the best care for its clients.” Neil Sandler October and Sandler has more than 30 years of experience financing and managing investments in life sci- ence and healthcare companies. He is currently managing director at Seven Oaks Advisors, LLC, and select an item CEO of ClearPath Development Company. He previously was general partner at Symphony Capital. Sandler also is a board member of UJA-Federation of New York and chairs the investment com- of equal or lesser value for $3.99 from Ben’s mittee at Larchmont Temple. Sandler has an MBA from Dartmouth College and received a BA degree from Tufts University Kid’s Menu.* in political science. He has been involved with the investment committees of a $1.5 billion university *Each $3.99 Kid’s Meal requires a separate regular price purchase of equal or greater endowment and a smaller not-for-profit institution. He also has served on the boards of several pri- value. Offer valid during October 2016 for in-store dining only. No takeout please. vate biopharmaceutical and healthcare companies. He and his family reside in Mamaroneck. May not be combined with any other Ben’s special, coupon, discount, offer or Ben’s For more information on WJCS, go to www.wjcs.com. Friends Reward.

HOLIDAY SCHEDULE ROSH HASHANAH: Close 4pm Sunday, October 2nd; Reopen Wednesday, October 5th YOM KIPPUR: Close 4pm Tuesday, October 11th; Reopen Thursday, October 13th

RESTAURANT DELICATESSEN BAR•CATERERS Catering Hotline: 1-800-344-BENS BensDeli.net • 914-468-BENS (2367) • We Are Kosher Sept. 6th – The Iran Nuclear Deal – One Year Later 718 Central Park Avenue, Scarsdale, New York 10583 Sept. 19th – Deborah Lipstadt on “Denial” - Film about the David Irving Holocaust © 2016 Ronald M. Dragoon Denial Case 10 • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 • Westchester Jewish Life www.westchesterjewishlife.com Teens from Westchester Spend Four Months Experiencing Israel Stephen Davis and Cha- Many of the leaders of Reform the country from sea to sea. ferent ways both academically able to be a part of this com- and rewarding months,” said nah Haigh from Larchmont Judaism today are alumni of “I had never been to Israel and in terms of personal brav- munity during the school year Paul Reichenbach, Director of Temple, Gaby Mook from Con- this program. before and I had taken an in- ery,” adds Haigh.. is amazing,” says Mazer. Camping and Israel Programs gregation Emanu-El of West- NFTY-EIE is based on terest in my Jewish identity, so “I just thought it would “The NFTY EIE High for the Union for Reform Ju- chester and Jordana Mazer Kibbutz Tzuba, located in the I was looking for a way to really be a fun and a great experi- School in Israel offers out- daism. “Students return home from Temple Beth Torah of Judean Hills approximately experience Israeli and Jewish ence! I’m looking forward standing teens the opportu- with heightened self-confi- New City are part of a cohort fifteen minutes outside of culture.” says Davis. to making new friends and nity to develop a deep sense dence together with a love of of 31 teens from across North . With very small “I’m looking forward to growing as a person,” explains of personal connection to Jewish living and learning.” America on the NFTY-EIE class sizes, students take an meeting other people with Mook. Israel and the Jewish people Registration is open for (Eisendrath International Ex- advanced Jewish History class, similar interests and exploring “Being a part of a reform while being inspired to explore EIE’s Spring 2017 sessions. perience) High School in Israel an advanced Hebrew Ulpan, new places with them. I also Jewish community is extreme- their personal Jewish iden- More information can be program from August through and their regular general stud- expect to be challenged in dif- ly important to me and being tity during four challenging found at www.nftyeie.org. December. ies courses to fulfill the re- The NFTY High School quirements of their home high in Israel - Eisendrath Inter- schools. national Experience (EIE) is a NFTY-EIE students have semester long (four months) a unique opportunity to ben-

program for high school stu- efit from experiential learning. dents in grades 10-12 in Israel. Tiyulim (field trips), are taken Named for the late Rabbi Mau- to visit whatever they are rice N. Eisendrath, past presi- learning about in their Jewish dent of the Union of American history class. Approximately Hebrew Congregations, now three days a week are spent the Union for Reform Judaism, outside the classroom on field EIE is an intensive academic trips. There are also numer- program and is fully accredit- ous week-long trips through- ed by the Middle States Associ- out the semester, including ation of Colleges and Schools. a trip to Poland to study the The program was established Holocaust, a week in Gadna (a in 1961 by NFTY, the youth simulated Israeli army training arm of the Reform Movement. experience), and a hike across

Visit westchesterjewishlife.com for all the latest news & events. www.shorelinepub.com Westchester Jewish Life • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 • 11 A Power of Attorney, is it a License to Steal? BY BERNARD A. KROOKS, CERTIFIED authority as possible so that longer provide the proper He did have two nieces and could legally live there for such as a trust which may ELDER LAW ATTORNEY your affairs can be properly care, so Sam’s nephew Char- three nephews, including the rest of his life. provide additional benefits. managed if you become ill. lie moved in to Sam’s house Charlie. He had signed sev- Sam died about a A power of attorney is an es- Proper estate planning However, sometimes that to help with his care. eral wills over the years, month later, and his last sential element of your es- involves more than a will authority or power can be Within a few weeks each one leaving most of his will and testament was ad- tate plan. or a trust. It means decid- abused. of his arrival at the house, property to his nieces and mitted to probate. His ex- ing who you would want to In a recent case, Sam Charlie had been named as nephews. That was the sta- ecutor sought return of the make medical and finan- Donner (not his real name), agent on a power of attorney tus of his estate planning as house and the proceeds of cial decisions for you in was 82, living in his home signed by his Uncle Sam and of the time he gave a power the bank account trans- the event you become inca- when he fell and broke his prepared by Charlie’s long- of attorney to Charlie. ferred by Charlie. The pro- pacitated and are unable to hip and could no longer take time lawyer. The power of As Charlie took care bate court agreed with the make those decisions your- care of himself. His long- attorney included language of Sam, he learned from executor’s position, and or- self. A durable power of at- time companion Barbara allowing Charlie to do any- Sam’s companion Barbara dered that a “constructive torney is an essential part had been living with him thing Sam could have done about a bank account in trust” be imposed on the of that process. In many and helping out, as needed. for himself, “including but Sam’s name. Charlie used properties for the benefit of cases, it makes sense for However, Sam’s physical not limited to the power to his power of attorney to get Sam’s estate. All property Bernard A. Krooks, the agent under the power and mental condition wors- make gifts.” more information from the and money transferred by Esq., is a founding partner of attorney to have as much ened and Barbara could no Sam had no children. bank and then used it again Charlie using the power of of Littman Krooks LLP and to liquidate the account. attorney had to be returned has been honored as one of He transferred a small por- to Sam’s estate. the “Best Lawyers” in Amer- New Yorkers Mourn the Loss of President Shimon Peres tion of the account to Sam’s The court concluded ica for each of the last seven continued from page 1 other nephews and nieces, that Sam did not have the years. He is past President of and put a significant por- requisite capacity to sign the National Academy of El- tember 27. “He will be missed that have shaped Israeli his- its people, serving in nearly ev- tion of the proceeds into the power of attorney giv- der Law Attorneys (NAELA) dearly.” tory. And thanks to his vision ery high office of government Sam’s checking account. ing Charlie the authority to and past President of the “He was not only a great and his leadership, President from Prime Minister to Presi- He then used Sam’s check- conduct these transactions New York Chapter of NAELA. leader for his country, but Peres lit the way toward peace dent; during his more than ing account to pay his own and make the gifts. Howev- Mr. Krooks has also served one of the most profound even in Israel’s darkest days. 50 years in public service, he bills until the account was er, capacity is very difficult as chair of the Elder Law statesmen our world has ever “May Israel find com- worked tirelessly to reaffirm depleted. to determine, especially af- Section of the New York State known. Serving in nearly every fort in celebrating his life, and citizens’ rights and freedoms, Two months after that, ter the fact. This case very Bar Association. He has been high office of government, Shi- draw strength from his legacy promote economic and social Charlie used his power of easily could have been de- selected as a “New York Su- mon Peres dedicated his life of peacemaking and his vision empowerment, and establish attorney again — this time cided differently. per Lawyer” since 2006. Mr. to his country and his people. for Israel’s future.” an independent Jewish state; to sign a deed transferring It is critical to select Krooks may be reached at He worked tirelessly to reaf- “On behalf of the entire and Sam’s house to himself. The the right person and to put 684-2100 or visit www.elder- firm their rights and freedoms New York Jewish community, Whereas, President Peres transfer deed did retain proper controls in place. lawnewyork.com. and, following the systematic we deeply mourn the passing devoted his life to the pursuit a life estate for Sam so he There are other legal tools annihilation of six million fel- of Shimon Peres, one of the of peace and economic coop- low Jews, he worked to ensure greatest Jewish leaders of our eration, earning the lasting re- their future by helping to es- time,” said Eric S. Goldstein, spect and admiration of count- tablish an independent Jewish CEO, UJA-Federation of New less others across the globe state. Shimon later devoted York. “President Peres was one and inspiring generations of his life to the pursuit of peace of the extraordinary visionar- politicians and statesmen; his and economic cooperation, an ies of our age, a towering Zion- critical role in negotiating the effort he pursued with deter- ist hero of deep courage who Oslo Accords earned him a mination and dignity until the devoted his life to serving and Nobel Peace Prize in 1994 and end. defending Israel and the Jew- confirmed his position as one In an era where Google is a verb and “I offer my deepest condo- ish people. He did so much to of the world’s most important Twitter a world-recognized noun, the lences to the Peres family and strengthen the US-Israel rela- advocates for peace; and to all Israelis. I will remember tionship and had a deep and Whereas, home to more Internet is everyone’s go-to for Shimon as a friend to both me abiding relationship with the than 1.7 million Jews – the larg- and my father, and honor him New York Jewish community. est Jewish community outside practically any need. However, some as a friend to all of New York Our thoughts and prayers are of Israel in the world – New things will always require the human and to all defenders of peace with his entire family and with York has always had a special across the world.” the people of Israel. May his relationship with Israel, and touch, like the home buying and selling Representative Eliot L. memory be for a blessing.” President Peres served as a Engel, Ranking Member of the On September 29, Gover- tremendous ally in promoting process. House Committee on Foreign nor Andrew M. Cuomo issued and strengthening this bond; Real estate transactions only Affairs said, “I am deeply sad- a citation honoring the life of and dened to learn of the passing former Israeli President Shi- Whereas, all New Yorkers happen when capable of President Shimon Peres, a mon Peres and his legacy of offer our deepest condolences founding father of the State of extraordinary leadership and to the Peres family and all Is- professionals — like John Baer, Israel. I send my condolences dedication to promoting peace raelis and join in honoring and a Berkshire Hathaway to the Peres family and the across the world. remembering President Peres’ people of Israel. The Citation reads: indelible legacy of leadership, HomeServices agent — “History will remember Whereas, all New Yorkers join service, and commitment to navigate clients through the President Peres as a giant of in mourning the passing of for- building a better future for Is- BERKSHIRE Jewish history and ceaseless mer President of Israel Shimon rael and the world; intricacies of a transaction with champion of the Israeli people. Peres, a leader and statesman Now, Therefore, I, Andrew HATHAWAY He didn’t merely witness the of extraordinary caliber who M. Cuomo, Governor of the State HomeServices attention to detail, service founding of the Jewish state, inspired New York and the rest of New York, do hereby confer he was there doing the hard of the world with his lifetime this Posthumous Citation upon Westchester Properties excellence, and care. work that brought that historic commitment to engendering Shimon Peres in honor of his Scarsdale, N.Y. 10583 moment to pass. In the nearly peace; and legacy of extraordinary leader- seven decades since, he played Whereas, Shimon Peres ship and dedication to promot- 914/723-5225 a central role in the moments dedicated his life to Israel and ing peace across the world. 12 • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 www.westchesterjewishlife.com Kitchen & Bath Insider© - #190: My Isle of Golden Dreams* BY PAUL BOOKBINDER, M.I.D., C.R. can also be used to house the When you are planning Then it is up to your kitchen primary sink, a cooktop, an to add seating around the designer to maximize the space If it is true, that no man oven, a dishwasher or a sec- island you must allow ample that you have. Even if you can- is an island, why is it that ev- ondary sink. room. There should be a min- not fit an island or a peninsula ery woman desires one? All But, alas, an island is imum width of 24” per diner. in your kitchen, with the help of the gorgeous kitchens that not for everyone. If there is The space for knee room of a creative designer you can you see in magazines and one primary cook working in varies with the height of the still create a “Dream Kitchen” books seem to incorporate the kitchen the recommend- island; 19” of knee clearance and find eternal happiness. this singularly important ed space between each side for a 30” surface; 15” for 36” * “My Isle of Golden structure, but upon close ex- of the island and the cabinets and 12” for a 42” high island. Dreams”, written by Walter amination these kitchens are or walls should be a mini- And, if the area behind the Blaufuss and Gus Kahn, in as big as the average home. mum of 42”. This will ensure seating will not be used as 1919. However, if you do have the that ovens, dishwashers, etc. a walkway it can be a mini- space, an island is a great will not interfere with the mum of 36”. way to increase the function- walking space when their To ensure that you do ality and aesthetics of your doors are open. If there are have enough room to add an kitchen. They are so versatile two chefs preparing meals in island to your existing kitch- that they can be designed as the kitchen there should be en, take out some masking a workplace, an eating place, at least 48” around the island tape and newspaper. Tape would be, and then make of the kitchen. However, if or both; and can be all one so they don’t bump into each down the newspaper where sure you do not walk on it you are like many of us, and level or multi-level. They other, which can get ugly. you envision the island for two weeks. (No cheating!) cannot fit an island in your Paul Bookbinder, M.I.D., If you can pass this test, you kitchen, do not despair. Is- C.R., is president of DreamWork are probably okay, but if you lands are not for everyone Kitchens, Inc. located in Mama- On Global Shabbat, Moishe House Marks a Decade of step all over the newspaper, and a peninsula may be a vi- roneck, New York. A Master of Redefining Life you will have to consider al- able alternative. Although a Design (Pratt Institute), and E.P.A. continued from page 2 ternatives. compromise, a peninsula can Certified Remodeler, he serves on If there is an island in be used for many of the same the Advisory Panel of Remodeling peers,” said David Cygielman, annually. In the process, the Moishe House will also your future, (and it is not in functions as an island, but Magazine. A member of the Na- founder and CEO of Moishe Moishe House residents join hold three special 10th anni- the Caribbean), careful con- they take up less space and tional Kitchen & Bath Assoc., he is House. an international network of versary celebrations in Lon- sideration should be given are less intrusive. also a contributor to eZine and Do Since its founding with a young Jewish leaders in cities don on Oct. 20; New York on to the design. Do not try to Unfortunately, many It Yourself magazine. He can be single house and four people from , New Zealand November 17, and San Fran- use the island for too much kitchens in some of the older reached for questions at 914-777- who hosted Shabbat dinners to Williamsburg in Brooklyn. cisco on November 29. because it can negatively homes in our area cannot sup- 0437 or www.dreamworkkitch- in Oakland, Calif., in 2006, Moishe House envi- Moishe House has be- impact the overall efficiency port either of these options. ens.com. the number of Moishe Houses sions scaling its model, and in come the global leader of Jew- have multiplied worldwide, 2017 plans to engage 62,500 ish life for young adults. Their with demand booming for the unique young adults in 107 model trains, supports and peer-led Jewish homes and houses worldwide through empowers young Jewish lead- programs. In its first decade, 7,500 house-based programs. ers as they create meaningful Moishe House has hosted over Moishe House has also cre- experiences in their local com- 600,000 young adults attend- ated an alumni program called munities for themselves and ing more than 35,000 pro- Moishe House Without Walls their peers. Their approach is grams worldwide. (MHWOW), which is the fast- becoming an increasingly rec- Each Moishe House en- est growing platform for Jew- ognized avenue for young adult ables three to five post-college ish leadership involvement engagement that is scalable Jewish 20-something profes- beyond the walls of a Moishe and easily replicated. In 2015, sionals to live in a rent- subsi- House. MHWOW empowers young adult leaders engaged dized home while dedicating young adults (non-residents) 43,000+ unique participants free time each month to host- to create their own communi- through 7,400+ programs. ing a handful of meaningful ties by planning and hosting To find out more about Jewish experiences for their programs for their peers wher- Moishe House, visit www. peers, or about 60 programs ever they live. moishehouse.org. www.shorelinepub.com Westchester Jewish Life • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 • 13 Real Estate Matters: As We Approach the Autumn Months, It’s Still a Seller’s Market BY JOHN BAER, SRES, SRS have less competition and se- tumn home buyers: to turn on the heat. And add paint on your walls are not receive a good price for your rious buyers in the fall, but • A home shopper’s first a little autumn scent to your cracked or chipped. Let the home. Did you know that home October and November are of- impression is everything. The home with a few candles. light in. Open blinds and cur- selling in autumn is the sec- ten the best months, weather- moment a shopper pulls up • Before putting your tains so plenty of light illumi- ond best time of the year to sell wise. Homes with mature trees to the curb, the homebuyer home on the market, get rid of nates the home’s interior. your home? It’s not just sweat- show extremely well in late Oc- makes an instant judgment. clutter in every area -- closets, The bottom line is, this er weather that creates static tober and early November. You can begin by making sure attic storage, kitchen cabinets, fall, buyers are still looking electricity in autumn, but dur- Once more, there have your leaves are raked, and drawers, bath vanities, and for a good selection of homes ing these months people are been more buyers looking for your shrubs and bushes are shelves. If you don’t use it, lose from which they can make an generally happy and relaxed homes and a fewer inventory pruned. Have your windows it. The main idea is to make offer. And since the inventory John E. Baer, SRES, SRS is a as the temperature begins to of homes in Westchester this sparkling and the walkway free your home look as close to a of Westchester homes remains NYS licensed real estate salesper- drop. In the fall there tend to past summer and as a result of leaves and debris. Display model home as possible. low, you may as well list your son associated with Berkshire Ha- be fewer buyers, but usually listing your home for sale this autumn flowers in the front of • One excellent invest- home this fall if you are seri- thaway HomeServices Westchester those who are still in the mar- fall may well be a very wise de- the house such as marigolds ment is to make sure that the ously planning to sell and to Properties of Scarsdale and Larch- ket are serious buyers. They cision particularly since mort- or chrysanthemums which mont. Call 844-2059. His website is can work to your advantage as gage rates remain at or near bloom for a long time. Make www.WestchesterHomes.info. a home seller. Serious home historic lows. Further, no one sure gutters are free from de- BUSINESS CARDS buyers looking in the fall of- knows what the market will be bris and are draining properly. $75. per issue. Prepaid only. Just mail us your Business Card and Full Payment and we’ll take care of the rest. Mail to: ten include empty nesters who like in six months. It is almost • You want to make sure Shoreline Publishing, 629 Fifth Ave., Suite 213, Pelham, N.Y. 10803 want to downsize, young cou- certain that the Fed will in- that the air inside your home ples without children of school crease interest rates if not this smells fresh. Change your fur- age, and families relocating be- fall, then by December. nace filter. Have the HVAC sys- cause of a job change. So, here are several im- tem checked before you need Let us handle the Not only do you typically portant tips for attracting au- creative side Classifieds of your business. Website design, logos, brochures, mailers, annual reports, flyers, business cards, signage, event materials and more... ANTIQUES • ART • COLLECTIBLES NEWBORN CARE SPECIALIST Most cash paid for paintings, an- I would be very happy to be your shorelinecreative tiques, furniture, silver, sculpture, Newborn Care Specialist or Nanny for jewelry, books, cameras, records, your infant or toddler. I am looking for Call 914-738-7869 or email [email protected] instruments, coins, watches, gold, fulltime/weekend position with 23 for complete details. comics, sports cards, etc. Please years experience. CPR certified. Driver’s call Aaron at 914-654-1683. license. Call Eva: 917-596-1540.

SPANISH TUTOR CLEANING SERVICES High school students and adults. Many years of experience. I clean Classes in your home by expe- houses, apartments, offices, & Westchester rienced native Spanish teacher. condos. I have my own transpor- Call Leonor @ 914 631 0003 or tation, dependable, honest, hard Jewish Life email [email protected]. working. Speak English & Span- ish. Call Ana at 914-246-9944. BUYING ORIGINAL ART Edward Shapiro, President and Publisher Buying original illustration art done PERSONAL ASSISSANT [email protected] for magazines, books and paper- Mature female, dependable, PUBLISHING, INC. back covers, ads, pinups, comics. meal preparation. Transporta- Also antique posters, maps, all tion to: shopping, appointments. Larchmont Ledger Helene Pollack, Publisher, Editor-in-Chief interesting paper. 914-588-9359. References upon request. Email: www.larchmontledger.com [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] Harrison Herald www.harrisonherald.com New Rochelle Review Cynthia Pena, Art Director www.newrochellereview.com [email protected] Classified Ad Form The Pelham Post 6 newspapers over 100,000 readers -- 1 price, prepaid $122.00 for 4 lines. Ad runs in 7 papers for www.thepelhampost.com Mary DeYoung, Account Executive 1 month. Make check payable to: Shoreline Publishing, Inc., 629 Fifth Avenue, Suite 213, Pelham, The Bronxville Bulletin NY 10803 www.thebronxvillebulletin.com [email protected] 1) ______Westchester Jewish Life Westchester Jewish Life is published monthly by Shoreline www.westchesterjewishlife.com 2) ______Publishing, Inc., 629 Fifth Avenue, Suite 213, Pelham, NY wsn2day.com 3) ______Formerly Westchester Senior News 10803. 914-738-7869. The entire contents of Westches- ter Jewish Life is copyrighted by Westchester Jewish Life. 4) ______Shoreline Publishing accepts the submission of No portion may be reproduced without written permission articles, events and items of interest no more than of the publisher. The views, opinions and content of this Name: ______500 words with .jpg photos for inclusion in Shoreline newspapers and websites. Email to: shorelinepro- publication does not necessarily reflect that of the staff of Address: [email protected] or Shoreline Publishing, 629 Shoreline Publishing. City/State/Zip: ______Fifth Avenue, Suite 213, Pelham, NY 10803. Shore- line Publishing reserves the right to edit or omit any Phone: ______submissions. 14 • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 • Westchester Jewish Life www.westchesterjewishlife.com Mazel Tov Vice President Joe Biden to be honored by World Jewish Congress United States Vice Presi- the award, actor Michael his commitment to both Israel and at peace. During his time dent Joe Biden will be honored Douglas will accept the and the Jewish community in the Senate, the Vice Presi- Kirk Douglas is a legend- by the World Jewish Congress Kollek Award on behalf will remain as strong as ever.” dent led the effort to enlarge ary actor, producer, author (WJC) on Tuesday, November of his father. Lauder Biden was born Novem- NATO to include the former and philanthropist who is 9 at a gala dinner in New York’s will deliver the welcom- ber 20, 1942, in Scranton, Warsaw Pact countries of East- credited with 87 films, 10 plays Pierre Hotel, 2 E 61st St, New ing and closing remarks Pennsylvania. After the Biden ern and Central Europe after and 11 books. Douglas starred York. Biden will be presented during the program. family moved to Claymont, the collapse of the Iron Cur- in the first Hollywood feature with the annual Theodor Herzl “Over the course of Delaware, he graduated from tain. In the Middle East, the film to be shot in the newly Award, which recognizes out- his more than four de- the University of Delaware Vice President has been deeply established state of Israel, standing individuals who work cades in service to this and Syracuse Law School involved in shaping U.S. policy and would later immortalize to promote Herzl’s ideals for a country, Vice President and served on the New Castle toward Iraq and has champi- American Jewish Army Colo- safer, more tolerant world for Biden has proven that he County Council. At age 29, oned Israel’s security. nel David “Mickey” Marcus, the Jewish people. is a true friend of Israel he became one of the young- Biden will be the seventh remembered as Israel’s first At the same event, ac- and the Jewish people, est people ever elected to the recipient of the WJC Theodor modern general who helped to tor Kirk Douglas will be hon- a leader in the fight United States Senate. Herzl Award. Previous recipi- save the Jewish state in 1948, ored with the inaugural Teddy against anti-Semitism, With decades of foreign ents include Israeli President in the epic film Cast A Giant Kollek Award for the Advance- and a champion of hu- policy experience, Vice Presi- Shimon Peres, Elie and Marion Shadow. Douglas will turn 100 ment of Jewish Culture. man and civil rights for dent Biden advises President Wiesel, former secretaries of on December 9, 2016. Vice President Joe Biden Biden, who has served in all,” Lauder said. “He has stood Barack Obama on internation- state Henry A. Kissinger and The event will begin with the Obama administration as out over the last eight years in al issues. He has been a leading George P. Shultz, and, posthu- a 6 p.m. reception, followed by the 47th vice president since State Henry A. Kissinger, who his devotion to ensuring that architect of the U.S. strategic mously, Ronald Reagan and a 7 p.m. program and dinner. 2008 and for 36 years prior to together with WJC President America and Israel remain vision of a Europe whole, free Axel Springer. that as a US state senator, will Ronald S. Lauder will present close allies. When he leaves be introduced at this year’s him with the Herzl Award. Fol- the White House in just a few event by former Secretary of lowing Biden’s acceptance of months, I am confident that Young Participants Observe 9/11 by Learning County Women Learn Lessons from Bielski how Animals Help Heal and Provide Support Community volunteers Jewish Paritsans came together to salute both More than 200 women came together to re- two- and four-legged heroes as member the heroic Jewish partisans of the Holo- part of a 9/11 Day of Service on caust and to give back to UJA-Federation of New Sunday, September 11, 2016, York, an organization that helps provide support held by UJA-Federation of New to the 200,000 remaining Holocaust survivors, at York and the Harold & Elaine its Westchester Women’s opening event on Thurs- Shames JCC on the Hudson in day, September 22, 2016. Tarrytown, one of several UJA After a showing of the documentary The Biel- events commemorating 9/11. ski Brothers: Jerusalem in the Woods, which told Nearly 70 kids and their par- the story of Bielski brothers’ resistance efforts that ents commemorated Septem- saved 1,200 Jews during World War II, the gather- ber 11th by learning how ani- ing heard from Aron (Bielski) Bell, the youngest mals help heal, and provided and last remaining of the 12 Bielski children. As a support to social workers who result of their bravery, there are more than 20,000 work with trauma victims by descendants from those who were spared. Aron writing letters, drawing cards, was joined by his son, Alan Bell of Pound Ridge, Laura Kleinhandler of Rye Brook, UJA-Federation and offering words of encour- and other partisans shown in the film, Michael Westchester Women’s Chair; Aron Bell of Palm Beach, agement. Stoll and Solomon Lapidus. Aron, now 89, was Florida; Michele Gregson of Chappaqua, UJA-Federation The cards were sent only a preteen when the Nazis stormed his farm- Westchester Women’s Vice-Chair; and Alan Bell of Pound to the dedicated staff at the ing town in Belarus. Ridge UJA-Federation-founded Is- “Aron Bell’s story serves as a much-needed rael Trauma Coalition, where reminder that heroism was in no short supply during one of the most tragic times in our Jewish his- more than 40 organizations tory,” said Laura Kleinhandler of Rye Brook, chair of UJA-Federation’s Westchester Women. help individuals and commu- “I am reminded, once again, how incredibly blessed we are to live here — to live now. Even nities coping with unrelenting during a time when things sometimes seem bleak — another attack in Israel, another anti-Semitic attacks. incident on a college campus, and just this past weekend, a bombing in New York and New Jersey — I “How many of you here know that I can stand up and say something. Do something,” she continued. “And while I am extraor- have a pet? Has your pet ever dinarily grateful that I’m not required to show courage and make choices that require superhuman helped you when you’re sad effort, I know that I’m not off the hook either.” or stressed?” Elissa Strauss of Rabbi Michael Paley, UJA-Federation’s Scholar-in-Residence, spoke of the importance of lead- Irvington asked the younger ing a purposeful life and committing oneself to a making a difference, particularly meaningful dur- participants. Strauss served Fozzie and his handler, Stefani Cohen (right), greet a teen volunteer. ing the advent of the Jewish New Year. as event chair with Laurie UJA-Federation’s Community Initiative for Holocaust Survivors (CIHS) has raised nearly $20 Davidowitz and Laura Maya, Children also made crafts plained how her dog and oth- million to secure their comfort, dignity, and independence. In 2015-16, UJA-Federation helped pro- both also of Irvington. “When to express their commit- ers provide comfort to victims vide practical and emotional services to survivors through 11 UJA beneficiary agencies in New York you feel like you need a little ment to caring for their furry of violence and trauma. and three agencies in Israel. cuddly comfort, they make friends and met therapy dog Donated towels and lin- Michele Gregson of Chappaqua sesrves as UJA-Federation’s Westchester Women Chair. Min- you feel better. Some pets are Fozzie and his handler, Ste- ens, dog and cat food, metal- dy Bass of Chappaqua, Robin Bell of Pound Ridge, Michele Budoff of Goldens Bridge, Kate Eichel of trained to do just that — make fani Cohen, a social worker at lic food bowls, and cat litter Scarsdale, Leslie Goldberg of Rye Brook, Nancy Kansler of Rye Brook, Meryl Lefkowitz of Millwood, people feel better and actually Westchester Jewish Commu- were brought to the event to be Bonnie Mannis of Scarsdale, Laura Maya of Irvington, Linda Plattus of Scarsdale, and Shira Wein- heal — when something really nity Services, a UJA-Federation given to Paws Crossed Animal stein of Mamaroneck served as event chairs. sad happens.” beneficiary agency, who ex- Rescue in Elmsford. www.shorelinepub.com Westchester Jewish Life • October 2016 • Tishri 5777 • 15 Mazel Tov The Chabad Jewish Center Begins Writing Sefer Torah in Bronxville

Gary Berman and his son on the left with the scribe Rabbi Moshe Klein and Rabbi Sruli Deitsch Bob and Marie Brocia look on as the Rabbi begins. On September 22, the budding Jewish Community in Bronxville launched a historic event with a certified scribe, as they began writing a Sefer Torah in a private village home. With the help of the Gary Berman family and other generous donors, Chabad Jewish Center has been able to grow and expand its range of programs and services. Chabad seeks to create a comfortable Jewish environment for each individual. Rabbi Sruli Deitsch made a point to mention that there is no difference between Orthodox, Conservative or Reform. They do not label people at Chabad. They service the affiliated and non-affiliated. Their doors are always open with unconditional love. As Chabad of Bronxville is preparing for a large crowd to attend High Holiday services, they have just launched a new program catering to local Jewish children in grades kindergarten through 5th grade. The after school program uses a STEM approach integrating Jewish heritage. Visit jewishbronxville.com or contact Rabbi Deitsch at [email protected] or call 458-2441 to learn more about The Chabad Jewish Center in Bronxville.