A Publication for Supporters, Volunteers, and Affillates of Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP | Winter 2012

The disease has no prejudice; it just desires to duplicate itself within a host. It tries a plethora INSIDE of methods, such as bodily fluids, sexual contact, inoculation (the use of needles), and the disease THIS will even exploit the pathways of embryonic fluid PAUSE and breast milk in its quest for a vulnerable host. ISSUE: by T-awannda Piper PAUSE!!! Girl, hurry up. We got to go!! Where are we are going? Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP is Imagine a typical Saturday morning for most hosting an event at the DuSable Museum of Afri- women and girls. Grocery shopping, nail and hair can American History. salons, post office buildings, and box stores like Target are filled with the gusto of women deter- They are asking all women and girls to PAUSE mined to squeeze seven days of work into one. from shopping, cleaning, salon appointments, The checklist seems endless as we desperately and watching television to have “Real Talk” about aim to have Sunday be a day of rest. “I need to HIV/AIDS. D2F, the Office on Women’s Health, place an order for the cake, and I sure hope this the U.S. Department of Health and Human Ser- place is not crowded because I only have 30 min- vices, and Southside Help Center have come to- utes to get my nails done”. gether to sound the alarm because HIV/AIDS is disproportionately an epidemic in our community. Celebration PAUSE…..It is Saturday morning, March 10, 2012, National Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness The event opens with a spoken word piece entitled of Purpose Day. In the midst of all the hustle and bustle of PAUSE by D2F college student, Tionna Alderson. • what looks like organized chaos in a woman’s The audience guest moderator, and Media expert, world, there is a unique silence in the atmo- Alicia Haywood leads a powerful panel session fea- HOPE Center sphere. But on the horizon of that silence, there turing JoAnne Montes, Connie Simpson, Kimberly Update is a faint sound of voices. We need to address this Foster, Children’s Memorial Hospital, Ya Simpson, issue. We need to talk about it. • Mother’s Day Celebration at Flourish Studios • Leadership Tour • D2F Jazz Event • Femme to STEM • Guest Moderator, Alicia Haywood facilitates an engaging panel of health experts Northern Trust The numbers are staggering. It’s still taboo. Over Chicago Department of Health, Dr. Patricia CFW Grant Award half of the diagnosed HIV cases are found in Afri- Boatright- Rush University Medical Center, and Dr. can American people. It is the third leading cause Virginia Bishop of Northwestern University. Guest of death amongst black women in their prime. panelist, Ya Simpson, an epidemiologist from the It’s starting to affect our teen daughters! The CDC Chicago Department of Health “Spills the Beans” has deemed us in crisis as it relates to the disease. on HIV/AIDS by stating the real statistics.

continue on page 3 (PAUSE…Continued from front page) Making a Difference! D2F WISH LIST Words from Sherida Morrison, Founder and CEO We are applying the saying “you have not because you ask not” Blacks within the age range of 13-24 account The women are candid about how the diag- to this newly developed section of our newsletter. As a 501-C-3 for 83% of diagnosed cases of Sexually Trans- nosis affects them, their families, and their tax exempt organization, your donations are greatly welcomed mitted Infections. In August 2011, there outlook on life after testing positive for HIV. were 20,391 people living with HIV in Chi- In the early part of spring I was a recipient of the Community and appreciated. Please take look at the list below and see Treasures Award from the Office of Dorothy Brown, Clerk of the cago and 52% were black people. In 2009, Sherida Morrison, CEO of the hosting orga- where you can grant a wish for D2F and the girls and families there was a total of 1, 092 HIV infection diag- Circuit Court of Cook County and the African American Employ- served. Unable to give right now? Your prayers concerning our nization, Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP, takes ees Committee (AAEC). During my acceptance speech I said “it noses, 644 or 59% were black people. Most CEO, Sherida Morrison challenges the audience to the final moments to enlist troops to fight in wish list are just as valuable! of the diagnosed cases are amongst women. have moments of PAUSE with friends and family feels awkward to receive an award for doing what you know the war against HIV/AIDS. Each woman and • 12-15 passenger van! Dr. Virginia Bishop, a passionate pediatrician girl present is challenged to make a commit- you’ve been called to do.” Also, in that same speech I forgot and adolescent health specialist from North- to thank my parents who were seated right in front of my face • (1) Xerox color laser printer for office suite 201 (Phaser 6700)- ment to healthier lifestyles by signing a con- $1,350 western University challenges the mothers tract and to infect the masses by Creating a beaming with an extreme sense of pride. I was crushed when I to have an ongoing conversation with their • Sponsorship for our South Side Resource Guide for Girls in Legacy of Health in the community at large. got back to my seat and realized “I didn’t thank my parents!” I daughters about Sex and STI’s, including HIV/ Many of the women and girls are moved wanted to run and grab the microphone out of the next recipient’s collaboration with the South Side Coalition for Urban Girls. AIDS. Dr. Patricia Boatwright, gynecologist to immediate action by taking advantage hands because it seemed so offensive in light of all they have Contact Sherida Morrison for sponsorship levels. and specialist in reproductive health from of the onsite HIV testing made available by sacrificed for me. So, in an attempt to rectify that moment in • Sponsorship for implementation of our FEMME 2 STEM pro- Rush University Medical Center adds, “I Southside Help Center, an organization com- time, I would like to utilize this issue’s “Making a Difference” gram for 20 students at $80,400 for the full program year (Sep- don’t see adolescents”, but if you are having mitted to reducing HIV infection in Chicago- to honor two people who have made a significant difference in tember– August ) which includes the three-week inten¬sive sex, you need to talk to your partner.” She land communities. After the main PAUSE further added the importance of conversa- Panel members lead the charge in creating my life, Elbert and Frances Morrison. Throughout our program summer design bootcamp. a legacy of good health event, guests enjoy a community dialogue tions within the community and encouraging year I am constantly strategizing with program staff to identify • Donations for land acquisition in Roseland for the Hope Center regarding the HIV/AIDS epidemic with one (estimated $250,000) youth to focus on education and their future. another and program panelist during a short ways to continue to keep parents engaged. Some of those PAUSE… Guest speakers that are HIV posi- events and activities are featured in this newsletter, such as the • 100 donors to commit to a monthly gift of $100 per month reception. PAUSE…. “You got your Legacy of tive share openly about their life experiences Health Toolkit. Yes, I grabbed four of them. Parent Breakfast, the PAUSE event, pre-Mother’s Day event at for 2013. with HIV/AIDS and how they contracted the Let’s schedule a PAUSE Party for next week- Flourish studios and others. Statistical data continually supports To grant a wish, please contact Sharon Carey, Office Manger, disease. Now HIV/AIDS is beyond stats and end. Sure, we can have it at my house. I’m the argument that PARENTS HAVE THE GREATEST INFLUENCE (773) 779-9371, ext. 305 doctors who seem to be out of touch with glad I rescheduled my hair appointment. Me IN THE LIFE OF A CHILD. When teachers, or family members reality, the disease has a “Face.“ too, we’re bringing some people back with and even some of their friends may have doubted the path I us next year”. WE THANK THE MORE THAN had chosen, my parents always supported each step I took in 200 WOMEN AND GIRLS WHO PAUSED WITH US! the right direction and forewarned me when I stepped in the wrong direction. Regardless of my choices, they never lowered Yasmine Tolbert signs a legacy of health contract their EXPECTATION. T hanks to our Donors- No Gift is Too Small! Project Hopeful Helps Families Become Financially Fit! It was always that The sessions are facilitated by professionals high bar of standards We would like to acknowledge an “I didn’t know the difference between a in the banking, educational and financial in- that lurked over my anonymous donation we received early debit card and a credit card…. I didn’t know dustries which include, Tanya Green, Jeanne that your credit follows you for so many head waiting for me in the year which really touched our hearts. McGraw, LaRoy Mack, Jenny Andrews and years… I didn’t know that I could start bud- to reach up and The following message was written in a card Janice Hill. The program is completely free geting and saving as a teen!” These were a continue reaching and is offered in four cohorts of 30 -35 par- with two crisp $1 bills: few of the responses from youth who par- until I could grab ents and students per year. Interested in our “May the Lord bless this organization one ticipated in our Project Hopeful program. hold and pull myself Fall 2012 cohort? Contact Camille Wright at Mr. & Mrs. Elbert Morrison We constantly encourage students to make hundred fold exponentially and give you (773)779-9371, ext. 313. The success of the up. As an adult, I better decision concerning the future, but what is needed. May every need be met program is summed up in the words of one clearly recognize that their strong commitment to parenting what about their financial future? Proj- parent participant who stated “My children provided a stepping stool that was built on discipline, mor- for years to come in the precious ect Hopeful is a financial literacy program are learning about money and credit at an als, integrity, values and a belief in God. So thanks Mom and funded by Chase Bank which provides both Tanya Green facilitates to youth participants name of Jesus…a double portion… early age which will help them to make bet- Dad and all of the “village members” who helped along the parents and youth opportunities to increase Amen, Amen, Amen! ter decisions than I did; and now I have infor- way. So there it is, restitution for that celebratory yet cring- their financial health. Parents and students mation to make better decisions and even participate in one-day conference and two ing moment in time. Ironically, my parents’ response to me We would like the donor to know that fix some of my mistakes.” For outcomes and follow-up (2 hour) sessions for a total of 10 forgetting to thank them was… “You remembered to thank evaluation of the program visit our website God, which means you thanked us!” Striving to always … we appreciate you for your gift to D2F and classroom hours. The program implements an adapted version of the Money Smart Cur- at www.demoiselle2femme.org ”Make a Difference!” thank you for your prayers! We value every contribution and are extremely thankful riculum published by the FDIC. Parents learn about credit and financial recovery, saving, for those who donate to assist us budgeting, small business development and in fulfilling our mission. home ownership; while students learn the basics of banking, saving, credit and loans and youth entrepreneurship. LaRoy Mack teaches parents about their finances THE DOLL PROJECT Miracle on 154th Street… On Friday April 20th the art photography of Tiffany Gholar, a former D2F participant, was featured at Flourish Studios in Chicago, IL. Tiffany selected Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP to receive a portion of the pro- Dr. Shaina Rozell ceeds from the art and gift store items sold on the night of the event. The featured art collection is entitled the “Doll Project” and was inspired by a D2F workshop (The Media vs. My Self Respect) which By Tori Tyler examines negative gender stereotypes and the sexualization of women in the media. In addition to Tiffany Gholar’s artwork, 15 different artists participated in the “You are Beautiful” national movement, and created The stage was set on 154th and Vine Street in Harvey, IL to cel- one letter in the slogan during the opening on April 20th. An addi- ebrate a trailblazer of this generation. Dr. Shaina Rozell. Family, tional highlight of the evening featured current D2F high school par- friends, and community leaders gathered from near and far to ticipants who shared how they buffer negative messages within the witness this historic moment as this street was named in her media to embrace the message that “I am Beautiful.” It was a night honor for her tremendous accomplishments and a positive con- to remember! A special thanks to Tiffany Gholar and Dr. Julia Rahn, tributor to society. As the countdown to the unveiling of Dr. Shai- Founder, Flourish Studios. na Rozell Avenue took place, excitement filled the air as people cheered, clapped and cried tears of joy for this uniquely designed woman.

A product of Riverdale, IL, Shaina became a participant of Demoi- selle 2 Femme (D2F) at Thornton Township High School (Harvey, IL). She matriculated to Stanford University where she majored in B.S. in Biomedical Engineering. D2F staff witnessed Shaina receiving her Masters Degree in Public Health and a Doctor of Medicine in Internal Medicine from Northwestern Feinberg School of Medi- cine. Shaina is currently completing her residency at Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota.

Since the tender age of eight years old, Shaina’s Mother, Pa- tricia Morrow, created an atmosphere of birthing Shaina’s “I want young people to know that vision in becoming a Doctor. “I am not surprised that we they can accomplish anything are standing here today.” stated her mother during the cer- they set their mind to do. emony. “I believe that God is real and he hears everything I’m living proof!” you request of him. All you have to have is faith and believe.” Mayor Eric J. Kelogg, mayor of Harvey, also gave astounding at- tributes to Shaina and commended her family, friends and com- Sherida Morrison, CEO (left) poses with Dr. Julia Rahn of Flourish, Featured art by artist Tiffany Gholar munity supporters for journeying with her in this process. featured artist, Tiffany Gholar and D2F Program Director, Tori Tyler (right)

Mother’s Only Night at Flourish The close out event for Tiffany Gholar’s “Doll Project” art exhibit was a special night for 40 mothers of D2F A humble, small beginning has transcended into a Nation of Mil- participants. As a pre-Mother’s Day Celebration,- Dem lions for Shaina Rozell. She truly demonstrates a principle of D2F oiselle 2 Femme partnered with Flourish Studios to host which states “I have the ENDURANCE to overcome all obstacles “Mothers raising confident daughters: All it takes is Love.” and fulfill my goals and dreams.” As she continues to climb the Mothers were provide free transportation, food, gift bags ladder of success, she remains vested in her family, D2F, and the and an opportunity to make their own mother’s day card community at large. She continues to exemplify HOPE to young acknowledging their commitment and milestones in ladies from different walks of life and strives in “Building Leaders motherhood. It was memorable night filled with laughter, One Girl at a Time!” reflection, creativity and enjoyment. As parents exited from the building to board the bus a mom shared “I needed this time for myself tonight, and I decided that nothing was going to prevent me from coming. Activities like this help us to become better mothers to our daughters and I am grateful for Demoiselle 2 Femme for thinking about us!” PARENT BREAKFAST Leadership College Honored: 212o Leadership College gives back We Love Mother, HEROES “TURING UP Girl Scout Daughter Fitness! THE HEAT” Service Project in the HOOD By Sharon Carey By Monica Plaid On a steamy Saturday in August, mothers and daughters filled the The Leadership College does it again! The LC class of 2011/2012 Bellevue Ministry Center for fun, motivation, information, and a 0 The 212 “Turning up the Heat” is Demoiselle (Nalondria Banks, Brittany Boyd, Antoinette Byrdsong, Victoria good workout. The day featured a high impact Cardio Kickboxing 2 Femme’s 2012 initiative that was inspired Davis, Sierra Mancha, Cheron Mims, Kristiana Raca, Alexis Smith, session with Phil Middlebrooks and Andre, Dre, Nichols-Everett of o CONGRATULATIONS to the Spring 2011 by the powerful little book, 212 the extra de- Jamea Thomas, Yasmine Tolbert) proved that serving others can be Dre’s Diesel Dome (D3) conducted a hardcore Tabata session that Leadership College under the direction of gree. The authors Sam Parker & Mac Ander- an inspiration to all involved. On March 31st, the Bellevue chapter of left everyone literally breathless. Guest presenters included Beverly Monica Plaid, on winning the 2nd place He- son, supports the theory that “at 211 Degrees the Girl Scouts experienced “The Leadership College Takeover” and Moore, who spoke on her triumph over a life of child and adult obe- roes in the Hood Award! April 26th was an water is hot. At 212 Degrees it boils. And with it is safe to say, they will never be the same. sity, and the University of Illinois at Chicago Neighborhood Initiative. exciting evening at the DuSable Museum as boiling water comes steam. And steam can A table was also hosted by Improving Diabetes on the South Side the D2F Leadership College represented in a power a locomotive.” After much brainstorming among the LC group it was determined of Chicago. Participants feasted on a healthy lunch and the event big way at the 19th annual community event that, they had a desire to be an encouragement and support to other culminated with a session featuring the latest Chicago Slides, cardio “Heroes in the Hood”. The Mistress of Cer- Mistress of Ceremony, Darlene Hill of Fox Chicago News and Dorothy Leavell Of course D2F went the extra degree and took girls. What better way to do this than through food, fun and music, style, by none other than our own slide diva, Tori Tyler. It was a great emony for the evening was Darlene Hill of of the Chicago Crusader this premise to another level as Sharon Carey, mixed with a little education. The LC participants had the assign- day of fitness and fun!! FOX Chicago news. In addition, on the same the D2F Parent Coordinator engaged parents This effort resulted in a powerful and dynamic ment as a team to create and manage this project from beginning stage Jackie Taylor (Founder/executive di- in the “Mind Your Business” workshop and to end. The LC girls learned firsthand that putting on a three-hour rector of Black Ensemble Theater), Masequa workshop “The Choice is Yours” that consist- small group activities. The workshop provided ed of an interactive presentation consisting event takes a lot of work and commitment. They started by deco- Myers (Television, film, theater, and radio practical information and strategies that chal- rating gift baskets filled with candy and creating cards to personally producer), and Kendall Moore (Host of radio of a PowerPoint segment, self-created vid- lenged parents to “turn up the heat” an extra eo, discussion, and other components. The invite each Cadette (7th & 8th grade), Senior (9th & 10th), and Am- program on WVON & youth advocate) were degree in to protect their physical and emo- bassador (11th & 12th) Girl Scout to their event. honored for being role models for youth. main subjects they chose to address were tional wellbeing. This message was echoed domestic violence, teen pregnancy, and self- Receiving the 2nd place plaque and being by Demoiselle 2 Femme CEO, and Founder, With much work to be done, the girls were divided into committees honored on stage for work well done was worth. The girls had the opportunity to pres- Ms. Sherida Morrison who closed out the day ent twice for two different groups of girls; at to plan the lunch menu & distribution of lunches; organize games, an inspiring moment for the three girls in at- with an encouraging words to the parents prizes and gifts; talent show coordination. Last but not least, the LC tendance to accept the award on behalf of Fenger Christian Academy for the “All About “Just turn up the heat! “ Us” event which had approximately 42 girls in girls had the task of creating a workshop for the seventh & eighth their team of five consisting of Cheron Mims graders and a workshop for the high school attendees. After much of Thornton, Kristiana Raca of Thornridge, attendance, and at Moraine Valley Commu- nity College for its Summer Upward Bound preparation, it was go time! The LC girls came prepared and enthu- Yasmine Tolbert of Thornton, Sierra Mancha siastic, ready to touch the life of another girl. Mission accomplished. of Bloom, and Brittany Boyd of Thornridge. Program. The girls once again spoke life into Congratulations to their own peers. A special thank you is extended to Brandie Foster and Jeanne Mc- Cosette Hampton! Graw for volunteering on the day of the event. In 2011, Leadership College participants were divided into two groups and had the These young ladies are living under no differ- Demoiselle 2 Femme, program participant challenge of putting together a 90 minute ent circumstances than other girls living in a Cosette Hampton has been selected workshop that would speak directly to girls large part of our urban communities. What to participate in a dynamic leadership in the 7th -12th grade on subjects they felt sets them apart is that they are learning to development program called the Fu- were relevant to girls coming from the same make healthier choices in their lives and have ture Leaders in Planning (FLIP) which is socio-economic background. become committed to giving back by encour- sponsored by the Chicago Metropolitan Event aging other girls that they too can do the same. Agency for Planning (CMAP). FLIP pro- Jazz vides opportunities for students to create a better future for our region through learning experiences which are shared with teens from Cook, DuPage, Kane, D2F JAZZ Kendall, Lake, McHenry, and Will counties. Participants will meet and interact with selected regional leaders who make key BEFORE DARK planning decisions in our communities It was a premiere night of nibbles, great jazz and in the areas of transportation, housing, “friend-raising” for Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP at economic development, open space, the Red Kiva of Chicago. The event was sponsored the environment, and other quality of life issues. Upon completion of the pro- by the board of directors and provided an opportu- gram, students present their findings nity for invited attendees to learn more about the and recommendations to planning and successful work of the organization. The musical development stakeholders. Cosette is a performance of “Charlie’s Angels” under the direc- senior at Gwendolyn Brooks College Pre- tion of jazz aficionado, Mr. Charles Heath wooed paratory Academy and aspires to pursue the audience with rhythmic sounds and passionate a career in Law and Public Service. expressions. Go Cosette! Left to Right: Monica Plaid, Yasmine Tolbert, Darlene Hill, Kristiana Raca and Cheron Mims “Femme to STEM” (Science Technology Engineering Math) Pilot Program Climb, Jump, Leap, Imagine! Funded in part by Northern Trust Bank

By T-awannda Piper Each day responses from the community were captured on the boards as well as statements with residents posed displaying their handwritten answers In the midst of a crime ridden corridor on 103rd Street, Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP launched FEMME 2 STEM (Science, Technol- Overwhelmingly, the community thought the space should be utilized ogy, Engineering, & Math). FEMME 2 STEM [F2S] is a transfor¬mative for its greatest asset...children. The girls brainstormed by sharing design program at the intersection of science, the arts and public their memories of climbing and jumping and their ability to imag- health which introduces girls to non-traditional careers in STEM ine. Anything, even an inanimate object, can become a world of through multidisciplinary strategies, culminating in temporary to possibilities when you “imagine!” The girls agreed to fill the vacant permanent hands on, site specific design installations.. Girls serve as space with a unique architectural design that mimicked the Swiss social environmentalist who utilize problem solving skills to engage, F2S participants set the beginning stages of the playground Jariah Nolan prepares wood for the playground structure Alps. The Swiss Alps are encapsulated by several conflicting coun- confront, address and bring awareness to social issues within the com- tries (similar to gang factions in the community) but the vast moun- munity through exhibitions, multi-media and site specific architectural “grati-shout” to Latent Design, and Allex Gilliam of Public Workshop, tainous scheme is considered neutral ground, but in this The outcome is the “Climb, Jump, Leap, Imagine” Playground, which design. The program piloted with a two-week Summer Building case-a play- Philadelphia, P.A. for facilitating the design workshops. As they design, measure, and begin to build the community features a rope-coursed mountainous design, built in chalk boards Heroes Bootcamp which included daily 8-hour workshops and a design ground. is drawn in and intrigued by the tools, wood, drills, cutting saws, and and mulched mountains all nestled between two store front church- project. During the bootcamp, the girls engaged the community Be on the lookout for this group of “Building Heroes” as they design, nails that are in the hands of this inimitable group of teen girls. es. After the summer pilot, F2S is currently implementing a 10-week through life-sized “Twitter” boards which they built from plywood fall program in collaboration with the Chicago Architectural Founda- build, and impact Chicago’s south side in unexpected places. The and chalkboard paint to identify possible uses of a vacant lot. tion. The spring program includes a public health focus in partnership Femme 2 STEM program was featured in both the Chicago Sun-Times with Northwestern University. and Chicago Tribune as well as ABC7 News. To read the articles, visit our website at: http://www.demoiselle2femme.org/press. A special A big thanks to all of our Summer Boot Camp partners: Prayer of thanks is also extended to all those whose hearts were inspired to Faith Church (meeting space/access to lot), the Preventive Medicine financially support the completion of the project as a result of the Department at Northwestern University, Mix Master Studios, Chicago newspaper articles including Pastor James Meeks and the Salem Baptist Public Schools-Far South Community Action Council, and a special Church of Chicago for their generous support!

F2S participants pose with lead architect, Alex Gilliam and Joyce Chapman, President of the Far South CAC for CPS and colleagues after a power lunch session during the Summer Bootcamp Children climbing, jumping, leaping and imagining! South Side Coalition “Girls on Urban Girls (SSCUG) presents the HOPE Center Update “Girls in the City…South Side Edition” in the Resource Guide Join with us in our vision to build the H.O.P.E. Center for Girls in the Roseland community! The purpose of the H.O.P.E. (Honor Opportunity Purpose Endurance) Center for Girls is to inspire adolescent females to achieve success through cognitive and social development pro- City” grams. The principles of H.O.P.E. are integrated into programmatic activities and development sessions which fortify the bonds- ofper sonal achievement and social responsibility. The building will utilize green technology and will include a library, study rooms, technology center, science lab, dining hall, gymnasium, exercise facility, state of the art kitchen, theater, art studio, dance studios, offices, classrooms, multiple rehearsal rooms, and a walking museum which celebrates the accomplishments of professional women who grew up in urban com- munities. Upon completion of enrollment, girls will be assigned to a 13-week cognitive track and given an opportunity to select a 13-week social track. The cognitive track provides students with personal and academic development (math, reading, STEM, social sciences, English, foreign language) classes which challenge participants to fully embrace the principles of Honor, Opportunity, Purpose and Endurance. Students will also gain knowledge in urban agriculture, humanities, social jus- tice, cultural, civic engagement, and finance. The social track allows participants to select from music (voice, instrumental, producing), art (painting, sculpture, graphic design, photography), dance (ballet, mod- ern, tap, jazz), culinary arts, media (traditional, print, new media) and theater (acting, set and costume design). With the collaborative efforts of more than 50 community partners, the H.O.P.E. Center will become a catalyst for change within the urban environment.

The H.O.P.E. Center will provide a vast array of opportunities to posi- tively impact girls outside of the target community through community based research initiatives with local and national institutions. The SSCUG is a collaboration of community organizations committed Institute for Research on Urban Girls (IRUG) will be a center for research to the health, safety and wellness of girls residing in distressed and public policy information which focuses on the healthy develop- communities on the Chicago’s South Side. Demoiselle 2 Femme, ment of girls. The goal of the IRUG will be to provide research data NFP is the convening organization for SSCUG which is comprised of that helps to improve the lives of girls who reside in urban commu- more than 20 partners. A major task for the Coalition has been the nities. Through innovative research projects and published outcomes development of a resource guide (magazine style) which provides the institute will support the development of program and services at vital health and personal development information for girls as well the H.O.P.E. Center as well as provide information to educational institu- as community resources. A contest to name the guide was hosted tions, not-for-profits, government agencies, public policy organizations, by SSCUG and winning the title of the guide was created by Cristina parents and girls themselves. Rice, a participant of Global Girls Inc. Fall 2012 UPDATE: We are currently in PHASE 1-site selection. Photo shoots featuring a variety of girls from the South Side were Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP has contracted IFF to manage the project as held during the summer in locations throughout target communi- we approach land acquisition. We are extremely grateful for a grant to underwrite 70% of IFF’s contractual services which was received from ties. A total of 28 elementary and high school girls participated in the Polk Brothers Foundation. A kick-off meeting was facilitated by IFF the photo shoots. Thanks to Marvinetta Penn and the girls from to identify amenities for the site, street boundaries, review the initial Global Girls Inc. for their hard work, Roccio (Photographer), Tanya space design and site requirements. For more information on how you Lyda (Graphic Designer) and T-awannda Piper from Demoiselle 2 can help, contact Sherida Morrison, CEO at (773) 779-9371, ext. 301. Femme, NFP for coordinating the shoots. The launch event for the Guide is scheduled for early spring. Welcome our Welcome New Public Health Volunteers! Research Assistant! “THE “You are not here merely to make a liv- We would like to officially welcome Lauren ing. You are here in order to enable the BODYGUARD” world to live more amply, with greater Walton to our Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP By Sharon Carey family. Lauren obtained her Bachelor’s de- vision, with a finer spirit of hope and gree in community health science from the achievement” University of Illinois at Chicago (UIC), and is -Woodrow Wilson Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP is sensitive to the fact that many girls a first year graduate student at the presti- do not have fathers who are actively involved in their lives.- How On behalf of the board, staff and families gious UIC School of Public Health. Lauren’s ever, there are girls who have grandfathers, uncles, older brothers served by Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP, we ultimate career goal is to become the U.S. and other extended male family members who assume the role as would like to officially welcome new volun- Surgeon General and we believe that she will father-figure. We proudly salute the father figures along with the -ac teers who have joined us for the 2012-2013 reach her goal and so much more! Her work tive dads who play a major role in the lives of their daughters. These program year. at Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP will include gentlemen earned the distinguished title of “Body Guard” which was organizing current evaluation data, creating A special thanks to the Alliance for Research in Chicagoland Communities Volunteer orientation sessions are hosted bestowed upon them by the D2F Parent School of Success on research fact sheets, preparing manuscripts Saturday, June 30, 2012. and abstracts for publications and presen- (ARCC) at Northwestern University and the twice in the month of September and vol- research capacity building services provided unteers commit to serving a full program tations, providing updates to staff on- cur The Body Guards showed up strong for a hot breakfast with their rent research and best practices relative to to D2F as a PERCH II grantee. The education, year (September- August). We can never resources and professional relationships ob- fully express our appreciation and gratitude Demoiselles at the D2F office. Afterwards the young ladies and the teen girls, and coordinate strategic planning men participated in separate breakout sessions. While the girls which supports the development of the In- tained through PERCH II assisted D2F in the to volunteers who have extended their ser- development of a research agenda, priori- vice beyond the one year commitment. discussed the important role that their respective Body Guards play stitute for Research on Urban Girls which in grooming them for womanhood, the Body Guards were engaged in will be housed in D2F’s Hope Center for Girls. ties, rules of engagement and staffing needs You are such a valuable resource to the or- to support our research goals. Thanks also ganization and the families we serve! A big the workshop “Daddy Teach Me to Drive” facilitated by Sherida Mor- Also, stay tuned for “Lauren’s Public Health rison, Founder and CEO of Demoiselle 2 Femme. The midday work- Perspective” which will be featured on our to Dr. Karriem Watson at the UIC Center for “Grati-Shout” goes out to our Volunteer Co- Clinical and Translational Sciences for providing ordinator, Camille Wright for her hard work shops ended with the young ladies presenting letters of appreciation blog (www.d2fcatalyst.com) as well as our to their Body Guards, and let’s say that there were a few eyes filled Facebook page! technical assistance in the development of and dedication in coordinating our volunteer the position description and posting at UIC. trainings and activities. with tears of joy. It gets better….The day ended with a fierce bowling outing where the Body Guards and the girls bonded as high fives were given for both strikes and gutter balls. PROJECT 38 The Body Guard is a D.A.D.S. sponsored activity. The purpose of D.A.D.S. is to develop and strengthen father/father-figure-daughter “Instead of 38 relationships through the implementation of workshops, support group sessions, seminars, and events that aim to teach effective com- weeks of munication, resolve conflict and restore estranged relationships. Pregnancy Body Guards, enjoy moments with their daughters after the I Choose…” workshop and during bowling. Project 38 is a community awareness activity sponsored by the South Side Coalition on Ur- ban Girls SSCUG) which recognizes the Nation- Grant award received from al Day to Prevent Teen Pregnancy. Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP and SSCUG partners encour- Chicago Foundation for Women! aged students to complete the slogan “In- More than 2,000 information postcards were stead of 38 weeks of Pregnancy I Choose...” distributed to male and female students Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP was awarded a grant in the amount While teen pregnancy has declined; today, encouraging the delay of teen sexual activity. of $5,000 from the Chicago Foundation for Women’s African nearly 3 in 10 girls get pregnant by age 20. Percy L. Julian High School partnered with American Leadership Council. The funding is to support the This suggests that we ALL need to continue Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP to host a rally D2F PHIT (Pursuing Health through Intense Training) Club helping teens postpone their families until which allowed male and female students to which provides health, nutrition and fitness training to they are older, through school, and in stable, display their personal slogan signs at exactly committed relationships. Project 38 encour- 3:38 p.m. for 38 minutes! mothers/caregivers and daughters. Chicago Foundation ages students to commit to their education for Women improves the lives of women and girls through and personal success by choosing 38 weeks Drivers in passing cars blew their horns in grants, advocacy, leadership development, and public and of school (a full school year) over 38 weeks of support of their messages and even Princi- grantee education. We are grateful for their support and the pregnancy (full term pregnancy). Demoiselle pal Careda Taylor as well as other teachers, capacity building opportunities which are provided to grantee 2 Femme hosted “Project 38” activities at administrators and coaches took time to join organizations. Simeon, Julian, Fenger, South Shore, Gwen- us in the campaign! A special thanks to Ju- dolyn Brooks, Thornton, Thornridge and lian staff and student body who participated Bloom Township High Schools. in “Project 38.” Percy L. Julian High School Principal, Careda Taylor ATLANTA, GEORGIA more Atlanta... Summer Leadership Tour 2012 – We even stopped by the home and workshop of the late Philip Sim- The next stop in our travels was Atlanta, GA, where we feasted at mons, a National Folk Treasurer( by the Smithsonian) and interna- “THE MOVEMENT” the famous “Gladys Knight & Marvin Winans Chicken and Waffles” tionally known blacksmith/ornamental gate maker who has over 200 restaurant and visited the campuses of Spelman and Clark Atlanta documented gates, balconies, and ornamental iron works that can be “A Staff Reflection”- By Adrienne Gordon University. While in Atlanta, D2F co-hosted a symposium with a fel- seen at homes and in museums all over America. low Office On Women’s Health grantee, G.E.M.S. (Girls Empowered to Motivate and Succeed) which is a girls group similar to our G-WAVE That evening we all dressed up for a five star dining experience at NASHVILLE, TENNESSEE (Girls With A Voice Empowered). The girls were given the opportunity Poogan’s Porch restaurant with our CEO, Sherida Morrison, and the to ask questions and talk about anything they wanted. The night was executive staff. During dinner, the girls gave presentations on how they were impacted by the week-long tour. After hearing everything On Sunday, July 15th, twenty-five participants of Demoiselle 2 filled with great conversation, laughter, and food. The perfect girl’s the girls had to say, I realized that while they each had their individual Femme, NFP embarked on the 2012 Summer Leadership Tour en- night out… D2F style! experience, they all walked away being grateful for the opportuni- titled, “The Movement.” During the tour the girls were exposed to ties that were presented with and commitment to stop taking many many opportunities and were challenged to be catalysts of positive A major highlight was our visit to the Jane Fonda Center at Emory things for granted. I can say they all have a new level of humility after “movement” in themselves, within their families, schools and com- University, whose mission is to advance scientific knowledge about Students pose with Dr. Melissa Kottke of the Jane Fonda Center at Emory University in Atlanta, GA. this cultural and educational exposure. Before heading back home to munities. Our journey started in the wonderful state of Tennessee adolescence with an emphasis on adolescent reproductive health. Chicago, the girls participated in their final group experience by giv- in the city of Nashville. There we learned about Tennessee State, Fisk The Center seeks to disseminate information and strategies for risk ing back to those in the Charleston community. In partnership with University and its world famous Jubilee Singers, and toured Meharry reduction and healthy transitions to adulthood. Dr. Melissa Kottke, the Low County Food Bank, we prepared care packages that would Medical College. We were also given the honor to chat with Dr. Krystal the Director shared with the girls, alarming health statistics and sto- be given to families in need. The girls were all on board and worked Little-Lewis, a former D2F participant, who is now a wife, “new mom”, ries of cases she has encountered with girls their age. The informa- so hard that in a matter of hours they completed a job that would and successful dentist. She shared with students that no matter the tion provided by Dr. Kottke, had a major impact on the girls as well as have taken a whole day for Food Bank’s crew. Needless to say, they difficulties faced in life, you must stay determined to achieve your the staff! Next, it was time for the girls to have a little fun so we took were very grateful for our service and the girls enjoyed giving back goals. Dr. Little-Lewis also shared the impact of Demoiselle 2 Femme them to experience the World of Coca Cola. Here we not only had fun, and helping others. in her journey and encouraged students to remain committed to but had the chance to taste different sodas from around the world, the program and she admonished them to recognize the benefits of learn some history about the journey Coca Cola and its’ impact on the With this being my very first Leadership Tour, I have to say that this participating in D2F. world. Upon our departure, we were given a miniature bottle of Coca Cola as a souvenir for our visit. It was truly a blast! Jaquiese and Breunta in environmental Latesha Gray of Messages facilitates has inspired me to encourage more girls to be a part of this won- hazard suits at the Center for a Girl’s Symposium with D2F and derful experience. I would like to encourage parents to teach their Disease Control Museum the G.E.M.S.program Before leaving this great city, we visited the Martin Luther King Center children to explore and take advantage of opportunities like this to where we viewed the memorial grounds and learned about Dr. Mar- gain exposure to something outside their surroundings. I have per- tin Luther and Corretta Scott King, and the many things they endured sonally seen growth among many of our girls from the beginning of for African Americans. What a remarkable couple! Visiting the Center the program year to the transformations I see now, and I strongly (a first for many) provided the girls with a glimpse into history and believe that our work as an organization is not in vain. These beau- many facts about the King family. We all felt honored to have a family tiful young ladies are truly on a great journey toward becoming so dedicated to a movement of social justice for African Americans successful women! and the world.

D2F girls experience the Porschia and Veronica at the World of Coca Cola King Center for Non Violence

CHARLESTON, SOUTH CAROLINA

The girls found the last leg of our tour to be the most touching be- cause we had the opportunity to get in touch with our roots and ex- Sweetgrass basket making is a At the Low County Food Bank, we perience cultural history in Charleston, South Carolina. The girls were tradition of the Gullah culture. prepared care packages for families in need. Students pose with D2F Alumnus, Dr. Krystal Little Lewis during the Leadership Symposium in Nashville, TN given a social research assignment to explore the Gullah culture, and on our first day, we visited the Boone Hall Plantation. We learned about slave life and saw slave cabins which remain today with actual finger and hand-prints which are impressed into the clay bricks of the small homes. We saw the Gullah tradition of basket making from a descendant who learned it from her mother and grandmother. Just hearing all the challenges slaves had to endure gave us all a new level of appreciation of the simple things we normally take for granted like our freedom, education, and just the power of choice! This visit was a very humbling experience for not only the girls but for everyone. Our Spelman College admissions rep provides student enrollment information research also included a Gullah Tour by Mr. Alfonso Brown, a descen- dant, who took us through the city of Charleston where the Gullah culture and history is greatly displayed. Students tour slave cabins at the Boone Hall Plantation Celebration of Purpose Demoiselle 2 Femme “Family and Friends” Picnic By Sharon Carey The limbo contest is always hilarious! We saw And what would a picnic be without great many bite the dust trying to see how low they food? It was said that some folks were eating could go, as they pulled their bumpers off the chicken wings and ice cream at the same time Demoiselle 2 Femme “Family and Friends” ground. (their names are being withheld to protect Picnic Grove#2 at Midlothian Meadows was them from the food police). The children also the site of the 2012 Demoiselle 2 Femme However, several daring participants prevailed had a blast and were entertained by Darnit Family Picnic held on Saturday, August 11th and received great prizes for conquering the D. Clown who painted faces after a fantastic and the weather was simply beautiful. The stick. Meanwhile line dance school was offi- magic show. There was something for every- Parent Advisory Board planned and after- cially opened as Tori Tyler, the D2F Program one at this great family gathering attended by noon of serious fun that included the infa- Director shouted out the moves to the hottest almost 200 people. As I reflect on the 2012 mous tug-of-war between moms and the slides in town. I can still hear someone saying, D2F Family Picnic, I see a family portrait paint- girls and Dad’s and guys. It is safe to say that “No, kick with the other right” ed with family and friends laughing, loving the Moms are still the reigning champions and embracing every precious moment that and the Dads…well, better luck next time! And what would a picnic be without great was spent together on that picture perfect As usual, there is some old school stuff go- food? It was said that some folks were eating Saturday in Grove # 2. ing on as Ms. Sherida and her crew brought chicken wings and ice cream at the same time the house down, not missing a beat, lyric (their names are being withheld to protect By Tori Tyler or rhyme to Hip Hop songs of yester-year. them from the food police).

The Celebration of Purpose took place Satur- also recognized for their accomplishments. Brittney Trice - Percy L. Julian High School- day, July 23rd at the Bellevue Ministry Cen- Veronica Thomas received Parent of the Year Founders Scholarship (Sherida Morrison and ter. Program participants of the Demoiselle 2 award. Mother-daughter powerhouse, Gwen Romanetha Looper - $1,000) Alexis Smith, Femme signature program and G-WAVE (Girls and Tanisha Pinkney received the Volunteer Simeon High School. With A Voice Empowered) received special of the Year Award. Demoiselle Sierra Man- awards in the following categories: Academic cha, a graduating Senior from Bloom Town- The staff and Femme mentors were - sur Achievement, P.R.I.D.E. Award (Power. Re- ship High School, received the Demoiselle prised with a special presentation from D2F spect. Intelligence. Desirable. Endurance), of the Year award along with a $250 book Alumni, Jenny Andrews which celebrated the G-WAVE award, Highest points for program scholarship. The College Connection awarded women as “Transformers.” Jenny presented participation, Senior Academic Award, and $3,250 in college scholarships to graduating each staff member and mentor with a Trans- Community Service Award. Students and par- seniors which included a newly established former toy figure symbolizing the contribu- ents were also recognized for their continued scholarship by Shavomeishia Thompson, a tions each had made in helping to transform participation throughout the program year D2F alumni and recent college graduate of her life. It was a celebratory day and the and two families received the Orchid and Jackson State University. $250 Book Scholar- event culminated with an Alumni of Demoi- Fuchsia Ticket which granted them an over- ship Maxine Miller - Christian Fenger Academy selle 2 Femme, NFP presenting a check for night stay at the Kalahari Resort (Wisconsin Marquita Mitchell Miller-Christian Fenger Acad- $5,000 to the organization! Our young ladies Dells). emy Brittney Trice - Percy L. Julian High School are successfully transitioning to womanhood Sierra Mancha-Bloom Township High School, and we are extremely proud that they are Participants of the Leadership College, Dr. Krystal Little Lewis Scholarship ($1,000), supporting the next generation and Demoi- Parent Advisory Board, and D2F PHIT (Pur- Brittney Trice - Percy L. Julian High School- selle 2 Femme, NFP through volunteerism, suing Health through Intense Training) were Founders Scholarship (Sherida Morrison and financial contributions, referrals and servant leadership. Way to go ladies!! Special Acknowledgement to our 2011-2012 School Year A Work of Art Florist Alex Gilliam, Public Workshop, & Summer 2012 Community Partners Philadelphia, PA Alfred Windom, Windom Productions Alicia Haywood, Waterfront Media Group, Inc. DePaul University Paul Robeson High School Andrea “Dre” Nichols-Everett, Dr. Tracey Lewis-Elligan Gerald Morrow, Principal Dre’s Diesel Dome Megan Monogan Andrea Reed, Northwestern University Roseland Chamber of Commerce Dr. Virginia Bishop Gwendolyn Brooks College Charles Heath, Heath School of Music Dr. Elizabeth Wurtz Preparatory Academy Gina Curry Dr. Dushan Brown (former Principal) Chef Doris Meredith, Alter EatGo Jen Kauper-Brown Dr. Shelita Brown Chef Eric Paul, Alter EatGo ARCC Staff & Steering Committee Mrs. Cimms-Dickerson Cheryl Gordon, Vashti’s Chris Brown, The Bootcamp Guy Bloom Township High School South Shore High School Rhona Israel- Assist. Superintendent, Carlos Smith City Colleges of Chicago, Nursing Dept. School District 206 Creola Hampton, Greater Works, Inc. Mr. Gregory Horak, Asst. Principal Chicago Public Schools David Mays, Master Mix Academy Mariba Woods Far South Community Action Council Joyce Chapman, Chairman Dr. Deborah Terrell Mere words cannot express our sincere gratitude and Percy L. Julian High School Brenda Bell, CPS- FACE Dr. Julia Rhan, Flourish Studios appreciation for the staff of Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP. Careda Taylor, Principal Cristina Carreto, CPS-FACE Dr. Kareem Watson, University of IL at Necole Muhammad, Asst. Principal Chicago Your commitment to the girls and communities we Mr. Ihechi Sadiki (former Asst. principal) Bellevue Baptist Church Dr. Krystal Little Lewis serve is demonstrated in the passion, creativity, and Dr. Allie Whitehurst Pastor Fullwood Local School Council Lorna Clarke Dr. Melissa Kottke, Jane Fonda Center, Emory University heartfelt concern you express on a daily basis. We are a Mr. Rowan Christian Fenger H.S. Mr. Crawford Dr. Patricia Boatwright, Rush University family of women who share laughter, tears and sometimes Elizabeth Dozier, Principal Mr. Wynn Medical Center disappointments in our work to provide girls with Mr. Ali Muhammad, former Asst. Principal Mr. Barry Gloria Williams, Celebrations and Things Tosha Jackson, Asst. Principal Harry Piotrowski, ITMESA opportunities that will afford them a better future. We Mr. Spicer, Dean Prayer of Faith International Ministries Improving Diabetes on the look forward to the completion of many milestones over Zenobia Williams Pastor Dennis Morrison South Side of Chicago First Lady Kimberly Morrison Ja’Net DeFell, IFF the next year as our path leads to the HOPE CENTER Neil F. Simeon Career Academy Jackie Carter Dr. Shelton House, Principal Terrell McKinney Jenny Andrews FOR GIRLS! We salute your work and acts of service Mr. Sterling Bolden, Asst. Principal Katherine Darnstadt (and Ava), Ramona Fannings, Asst. Principal Village of Phoenix Latent Design as AGENTS of CHANGE in our community. What an Linda Mason Mayor Terry Wells Kimberly Foster, Children’s amazing group of women! Mrs. Beasley Memorial Hospital Thornton Township High School Mrs. Lane Lauren Dillon Anthony Ratliff, Principal Wanda Russell, Asst. Principal Faith Temple COGIC Lower Eastside Girls Club, New York, NY Alfonso Pearson, Asst. Principal Pastor William H. Allen Malik Nevels, ILAACP Donna Pharr First Lady Wylonn Allen Messages of Empowerment, Adrienne Gill Dr. Cheryl Gholar (G.E.M.S program), Atlanta, GA Audra Walker Flora Walker Lamont Williams, Los Angeles,CA James Smith Reginald Rooks Thornridge High School Joseph Terry James Walton, Principal Yvonne Dennard Rocio, Urban Photographer Steve Valant, Asst. Principal Pastor James Meeks, Bradley Beilfuss, Asst. Principal Salem Baptist Church of Chicago Denise Ingram-Knighten Alderman Anthony Beale, 9th Ward Phil Middlebrooks Prince Lowe Alderman Carrie Austin, 34th Ward Shavomeishia Thompson Tanya Lyda, Lydagraphics Tiffany Gholar University of Illinois at Chicago Neighborhood Initiative We thank God for allowing us to have so many hands to help us assist our girls Vanessa Smith, South Side Help Center to a successful transition into womanhood. We salute our Donors, Grantors, Yaa Simpson, Chicago Dept. of Public Health Executive Board, Femme Advisory Board, Staff, Volunteers, Parent Advisory Board, D2F Parents, South Side Coalition on Urban Girls, Partnership for a Better Roseland and the above “helping hands”: All Grant Funders and Donors will be fully acknowledged in the 2012 Annual Report. Demoiselle 2 Femme, NFP 9415 So. Western Ave Suite 200 Chicago, IL 60643

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You Can D2F Catalyst Newsletter Become a Contributing Staff Writers D2F Mentor… Sherida Morrison Camille Wright e-Mentor! Kena Noland T-awannda Piper Board of Directors Would you like to mentor a teen girl but have limited time? Then the Tori Tyler Yvette Taylor - Chair D2F e-Mentorship program may be Monica Plaid a fit for you! In February 2013, this Sharon Carey Carolyn Lofton - Vice-Chair program will be launched to provide mentorship and support to 40 girls Lisa Mullins - Secretary via our newly developed group net- Joycelyn Byers - Treasurer work. Volunteers must be women ages 23 and up who are willing to Femme Advisory Board Tavia Bowers engage their mentee through weekly Lisa Lee Cynthia Lewis online communication and a group Kena Noland activity once per month. A manda- T-awannda Piper Romanetha Looper tory training will be held in mid-Jan- uary for all mentors and mentees. All Cheresa Purnell Sherida Morrison mentors must pass a full background Atisi Shelton Arthur Oates check. Interested? Contact our Vol- Faith Smith unteer Coordinator, Camille Wright at 773.779.9371, ext. 13. You can Tori Tyler make a difference in the life of a girl! NiCole Ward